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Extremely selfish. Chose other woman over wife even when they had separated... Your family comes first.. He walked out over 'issues'. In this life you are paid what you 😢 serve....
My marriage is more or less the same because we have very many issues that are unresolved for 9years.Personality differences,no affection then my husband giving commands instead of being involving.The marriage isn't working at all despite my husband not being violent.marriage entails alot that men don't understand
Marriage is a contract, you get what you put into it. If you feel that with all honesty you put in more than you get, re negotiate the contract or simply find another contract that is suitable. Just don’t destroy your marriage because of stupid ego. Women have ego too, and they want to usurp the roles of men. Haiwezekani😡
Wow my condolences to him and the family. I believed through him narrating the story, there were some red flags that was missed due to the cool war which was happening in silence btn him and his wife. The son was fighting in silence whilst needed perhaps their help. Hmm African father most don’t build up intimate relationship with their children because of our culture’s perhaps. I pray that we all learn from this than regretting later than being there for our children.
This gentleman is wise - even though he shares his story he was very careful to be balanced in his assessment of the situation. He didn’t paint her black and he took his own responsibility where necessary.
Must have put into consideration comments of earlier interview and Manipulated the story. Initially all blame was on wife and the heading was that she threatened to kill him
Quite a lesson. Wish we would have the wife share her experience...not for us to judge but to learn and strengthen our marriage relationships. May the lord restore your marriage and keep your sons strong
I wish the wife could be available to also give her part of the story. Unresolved issues over the years pushed these couple to a bitter end...but hearing from both parties will give a clear picture of the real issues
It's so saddening to see so much sympathy for this man in the comments. Anyone who knows anything about Covert Narcissists can see all the red flags. The fact that he went into a new relationship that soon after leaving his wife is a major red flag. When a woman goes quite trust me she is in so much pain that putting it into words is impossible. Alot of what I'm hearing is the story of my life and marriage,, I'v been on antidepressants for 23 years. My husband is a saint to everyone out there, very quiet, humble and generous. Only me and my kids know the monster he tirns into behind closed does.
Thank you for sharing your story "Baba", I related to everything you shared. For 2 weeks now, my wife and I sleep in separate rooms. After listening to your story, I am going back to sharing the bed with my wife. My deepest condolences for the loss of your son, may his soul rest in peace.
Big lesson concerning my children 😢 i pray I'm more careful in observing their ways, withdraws, critical follow up,loving them and being their for them 🙏
This has also given a life lesson to cherish the people we love and also tell them is how much we love them. And also to be keen on the behaviors of our kids
Unresolved conflicts or rather sweeping issues under the carpet killed my marriage the moment it started. One thing beg to disagree with is for a husband to remain neutral in issues pertaining to in_laws. A true husband should protect his wife from the so called in- laws- I can't be more clearer on this
Well he should respect his parents and keep his immediate family from them. However I have the experience of wives involving their people and things they shouldn't be involved in. This killed my marriages but finally I have a woman who understands the importance of us doing our own thing.
A woman gets what she gives,if you treat in-laws with respect,you will get respect,but some women join their husbands families and disrupt everything.Respect in-laws,you mighty need them one day.
Baba George is very atticulate and also very intelligent. So full of wisdom going forward I have learned a thing or two to practice in my marriage for the healthy outcome. God bless you baba 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦
What should be done to this quite people? Sometimes people say that quite people are good better those who make noise because you can solve issues together. I don't advocate
Boys are so sensitive to the well being of there mother but they will rarely confront their dad.Their is a reason as to why his son commited suicide.Mums tears really hurt biko and he decided to just not seeing his mum go through pains.
😢😢Sad..The worst part is when the son committed suicide..I hope and pray the other children will not be affected by separation of their parents plus the death of their brother..Healing to all of them cause they are going through so much pain..
I listened to your storey, & must say mental illness is the deadliest of all illnesses & the sad fact, is noone sees or recognize it, until it's too late. Mèntal illness, rob human beings of living.
