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  • @nerdqueent3281
    @nerdqueent3281 Месяц назад +2

    It has been a 6 year journey with this man. I’ve forgiven so much more than any person deserves, prayed so many times to forget him. I have had my hand on it and honestly gotten in Gods way a few times when it comes to this union. No more. I am completely putting it in God’s hands. I’ve been saying for a while now that He is going to have to perform a miracle in his heart for me to want to marry him. Thank you for this word. It’s nice to feel heard and seen. Hallelujah!

    • @DalyGrace77
      @DalyGrace77 Месяц назад

      @@nerdqueent3281 amen…❤️🙏

  • @Jucyphruit
    @Jucyphruit 3 месяца назад +13

    Please pray over me. It’s so difficult and the hot and cold is driving me nuts. And I ask God all the time. And he says to stand.

  • @JesusIsKing-r6k
    @JesusIsKing-r6k 3 месяца назад +20

    I’m most definitely in the same position Sis😭🥺 He threw me away like trash after 3 years of back and forth and I finally cut all ties but he knows I’m standing for him. I unfortunately told him a lot of what God told me about our future 😢😢😢 Thank you for your prayers. I truly appreciate it…I actually think I have some tendencies too tho, I’ve had a terrible childhood just as he did.

    • @dailydevotionals2405
      @dailydevotionals2405 3 месяца назад +5

      Yes we need to heal from Anxious attachment. Boundaries are so important. We want connection so badly. Heal us both Lord.

    • @JesusIsKing-r6k
      @JesusIsKing-r6k 3 месяца назад +1

      @@dailydevotionals2405 I’m getting there😭✝️💚

    • @DalyGrace77
      @DalyGrace77 3 месяца назад +3

      🙏❤️

    • @DalyGrace77
      @DalyGrace77 3 месяца назад +3

      ❤️🙏

  • @shrelltaylor9270
    @shrelltaylor9270 3 месяца назад +3

    You guys be careful and really pray that the one you believe to be your kingdom spouse and I mean really fast and pray about it because the word of God says hope deferred makes the heart sick if somebody is playing this kind of back-and-forth with you for years, it’s a good chance that This could be a counterfeit. God gives people free will so you can pray all you want for that person and you should pray for that person but at some point you gotta make sure you’re not being delusional because again God is not gonna change somebody’s free will

  • @iPodvidmaster
    @iPodvidmaster 3 месяца назад +9

    I feel like I watched someone I love die and comeback to life just to die again

    • @DalyGrace77
      @DalyGrace77 3 месяца назад +1

      I know, I feel you, love and prayers…🙏❤️

    • @praiseprincess2836
      @praiseprincess2836 3 месяца назад +1

      This is absolutely on target. 🎯My absence from a particular setting where he is for some time, literally threw him into panic and by the spirit, I knew that God was doing something in him to show him how it would be if I left permanently.💥 This absence was beyond my control and in no way orchestrated by me. However, God literally showed me that, He, God, was up to something and to just trust Him. As I mentioned before, nothing was planned on my part but God allows certain things to work certain things. This is why I always just take my hands off and watch God. However, I pray for this KS when prompted. 🙏🏼🔥💕Father God actually knows how to wisely and impactingly touch and reach the inner core of mankind. Whatever we don't know, Daddy God knows.🔥Rest is the Way. Full Trust and leaning on ABBA is the way. Faith, Hope and Love intertwined as ABBA does His thing 💥🙌🏼💥🙌🏼💥🙌🏼 HALLELUJAH 🙌🏼💥🙌🏼💥Thank you sister Daly Grace 🙏🏼💕 He knows the deep and secret things 🔥He is the renewer of minds and souls 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🌈

  • @Tiffany6835
    @Tiffany6835 3 месяца назад +5

    Wow so 8 years back and forth and avoiding attachments were issues on both side. I finally put my foot down and place a no contact until he's serious ❤ God can and will take care of this matter!🎉

    • @DalyGrace77
      @DalyGrace77 3 месяца назад +1

      Amen, God bless you…❤️🙏

  • @daniellediaz2516
    @daniellediaz2516 3 месяца назад +2

    I'm a female Fearful Avoidant and my KS is a male Dismissive Avoidant. We need all the prayers we can get lol

