Parents Try To Cut Off Daughter's Credit Card Access - Prince$$ - 208 - Rachel
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- Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024
- At 25 years old, Princess Rachel should be well on her way to financial autonomy. Instead, this petulant Princess lives at home with her parents, and is still completely dependent on them to fund her self-proclaimed shopping addiction. Rachel works only sporadically, but still spends more than 100% of her income each month on “wants” like clothing and jewellery, leaving it to Mommy and Daddy dearest to pick up the tab on her “needs.” Despite their generosity, Rachel’s sense of entitlement is almost breathtaking, as she blithely suggests they sell their house and move into a smaller one so they can buy her a place of her own.
Financial planner Gail Vaz-Oxlade tackles the newest generation of spoiled spenders. Over a four week period, Gail takes away these Princess’s credit cards, puts them on a cash diet and challenges them to start achieving goals. Using her no-nonsense tough talk, Gail confronts, cajoles and guides these spoiled Princesses as they transform into self-sufficient young women.
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Mother is an enabler
Love how everyone keeps attacking the mother but letting the father off the hook!
Mother needs friends her own age. That would help. Daddy needs to tell Mommy to back off and let their daughter grow up.
And she needs to get her own life.
@@jessicapearson9479 His choices are 1) to stay out of it or 2) Put his foot down and spend a lot of time arguing with his wife and daughter.
This may be true, but Rachel is an adult and this really comes down on herself ultimately. Also as others stated, both parents are doing the same.
She's an ADULT... her parents made her this way.
bad parenting. Mostly the mother's fault. The mother baby the daughter.
It is amazing the number of parents who live through their children. So sad.
Agreed.
It's not Sad.. I don't know a parent out there who doesn't in some way
U raised a monster
She wasn't a monster at all; her mother was crippling her--her father is too weak-willed to stand up to his wife, unfortunately--but "Mama" really and truly thought she was "helping' Rachel.
The show was made between 2010 and 2012, so Rachel is now 35 - 37, and hopefully has managed to get away from Mama's talons.
jackiesdiary5154 monster is a reallly strong word. I think entitled Princess is a more accurate description 👸🏻
Also those highlights are crazy
absolute 2000-2010 vibes
Watch what they’re going to say about this generation where there so much terrible fillers and balayage and all that sht
Nah, they were in style.
Urgh no comments to read yet haha
She looks like her mum doesn’t she. 😶
Yes, people tend to look like their parents. I know it’s a wild concept. 😂
Sad, isn't it? "Mama" needed a makeover of the major sort---especially the hair--but she needed a mental makeover far more.
Maybe it would be beneficiary if the mother worked more, got a new hobby or a pet? It seems to me that one of the reasons she seems to have a hard time of letting go is because that means that she might not feel as needed anymore as she did before.
Rachel needs to get away from her mother and she can start growing into who she wants to be.
We need where are they now
Let’s pray she didn’t use daddy’s connections to become a college professor.
@animaanimus8011 I think tou need to be slightly intelligent to maintain a role like that.
This girl speaks like she is 15, not 25.
She did, but there seemed to be a small bit of maturity creeping in at the end.
The show was made between 2010 and 2012, so she's 35 - 37 now. Hopefully well away from "Mama's" talons.
Probably went through trauma, we don’t know. That’s usually how people get emotionally stunted.
She's 25 not 15 ! It's just pathetic to watch. Mum caused this.
That mom is the real problem and she needs therapy! A girl like Rachel should WANT to leave her parents and do whatever she wants… which means her parents (her mother mostly) are not as strict as they should be. That’s why young adults want to leave the nest. And the fact her friend has she treats her family like crap even with all they do for her? That sums it up right there’s she doesn’t respect her parents and her mother doesn’t believe in her. Wow co dependent much?
Its the moms fault. U made her that
Why didn’t that father speak up? That mother is overbearing and a disaster for her daughter’s future the way things are.😮
Some moms are overbearing; “my way or the high way” attitude.
Spoiled and entitled. The parents are the problem hre.
If you watched the entire episode, you can see that the girl changed drastically. She got a full time job for decent pay in a good environment (a school), she got her own apartment, and got away from her suffocating mother.
Simp Dad, of course, never stood up to his wife, so Gail had to do so. Rachel got the full $5,000 from Gail because Gail saw the huge changes she made and that her attitude did a full 180.
The show was only made from 2010 to 2012, so Rachel would be somewhere around 35 to 37 now. Hopefully away from her mother's suffocating clutching claws!
@@jb6712 Are you Rachel ? You keep repeating the same thing over and over again. I don't really think anyone cares.
In 2024, that crappy basement apartment would be $1700 + utilities. The first one would be $4000+utilities+parking+condo fees....minimum!!