I like the part where Chacha takes responsibility for his own failures and mistakes. Surely when you do, it helps you heal and look at life better than just aportìoning blames. May God guide you through and many others with similar challenges. It happened to me.
Coz she is a good person but the thing is ,he failed to be with the virtuous woman from God coz of infidelity and narcissist spirit from devil. But the Lord is faithful soon they will be together
This is an exceptional man! He has spoken about mental health and marriage openly ❤. Deepest condolences to you and your family. You have really inspired many of us. God bless you so much🙏
There is more to this story than meets the eye 👀 have kuna shida mahali, we need the wife's part of the story. This whole situation caused his son to sink into depression.
The man may have thought he gave the wife everything, yet he may not have given her love. Material things do not replace love. If only we heard the other side of the story.........
I appreciate his willingness to share this story, it could not be easy. I also appreciate his humility. People, unfortunately, don't speak about these things and live miserable for years. This happens in the diaspora all the time. I hope he and his ex-wife both find happiness.
I always say, no one belongs to anybody. Marriage is 2 people who want and choose everyday to be together. They are both grieving 2 deaths. Marriage and son
This man's story has too many gaps. Why would a sane wife n mother say she would rather be a widow than live with her husband? I think kuna tabia/vitendo unbearable alitendewa. Then, as an African man, how can anyone bar you from entering your house/compound, visiting your son's grave? In whose compound is your son buried?
I like the way he expressed himself, May the Lord give you strength and you'll heal and your wife will also heal and God will make your marriage work it's not too late.
Lack of communication, and leaving your matrimonial bed will ruin a marriage. Thank you for man’s perspective. I m living it now and i have lost hope in any reconciliation. Praying for God to heal our marriage.
Military men have made their wives to go crazy and their children to have mentle issues. George is not the first military man to do that. They potray to be very good men in the public. I am married to one and i know this from others military homes too
yes,millitary men it's true they pretend alot.discuss their marriage issue kwa mess.dictactors and rude people.i have the experience. it's hard.gumu sana.
This man is a good person, may God give you strength to carry on. My brother I Love you with the Love of the Lord. I feel your pain and God will see you Through. One Love
From the way this guy is talking, he is actually a humble guy with wisdom. Very few will still talk good about their broken marriages. I walked out after 19 years of marriage. It still pains me. But i know God will give me a man whom we can start a new life. My hopes are high.
May God bless you baba George and I pray for healing in your marriage and if ever it can not be restored may the both of you learn from the mistakes and move forward to greatness and be friends for the sake of yourself and your children.
I agreed with him that the one thing you can’t do it to leave your bedroom,and resolve the issue before bedtime.I relate to this story.thanks for sharing your story.
My understanding is that due to your issues with his mother, he became depressed, and it affected his mental health and u did not have ur eyes to the ground to notice that. Let us watch how we behave in front of our kids because they are watching
The fact that you tried to be neutral with inlaws tells that you failled to protect her from your family. You did not let your inlaws that she was your wife and ofcourse these are the results. When a man fails to state his stand and exposes wives to brothers and sisters, yoi fail terribly.
I support you dear this is what happened to me but I thank God I didn't get married bcz the conflict started when we were still dating but he didn't quite his family
I am thinking this way too, he didn't protect her from his family. And I think with the way the wife refused to resolve issues at the end, it's because she was exhausted and was hurt, many women behave that way when they are over someone. I think he just started to realize his mistakes when it was too late.
The story is touching but I fear. Narcissists are normally so eloquent and always presenting to be smart,wise and calm when they know the world is watching! I fear!👀. Sorry about your son.😭
My marriage is heading here and I always pray it does not affect my kids, my hubby is a contributor, I am heading for the door, I believe there is some story from the wife too
You should have simply loved their mom...the best gift any man can give his kids, the rest will fall into place..Can anyone really make us be what they want though,..just wondering? Those kids😢😢
I'm so sorry for what happened in this family. I pray that there is still room for rekindling this marriage. Could we find Mrs. Chacha and ask her what really happened? Mr. Goerge sounds like a very legit husband, it would be nice to get to hear what mrs. Chacha went through as well.
