நீங்க கூறுவது தவறு. ஒரு job gap கு அப்றம் renetry பன்னனும் அப்டினா naturally ஒரு fear & extreme lack of confidence இருக்கும், அது laziness கிடையாது, அது பயம் due to lack of touch.
Exactly when men have a gap people don’t think much. But women are not given jobs easily and even if they get it is hard to grow becoz of male politics!
Wonderful counsel advice. Thank you for sharing . Really appreciate it. Sometimes I did wonder whether I did the right thing. Yes, you are right. Education is the most valuable asset to any woman.
Well said sir 🙌 my husband is also working in foreign country but he is really a good person and I also facing pressure by my family to go there and settle down but I don’t like to stay there permanently.. I hv to show this speech to my family. Thanks for this message
@@Savageprincess167 your family is your husband and kids. Others secondary. Once ur mind accepts this, you will fly immediately. Please ponder over this.
12 yrs as systems engineer in automation - power plant, oil & gas, refinery industries + knowledge mgmt project, wiki technologies & applications. Work experience in India now moved to Edmonton.
100 la oru divorce aagum, 100 la orutharukku kuzhandha porakkadhu.. but adha paathu full country neenga solra living style adapt pannanuma? Oru amma ku 46 years la sugar varudhu.. so avanga pasanga 20 years la irundhe sugar sapda koodadha? First teach a person to think practically.. teach adaptation skills to them. If not a regular office job, what other possibilities are there to earn? It is perfectly okay if a women takes maternity break for 5 years. It is perfectly okay if a women does nursing for a bed ridden parent and returns back to work after 5 years. If offices say it is a long break, then other job opportunities will open up.
I am also in the same situation with my husband and I am continue with it for my son.It is only my job to be my strength and companion. Thank you so much sir 😊
Same happened in my life. I left my bank job and came to abroad and suffering now in depression. Have to search for a job. Don't know how it works as I have to tc of kids.
What ever you said correct. I went to London 41 years before. I did decree and married a British citizen. I didn't work before . When I went there I studied for three years. But that time they paid for us. Now days every thing different. Now days too many illegal emigrats . They stopped . If you got good job and money don't plan to go foreign. Who ever come from foreign they showed. Its very hard. I see so many girls in trouble. Before you go decided .
Girls who marry men from other states have to resign their current jobs and move to those countries, there is no alternative. In other countries its not that easy to get an equivalent job. Very often they have to start from bottom and move up. Also, family care is a big issue as there are no domestic helps like in their home countries. Those girls who marry such men have to face the risk and prepare themselves to accept the inevitable!!
Absolutely important topic to spread in India...million million women are suffering with indian men in abroad...unable to put them in family violence register...both family don't support women....western countries judicial system support the affected women..but indian community in abroad also discard or don't support that women...unbelievable life these women go through in the name of culture...please speak up...🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
இப்படி பயந்து வாழ முடியாது. Even we can get job in abroad. I'm also married foreign guy never thought like this. Even my first challenge languages but we accept and move on.
Vannakkam sir. This vedio should be reached people before 25 years means it would be great boon for ladies and innocent married girls .now also ok sir atleast we can realise and find the original face of cheating husbands. God should bless you more sir. You are lighting many innocent girls future
Oru confusion um illa. This is not applicable for all. One more thing abroad is de best choice for that girl to grow. Bce thr domestic violence la case women file panna or kids told someone outside summa sonnalum. Immediately investigation happen with tht parents. But india la nothing else
This is true situation for women marrying to abroad.. You have to work to sustain life here in abroad... Take care of kids and working parallelly is very difficult
Title is not appropriate and makes to thing the foreign life is not good…there are many good family who grow up their kids in good way example Vivek Ramsay in usa, kamala harris and their family come here for aspirations not for status life…today many ppl things being in USA is status that is how movie also promoting…moreover its happening in our country also right many marrying even after good colleague degree parents also thinking that marrying good earning man is safe for their daughters that too foreign mapla solla va Vendam….
Women are objectified in the west, Indian women are quickly catching up with this objectification. The only practical thing is not to get married but be in relationship.