25 😮😢😮😢😮 acts 14. PARENTS your JOB is to raise FUNCTIONAL humans. This woman is quarter of a century and has ZERO SURVIVAL SKILLS. Seriously in the last decade paying for things their daughter should have paid for they have harmed their own financial and mental health.
You're lucky if you can get a basement apartment for 1700$
That was back in the day when u could literally rent a whole basement suite for $600
@@Bunny11344 $700 is the exact amount I paid to rent a basement apartment in Toronto (until 2021), and in doing so I saved enough for a down payment on a condo. But this was definitely an exception. No one at the bank could believe I paid so little for rent.
That show was filmed sometime between 2010 and 2012. It only ran for three seasons. The prices of everything, of course, were far lower than in 2024.
you can't even rent just a room now for $1700😥
RIGHT! Downtown Tdot That apartment is at least 3000 guaranteed 😂
Mom is pathologically attached to Rachel. It's sick.
Perhaps the word you’ve used “sick” is a little bit harsh… this is about her mother not seeing that she has a role to play for the rest of her life, unhappiness with the prospect of being able to care for her (quite possibly only child), or simply not having a purpose which is similar to the way people feel when they retire. It is very painful. Not “sick”, unless of course you are psychiatrist and was able to diagnose her mother on a basis of highly edited 22 minutes tv programme. 🤔
@@LetMeThink007 It is sick. My mom is the same way, she always wants to control me and criticizes me like I'm still her little girl. She also made me anxious about the world. At the same time, she expects me to be her emotional caregiver. It is sick and it made me sick. Thank God I live with my partner now.
No, her mother AND father are just push-overs. The father is just as responsible as the mother! The mother SHOULD be bonded to her daughter. The problem isn't that. It is that they are just too soft spoken and refuse to show tough love out of fear of confrontation!!
Learn some psychology before making such an ignorant, self-projecting comment!
@@nellautumngirl You are assuming and are most likely a child (as in not yet really and adult or at least spoiled) just judging from your writing. As you are writing like a 13 year old girl. Stop making assumptions and stop being selfish. ACTUALLY talk to your mother or get counseling. Because this mother is just a push-over. She doesn't like confrontation and the daughter is the selfish one who refuses to grow up. The fact that you can't see that shows just how much of a child you still are.
And yes, you may be grown in years but it is clear that your brain is still that of a selfish 12 year old girl.
Naw. Rachel is her only kid, and mom needs a life of her own.. It’s not “pathological.”
Why doesn't the dad say anything?
Probably the wife has his balls in a vice.
$900 a month on clothes? I don’t spend that much on clothes in a full year. She needs to discover shopping at yard sales, thrift stores and online platforms for used clothing like the rest of us. I make over $100K and still shop that way.
Don't forget estate sales 😉. The clothes I get the most compliments on come from thift, estate and yard sales. 😊
Mom says "she's never going to be able to live on her own." Gee mom you did a great job raising your child to be a confident adult living on her own.
Instead of giving her the check, she should’ve wrote the check out straight the company of her bills so you know it’s going straight to the debt not just straightened into her hand and kind of feel like it’s going to her
The mother is horrid…seems the daughter wants some independence but the mother won’t let her grow.
The show was filmed from 2010 to 2012, and with the independence Rachel achieved during the filming, she hopefully managed to get fully away from "Mama's" suffocating claws. Rachel would be around 35 - 37 now.
What a negative mother! I hope the daughter watched this and I hope she moved out and had a good life.
Of course the more the mother "gives", the worst Rachel will treat her. Children develop resentment when they're treated as helpless babies
Did you bother to watch the entire episode? Rachel really changed over the four weeks, but her mother became more clutching and negative over that time. Simp Dad just gave in to his wife all the time, as expected, but Rachel got a decent-paying full time job, and she got herself an apartment she could afford.
It was her mother the whole time who was suffocating her, not wanting her to leave home---of course the girl is going to be resentful! Sure, she had hte mindset initially that her parents "had to" pay her way through life---but it was her mother who was teaching her that.
The show was filmed from 2010 to 2012, so Rachel is somewhere around 35 to 37 now, and hopefully managed to get out from under "Mom's" suffocating claws.
Wow - that mother is pathetic. smh
The mother, "she can go to you when she gets in debt." OMG, Rachel was in debt living at home.
Mom, that's horrible attitude !! STOP enabling your daughter !! You saw your daughter doing so well and you were not even happy for her. You were only worried about yourself. You have done your parenting job well when your adult children are financially independent and they don't need your financial help. You should be proud of the progress she made in such a short time.
Mom, stop breastfeeding her! That girl has potential, she is also sweet. I hope that she is well and independent. I loved her friend's reaction to the challenges.
