I laughed at this comment bc I did the same thing when I got my first apartment in NC 😂 girl it had stairs! Then when I got my house!! I wish I had RUclips. Me & my daughters lost our minds!
It really warmed my heart to see yall have a realistic convo with makayla on camera! I hope that your family gets to move to experience a new space for their development and growth! Job well done ❤
Do the move ! You won’t regret it. The kids will do good ! In that house ! Don’t live in fear! Do it girl ! You could make that house so beautiful! And the backyard
Yes and you could make it work with less than 2000 rent. Yes im older subscriber 63 in fact and all that money you spend on rent for 2 bedroom apartment you could probably rent house and buy a car for less than that a month out of the city. To me city life isnt for children anymore.
I hope yall get the house so you know what room is what. After living in a small apartment it is a challenge to figure out what room is what in that house. You have 4 to five bedrooms, three toilets, dining room living room, and kitchen. Then the backyard
When I moved down here in NC from NYC I had to learn to say yes sir and yes mam to everyone. My grandmother said I wasn't raised right If I didn't say it. Yes most houses In the south cook with electric stoves unless you want to convert to gas. I am so happy for you and your family! 😊
When I moved from Massachusetts to North Carolina as a kid I had to get used to the yes maam and no maam lol I would always shrug my shoulders or say “yeah” 😂😅
I remember seeing the signs at a elementary school in '09 that said, "say yes sir yes mam no sir no mam." thought it was strange at the time. Move from NY in '09 to NC and been here ever since.
I THINK HER EXPLAINING WHY SHE IS GOING TO MAKE THE DECISION WAS THE RIGHT THING TO DO. THE WAY OUR PARENTS JUST TOLD US WHAT WE WERE GOING TO DO WITHOUT EXPLAINING ANYTHING DID SOMETHING TO OUR SOULS....
My husband and I picked up and moved 2 states over and our kids were not thrilled. We always ask them how they feel about it and their opinions and validate those feelings. However ultimately we make the decisions we feel were best for our family in that time and help them through it if it feels hard. It’s been 3 years since we moved and they love it so much here now. My opinion on your life doesn’t matter because it’s your life, but they’re kids, and while they’re feelings are valid, sometimes we just have to do what we feel is best for them. And that’s for you and your partner to decide.
Kids shouldn't be given options. Kids have to follow what you tell them to do. You are supposed to know what's best for them. I am a mom of 4. I have a teenager daughter She was starting to act up a lot in doing things that she wanted to do. And she was ending up getting In trouble. But I had to fix that because If you give them what they want you are letting them to do what they please. So if you want to have a stressful life, then that's on you. gotta keep these kids in check always no matter what
the change is going to be different but they are going to look back at their childhoods and be soo thankful at how much you fought for them. during the summer they can have bbqs and parties, riding their bikes around the neighborhood. everyone seems so excited too. i pray this is it for you guys 🥰
I feel you Jazz at 21:00 . These dads get to just be a rolling stone. They can move to eastern Bumblef*CK and nobody bats an eye. That "who else got a dad" took me out 😂😂😂
I loved the house it definitely looks like plenty of space... Kids are definitely resilient and you never know they may end up loving NC once they get their own space and settle in, the transition is always tough with kids especially teenagers but they will be fine❤️
Yes that part. Not saying forget the opinion but they definitely will come around!!! I was once a teenager, I hated moving but once I got into the groove. I loved the move, school, house. Everything just go for it
@@tanericamckillion3583 Exactly same for me I actually moved a lot as a child and every time I ended up just adapting life is constantly changing they will learn to adapt and make the most of a situation. They have been in the same apt forever it's not like she just moves them constantly. Adults are in charge for a reason❤️
Hey Jazz, The move would be good for y'all only my opinion. I know you'll make the right decision. I like the advice you gave Kayla don't be apart of the drama🙌🏾. I pray them girls go to college get them degrees and then a good job. Alyssa will lead them. The house was nice everyone was excited. I send you and your family blessings.
My take away after watching the house tour is everyone can breathe easier. Space allows for more freedom of movement and more privacy for everyone when needed. I grew up in a big city too (Philly). I left when my children were small because of them. It was easier to raise them in a quiet town just outside of a big city. Raleigh is the biggest city (Their capital) and they have quite a few suburban towns close to that big city. It is only an hour away from the area you were in or less based on the area you would move to. There are some that are less than half hour outside the big city with great school ratings and diverse/multicultural communities. My experience living in a multicultural community where I can access big city life in 20 minutes has been the best of both worlds.