In the previous interview he said he has another family, happily married even him and his new wife share the same password on their phones. I am surprised he has left out some very important details he gave in earlier interview.
My dears let us learn and embrace family meetings be it on monthly or even after 3/4 months, in that ways we get to know each others problems and how to go about
some family gathering are the reasons of some marriages shattering down. If see someone not involving family and relatives in their marriages dont blame them they have reasons as to why
Imagine when there was this silent war between the parents, the most responsible son Got silently affected mentally. And no body was there for him. This is so unfortunate. LET US SPEAK OUT.
I watched an interview of the Kagia couple whose daughter became an alcoholic but later was transformed. They learnt about their different temperaments and how to communicate better. Mr. Kagia in particular did a strling job to hold the rocking ship. Love triumphs against all odds
What a wonderful message to families from a personal story of pain and tragedy. Indeed this gentleman has taken full responsibility on his part which is a rare gesture today.
Marriage is about communication, once it breaks then you are done. May God heal your hearts for the loss. I hope you can sit down and reconcile as we also wait for the lady's right of reply.
George, God has given you wisdom to handle every situation, may God continue to strengthen you more it's my prayer one day you will write a book that many generations will pass through and it will be useful.
There is so much emotion in this video, you can sense how emotional this things has affected this man from his voice. I sincerely appreciate him for sharing his stories. God heal him and grant him strength.
Marriage is very hard to keep especially if one partner isn't ready to address the issues and keep the issues piled up, eventually they break leaving a very big whole
You're a great man And u did ur best She too is a very good woman And a lovely mother, i hv learnt A lot 4rm ur story u. May God bless you And ur family
I respect this man for being honesty for what happened to his marriage..thanks for being an African black man who highlighted the major issues which makes a marriage soar..If couples put God first..all these problems will be solved and continue with a normal health relationship...A teaching to all us ..a powerful testimonial discussion l enjoyed to listen to
Not all, it depends on how you handle it. Separation does not mean you stop communicating to your partner or being friends and taking care of your children together. It's only in Africa where people aren't civilised.
@@nyauskobies5522 indeed,I broke up with my partner in 1996,we still talk and the kids, when they were still at school were staying with their father(he wouldn't let them stay with me)he won't say why!,later he got married and the kids wanted to stay with me,he begged and pleaded with them to stay and they did but would spend all the school holidays with me.W e still talk with each other up to now.
I like it when a man admits his mistakes other than blame the wife for his failures. This guy sounds genuine. His advise is also very encouraging. It all comes down to communication even about the little things that most people would think are nothing. Sorry about the loss of your son. I have been in that situation so I can understand your pain . Take heart.
Thanks for ur love for family.u have educated many and marriage is about giving up and taking up some likes for others sake. Pole sana for ur sons lose. It shall be well.
You can’t change anyone in marriage. After 14 years, I can say that don’t leave any issue unresolved even if the other person is adamant continue to push getting help to break the ice. We can move past anything if both parties are willing to communicate and put our EGOS aside.
Mr. Chacha, life's challenges are for all humanbeings. Focus on people who lift you up. Only God knows it all. Sharing your story will help many people. God Bless You Abundantly Always.
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Maybe she also has her story to tell
Extremely selfish. Chose other woman over wife even when they had separated... Your family comes first.. He walked out over 'issues'. In this life you are paid what you 😢 serve....
Lynn Ngugi kindly do this episode....
Pp
He has to reconcile with the mother of his children
My marriage is more or less the same because we have very many issues that are unresolved for 9years.Personality differences,no affection then my husband giving commands instead of being involving.The marriage isn't working at all despite my husband not being violent.marriage entails alot that men don't understand
A commanding and a so controlling man is just a psychological torture in marriage even if hes not violent😢
Men rarely accept when on the wrong. When you raise an issue it worsens as he will even assault you verbally to show you hes right
Y don't u teach him since u know his challenge/??
