Cis/straight/white boomer woman here. I don't see a downside to accepting someone's gender identity either. If a Josh Seiter "fools" me, so what? I'm supposed to suddenly hate anyone who's trans because of that? Nah. I'd rather be fooled by the occasional conservative knucklehead than abandon the whole trans community (which would include some truly marvelous people in my life)! I hope Josh gets some help, though.
Having boundaries doesn’t mean I hate someone. If I don’t want to have sex with you or I’m not attracted to you in that way because you’re not a man (I’m gay) that doesn’t mean I ‘hate’ women. And you can ‘identify’ as a man all you want but that won’t change the fact that you are a woman and it won’t change my sexual orientation. And sorry to be blunt but a piece of plastic is not the same as a real penis on a real man and no amount of homophobic bullying will change that.
@@Gatheist i really don’t get transphobic gays. your transphobia won’t protect you. you are still the weakest link of the lgbt community and holding back progress for yourself. you don’t have to be attracted to vaginas, but to call trans men women is just you being insecure in your sexuality. no different than any straight man who fears putting on makeup or painting his nails. i also highly doubt that penis is the only thing that drives your sexuality. that a man has to be fully nude for you to find him attractive. gay men did not struggle through homophobia just to be called straight by some ugly-ass, sexually insecure, transphobe for being attracted to trans men. it is not homophobic for gay men to be attracted to men, trans or cis. it is however homophobic to call gay men “not gay” just because their sexuality doesn’t fit the bounds of what cis-heterosexuals deem gay enough. gender diverse people existed long before sexual orientation was constructed. gender diverse people existed long before you, and will exist long after you. you’re framing your sexuality as a disgust for certain people instead of as a love for others. go live your small ‘queer’ life and choke on the c0cks you love so much. but if you don’t want to experience trans men, stay out of trans spaces -like a trans woman’s channel.
@@Gatheist i really don’t get transphobic gays. your transphobia won’t protect you. you are still the weakest link of the lgbt community and holding back progress for yourself. you don’t have to be attracted to v@ginas, but to call trans men women is just you being insecure in your sexuality. no different than any straight man who fears putting on makeup or painting his nails. i also highly doubt that p3nis is the only thing that drives your sexuality. that a man has to be fully nude for you to find him attractive. gay men did not struggle through homophobia just to be called straight by some ugly-a$$, sexually insecure, transphobe for being attracted to trans men. it is not homophobic for gay men to be attracted to men, trans or cis. not to expect gay men to treat trans men as men, regardless of if they’re attracted to them or not. it is however homophobic to call gay men “not gay” just because their sexuality doesn’t fit the bounds of what cis-heterosexuals deem gay enough. gender diverse people existed long before sexual orientation was constructed. gender diverse people existed long before you, and will exist long after you. gay trans men existed and exist, and so did/do the cis gay men that love and f*ck them. you’re framing your sexuality as a disgust for certain people instead of as a love for others. go live your small ‘queer’ life and choke on the c0cks you love so much. but if you don’t want to experience trans men, stay out of trans spaces -like a trans woman’s comment section.
The fact that his parody of trans women is just being nice, reminding people about going to the doctor and making silly jokes about his cat. Like the worst version of a trans woman he could think of is just a wholesome person
i could l̶i̶t̶e̶r̶a̶l̶l̶y̶ tell you to your face "Im lying to you" and if i say it nice enough with the correct dress code, you will comply and agree, because you want to be nice EDIT: i had the word literally scratched cause i took a massive L on that
@@Luixxxd1 I also like to fantasize about hypothetical conversations I could have with other people, when I take a shower, but it's pretty weird that you've convinced yourself those fantasy conversations would play out the same way irl.
@@LucyTheBox so, if projection had a definition, how would what you just said not fall under it? Honestly askig. You could also have asked: how have you come to that conclusion with so little info? and i would have admited: it's just an asumption based on phrasing patterns and statistics (no, im not citing every single study i have read in the past 10 years that has a tangential relation to my conclusion just to satisfy both of our egos, lets just keep sharing eachothers understanding of the topic) on human behaviour, just like some people claim being [INSERT RACE OF CHOICE] means you need to be protected.
From my experience as a digital SWer, you’re spot on about the autogynophilia. I had clients, cis men, who were aroused by cross-dressing. They oftentimes referred to themselves as s*ssies. These clients enjoyed fetish play that included “forced feminization” or even being coerced/forced (consentual nonconsent) into s*x acts with other men. These clients are masochistic and view femininity as inherently degrading. I stopped doing feminization play because the idea of femininity or womanhood being inherently degrading doesn’t sit well with my spirit.
