this is clarity i needed that indeed she broke up with me and broke my heart but in all reality did me a favor ive bettered myself since that breakup in 2019
@@brendatodd5288 what do you do when they do...im in the same damn situation ...i still love her but im afraid of her hypocricy...how did or do u cope with your emotions?
@@maniceguy254don't get me wrong it was hard, but what I did was remember all of the horrible things that he did to me, and it helped me get through the emotional rollercoaster. So I would not be pulled back into a relationship that I was not happy with. And it was hard, but I had to take a break, and realize that I first needed to love myself and not to settle for less. However it took a while for me to not want the relationship, but I knew that it was worth it. Practice makes perfect. And also if they wanted it to work out why not make a change before it's too late. (Empty promises). Hopefully I expressed myself to you about how I got through it?
@@brendatodd5288 wow....on my part....she always acted as the victim even when she wronged me...and i took the blame coz i loved her....i really did and still do but it was very hard being with her daily...she treated me like i was nothing and later on after a long struggle with her....loved her cared for her she still left me....unlike u...id rather not remember those days...the memories are just lainful
@@maniceguy254so sorry for what you went through. Love can allow us to believe that they will change, and we will deal with it longer than we should. It breaks my heart to hear from people who do things to others.
@@brendatodd5288 i always feel like calling her but its like shes doing fine without me...and also i know my worth now to be taken for granted...im afraid i dont want to beg her to love me again as i always do ..but once i contact her im vnarable to start begging
None of us knows the impact/mark we leave on a person’s life. Perhaps it is supposed to be this way in order to keep us humble, thus allowing us to go on giving as we are destined to do. This information will remain unknown to us, so hold your head up and carry on. I speak from experience.
@@jlddarkthey don't, and I'm glad they don't cause it hurts when one of them is you're everything 💯 I don't wish this on anybody it's hurts even after they are dead
VERY powerful reminder here, thank you for this!!!!!!!!!!!! I think those of who've suffered thru this are mentally aware of this ... but it's so validating hearing it from a source outside of ourselves. Thank you.
Amen 🙏🏾 yes I take up my fiancé naked hungry and homeless, I help him to build a house and I help him to get a very good job and as soon as he starts making money he leaves me and the children he tears us down and now he’s laughing at us and boasting about how many females he’s sleeping with I’m so confused and broken 🙏🏾
@@nataliejohnson6910 wow...its gonna be ok have faith ...im also going through a situation and i need someone to tell me its gonna be ok ...but i get u
I’m only passing threw but it doesn’t give me the right to lay harm upon you for the lord is the only light of this universe for I am humble lord almighty king of kings grace n humility I still know you are the one who holds the key
Got very angry when felt avoided ,thought of teaching her a lesson, but the love for her didn't allow to take revenge, Let her be happy, I'm totally away now 👍
I treaded my ex like a king. He treated me like a slave. His family treated me like a slave. But there was nothing for me. I was burned out. When I divorced him for his affairs he called me a gold digger. Now his new true love empties his bank account. He begs me back. He is so sorry. No contact is your best tool in box. He made me suffer for 23 years. He will suffer a lifetime. 💖🙏💖
And this was totally avoidable. They could have left me alone. Or just accepted that I needed space for a minute... But I'm overall happy with this. Let's see what is coming tho. Death and or attack or honey trap. Right when I'm so overwhelmed with the goodness. Bam. Like you don't know me by now.
@@maniceguy254 Sorry men, but 9 from the 10 times people who leave and comeback don't change, they want your benefits and leave again..( big chance they are cheating to.. ) i wish you strenght.
SHE WILL NEVER FORGET ME...THE LOVE , THE CARE, THE TIME, THE EMOTIONS, THE KINDNESS I INVESTED..WONT GO IN VAIN...SHE HAS MOVED ON TO ANOTHER GUY FOR NOW, SHE HAS DECLARED ME A VILLIAN...BUT NOT FOR LONG...MY MEMORIES WILL HAUNT HER MIND FOREVER....THE INSULTS SHE GAVE TO ME WHICH WENT UNANSWERED FROM MY SIDE WILL NOT GO IN VAIN THE FAKE ALLEGATIONS WILL NOT GO IN VAIN..IT WILL KEEP ON REPEATING IN HER HEAD TILL IT EATS HER OUT... I DO NOT WANT ANY VENGENCE,=...THAT I LEAVE TO THE GODS
I wish you didn't think the way you are. You have not taken responsibility of how I needed. I've explained it to you. I am sad you will never understand things on your side of things. .