Nyc is not a safe place for raising a family anymore. Too much stuff going on crime is up. Girls getting punched for no reason, getting killed for rejecting men smh. I live in queens ny & if u can make ur way out u should
To each its own but leaving NY was the best thing for my kids and I. I did it by myself …we started fresh. I left Ny with just our clothes. It’s been four yrs since I left and haven’t been back. Ofc my kids miss their friends and they get homesick sometimes but now they have their own rooms n they love it. The Bronx will always be my heart but I dnt miss it ijs. I have nothing there anymore but memories. Losing my mom in 2019 made me not want to visit… for what!?
I remember when I started watching you when Karter was just born and I commented and said that I can’t wait to see you guys get your dream home and blow up! Look at God! Everything is working for your good! Change is a good thing💕
Moving out of new york has been a blessing and i was unsure and not familiar with anything but i can say i used my city knowledge and became resourceful learned to adjust and its the best thing iv done for my kids and myself even though they wanted to stay in new york..my peace and freedom in my home its nothing that will make me go back and before i left rent for me 3 bedroom 2 bath duplex was 1500 month ..try it u always can move back ..
We’re planning on moving out of Los Angeles within a year or 2 and the kids will just have to adjust. Of course they might not want to but as the parents we have to do what’s right for our family. I love the car conversation with the kids.
I agree with Tyesha that first house was in a very high bracket. Im with you Jaz I prefer gas cookstove but my house is total electric. You and your children deserve a home verses an NY apartment. I pray God opens the flood gates and blesses you all with a home that you could enjoy all the rooms. Those boys cracking me up opening that door to that little whatever it was in the 2nd house.😂😂😂 Blessings family.❤
Change is good. Take the leap of faith. Its what the kids need. I left Harlem NYC 4 years ago an never regret it. Pray let GOD lead u. Just keep the apartment in nyc just in case u visit I have a place to stay without having to bother family members.
I enjoy the real car conversation. It is facts, specialized schools have a reputation to protect, application standards don't allow kids with suspensions, grades lower than a B, attendance, etc. I know because my child is in a specialized school for the arts.
Change is scary, leaving everything behind to start over is hard but I did it and it changed my life. Had my first six figure years as soon as I moved away
I know you guys are just looking at the house but those little doors that's inside of those bedrooms if you guys were ever to get a house like that just get a chest of drawer and put against it with the kids clothes in it so kids will not try to go inside of those little doors and get hurt just saying.
Omg jazz i can literally picture ya living in that house as a family. That house was like meant for you guys. The whole set up, the bedrooms hell even the bathroom situation 😂 take that leap girl you only live once.. god bless u all
I love this vlog for yall please remember to water Kayla just as much as you remind her what she did/do. Especially in front of us and her siblings. And trust me this is with love
Hey Jazz I Pray That You All Will Get The House Of Your Dreams, That House That You All Saw Put It In The Atmosphere And Let God Do The Rest, I Love How You And Kyesha Was Talking To Makayla
Felt that about the stigma with dads getting to be absent and leave it all on the mom. I deal with the same thing. It made me so happy seeing yal leave NY for space and a dream house! I’m tryna leave NY next! This is motivational af
Please please please stop criticizing Makayla for being herself. She's a kid. She'll mature. She also is absorbing the negative words yall say to her. Don't dim her light. Hear the older ones out. Step mom words were harsh on the one who wants to go to specialized high school program. We think because WE made it through the crap our parents put us through, that our kids will be fine because kids "are resilient." Yeah until they break. Makayla running away was a wake up call and warning to you mom. Every kid needs different things from parents.
Especially since Fayetteville NC public schools are a nightmare. There is no specialized high school there I looked into the choice program but seats are limited to go to schools outside of your zone. My suggestion to the daughter is let her teachers know she wants to be tested for a gifted program and or honors while in her current grade. NC schools will work with you. My nephew and niece teachers really came through for them.
