I’ve fortunately never experienced SA but your video resonated with me in an unexpected way. That scene at the end, with the hair playing, instantly brought me back to my childhood. When I was bullied and would cry and fall asleep in my mama’s lap as she would stroke my hair and comfort me with her words. Thank you for bringing back those cherished memories and for the comforting vibes✨
I’ve unfortunately been on the receiving end of a SA (it does happen to men occasionally) but this is the conversation I wish I had had with someone about it. Very well done
As a survivor, this… was needed. I struggle to be vulnerable in real life. I’ve been told I deserved what she did to me. I’ve had people try and weaponize it. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart. Words cannot express what this has done for me, the kindling it has provided my soul. It may be a work of fiction, but the impact you had on me tonight was very real. You have earned a grateful fan for life.
Haven't listened yet, but this is either going to make me cry for the first time in months OR set a new record on how quickly I get back to sleep. Either way, I'll call it a win.
This is a banger of a day. First I had a successful appointment at the voice clinic, then had a huge breakfast to de stress, got a great seat for the upcoming Evenescence, HaleStorm & Warning concert, then another French roommate audio as icing on a perfect cake. Thank you, Lav 🌹❤️🥰 Another French masterpiece 👌🏻
Oh my god. A f4m* SA comfort? Holy shit. I’ve literally never seen one. F4A is even rare, but this is just new. As a (now NB but M at the time) SA survivor who was told so often how much it didn’t matter or how I’m better for it having happened (was once told “maybe you can understand some of what girls experience then, I bet you still don’t have the fear we do” and that one was… well brutal to my mental health) I spent the majority of my teenage years trying to understand why I deserved to be assaulted. Everyone seemed to think it was a good thing or that I shouldn’t be bothered by it. So obviously I deserved it somehow. I don’t tell the story for a few reasons, one being that no one ever seemed to want to know, finding out changed their view of me in a negative way every time. The other being it was violent, and it’s genuinely hard to retell and from my experience it seems even harder to stomach for the few that do hear it. Besides that, it’s a very personal thing that I just have never wanted online in any way. Though I get sidetracked easily, so… You get a genuinely massive thank you for caring enough to make this for peeps like me. We don’t get the support or love we deserve already, and this kinda thing makes that even worse most the time. It’s hard to live like this, but seeing things like this make it honestly a little less lonely feeling, like maybe there are a few people who give a damn about how much you’ve suffered.
This lil stranger on this side of the world/internet wants you to know her heart aches for the experience you've been carrying on your shoulders thusfar. I'm sorry about every malintended words you had to listen to or that caused you more conflict when you were already dealing with a lot of conflicting thoughts and emotions on your own and as a consequence of what happened. You really didn't deserve what happened, and I pray for a journey of healing in your path. You are precious and I really hope if you don't already, you will have someone who treats you that way and makes you feel precious too. 🤍 (And if you ever want to share/vent/scratch down for your own processing's sake anything about your experience (whether it's event or aftermath or anything else), there is a post I made recently under the Community tab that include an anonymous form where you can submit your thoughts anonymously if you so choose to - and even if you dont want to share anything about your experience per se, there is a question that asks about words you wished you could hear and such. If you'd like to help me create more of this sort of content, that would be very helpful - but COMPLETELY optional. 🤍) Thank you for your comment, love. You are loved.
@@lavendherthank you for your love and support, for not just me but everyone who’s been hurt in such a vile manner. It’s never easy. Regardless of who you are. Genuinely good people like you make our lives just that little bit easier to handle.
@@mostlyjovial6177 The "maybe you can understand some of what girls experience them" and "I bet you still don't have the fear we do" are actually some of the most disgusting things I've heard/read. Who the hell says that, SA is SA, it's not a competition of who has it worse, to effectively brush it aside as a "well it's not as bad as it happening to this other gender" doesn't do anyone favours, especially SA victims. Sorry, that just really, really irritates me. Hope you're in a much better place now, with *much* better people around you who would never say something so disgusting. P.S to see a F4M SA comfort audio, even as someone who has thankfully never experienced it, honestly brings a tear to my eye for the bros who do need it. Glad y'all got it, Lav's a legend. Bonus points for french lmao
This fit to a horrible situation in my life happening right now so much that it felt real. I feel as if I can keep going now. I even felt my jawn unclench and my shoulders relax! Thank you for this 17 minutes of comfort. I needed it more than you'll ever know.
