On today's episode of "Stories of a Giant Worm". I feel like 99% of all infidelity stories would end in two minutes if the impacted partner would just stand up for themselves when things get started.
Presuming the story is real in the first place, you think the people who stand up for themselves are going to be the same ones asking Reddit for advice? Food for thought.
You literally just burst my brain in half. For serious. No foolin'. Jesus what have I become lol. I've been looking for reasons why these people are all worms and it's because I've been sticking my head beneath the dirt and into their forums. Man...I...I have some thinking to do. @@archmage1015
“I walked into the room and was shocked to see my wife and AP naked in my bed. I was about to get angry but my wife explained that he was giving her an intense chiropractic adjustment and their clothes were getting in the way. She then scolded me, stating that I was being jealous for no reason and to close the door behind me so that the two of them could finish. I closed the door and went to the kitchen, where I cooked the two of them dinner and washed the dishes.”
No. You wait 3 years in line to see a therapist that has 8 more 40minutes sessions to finish and keeps looking at the time wishing longing for the time to go home to their cats and box of wine.@@mirandaballard6888
People in the comments are really being mean about the OP in story 1. His wife was gaslighting the HELL out of him. She had him thinking all of this was in his head and it was all about HIS jealousy issues, she had him apologizing to her for thinking she would be so deceitful. He got the shit manipulated out of him. That is literally gaslighting by even the strictest definition. It's not a victims fault for being gaslighting and abused by their partner. Men are not immune from being victims of this, that's a toxic mindset to have.
Sorry bro... dunno what to tell you. Love can make you blind, it's true. However, critical thinking solves that issue. My guy failed to trust his gut on so many levels. I want to empathize but when you keep asking the same mistake...
I mean sure and men are more likely to be gaslit because women are used to manipulate so they recognize it easier. But at a certain point you can’t be so blind.
Story 1: for the love of God, when everything is pointing towards one thing, believe it might be that thing. Story 2: Bloody he'll. Be open with each other. Idk
Story 1: This is a result of being the “nice guy” and not having established boundaries. Letting her hang out with a guy one on one at his house was a huge mistake. Especially with some guy she just met. This wasn’t a lifelong childhood friend, but some random guy. OP only thought he was jealous and insecure because he allowed himself to be gaslighted. Poor dude was apologizing for what his gut was telling him. He knew she was lying to him and all he did was cry and beg her to stop seeing this guy. It took “hard” evidence for him to take the blinders off.
To the Wife from story 1: Ap made you feel attractive? Did OP not made you feel attractive when you cheated on OP by sleeping with AP? Did OP not made you feel attractive ? Did he not make you feel attractive the when you went to AP’s house and sat down next to him at the couch to watch a movie while cuddling with him? The second you cheated on him is the second you lose a good man
That therapist had probably been doing the same thing to other couples and was preying on the women after the fact. I think it's a pretty stupid thing to mess about with peoples lives, especially with military personnel, who've been given training to harm others, but people with god complexes don't often make sense.
He was a soldier, they were "incompatible" and had poor sex life. And she didn't cheat and they got better together. That's like a life goal or something
Story 2 just adds to the reason i will never go see a therapist again. When i was young, my step mom was abusing me and my brother and honestly even her own son (my dad had my brother and me, she had a son and a daughter) and when i would tell the therapist the truth about what was happening (female ofc) she would tell me i was always in the wrong, and that everything had to do with my real mom (complicated situation) and then tell my step mom which, ofc, lead to further abuse. Eventually i just wouldn’t say anything in the therapy session after step mom shoved me down a fight of stairs. But yeah, i don’t trust therapists.
