The moment they ask for cash and they got upset they don't get it, that was the moment i start to smell the rotten out there. They try to blind side him but OP didn't had none of it too. Even more when you heard how her parents were and they didn't even visit her in the hospital nor going to the funeral. SO, yeah!! i knew it was a scam. Also forge documents is illegal, so OP can sue them for that.
As soon as I heard about the debts I knew it was all lies. It was a scamming extortionate attempt on the part of this greedy deceitful entitled family.
@@CyBorghiHaven’t watched the video but scammers can actually use AI technology to recreate family members voices on phone calls. Again I have not watched the video, point is in some cases even if it seems the family is trying to scam, it might not be someone from the family.
😂😂😂😂 Why did they think he wouldn't call the cops? They're not the mafia, they're two guys, and op knows where they live. The stupidity of some criminals never ceases to amaze.
Will most criminals aren't known for their intelligence. They're used to actually be a show called " dumb criminals". Trust me there are some good ones out there
@@juliearmfield2634If that amazes you you should attend public hearings. The excuses a Chechen can come up with for ganging up on a guy with his five cousins is incredible
should give the loan sharks their names and adress. i bet they don't take kindly if others try to blackmail ppl using their name. things like "bad for business and the reputation of 'honest business men'" XD
Well done sir, my hats off. Your wife sounds like she was 1 of those rare 1's, so congratulations for getting to share some time with her. As for her family, yes I'm sure she would have been saddened to about what her family did to you. Instead of coming together so you can all grieve they were already eyeing the body to see what they could take. You both deserved better. Good luck man and God bless.
I'm not a lawyer but I do know that is possible to sue for wrongful inheritance as long as you have enough proof that the people who got the inheritance or were trying to get a certain inheritance was doing it through wrongful means. But that would mean it would actually make more sense if it was the parents who were trying to steal the son-in-law's money were the one's suing him for wrongful inheritance and him having to defend his character instead of the other way around.
It’s amazing they thought they’d get the money by trying to pull a fast one. Like of course my wife had $100k in debts, totally sounds like her, here ya go.
I wonder if that's true. Tried googling US's inheritance law, but the only specific thing that's easy to find is what portion does the spouse get in each state - makes me wonder if other's even do have a minimum inheritance to get.
@@edmis90 Just to expand on this it varies state by state but in general, it goes like this in priority and breakdown. ---Married without kids. The spouse gets everything. ---Married with kids. All shared assets go to the spouse. For assets that are in the deceased name only the spouse gets the value of like $200,000 outright then half of everything else. Everything else is split between the kids. ---Not married but have kids. Kids split everything equally. ---Not married no kids everything is given to relatives in the order of 1)Parents 2) Siblings 3) Nieces/Nephews 4) Grandparents 5) Aunts/Uncles
@@jevgenkovathe 1$ doesn't work everywhere. The late wife seems to be smart, so she extended to save her husband her trash shenanigans but sadly she was wrong.
Lol they really should of settled for what they got instead of being greedy, I’m not sure what the bros were thinking vandalising the car since even if it was his it would be used as evidence
Fishy story. You don't have to prove you're not a controlling husband, they do. If they have nothing to back their claim, then it hangs in mid air, completely harmless.
Who knows how much money they already took out of Ops wife. They probably already got their inheritance. And especially because of that, I would demand a record for all payments they received. And then demand proof for the reasons given. 4:40 She should have told her husband about that.
Between the possibility of this story being made up and the possibility of it being true and humans being so low - I'm having a more difficult time believing the latter. Both are possible though, obviously, and the latter is more likely probably. But still harder to believe for some reason.
If you didnt sign up for the debt or sign the paperwork, you dont owe the debt, how mant time have this been said and yet people always get scam into paying someone else debt,
My crazy unstable mother once tried to frame an ex for damage that she did to her own car by telling police that her ex must have been the one to do it, because “he was stalking her” (not true). The police couldn’t arrest anyone without proof that he was the one who did it. No eye witnesses plus no video footage=no arrest. This story falls apart on that one lie alone. Bonus-my mom was crazy hot and the officers fell all over themselves to help her with anything, so if they could have helped her they definitely would have. She always had “pretty privilege” over anything in life.