It’s bad when you get to the point you hate when it’s time to go to sleep, not that you are afraid of the dark or anything but because you don’t have anything to distract you so all of your faults and shortcomings (whether real or exaggerated) come flooding in
As someone who experienced this etc.. during my childhood it's really lovely of you to do this! It's still hard to deal with this in my head, but I'm trying my best :3 lots of love lav ❤
I've always loved when people come to my defense regarding moral decisions. But I've never had such a defender with a beautiful French accent. Cool audio Lavendher! LOVED IT!!!😊💚👍 (Sorry it took so long for me to catch this new audio😊).
Ive been on the end of this and thank you, it is something i am working through right now and it's been hard to process. Thank you for this, its the first break ive had while also being on topic.
Praise the Lord I'm so glad to hear that - both that you are working through this process and that you were able to feel something through this audio :,) 🤍
Also, this is completely optional but *if* it happens to be true that you'd like somewhere to share what's on your mind about what happened, feel free to check this out that I made a few months back forms.gle/afgj6ZPYe5NLq73Y7
Most people don’t understand SA happens to boys too. In highschool, I have had multiple boys, like myself, harassed me, and even touch me in different ways I was never comfortable with. And some girls did it too. But no one helped, or looked at it weird, because to them it was a joke. Tell me, would it be a joke if all that happened to a girl? Would it be a joke with someone slapped a girls ass? Verbally harassed a girl 24 7? But when the genders are switched, it’s a joke, or a fantasy. I know live with problems with anyone touching me, and have severe trust issues because of it, and only one person I feel comfortable enough with to talk about it with, who is ironically a girl
@@lavendher Ah. Thanks for explaining! The video’s transcript didn’t know what to type for that bit so I couldn’t spell it out for Google Translate. :)
(big big hugs) I'm really sorry you went through that 🤍You definitely didn't deserve it. They made a horrible decision that you suffered for. I'm so sorry.
Honestly tho, it’s kinda absurd that Lav can provide comfort to people who have never experienced such a terrible thing like SA, and to do so in such a delicate and non patronizing way, firmly cements her at a Level 5 tier ASMRtist🙏🙏🙏
![[F4A] French Roommate Comforts You After a Bad Day [Cuddles][Accent][Comfort][Shy Listener]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/6d5RvzK5pfY/mqdefault.jpg)
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![[F4M] Escaping a Party with Your Friend [French Accent][Friends to Lovers][Jealousy][Confession]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/U7EzjMohVgg/mqdefault.jpg)
![[F4M] Right Time, Right Place [Comfort][Massage][Personal Attention][ASMR]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/mWAcC_5VkeI/mqdefault.jpg)
I’ve fortunately never experienced SA but your video resonated with me in an unexpected way. That scene at the end, with the hair playing, instantly brought me back to my childhood. When I was bullied and would cry and fall asleep in my mama’s lap as she would stroke my hair and comfort me with her words. Thank you for bringing back those cherished memories and for the comforting vibes✨
awwwww x) what a good memory, im glad you have that~ 😊
That's good that you haven't experienced SA. It's no picnic.
I’ve unfortunately been on the receiving end of a SA (it does happen to men occasionally) but this is the conversation I wish I had had with someone about it. Very well done
As a survivor, this… was needed. I struggle to be vulnerable in real life. I’ve been told I deserved what she did to me. I’ve had people try and weaponize it.
Thank you, from the bottom of my heart. Words cannot express what this has done for me, the kindling it has provided my soul. It may be a work of fiction, but the impact you had on me tonight was very real. You have earned a grateful fan for life.
From one tearful hopeful heart to another 🤍
Haven't listened yet, but this is either going to make me cry for the first time in months OR set a new record on how quickly I get back to sleep. Either way, I'll call it a win.