மணமாகி அயல்நாடு போகக்கூடிய பெண் எவ்வளவு தான் படித்திருந்தாலும், திறமைசாலியாக இருந்தாலும் வேலைக்கு போகும் உரிமையைப்பெற சில வருடங்களாகும். அதுவரை அவர்கள் கணவனை நம்பித்தான் ஆகவேண்டியுள்ளது. அதற்குள் அவர்களுக்கு குழந்தைகள் பிறந்தால் இன்னும் சில வருடங்களுக்கு வேலைக்கு போக முடியாது. Visa status என்பது முக்கிய பங்கு வகிக்கிறது. கணவன் நல்லவானாக அமைய வேண்டியது மிகவும் முக்கியம். வருடங்களாவாது
Not true..When we decided to settle abroad, need to start a new career .This needs guts, perseverance and dedication.There is always negative things like baby sitting and house work etc .But it is part and parcel of the western life..
Working women in India too ninety nine percent shed their jobs after marriage. That is reality..foreign migration happens for centuries has many setbacks we have to endure . What if indian women pace a cruel husband? The spokesman mindset is abnormal.
நீங்க கூறுவது தவறு. ஒரு job gap கு அப்றம் renetry பன்னனும் அப்டினா naturally ஒரு fear & extreme lack of confidence இருக்கும், அது laziness கிடையாது, அது பயம் due to lack of touch.
Exactly.... being a home maker is not being lazy
Exactly when men have a gap people don’t think much. But women are not given jobs easily and even if they get it is hard to grow becoz of male politics!
Earning women only (either job or small business, small amount or big amount ) is real Princess
நிதானமாக பேசி மகளிருக்கு விழிப்புணர்வு ஏற்படுத்திய விதம் மிக அருமை! பேட்டி எடுத்தவர் இன்னும் பயிற்சி எடுப்பது மேலும் சிறப்பைத் தரும்!
Eye opening at right time to me. Thank you sir.I am going to give a Application tomorrow. Love from Tirunelveli not in USA😊
💯. I am in same situation.. Education and job only very important.. very long time I am waiting for this topic . Thanks
I resigned my job,but now planning to join ...thanks sir
If I got this council 20 yrs back ,how nice it would have been?
Wonderful counsel advice. Thank you for sharing . Really appreciate it. Sometimes I did wonder whether I did the right thing. Yes, you are right. Education is the most valuable asset to any woman.
Ur words are true sir
அருமையான பதிவு ஐயா நன்றி நக்கீரன்
This video is much useful, thank yu sir
Eye opener video sir thanks 👍 nakeeran gopal sir thanks a lot
Well said sir 🙌 my husband is also working in foreign country but he is really a good person and I also facing pressure by my family to go there and settle down but I don’t like to stay there permanently.. I hv to show this speech to my family. Thanks for this message
Sister. Go there first. Time will decide everything not you
@@sidj2252 Yh I should think.. idk why but I don’t like to go there😔(maybe too much pampering of my parents has spoiled me )
@@Savageprincess167 your family is your husband and kids. Others secondary. Once ur mind accepts this, you will fly immediately. Please ponder over this.
@@sidj2252 ur right.. thanks for pointing this out 🩵
@@Savageprincess167 I pray you don't regret it later for not going there in the future...
மூன்று பெண்பிள்ளைகளை பெற்றவர்கள் நாங்கள் என் கணவரும் இதையேதான் சொல்வார்
I agree completely, from Canada.
Me too
I'm too from Canada. Struggling to find job kn Alberta
@@charanyav4047 i live in alberta, let me know what field. i can see if i can help
12 yrs as systems engineer in automation - power plant, oil & gas, refinery industries + knowledge mgmt project, wiki technologies & applications. Work experience in India now moved to Edmonton.
I'm open to change domian as well
Good thing is explained.
100 la oru divorce aagum, 100 la orutharukku kuzhandha porakkadhu.. but adha paathu full country neenga solra living style adapt pannanuma? Oru amma ku 46 years la sugar varudhu.. so avanga pasanga 20 years la irundhe sugar sapda koodadha? First teach a person to think practically.. teach adaptation skills to them. If not a regular office job, what other possibilities are there to earn? It is perfectly okay if a women takes maternity break for 5 years. It is perfectly okay if a women does nursing for a bed ridden parent and returns back to work after 5 years. If offices say it is a long break, then other job opportunities will open up.