I'm not disagreeing with you here, but I think a lot of people who enjoy these kinks and enjoy sissy content are using it to explore gender in a safe environment. Trying to grapple with the idea that your whole gender is not what you always thought it was is a huge, life changing thing that can be difficult to face. Grappling with a new kink is much easier. It's like drag in that way. Iknow at least a few people who started exploring their gender via sissy stuff and later came out as trans, same as there are many drag queens who started their careers thinking they were cis men, only to later realise they're trans women.
@@ed6705 I also would like to add that sometimes it can be a way to cope with the pressure of being so manly all the time and escape from a cisheteronormative society by breaking those social norms with a person that you trust, I think that it's more the relationship people have with the kink that can be toxic and not the act itself i've had some experience with men that do this themselves and the explanation I got is that it felt safe to be treated as girl by their dom while in other contexts being perceived as girly could make them feel unconfortable because of the ridicule they're affraid of suffering in society, engaging in a different gender presentation in the bedroom helped them feel more confident and less threatened by other people's opinions on their masculinity during the day
"no its just ironic, i wear dresses and make up but in an ironic way, i enjoy and embrace my feminine side BUT IN AN IRONIC WAY, I FEEL PRETTY BUT ITS IRONIC I SWEAR"
8:29 This is a misogynist. Period. The way he talks about ‘feminine’ things, the way he puts his ‘trans voice’ together breaths that he thinks of women as less- less intelligent, less worthy of attention; and essentially less than. This man is revolting.
Yep! Misogyny is at the core of this and that’s why they mostly focus on trans women and when they focus on trans men they’re always confused women who should be having children.
I agree, but this is also the same criticism people had towards Dylan mulvany. Yet enough people defended that as well. This attention seeking behavior is perpetuated by how the internet works.
@@RawrItsJuul I agree with those specific criticisms, but most "criticism" i saw of Dylan was just people accusing her of being a predator, and also arguing that ~real~ women would _never_ engage in potentially harmful stereotypes in order to sort of express their gender and be seen as a proper woman. People suddenly realize how weird gender is when someone does it "the wrong way"
@actualgoblin I've seen many people upset and talking about how Dylan was wearing woman face and making a mockery of them. Dylan was very much acting like what he thinks stereotypical women act like. "Walking around the forest in my little hiking boots and my hiking shorts", screaming hysterically at a bug and falling to the ground, talking about his experiences as a woman as "crying emotionally", the "women" have bulges. I think people believe Dylan sooner is because he already looked like a Twink and more feminine, but in behavior there is no difference between this Josh guy and Dylan.
As an actual peer-reviewed & published researcher in social science (psychology), can we PLEASE stop claiming things are social experiments 😭 this man trying to use his bachelor’s degree in sociology to say give weight to his “social experiment” is unhinged 👹
unfortunately people like him LIVE by doing so it gives their lives meaning, same can be said of TERFs (or FARTs, Feminist-Appropriating Regressive Transphobes) and it seems most conservatives that swallow such propaganda even worse that much of the U.S doesn't care to learn, and that the UK actively disregards any study that disproves their crusade (eg, the recent ''cass report'' that multiple scientific bodies have debunked and refuted, and called into question the inherent bias in those running the study who changed it's parameters before it was completed)
I get the impression that the audience for these sorta things typically don’t even have degrees at all. So him getting one is supposed to do all the heavy lifting
@@KatBlaqueThat makes a lot of sense. I asked for sources from a person here on YT on body size and race. They gave me TWO non-peer reviewed journals. Who are they trying to fool? 😭💀
I hate when Internet randos call their shenanigans "social experiments". EXPERIMENT?? Girl, WHERE? Is the methodology in the room with us? What are the variables?? Results and conclusion?? Riddled with wild bias. And all of this for what? Because a trans woman broke up with him 😭 Embarrassing.
men are intrinsically evil and we've been told since childhood to not go to a therapist, you need to get a grip and understand that the world in which men get help and stop being terrible people legitimately does not exist
The thing about trolls is that no matter how people react to them, they view it as a win. In this case people were kind and accepting which means he gets to call them dumb and gullible. “Haha I fooled them!” If people rejected his claim and accused him of lying, then he gets to call them hypocrites. “So much for the tolerant left!”
exactly, this is what it was really about. if it was any kind of "experiment", then the topic of it was his ability to get people to react. because that *feels* like having power and influence..... to an insecure person.