    • @DalyGrace77
      @DalyGrace77 3 месяца назад

      @@daniellediaz2516 ❤️🙏

  • @mweader
    @mweader 3 месяца назад +4

    From a guy's perspective, this also resonates. The one I am waiting on is built like this, and she has not reached back out to me in years. So I'm going to stop trying, cuz it's obviously not working lol. Thank you and God bless you. I fought through too many years of pain to regain and maintain peace (only possible because of God), to ever allow someone to try to wrestle back control of that and introduce chaos where it is not welcome. We can wait it out, because it's kind of out of our hands at this point anyway. God can restore anything. Past chapters are closed, and new ones written. His timing, not ours. His perfect will, not our impatience. We want them to come back healed. We want this to be a healthy, amazing partnership. We want unity to occur in an equally yoked way. His yoke is easy, and His burden is light. We speak life into these things. We wait on Your promises Dear Heavenly Father. Amen.

  • @pamelakilgore7836
    @pamelakilgore7836 3 месяца назад +5

    Speechless prophetess

  • @Soldier4Christ2626
    @Soldier4Christ2626 3 месяца назад +3

    Daly Grace, thank you for this video. It’s a confirmation of what I already did, I had to set boundaries with my God ordained spouse, I experienced so much pain for not guarding my heart. The friend zone was not working for me anymore. I had to separate myself and pray for his deliverance and healing from the trauma. We have been separated well over a year now and I have Peace. Blessings 🎉🎉🎉

  • @SoultanicalsTube
    @SoultanicalsTube 3 месяца назад +5

    Yep, it’s been 5 months since we last spoke. And I felt to completely withdraw. I haven’t even updated my social media posts since then. I feel the need for a more solid seclusion with The Most High and everything else is a distraction. God recently revealed to me in a dream that my destined spouse was upset and wanted to know why we were not dating. It seems he wants me to pursue. But God has me in isolation and advised me to allow Him to put it all together. God gets all the glory at the end of these relationships and we are not to go ahead and try on our own accord. Whew, it’s been a long 3 year journey but I have been pruned, renewed and better as a result! Blessings & Strength to us all on this journey!!! 🙏🏾💓

  • @robin-chat2812
    @robin-chat2812 3 месяца назад +2

    This is so good! Amen!

  • @aquacantstopwontstopspiritual
    @aquacantstopwontstopspiritual 3 месяца назад +4

    SIS YESSSSSSS THIS MESSAGE is so TRUE🥰 I CHANGED MY NUMBER AND I TOLD My KS AM NOT HAVING IT PERIOD

  • @pontshopriscilla
    @pontshopriscilla 3 месяца назад +2

    I kept him on block for a long time because of his lukewarm behaviour, only to unblock him. Ugh! It's like a never-ending merry-go-round!

  • @princessseana5778
    @princessseana5778 3 месяца назад +5

    This hurts so bad I can't even talk.

    • @DalyGrace77
      @DalyGrace77 3 месяца назад +1

      I know… Love and prayers…❤️🙏

  • @TaraMurphy85
    @TaraMurphy85 3 месяца назад +1

    Amen 🙏🏿 thank you my Lord Jesus for reassuring me redirecting me to stay firm and keep boundaries in order. Hallelujah thank you Jesus.

  • @iamfavor4140
    @iamfavor4140 3 месяца назад +2

    I Receive this confirmation and that exactly what I’ve been doing. I know this is God and I know that he is my kingdom spouse, but God is in full control and my heart. How does it feel love because I am 1 Corinthians chapter 13.

  • @jonaeallen4447
    @jonaeallen4447 3 месяца назад +9

    I am in a very similar position. I had to truly surrender my contact with him, in order to leave room for him to pursue me. Please keep us in your prayers.

  • @hello122ful
    @hello122ful 3 месяца назад +1

    So good! Thank you! Father, Help me keep my boundaries so I can guard my heart!! Amen!

  • @ursulasingh9830
    @ursulasingh9830 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for this eye opening message,please pray for me

  • @maryc214
    @maryc214 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you so much,im so grateful to God for leading me to you dealing with an avoidant,please pray for me cause at times i dont know what to do you ...