Naan paarttha sirantha manithan jeyzan sir. Thaa ivarukku naa kadama patrukke. En kanavar irantha nigalvula irunthu meela ivarum oru karanam ivar kudukkura interview. Kandippa nerla oru naal naa partthu solve thanks sir
சிறந்த பதிவு.🎉🎉🎉
Super sir lighta tregger sairenga good result vandududu God bless you sir
I am also in the same situation with my husband and I am continue with it for my son.It is only my job to be my strength and companion. Thank you so much sir 😊
May god give you all the strength ❤
Same here
Take him to a கவுன்சிலிங் ma. Who knows he may change. Give a try
@@BlueBerry-bc7yp Sure sir
Tq sir your guidance
It’s related to me I left my career and came to abroad now suffering in my life but n different way…
Go to job
Same happened in my life. I left my bank job and came to abroad and suffering now in depression. Have to search for a job. Don't know how it works as I have to tc of kids.
@@Home2020-x3kcheck out the WFH options.
Super message sir. 🎉🎉🎉
Arumai sir
Good speech sir. Thank u.
Super information Sir
True words🎉🎉
Well said sir, Edu plus finance is the straighth of ladies.
Very true , to some extent my sibling story matching, she is looking for job now
Very good information sir
Very true
பெண்களுக்கும் பெற்றோருக்கும் விழிப்புணர்வை ஊட்டும் அருமையான பதிவு . வாழ்த்துக்கள் 😊
I’m just
ஆண்களுக்கும் தான். ஆண்களை துன்புறுத்தும் பெண்களுக்கும் இது பாடம்
The title is really downgrading women. Could you please change it. It’s such a useful video
Correct sir yen husband kaga na job ah vitten but epo avan vera oruthita poitan but adhu niratharam ila he passed away 😭😭😭
Saema superrrrrrrrr.... Valthukalum,..🎉.nandrikalum sir.
சிறப்பு
How to contract him ?
Please tell us.we want take counselling.please please ...
❤❤❤❤❤ Thank you sir
Its quite opposite in our csae.My son left his good paying job in IT and went to foreign country as his wife got a good job.
Wow i always thinks about this.
Excellent
Super sir
Dear VJ
Kindly ask him about Govt school pg arts teachers counseling.
It will help to big community as de stress
eye opening topic
You are my favourite sir
How much will he take for counseling
What ever you said correct. I went to London 41 years before. I did decree and married a British citizen. I didn't work before . When I went there I studied for three years. But that time they paid for us. Now days every thing different. Now days too many illegal emigrats . They stopped . If you got good job and money don't plan to go foreign. Who ever come from foreign they showed. Its very hard. I see so many girls in trouble. Before you go decided .
Girls who marry men from other states have to resign their current jobs and move to those countries, there is no alternative. In other countries its not that easy to get an equivalent job. Very often they have to start from bottom and move up. Also, family care is a big issue as there are no domestic helps like in their home countries. Those girls who marry such men have to face the risk and prepare themselves to accept the inevitable!!
I agree 👍 from uk
Your blanket statements and approaches is good for women and not for the family. As some women, do not prioritise family at all.
என் மகள் இப்படி தான் இருக்கிறது சென்னை ய்ல்
நீங்கள் தான் அவர்கள் பிரச்சினையை தீர்க்க வேண்டும்
Absolutely important topic to spread in India...million million women are suffering with indian men in abroad...unable to put them in family violence register...both family don't support women....western countries judicial system support the affected women..but indian community in abroad also discard or don't support that women...unbelievable life these women go through in the name of culture...please speak up...🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Real eye opener
இப்படி பயந்து வாழ முடியாது.
Even we can get job in abroad.
I'm also married foreign guy never thought like this.
Even my first challenge languages but we accept and move on.
Thank you sir
கொஞ்சம் சத்தமா பேசலாமே சார் ரொம்ப மெதுவா பேசுறீங்க என்னைய நீ
இவர் பேசி முடிப்பதற்குள் கீழ் வானம் சிவந்து விடும் .
