Natural Hair DISASTER!? Mini twists takedown + WASH DAY after 2 MONTHS!! | VLOG

Поделиться
HTML-код
  • Опубликовано: 23 май 2023
  • Go to our sponsor betterhelp.com/Chizi for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with a therapist who will listen and help! betterhelp.com/chizi
    Drop any sunscreen recommendations in the comments!
    Kokomo NYC - 65 Kent Ave, Brooklyn, NY 11249
    All products mentioned in the video listed here:
    Ninja Blender - go.magik.ly/ml/1tiv7/
    Organic Vegan Vanilla Protein Powder - amzn.to/3UPs5Lq
    L-Glutamine Powder - amzn.to/3Acvjz7
    Green Superfood Alkalize + Detox - amzn.to/430c8F5
    Reusable Silicone Bag - amzn.to/3My1b8m
    YSL Libre Eau De Parfum - rstyle.me/+W1yZ4ZAg_SGvHEKfDO...
    YSL Black Opium Eau de Parfum - go.magik.ly/ml/1sudf/
    Absolute Joi Cleansing Oil - amzn.to/3M9ZyMO
    Gentle Foaming Moisturizing Wash - amzn.to/3p4vUjW
    Glycolic B5 Dark Spot Corrector - rstyle.me/+bvESAd5eCCl7yxSPV1...
    Double Repair Face Moisturizer - rstyle.me/+rkLGKTCFG9iiTB8yDj...
    Detangling Spray - amzn.to/3Ilnb3
    Metal Detox Shampoo - amzn.to/3AHnLEO
    Detangling Brush - amzn.to/432g87X
    Let's Be Friends!
    Instagram➟ / chiziduru
    Twitter➟ / chiziduru
    Tiktok➟ / chiziduru
    Pinterest ➟ / chiziduru
    TheDuruFamily Tiktok ➟ www.tiktok.com/@thedurufamily...
    The DuruFamily IG ➟ / thedurufamily_
    MY MOST RECENT UPLOADS
    Productive week with me ➟ • Productive week in my ...
    Life with God, mini twists, healthy eating habits, staying motivated | weekly VLOG ➟ • life with God, mini tw...
    Getting Locs? Resetting my life, Back in the Gym, Faith Journey | Day In The Life VLOG ➟ • Getting Locs? Resettin...
    MY MOST POPULAR VIDEOS
    Salon Visit | Wash & Go on 4C Natural Hair ➟ • Salon Visit| Wash & Go...
    White Mom Natural Hiar Care Routine for Black Child (Type 4a/4b/4c) reaction ➟ • WHITE MOM NATURAL HAIR...
    Asian Mom Straightens Natural Hair for Biracial Kids ➟ • ASIAN MOM STRAIGHTENS ...
    Business Inquiries? Music Submissions?
    chizi@kensingtongrey.co (SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY)
  • РазвлеченияРазвлечения

Комментарии • 119

  • @TheMademoizelcoco
    @TheMademoizelcoco Год назад +171

    I honeslty cracked the code for mini twists. I wash and deep condition my twists weekly in twists but divide my hair in 4 parts and then retwist a different quarter after each washday. This way my scalp is clear, i dont dread retwisting it all in one sitting and my hair is hydrated

    • @lilcutie5082
      @lilcutie5082 Год назад +18

      This is so smart. I never thought about retwisting bit by bit

    • @globisdead
      @globisdead Год назад +6

      Yoo this is great

    • @zooweellama
      @zooweellama Год назад +14

      But don’t one of the sections get washed over and over without being retwisted yet? So it would be one section that hasn’t been retwisted for almost month but has been washed 3 times if that make sense. I feel like for my hair the moment my twist touch water they have to be retwisted Immediately and wouldn’t survive multiple washes without being retwisted 😂

    • @TheMademoizelcoco
      @TheMademoizelcoco Год назад +7

      @@zooweellama personally 3 weeks doesnt matte my hair so it works. feel free to maybe just do half your hair instead of 4 parts at every wash day. i also redo the perimeter every 2 weeks anyways

    • @ifeyinwa_morenike
      @ifeyinwa_morenike Год назад +9

      This system makes so much sense!! I love mini twists, but whenever I leave it in for a month or more it starts to lock up. It’s really frustrating because I’m pretty sure it not good for my hair and it kinda defies the whole point of mini twists as a great protective style. Thank you, I will definitely try this!❤

  • @litchielitch0323
    @litchielitch0323 Год назад +42

    I wear twists under my wig as a protective style and wash it in big twist too. It started out as an accident from being too busy and now I have long heathy hair.

