What Happens to Relationships in the Afterlife?
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- Опубликовано: 14 окт 2019
- Do bad relationships stay bad? Do you have be with others? Do conflicts get resolved? How does it all work on "the Other Side"? Learn about relationships in the afterlife with Psychic Medium and teacher Amy Utsman.
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I met my wife when we were 7 yrs old. I can't see myself without her.
I met my partner 12 years ago n I miss him so much. I too can't see my life without him
I met my soulmate 32 years ago, absolutely the LOVE of my life, my very reason for being born and coming into this experience. He passed away 23 years ago, the total shock, soul shattering grief & heartache are so heavy and still so raw. Then 5 years ago I started to FEEL him around me, I can’t explain it but I just knew he was there, right next to me on my right side. Mind you he passed 23 years ago, I’ve since re-married and have a son from this marriage. My soulmate and I share twin daughters and now 2 grandsons. 4 years ago one of our twins passed away (the mother of the boys) I’ve since come to KNOW (it’s a certain feeling) that my soulmate came to comfort, support & love me through her passing because he knew before I did that she was going to transition and he also knew that I wouldn’t be able to survive such an insurmountable loss. First him then her....for such a longggg time I was so heavyyy with grief until recently. I’m still going to struggle a little I’m sure but I know as sure I’m standing here typing all of this out that they are RIGHT HERE!!! Yes their bodies died but they’re stillll very much here just unseen!!! The indescribable love lives on, that energy lives on!! Crazy I know but so very very true!!
I just wanted to lyk all know that their loved ones will quite literally always be with them & now that I know this with every fiber of my being I just want to help someone else who is grieving because their loved ones are trying to send them signs but they’re missing the signs because of the grief. It’s literally A WHOLE NEW WORLD ♥️🙏🥰🌞🧚🏼♂️
👋Hi Robert,
Something I like is when I hear "God heals the world two by two."
Like Noah's Ark 🚢
@Robert Stovall- You met her WAY before you were 7. Your kind of love comes way before you came to Earth.
I lost my 18 year old daughter almost three years ago. The pain of loosing a child is almost unbearable. I have found Amy very informative. I really appreciate her giving back to us by putting this information on the internet. ❤️
Hi Michelle, I am so sorry your daughter transitioned so soon. I am glad you found the video helpful. Here are two not for profit organizations s that may be helpful to you and your family - if you are not aware of them. All of the best, Amy. Helping Parents Heal: www.helpingparentsheal.org/ and the Forever Family Foundation www.foreverfamilyfoundation.org/
I know that grief! My son was 18. Time will help. It brought me closer to God and that was a great gift! NDE vids have helped tremendously.
Thank you for your kind words.
I’m So Incredibly Sorry Sweetheart, I can’t tell you just how sorry I am that you’re going through this. THAT pain IS most definitely unbearable!!!! So much so that I still don’t believe it, it’s like my brain & heart are telling me it never happened because I can not deal with my daughter passing 4 years ago. I lost my soulmate 23 years ago and I STILLL do (right now, as I’m typing this) he’s always right beside me, on my right side. I started to FEEL him around me 5 years ago and I thought this is strangest thing, why do I feel with everything in me that he is right here? Like...wtf is happening and why!? & I think I know why now. He knew before I did that our daughter was going to pass away, he came to comfort me, love me & walk me through it. This I KNOW for sure, LOVE DOES NOT DIE....ITS ETERNAL ♥️♥️
That would be amazing if bereaved parents could get into their children in spirit Instagram accounts.
Amy, I lost my beautiful husband of 41 years 11 months ago. We were inseparable. Loved one another in a way that is rare. Will we continue our marriage and love when I finally transition? I don't want anyone else. He was my one and only. Thank you.
Jim, sure you will be together!
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This just popped up in recommendations, and I really enjoyed it. I had not seen this channel before. Thank you!
I am glad you are enjoying my channel. Thank you for taking the time to comment. All of the best to you and your family
I think you are wonderful. I listened to your moving testimony (different video) and your raw honesty is genuinely inspiring. You are just the help I need.
Thank you Melinda. All of the best to you and your family, Amy
My husband has transitioned & I feel his love now more than I did when he was alive. His presence is constant & he gives me so much strength. I am truly humbled & hounered by this experience. I can't believe he choose to continue loving me even from the other side of the veil. I truly hope I can make him proud cause he sure continues to do that for me. ❤️
Hello and good morning. Thank you for providing validation in this video. This makes me feel better.🙏
@@BAKER22-l4u No one asked you! Kindly move along!
Hardly knew my Austrian family from my Mothers side, most have passed over, I hope that I can be with them, get to know them when I pass. Thank You.