He and Steven Crowder both did this. They seem very enthusiastic to wear dresses and makeup any chance they get, and then act like it's all for trolling. I really enjoy your perspective on crossdressing cis men and how so many of them have these conflicted feelings, how so many of them are conservative, and how so many are transphobic. Your experiences in dealing with them sound exhausting.
If I remember well, Crowder also said at some point that he had a "bisexual phase" in college. It seems to me that he might be quite repressed in that regard as well.
@hinasakukimi no, all homophobes have had gay thoughts. Might be bi and not gay, hence the reason they think it's a choice. But every homophobe has had sexual thoughts about the same sex for sure. That's why they get so scared
@@orionishi6737 are you serious? maybe like an "emotional" homophobe that has a strong instinctual physical/emotional reaction to gay/bi people (of their own gender), but there are plenty of people who have just grown up with awful values and believe in those values because they believe what they were taught growing up (for example), there are tons of ways to be homophobic
I'm confused as to what exactly the gag was supposed to be. That ppl were accepting & respectful of Josh's fake transition? That ppl decided to be kind? Like this for me (much like that other girl who faked being pregnant & having a miscarriage) just makes him look so unhinged & insanely cruel. What did he expect for ppl online to do?😂😂😂
Well, there's certainly an aspect to conservatism that says kindness is stupid and weak and foolish, except when it's directed at the Right People, the insiders, People Like Us. I guess "I was mocking them but they were nice to me" is peak conservative humor.
I don’t know. He kept saying he fooled the left, but the only people I saw fooled were conservatives and their comments section. I kept responding that he was obviously trolling. Although I do see the point he was making, and recognize that what he was saying was real shit “trans lesbians” have been saying online for real. He’s still a creep, though.
Yeah, as if people online can tell if you're faking it or not. You can literally lie about everything, and if you're not well known, you'll probably get away with it.
I love the new format: leaning in to the BDSM personality/aesthetics, starting with a story from your personal life and using it as a way to understand a larger story, the reaction phone! It's excellent imo. I don't have thoughts on Seiter besides being desperate in more ways than one, so that's my comment.
Saying wearing makeup is womanface when you were literally on the bachelorette, where you had to compete against 24 other men who are all wearing makeup (because TV), is so insane to me
Reminds me of one who'd said that the message of a trans woman winning a beauty contest was that "women, men can be better than you even at being women". Makeup, beauty, winning a beauty context... truly, the essence of womanhood 🤡 the misogyny is so clear. They accuse trans people of thinking womanhood is just a Feminine stereotype, but once again the call is coming from inside the house
While sitting for a televised show, and knowing damn well all the men on television also wear makeup otherwise they']d look like a sack of potatoes left to rot behind a chair somewhere. As thought nobody sees their delusion.
bro literally worked in tv and got pretty'd up for it and he of all people uses that stupid line when he knows better. the grift couldn't be any more transparent if it were made of glass.
Obv kink shaming is bad, but imho, as a person who hangs out in kink spaces, there’s a certain subsection of humiliation kink and forced feminization that screams transmisogyny Oh no I’m in a pretty dress and doing the laundry! How humiliating! It kind of begs the question: what exactly is humiliating ? Is being a woman inherently lesser than? Is it the fact that you’re actually doing chores for once in your life? What peeves me also is how the same people lump feminization with barnyard animals. Like wtf does that say about their perception of women 😭💀
Hard agree. I'm a femme trans man who is a sub and it honestly makes me very uncomfortable when people in kink spaces talk that way to me. I hate being talked to as if what I enjoy is supposed to be humiliating (plus when it comes to transmascs/trans men, "force fem" usually comes with "detrans" added on).
Kinkshaming and analysis of kink shouldn't be conflated, in my opinion. If you do race play, for instance, it's really important that you can acknowledge what about it HAS to be play and what about it is drawn from bigotry because if you don't, you're just being racist in a sexual setting. I know that kink can lead to a lot of harmful shame, but that goes in both directions. If your kink involves some kinds of bigotry, you can end up harming partners if you're not careful and if you don't navigate that properly either. It's not kink-shaming to point out when a dom is really bad at being a dom. When they're reckless, when they ignore boundaries, when they bring in play that wasn't cleared or they know the sub doesn't like. We shouldn't endure that shit, and we shouldn't endure people who refuse to acknowledge bigotry inherent to the kink that is literally just bigotry as a kink. It doesn't mean they are an irredeemable person, it means they need to understand their kink better and respect other people around them more.