  • @MickieJay
    @MickieJay Год назад +97

    I feel you on this Chizi. My hair is quick to loc up in twists if I'm not careful. Two months for me and they will definitely be locs. 😂

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 Год назад +14

      The way my hair is set up....locs in 3 to 4 weeks....except for that weird patch at my nape that is Type 2c for absolutely no reason when the rest of my hair is 4c. 🤣🤣 I'm convinced God created my clown life for entertainment purposes only. 😅😅😅

    • @paulacunningham7956
      @paulacunningham7956 Год назад

      Me too

  • @EsiriE
    @EsiriE Год назад +65

    Braids definitely don’t protect my hair either! It’s that added hair rubbing and tugging at our hair.
    What I do now, bigger twists and just re twisting and re moisturising after like a week and a half to avoid excess knotting and drying. I’ll just do a bunch per day so it doesn’t stress me out 😅 I wear a headband wig and scarfs to the gym.
    I still wash and condition my hair in the twists though.
    Also, taking down the twists with product to lessen breakage too.

    • @shachede6828
      @shachede6828 5 месяцев назад

      Not me, braids work for me 😂

  • @user-wt9xm6xz6l
    @user-wt9xm6xz6l Год назад +17

    When you do mini twists and braids as a protective hair style you still have to take care of it. Moisturize it few times per week, wash and deep condition the braids regularly. Keeping the braids stretched helps a lot, you can keep it stretched by using a blow dryer on cool or low heat, putting them in big braids at night, buns, bantu knots. I’ve been wearing twists and braids under my wigs and I’ve seen a big difference in the thickness of my hair, just make sure to take them down properly and detangle patiently.

    • @LisePlansandJournals
      @LisePlansandJournals 11 месяцев назад +2

      Too often we neglect hair when it’s under a protective style.

  • @marcybeasley3766
    @marcybeasley3766 Год назад +26

    Proud of you darlin for sharing at church. Its a hard thing to decide to do and even harder to put yourself out there. When you are ready would love to hear what you have to say!!!

  • @purplations869
    @purplations869 Год назад +14

    Girl, when you have your hair in twists everybody is gonna start talking about it dreading up "Oh your getting locs?" But i easily have them in for two months. They keep my hair stretched and... Detangled! But everyone's hair is definitely different! So what works for one might not work for another.

  • @cecechampion4
    @cecechampion4 Год назад +22

    I’m not an expert when it comes to hair. I currently have mini twists, it's helpful to put some conditioner, aloe vera juice(works for my hair) to soften the hair and won’t be as challenging taking them down.

  • @1GoldenBreeze
    @1GoldenBreeze Год назад +4

    It's a blessing that you can now give a testimony in church. I pray that you continue to grow spiritually for years to come.🙏💜
    I'm stressed putting in eight twists to do a twisted updo once or twice a year. I can't even imagine doing mini-twists. Plus my scalp couldn't handle it I'm too tinder-headed. In addition to hair, everyone's routine and hairstyle choices are different. Due to having CCCA, I shampoo twice a week, and it has made my hair care so easy because I don't have to deal with a lot of tangles and my hair stays hydrated.

  • @AmakaN.
    @AmakaN. Год назад +12

    Such a cute mini vloggy Vlog chizi.
    May your testimony remain permanent in your life 🙏🏽

  • @annawalcott7487
    @annawalcott7487 Год назад +46

    Your hair definitely grew . Would love to see the blowout.

  • @shullamiteakua
    @shullamiteakua Год назад +36

    The mini twist looked so good on you Chizi! Y’all I looooved my mini twist. I kept them in for 3 mo🫣take down was a little rough lol BUT the results 😍🤌🏿 talk about length retention + new growth! Probably will do a reinstall in the near future. God willing

    • @ChiziDuru
      @ChiziDuru  Год назад +6

      3 months?!?! haha I definitely would've had locs, love that for you!