Marriage is a contract, you get what you put into it. If you feel that with all honesty you put in more than you get, re negotiate the contract or simply find another contract that is suitable. Just don’t destroy your marriage because of stupid ego. Women have ego too, and they want to usurp the roles of men. Haiwezekani😡
@@chrpmaginaatsyaya3888 😓
What a gentleman ! To take respect and stand accountable as an African man is very very rare. I salute you sir
So so rare
Wow my condolences to him and the family. I believed through him narrating the story, there were some red flags that was missed due to the cool war which was happening in silence btn him and his wife. The son was fighting in silence whilst needed perhaps their help.
Hmm African father most don’t build up intimate relationship with their children because of our culture’s perhaps.
I pray that we all learn from this than regretting later than being there for our children.
Connecting the two stories, your broken relationship with your wife took a toll on your son.
This gentleman is wise - even though he shares his story he was very careful to be balanced in his assessment of the situation. He didn’t paint her black and he took his own responsibility where necessary.
Must have put into consideration comments of earlier interview and Manipulated the story. Initially all blame was on wife and the heading was that she threatened to kill him
That's sth rare to find in men... They will paint you black like you didn't exist...
Quite a lesson. Wish we would have the wife share her experience...not for us to judge but to learn and strengthen our marriage relationships. May the lord restore your marriage and keep your sons strong
I wish the wife could be available to also give her part of the story. Unresolved issues over the years pushed these couple to a bitter end...but hearing from both parties will give a clear picture of the real issues
true. i would like to know why she wont forgive
Yees very true
@@MyJOSE2013 hapo hata Mimi ningetaka kusikia
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I second you, wish we could hear from the woman
It's so saddening to see so much sympathy for this man in the comments. Anyone who knows anything about Covert Narcissists can see all the red flags. The fact that he went into a new relationship that soon after leaving his wife is a major red flag. When a woman goes quite trust me she is in so much pain that putting it into words is impossible. Alot of what I'm hearing is the story of my life and marriage,, I'v been on antidepressants for 23 years. My husband is a saint to everyone out there, very quiet, humble and generous. Only me and my kids know the monster he tirns into behind closed does.
This guy is a narcissist. He is remorse now because the wife moved on and the public is aware of him now.
Hugs mummy
I support this is a fully baked narcissist
Me too I'm in there same situation me n my kids are going through a lot 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
I understand that
Thank you for sharing your story "Baba", I related to everything you shared. For 2 weeks now, my wife and I sleep in separate rooms. After listening to your story, I am going back to sharing the bed with my wife. My deepest condolences for the loss of your son, may his soul rest in peace.
Thanks alot for sharing your experience coz you HV helped me alot and I know many will learn from this,I wish you all the best in life.
I hv learned smth too,I haven't gone such deeper ...... Bt using Ur advise this must end.
Big lesson concerning my children 😢 i pray I'm more careful in observing their ways, withdraws, critical follow up,loving them and being their for them 🙏
oh, my goodness! this was so terrible! 😢 so sorry for your family!
This has also given a life lesson to cherish the people we love and also tell them is how much we love them. And also to be keen on the behaviors of our kids
Unresolved conflicts or rather sweeping issues under the carpet killed my marriage the moment it started. One thing beg to disagree with is for a husband to remain neutral in issues pertaining to in_laws. A true husband should protect his wife from the so called in- laws- I can't be more clearer on this
Well he should respect his parents and keep his immediate family from them. However I have the experience of wives involving their people and things they shouldn't be involved in. This killed my marriages but finally I have a woman who understands the importance of us doing our own thing.
A woman gets what she gives,if you treat in-laws with respect,you will get respect,but some women join their husbands families and disrupt everything.Respect in-laws,you mighty need them one day.
@@pamelaayieta6071 You must be a very painful in law to have. This is a rare comment
Baba George is very atticulate and also very intelligent. So full of wisdom going forward I have learned a thing or two to practice in my marriage for the healthy outcome. God bless you baba 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦
He truly is.