Walk away go silent and never look back we are the emotional intelligent ones ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Nobody will be there for them, the way I used to be. It is sad but is true.
This is confirmation that I chose the correct path and he was not worthy of me...thank you
Stay in the cove
U did bro proud of you
this is clarity i needed that indeed she broke up with me and broke my heart but in all reality did me a favor ive bettered myself since that breakup in 2019
@@jeremybaca1449 has she tried coming back into your life eversince?
Action speak volumes..............
Sometimes lack of actions speak volumes
This is so true, I've noticed with me that they always try to come back into my life. But it's a little too late!
@@brendatodd5288 what do you do when they do...im in the same damn situation ...i still love her but im afraid of her hypocricy...how did or do u cope with your emotions?
@@maniceguy254don't get me wrong it was hard, but what I did was remember all of the horrible things that he did to me, and it helped me get through the emotional rollercoaster. So I would not be pulled back into a relationship that I was not happy with. And it was hard, but I had to take a break, and realize that I first needed to love myself and not to settle for less. However it took a while for me to not want the relationship, but I knew that it was worth it. Practice makes perfect. And also if they wanted it to work out why not make a change before it's too late. (Empty promises). Hopefully I expressed myself to you about how I got through it?
@@brendatodd5288 wow....on my part....she always acted as the victim even when she wronged me...and i took the blame coz i loved her....i really did and still do but it was very hard being with her daily...she treated me like i was nothing and later on after a long struggle with her....loved her cared for her she still left me....unlike u...id rather not remember those days...the memories are just lainful
@@maniceguy254so sorry for what you went through. Love can allow us to believe that they will change, and we will deal with it longer than we should. It breaks my heart to hear from people who do things to others.
@@brendatodd5288 i always feel like calling her but its like shes doing fine without me...and also i know my worth now to be taken for granted...im afraid i dont want to beg her to love me again as i always do ..but once i contact her im vnarable to start begging
Yes. I was the loyal friend, they were not. I have
God thats better.
Stay Ghost And Walk Away. . .
you expected something from them. You gave them the love you wanted
❤
It's not revenge It's protection for your mental health walk away and stay away
@@najm3335 yes 💯
@@najm3335 That is true I wanted the same love from him
Nothing but the truth ❤️🔥
I wish I had a friend like you
thank you joker for the motivation it's helping 🎉a lot in my life.
None of us knows the impact/mark we leave on a person’s life. Perhaps it is supposed to be this way in order to keep us humble, thus allowing us to go on giving as we are destined to do. This information will remain unknown to us, so hold your head up and carry on. I speak from experience.
❤❤
@@TheAlphaBanker that's impossible then how do yal increase in numbers lol
You telling me yal are birthed into succession? Gotta be a recruiting process
Amd im telling yal the impact right now lol
Yal know me better than my family, yal know exwftky what impact yal had lol it's in all the videos lol
Amen. Thank you joker 👍
Day 3 of listening to him n knew and know - all thr masks are revealed , nobody knows my story but God has spoken
I almost feel sorry for the woman I cut out of my life. She has no idea how much I cared about her. My absence is going to haunt her for years.
Feel the same but "He" ❤️🩹❤️🔥💔
Chill narcissist
@@wyz1 You probably don't even know what one is.
@@jlddarkthey don't, and I'm glad they don't cause it hurts when one of them is you're everything 💯 I don't wish this on anybody it's hurts even after they are dead
@@jlddark oh you hit every mark with those three sentences. Move on, don't wish nothing upon anybody, and you'll be okay. God speed
Thank you so much I needed to hear this I love your channel ❤
Much needed ❤️🔥
Best channel that found me plus huge joker fan
A hard listen but very true ❤❤❤
Yes I will thrive Mr joker
Yes❤
VERY powerful reminder here, thank you for this!!!!!!!!!!!! I think those of who've suffered thru this are mentally aware of this ... but it's so validating hearing it from a source outside of ourselves. Thank you.
#Soul# Impressive Words made of Heart & Soul.
Great message. Thank you.
Time always heals all wounds
Ty for this powerful confirmation. I love you buddy. God bless you
They will never forget clinging to life in an emergency room trauma unit
Thanks for the help
I was nodding in agreement with this video from the start right to the end, is that weird 🤷♂️
Thankyou. It's been fun❤
Have no words... The Joker said them allready !