This is a banger of a day. First I had a successful appointment at the voice clinic, then had a huge breakfast to de stress, got a great seat for the upcoming Evenescence, HaleStorm & Warning concert, then another French roommate audio as icing on a perfect cake. Thank you, Lav 🌹❤️🥰
Another French masterpiece 👌🏻
Sounds like a literal banger from beginning to end 😂Happy for you 😊
@@lavendher Thank you 🙏. I only wish I could buy you a ticket 😊
Actually, that might be a good idea for another custom audio….hummm 🤔
Oh my god.
A f4m* SA comfort?
Holy shit.
I’ve literally never seen one.
F4A is even rare, but this is just new.
As a (now NB but M at the time) SA survivor who was told so often how much it didn’t matter or how I’m better for it having happened (was once told “maybe you can understand some of what girls experience then, I bet you still don’t have the fear we do” and that one was… well brutal to my mental health)
I spent the majority of my teenage years trying to understand why I deserved to be assaulted. Everyone seemed to think it was a good thing or that I shouldn’t be bothered by it. So obviously I deserved it somehow.
I don’t tell the story for a few reasons, one being that no one ever seemed to want to know, finding out changed their view of me in a negative way every time. The other being it was violent, and it’s genuinely hard to retell and from my experience it seems even harder to stomach for the few that do hear it.
Besides that, it’s a very personal thing that I just have never wanted online in any way.
Though I get sidetracked easily, so… You get a genuinely massive thank you for caring enough to make this for peeps like me. We don’t get the support or love we deserve already, and this kinda thing makes that even worse most the time. It’s hard to live like this, but seeing things like this make it honestly a little less lonely feeling, like maybe there are a few people who give a damn about how much you’ve suffered.
This lil stranger on this side of the world/internet wants you to know her heart aches for the experience you've been carrying on your shoulders thusfar. I'm sorry about every malintended words you had to listen to or that caused you more conflict when you were already dealing with a lot of conflicting thoughts and emotions on your own and as a consequence of what happened. You really didn't deserve what happened, and I pray for a journey of healing in your path. You are precious and I really hope if you don't already, you will have someone who treats you that way and makes you feel precious too. 🤍
(And if you ever want to share/vent/scratch down for your own processing's sake anything about your experience (whether it's event or aftermath or anything else), there is a post I made recently under the Community tab that include an anonymous form where you can submit your thoughts anonymously if you so choose to - and even if you dont want to share anything about your experience per se, there is a question that asks about words you wished you could hear and such. If you'd like to help me create more of this sort of content, that would be very helpful - but COMPLETELY optional. 🤍)
Thank you for your comment, love. You are loved.
@@lavendherthank you for your love and support, for not just me but everyone who’s been hurt in such a vile manner. It’s never easy. Regardless of who you are.
Genuinely good people like you make our lives just that little bit easier to handle.
I'm so sorry to read this. Hope you managed to rebuild yourself somehow. Sending you love
@@mostlyjovial6177 The "maybe you can understand some of what girls experience them" and "I bet you still don't have the fear we do" are actually some of the most disgusting things I've heard/read. Who the hell says that, SA is SA, it's not a competition of who has it worse, to effectively brush it aside as a "well it's not as bad as it happening to this other gender" doesn't do anyone favours, especially SA victims.
Sorry, that just really, really irritates me. Hope you're in a much better place now, with *much* better people around you who would never say something so disgusting.
P.S to see a F4M SA comfort audio, even as someone who has thankfully never experienced it, honestly brings a tear to my eye for the bros who do need it. Glad y'all got it, Lav's a legend. Bonus points for french lmao
Lav, your videos never fail to mark an impression with us. This is an amazing video
This was truly comforting. Thank you, Lavendher.
This fit to a horrible situation in my life happening right now so much that it felt real. I feel as if I can keep going now.
I even felt my jawn unclench and my shoulders relax! Thank you for this 17 minutes of comfort. I needed it more than you'll ever know.
PTL 🥺💛I believe in you love. You got this. 🤍
Sending you love
I love your French roommate series, Lavendher! In fact, it is literally my favourite ASMR series ever. Thank you for making it.
