My mother said the same thing to me about one of her ex's he wrote his sister a letter detailing what he did and how my mom knew about it his sister confronted my mom with the letter and out her own mouth in front of the whole family said i liked it and wanted it I never thought I would punch my mother so hard in the face but I did and broke the bone in my right middle finger
I know of someone whose daughter was molested. The daughter told her she put her out. After friends spoke to her she pressed charges. He did time and she took him back in. Disturbing!
I really hate story segments like this . Child gets abused by Mom or Dad’s partner at a young age . And the parent doesn’t believe em afterwards . What a shame . Another mom who deserves the worst mother of the year award .
The so-called mother was right, she doesn't deserve sympathy. Not only is she a sorry excuse of a mother, but she is a sorry excuse of a human being. I hope anyone from her hometown who watches this show, would show disregard to her.
Mothers like this are jealous of their daughters she is jealous of her thats how it always is. The daughter been loss respect for her by calling her by her name. I hope the daughter has a blessed life and hae nothing but opportunites to succed. The mother will get whats coming to her in the long run...
Yup- kids rarely like about sexual abuse. They would'nt know what to say if if had'nt happened to them. Vindictive teenage girls who know about sex might lie about rape though.
That mother is a terrible person, her daughter wasn’t protected like she should’ve been and that is truly the saddest part.. Can we throw the mom in prison to?
I don't know if they can legally do anything at this point. It has been years since the abuse has taken place, and had the abuse been discovered when it was happening, the mother would've faced criminal charges if she was in one of the 48 states where parents could get in trouble for this.
I'm glad she's doing better. Bless her heart. I have not watched yet but I believe her. She just sat down with Steve and telling him. If your close to her please tell this beautiful child I'm so sorry and I'm proud of her and I believe her and give her a hug. I'm old now but I was raped at q2 years old. So I feel for her.
When your child starts calling you by your name instead of mom you know your relationship is over. She proved she didnt know but the way she handled it and talked to her daughter after afterwards is why that relationship is destroyed.
Breaks my heart. This beautiful young girl had such a hard life and her egg donor of a birth mother not believing her baby. Then come out screaming at her. I just want to hug her
This poor excuse for a mother makes her daughter's pain all about herself. Notice how she said, "I was hurt!". You mean YOUR DAUGHTER was hurt? She's so incredibly dismissive of her daughter's feelings. Oof.
And the fact that that girl’s mother had the AUDACITY to post all on Facebook and say that her daughter “must of liked the abuse” LIKE WHAT TYPE OF MOTHER SAYS THAT ABOUT HER OWN CHILD??? ON FACEBOOK??? For EVERYONE TO SEE?? Like WTF???
yeah, seriously. it blew my mind with the *ahem* ¨mom¨ just casually says ¨i did apply for food stamps and your point exactly. i still have food in my home now so what´s your point?¨ what the hell does food/food stamps got to do with your daughter being raped/molested? sounds like textbook deflecting techniques on the part of the ¨mom¨. clearly a narcissist.
As a sexual abuse survivor myself, @SteveWilkosShow, I applaud Janayjah for her courage to expose the evil that she experienced at such a young age! Divine Justice will take care of the monster who did this to her!
The mom has a freshly healed scar in the middle of her forehead she's trying to cover up. She's actively living in domestic violence; her life is still out of control. That daughter should keep moving forward and not look back.
@niasmomma get your mom out and to somewhere safe, do it at night, I don't recall their names but there's a group of women who help women like your mom in DV situations.
@@MsWiccanpriestessI WOULDN'T HELP THAT EGG DONOR WITH ANYTHING. MY MOM DID THE SAME THING, STAYED WITH THE SOB BECAUSE HIS FATHER DIDN'T BELIEVE IN DIVORCE.
Mom’s a professional gas lighter, smug, arrogant…Treating the daughter like the problem when she’s a whole villain. The daughter is correct to call her by her name and not “mom”. Smh.
It's like she doesn't even care about her daughter or her well being, she didn't do her job as a mother, she allow her ex-boyfriend to touch her daughter in a sexual freaking manner, which is degrading, despicable and disgusting, which puts her as the worst mother ever and put behind bars for letting that happen
To see that young girl cry after Steve gave her words of affirmation’s hurt and yet warms my heart. She needed to hear that.. just because bad things happen to us doesn’t mean we can’t make good and amazing things happen for us. I hope she goes on to do big things and always carrys that strength she has with her! ❤
This little girl brought her mother there on purpose to make her mother feel everything she's been feeling over the years and her mama deserve every bit of it
The daughter is sooooo well spoken and mature. Keep your head up babygirl and keep fighting the good fight. I dont even know her but im proud of how far she's come, and how far she'll go.