Amazing seen your reflection translated in words ❤
DEDICATED 4 LIFE
THANKS FOR THIS 🤜
Means alot to me❤😊
It's okay, I will keep going, I meant every single moment 🤫❤
Thank you for these videos
❤❤❤ 😢💔
Amen 🙏🏾 yes I take up my fiancé naked hungry and homeless, I help him to build a house and I help him to get a very good job and as soon as he starts making money he leaves me and the children he tears us down and now he’s laughing at us and boasting about how many females he’s sleeping with I’m so confused and broken 🙏🏾
I’m sorry he did this to you & children. He wasn’t right in his heart & mind. Heal my friend. One day at a time. Build your life be strong 💪🏽🙏🏼
@@andreakeener6378 Thank you so very much 🙏🏾
Take care for yourself Protect yourself. ❤ 💫
@@mariettestabel275 Thank you 🙏🏾
@@nataliejohnson6910 wow...its gonna be ok have faith ...im also going through a situation and i need someone to tell me its gonna be ok ...but i get u
yeah
Very much true
💯 TRUE 👍 ❤🙏😇😇😇❤️
Exactly 💯 💯 💯 😢😢😢😢 he's did to me.
I’m only passing threw but it doesn’t give me the right to lay harm upon you for the lord is the only light of this universe for I am humble lord almighty king of kings grace n humility I still know you are the one who holds the key
Got very angry when felt avoided ,thought of teaching her a lesson, but the love for her didn't allow to take revenge, Let her be happy, I'm totally away now 👍
So very true. ❤
Love you ❤
I give my love and attention to other people and they are laughing 😄 and more than that 🤣
I treaded my ex like a king. He treated me like a slave. His family treated me like a slave.
But there was nothing for me. I was burned out. When I divorced him for his affairs he called me a gold digger. Now his new true love empties his bank account. He begs me back. He is so sorry.
No contact is your best tool in box. He made me suffer for 23 years. He will suffer a lifetime.
💖🙏💖
💪🏽❤️🔥
And this was totally avoidable. They could have left me alone. Or just accepted that I needed space for a minute... But I'm overall happy with this. Let's see what is coming tho. Death and or attack or honey trap. Right when I'm so overwhelmed with the goodness. Bam. Like you don't know me by now.
Amen 🙏 ❤
Maybe she'll get it together next lifetime
For the wrongful did theybhave donento you..yes
Forgotten
Truth
Yep I gave my kindness, my love, & time for someone & now she realized that I loved her the whole time.
Yup
You had a good thing probably the best thing you’ll ever have and you messed it up !
Amen
❤
What if they tend to want to comeback into my life....saying that they love me and have changed ..what should i do?
Actions speak louder than words
See if they have really changed
Then you can make your decision
They lie.
@@vixter28 how do i see the change...i mean i dont see her she lives very far away
@@Flokix4 so i should not give her another chance?
@@maniceguy254 Sorry men, but 9 from the 10 times people who leave and comeback don't change, they want your benefits and leave again..( big chance they are cheating to.. ) i wish you strenght.
Somebody just needs to step up and t3ll me what's been real and what's been orchestrated lol
SHE WILL NEVER FORGET ME...THE LOVE , THE CARE, THE TIME, THE EMOTIONS, THE KINDNESS I INVESTED..WONT GO IN VAIN...SHE HAS MOVED ON TO ANOTHER GUY FOR NOW, SHE HAS DECLARED ME A VILLIAN...BUT NOT FOR LONG...MY MEMORIES WILL HAUNT HER MIND FOREVER....THE INSULTS SHE GAVE TO ME WHICH WENT UNANSWERED FROM MY SIDE WILL NOT GO IN VAIN
THE FAKE ALLEGATIONS WILL NOT GO IN VAIN..IT WILL KEEP ON REPEATING IN HER HEAD TILL IT EATS HER OUT...
I DO NOT WANT ANY VENGENCE,=...THAT I LEAVE TO THE GODS
He used me only for the money, after i help him, he ignored me.
Forget about who ..? Are you looking for your teddy bear
Someone walked away from me and I walked away from someone. This is Just life. We will never be perfect.
point missed...
I wish you didn't think the way you are. You have not taken responsibility of how I needed. I've explained it to you. I am sad you will never understand things on your side of things.
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100.
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yea god is righeous and fair not i dont care
THIS HURTS TO HEAR CAUSE I WAS JUST A COLLATERAL DAMAGE TO THEM.... NOW I KNOW....... KEEP SEARCHING... YOU WILL NEVER FIND ME....... 💔❤️🩹🔛🔝🔙🔄