  • @Sophia-s5o6b
    @Sophia-s5o6b 3 месяца назад +2

    Thank you sister. I would appreciate your prayer. It’s been 3 years and God promised me marriage soon. A lot happened and I wanted to leave many times but somehow I couldn’t, it was as if God didn’t want me to be with anyone else, I would even loath thinking about having the affection of another man, and constantly thinking it’s so abnormal to feel that way, and that I’m crazy for being like that.
    I will take this word seriously and trust God❤ I am hopeful in Jesus name that I will come back with a great testimony ❤❤

    • @DalyGrace77
      @DalyGrace77 3 месяца назад +1

      Amen… Thank you for your seed! I pray the Lord rewards you 1000-fold and grants you the desires of your heart, in Jesus’ name…Love and prayers…❤️🙏

    • @Sophia-s5o6b
      @Sophia-s5o6b 3 месяца назад

      @@DalyGrace77 thank you my dear sister in Christ. ❤️🙏🏻 God bless you richly

  • @ursulasingh9830
    @ursulasingh9830 3 месяца назад +1

    The Lord must do His will in our lives

  • @marijohnson5690
    @marijohnson5690 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you, Father God for the message. Thank you Jesus for giving me your peace. You are the first real Love of my life. Your will be done. 🌹🐑❤❤❤

  • @tracyphillips336
    @tracyphillips336 3 месяца назад +1

    Daly Grace,
    Please pray for me and my husband. We've been separated now for 3 years and I feel my husband is keeping me in the friend zone. Even though we talk on phone, we've gone on trips together but he still won't give me a answer on me coming back home. I feel like you said , he's keeping me in the friend zone. I don't know what to do, please 😫 please pray for me. Thank you so much for your prayers and encouraging words and being obedient to God's Word 🙏🏼 ❤ .

  • @francesleblanc2274
    @francesleblanc2274 3 месяца назад +1

    I do need prayers for this. Thank you. Things seem to be getting better, but I can feel that heart aching feeling because of the bread crumbs. I definitely need prayer 🙏🏼 thank you.

  • @ursulasingh9830
    @ursulasingh9830 3 месяца назад +1

    This word resonates with me at this moment

  • @Ojwarh
    @Ojwarh 3 месяца назад +1

    Yes I would love the prayer, I’ve been contemplating not responding at all even when he says I love or miss you to me because it’s hurtful and I know he just wants to make sure he still got me like some object. I plan on changing my number and phone soon, I just don’t know if god approves but if he wanted to get to me there are many other ways. Please pray for me and him.

  • @amberlaroque
    @amberlaroque 3 месяца назад +2

    God told me last year in June to stop talking to him until he comes back to me. We got into an argument before that where he told me I could love him anymore because it wasn’t going to work. He said if I don’t stop loving him he was gonna block me. That we could only be friends. I told him there was no point in me giving up my feelings because I had already knew that we would end up together in the end. Then God told me to go no contact until he came back to me. So I told him I didn’t want to be just friends. Then he blocked me on all social media. I still waiting for him to come back. I had thought that I heard God say he would be back by this June, but that didn’t happen. Now I wondering if I got it all wrong from the start.

  • @SETAPARTGANG616
    @SETAPARTGANG616 3 месяца назад +2

    All of this is extremely frustrating... broke up twice... and this last time there has been no contact for months... this last break up i said ok God now i know this is it! He replied no... hes coming back.... please pray for me bc my head hurts a little. Lol smh.

    • @DalyGrace77
      @DalyGrace77 3 месяца назад +1

      @@SETAPARTGANG616 I know, I feel you… Love and prayers…❤️🙏

  • @dr.radhikaj60
    @dr.radhikaj60 3 месяца назад +1

    Hey dear
    Whatever u spoke today God told me the same things to do I m not entertaining him no status nothing I m just in a hiding place only place he can see me is our church that I could not miss
    It’s better to be at peace than hurting everyday with the same treatment