Been to Fort Bragg! My sister and her ex were stationed there, lived in base then off base after they had a kid and got married... That place is something else 😅 look out for the ninja that does ninja moves in the crosswalks during red lights! Hope he's still around 😂
Also the tea 😂😭😭. CUZ YOU ASKED JAZZY!! IM OBLIGATED NOW!!😂 Lots of cheating happens there. My sister has an ex husband cuz he was bringing a (ahem)...person?/ female? Creature? To their house ON BASE while their 1st baby was there, and taking down the family photos and getting his groove on with this toad looking thing that had the same name as my sister (and knew he was married with a kid) while my sister was at her day army job!!! On God I could have unalived a person... you have NO idea...but I believe in Jesus🙏.. anyway...he got a baby from it. Both of them got dishonorably discharged for adultery (he was a marine they had been to Afghanistan for a year and shit) when she told my sister and tried to take him (he told her he hates her and wishes she would have got rid of "it" which pissed my sis off even more.. ughhhh🤮) meanwhile my sister has a new whole ass husband now who is amazing (and a new baby) and her ex is now a meth addict in TX dating almost-minors at the age of 34, with two new babies with the same young ass crackhead who both sadly gone to DCF cuz they neglected them.... So there ya have it. Fort Bragg can be a place of disgusting happenings. (Just our experience. 😂😂😅😅😭😭)
Someone told me once your neighborhood raises your kid just as much as you do. It stuck. I moved from and OK neighborhood to a VERY good neighborhood. I stopped buying them a lot of clothes and I find investing into sports, tutoring a better tactic. Plus my kids are 5/7 everything gets holes and stains. I just cut shopping out mostly but we live in a beautiful house in a beautiful neighborhood 😇
Family time is so important living and laughter builds a strong bond. The best is yet to come. Keep manifesting the new home and the desires of your heart. Stay focused the only way to go is up! Safe travels 🙏🏾
In the end it's the adults decision, children will learn and accept that it's for their good, not bad. I realize they have feelings , but we as single adults have to think with our minds, not feelings.
Repeat Gang...Watching you guys tour reminded me of my family and I first tour. SO GLAD YOU TOOK THEM KIDS. My husband and I + 6. Are you going to miss NYC, especially when it's all you know? Of course! I cried my 1st couple of days away from Home. They were good cries of JOY ❤. Take that, JUMP.
You have the power to create a better life.. if your HEART is feeling it, then start that goal and do it. The kids low key LOVED the idea of living in a house. Fun video.❤
Love you jazzy, been watching 4+ years. I agree with the comments, I feel like you should go for it!!! Look how happy the kids are. I know it isn't easy, and the kids will have to adjust. But think about the outcome. Everybody will eventually be so happy!!!! So much space, y'all deserve it. Please just try!!!! The lord has you
Exactly kids are definitely resilient...you have to make the best choice for you and your children ..they will thank you later...im in a similar situation but leaving a man..im almost 50 ( one of your older supporters lol) and aint no way i would even second guess moving into a better environment .. just go for it...the lord will guide you ♥️♥️♥️
It is Real ,God gave Me the full meaning of it back in 2015 on a Sunday Morning before I started to hear it anywhere. Manifesting is having Faith while You wait on things to come to pass.
What a nice vlog!!! I was excited seeing the kids have fun choosing. Sending good luck vibes im house hunting ❤ Change is scary no matter what it is! Change is always good, and we as parents have to take a LEAP of FAITH in ALL we do!!! Get a little bit of air 😂😂😂
Very important conversation yall had with the kids about moving. I moved a lot as a young child and my mom never explained why. I think it would have Very beneficial to me.
I left NY and moved south and it was scary (raised in Bklyn), but the prices to just live NY was crazy! Made the best decision i ever made. Being debt free made it the best!
Makayla, she’s the smartest one in the car she saying all this, because it’s all about that little boy that she probably sitting back there texting right now now!
The houses on base is not just for single people. Those big houses are for families. Look up fort Bragg barracks so you can see how the younger soldiers live. Y’all missed the skate park on post. I use to work at the hospital.