Men trying to run then resisting arrest tend to be treated seriously... yelling at the intended victim while in custody is fairly damning since that's evidence of a confession.
@macyloywho1187 such an evil vile woman. I'm so sorry. I cant imagine the pain you went through and the actual serious harm that could have ruined your ex's lives. If you ever want to talk, i have a video 4 that. And a discord server
Call them the week later and tell them the debts were paid with interest and they should no longer be harassed lol and have a lawyer print fake receipts
Don't be stupid to give money out. She left that for YOU and everyone needs money even if they are financially secure. Keep your money, give it to charity or people who deserve it not greedy money grubbers. Do you know how many people would love to have the money you have and you're just thinking of giving it away to people like her family if they have just asked. They would have come back asking
while i sympathize with op and think he is entirely in the right i do find it 'wrong' to say he is doing it for his wife, if she cared about money she wouldnt have given her family money, and op himself admitted that his wife probably wouldnt be to happy with him suing her family, he doesnt do it for his wife, his wife is dead, he does it because he loved his wife and her family treated her horribly and he is disgusted that they tried to tarnish her name by claiming she had debts while op was still grieving, that is reason enough, but claiming its for his wife leaves me with abit of a bitter taste in my mouth because he is doing something similiar to what her family did, claiming his wife as a reason for doing something when all the wives actions up to her death where contrary to that claim
This whole story seems a bit made up to me. Even though it is unlikely someone would write that long text if it was not true, there are a lot of things that make no sense to me. So first of all if it was my wife I would not let this thing escalate. This would feel like disrespecting her so much as if we were stepping on her grave, ruining her peace and legacy. This would be a holy thing for me and she obviously would not have wanted things to escalate in such a dirty way. Deciding against that seems rather unlikely for a man who really loved his wife. Second, what kind of stupid scam is this anyways? Look, I don't know US laws but even I know that such claims usually become invalid after some years, especially after 12 years. Also no one would ever chase you for money for 12 years without filing some law suit. If there is any evidence of the claims the money transfer would have been documented anyway so no one ever wants you to pay such things in cash. Next thing that bothers me... what kind of lawsuit do you want to file to the parents? Like what you want to get from them? They tried to decieve you. That's a fraud, a crime. Report it to the police. You have all the evidence. That is nothing to sue someone. As I said, I don't know the US laws. But when I blame you for manipulating someone, don't I need to proof that by some evidence? Why does OP has to proof that he is not guilty? This would mean I could simply blame anyone for everything and win for how you gonna proof something that has not happen? That seems kinda impossible. And US law must know this. Maybe someone can explain these things to me. But there is just too much that seems to be not well thought about while making it up.
I might be able to explain a few things. First off, if the story is true, then it's pretty likely that the family was abusive in some way. Probably mentally or emotionally which would be hard to prove. Seeing a loved one constantly manipulated by family is not a fun sight. Still, OP was willing to leave them alone while she was alive, simply because he didn't want to 'rock the boat' and make things worse for her. But then the family had to pull something after her death. Yes, the whole scam is stupid. The family was just trying to scare the grieving OP. "Oh no, the evil loan sharks will hurt us if we don't send the money!" Sounds like someone was watching way too much TV. But clearly, OP was nervous about it and talked to the secretary. Good move on his part, I think Lawyer consolations cost a lot of money. I don't know much about lawsuits, maybe it was about contesting the inheritance, but I do understand the point of the lawsuit. This whole lawsuit wasn't about the money, it was about principle. The family treated OP's wife like crap and they still had the nerve to try to steal from OP. If anything the family were the ones trying to step over their poor daughter's grave. They even tried to tarnish their daughter's name by implying she had debt to begin with! OP was not having that disrespect. I would've done the same thing. (As for the actual court proceedings in this case, both sides are innocent until proven guilty. Both sides have to speak their truth to the judge and jury. You can prove that you are not manipulative with the help of 'witnesses'. Friends, family, and maybe employers could be called in to talk about your character. US law is kinda crap though. I'm not sure that the 'loan shark' letters would've been enough evidence to arrest them. It could definitely be used in court though. BTW, I'm not a lawyer, take this with a grain of salt.) Fake story or not, I really enjoyed the revenge! It was really cathartic!