  • @riquitataylor866
    @riquitataylor866 Год назад +6

    Super dope video! Can’t wait to hear your full testimony. Be encouraged. 💋

  • @Shabbiechic
    @Shabbiechic Год назад +5

    Hi Chizi, I wish your vlogs were longer because I just love you and your vlogs!

  • @xenawright3872
    @xenawright3872 Год назад +3

    hiii ur channel is so awesome :) thank you for all u do!

  • @PreciousOne777
    @PreciousOne777 Год назад +30

    Water or a pre poo to help detangle the hair would have helped when you got ready to take down your twist...😊

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 Год назад +6

      Definitely, not water....oil, butter, store-bought detangler/pre-poo. Conditioner can be hit or miss when it comes to detangling.

    • @OLUWAFAYOKEMI
      @OLUWAFAYOKEMI Год назад

      The fact that there is poo in the name 😂

    • @LisePlansandJournals
      @LisePlansandJournals 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@OLUWAFAYOKEMIpre poo is a decades old term in the natural hair space online. It’s short for pre-shampoo

    • @LisePlansandJournals
      @LisePlansandJournals 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@marleyhill34water & glycerin in a bottle would’ve softened her hit right up.

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 11 месяцев назад

      @@LisePlansandJournals definitely not tap water or bottled water. Distilled water.

  • @saltedstella
    @saltedstella Год назад +12

    not me seeing this right after day 2 of taking down my own 2 month old mini twists😭

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 Год назад

      I'm stretching only to 2 weeks because I know my trichologists will slap me if I try this 2 month thing.

  • @celineabessolo
    @celineabessolo Год назад +1

    haven't watched youtube/your videos for about a year now. had forgotten that you make me laugh! thanks for the good time ♥

  • @wambuimwania
    @wambuimwania Год назад +2

    Aw men,,, really love this for you Chizi. Amen to sharing you testimony because we overcome by the blood of the lamb and the power of our testimony!!

  • @nadzchotz
    @nadzchotz Год назад +1

    Chizi!!!😃😃😃 always happy to watch your videos ❤❤❤

  • @liyahliy6894
    @liyahliy6894 Год назад +3

    I’ve been doing crochet locs a couple styles in a row and letting my hair rest for like 2 months in between and my hair has really recovered nicely. Probably because there isn’t so much tension on my strands as often anymore. I learned how to do it myself so I wouldn’t have to spend so much money. I get my braids done once in a blue moon just because I don’t always have the time to spend 2 days on my hair 😅

  • @Krinique
    @Krinique Год назад +2

    I found doing shmini twists like medium ish is also great and I just wash in them and retwist in sections every 3 weeks if I want to keep them long term works pretty well

  • @adaezeobasi8105
    @adaezeobasi8105 Год назад +3

    love you chizi ❤❤❤ your so pretty❤❤

  • @thejesseduel3876
    @thejesseduel3876 Год назад +5

    Girl that food looks amazing

  • @MoniMeka
    @MoniMeka 4 месяца назад

    I love your hair! ❤❤❤

  • @LefenyoEveryday
    @LefenyoEveryday Год назад +1

    I’m like you, I wear making up because that ensures I do my nighttime skincare routine 😂😂

  • @kateacheampong2558
    @kateacheampong2558 Год назад +8

    4c squad let's gather here for group selfie 🤳💕🇬🇭

  • @omastime
    @omastime Год назад

    Oh wow.
    I am here again to watch and probably learn
    ☺️

  • @clemence8026
    @clemence8026 Год назад +2

    Thanking God for you Chizi! You're love of Jesus is encouraging and uplifting. I'm so happy that you were able to share your testimony at church. And just so you realize it was supposed to happen exactly on this day. But I'm most positive you know that! 😊 Sending prayers over your life that God continues to guide you on this journey called life and that you continue to depend on Jesus for Everything!

  • @Aniexo_
    @Aniexo_ Год назад +4

    Lmfaoo Chizi before I finish this please tell me it wasn’t that bad! Bc I’ve had my twist in for a month & I wanna go another month. 🤣 but I keep mine stretched in two big braids so they’re not locking. I haven’t finished this video yet. Depending on the ending of the video ima either keep them in our take them out ASAP!