I must admit I lived at home way too long. I just didn't know what to do with myself. But I always had a full time job, paid for my car, paid my own bills. They even charged me some rent. My daughter is 23. Lives with me. She has an almost 2 year old. She does her own laundry, cleaning. Prepares her own food. She's purchased every car she's owned. She pays her cell phone/ car insurance. She does online schooling and I stay at home while the baby is sleeping most nights while she makes money doing food delivery. I can't stand the idea of people spoiling their kids. I don't even like little girls being referred to as princess or daddy's girl. Ick..
You are the type of person I like. My daughter is 16 and when she starts working I will let her pay her way a little she that it prepares her for the real world.
I really like this show, but it supports the inaccurate stereotype as women being the only ones foolish with money. What about the Fauntleroys of the world?
They have episodes with men as well, trust me, they spread the wealth lol
Fauntleroys. 😂😂
She said ima miss her even though she’s rude to me. WOW. Delusion at its finest.
She was living at home and taking for granted that it's a perfect opportunity to save money.
Her parents allow it. They need to put their feet down and say NO!!!!
It is amazing how little the people in the comment understand and how unobservant they are! THESE PARENTS ARE EQUALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR BEING PUSH OVERS. YES, Push-Overs nothing more than that! They clearly hate confrontation. The mother isn't attached to the daughter in the manner people keep saying nor is she living vicariously through her. They just do not like to deal with the fight that she will most likely give if they were to actually show tough love.
Did you even watch the entire episode? Rachel did a full 180 before the end of the show, so much so that Gail was very proud of her and gave her the full $5,000. She--Rachel--got a decent job and her own apartment in the fourth week of the show, and her attitude changed completely; she was actually quite likeable at the end.
Her mother, on the other hand, was super negative and didn't think her daughter would make it without the help of her and her husband (he just wimped out and stood there while she yammered at Gail, never said a word to stop his wife).
The show was filmed between 2010 and 2012, so Rachel is now around 35 to 37 y.o., hopefully out of the grasping clutches of "Mama."
The father is a simp and they need to kick her out
Yes about the father, but Rachel was happy to move out, it was "Mama" who was the drag. The girl really grew up once she left home for Gail's challenge, and she got a decent-paying job in the third week of being away from home.
The show was only filmed from 2010 to 2012, so Rachel is now in her mid 30s---hopefully completely free of "Mama's" claws.
When I was 25, I had a job, a car and my own place in Chicago Roger’s park. But i did have a full time job but my goal was to live on my own
Parents create their own monsters.
I’m sorry I got annoyed after 10 minutes and turned it off
You're a damn sight more patient than me. I only made it to 2:00! Once the word "entitled" was uttered, I was all "I am OUT!"
Aw, too bad. She ended up in a very good place mentally, and Gail gave her the full $5,000. It wasn't Rachel that was the problem, it was her mother the whole time (and weak-willed Dad, who has no backbone to stand up to his wife).
The show was made between 2010 and 2012, so Rachel is now around 35 or 37, hopefully living on her own. She got a good job near the end of the show; not a high paying one, but one with loads of growth potential.
@@jb6712 Doubt That. 🤷🏻♀️
Take clothes back get refund
I’d love to see what happened after
Parents don’t realize they crippling their kids by giving them everything and letting them have all their money to just use as they want. They should take rent from them and put it in savings account and make them live on a budget from the minute. They start working.
I told my daughter when she was young my job was to teach her to be a responsible adult. Don't lve my dreams, like be a dr or a lawyer. Live your dreams. She is 30 now & totally responsible. Not good to wait on your kids. Whitney Houstons daughter didn't know how to do anything because her mom did everything for her. This girl is a sad joke
At her age racheal.should pay rent groceries do all her laundry shopping cooking give here responsibility let her go live out on her own let her learn hard way mommlet go give her independence let go
Protect your children! She’s 25!
The problem is the stuff she is buying is crappy stuff so she can’t even sell it . She needs something to do with her time that’s working towards a goal
When did this air? Looks like 2010-2012 ish
The glasses look like 2005-2008
I STARTED WORKING AT 14 BECAUSE MY WIDOWED MOM NEEDED HELP. WORKED UNTIL AGE 62.
I left home at 14😂😂😂
Wow! Thats young! I left @ 18 and never had to go back. However, I had to do some things I would now have never done just to eat or be out of the rain. I wouldn't have done it any other way and I did grow up a lot in that time and didn't turn out too badly, but I didn't have the mental fortitude @ 14!
@@staynyourlane422 I left due to abuse :( by the time I was 17 I became a mother, but you know what, everything happens for a reason! I’m 34 now with 4 daughters aged 17, 13, 10 & 7. Built a brand new house in 2018 and have a dream job!!