I never really thought of it like that, you made me think. I always thought of it as being forced to be something that they are not, so being forced to dress as a woman is something they generally don't do, so it would be humiliating to be forced to be something you feel you are not, to me, I thought, it wasn't about being a woman that was humiliating, it is a man, who identifies as a man, who doesn't dress feminine, being forced to dress in a way and do things that is not typically them, or not considered stereotypically them, doing things that are stereotypically something different to what they identify as, while being forced dressed like that too, would indeed increase the feelings. And doing chores that stereotypically, a woman does while forced dressed as a woman, means it would get them into the headspace of being a woman, so more humiliating due to them identifying as a man, so I thought it wasn't the woman aspect that is humiliating, I always thought it is the fact they are being forced to be something they don't actually identify as. That would be humiliating to some people. Maybe that is why barnyard animals were lumped together. I always thought it was about being forced to be something you don't feel you are, or identify as. Maybe I was wrong in thinking this, I don't know, but that is how I have always seen it. To me, forced feminization's humiliating aspects, play with the stereotypes and kinda enforces them, but in a way that still plays with them. I always thought, it would be the same for a very feminine female, who dressed very feminine, acted very feminine, to be forced to dress very masculine and do stereotypical masculine things. It would stir up feelings of humiliation, I felt, as that isn't who they feel they are. So, I didn't feel it was about the fact of being a female that was humiliating, just the fact of being forced to be something they don't feel they are...🤷♀ Idk..
Listening to conservative men talk about topics like gender feels like grown men having a board meeting about and discussing the intricacies of a baby's first book about farm animals
there genuinely is NOT A SINGLE downside to supporting someone's gender identity.... even if its a fake one 😭😭 bro is actually delusional. bur ur stunning as always Kat 😏😏
Im so glad you decided to tackle this fool. As a woman who transitioned 40yrs ago, I knew that he was pretending from the very beginning. He just poured fuel on a fire that's already raging.
The obvious giveaway in his first video is him suggesting that there's no difference between cis women and trans women, something that no trans person believes, but that transphobes seem to think trans people believe. I didn't guess that he was faking before because I wasn't even aware of his existence, and I'm guessing neither were most people.
@@chrisbfreelanceNo they do not. The simple act of transitioning gives a trans woman a different life experience to a cis woman. While there are many experiences all women (whether cis or trans) share, no trans woman is claiming her experience as a woman is exactly the same as a cis woman's
@@chrisbfreelance it's vastly more likely that you misinterpreted what someone said (or are simply making shit up) than that you found the one trans person in the world who thinks that trans women generally have uteri.
It doesn’t shock me that a man that’s dated trans women is now on a hate train against them because she didn’t want his stupid ass. When some men get rejected they get angry even with cis women so yeah that definitely sounds about right 😑
I've noticed that when certain dudes hate on a certain group of women it's almost always because they've been rejected by them and they can't stand the slight to their ego.
Dude, not even trans guys are safe. I was asked out by man who was very clear he was straight, but then he threw a tantrum when I pointed out he probably wouldn't be attracted to me after I take T 🤦♂️🤦♂️
My first thought with that "feminine health" video was "oh, the pink top kinda works with his skin tone." Also, i feel like even when he TRIES to do a bit to make people mad, the lesson is actually really important: being aware of prostate health.
It's a relief you clarified not all crossdressers are like that. You had me at first ngl. I am a crossdressing man (well, I may be somewhat gender fluid but I tend to stick with masculine pronouns and a male name) but I do not have a kink from it, and I wear women's clothing because I just do prefer presenting myself as being more feminine, and hate looking masculine. I very much accept and verify trans women as women
24:14 The projection in this statement aaah 😭”men turned on at the thought of themselves being women” as he dresses up for a 5 month long ‘bit’ imagining himself being a transgender woman and openly dressing in traditionally feminine clothing. hm… Suspicious!