What kind of mother lets older males sleep in her 5-year-old girl's room?! I feel so bad for Janayjah, 5 years old and had to go through that. It broke my heart when I saw her cry after Steve hugged her. 😔
So she basically admitted she did know and didn’t care since she said “yea my young daughter loved being abused” like wtf. Like I don’t believe she didn’t know she def suspected something
I heard that from my aunt when the police started the investigation in my case. “ Well, you must’ve liked it if you let it go on for so long “. Haven’t talked to her since. She tried once, asked my mother to hand her the phone when they were on vacation together. I told my mother I don’t want to talk to her and I didn’t. Nothing I have to say to that woman.
Yes. Real mothers always puts their babies 1st always. Those kind like her only put dicks n money 1st. I believed this beautiful girl as soon as she told her story. Wish I could gave her a real momma hug
I’ll NEVER understand it. How someone could throw a child under the bus just so they can have a man to lay with. Ppl like this ALWAYS have SO MANY KIDS when there are people who would've been the BEST parents in the world can't conceive smh. I'm eternally grateful I have a mom that would rather die than pick a man over me!
This is horrible. As a person that was abused as a child my mother reacted the same way. Her great comfort words were " you are not a virgin, no man is going to want you" Some people should not be parents.
I am so proud of this young beautiful lady. She is so pretty and I'm glad she wants to not be like her mother. She has a great role model in her life. This young lady is strong brave and has better advice to give to her mother. I hope she continues her education and follows her dreams. I wish her the best
I know right??!! How can adults have sex with children...SO EVIL WICKED SICK DISGUSTING DISTURBING and WRONG...The children are not even finished growing/fully developing yet!!! How can adults feel sexually attracted to children??!! I just can’t comprehend the thought processes of pedophiles!!!
She’s a very pretty girl. God bless her heart. Hopefully she can grow and heal from this. I was touched also. Just not to the extent of her. But it’s traumatizing to say the least. I was 7. It’s just getting easier 20 years later.
As someone who's been abused by my mother's boyfriend(ex now) the mother asking if the kid liked it is INSANE. I've been told by my therapist MANY times that it's okay if you liked it, as long as you know it's wrong. But it's INCREDIBLY disrespectful to fix your lips to say that, to type and post that for anyone to see.
Steve : and with that I have to say. Alika: get the hell off his stage. Steve : (calmly) get the hell off my stage. (Crowd erupts in cheers for Steve and Alika!)
Hey "Mom" try being a Mom. A mother protects her children 💯 Big hugs to this survivor for speaking the truth!!! I am so proud of her! ..my own Mother put her needs above her own children (I was abused, used, exploited in ways I won't say on RUclips), & now that I am 4 months pregnant myself in my 30's about to be an actual Mother - I am horrified, & disgusted with these "Mothers".. This episode 👏
Always believe your child if they tell you that something is going on with someone else in an abnormal way. Children don’t know the intimate details of having a sexual relationship with someone unless it’s happening to them. Put them first before you talk to them about it because it will affect them for the rest of their lives. It’s so sad that they are both yelling at each other and they are not understanding what is going on in their lives. I can assure the mother that her little girl didn’t like being raped. How could she even say that to her daughter? Wow! 😢
That's the consequence of a bad parent like her, she's way too immature and made irreversable mistakes. The daughter is better off without her. Worse mother ever.
Very heartbreaking & infuriating. The “mother’s” gaslighting, narcissistic behavior. Her attitude/defensiveness, her tape before coming on stage. She may’ve passed for her test about her daughter, but she still failed her. The nerve of her to play victim & victim blame… Glad she was addressed by her name, because she doesn’t deserve to be called a mother. My heart breaks for her siblings as well, because they’re so young. Generally speaking, so many times multiple siblings have different experiences, especially the younger ones. Sometimes they get a different side of the “parent” & end up resenting their older siblings.. and who knows what she’s telling them.. She & her older siblings were dealt a horrible hand, but it’s great to see her breaking the cycle. This woman is in extreme denial and completely delusional. I also feel for Alica as well. I don’t blame her or the daughter. If I had to deal with someone like that “mother,” I’d be yelling too. The anger, pain and hurt…
First off, why would a mother tell their own child that they "must have liked the abuse". That is so low, vile, and disgusting on so many levels !!! I hope karma catches up to Shakala. She doesn't deserve the title "mom" Second, I'm so proud of Janayjah, especially for putting a stop to the abuse and cutting ties with her so-called "mother". Hope she can continue healing from this!
