@@clearvision2146 it's nice to hear when we are doing a good job :) I'm enjoying your shorts how they link back to the beginning It's nice to listen to them a few times to let it "sink in" I just watched a channel I watch for addictions and it clicked how easily someone hurt can become or fall into narcissism traits because of being addicted to that substance you would do almost anything for it and you can fall into acting like that You need to get out of that but the behaviour can remain after the addiction is gone or dealt with your sober from it but still can have that attitude Especially "covert narcissistic" people being sick and in pain using that to get what you want
New subscriber here too. Ive watched loads on this sort of subject but not seen you b4. I would like to ask, how does the narcissist become one. Can you do a video on what their childhood might have been like. How they might have been treated to become such a vile and self centred person. I would like to understand. Thank you.
Hi thanks for subscribing and taking the time to comment...I did do a video on this last year....check it out here: ruclips.net/video/RlG5Swr_FaI/видео.html
That makes sense my parents did care for me and my needs but I was also abused very early in live by someone else who watched me I was too young to remember everything and I really think drugs were involved so my brain must have been very confused and tried to learn and heal to survive that So it came up with ways to feel safer Some things I'm trying to unlearn like tantrums, isolating, fawning, Frezing, and running childhood PTSD I can see the connection here
I'm feeling useless right now because I can't help the guys do work I'm not being included at all but I really don't want to be anyway but I'm feeling lonely I'm feeling like having a tantrum or something so I'm watching this video 😂I'm trying I really am trying to fight this behavior I do have my own things but the only one who knows the work I do is me and really I don't get thank yous or acknowledgement I did anything at all House work and garden work important but not a big deal no one notices or cares that's what it feels like The guys do the big important things that I can't be involved in they don't want me around
@@wildedibles819 Every week without fail you share your insights and experience and your current journey. I really appreciate that you do this...maybe one day we will meet. I really think your shares are a testament to just how far you have come and how much work you do on yourself without ever backing down.
@@clearvision2146 thank you I kinda had a tantrum today but kinda not Someone was trying to blame me for doing a bad job even though they told me to do it that way. They had a tantrum I think that mirror stuff your talking about was happening I stood my ground and told them I learned from them and they said everything I was doing was good and they conterdict themselves more times than the Bible does I don't think I had a tantrum I think I just finally had the courage to stand up for myself Boundaries are confusing and I think tomorrow might be way worse because this person does not apologize I don't need to hear one but I will be leaning towards him being a narcissistic person if he does not We will see but I think I'm being used and played with I don't like it
I was so exhausted and drained thinking my narcissistic mother would change and decades went by and she's still a malignant narcissist, I gave up and no longer care about her after what she has put me through and stolen from me, she is evil to the core, us empaths cannot change the narcissist no matter how much we love them or care and want was best for them they do not change!!! I'm done!!!
Well Narcs lack empathy, they only fake it, its a main trait, If you were a full Narc I very much doubt you would be commenting in such a way or at all
L..o l...I gotta laugh,I grew up before social media,I have friends that know me my whole life,one thing. That saved me from getting murdered by a family of 5 narcissist people cause I would go against them,I'm gonna go incognito awhile,some you tube channels😮 starting to rub mee the wrong way,I'm not easily swayed by all these everyday non expert average people's thinking they know everything...I think for myself,and take things to heart from the people who's lives I've touched in a positive way...and didn't want anything in return.I know who I am....music and bands speak more truth to me.....
No boundaries put in place as we take for granted everyone is nice and cares ,we learn the hard way thats not so❤
Hola thank you for sharing your insights and experience, we do tend to learn and grow through adversity this is true
I don’t know what I am but this is interesting!!