As an adult it's HARD af to take tht leap & venture out into the "unknown". We can all agree on tht, right?? So let's give the kids (the 2 oldest) consideration & understanding abt their feelings, thoughts & their own plans as far as their very much near future (life after high school) obviously as minors they don't have the final say of where the family lives. However, it's healthy & beneficial to let them know its ok & a safe space to communicate & their feelings be heard & acknowledged. Relocating is way easier whn kids are super young. But whn kids are older (teens) they have their own lil lives, social circles, identity, plans, etc. I commend & applaud Jas for having tht open conversation w the kids and being HONEST while still being respectful, sensitive & loving. It's NOT easy. Us subscribers all have opinions, of course. I am aware of the reality tht we all have rights to make our own decisions. Thts just wht it is. My lil ole RESPECTFUL opinion is to not expose or get the kids hopes up for something tht either won't happen or happen any time in the near future. Spare thm the anxiety, stress or disappointment of things/plans tht aren't solid or for sure for sure. Them being disappointed or feeling as if plans aren't going thru based on ur own relationship w a partner tht isn't their parent will lead thm to having resentment & rebellious behaviors. Once these teenagers feel like ur not in control or making logical decisions in ur own life... they'll follow the same behaviors as well. And look at U as a hypocrite & not take Ur leadership seriously at all. Other thn tht BLESSINGS to ya'll & I hope everything U desire for ur family comes to life ❤🙏🏾💪🏾
Hi Jazzy, I love your channel. I am a silent watcher but want you to know that you are not alone. I am a mom of 5 that will be relocating from DC in about 30 days to NC. Take the leap of faith hun. We got this!
I’m so happy for y’all!!! It’s all in timing. I said I was moving to NC for over 10 years and I’m finally here!! Luckily I was able to keep my CT money and bring down here.
While you’re there or when you go back take them to look at the kid things like schools so they can get a feel for the programs/opportunities offered, kid activities/hangouts or stuff they can do outside the house. You see how they were before going to look at the house and the during shit even the after. Do some research and show them you hearing their concerns make the next trip about that for them 💛
I love watching NYers reaction to normal houses in the South lol That was so sweet how they lined up their shoes!
Cause the ones in NY ain't pretty, to expensive, and to crowded, I get it , I could not wait to move out of NY. Ain't been back.
I was thinking the same thing. It was so sweet.
Same
I laughed at this comment bc I did the same thing when I got my first apartment in NC 😂 girl it had stairs! Then when I got my house!! I wish I had RUclips. Me & my daughters lost our minds!
It just depends a lot of New Yorkers grow up in houses too lol
It really warmed my heart to see yall have a realistic convo with makayla on camera! I hope that your family gets to move to experience a new space for their development and growth! Job well done ❤
Baby they gathered Makayla very respectfully lol
It was tactfully done, Makayla needed to hear this, NOW HAVE FAIRH AND APPLY FOR THAT HOUSE!!
It was everything, she needs to know those things and get closer to accepting reality as a young adult
Do the move ! You won’t regret it. The kids will do good ! In that house ! Don’t live in fear! Do it girl ! You could make that house so beautiful! And the backyard
Yes and you could make it work with less than 2000 rent. Yes im older subscriber 63 in fact and all that money you spend on rent for 2 bedroom apartment you could probably rent house and buy a car for less than that a month out of the city. To me city life isnt for children anymore.
Yes, the kids would love it.
I hope yall get the house so you know what room is what. After living in a small apartment it is a challenge to figure out what room is what in that house. You have 4 to five bedrooms, three toilets, dining room living room, and kitchen. Then the backyard
Especially since Makayla’s dad lives there too
Awww...Faith was ready to move when she heard she would possibly have her own room.
When I moved down here in NC from NYC I had to learn to say yes sir and yes mam to everyone. My grandmother said I wasn't raised right If I didn't say it. Yes most houses In the south cook with electric stoves unless you want to convert to gas. I am so happy for you and your family!
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When I moved from Massachusetts to North Carolina as a kid I had to get used to the yes maam and no maam lol I would always shrug my shoulders or say “yeah” 😂😅
I remember seeing the signs at a elementary school in '09 that said, "say yes sir yes mam no sir no mam." thought it was strange at the time. Move from NY in '09 to NC and been here ever since.
Makayla is 13 years old , she wants to move too fast . Jazzy you the parent you set the stone they kids make them adapt to it simple !
I THINK HER EXPLAINING WHY SHE IS GOING TO MAKE THE DECISION WAS THE RIGHT THING TO DO. THE WAY OUR PARENTS JUST TOLD US WHAT WE WERE GOING TO DO WITHOUT EXPLAINING ANYTHING DID SOMETHING TO OUR SOULS....