That's fucked up I had a similar but way less violent thing when I was at school, basically got bullied and teachers didn't do shit But I'm working on it with my therapist I'd tell you to try with other therapists and explain the situation, but idk, it's your life At least you're renting online, which I feel it's good to get it out of your system, it might have a bad effect on people reading it that need therapy, but that's my needy want to help everybody speaking, do what you need to do to process it, don't care about what others reading it might or may not think This was kinda long, I wish you the best and be true to yourself ;)
Not really. I’d actually argue that there’s more cheating husband stories on Reddit. But the vast majority of these type of channels viewers are men. So cheating wife revenge stories are going to be more popular
I have a theory as to why that is. (Sorry, this is going to get long) Most of these stories are fake, written to push the emotional buttons of the audience. It plays on our fears ("and then we took a paternity test, none of the kids are mine") but also our need for revenge ("and then I exposed her slutty ways to her whole family and shamed her"). Now, I am in my fourties and remember reading my mum's women's magazines as a child: Back then there were tons of stories with the same framework, but it was the male partner who cheated and the female partner who got revenge. I believe most of the stories were fake back then too. Now here's my theory: In real life, it is cheaters who have the upper hand - they are the charming ones with options, after all. These revenge stories fulfill a psychological need for those of us who either have felt the pain of betrayal or want to convince ourselves that we are better off single anyway. If you watch Hallmark christmas movies thinking "I'll never have that" - these stories are for you (also, join the club, we meet every wednesday at the local Rotary 😅 ). So they'll be written by, and for, an audience of hurt people with low self-esteem. Today, that is more often men than women(although women have a lot of pain too - I'm painting with broad strokes here). I don't have to go into detail about how modern dating apps changed everything, everyone knows that by now and I'm not out to moralize here; it is what it is, but mostly it just is. Anyway, back when I was a kid, the roles were reversed and it was women who felt inferior(broad strokes, remember). And so, women wrote the fake and eye catching revenge stories that would be interesting to a channel like this - not men. To back this up, I'd like to point out that recent statistics suggest that women cheat more frequently than men - but go back two decades and the roles were reversed.
Shouldn't your first sign be that your SO is spending more time with anyone else but you. Yes they should have friends and spend time with other people but if it's more them than it is you for an extended period of time then there's a problem.
That second story was ridiculous. Honestly I don't know why that couple got together in the first place. It seems like they didn't know each other before they married? I'm guessing the marriage was rushed for some reason. Also yeah I agree that maybe the counselor did realize they were incompatible, and just figured they should break up.
Has nothing to do with sex, just respect your partner. Respect their wants, needs and wishes and respect them enough to not abuse them mentally and emotionally to avoid taking accountability for your actions. You can 100% have friends, and go for coffee and have dinner dates. Just don’t cross that line. You can be disciplined if you really want to. At the end of the day, people are going to do what they want regardless but if you communicate and they still choose to violate you? At that point, there’s nothing you can do but respect yourself and leave the situation.
@@BZ1610 While this is true, it's a simple issue of risk management. I personally always cut down and reduce contact to women outside of my partner, not because I'd jump on them as soon as I can, but because it logically is the best way to prevent even the Chance of cheating. Different opinions, different world views may see this differently. I think of it as highly practical.
It’s never someone’s fault that a person cheats. It’s always the cheaters fault. All she has to do is say look, there’s this other guy and we’re done. Instead, she lied, gaslit, and emotionally manipulated someone who loved and manipulated her. He’s definitely an idiot, but for the right reasons
I don't think he's truly an idiot.. He acknowledged that he was wrong and he didn't do it again. This is q tough lesson for him to respect himself more
Why does revenge always gotta happen? Sometimes being the bigger person is better. Sure he could have gotten revenge and ruined the lives of many in process who had nothing to with the situation. But instead he just left didn't ruin anything he left and stood his ground. He's a great guy and I'm glad he's okay.
@@princessqueen6881 He got his revenge by leaving her. That's when she realized that she lost a great guy. Like they say, "You never appreciate something until it's gone."
On today's episode of "Stories of a Giant Worm". I feel like 99% of all infidelity stories would end in two minutes if the impacted partner would just stand up for themselves when things get started.
True lol. Vast majority of people in those stories are being massive simps and ignore almost every sign of cheating.
a lot of these stories( from all these channels) are stories and not real. a lot of them are. but a lot arnt too
Presuming the story is real in the first place, you think the people who stand up for themselves are going to be the same ones asking Reddit for advice?