May God heal him
Effective communication is very important in marriage! Resolve the issues and FORGIVE!
What should be done to this quite people? Sometimes people say that quite people are good better those who make noise because you can solve issues together. I don't advocate
Very important indeed
Well said..that's actually why their marriage failed..
@@shalommediahub1639u nailed it
No communication is the main killer of marriage.
Yaani.....everything dies..😢😢
Very true😢
The host is beautiful and I like how she listens. ❤
❤ thank you so much for your kind words.
Boys are so sensitive to the well being of there mother but they will rarely confront their dad.Their is a reason as to why his son commited suicide.Mums tears really hurt biko and he decided to just not seeing his mum go through pains.
She really is a good listener
I love this man's strength the Grace he carries,,,most men they die inside out quietly
😢😢Sad..The worst part is when the son committed suicide..I hope and pray the other children will not be affected by separation of their parents plus the death of their brother..Healing to all of them cause they are going through so much pain..
I listened to your storey, & must say mental illness is the deadliest of all illnesses & the sad fact, is noone sees or recognize it, until it's too late. Mèntal illness, rob human beings of living.
Communication, communication & communication. The oxygen of marriage & all relationships!
Sure.....
Louder .... so true.
If only this could be a lesson to couples.
Louder please😊
I like the fact that he accepts that both of them were victims of each other
We've got the same name, both names
I like the part where Chacha takes responsibility for his own failures and mistakes. Surely when you do, it helps you heal and look at life better than just aportìoning blames. May God guide you through and many others with similar challenges. It happened to me.
He admits also his failures.
He sounds genuine.
@@franciscawaigwa2779 True
A touching story very educative
Surely goodness and mercies shall follow you all the days of your life 🙏🙏
Mad respect to you sir! I love the way you have put across your sentiments, not once have you talked bad about your ex-wife. Learnt a lot from this
Coz she is a good person but the thing is ,he failed to be with the virtuous woman from God coz of infidelity and narcissist spirit from devil.
But the Lord is faithful soon they will be together
Am sorry for the loss of your son. May God heal your marriage
I'm in awe of his gentleness and wisdom. I hope he finds his peace soon. That is all he needs right now
What about the woman who caused him all that
🙏🙏🙏
@mosesmaxpunchlinetv8478 we should listen to both sides
Even serial killers are gentle🙄
Sir, you are right.
Full of wisdom, knowledge and understanding.
Your are a good father.
I salute you.
George keep going.
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This is an exceptional man! He has spoken about mental health and marriage openly ❤. Deepest condolences to you and your family. You have really inspired many of us. God bless you so much🙏
So sorry George, for the loss of your dear son and marriage, may God strengthen you as you heal from these painful experiences
There is more to this story than meets the eye 👀 have kuna shida mahali, we need the wife's part of the story. This whole situation caused his son to sink into depression.
True
Silence is the first killer of marriage.refusing to discuss issues.
Very true....it is very important to have communication on all issues... silence is a killer....
👏👏👏
The man may have thought he gave the wife everything, yet he may not have given her love. Material things do not replace love. If only we heard the other side of the story.........
Military men are like that. Kids and wife suffer a lot
True
Marriage is for mature responsible folks not really love love love as we think.
This is so emotional 😢 no wonder its all God's plan
meanwhile some men sleep on sofa all day waiting to be provided for
I appreciate his willingness to share this story, it could not be easy. I also appreciate his humility. People, unfortunately, don't speak about these things and live miserable for years. This happens in the diaspora all the time. I hope he and his ex-wife both find happiness.
There's nothing hard before God may he touch the heart of this woman this man is really hurting
I always say, no one belongs to anybody. Marriage is 2 people who want and choose everyday to be together. They are both grieving 2 deaths. Marriage and son
It's such a painful touching story. Sorry for having gone through such trauma and thanks for sharing your story with the world.