Protecting your children does not mean becoming their servant.
that apartment in toronto would be no less than 3500$ these days
The parent should sell the house and leave her behind to fend for her self
Use that money to get in shape and make yourself look better.
Parents "try" to cut off............what do you mean????? Be like Nike and Just Do It!!
This is nothing compared to today’s economy
Rachel seems like she really wanted to make it work independently. Glad for her.
Parents are the problem
I feel like maybe she’s just generally frustrated and maybe depressed….it might explain the behaviour and instead of shopping and wasting money, she could exercise instead of shopping, she’d be happier.
Too irritating to watch. Sickening.
If you would watch the entire episode, you'd find that Rachel did a full 180 in her attitude, that she fully grasped what she needed to change, and she did what she needed to do.
She got herself a full time job in a school, something she was happy about; she got herself an apartment, and she just plain and simply grew up.
She changed so much that Gail expressed to her how very proud of her she was, and she gave her the full $5,000.
The mother, on the other hand, got more and more negative about her daughter's chances of making it on her own, and was really quite unpleasant to Gail at the end (simp Dad just stood there and let his wife rant and rail at Gail).
Stress is a part of life.
Youre not protecting your child buy waiting on them.Parents fault,enabling
She looks like Peter Griffin and acts like Eric Cartman. If she's hoping to find some well off guy to take care of all her financial needs, she's going to be in for a reality check.
She's an average sized woman and you compared her to two extremely fat cartoon characters. Says a lot about you.
Don’t shop too much. You don’t show styles.
I don’t spend that much on clothes for my entire family in several years
Rachel and her friends are lovely! Although Rachel was spoiled with money to spare, her attitude toward life outside her nest shows that she has also received enough love from parents as the foundation of her life.
I dreamed to have parents like these😂
Rachel if you read this comment yes your mom loves you but you need to move out and learn to live on your own. God forbid when she dies one day you will be lost and not know how to do anything Please learn to do things on your own and continue to appreciate your friend
its stressful to work well welcome to adulthood !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! protecting your child is not waiting on them hand and foot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! did this girl ever receive discipline as a child ? sounds like she needs some badly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! tough love parents wow
Yooo this mom.... Her daughter is 25 and she's treating her like she's half that age. You are disabling your child.
So sad that her OWN MOTHER is holding her back!!
The mom was so negative about her daughter's ability to do anything. When the mom said the daughter wouldn't make it, I was shocked and couldn't believe a parent would be so degrading. The mom didn't want her to make it! She wanted to keep her adult daughter under her roof and rules. Mom needs to get some hobbies and realize she has to step back.
“She has problems with spending money. So I’m gonna teach her how to be better with her spending. If she improves, I’ll give her $5000 so she can go back to her ways” 😂😂
The dad should've put a stop to his wife. I'll bet he was the main breadwinner, yet the wife and daughter spent all his $$. I'm also going to guess she was an only child and they just didn't want her to grow up.
Parents curb stomped this out of me by telling me how evil credit cards are and to never get one at single digit ages. I’m 30 now and have never had a credit card, never will get one
$1700!?!? That's not true lmao maybe for ONE ROOM in that apartment. That entire apartment right now would be $2500-3000 if not more
To have her so dependent on them and at the same time so unhappy and needy of parental validation is such a devastating combination. She was raised to need her mom and to stay that way. This poor girl...
It’s sad that she’s 25 and lost her early 20’s to being this way. Definitely the mom needed a life coach of her own. I wonder if the marriage survived
If she is using mom and dads credit card just go to the bank and get it turned off. IT'S YOUR CARD!!
She's not a bad girl. Her parents are 100% at fault, in my opinion. They created a monster. Parents should do better.
I love the color of her bedroom 💕💓💖💝
My shopping is $75 per week my groceries household two cats one chicken and stock pile
She needs to visit the Congo then she'll get a real wake up call.
God bless Chrystal. Everyone needs a friend like her.
Mom take rent from Racheal save it and give it to Racheal when she moves out of home
$5000 is not enough for a down payment for anything
I think the idea was to put the $5K toward her already accrued debt.
I would handwash air dry my clothes sleep with lights off
Her entitled attitude got to GO!!!!!
This is amazing to teach to manage 💰
You go Rachel, I'm proud of you❤.. from a grandma
Mom stop putting Racheal down
No wonder she can’t grow up.
It's "jewelry," not "jewlery." 🙄
$1700 for that would be a steal these days.
It looks mom needs her daughter mom let go
She needs to grow up
Goodwill is NOT a charity.
all kids need to go through this... Try been thrown out by parents have to grow up quick.
Same I grew up fast like that.
Momma's the real problem.