To sit there and have the audacity to say " you must of liked it " to your daughter through verbal or text message is CRAZY. You can tell ALOT about the mom jus knowing she says THAT to her beautiful daughter 💓
That mother sucks. Now I was never abused as a child. However my biological mother did abandon me when I was a baby and took my older brother with her. I wish I had the guts to take her ass on national tv to confront her. If that were to happen I would also bring my older brother. I missed having a childhood with him. I would want him to confront our “mother” too. The times I did have with my brother were always fun even though we picked on each other. No woman who lets her kids be abused in anyway, abandons her kids doesn’t deserve the title mother.
Priceless when Steve told her to get the he!! Off of his stage. The fact she wasn't even calling her mom & by her name shows I don't think she will talk to her again.
This supposed mother is a real class act SARCASM OF COURSE !! How any mother that could allow a man to abuse a child is beyond me !! What this woman fails to grasp is that her daughter is now ruined for life,she may never trust a man enough to settle down and have kids because she may be afraid they may be abused !! Abuse is a vicious cycle and a Never ending cycle !!
This one hit too close to home for me. My mom regularly chose an abusive drug addicted man over her kids and grandkids. Even after he left her, she was hanging out with this new dude. I told her this man was in a bed with me at 16 massaging my shoulders and I was terrified. Guess how many times he came over still after that..? It’s damaged all my memories with my mom.
I wish Shakayla got flamed more- her attitude is disgusting, I believe everything that poor girl said she went through. I pray she heals from her trauma and thank goodness for her aunty being there for her
I'm so angry because when it comes to your children...DAMN the relationship. The mother could have easily gotten herself up out of that abusive relationship and SAVED HER CHILD AT THE SAME TIME!!!!!💯 People are so mf deep in the dirt, they don't even realize God threw them an anchor although they didn't even deserve it‼ Mom so mf insecure and desperate for a man, she decides to stay with him, continue to get abused, PUT HER OTHER CHILDREN IN JEOPARDY, and lose a relationship with her child. She prolly be at home asking God "why me? Help me. Please let this man stop abusing me." Welp! Missed that chance to actually do something different. 😒
That mothers attitude is nasty. At the very least she's guilty of neglect and she's ignoring the pain that has caused her daughter. She doesn't wanna take accountability, shes not listening to her daughter, the hair is atrocious and she doesn't deserve 1 child let alone 7.
Any man who abuse a woman or child..ain't no man at all. A lesson to all abusers out there, don't ever hit a woman or a child.. and most important of all: keep your hands to yourself.
3:40 I also know that she said it was her mother's EX. When are we going to break the cycle of women preferring to be with predators black women in particular
@jammiejam7898 play through the motherfuking sales and the bus acting the way they act I'm not a bootlegger like you I'll tell her how it is you always talking about unity and black this and black that but don't want to hold each other accountable when we fuk up I'm not you
Any mother who says their child "must have liked the abuse" doesn't deserve the title! 😡
Exactly right I was so mad when it was said shame on that lady smh 🤦♂️
Like she basically outed she knew or at the very least gave zero fucks
That's Not Even A Mother......... That's A DEMONIC Monster😮
My mother said the same thing to me about one of her ex's he wrote his sister a letter detailing what he did and how my mom knew about it his sister confronted my mom with the letter and out her own mouth in front of the whole family said i liked it and wanted it I never thought I would punch my mother so hard in the face but I did and broke the bone in my right middle finger
She disgusts me! She is NOT a "mother"!!
Calling her mother by her name was such a power move. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Yes yes any abusive parent deserved to be called by their first name
Yes! She wants nothing to do w/ the so-called "mother"!
Absolutely.
I would too !
@@octaviahollywood635 Does'nt deserve to be called 'Mother,'' Mama',' Mum,' 'Mommy' or any title !
this mother is gross!!! how can you side with a man over your own baby! this is so sad and i hope karma catches up to her.