  • @indriadrayton1132
    @indriadrayton1132 Год назад +2

    But.... they are the best way to start locs! 😮 I had awesome locs when I decided to let my twists stay. Had them for 8 years, then cut them off. Now, I am rocking a twa/ pixie that is a white and black tonal fantasy. Love your hair, ladies, in all its stages! Remember Who made your hair!! Love Him, too!!!

  • @BrandiSB95
    @BrandiSB95 Год назад +3

    😂I did this same thing one time and mine was loching in some places 🤣🤣 abt to put some more in

  • @brookebellamy9864
    @brookebellamy9864 Год назад

    & hair grew! Imma try it next

  • @Fallon_rogerz
    @Fallon_rogerz Год назад +3

    I did mini twist 2 weeks ago and it’s starting to loc lol
    My ends are very curly, I put water everyday to style and I’m taking it out Sunday lol
    I wanted to loc but the more it locs I’m like maybe not now 😂😂😂

  • @anneb6262
    @anneb6262 Год назад +3

    Sunscreen recommendations: black girl sunscreen

  • @christine_muts
    @christine_muts Год назад +1

    Yup, i'm definitelty doing the mini twists cause i'm not feeling braids anymore

  • @risenshineofficial
    @risenshineofficial Год назад

    Sisssss!!!!😂 WHY IS THIS ME!?!?!? lol if I leave mine for more than 3 week loc'd especially while washing. I now add hair a bit and it keeps it without locking much longer 3 months 😊 loved the video and your hair is pretty, new subbie❤

  • @jeanninegorden8142
    @jeanninegorden8142 Год назад

    The packaging for the protein and meal replacement look so similar. I use the protein + greens variety.

  • @ran_tastic
    @ran_tastic Год назад

    Girl you so funny lol Love you 💕

  • @ForevaLaTrelle
    @ForevaLaTrelle Год назад +1

    I love mini twists. Got some in now. I never do over a month tho for this very reason😂

  • @omastime
    @omastime Год назад

    Your workouts is showing ooh
    Well done work😊

  • @vinylwaif
    @vinylwaif Год назад +3

    My hair does the exact same within 1-2 months. Looks exactly like yours. But I think I actually want locs now ….😂 so I’ll just let it happen.

  • @Tamisvideodiary
    @Tamisvideodiary Год назад +3

    We overcome by the word of our testimony. Jesus is amazing!! Love you Chizi and glad you loved the Jamaican food❤

  • @ashleyd8412
    @ashleyd8412 Год назад +2

    Where is the Jamaican spot with the sweet chili chicken??!

  • @Mrs.CryssieJ
    @Mrs.CryssieJ Год назад +2

    Your hair looks good Chizi,can you just past some food thru the phone lol,❤😊

  • @kmg9359
    @kmg9359 Год назад +2

    hi besties

  • @jenniferjeffreys6829
    @jenniferjeffreys6829 3 месяца назад

    Hello Chizi,
    please where can I get the comb you are using to take down your twist?

  • @sherreesecoleman5241
    @sherreesecoleman5241 Год назад +4

    If I don't where makeup I skip my skin care routine too 😂

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 Год назад +2

      no no....we not about to be ashy, sun damaged, hyperpigmented and wrinkled over here.😅😅...or at least in my case not until I'm 60-something. Lol! I'm only nearly 42 I still need to look fresh...so I can catch a toyboy.🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Foodidlifeyo
    @Foodidlifeyo Год назад +2

    So you going to tell us the name of the Jamaican spot 😅! That food looks too good

  • @delindawilliams3935
    @delindawilliams3935 Год назад

    😂😂😂😂Seeing you laying there, taking your hair out, I started laughing. That's how I take my twists out. The easiest way for me is to wet my hair and I can just slip my finger between the strands. I prefer to twist my hair than to take it out(it's about the length of time to take them out). I can imagine the water feeling so wonderful, especially it being warm and soothing while massaging the scalp.

  • @ClassyDdiamond
    @ClassyDdiamond 10 месяцев назад +1

    I do mini twist all the time. Deep conditioner every week. L.o.c with grease. And retwist every 2-3 weeks. If I don’t then taking it out is horror because it will loc.

  • @ebonysweetnesssweetness5153
    @ebonysweetnesssweetness5153 Год назад +1

    I thought you was blending the ingredients to make a hair mask to aid with you taking down your twists. I was surprised when I saw you drink the blend. I personally do not put and do not intend to use acid on my skin - I'm a natural moisturiser on my face kinda gal - coconut oil or shea butter all the way. I totally agree with you about water and our hair it loves it - it just takes a while to dress it up afterwards.