@@sweetzlovin4239so true
My husband and I picked up and moved 2 states over and our kids were not thrilled. We always ask them how they feel about it and their opinions and validate those feelings. However ultimately we make the decisions we feel were best for our family in that time and help them through it if it feels hard. It’s been 3 years since we moved and they love it so much here now. My opinion on your life doesn’t matter because it’s your life, but they’re kids, and while they’re feelings are valid, sometimes we just have to do what we feel is best for them. And that’s for you and your partner to decide.
You will enjoy being there.
Kids shouldn't be given options. Kids have to follow what you tell them to do. You are supposed to know what's best for them. I am a mom of 4. I have a teenager daughter She was starting to act up a lot in doing things that she wanted to do.
And she was ending up getting In trouble. But I had to fix that because If you give them what they want you are letting them to do what they please. So if you want to have a stressful life, then that's on you. gotta keep these kids in check always no matter what
the change is going to be different but they are going to look back at their childhoods and be soo thankful at how much you fought for them. during the summer they can have bbqs and parties, riding their bikes around the neighborhood. everyone seems so excited too. i pray this is it for you guys 🥰
I feel you Jazz at 21:00 . These dads get to just be a rolling stone. They can move to eastern Bumblef*CK and nobody bats an eye. That "who else got a dad" took me out 😂😂😂
I loved the house it definitely looks like plenty of space... Kids are definitely resilient and you never know they may end up loving NC once they get their own space and settle in, the transition is always tough with kids especially teenagers but they will be fine❤️
Yes that part. Not saying forget the opinion but they definitely will come around!!! I was once a teenager, I hated moving but once I got into the groove. I loved the move, school, house. Everything just go for it
@@tanericamckillion3583 Exactly same for me I actually moved a lot as a child and every time I ended up just adapting life is constantly changing they will learn to adapt and make the most of a situation. They have been in the same apt forever it's not like she just moves them constantly. Adults are in charge for a reason❤️
Faith looks so pretty in those braids.
So pretty🥰🥰
Hey Jazz,
The move would be good for y'all only my opinion. I know you'll make the right decision. I like the advice you gave Kayla don't be apart of the drama🙌🏾.
I pray them girls go to college get them degrees and then a good job. Alyssa will lead them. The house was nice everyone was excited. I send you and your family blessings.
My take away after watching the house tour is everyone can breathe easier. Space allows for more freedom of movement and more privacy for everyone when needed. I grew up in a big city too (Philly). I left when my children were small because of them. It was easier to raise them in a quiet town just outside of a big city. Raleigh is the biggest city (Their capital) and they have quite a few suburban towns close to that big city. It is only an hour away from the area you were in or less based on the area you would move to. There are some that are less than half hour outside the big city with great school ratings and diverse/multicultural communities. My experience living in a multicultural community where I can access big city life in 20 minutes has been the best of both worlds.
y’all laughs is so contagious 😂😂
When i was in the military at the end of our schooling, I was surprised at who was married. They were in there wildin out.
Nyc is not a safe place for raising a family anymore. Too much stuff going on crime is up. Girls getting punched for no reason, getting killed for rejecting men smh. I live in queens ny & if u can make ur way out u should
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To each its own but leaving NY was the best thing for my kids and I. I did it by myself …we started fresh. I left Ny with just our clothes. It’s been four yrs since I left and haven’t been back. Ofc my kids miss their friends and they get homesick sometimes but now they have their own rooms n they love it. The Bronx will always be my heart but I dnt miss it ijs. I have nothing there anymore but memories. Losing my mom in 2019 made me not want to visit… for what!?
What state are you in now?
Love and condolences to u and urs🙏🏾🖤🗽
@@MaxXxBoogie187 Ty
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Those smiles were confirmation that this move is indeed needed! GO FOR IT!
I remember when I started watching you when Karter was just born and I commented and said that I can’t wait to see you guys get your dream home and blow up! Look at God! Everything is working for your good! Change is a good thing💕
Y’all deserve it and more friend/sis
Moving out of new york has been a blessing and i was unsure and not familiar with anything but i can say i used my city knowledge and became resourceful learned to adjust and its the best thing iv done for my kids and myself even though they wanted to stay in new york..my peace and freedom in my home its nothing that will make me go back and before i left rent for me 3 bedroom 2 bath duplex was 1500 month ..try it u always can move back ..