@@DraconisJ25 highly agree
There are many supposed mothers just like her… sad, but she isn’t rare
... And here's people like me who are longing for a baby !
Some of these women hate their daughters and really have this dumb idea that a man will be connected to you forever, but your child won't.
I know of someone whose daughter was molested. The daughter told her she put her out. After friends spoke to her she pressed charges. He did time and she took him back in. Disturbing!
I'm glad she wasn't calling her mom. She doesn't deserve the title!
@@misswinter3361 You got that right. I wanna hope the daughter gets peace from all the pain she endured.🥺😞
And I can't blame the daughter for not calling her mom
Nope not at all she's a clown 🤡 who doesn't deserve any of those kids
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Y’all are absolutely right shame on that lady for what she did
I really hate story segments like this . Child gets abused by Mom or Dad’s partner at a young age . And the parent doesn’t believe em afterwards . What a shame . Another mom who deserves the worst mother of the year award .
Not only she doesn't believe her own daughter but she just doesn't care. 🤬🤮😢💔
Same, I’m happy Janayjah got justice and Steve threw that trifling ass mother off the stage
The so-called mother was right, she doesn't deserve sympathy.
Not only is she a sorry excuse of a mother, but she is a sorry excuse of a human being.
I hope anyone from her hometown who watches this show, would show disregard to her.
So glad that she has a mom in her aunt, God Bless you two ladies.
I strongly agree with you that girl has her aunt God Bless them two
Mothers like this are jealous of their daughters she is jealous of her thats how it always is. The daughter been loss respect for her by calling her by her name. I hope the daughter has a blessed life and hae nothing but opportunites to succed. The mother will get whats coming to her in the long run...
100%. She sees it as cheating, instead of a child being horrifically abused
@@onnie.6815 or competition 💯🔥
@@onnie.6815 wyd
Yes! Reminded me of the mother from the movie, "Precious." Just foul.
Yeah- I do the same I call my parents by their names since I was a child
Steve : "What do you wanna say to your mom?"
Janayjah : "I don't got nothin' to say to her, she a fool"
Indeed, she is Janayjah, indeed she is. 🤦🏾
It's mothers like these that make me thank GOD for my mother.
Omg me too, me & my mom are so close. That's my baby & I am hers.
Girl you wrong and them eyelashes wrong too!
@@paularobinson3475 BASICALLY 😂😂😂😂
@@paularobinson3475 right!!!
😂😂 fr
highlight of my day 😂😂
And the hair
SHAME ON MOM!!! ALWAYS BELIEVE YOUR KIDS
Exactly right I’ve said it many times “Always believe your kids !!!”
Yup- kids rarely like about sexual abuse. They would'nt know what to say if if had'nt happened to them. Vindictive teenage girls who know about sex might lie about rape though.
@@katefevre6222 i agree! there is absolutely no reason for children to randomly lie about something like this
@erinikco no shame on you
@@kierrajulius6501YOU ARE A PERV HOPE YOU GET INVESTIGATED AND NOT HAVE KIDS
That mother is a terrible person, her daughter wasn’t protected like she should’ve been and that is truly the saddest part.. Can we throw the mom in prison to?
charge her with being an accessory
@ChibiGirl she is not a terrible person you are
@@kierrajulius6501 what??? the mom is a terrible person and we can TELL.
I don't know if they can legally do anything at this point. It has been years since the abuse has taken place, and had the abuse been discovered when it was happening, the mother would've faced criminal charges if she was in one of the 48 states where parents could get in trouble for this.
@@kierrajulius6501u must be an abuser as well
Her mother should be thrown in prison too.
I agree 💯
👋🤠 DITTO
❤ Creeksquad HG
She should be charged as an accessory
Hell yeah I AGREE 💯
Y’all are absolutely 💯 % correct shame on the lady for real
I'm actually know Janayjah, and I'm glad she's doing good right now. She's truly a breath of fresh air.
I'm glad she's doing better. Bless her heart. I have not watched yet but I believe her. She just sat down with Steve and telling him. If your close to her please tell this beautiful child I'm so sorry and I'm proud of her and I believe her and give her a hug. I'm old now but I was raped at q2 years old. So I feel for her.
@donnayoung2150 I'm so sorry to hear bout wat happened to you. I'm sending you all the love and healing you deserve blessings💫💫💫💫🙏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾
@tee3840 thank you. That means alot.