I have "met" some of my family that I didn't know as well. They have joined family I did know and I have been introduced to them. No reason you wouldn't meet up with your Austrian family.
thank you so much for speaking about this. i found your video by case on youtube because i’m going through a terrible breakup with my ex partner in which i realize the reason why i feel so devastated it’s because i kinda used his sweet and kind figure to replace the one of my dear grandma who died years ago. she was my everything. and i guess i’m still not over her death if i made the mistake to try to replace her absence with someone else. i hope i’ll be able to connect with her soon.
I love you so much , why? Cause you are so, so natural , so sincere and so humble. It's like I,m listening to my bestie . You are difinitely the real deal in my opinion. Keep up the great work.❤❤❤
You are good, and thankyou for not having this american noicy music in the background! My right man,my twin soul,died 9months ago after 20 years of illness,heartdesiece,his body could not make anymore.but he comes to me nearly fysical once in the month,hugs me,and when i concentrate i see him in my mind,his face is floating towards me in some indigo colour,smiling,. and maybe i am mad,but i see him in the sky very often! We were one plus one is one! And i was so stupid to come here volontary to take my People home,no i am very lonely, because the most of them dont listen and understand!i can only save some drops in the ocean!thanks from an old woman!
Thanks Just found this and I think your amazing 🙏🧡💖💖
Dear Amy, I usually don't leave comments, but I've been watching your videos tonight... and I wanted to thank you for them. Because you are just such a sweetheart. Your have a beautiful vibe, positive, compassionate, optimistic, reassuring... You are a sweetheart and a blessing. Thank you.
I want to share my story... I am a married woman with two children. But I don't feel a real heart connection with my family, or my siblings.
Half a year ago, I met someone who lives in a different country, Iran, and occupied a high ranking position. I felt an immediate connection with him, like I knew him from the past... I was guided and shown that we were brother and sister in one lifetime. He went on a diplomatic mission to Iran and was murdered there.
Yesterday he died in a helicopter accident... I only knew him for half a year in this lifetime and even that was online. But I did my best to spiritually prepare him for the passing... It was an intense spiritual work for half a year... exactly half a year. I read spiritual scriptures to him online, sent him spiritual music, paintings...
It is interesting, because I feel more connected to this person whom I never physically met, then to my own family. I know we are connected.
When we first met online, I had a dream of a train that is taking us to Heaven. I realised just now that this connection was preparation for his soul to go.
I don't feel sad or anything, I hope he is doing well there. I also know that human life is quite a short passing experience.
On the day of his passing I sent him a cartoon about a train going to Heaven and saw a calibri bird hoovering right in front of my face. It is small. Maybe because I called myself "a little girl" when we met. I feel that I love him in a pure, platonic way, as someone close, a soul that I know.
Again, thank you kindly for your work and your videos are very helpful! Especially that part about the passing on not being painful, because I was wondering if that tragic death was painful for him.
I am so sorry for your loss. I am glad you are finding some solace in these videos. Best wises to you, Amy
Thankyou for this 💚
Outstanding!
I want to go traveling on the otherside when i get there, in time as well as place, i love the knowing i’ll be able to fly there as well.
Thanks for explaining how it works with adopted kids...noone has ever cleared that up for me before 👍
The thought of seeing my Father on the other side is terrifying.
Hi there yes I spent from boxing day to New Years day at Mangawhai with family.Nice to be home now,went to The Lost King with Ann Fitz it is very good I think you would enjoy it. It's about King Richard the 3rd and his exhumation and eventually his interment at Westminster Abbey, true story. I haven't made any resolutions as I never keep them, hope you keep yours if you want to.Hope to catch up soon💜x
Thank You! 🙏💌
I love your channel! Thank you for blessing us with your rare and beautiful gift from God.
I miss my dad and grandad so much I always go bed at night hoping I will see them again
The thought of seeing my Mother again is horrifying.
You have that choice as stated in the video.
Do you have any tips to help me see Sprints with my own eyes?
"We do not automatically become saintly and we do not automatically know everything" BOOM. Right on point. I want to add that life between life hypnosis and NDE experiences isn't a reliable way of knowing the totality of the afterlife. These experiences as well as many medium's personal descriptions, usually portrays a very transcendent heavenly picture of the other side, which is far from the whole truth.
Can you tell me the whole truth please?
@@user-bw9nl2ge5m I can't tell the whole truth because no human being has the whole truth, we only have pieces of the truth and even those pieces may sometimes be biased. Many do not want to look at their own statements and question them. I have that issue sometimes. It's the need to be right. Unfortunately I cannot tell the truth. I am a truth seeker which means I am seeking the truth and therefore do not have it. If I did have it I wouldn't be seeking the truth. I am still researching and investigating and I am not qualified as of now to speak on this matter. I have to many questions, too little info. The truth is so deep and vast. But my opinion is the information offered by NDEs, life between life hypnosis and medium's descriptions that they received, is so limited. It does show one aspect of reality. But that transcendent heavenly place is only a small fraction of the totality of the reality that exists beyond here.