Food for thought.
1. Excellent point, probably true.
2. Assuming this is true, stop overlooking lying, dishonesty, cheating & gaslighting.
You literally just burst my brain in half. For serious. No foolin'. Jesus what have I become lol. I've been looking for reasons why these people are all worms and it's because I've been sticking my head beneath the dirt and into their forums. Man...I...I have some thinking to do. @@archmage1015
That counselor took the old joke “if the army wanted you to have a wife, they’d have issues you one” way to seriously and in a whole other direction.
“I walked into the room and was shocked to see my wife and AP naked in my bed. I was about to get angry but my wife explained that he was giving her an intense chiropractic adjustment and their clothes were getting in the way. She then scolded me, stating that I was being jealous for no reason and to close the door behind me so that the two of them could finish. I closed the door and went to the kitchen, where I cooked the two of them dinner and washed the dishes.”
Accurate. She was all like "You look at my Email?! You don't trust me! I mean I did cheat but you don't trust me."
I’m genuinely surprised that he didn’t do that 😂
Hahaha haha lol
Story 2: And everyone wonders why some people don’t trust therapy.
No. That’s why you have a separate unbiased couples therapist and you don’t see the same individual therapist either. 😑
No. You wait 3 years in line to see a therapist that has 8 more 40minutes sessions to finish and keeps looking at the time wishing longing for the time to go home to their cats and box of wine.@@mirandaballard6888
@@mirandaballard6888well it worked out well in this case. If they didn't have the same therapist they never would have found out
@@mirandaballard6888if some of these stories to be believed individual therapists could be just as biased, harmful and unhinged
People in the comments are really being mean about the OP in story 1. His wife was gaslighting the HELL out of him. She had him thinking all of this was in his head and it was all about HIS jealousy issues, she had him apologizing to her for thinking she would be so deceitful. He got the shit manipulated out of him. That is literally gaslighting by even the strictest definition. It's not a victims fault for being gaslighting and abused by their partner. Men are not immune from being victims of this, that's a toxic mindset to have.
Sorry bro... dunno what to tell you.
Love can make you blind, it's true.
However, critical thinking solves that issue.
My guy failed to trust his gut on so many levels. I want to empathize but when you keep asking the same mistake...
@nathanbrown8196 so true got 4 minutes and had to stop listening. Dude was ignoring his gut instinct and got burned
I mean sure and men are more likely to be gaslit because women are used to manipulate so they recognize it easier. But at a certain point you can’t be so blind.
IDGAF if that instigator has transferred, report his ass for abuse of authority.
Bruh, that so-called "marriage counselor" in the second story was *wild*.
yo hold up. that counselor DID end up fixing their marriage... lmao
Lol!
He basically did..but that wasn't their intention
It was a reverse-psychology experiment
He united them against a common foe. A true genius.
S1 - At least he knows he was an idiot. Trust your gut and gather evidence.
Story 1: for the love of God, when everything is pointing towards one thing, believe it might be that thing.
Story 2: Bloody he'll. Be open with each other. Idk
Story 1: This is a result of being the “nice guy” and not having established boundaries. Letting her hang out with a guy one on one at his house was a huge mistake. Especially with some guy she just met. This wasn’t a lifelong childhood friend, but some random guy. OP only thought he was jealous and insecure because he allowed himself to be gaslighted. Poor dude was apologizing for what his gut was telling him. He knew she was lying to him and all he did was cry and beg her to stop seeing this guy. It took “hard” evidence for him to take the blinders off.
To the Wife from story 1:
Ap made you feel attractive?
Did OP not made you feel attractive when you cheated on OP by sleeping with AP?
Did OP not made you feel attractive ? Did he not make you feel attractive the when you went to AP’s house and sat down next to him at the couch to watch a movie while cuddling with him?