@@lazulight4997 please hug her for me!
@@donnayoung2150bless you heart & soul ! ❤ your a warrior , sending hugs & sympathy 💐 . Hope you’re doing ok STILL !
It wasn't a text message...It was Facebook...OH YEAH, LADY, THAT MAKES A HUGE DIFFERENCE😡
She ain't no Mom...SHE'S A 🤡
I agree with you on what u said- The fact that it was Facebook was so much worse, where is the mothers shame? Posting that shit for everyone to see
@@onnie.6815RIGHT LIKE WHAT TYPE OF MOTHER WOULD SAY THAT SHIT ABOUT THEIR OWN KID??? Saying “oh you MUST of liked the abuse” like HUH??
Not a text, but on Facebook.
Yeah, that's even worse.
Makes it worse too
When your child starts calling you by your name instead of mom you know your relationship is over. She proved she didnt know but the way she handled it and talked to her daughter after afterwards is why that relationship is destroyed.
I really can’t stand “mothers” like this. They are better off without her❤
I feel bad for the daughter...
I do too that’s truly sad
Breaks my heart. This beautiful young girl had such a hard life and her egg donor of a birth mother not believing her baby. Then come out screaming at her. I just want to hug her
This poor excuse for a mother makes her daughter's pain all about herself. Notice how she said, "I was hurt!". You mean YOUR DAUGHTER was hurt? She's so incredibly dismissive of her daughter's feelings. Oof.
And the fact that that girl’s mother had the AUDACITY to post all on Facebook and say that her daughter “must of liked the abuse” LIKE WHAT TYPE OF MOTHER SAYS THAT ABOUT HER OWN CHILD??? ON FACEBOOK??? For EVERYONE TO SEE?? Like WTF???
yeah, seriously. it blew my mind with the *ahem* ¨mom¨ just casually says ¨i did apply for food stamps and your point exactly. i still have food in my home now so what´s your point?¨ what the hell does food/food stamps got to do with your daughter being raped/molested? sounds like textbook deflecting techniques on the part of the ¨mom¨. clearly a narcissist.
so sad i feel for that girl
I do too for real
"she must've liked it".. that would darken my heart if I was that mother's daughter.
I agree. That was so sick of that so called mother to say. No child likes being raped or molested. That evil lady does not know the pain of it
As a sexual abuse survivor myself, @SteveWilkosShow, I applaud Janayjah for her courage to expose the evil that she experienced at such a young age! Divine Justice will take care of the monster who did this to her!
The mom has a freshly healed scar in the middle of her forehead she's trying to cover up. She's actively living in domestic violence; her life is still out of control. That daughter should keep moving forward and not look back.
I didn’t even peep that
@niasmomma get your mom out and to somewhere safe, do it at night, I don't recall their names but there's a group of women who help women like your mom in DV situations.
I think the daughter is worried about her younger siblings.
@@MsWiccanpriestessI WOULDN'T HELP THAT EGG DONOR WITH ANYTHING. MY MOM DID THE SAME THING, STAYED WITH THE SOB BECAUSE HIS FATHER DIDN'T BELIEVE IN DIVORCE.
Mom’s a professional gas lighter, smug, arrogant…Treating the daughter like the problem when she’s a whole villain. The daughter is correct to call her by her name and not “mom”. Smh.
‼️‼️ goodness exactly
It's like she doesn't even care about her daughter or her well being, she didn't do her job as a mother, she allow her ex-boyfriend to touch her daughter in a sexual freaking manner, which is degrading, despicable and disgusting, which puts her as the worst mother ever and put behind bars for letting that happen
You cant trust no guys around your kids
This young lady saved her own life. Mature, poised, just pure loveliness despite that "mom". Praying for healing and success. ❤
Same here praying for that young lady 🙏🏾
The mother may have passed the test but she is still a terrible woman for picking her boyfriend over her daughter.
Exactly! She gets no applause from me!
“She’s a fool, she’s a hot mess” SPOT ON baby girl !!! ❤
To see that young girl cry after Steve gave her words of affirmation’s hurt and yet warms my heart. She needed to hear that.. just because bad things happen to us doesn’t mean we can’t make good and amazing things happen for us. I hope she goes on to do big things and always carrys that strength she has with her! ❤
YOU FAILED TO PROTECT YOUR DAUGHTER!!