Yayyyyy that gives me a teary smile.. I'm so glad~ Thank you Marcus for listening and for being so kind x)
💚 I haven't personally gone through a SA experience, though it's nice to hear the comforting words in your virtual arms. 💚
It’s bad when you get to the point you hate when it’s time to go to sleep, not that you are afraid of the dark or anything but because you don’t have anything to distract you so all of your faults and shortcomings (whether real or exaggerated) come flooding in
I hope this audio/these audios can help to quite those thoughts 🤍 Rest well dearest
As someone who experienced this etc.. during my childhood it's really lovely of you to do this! It's still hard to deal with this in my head, but I'm trying my best :3 lots of love lav ❤
Lots of love my dear 😭🤍
I definitely need this in my life
I've been through SA twice, at the age of 13 and 15, this hits hard.. thank you Lavendher ♥️
Your not alone in this it's happen to me once but I hope you doing okay
I just got out of a toxic abusive relationship. She was online so not physichal but neglectful and mental
Thanks for the audio
I've always loved when people come to my defense regarding moral decisions. But I've never had such a defender with a beautiful French accent. Cool audio Lavendher! LOVED IT!!!😊💚👍
(Sorry it took so long for me to catch this new audio😊).
THANKS FOR THE BIRTHDAY AUDIO! I LOVE THE ACCENTS
Happy birthday Jake!!! 🎉
@@lavendher Thank You Lav
How can this french girl lift so much off my shoulders
Ive been on the end of this and thank you, it is something i am working through right now and it's been hard to process. Thank you for this, its the first break ive had while also being on topic.
Praise the Lord I'm so glad to hear that - both that you are working through this process and that you were able to feel something through this audio :,) 🤍
Also, this is completely optional but *if* it happens to be true that you'd like somewhere to share what's on your mind about what happened, feel free to check this out that I made a few months back forms.gle/afgj6ZPYe5NLq73Y7
WE NAPPING AT THE RIGHT TIME BOYS
Amazing as always lav ❤ i no this one well something will say it's not your fault you always feel like it's your fault
Freeeench roommaaaateeee hell yeah!!!! * clicks 900 times * ❤❤❤
😂😂
thanks for this. i’m sure i’ll be asleep in no time
Sa will tear you apart i know from experience only im only 21 M
this helps alot i can't even believe this exists but thanks i neded this
This hits so hard thank u
Most people don’t understand SA happens to boys too. In highschool, I have had multiple boys, like myself, harassed me, and even touch me in different ways I was never comfortable with. And some girls did it too. But no one helped, or looked at it weird, because to them it was a joke.
Tell me, would it be a joke if all that happened to a girl?
Would it be a joke with someone slapped a girls ass? Verbally harassed a girl 24 7?
But when the genders are switched, it’s a joke, or a fantasy.
I know live with problems with anyone touching me, and have severe trust issues because of it, and only one person I feel comfortable enough with to talk about it with, who is ironically a girl
I love your french accent videos
I was in a boy boarding school and things that happened there crazy I tried my best to stay away but I wasn't strong enough to defend myself
I'm sorry. Sending you strengh if it can somehow help to get confort from a stranger on the internet.
Amazing audio
Thank you❤
Whoa! Ok, let’s do this
I love you beautiful and this video ❤
I love you more 🤍
L'accent bien français ca je reconnais un ami à moi 😅😂😂
I have too many of these... I don't know how many were my fault.
💜💜💜
9:06 What is, “mon ker”? I never took French so is it a specific dialectical pronunciation of, “mon cher?”
Mon coeur = my heart(/sweetheart/darling) 🤍
@@lavendher Ah. Thanks for explaining! The video’s transcript didn’t know what to type for that bit so I couldn’t spell it out for Google Translate. :)
@@masterhypnos6783 That's alright haha I'm happy you were curious enough to ask :D
❤️
The double homicide wasn’t my fault? Phew 😮💨
💀💀😂
Who would believe 😢 it was my ex girlfriend.. M24
(big big hugs) I'm really sorry you went through that 🤍You definitely didn't deserve it. They made a horrible decision that you suffered for. I'm so sorry.
Honestly tho, it’s kinda absurd that Lav can provide comfort to people who have never experienced such a terrible thing like SA, and to do so in such a delicate and non patronizing way, firmly cements her at a Level 5 tier ASMRtist🙏🙏🙏
Thank you so much Zach, your words mean a lot :)