“Kayla you can run away in the community.” 😭 😭 “look at this neighborhood, it’s more low incomey.” Jazz, you gotta be stopped. 🤣
That had me laughing too lol lol
I felt some way, for laughing 😂
Jazz keeps me laughing 😅😅😅🤣🤣
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22:12 Faith: “Carter stop digging up your nose and eatin it.”
*carter 10 seconds laters*
👹 “mind your - BIDNESSS “
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We’re planning on moving out of Los Angeles within a year or 2 and the kids will just have to adjust. Of course they might not want to but as the parents we have to do what’s right for our family. I love the car conversation with the kids.
But why am I over here weakkk off the jokes too 😂😂😂
I love the beginning when y’all are all laughing. Amazing times with family ❤
I agree with Tyesha that first house was in a very high bracket. Im with you Jaz I prefer gas cookstove but my house is total electric. You and your children deserve a home verses an NY apartment. I pray God opens the flood gates and blesses you all with a home that you could enjoy all the rooms. Those boys cracking me up opening that door to that little whatever it was in the 2nd house.😂😂😂 Blessings family.❤
Claim it in faith it will work out Amen 🙏🏽 ♥️🧡😊
Change is good. Take the leap of faith. Its what the kids need. I left Harlem NYC 4 years ago an never regret it. Pray let GOD lead u. Just keep the apartment in nyc just in case u visit I have a place to stay without having to bother family members.
Why is grass dangerous? Cus it’s full of blades 🗡️🗡️
Take the leap of faith get the house girl its perfect for yall ❤❤❤❤❤
I told my kids I want them to say yes/no maaam/sir...my 7 year old told me she doesn't want to sound like a slave 😐
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Wow
Smh and your response was….
It does give slave I don’t blame her
I hate when my nephew say yes ma’am to me lol instead of titi
I lived on base in Hawaii it wasn’t bad but it definitely was a whole individual community I loved it even as a child
I enjoy the real car conversation. It is facts, specialized schools have a reputation to protect, application standards don't allow kids with suspensions, grades lower than a B, attendance, etc. I know because my child is in a specialized school for the arts.
This was so sweet! I really hope y'all get the size house y'all need.
Change is scary, leaving everything behind to start over is hard but I did it and it changed my life. Had my first six figure years as soon as I moved away
“Who else got a dad”😂 girl Jazz you crazy 😂😂😂😂
I know you guys are just looking at the house but those little doors that's inside of those bedrooms if you guys were ever to get a house like that just get a chest of drawer and put against it with the kids clothes in it so kids will not try to go inside of those little doors and get hurt just saying.
Carter going into the military he loves them people ❤😂
ALYSSA is hilarious! 😂😂😂 her jokes had me laughing just as heard.
Girl, I put y’all on pause as soon as I saw Popeyes Chicken. I am back now from getting me & my family some😂
Omg jazz i can literally picture ya living in that house as a family. That house was like meant for you guys. The whole set up, the bedrooms hell even the bathroom situation 😂 take that leap girl you only live once.. god bless u all
I love this vlog for yall please remember to water Kayla just as much as you remind her what she did/do. Especially in front of us and her siblings. And trust me this is with love
You all deserve this beautiful house.
The thumbnail is EVERYTHING 🖤
Hey Jazz I Pray That You All Will Get The House Of Your Dreams, That House That You All Saw Put It In The Atmosphere And Let God Do The Rest, I Love How You And Kyesha Was Talking To Makayla
7:40 omg not “our class” 😂😂😂😂 but IYKYK LOL
Felt that about the stigma with dads getting to be absent and leave it all on the mom. I deal with the same thing. It made me so happy seeing yal leave NY for space and a dream house! I’m tryna leave NY next! This is motivational af
Please please please stop criticizing Makayla for being herself. She's a kid. She'll mature. She also is absorbing the negative words yall say to her. Don't dim her light.
Hear the older ones out. Step mom words were harsh on the one who wants to go to specialized high school program.
We think because WE made it through the crap our parents put us through, that our kids will be fine because kids "are resilient." Yeah until they break. Makayla running away was a wake up call and warning to you mom. Every kid needs different things from parents.
Especially since Fayetteville NC public schools are a nightmare. There is no specialized high school there I looked into the choice program but seats are limited to go to schools outside of your zone.
My suggestion to the daughter is let her teachers know she wants to be tested for a gifted program and or honors while in her current grade. NC schools will work with you. My nephew and niece teachers really came through for them.