All kids deserve parents. Not all parents deserve kids
Very True
@tonyahenry8166, THAT SHOULD BE ON A T-SHIRT!!!
@@tonyahenry8166 Factuals
I really can't blame the daughter for calling her mom by her name
That is no longer her mother
you know it's bad when kids call their mother by her government name
That woman is a terrible mother and I don't blame the daughter for not forgiving her.
I can't blame the daughter for not forgiving her own mother
@@johntaeowens1248 exactly. She's evil and heartless.
@@jeremiahcraft9054 Yep, and she'll never be amount to anything as a mother
@@johntaeowens1248 Yeah, she disowned her. The relationship is dead.
@@jeremiahcraft9054 Amen.. been there and my mother didn't believe me so we never spoke again
I cannot say this enough! Some people do NOT deserve to have children!
i used to go to school with her , i’m so proud of nay nay💕
If you talk to her. Tell that beautiful girl im so proud of her. I wish i would of been that strong.
When the daughter has more morals and maturity than the mother 💯🙄
💯
This little girl brought her mother there on purpose to make her mother feel everything she's been feeling over the years and her mama deserve every bit of it
The daughter is sooooo well spoken and mature. Keep your head up babygirl and keep fighting the good fight. I dont even know her but im proud of how far she's come, and how far she'll go.
What kind of mother lets older males sleep in her 5-year-old girl's room?! I feel so bad for Janayjah, 5 years old and had to go through that. It broke my heart when I saw her cry after Steve hugged her. 😔
I was looking for this comment because that’s what Im tripping on
The mom probably was a victim of child neglect too. Generation curses. So sad🙁😕
Shakala, would it be asking too much for you to say to your daughter, "I'm sorry?"
Power to the girl for telling the school what was going on after she realized her mom was doing nothing about the incident.
the audacity of the woman telling her kid she must have liked it is disgusting . like woman wtf. glad the man is in jail
I honestly believe she knew but she just believed it so much that she didn’t
So she basically admitted she did know and didn’t care since she said “yea my young daughter loved being abused” like wtf. Like I don’t believe she didn’t know she def suspected something
I heard that from my aunt when the police started the investigation in my case. “ Well, you must’ve liked it if you let it go on for so long “. Haven’t talked to her since. She tried once, asked my mother to hand her the phone when they were on vacation together. I told my mother I don’t want to talk to her and I didn’t. Nothing I have to say to that woman.
The fact your mother still rolls with her is crazy.
Yes. Real mothers always puts their babies 1st always. Those kind like her only put dicks n money 1st. I believed this beautiful girl as soon as she told her story. Wish I could gave her a real momma hug
13:43 atta girl well done!! 🙌🙌
My favorite part of the show “Get The Hell Off Steve’s Stage ! “
@@alskyviewerallen9665 amen!!
Poor sweet girl. Life holds better times for you 💚
I hate when mothers pick men over their children. Smh.
I know my sentiments exactly I get so mad when people do that
@@alskyviewerallen9665 It's wrong on so many levels. My mom would never pick a man over us when we were kids.
I’ll NEVER understand it. How someone could throw a child under the bus just so they can have a man to lay with. Ppl like this ALWAYS have SO MANY KIDS when there are people who would've been the BEST parents in the world can't conceive smh. I'm eternally grateful I have a mom that would rather die than pick a man over me!
Janayjah still cutting ties with Shakala for good it’s for the best 😠
He abused her 5 years to 13 years old. How can a 5 year old like it ?
the moment she sat with Steve one on one.. explaining all.. i so believed her right from the get go.
I did too. And just wanted to hug her.
7 kids no food no electric working multiple jobs leaving them with random men hell no
That Mom treated her kids bad
Just as bad as the wig she was wearing
That’s one brave, powerful girl.
Claim your power and be gentle with yourself. ❤
This is horrible. As a person that was abused as a child my mother reacted the same way. Her great comfort words were " you are not a virgin, no man is going to want you" Some people should not be parents.
@@nickg6529 I'm sorry you had to experience that.
@@shanteesmith1984 I was fortunate to have some strong women mentors in my life. But at times, I mourn the relationship I didn't have with my mom.
An amazing young beautiful girl, I wish her nothing but the best! And I’m so glad she stood up for herself against her “mom”.