Thank you for explaining something that I've had a hard time wrapping my head around! I'm a straight cisgender woman, and a previous partner I had was a straight cisgender man who enjoyed wearing women's clothing (especially MY clothing, and especially receiving oral sex while cross-dressing). Naively, I thought he would be an open-minded breath of fresh air. He ended up being the most misogynistic man I've ever been with! I was shocked when he refused to wear condoms and insisted that I go on birth control. I told him I didn't want to mess with my endocrine system and troubleshoot different birth controls and their side effects. He claimed this was transphobic and I must by extension be opposed to hormonal gender affirming care. He would sometimes wear my clothing out in public and it never phased me until a friend pointed out that when he did, he would carry himself and speak in this ditzy "dumb blond" persona, giggling and batting his eyes a lot. I couldn't unsee it, and it irked me, but I was too self-conscious to say anything about it. I was terrified I might unknowingly be a transphobe. Or at least, be accused of that and not know enough to argue otherwise. He also tried to keep the clothes I had lent him during our relationship, after our breakup. I came by at the agreed-upon time to pick up my things and he handed me a bag conspicuously missing all my clothes he'd borrowed. When I asked for them he threw a really scary temper tantrum (BIG dude) that made me cry and call a friend to witness for my safety. Mostly, I try not to think about him now. Hearing your description of your experience with (some!) cross-dressing men was the first time I've thought about him in a long time, and for once it wasn't angering or confusing! It gave me some clarity, and also a good laugh. Hearing how these guys behave in interactions with trans women also sheds light on how comfortable he was using trans women in his narrative to control me. They are frustratingly nonsensically misogynistic against ⭐All Women 💞
*Imagine* calling condoms transphobic... Ladies, is safe sex and caring for your partner's well-being transphobic? Glad you're out of that situation now! I hope you have much better times ahead of you.
as someone with an autism special interest in the psychology of fetishes and thus fetish content, i clocked this as being fetish content IMMEDIATELY. it’s so obvious and i’m so glad you made a video discussing it. also, if he “majored” in sociology, he must’ve barely passed cause good god
I really appreciate the distinction you made between cross-dressing and being trans because it's such a difficult thing for people who aren't terminally online to wrap their heads around. I find nothing but joy in my femininity and womanhood, it's why I wanted to transition because I couldn't find that same happiness as a feminine man. I don't feel degraded or lesser from how I look or dress, I just feel like myself and that makes me happy because I spent so long trying to find that, getting close but never quite grasping it until I started to transition. I don't even really "pass" but people still treat me like they would any other woman and it's because of that happiness, I think. This Josh person seems to really want to just hang on to whatever speck of relevance that seems to have already passed him by at all costs and he's airing out his dirty laundry to do so because he can't handle being a mediocre man.
That is an excellent point, usually I'm the first to get on people about that being an etymology nerd but I didn't think of how bad the interview was for not being clear about it. Although these days most transvestites (cross dressers, vestis meaning clothes) identity as trans in some way. Transsexual used to be in the binary sense, MTF or FTM and TERFs still follow this, but now trans more generally means transgender, identifying as any sort of outside the cisgender binary (including FTM and MTF.)
Im a trans girl who doesnt pass very well. I honestly thought at first that he was like me when i saw a pic. Just hasnt done much medically, and has mostly masculine genes. Then i saw a vid and oml.
@@thewatersop9795 all the love in the world to all non-passing, muscled, hairy, gnc trans women fr but his presentation was insane! he rocked a masc haircut that MUST have been retouched a few times in the MONTHS he kept doing the persona, he didn't seem to even trim his chest hair, his face consistently had at least a few days worth of hair growth... for the character he was playing, that didn't make any sense at all! I myself am a nonbinary transfemme, I rarely shave my legs, intentionally keep my pit hair, accept the fact that hair grows in my face and can't deal with it everyday... and I know a lot of other women/transfemmes who deal with or even appreaciate some of their "masculine" features, but the whole combo he was putting on is insane and a clear parody to anyone who know any trans people
@@xXxzAAa0aAAzxXxI am a post op trans woman with a butch side. I couldn't finish facial electrolysis due to the pandemic. Now that I no longer have insurance coverage for it, I haven't bothered. I don't shave daily. It's not enough facial hair to really trigger my dysphoria. And there are ciswomen with facial hair. Sometimes I wish I had enough facial hair to grow a nice beard.
Watch out! The erosion of your internalised transphobia could have horrible side effects such as: -Self-acceptance -Having a more positive outlook on life -Being more genuine around others -Gaining a greater understanding of people's experiences And in extreme cases, it could lead to you living a long and happy life.