  • @Leylaceriphin37
    @Leylaceriphin37 3 месяца назад +2

    He is already engaged with someone else and we’re in process of divorce we’ve been separated almost 10 months but I’m still praying for him I had a feeling not to stop fighting for our marriage no contact with him for 2 weeks please pray for me and him 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @nomzamozulu6896
    @nomzamozulu6896 3 месяца назад +7

    please can you pray for me , sister in christ , i never cried like I've lost a loved one to death, and all for a man who seems nonchalant about it all, i don't want to be bitter or move on with the two person❤

    • @DalyGrace77
      @DalyGrace77 3 месяца назад +1

      Love and prayers…❤️🙏

  • @tianaelliott8714
    @tianaelliott8714 3 месяца назад +2

    Im in a similar position in ready to give up on my kingdom spouse I need help god bless

  • @ms.multidimensional
    @ms.multidimensional 3 месяца назад +1

    Yea I’m not communicating with him until he ready for marriage I had enough of this emotionless man

  • @kristie700
    @kristie700 3 месяца назад +1

    Amen! 💯❤️

  • @lupitaalvarado8751
    @lupitaalvarado8751 3 месяца назад +1

    Yes 🙌🏼 ❤

  • @Clove-jc2gb5ju3g
    @Clove-jc2gb5ju3g 3 месяца назад +1

    In Jesus name🙏🏼❤️

  • @graceforgrace3143
    @graceforgrace3143 3 месяца назад +2

    Pray for Monica please

  • @southbeauty-ps1qq
    @southbeauty-ps1qq 3 месяца назад +2

    I have a genuine question.
    Does anybody here know a couple that went throught it and they are now together? All I see are people with this God ordained spuse promesse, but does anybody know a couple that was successful in this journey ( within the same conditions) ?

    • @DalyGrace77
      @DalyGrace77 3 месяца назад +3

      Yes, Cristi Jesse’s God-ordained spouse was also avoidant, and they are getting married on Thursday. She stood in prayer through many separations for two years… I also know of 3 other God-ordained marriages that happened out of the blue in the last few months after being seemingly hopeless…

  • @keepupwithsteph1556
    @keepupwithsteph1556 2 месяца назад +1

    Please pray for me, My name is Stephanie

    • @DalyGrace77
      @DalyGrace77 2 месяца назад

      @@keepupwithsteph1556 I will take some time to pray for you right now…🙏❤️

    • @keepupwithsteph1556
      @keepupwithsteph1556 2 месяца назад

      @@DalyGrace77 Thank you, I appreciate

    • @keepupwithsteph1556
      @keepupwithsteph1556 2 месяца назад

      This is my exact situation and it's driving me crazy at this point

  • @godslove1804
    @godslove1804 3 месяца назад +1

    My kingdom spouse does not want to talk either pray for me I think imma just block her on insta until she gets it

  • @crissie27jc23
    @crissie27jc23 3 месяца назад +1

    I dont have the strength to have no contact with him, good thing we are in separation now. Once he will chat with me ill reply to him right away.

    • @DalyGrace77
      @DalyGrace77 3 месяца назад

      ❤️🙏

    • @crissie27jc23
      @crissie27jc23 3 месяца назад

      I instantly don't want to copy his style

  • @ursulasingh9830
    @ursulasingh9830 3 месяца назад +1

    Please pray for me because I'm in this situation

  • @Malissaraujo
    @Malissaraujo 3 месяца назад +4

    Sounds like narcissistic traits

    • @DalyGrace77
      @DalyGrace77 3 месяца назад +9

      They do have some resemblances, but their motives are very different. I was married to a covert narcissist in the past, and the Lord gave me many dreams revealing his hidden motives, and every time I brought my doubts about my God-ordained spouse to the Lord, He assured me that his motives were pure, that his love was true, and that his “sins” were out of ignorance and fear - not malice. 🙏❤️

    • @Malissaraujo
      @Malissaraujo 3 месяца назад +8

      @@DalyGrace77 I can definitely agree with that. It's sad because those traits hurt the right people so much. Most don't realize they need the Lord and counseling for their actions, hurt people hurt people 🥺. You are very sweet and deserve the best that God has for you! Thank you for sharing your videos they are encouraging! 🙏🙌

    • @DalyGrace77
      @DalyGrace77 3 месяца назад +3

      @@Malissaraujo God bless you…🙏❤️