Your open honesty made me smile, thank you for taking the time to comment and I am glad you have found the video interesting
Very insightful, having grace with yourself is good
Thanks for commenting its really appreciated, warming to read you found it insightful
Take stock of yourself 👍
Wow great videos
Congratulations
it is a great subject and popular right now too
Thank you very much for saying so and for commenting as always... Its appreciated
@@clearvision2146 it's nice to hear when we are doing a good job :)
I'm enjoying your shorts how they link back to the beginning
It's nice to listen to them a few times to let it "sink in"
I just watched a channel I watch for addictions and it clicked how easily someone hurt can become or fall into narcissism traits because of being addicted to that substance you would do almost anything for it and you can fall into acting like that
You need to get out of that but the behaviour can remain after the addiction is gone or dealt with your sober from it but still can have that attitude
Especially "covert narcissistic" people being sick and in pain using that to get what you want
You nailed everything incredibly in the most clearest ways ty❤God bless you
thank you so much for taking the time to say so...its hugely appreciated. I am glad to read you you got something from the video...take care
Thank you ❤
You're welcome
Empath from secure upbringing, meets narcissist from poor upbringing, empath has security from faith so not highly fearful of anything = checkmate.😮
Indeed, I am sure such an empath would take very little time in deciding to walk away
Wow. Great video. I really enjoyed this video. New subscriber here today. Thank you.
Muchas gracias, and thank you for subscribing and the lovely feedback!
New subscriber here too. Ive watched loads on this sort of subject but not seen you b4. I would like to ask, how does the narcissist become one. Can you do a video on what their childhood might have been like. How they might have been treated to become such a vile and self centred person. I would like to understand. Thank you.
If you have watched loads - wouldn’t you know how Narcs are created 😏
Hi thanks for subscribing and taking the time to comment...I did do a video on this last year....check it out here:
ruclips.net/video/RlG5Swr_FaI/видео.html
Thanks I appreciate it I'm an empath but one who was abused by a narcissistic partner
Yes gift/curse definitely
That makes sense my parents did care for me and my needs but I was also abused very early in live by someone else who watched me
I was too young to remember everything and I really think drugs were involved so my brain must have been very confused and tried to learn and heal to survive that
So it came up with ways to feel safer
Some things I'm trying to unlearn like tantrums, isolating, fawning, Frezing, and running childhood PTSD
I can see the connection here
I'm feeling useless right now because I can't help the guys do work
I'm not being included at all but I really don't want to be anyway but I'm feeling lonely
I'm feeling like having a tantrum or something so I'm watching this video 😂I'm trying I really am trying to fight this behavior
I do have my own things but the only one who knows the work I do is me and really I don't get thank yous or acknowledgement I did anything at all
House work and garden work important but not a big deal no one notices or cares that's what it feels like
The guys do the big important things that I can't be involved in they don't want me around
@@wildedibles819 Every week without fail you share your insights and experience and your current journey. I really appreciate that you do this...maybe one day we will meet. I really think your shares are a testament to just how far you have come and how much work you do on yourself without ever backing down.
@@clearvision2146 thank you
I kinda had a tantrum today but kinda not
Someone was trying to blame me for doing a bad job even though they told me to do it that way.
They had a tantrum I think that mirror stuff your talking about was happening
I stood my ground and told them I learned from them and they said everything I was doing was good and they conterdict themselves more times than the Bible does
I don't think I had a tantrum I think I just finally had the courage to stand up for myself
Boundaries are confusing and I think tomorrow might be way worse because this person does not apologize
I don't need to hear one but I will be leaning towards him being a narcissistic person if he does not
We will see but I think I'm being used and played with
I don't like it
I was so exhausted and drained thinking my narcissistic mother would change and decades went by and she's still a malignant narcissist, I gave up and no longer care about her after what she has put me through and stolen from me, she is evil to the core, us empaths cannot change the narcissist no matter how much we love them or care and want was best for them they do not change!!! I'm done!!!
I think I might be both
Well Narcs lack empathy, they only fake it, its a main trait, If you were a full Narc I very much doubt you would be commenting in such a way or at all
👍👍
Gracias :)
L..o l...I gotta laugh,I grew up before social media,I have friends that know me my whole life,one thing. That saved me from getting murdered by a family of 5 narcissist people cause I would go against them,I'm gonna go incognito awhile,some you tube channels😮 starting to rub mee the wrong way,I'm not easily swayed by all these everyday non expert average people's thinking they know everything...I think for myself,and take things to heart from the people who's lives I've touched in a positive way...and didn't want anything in return.I know who I am....music and bands speak more truth to me.....
Hola, thanks for sharing your insights and experience and for taking the time to comment, glad to read you found your own way through it all.