This man's story has too many gaps. Why would a sane wife n mother say she would rather be a widow than live with her husband? I think kuna tabia/vitendo unbearable alitendewa. Then, as an African man, how can anyone bar you from entering your house/compound, visiting your son's grave? In whose compound is your son buried?
I like the way he expressed himself, May the Lord give you strength and you'll heal and your wife will also heal and God will make your marriage work it's not too late.
May the Lord give you strength and answer your prayers.
I believe Mr Chacha’s sincerity. I wish him and his family healing
It's better a broken engagement than a broken marriage
I need to hear the other side, he's not saying the wrongs on his side
It doesn't matter the fact remains both sides are no longer together
its better a broken marriage than couples killing one another
Sure
@@MyJOSE2013 sure better
Soo sorry for loosing your baby may God give you peace which surpasses human understanding.
Thanks for sharing with us. Am not yet married but I have learnt a lot on what happened to you sir. Only God knows your pain 🙏.
This man is hurting 😢. May God lead your ways sir
Very informative ... through this the man became marriage counselor.
This guy is full of wisdom may God give him a successful second chance 🙏🙏
Lack of communication, and leaving your matrimonial bed will ruin a marriage. Thank you for man’s perspective. I m living it now and i have lost hope in any reconciliation. Praying for God to heal our marriage.
If only we could hear from the wife...life is not easy better a separation than being in a coffin
Military men have made their wives to go crazy and their children to have mentle issues. George is not the first military man to do that. They potray to be very good men in the public. I am married to one and i know this from others military homes too
yes,millitary men it's true they pretend alot.discuss their marriage issue kwa mess.dictactors and rude people.i have the experience.
it's hard.gumu sana.
So I have heard
Yes and no. No , even other persons in other professions go through the same. It's phenomena in mariage(s) where discussions are less.
Very true
This man is a good person, may God give you strength to carry on. My brother I Love you with the Love of the Lord. I feel your pain and God will see you Through. One Love
As a woman I know for a fact that that lady was seriously hurt and she was dead inside, it's not easy
My neighbour and tribemate sorry for what happened. Challenges are there to make us strong.
Agree
@Maureen I can attest because I've experienced it when I reached that stage of stopping to talk to my husband
If only I can tell you my story, it's almost the same with yours
@@mpume131 when you have emotionally checked out
I love the composure of this man.he loved his family and has alot of respect for his family.
He is a narcissist
From the way this guy is talking, he is actually a humble guy with wisdom. Very few will still talk good about their broken marriages. I walked out after 19 years of marriage. It still pains me. But i know God will give me a man whom we can start a new life. My hopes are high.
May God heal you and give you what your heart desires all the best❤❤❤
May God bless you baba George and I pray for healing in your marriage and if ever it can not be restored may the both of you learn from the mistakes and move forward to greatness and be friends for the sake of yourself and your children.
Amen
It would be great to hear from the wife too. Untold pain is real.
I agreed with him that the one thing you can’t do it to leave your bedroom,and resolve the issue before bedtime.I relate to this story.thanks for sharing your story.
Life is spiritual, the devil is attacking in many dimensions like octopus,we should do everything possible to fight the enemy spiritually.
My understanding is that due to your issues with his mother, he became depressed, and it affected his mental health and u did not have ur eyes to the ground to notice that. Let us watch how we behave in front of our kids because they are watching
Abuser's do not have time for self analysis, as they lack empathy and compassion.
Say that again, I'm talking from experience
Right
The fact that you tried to be neutral with inlaws tells that you failled to protect her from your family. You did not let your inlaws that she was your wife and ofcourse these are the results. When a man fails to state his stand and exposes wives to brothers and sisters, yoi fail terribly.
I support you dear this is what happened to me but I thank God I didn't get married bcz the conflict started when we were still dating but he didn't quite his family
I am thinking this way too, he didn't protect her from his family. And I think with the way the wife refused to resolve issues at the end, it's because she was exhausted and was hurt, many women behave that way when they are over someone. I think he just started to realize his mistakes when it was too late.