@@charlottesweb5964 in response to the lawsuit part: truth is; in USA you can sue anyone for any reason. it's possible that the wife put something in her will that stopped her parents from contesting the will thus they went to great length's to just get OP to just give it to them. but in all honesty that is only one path he could have taken, he could have sued them for harassment to the tune of 75k or for pain and suffering, the list goes on and as long as the judge feels that you do deserve the money based on why your suing and the evidence about why so and so owes you, you have the potential to win. and if he was suing for harassment the son's made the case by trashing the neighbor's car and then resisting arrest cuz news flash to the moron brothers: INNOCENT PEOPLE DON'T TRY TO RUN! yeah most judges would look at the brother's like they are moron's and find in favor of whoever is suing them and go on their merry way. and in response to TeBThor87 the problem with not letting it escalate is that then OP is giving wife's birth family control over his life and he's right they didn't deserve the money they got never mind the money they tried to con out of him. it's easy to say "that would feel disrespectful to the wife i supposedly loved so much" but when your being insulted while your grieving by a vulture relative sometimes you just need to take the trash out and be done with it.
You are 100% correct. When I was listening to the story everything surrounding the legal aspects of the story came off as bizarre - this just isn't how civil suits or the court system works. The absolute best he could have done outside of reporting them for attempted fraud like you said is filed a suit for emotional damages because of the attempts to manipulate him so soon after his wifes death and even then no judge is going to overturn the will and just hand $75K to the husband over it. Civil suits primarilly serve the purpose of providing restitution for damages and these people didn't do $75k in damages. He would have to be contesting the will but no where in the story does he indicate that would be his strategy and if he isn't contesting the will then the execution of the will has nothing what-so-ever to do with his emotional distress. He doesn't have a case to claim the $75k Also one of the brothers allegedly works at a law firm (so presumably a lawyer if he isn't some kind of paralegal or secretary) so he should be aware of how this scam was never going to work. He should also have known that the best way to deal with the police when they went for him would be to cooperate and remain silent and not to run away and yell at the husband. Nothing here is consistent with reality. It's a fake story.
The story is fake. No one is making that kind of money ghost writing. Also, the cops don't just immediately go arrest people because someone who didn't witness anything tells them they're sure who did it.
I automatically think that every Reddit story is fake, but this one more than most. So much of this story came off wrong. Like loan sharks bugging her parents instead of the guy she’s been married to for 12 years. Suing the parents for inherited money because “they didn’t deserve it”. And then the worst one was cops arresting people over broken windows simply because he claimed it must be them? Yeah, completely fake.
Her family: She has debt, we need you to pay it.
OP: Ok let me talk to the debt people to confirm it.
Her family: That won't be necessary
Source: trust me bro.
That's when you know it's a shakedown.
The moment they ask for cash and they got upset they don't get it, that was the moment i start to smell the rotten out there. They try to blind side him but OP didn't had none of it too.
Even more when you heard how her parents were and they didn't even visit her in the hospital nor going to the funeral. SO, yeah!! i knew it was a scam.
Also forge documents is illegal, so OP can sue them for that.
debt doesnt carry over to others when you die
@@ilyarepin7750 yes! that is the point. Unless is something share (like a co-sign loan), the debt collectors can't do anything about it.
As soon as I heard about the debts I knew it was all lies. It was a scamming extortionate attempt on the part of this greedy deceitful entitled family.
I would have let the loan sharks know that someone was using their name to extort someone.
@@CyBorghiHaven’t watched the video but scammers can actually use AI technology to recreate family members voices on phone calls.
Again I have not watched the video, point is in some cases even if it seems the family is trying to scam, it might not be someone from the family.