😂😂😂😂
100 💯 % true
Je vie en France j’aimerais vous contacter
How to contact this sir?
Vannakkam sir. This vedio should be reached people before 25 years means it would be great boon for ladies and innocent married girls .now also ok sir atleast we can realise and find the original face of cheating husbands. God should bless you more sir. You are lighting many innocent girls future
You cannot brand the non resident indians in this sweeping manner.
Sir இப்போதுதல்லாம் இரண்டு பேரும் வேலைக்கு போனால்தான் சிறப்பாக வாழ முடியும் இங்கேயும் வெளிநாடுகளிலும் அங்கே எல்லாம் சும்மாவீட்டில் இருக்கவே முடியாது
We can still live with one earning if one live below their means
@@Indian-sh2xz inflations r up in recent periods there is no choice left , so both have to work otherwise it will be a big burden to men
கடைசியில் காலத்தில் யாருக்கும் தொந்தரவு தரமா முதியோர் இல்லம்மோ
அல்லது தனிமையில் பொழுதை கழிக்க பழகி கொள்ள வேண்டும் எல்லாரும்
100% true Economical freedom is a must
Marriage panni ,kuzhandai vanda appuram health issues, middle age tied ness, Then how can we go to job.
Oru confusion um illa. This is not applicable for all. One more thing abroad is de best choice for that girl to grow. Bce thr domestic violence la case women file panna or kids told someone outside summa sonnalum. Immediately investigation happen with tht parents. But india la nothing else
This is true situation for women marrying to abroad.. You have to work to sustain life here in abroad...
Take care of kids and working parallelly is very difficult
👏
My life😢
🙏
This fellow is over exaggerating and generalising things.
How to contact jayzen sir
Antha 47 natural siva sankari novel
Title is not appropriate and makes to thing the foreign life is not good…there are many good family who grow up their kids in good way example Vivek Ramsay in usa, kamala harris and their family come here for aspirations not for status life…today many ppl things being in USA is status that is how movie also promoting…moreover its happening in our country also right many marrying even after good colleague degree parents also thinking that marrying good earning man is safe for their daughters that too foreign mapla solla va Vendam….
Want to contact jayzan sir
Anchor must learn how engage guest.
Ellaruma apadi irrukanga bro
😢😮
Jayzen sir
Ullur mappilaya parungama
Women are objectified in the west, Indian women are quickly catching up with this objectification. The only practical thing is not to get married but be in relationship.
Ungalodaye sethu vachi pesuvangale😢
True
Nasama ponavane 5 per death patri pesamattiyada😢
மணமாகி அயல்நாடு போகக்கூடிய பெண் எவ்வளவு தான் படித்திருந்தாலும், திறமைசாலியாக இருந்தாலும் வேலைக்கு போகும் உரிமையைப்பெற சில வருடங்களாகும். அதுவரை அவர்கள் கணவனை நம்பித்தான் ஆகவேண்டியுள்ளது. அதற்குள் அவர்களுக்கு குழந்தைகள் பிறந்தால் இன்னும் சில வருடங்களுக்கு வேலைக்கு போக முடியாது. Visa status என்பது முக்கிய பங்கு வகிக்கிறது. கணவன் நல்லவானாக அமைய வேண்டியது மிகவும் முக்கியம். வருடங்களாவாது
Not true..When we decided to settle abroad, need to start a new career .This needs guts, perseverance and dedication.There is always negative things like baby sitting and house work etc .But it is part and parcel of the western life..
Aanaikkum adi sarukkum
Nee eshtathukku vidathe,
Manam porattam..
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ரொம்ப தேவைற்றத்தை பேசி time waste பண்றிங்க
Working women in India too ninety nine percent shed their jobs after marriage. That is reality..foreign migration happens for centuries has many setbacks we have to endure . What if indian women pace a cruel husband? The spokesman mindset is abnormal.
Content thin Vetti pechcha long
How to contact you sir
Thank you sir
Very true!
Your blanket statements and approaches is good for women and not for the family. As some women, do not prioritise family at all.