The second you cheated on him is the second you lose a good man
damn her feelings are so hurt from reading this, she might never stop being sad from this comment
4:27 i cant stands this doormat
That therapist had probably been doing the same thing to other couples and was preying on the women after the fact. I think it's a pretty stupid thing to mess about with peoples lives, especially with military personnel, who've been given training to harm others, but people with god complexes don't often make sense.
Not relevant, but your name brings me such joy as I imagine a hippo just vibing and schmoving
@@SoldierOfGodwynyesh🥰
Story2 first wife who did not cheat even he is a soldier
He was a soldier, they were "incompatible" and had poor sex life. And she didn't cheat and they got better together. That's like a life goal or something
Story 2: counselor was trying to get into her pants.
And instead op and her hubby ended up adopting kitties.
for story 2 bro tried to end the marriage but just made it stronger
Story 2 just adds to the reason i will never go see a therapist again. When i was young, my step mom was abusing me and my brother and honestly even her own son (my dad had my brother and me, she had a son and a daughter) and when i would tell the therapist the truth about what was happening (female ofc) she would tell me i was always in the wrong, and that everything had to do with my real mom (complicated situation) and then tell my step mom which, ofc, lead to further abuse. Eventually i just wouldn’t say anything in the therapy session after step mom shoved me down a fight of stairs. But yeah, i don’t trust therapists.
That's fucked up
I had a similar but way less violent thing when I was at school, basically got bullied and teachers didn't do shit
But I'm working on it with my therapist
I'd tell you to try with other therapists and explain the situation, but idk, it's your life
At least you're renting online, which I feel it's good to get it out of your system, it might have a bad effect on people reading it that need therapy, but that's my needy want to help everybody speaking, do what you need to do to process it, don't care about what others reading it might or may not think
This was kinda long, I wish you the best and be true to yourself ;)
The counsellor is a menace lmao. Bro is the instigator.
story 2: that counsellor definitly needs to be fired or investigated, they're meant to help marriages not flirt with any beautiful women they see
This guy is amazing. If I had him, I'd cherish him every day.
I really appreciate the OP in the first story, especially in the end. His words meant a lot and were very strong. Well done OP🎉
Wait a min.... Isn't Story 1 a repost ? I'm fairly certain I've heard it here before. Especially the part about stealing the ps and vr...
lol yeah
Honestly it sounds like the counselor was trying to break them up so that he could try to pursue the wife.
I do notice how most of the stories are about the wife’s infidelity. Are there more men on Reddit?
Not really. I’d actually argue that there’s more cheating husband stories on Reddit. But the vast majority of these type of channels viewers are men. So cheating wife revenge stories are going to be more popular
Idk but I rarely find husband cheating stories, either way i'm pretty sure 90% of these stories from reddit are either completely fake or exaggerated.
I have a theory as to why that is. (Sorry, this is going to get long)
Most of these stories are fake, written to push the emotional buttons of the audience. It plays on our fears ("and then we took a paternity test, none of the kids are mine") but also our need for revenge ("and then I exposed her slutty ways to her whole family and shamed her"). Now, I am in my fourties and remember reading my mum's women's magazines as a child: Back then there were tons of stories with the same framework, but it was the male partner who cheated and the female partner who got revenge. I believe most of the stories were fake back then too.
Now here's my theory: In real life, it is cheaters who have the upper hand - they are the charming ones with options, after all. These revenge stories fulfill a psychological need for those of us who either have felt the pain of betrayal or want to convince ourselves that we are better off single anyway. If you watch Hallmark christmas movies thinking "I'll never have that" - these stories are for you (also, join the club, we meet every wednesday at the local Rotary 😅 ). So they'll be written by, and for, an audience of hurt people with low self-esteem. Today, that is more often men than women(although women have a lot of pain too - I'm painting with broad strokes here). I don't have to go into detail about how modern dating apps changed everything, everyone knows that by now and I'm not out to moralize here; it is what it is, but mostly it just is. Anyway, back when I was a kid, the roles were reversed and it was women who felt inferior(broad strokes, remember). And so, women wrote the fake and eye catching revenge stories that would be interesting to a channel like this - not men. To back this up, I'd like to point out that recent statistics suggest that women cheat more frequently than men - but go back two decades and the roles were reversed.