Once the family said that they needed the money now and it has to be cash, you already know it’s a red flag
😂😂😂😂
Why did they think he wouldn't call the cops? They're not the mafia, they're two guys, and op knows where they live. The stupidity of some criminals never ceases to amaze.
And didn’t one of the brothers work at a law firm?
Will most criminals aren't known for their intelligence.
They're used to actually be a show called " dumb criminals".
Trust me there are some good ones out there
@@ChanellorWarfare According to the story, yes. So he likely also lost his job at a law firm for what he had done.
@@juliearmfield2634If that amazes you you should attend public hearings. The excuses a Chechen can come up with for ganging up on a guy with his five cousins is incredible
Yeah, I was suspicious from the get go. If the wife owed debts, creditors would go after her husband directly, not her parents and siblings.
Woohoo! Excellent job showing that family who's boss. I hope OP's doing well.
should give the loan sharks their names and adress. i bet they don't take kindly if others try to blackmail ppl using their name. things like "bad for business and the reputation of 'honest business men'" XD
You just raised the bar where it should be!! 😊I loved it!
Well done sir, my hats off. Your wife sounds like she was 1 of those rare 1's, so congratulations for getting to share some time with her. As for her family, yes I'm sure she would have been saddened to about what her family did to you. Instead of coming together so you can all grieve they were already eyeing the body to see what they could take. You both deserved better. Good luck man and God bless.
What legal grounds does he have to suit his in laws for their money? The story could've been real up until that point
I'm not a lawyer but I do know that is possible to sue for wrongful inheritance as long as you have enough proof that the people who got the inheritance or were trying to get a certain inheritance was doing it through wrongful means.
But that would mean it would actually make more sense if it was the parents who were trying to steal the son-in-law's money were the one's suing him for wrongful inheritance and him having to defend his character instead of the other way around.
Forgiveness is for the birds, i never understand why people forgive such grave injustices.
i love what he did with the money
It’s amazing they thought they’d get the money by trying to pull a fast one. Like of course my wife had $100k in debts, totally sounds like her, here ya go.
Intro: one of her brothers works at a law firm
Later: said brother forged loan threats, vandalized a young mother's car, and other illegal acts.
People desperate for money will do anything...it will shock you.
They wont talk to their daughter unless she made allat money but they got family values?😂😂
I think she left them with 75000 because they could contest it if she hadn’t
Why not will them 1$ instead ?
@@jevgenkova Maybe she was so sure 75000 would guarantee they wouldn't contest it
I wonder if that's true. Tried googling US's inheritance law, but the only specific thing that's easy to find is what portion does the spouse get in each state - makes me wonder if other's even do have a minimum inheritance to get.
@@edmis90 Just to expand on this it varies state by state but in general, it goes like this in priority and breakdown.
---Married without kids. The spouse gets everything.
---Married with kids. All shared assets go to the spouse. For assets that are in the deceased name only the spouse gets the value of like $200,000 outright then half of everything else. Everything else is split between the kids.
---Not married but have kids. Kids split everything equally.
---Not married no kids everything is given to relatives in the order of 1)Parents 2) Siblings 3) Nieces/Nephews 4) Grandparents 5) Aunts/Uncles
@@jevgenkovathe 1$ doesn't work everywhere. The late wife seems to be smart, so she extended to save her husband her trash shenanigans but sadly she was wrong.
OP needs to move ASAP
Lol they really should of settled for what they got instead of being greedy, I’m not sure what the bros were thinking vandalising the car since even if it was his it would be used as evidence
this doesn't sound like a real story. not the idea that this would happen but how it's narrated.
Fishy story. You don't have to prove you're not a controlling husband, they do. If they have nothing to back their claim, then it hangs in mid air, completely harmless.
Who knows how much money they already took out of Ops wife. They probably already got their inheritance. And especially because of that, I would demand a record for all payments they received. And then demand proof for the reasons given.
4:40 She should have told her husband about that.