Is there anything specific you would like to know?
If we live multiple lives, wouldn’t we also have different personalities and appearances?? Which one are we on the other side?? I also don’t think we carry our human drama with us. That’s silly and completely counter intuitive. Ascribing human drama to a spiritual being and realm.
Our core personalities is what we are born with. That is in our soul. We are shaped by human experiences and learned behaviors but the core of us remains. I am not ascribing human drama to the Other Side. I also do believe we live multiple lives and absolutely would have different genders, appearances and lifestyles. That is a part of our souls' growth.
It's said, once to be born... Once to die. No, reincarnation.
@@paulao7022 not one single spirit ever says that christ is god or exist
@@AmyUtsman if we have to drop away things that we gather from life then why do we live to gain lessons? Its comparable to going to college getting a degree and then never working a day for the rest of your life.
If I die alone will I meet my soulmate on the other side ? Or I am just destined to be alone for eternity?
Firstly many thanks for these inspiring episodes that you put out, find ot very uplifting indeed! Secondly, I am a Christian and have been through very testing times and God has protected me undesputedly. I have been through 3 wars and statistically I should be here? With that said, I dont want to be here anymore, I live with daily torment in my mind and take it to bed at night. Seen multiple psychiatrists and tried all sorts of medication. Attempted suicide 3 times and yet, God keeps me here? I pray daily and ask what is my purpose (as we all apparently do have a purpose?)but I het no indication or answer? Is there anything g you could recommend or suggest I could do to find purpose and peace in my life? If I end it I will leave 4 beautiful children and a loyal and very caring wife behind, I'm desperately trying to find reason for life here on earth? Thanks again for all the inspiration and encouragement in your videos.
I am sorry you have had such a difficult time. This video may help. It is Anita Moorjani and her life review when she had a near death experience. She explains our purpose.
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If somebody does you wrong or hurts you or causes you pain here, when they get to the other side do they have to see how they hurt you or caused you pain and the effects it had on you? Do they have to answer for it? Or answer to you when you cross to the other side?
@cheesesmiles And you know this how?
In my experience and understanding they may choose to learn and grow on the other Side and this is done with unconditional love and support. We do go through a life review after we transition and this is a part of our growth and understanding. They do not have to answer to you but they may apologize or they may not. It depends on how they choose to grow on the Other Side.
I experienced it as standing in not the shoes but the heart of every person you hurt and feeling that pain as they did, but MAGNIFIED. You have none of the defense mechanisms you built here to protect you, and it's as if you are taking that pain so that they aren't having to feel the entire weight of it. It's like being cleansed in fire. Raw. The really bad, intentional things you do to people can be experienced by you in real time or even slower. My NDE was what I describe as a "partially blindfolded" or "custom censored" tour of the afterlife and what awaits us and the meaning of this life experience. My life review was a preview of sorts. All positive until the end and I was ALLOWED(I WANTED IT) to feel a moment where I hurt the person I love most and had NO IDEA how much I hurt her. It was like dying 1000 deaths by fire, but God holds your hand and encompasses you in love through the whole experience.
How can I have a reading with you? Jules
I hope she’s correct
I can't wait to go! I am alone and sons are estranged and I am sick with a horrible painful disease and I'm ready to take my meds and go to sleep! I am afraid if I do self euthanasia I won't go to a good place. Will I? I wrote in my wishes to mix my dog and cats ashes with mine...will they be with me? I know the family members I want to be with but not my mom and dad! They were abusive and I just want peace and the pain to be gone
Yes, your pets will be with you on the other side. Your son will reunite with you again. I hope you are better now. Merry Christmas 🎄
I’m a man and this video couldn’t have come at a better time. How do I go about getting a reading?
Can I please get a reading?
Do their personalities don't change or do they show us their personalities so we recognize them
My lovely dad died 26aug 2021 my mum can’t remember she’s more forgetful .l think maybe she’s with my dad in soul . They say you go back to be youth days .🌺❤️ He waiting
youth of which incarnation though?
What validation or sensation do you get that you are speaking with your love one in spirit or guide what validation or sign do you get that what you are hearing is what they said please?
Do you have to be married to be together in the Afterlife as a couple ? And are there couples on the other side
When i get to the other side i only got one question to the top person..
Why Arthritis??
An awesome message. But what is confusing is, why is it other mediums & some spiritual elevated ppl say we have planed the bad ppl in our lives to learn lessons! 🤔
I am not disputing that. What I am saying and have learned from those on the Other Side is that we do not have to spend our time with them in the Spirit World. Learn from them here and move on. Find people more in alignment with you. It is all a part of our journey
@@AmyUtsman that still doesnt add up. How can an abusive person in this life need to be part of our growth but dont have to be on the other side? iv been a victim of abuse and if anything all they did was stunt my growth. So how is their abuse necessary here and not necessary over there?