Well it is cause these channels target male audience
Story 2: The therapist sounds like a sociopath. Behaviors like this are extremely common for people with ASPD.
Shouldn't your first sign be that your SO is spending more time with anyone else but you. Yes they should have friends and spend time with other people but if it's more them than it is you for an extended period of time then there's a problem.
Most honest therapist:
In Story 1, there was so much yapping yet no mention for divorce…
I hope he did
Honestly think the therapist in the second story was trying to get with the wife and break them up first.
Seriously, all these people misusing the word gaslighting is really fucking annoying as someone who went through ACTUAL gaslighting.
I feel like I've heard story 1 before....
Yup repost
Trust me when you feel lonely and want to get into relationship come to this channel and think twice
That second story was ridiculous. Honestly I don't know why that couple got together in the first place. It seems like they didn't know each other before they married? I'm guessing the marriage was rushed for some reason. Also yeah I agree that maybe the counselor did realize they were incompatible, and just figured they should break up.
If you "cant wait to have children with someone" why dont you just go with that person? Wtf is wrong with people?
scooby-doo ahh story
Can we all just agree that you don't meet opposite sex people alone in their homes and stay for dinner and then gaslight your partner?
Has nothing to do with sex, just respect your partner. Respect their wants, needs and wishes and respect them enough to not abuse them mentally and emotionally to avoid taking accountability for your actions. You can 100% have friends, and go for coffee and have dinner dates. Just don’t cross that line. You can be disciplined if you really want to.
At the end of the day, people are going to do what they want regardless but if you communicate and they still choose to violate you? At that point, there’s nothing you can do but respect yourself and leave the situation.
@@BZ1610 While this is true, it's a simple issue of risk management. I personally always cut down and reduce contact to women outside of my partner, not because I'd jump on them as soon as I can, but because it logically is the best way to prevent even the Chance of cheating.
Different opinions, different world views may see this differently. I think of it as highly practical.
Say it with me, fellas: ☕
women ☕
@@ShawnFX?
What's woman got to do with it?
The tea was strong with these stories tho-
Story 1: get a doggie they help😢
The first 5 minutes are sooooo hard to get through wtf is this guy
Story 1 hope it's real
A repost of story 1 you already posted before? But with “Christmas” close by?
wait 6 minutes ago?
Hi world
Background Music?
Annoying 😖
@@moxee33 I don't think that's right
Are these reuploaded videos????
Im feeling dumb after watching a lot of these, but what does AP stand for? I know who they are in the story but like what does it stand for
AP stands for Alpha Peen
To OP from story 1:
I pray for your heart and spirit to heal
Story 1 - Look, at that point, it’s his fault, a guy that was manipulated knowingly, and allowed it to happen too, so it’s his fault.
It’s never someone’s fault that a person cheats. It’s always the cheaters fault. All she has to do is say look, there’s this other guy and we’re done. Instead, she lied, gaslit, and emotionally manipulated someone who loved and manipulated her. He’s definitely an idiot, but for the right reasons
Not his fault.
He's a dummy sure. But aren't we all?
His ex wife cheated not him
I don't think he's truly an idiot.. He acknowledged that he was wrong and he didn't do it again. This is q tough lesson for him to respect himself more
First story is lame. No revenge
Why does revenge always gotta happen?
Sometimes being the bigger person is better.
Sure he could have gotten revenge and ruined the lives of many in process who had nothing to with the situation.
But instead he just left didn't ruin anything he left and stood his ground. He's a great guy and I'm glad he's okay.
@@princessqueen6881 He got his revenge by leaving her. That's when she realized that she lost a great guy. Like they say, "You never appreciate something until it's gone."
The best revenge is to live well
biggest revenge you can get is to live on happily and be indifferent to the cheaters lol it will eat away at them.
Losing a great guy is bad enough..