I don't understand how these women move with these creeps around their daughters or sons. I struggled so mine will be safe
That is so fucked up. Not only that her step father did things to her but also his family as well smh I can't imagine that pain!!!
I am so proud of this young beautiful lady. She is so pretty and I'm glad she wants to not be like her mother. She has a great role model in her life. This young lady is strong brave and has better advice to give to her mother. I hope she continues her education and follows her dreams. I wish her the best
RAPED at 5 YEARS OLD???! WHY?! HOW could anyone do this to an innocent little girl ?!
I know right??!! How can adults have sex with children...SO EVIL WICKED SICK DISGUSTING DISTURBING and WRONG...The children are not even finished growing/fully developing yet!!! How can adults feel sexually attracted to children??!! I just can’t comprehend the thought processes of pedophiles!!!
She’s a very pretty girl. God bless her heart. Hopefully she can grow and heal from this. I was touched also. Just not to the extent of her. But it’s traumatizing to say the least. I was 7. It’s just getting easier 20 years later.
I'm sorry your also a survivor. I was also raped at 12 by 2 different men in their 20s. I'm 64 now
@@donnayoung2150 you didn't let me do that to you first when you were 12
@ayannaj7463 what you really doing
@@christophernightmare say what
Seek therapy @@christophernightmare
As someone who's been abused by my mother's boyfriend(ex now) the mother asking if the kid liked it is INSANE. I've been told by my therapist MANY times that it's okay if you liked it, as long as you know it's wrong. But it's INCREDIBLY disrespectful to fix your lips to say that, to type and post that for anyone to see.
Steve : and with that I have to say. Alika: get the hell off his stage. Steve : (calmly) get the hell off my stage. (Crowd erupts in cheers for Steve and Alika!)
How can she bark at her daughter like that poor girl had her childhood taken away from her😢
She stood on business when she called her mother by her government name 🗣️
I’m so proud of the daughter!! She’s brave and a survivor.
This girl is so beautiful and intelligent I pray she can heal. She don’t need her mother in her life especially not one like that. She’s not a mom
❤❤ the mom deserved everything they said to her idc
Hey "Mom" try being a Mom. A mother protects her children 💯 Big hugs to this survivor for speaking the truth!!! I am so proud of her! ..my own Mother put her needs above her own children (I was abused, used, exploited in ways I won't say on RUclips), & now that I am 4 months pregnant myself in my 30's about to be an actual Mother - I am horrified, & disgusted with these "Mothers".. This episode 👏
@heathergreyart what you really doing
So proud of you for putting that beast away. You deserved to be loved and protected. We all do and did.
Early… keep getting these folks justice steve. Have an amazing day everyone ❤
Always believe your child if they tell you that something is going on with someone else in an abnormal way. Children don’t know the intimate details of having a sexual relationship with someone unless it’s happening to them. Put them first before you talk to them about it because it will affect them for the rest of their lives. It’s so sad that they are both yelling at each other and they are not understanding what is going on in their lives. I can assure the mother that her little girl didn’t like being raped. How could she even say that to her daughter? Wow! 😢
One look at the "Mother" tells you everything you need to know about it!
That's the consequence of a bad parent like her, she's way too immature and made irreversable mistakes. The daughter is better off without her.
Worse mother ever.
Very heartbreaking & infuriating. The “mother’s” gaslighting, narcissistic behavior. Her attitude/defensiveness, her tape before coming on stage. She may’ve passed for her test about her daughter, but she still failed her. The nerve of her to play victim & victim blame… Glad she was addressed by her name, because she doesn’t deserve to be called a mother. My heart breaks for her siblings as well, because they’re so young. Generally speaking, so many times multiple siblings have different experiences, especially the younger ones. Sometimes they get a different side of the “parent” & end up resenting their older siblings.. and who knows what she’s telling them.. She & her older siblings were dealt a horrible hand, but it’s great to see her breaking the cycle. This woman is in extreme denial and completely delusional. I also feel for Alica as well. I don’t blame her or the daughter. If I had to deal with someone like that “mother,” I’d be yelling too. The anger, pain and hurt…
Horrible Mother!! I hope she goes to jail with him and they both rot in Hell!! Poor girl, feel so sorry for her
First off, why would a mother tell their own child that they "must have liked the abuse". That is so low, vile, and disgusting on so many levels !!! I hope karma catches up to Shakala. She doesn't deserve the title "mom"
Second, I'm so proud of Janayjah, especially for putting a stop to the abuse and cutting ties with her so-called "mother". Hope she can continue healing from this!