  • @Erybma3240
    @Erybma3240 Год назад +7

    A good detangle spray/cream and a comb!!! 👏🏽👏🏽

  • @sherreesecoleman5241
    @sherreesecoleman5241 Год назад +1

    If you don't mind me asking what church do you go to?

  • @hawtnsweet
    @hawtnsweet Год назад +6

    If I may suggest - next time get at least 200-250 twists done using a very versatile grid (make sure the grid is poppin and can be styled any which way) and then you can leave it for 12 weeks, knowing that the worst that would happen is that they'd turn into microlocs. The best would be that you could still take them out after 12 weeks with a good conditioner. Trust me, 4c hair takes WAAAAYYY longer to loc than people think. Just ask people who started their locs with twists or braids. Some people still struggle to loc after 6 months. Plus I've seen people take down locs started with twists after 2 solid years.

  • @Dhestroyer13
    @Dhestroyer13 Год назад +3

    @chizi I tried your smoked salmon and cream cheese sandwich. GIRL!!! It was so GOOD!!! Thank you for sharing that ❤

    • @ChiziDuru
      @ChiziDuru  Год назад +2

      yayyy glad you liked it!

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 Год назад

      This is a common British Sandwich...lol!

    • @Dhestroyer13
      @Dhestroyer13 Год назад +1

      @@marleyhill34 unfortunately I’m not British and I don’t live anywhere near there. I’ve had bagels and lox before but never on a sandwich and definitely not cooked. If this is standard please let me come live there! I get on well with others, have all my shots, and am potty trained! #saveme

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 Год назад +2

      @@Dhestroyer13 Lol! and we got free health care over here too. and when you call the cops they don't try to shoot you first and ask questions later. Lol!

    • @Dhestroyer13
      @Dhestroyer13 Год назад +2

      @@marleyhill34 so jealous. Sounds great 😊

  • @juanitaincognitamcleod7602
    @juanitaincognitamcleod7602 Год назад

    Hi Chizi!! Can you share the song info at 2:00?

  • @sarahmath9433
    @sarahmath9433 Год назад +1

    18:54 The look of despair has set in

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 Год назад

      The laugh of despair at 0:33 😅😅😅

  • @taina_christina
    @taina_christina Год назад +1

    When you don’t know about locs. It doesn’t take 2 months to loc even when you are actually trying to loc them. And even locs are not considered mature until a year or more. Now will there be tangles, yes but even before I was Loc’d I loved having twist in for the ease. Now take down was always a different story lol but love them and also yay for sharing your testimony. One thing God will do is change your life.

  • @marleyhill34
    @marleyhill34 Год назад +1

    So I have small twists in my hair.....I'ma take them down after two weeks because I'm not looking for locs. Lol! I'm scared of pure acids. not happening until a dermatologist/plastic surgeon tells me I need it.

  • @lindseymorgan1698
    @lindseymorgan1698 Год назад

    Natural hair is a lot of work I definitely understand the struggle😪

  • @skoorbjax
    @skoorbjax Год назад +2

    I need that chicken in my life....what's the name of the spot pls????

  • @amplifieddiva6435
    @amplifieddiva6435 Год назад

    I enjoyed your hair journey, 22nd Century Natural Products line has the best detox system for our hair. After I tried it, my hair texture completely changed. Only a few naturals know about this line, its kind of a big secret of the pros...lol. no chemicals and made by hand. my hair has never been shinier along with growth. Yow need to check her out especially if you're having problems with your hair. Good luck on your journey!