Between the possibility of this story being made up and the possibility of it being true and humans being so low - I'm having a more difficult time believing the latter. Both are possible though, obviously, and the latter is more likely probably. But still harder to believe for some reason.
If you didnt sign up for the debt or sign the paperwork, you dont owe the debt, how mant time have this been said and yet people always get scam into paying someone else debt,
My crazy unstable mother once tried to frame an ex for damage that she did to her own car by telling police that her ex must have been the one to do it, because “he was stalking her” (not true). The police couldn’t arrest anyone without proof that he was the one who did it. No eye witnesses plus no video footage=no arrest. This story falls apart on that one lie alone. Bonus-my mom was crazy hot and the officers fell all over themselves to help her with anything, so if they could have helped her they definitely would have. She always had “pretty privilege” over anything in life.
Men trying to run then resisting arrest tend to be treated seriously... yelling at the intended victim while in custody is fairly damning since that's evidence of a confession.
@macyloywho1187 such an evil vile woman. I'm so sorry. I cant imagine the pain you went through and the actual serious harm that could have ruined your ex's lives. If you ever want to talk, i have a video 4 that. And a discord server
Call them the week later and tell them the debts were paid with interest and they should no longer be harassed lol and have a lawyer print fake receipts
No remotely reputable lawyer would agree to do that.
@@Significantpower they do it on Suits all the time
they say blood is thicker than water
Don't be stupid to give money out. She left that for YOU and everyone needs money even if they are financially secure. Keep your money, give it to charity or people who deserve it not greedy money grubbers. Do you know how many people would love to have the money you have and you're just thinking of giving it away to people like her family if they have just asked. They would have come back asking
Good story, i liked it
Smelt fraud 10 miles away.
You can tell this one's fake because he said his wife got rich ghost writing, lol.
I mean it’s very possible
Ou nice one
That part of debtors going after them was bs from start the spouse of deceased is who they go after it was total bs from start
sociopaths the lot of them.
Bro the title grammar 💀
This story legit never happened
while i sympathize with op and think he is entirely in the right i do find it 'wrong' to say he is doing it for his wife, if she cared about money she wouldnt have given her family money, and op himself admitted that his wife probably wouldnt be to happy with him suing her family, he doesnt do it for his wife, his wife is dead, he does it because he loved his wife and her family treated her horribly and he is disgusted that they tried to tarnish her name by claiming she had debts while op was still grieving, that is reason enough, but claiming its for his wife leaves me with abit of a bitter taste in my mouth because he is doing something similiar to what her family did, claiming his wife as a reason for doing something when all the wives actions up to her death where contrary to that claim
This whole story seems a bit made up to me. Even though it is unlikely someone would write that long text if it was not true, there are a lot of things that make no sense to me.
So first of all if it was my wife I would not let this thing escalate. This would feel like disrespecting her so much as if we were stepping on her grave, ruining her peace and legacy. This would be a holy thing for me and she obviously would not have wanted things to escalate in such a dirty way. Deciding against that seems rather unlikely for a man who really loved his wife.
Second, what kind of stupid scam is this anyways? Look, I don't know US laws but even I know that such claims usually become invalid after some years, especially after 12 years. Also no one would ever chase you for money for 12 years without filing some law suit. If there is any evidence of the claims the money transfer would have been documented anyway so no one ever wants you to pay such things in cash.
Next thing that bothers me... what kind of lawsuit do you want to file to the parents? Like what you want to get from them? They tried to decieve you. That's a fraud, a crime. Report it to the police. You have all the evidence. That is nothing to sue someone.
As I said, I don't know the US laws. But when I blame you for manipulating someone, don't I need to proof that by some evidence? Why does OP has to proof that he is not guilty? This would mean I could simply blame anyone for everything and win for how you gonna proof something that has not happen? That seems kinda impossible. And US law must know this.
Maybe someone can explain these things to me. But there is just too much that seems to be not well thought about while making it up.
I might be able to explain a few things.
First off, if the story is true, then it's pretty likely that the family was abusive in some way. Probably mentally or emotionally which would be hard to prove. Seeing a loved one constantly manipulated by family is not a fun sight. Still, OP was willing to leave them alone while she was alive, simply because he didn't want to 'rock the boat' and make things worse for her.