To sit there and have the audacity to say " you must of liked it " to your daughter through verbal or text message is CRAZY. You can tell ALOT about the mom jus knowing she says THAT to her beautiful daughter 💓
Steve is awesome
Absolutely Steve is The Man
That mother sucks. Now I was never abused as a child. However my biological mother did abandon me when I was a baby and took my older brother with her. I wish I had the guts to take her ass on national tv to confront her. If that were to happen I would also bring my older brother. I missed having a childhood with him. I would want him to confront our “mother” too. The times I did have with my brother were always fun even though we picked on each other. No woman who lets her kids be abused in anyway, abandons her kids doesn’t deserve the title mother.
Lady:Get the hell of his stage
Steve:You get the hell of my stage
Audience chants Steve's name
@@kben101 wtf are you talking about ?
@@gottlove.m1a
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8:15 you should because she IS!!! What the hell Steve?
I was kind of surprised he said that, too. She didn't deserve any kindness.
She does that all on her own
My heart breaks for this beautiful young girl. Stay strong young girl. Stay away from that egg donor so called mother
Priceless when Steve told her to get the he!! Off of his stage. The fact she wasn't even calling her mom & by her name shows I don't think she will talk to her again.
I wish I was in the live audience the day of this taping! We would catch eyelashes outside in the parking lot.
The daughter is so cute and seems so sweet.. prayers for her healing🙏🏽
Yes she is beautiful
This supposed mother is a real class act SARCASM OF COURSE !! How any mother that could allow a man to abuse a child is beyond me !! What this woman fails to grasp is that her daughter is now ruined for life,she may never trust a man enough to settle down and have kids because she may be afraid they may be abused !! Abuse is a vicious cycle and a Never ending cycle !!
Im proud of this young lady..i seen the tail end..that shes about to graduate and chose a better path and choices her mother chose
This one hit too close to home for me. My mom regularly chose an abusive drug addicted man over her kids and grandkids. Even after he left her, she was hanging out with this new dude. I told her this man was in a bed with me at 16 massaging my shoulders and I was terrified. Guess how many times he came over still after that..? It’s damaged all my memories with my mom.
11:09 "I don't think she physically knew" lol
That woman is not a parent , she doesn’t deserve to be called Mom . She should have been put in jail .
Yes, exactly 🤷🏾♀️
I wish Shakayla got flamed more- her attitude is disgusting, I believe everything that poor girl said she went through. I pray she heals from her trauma and thank goodness for her aunty being there for her
I'm so angry because when it comes to your children...DAMN the relationship. The mother could have easily gotten herself up out of that abusive relationship and SAVED HER CHILD AT THE SAME TIME!!!!!💯 People are so mf deep in the dirt, they don't even realize God threw them an anchor although they didn't even deserve it‼ Mom so mf insecure and desperate for a man, she decides to stay with him, continue to get abused, PUT HER OTHER CHILDREN IN JEOPARDY, and lose a relationship with her child. She prolly be at home asking God "why me? Help me. Please let this man stop abusing me." Welp! Missed that chance to actually do something different. 😒
It's just as bad as every other case involving kids being abused in blended households and those cases keep coming up on the news
@@tyragreene4391 now you speaking straight facts
That mothers attitude is nasty. At the very least she's guilty of neglect and she's ignoring the pain that has caused her daughter. She doesn't wanna take accountability, shes not listening to her daughter, the hair is atrocious and she doesn't deserve 1 child let alone 7.
Any man who abuse a woman or child..ain't no man at all. A lesson to all abusers out there, don't ever hit a woman or a child.. and most important of all: keep your hands to yourself.
Shakala made not known but still failed as the mother
3:40 I also know that she said it was her mother's EX. When are we going to break the cycle of women preferring to be with predators black women in particular
@@powerisknowledgeTV u threw black women in as a way to get your likes up, didn't wrk🤡
@jammiejam7898 play through the motherfuking sales and the bus acting the way they act I'm not a bootlegger like you I'll tell her how it is you always talking about unity and black this and black that but don't want to hold each other accountable when we fuk up I'm not you
She don't even call her mom she calls that woman by her first name which speaks volumes
She has zero respect for her mother and I don't blame her