🥹 I pray for yall so much. This is just….you all deserve this.
Been to Fort Bragg! My sister and her ex were stationed there, lived in base then off base after they had a kid and got married... That place is something else 😅 look out for the ninja that does ninja moves in the crosswalks during red lights! Hope he's still around 😂
Also the tea 😂😭😭. CUZ YOU ASKED JAZZY!! IM OBLIGATED NOW!!😂 Lots of cheating happens there. My sister has an ex husband cuz he was bringing a (ahem)...person?/ female? Creature? To their house ON BASE while their 1st baby was there, and taking down the family photos and getting his groove on with this toad looking thing that had the same name as my sister (and knew he was married with a kid) while my sister was at her day army job!!! On God I could have unalived a person... you have NO idea...but I believe in Jesus🙏.. anyway...he got a baby from it. Both of them got dishonorably discharged for adultery (he was a marine they had been to Afghanistan for a year and shit) when she told my sister and tried to take him (he told her he hates her and wishes she would have got rid of "it" which pissed my sis off even more.. ughhhh🤮) meanwhile my sister has a new whole ass husband now who is amazing (and a new baby) and her ex is now a meth addict in TX dating almost-minors at the age of 34, with two new babies with the same young ass crackhead who both sadly gone to DCF cuz they neglected them.... So there ya have it. Fort Bragg can be a place of disgusting happenings. (Just our experience. 😂😂😅😅😭😭)
Your comedy is timeless and priceless Lol Love this for you and the Fam!!! Move Baby!!
My Hubby is a Veteran ❤ He did the Army and then he did the Marines ❤
Hey Jazzy and Family! Much love ❤
Someone told me once your neighborhood raises your kid just as much as you do. It stuck. I moved from and OK neighborhood to a VERY good neighborhood. I stopped buying them a lot of clothes and I find investing into sports, tutoring a better tactic. Plus my kids are 5/7 everything gets holes and stains. I just cut shopping out mostly but we live in a beautiful house in a beautiful neighborhood 😇
Faith is so pretty. I can’t believe how much she has grown. All your kids are cute 🥰 . I love seeing Alyssa more in these NC videos also. ❤❤❤
Hey Jazz love it praying 🙏 for you all hope y’all get it ❤❤❤❤
Family time is so important living and laughter builds a strong bond. The best is yet to come. Keep manifesting the new home and the desires of your heart. Stay focused the only way to go is up! Safe travels 🙏🏾
Them girls got your voice that’s crazyyyyy lol ❤❤❤
The group reaction when the boys opened that laundry shoot has me cryiiiing lmfaoo everyone including me said "ohh..?!?"
yall need that house Jazzy !!! Do it
I was stationed there when it was called Ft. Bragg...glad you were able to visit the base with the fam
In the end it's the adults decision, children will learn and accept that it's for their good, not bad. I realize they have feelings , but we as single adults have to think with our minds, not feelings.
Now why give Kayla that idea to run away AGAIN GIRL BYE 😂
Repeat Gang...Watching you guys tour reminded me of my family and I first tour. SO GLAD YOU TOOK THEM KIDS. My husband and I + 6.
Are you going to miss NYC, especially when it's all you know? Of course! I cried my 1st couple of days away from Home. They were good cries of JOY ❤. Take that, JUMP.
Congratulations I am from Ny, living in GA, continue to hustle and grind for your family
You will rise very quickly
I am so happy for you ALL. God bless you in your new home ❤
You have the power to create a better life.. if your HEART is feeling it, then start that goal and do it. The kids low key LOVED the idea of living in a house. Fun video.❤
Bless you and your family I think yall should take that house it seems like it was made for you guys just keep manifestating and praying
Love you jazzy, been watching 4+ years. I agree with the comments, I feel like you should go for it!!! Look how happy the kids are. I know it isn't easy, and the kids will have to adjust. But think about the outcome. Everybody will eventually be so happy!!!! So much space, y'all deserve it. Please just try!!!! The lord has you
CLAIM IT!!!!! ❤
They do offer gas stoves in NC.