But then the family had to pull something after her death. Yes, the whole scam is stupid. The family was just trying to scare the grieving OP. "Oh no, the evil loan sharks will hurt us if we don't send the money!" Sounds like someone was watching way too much TV. But clearly, OP was nervous about it and talked to the secretary. Good move on his part, I think Lawyer consolations cost a lot of money.
I don't know much about lawsuits, maybe it was about contesting the inheritance, but I do understand the point of the lawsuit. This whole lawsuit wasn't about the money, it was about principle. The family treated OP's wife like crap and they still had the nerve to try to steal from OP. If anything the family were the ones trying to step over their poor daughter's grave. They even tried to tarnish their daughter's name by implying she had debt to begin with! OP was not having that disrespect. I would've done the same thing.
(As for the actual court proceedings in this case, both sides are innocent until proven guilty. Both sides have to speak their truth to the judge and jury. You can prove that you are not manipulative with the help of 'witnesses'. Friends, family, and maybe employers could be called in to talk about your character. US law is kinda crap though. I'm not sure that the 'loan shark' letters would've been enough evidence to arrest them. It could definitely be used in court though. BTW, I'm not a lawyer, take this with a grain of salt.)
Fake story or not, I really enjoyed the revenge! It was really cathartic!
@@charlottesweb5964 in response to the lawsuit part: truth is; in USA you can sue anyone for any reason. it's possible that the wife put something in her will that stopped her parents from contesting the will thus they went to great length's to just get OP to just give it to them. but in all honesty that is only one path he could have taken, he could have sued them for harassment to the tune of 75k or for pain and suffering, the list goes on and as long as the judge feels that you do deserve the money based on why your suing and the evidence about why so and so owes you, you have the potential to win. and if he was suing for harassment the son's made the case by trashing the neighbor's car and then resisting arrest cuz news flash to the moron brothers: INNOCENT PEOPLE DON'T TRY TO RUN!
yeah most judges would look at the brother's like they are moron's and find in favor of whoever is suing them and go on their merry way.
and in response to TeBThor87 the problem with not letting it escalate is that then OP is giving wife's birth family control over his life and he's right they didn't deserve the money they got never mind the money they tried to con out of him. it's easy to say "that would feel disrespectful to the wife i supposedly loved so much" but when your being insulted while your grieving by a vulture relative sometimes you just need to take the trash out and be done with it.
You are 100% correct. When I was listening to the story everything surrounding the legal aspects of the story came off as bizarre - this just isn't how civil suits or the court system works. The absolute best he could have done outside of reporting them for attempted fraud like you said is filed a suit for emotional damages because of the attempts to manipulate him so soon after his wifes death and even then no judge is going to overturn the will and just hand $75K to the husband over it. Civil suits primarilly serve the purpose of providing restitution for damages and these people didn't do $75k in damages. He would have to be contesting the will but no where in the story does he indicate that would be his strategy and if he isn't contesting the will then the execution of the will has nothing what-so-ever to do with his emotional distress.
He doesn't have a case to claim the $75k
Also one of the brothers allegedly works at a law firm (so presumably a lawyer if he isn't some kind of paralegal or secretary) so he should be aware of how this scam was never going to work. He should also have known that the best way to deal with the police when they went for him would be to cooperate and remain silent and not to run away and yell at the husband.
Nothing here is consistent with reality. It's a fake story.
The story is fake. No one is making that kind of money ghost writing. Also, the cops don't just immediately go arrest people because someone who didn't witness anything tells them they're sure who did it.
I automatically think that every Reddit story is fake, but this one more than most. So much of this story came off wrong. Like loan sharks bugging her parents instead of the guy she’s been married to for 12 years. Suing the parents for inherited money because “they didn’t deserve it”. And then the worst one was cops arresting people over broken windows simply because he claimed it must be them?
Yeah, completely fake.
Need to edit these better
Qley love to steal videos from royal ai