I was born with autism causing me to struggle to feel even a hint of interest in a relationship on that level. Ontop of that religious fear mongering urged me to live as a celibate out of fear guilt and shame of lust and being yoked. At 28 my interest is far from what it was when i was in high school or college and iv developed depression which only makes it worse. So whats the take away or big lesson im supposed to learn from this? lastly why you keep saying personalities dont change? our personality is completely based on our experiences and environment as well as the structure/function of our brain so how can it not change between incarnations?
I thank she mean you gonna be the same funny r energetic person u was here personalities like that feel me.. like he we know a baby gn be very independent or caring when they get older an b rite
My thought is if a person was abusive on this side, HOW WOULD THEY EVEN MAKE IT to a good place on the other side?
This is a school and people who were abused do it to other people. We all hurt each other because this earthly plane is a learning place. God does not judge like humans do. God's love is unconditional ❤️
@@leslie5139 So murderers, rapist, child molesters and over all scum of the earth whom wilfully harm people gets impunity? 🤷
@@tyardovdabulldht2340 We get a non judgemental life review when we go home back with God. People who caused harm other people on earth will feel the harm or good feelings they caused others. People who did really bad will probably have to come back to earth to have the bad they caused another done back to them. Remember we all go home eventually, and however or whoever hurt us or shortened our stay here givin us an early exit point. Because home back with God is where we all want to be. Nobody wants to come back to earth, unless they need to. Forgiveness and unconditional love is all there is, back home with God. Your perspective is a physical and earthly one of anger and fear it's like that for all of us here. Everything is all about learning, to advance our souls for the greater good. Bliss awaits us all when our work here is done.
Is it possible for souls that have never met on earth to meet in the afterlife?
I wish to know that too
This is Random but can you gather around celebrities and watch them in the after life? Also.... Can you meet new friends in the afterlife?
I have had many people on the other Side speak of celebrities. There is no status on the Other Side like we have here. I have also had people who are very social say, "I am looking for a good party over here" Haha. Yes, we meet up with friends and even connect with people who are family members of friends of ours.
I’ve had four long term relationships
So which one am I going to be with on the other side?
To be honest I’d rather be with my dogs
Some people are with multiple people that they have had relationships with. Some people may visit with your loved ones and choose to spend their time doing other things such as being with animals or helping children or learning new things. Remember, we have free will and choices on the Other Side.
@@AmyUtsman There is no sex in heaven. We will not remarry.. for we will be married to Christ.. The bride of Christ.
@@paulao7022 How it is then. easy choice.
I hope I don’t have to see my spouse in the afterlife
I know this is an unrelated question, but do you know if people HAVE to be reincarnated?!!? I sure hope not!!! Been through a lot of abuse!!! Can't stand the thought of coming back here again. Earth is absolutely beautiful!!! I love life!!! Just can't deal with all the suffering down here. Way too much suffering!!!
This may seem like silly issue but in your experiences do you think that hatred like racism is part of the soul or simply a human brain issue? I am hoping that the sprits that were this way on earth aren't going to feel the same way in heaven. I remember you saying that our personality is the same no matter in this life or the next.
Our core personality is not one of hate nor racism. That is learned behavior and therefore does not carry to the Other Side
I pray I will meet my biological father who I have always wanted to meet and my little dog sasha again. I had an abusive stepfather, stepbrother and then wife, I send them love and forgiveness but I will not want to meet them again.
What happens if you were married here abd then your spouse passes. And then you remarry here . How does your spouse feels and deals with you once it is your turn to go to heaven
Our spouses want us to be happy. I have had people connect in a reading and be with both of their spouses on the Other Side or talk about helping their loved one here to find a spouse.
@@AmyUtsman but wat if the person doesn't want their lover to find some one wen they. Were alive or pass how does that work
Do Michael Jackson do concert up there?
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Good question😁😁 From what I have heard from other Mediums, they do, and they can be teachers of their craft for souls that are wanting to learn that skill, before they come to earth... maybe that's how some kids can sit at a piano at 2yrs old and start playing?? Would make sense.
Are there sexual relationships on the other side?
This is the only thing i need to know, if there isnt id rather opt for nothingness.
I don't want to see my ex. He was terrible, unloving, drunk.
Do people have sex, on the other side?
Personalities don't change? So liars stay liars... ?
Personalities don't change but the characters might change after learning lessons of life teaching there.
What if I never met my soulmate and I want to meet her and I want to be married with her in heaven
Go read Swedenborg. The channel on RUclips is OffTheLeftEye.
Do you have any objective proof of whatever you are saying?
Great, the person who abandoned me will probably not want to have anything to do with me in the afterlife either. It was my last hope.
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