I will be in North Carolina in June my Besties lives there. I will be moving there in 2yrs
They had me smiling the whole time
Beautiful home!!! I'm often down that way, my son lives there. 😊
❤❤❤Jazzy if you decide to move the kids have to move they have no choice. They will be fine. They will adjust.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I like you Jazzy ,because u keep it real..why fake the funk..😊😊❤
Go for it jazzy I live in newyork & im moving to South Carolina in a few weeks. With my 5 babies I do RUclips also 50,000 subs 🎉you go girl ❤
Exactly kids are definitely resilient...you have to make the best choice for you and your children ..they will thank you later...im in a similar situation but leaving a man..im almost 50 ( one of your older supporters lol) and aint no way i would even second guess moving into a better environment .. just go for it...the lord will guide you ♥️♥️♥️
She was over the moon to see a house. 😂 now i want to see what new york apt looks like.
“Kayla you can literally run away in this complex” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I was born in Fayetteville, my dad was in the Army. I live in MD now, but if yall move to NC I'm coming lol
It is Real ,God gave Me the full meaning of it back in 2015 on a Sunday Morning before I started to hear it anywhere. Manifesting is having Faith while You wait on things to come to pass.
What a nice vlog!!! I was excited seeing the kids have fun choosing. Sending good luck vibes im house hunting ❤ Change is scary no matter what it is! Change is always good, and we as parents have to take a LEAP of FAITH in ALL we do!!! Get a little bit of air 😂😂😂
Very important conversation yall had with the kids about moving. I moved a lot as a young child and my mom never explained why. I think it would have Very beneficial to me.
that's dope af for ya'll.......... hope it works out
I left NY and moved south and it was scary (raised in Bklyn), but the prices to just live NY was crazy! Made the best decision i ever made. Being debt free made it the best!
Omg we both upgraded to a gated community awesome
Makayla, she’s the smartest one in the car she saying all this, because it’s all about that little boy that she probably sitting back there texting right now now!
The houses on base is not just for single people. Those big houses are for families. Look up fort Bragg barracks so you can see how the younger soldiers live. Y’all missed the skate park on post. I use to work at the hospital.
As an adult it's HARD af to take tht leap & venture out into the "unknown". We can all agree on tht, right?? So let's give the kids (the 2 oldest) consideration & understanding abt their feelings, thoughts & their own plans as far as their very much near future (life after high school) obviously as minors they don't have the final say of where the family lives. However, it's healthy & beneficial to let them know its ok & a safe space to communicate & their feelings be heard & acknowledged. Relocating is way easier whn kids are super young. But whn kids are older (teens) they have their own lil lives, social circles, identity, plans, etc. I commend & applaud Jas for having tht open conversation w the kids and being HONEST while still being respectful, sensitive & loving. It's NOT easy. Us subscribers all have opinions, of course. I am aware of the reality tht we all have rights to make our own decisions. Thts just wht it is. My lil ole RESPECTFUL opinion is to not expose or get the kids hopes up for something tht either won't happen or happen any time in the near future. Spare thm the anxiety, stress or disappointment of things/plans tht aren't solid or for sure for sure. Them being disappointed or feeling as if plans aren't going thru based on ur own relationship w a partner tht isn't their parent will lead thm to having resentment & rebellious behaviors. Once these teenagers feel like ur not in control or making logical decisions in ur own life... they'll follow the same behaviors as well. And look at U as a hypocrite & not take Ur leadership seriously at all. Other thn tht BLESSINGS to ya'll & I hope everything U desire for ur family comes to life ❤🙏🏾💪🏾
And teach them to not talk with food in their mouth as well
I moved two years ago from Philly and moved down south. I love it yes it’s challenging but now my kids enjoy it 🙌🏿..
Hi Jazzy, I love your channel. I am a silent watcher but want you to know that you are not alone. I am a mom of 5 that will be relocating from DC in about 30 days to NC. Take the leap of faith hun. We got this!
I’m so happy for y’all!!! It’s all in timing. I said I was moving to NC for over 10 years and I’m finally here!! Luckily I was able to keep my CT money and bring down here.
North Carolina definitely do got gass too😭, charlotte just a small version of nyc n its not deli’s no where
It's something you have to get used to living in a place like NORTH CAROLINA. IT'S SO NICE. ❤❤❤❤
While you’re there or when you go back take them to look at the kid things like schools so they can get a feel for the programs/opportunities offered, kid activities/hangouts or stuff they can do outside the house. You see how they were before going to look at the house and the during shit even the after. Do some research and show them you hearing their concerns make the next trip about that for them 💛
That home is so beautiful for yall and yall fit in it so well