  • @NIJEECAPRICORN23
    @NIJEECAPRICORN23 Год назад +1

    Wow your hair grew alot ❤❤❤

  • @stephj.4317
    @stephj.4317 Год назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @taniaderolus6705
    @taniaderolus6705 9 месяцев назад

    Chizi truly my dream is to meet you, and for you to be my big sis. 🥺♥️

  • @rutho.6282
    @rutho.6282 Год назад

    Disaster? Your hair looks great

  • @I_am_blessed_forever7266
    @I_am_blessed_forever7266 Год назад +2

    Beautiful 😊😍❤🥰👌🏿

  • @mydestiny84
    @mydestiny84 Год назад +2

    I love that you are making a stand for Jesus. I will be liking every sponsored video because when you serve this boss He will pay you well and owe you nothing😊

  • @Ebizzill
    @Ebizzill Год назад

    the lord has grace on you ,because for me making friends as an adult is H A R D DDDD

  • @k.karmas1126
    @k.karmas1126 Год назад

    This is my life right now😢

  • @niaswain8406
    @niaswain8406 Год назад +2

    ❤❤❤ would love too see your blowout n love your hair, it definitely grew 😊😊

  • @oyekanmieniolanaheemat3063
    @oyekanmieniolanaheemat3063 Год назад +1

    Using a rat tail js not ideal for hair type nd you detangled completely dry hair.

  • @mydestiny84
    @mydestiny84 Год назад +1

    Oh what are you writing?

  • @taniaderolus6705
    @taniaderolus6705 9 месяцев назад

    2 hr

  • @yasminheskey8981
    @yasminheskey8981 3 месяца назад

    Two months girl 😂😂😂 3 week the max

  • @user-um7tw6kx4r6
    @user-um7tw6kx4r6 Год назад +2

    Sis it's a very bad idea to wash your hair loose, and even worse, to pull a brush through it. You are maximizing the drying and damaging of your poor hair. It probably breaks so much it will take forever to get long.

  • @brooklynforever1990
    @brooklynforever1990 Год назад

    People need to be more honest. I’m 40lbs overweight and it’s not comfortable much less if I was morbidly obese. Now overweight people shouldn’t be disrespected but some frank truths is fair.

  • @danai7857
    @danai7857 Год назад

    2 hours to take the twists down is my guess

  • @nelva3771
    @nelva3771 Год назад

    Yeah I tried mini twists once and it was dry all the time and my hair didn’t like it.

  • @Bianca.Nceeee
    @Bianca.Nceeee Год назад

    6weeks is safe longer is risky 😂.

  • @erica2060
    @erica2060 Год назад

    2 days to detangle and take down lol

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 Год назад

      I have small twists and my hair is shorter...I'm about to cut off more too...I'm tired of detangling my entire head!!

  • @Dakotah-to4ds
    @Dakotah-to4ds Год назад

    I hope you’re using the metal detox cus you have hard water ……

  • @sherreesecoleman5241
    @sherreesecoleman5241 Год назад +1

    I think it's going to take you 2 hours to take your twist down

  • @nordicpink
    @nordicpink Год назад +5

    Not her going straight in with that metal rat tail on dry hair.😨

    • @nancykerrigan
      @nancykerrigan Год назад +3

      How do you know she didn't moisturize it. She had a detangling spray.

    • @nordicpink
      @nordicpink Год назад +1

      @@nancykerrigan it looked very dry, but her texture could be hiding the fact that it’s moisturized.🤷‍♀️

  • @philtoner2621
    @philtoner2621 10 месяцев назад

    2 months 🤮

  • @kikikiki6149
    @kikikiki6149 Год назад

    better help is so bad pls avoid if you can !!

  • @littleleah310
    @littleleah310 Год назад

    pls dont use betterhelp, theyre NOT lisenced do your research

  • @marleyhill34
    @marleyhill34 Год назад +4

    Uh ok...better help. I know people are going to come and say bad things about better help. I've had different types of therapies for 20 years. I was impressed with better help. However please do your research on what type of therapy you want and please utilise the groups on BetterHelp....Please do not be come co-dependent on you BetterHelp therapist. My therapist actually is going on vacation and I have crisis support and in person support in place on top of the betterhelp groups. Please also do not expect your therapist to be a miracle worker. Most cannot help you with every aspect of your conditions. I have complex PTSD, personality disorder and autistic traits. it is unrealistic to expect one therapist to fix all of that. Same for domestic abuse, dysfunctional family of orgin, rape and Sexual assault, bereavement, bullying, physical disability etc. You may need lots of different therapies with lots of different therapists. Some therapists are only qualified to deal with mild depression and anxiety....they should not be treating personality disorder. Also do not allow your therapist to isolate you from the rest of society and do not dump everything on your therapists. Therapists are human and can suffer burnout and there are some therapists who are straight up predators. This happens with online therapy and offline therapy. Stay alert and connected. Change therapists if you have to.