True
I agree with this assessment, he should have stood up for his wife and protect her visibly against his family .
When a husband can't protect his wife or reassure her that he is loyal to her, it causes resentment.
Marriage is hard work. We learn as we go. May God give us strength & wisdom as spouses & parents.
The story is touching but I fear. Narcissists are normally so eloquent and always presenting to be smart,wise and calm when they know the world is watching! I fear!👀. Sorry about your son.😭
I think the wife was a dismissive avoidant attachment personality
Thank you. "Onge matek" nothing is too difficult. U hv A beautiful family, I pray that ur family find inner peace and love. I love you all.
My marriage is heading here and I always pray it does not affect my kids, my hubby is a contributor, I am heading for the door, I believe there is some story from the wife too
You should have simply loved their mom...the best gift any man can give his kids, the rest will fall into place..Can anyone really make us be what they want though,..just wondering? Those kids😢😢
I'm so sorry for what happened in this family. I pray that there is still room for rekindling this marriage. Could we find Mrs. Chacha and ask her what really happened? Mr. Goerge sounds like a very legit husband, it would be nice to get to hear what mrs. Chacha went through as well.
I thougth so
Usikute ni kiboko ndio ilifukuza huyu mwanamke, juu wa Kuria huwanga wakali na kuchapa wife ndio zao... adding that he is also a military.
@@zaitunisagwa2082 😳😳😳💃💃💃
@@zaitunisagwa2082 eti kiboko😢😢
In the previous interview he said he has another family, happily married even him and his new wife share the same password on their phones. I am surprised he has left out some very important details he gave in earlier interview.
This woman was hurting and I do understand her pain😢
True
Yes....
Yeah
This type as a hubby is pure red flag....😎
How? Too calm?
😂😂
Thanks for sharing your story sir. You have saved someone's marriage and life.
My dears let us learn and embrace family meetings be it on monthly or even after 3/4 months, in that ways we get to know each others problems and how to go about
some family gathering are the reasons of some marriages shattering down. If see someone not involving family and relatives in their marriages dont blame them they have reasons as to why
Without communication there is no relationship, without trust their is basis , without respect there is no need to continue
Imagine when there was this silent war between the parents, the most responsible son Got silently affected mentally. And no body was there for him. This is so unfortunate. LET US SPEAK OUT.
The boys are grown ups now, they should look up their father and try to appreciate him, he is also hurting .
I have learnt a lot. Family life is hard. Lets invite God into all that we are. God bind us with one accord. Love is the key to all.
I watched an interview of the Kagia couple whose daughter became an alcoholic but later was transformed. They learnt about their different temperaments and how to communicate better. Mr. Kagia in particular did a strling job to hold the rocking ship.
Love triumphs against all odds
What a wonderful message to families from a personal story of pain and tragedy. Indeed this gentleman has taken full responsibility on his part which is a rare gesture today.
I pray that this will be a message to so many couples going through uphills in their marriage. it is really heartfelt
Very well articulated. Sorry for what life has dealt you. Perhaps you could turn the poems into a book in your son's memory?
Marriage is about communication, once it breaks then you are done. May God heal your hearts for the loss. I hope you can sit down and reconcile as we also wait for the lady's right of reply.
George, God has given you wisdom to handle every situation, may God continue to strengthen you more it's my prayer one day you will write a book that many generations will pass through and it will be useful.
This was a case of two narcissists living under one roof.
Even Ugandan s we're watching our lovely God is dea for u sir
Sometimes people get married but because of habits that we bring in the marriage that habit pull them apart
There is so much emotion in this video, you can sense how emotional this things has affected this man from his voice. I sincerely appreciate him for sharing his stories.
God heal him and grant him strength.
So painfull story that only God can give strength, I had the same problem 'silence" it killed my marriage too, I don't believe in love and marriage
My silence has saved mine
I play dumb
@@nurugizani3075 you're being abused
This man is real . He recognises his mistakes and very couregous to talk about his life ...while waiting to hearing from the wife thank u Sir.
Marriage is very hard to keep especially if one partner isn't ready to address the issues and keep the issues piled up, eventually they break leaving a very big whole
Very true
True dear
Story of my life, as I speak I am filling for divorce after 23 years of marriage
@@segakolodisekuni5642 Hugs dear
@@pendoonyango6676 sorry
Wow, what an experience!! He is a gentle man. A lot of lessons learnt. Thank you for sharing your experience.
Very wise intelligent man, it's a pity he could not fix is marriage.
It's not intelligence that fixes a marriage
@@nurugizani3075 I was not saying intelligence fix a marriage.
It takes two responsible people to fix a marriage
@@akotheffie8087 correct I agree.
Yhooo what a polished or refined gentleman. Unfortunately life is not always a red carpet. You such a gallant with wisdom. Mind opening!
I am in my early marriage years and I have learned a lot.may God heal them
You're a great man
And u did ur best
She too is a very good woman
And a lovely mother, i hv learnt
A lot 4rm ur story u. May God bless you
And ur family
It would be fair if we heard Mrs Chacha's side of the story... However I like the fact that Mr Chacha's has acknowledged his role in the breakup.
Councelling and therapy is very important for you and the sons and your wife also to help with the healing process. Best wishes.
Men can go through hell in marriages too... May God give him strength and his family.
I respect this man for being honesty for what happened to his marriage..thanks for being an African black man who highlighted the major issues which makes a marriage soar..If couples put God first..all these problems will be solved and continue with a normal health relationship...A teaching to all us ..a powerful testimonial discussion l enjoyed to listen to
The first person to speak in court always seems right until his opponent begins to question him.
Proverbs 18:17
Keep strong George.God will make everything beautiful, at His own time.
This man is full of wisdom and a nice man i wish the woman wld come out and we hear her side too.
Your separation might have affected your son. Separation of parents has a negative effect on children😢😢
Not all, it depends on how you handle it. Separation does not mean you stop communicating to your partner or being friends and taking care of your children together. It's only in Africa where people aren't civilised.
@@nyauskobies5522 indeed,I broke up with my partner in 1996,we still talk and the kids, when they were still at school were staying with their father(he wouldn't let them stay with me)he won't say why!,later he got married and the kids wanted to stay with me,he begged and pleaded with them to stay and they did but would spend all the school holidays with me.W e still talk with each other up to now.
They used to be my neighbours.
May they find peace and sorry for the loss of your son.
what can you say about this man?
He is playing the victim's card.
Tell us more about them
I like it when a man admits his mistakes other than blame the wife for his failures. This guy sounds genuine. His advise is also very encouraging. It all comes down to communication even about the little things that most people would think are nothing.
Sorry about the loss of your son. I have been in that situation so I can understand your pain . Take heart.
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They nomaly admit very late.
He blames the wife but i sense that he started all this. Women love genuinely. For the woman to stop sharing the bed, that had to do with infidelity
@@healthproductskenyaor she was also sycho. But ofcourse you brought your bias like a kumbafu.
Thanks for ur love for family.u have educated many and marriage is about giving up and taking up some likes for others sake.
Pole sana for ur sons lose.
It shall be well.
Very educative ,I have learnt grt lessons ...similar cases in Uganda
You can’t change anyone in marriage. After 14 years, I can say that don’t leave any issue unresolved even if the other person is adamant continue to push getting help to break the ice. We can move past anything if both parties are willing to communicate and put our EGOS aside.
Communication is key in any relationship.
I would want to hear the other side of the story
If God allows & I get married,I promise to apply his knowledge into it coz his.a great speaker.
Be blessed George am Justine Jolly from Ug
Mr. Chacha, life's challenges are for all humanbeings. Focus on people who lift you up. Only God knows it all. Sharing your story will help many people. God Bless You Abundantly Always.
MR. CHAHA
I THINK AND HOPE THAT I KNOW YOUR SISTER IN THE NETBALL TEAM .
TUONGE BAADAE.