A similar thing will happen with some men when they get their heart broken by a person of another ethnicity. All of a sudden “ethnicity” is whatever “negative stereotype” so I’m not surprised at all. Sometimes I think people use “clout chasing” as an insult when their job is some form of entertainment thus attention is required. However, this stunt was definitely about clout chasing in the negative aspect. Doing something unethical, unreasonable, intentional spreading misinformation, creating hate bait content is “clout chasing” in the negative way.
You have made some absolutely PROFOUND observations about cis men-especially conservative cis men-who are cross dressers and find the idea of dressing like a woman and being "feminine" as "inherently degrading." You are doing god's work. Thank you so much for this video and all of your content!!!
As a cis woman, I kinda disagree. If we're making the comparison to black face, then what he was doing was trans face. It was a deliberately cruel mockery of specifically trans women, not women as a whole.
19:16 for me it was the hair. I'm a chica with disablities who just cut her hair today cuz too painful for shower when too long,(I might be hyperfocused right now on hair is what I'm saying lol) so just from the thumbnail. You need a LOT of upkeep to keep hair that short and the style to me has always screamed um, hypermasculine conservative male trying too hard to me, given the other details in his outfit.
my thoughts exactly! it's such an uneducated parody that screams "I'm taking that off when i stop filming" and it's not even that he should've let his hair grow, but the fact that he didn't change anything about it - even cutting it shorter would be more convincing. His character was very contradictory. It was a very binary trans woman, putting a lot of stock on having the same experiences as cis women, but also rocking a beard and a very masculine haircut, mixing in some very left field enby discourse... just an obvious lady ballers style parody
@@KatBlaqueBingo! When I first started my transition I grew my hair out. Sometime after getting bottom surgery I shaved my head full cue ball. I have done a shaved head or short hair a bunch since then. I am trying to grow it out again, but I don't know how long I will go before deciding to shave it off again.
As a cis woman who is a biology nerd, yes estrogen causes intestinal cramps. Whether you want to call it a "period" or not is probably debatable, but it's directly causal. The uterus and intestines are both smooth muscle; the only smooth muscle we have in our bodies. The hormonal signals that make the uterus contract are also going to make intestines contract. It happens to me every month. It also happens to my trans wife now that she's started HRT. So, I'm not gonna say you should call it a period; it might be most accurate to just call it hormone cramps, but it's the effects of estrogen and prostaglandins on smooth muscle. (Guy mocking it is annoying, but whatever.)
for me (a trans man), it's the way that so many people say "it can't be that bad", "they're just exaggerating", "they're just oversensitive and need to suck it up", "there's no way that the pain and mood swings they say happen to them every month is actually happening"... that makes me refer to the hormonal imbalance trans women go through as periods. because that's exactly how people treat periods with cis women, lol.
I live for Kat's little dance when he was saying trans woman are men, how he was dressed is how he truly pictures trans women, as men in dresses and lipstick
My favorite thing was when someone said that my (late-in-life) transition was autogynephilia. But I'm a transmasculine individual. So .... I dunno man, some people are just ... not ok.
People just don’t know what words mean lmao. Maybe this is an argument for teaching linguistics or some kind of rudimentary classics in schools again, I was made to systematically learn Greek and Latin roots in high school biology and it’s actually made me a stronger reader too.
I find this amusing as a post op trans woman with autoandrophilia. Sometimes I get sexually aroused if I imagine myself as a muscular dude with a big dick. I even got a packer and packing undies for when I am feeling extra butch.
I came across this random website that talked about AGP and HSTS, and then was like "There's not currently a known one for MtF" which I found so funny as a (mostly) gay trans man.
This video was hard to watch. I'm glad you were able to take it with a grain of salt and in a jovial manner, but the fact that he spent months mocking trans women and is now pretending like its some big gotcha is mind blowing. LIke. There are so many more things you could make stupid "social commentary" on. Trans people shouldnt be some big ballot issue. We live in a society. Everyone plays into roles. It should not matter what people are deciding to do with thier lives when it effects NO ONE. If people even cared half as much about the corruption of billionaires the world might actually be a better place.
I'm genderfluid, and it took me a long time to figure out my relationship with gender. I find it really funny when I hear the argument, "But what if they change their minds???" So? Sometimes my gender changes on an hourly basis. People change. They grow to know themselves and how to articulate their identity. Just because *you* need an instruction manual on how to perform your assigned gender doesn't mean the rest of us want one.
Speaking of, men are more likely to die from breast cancer than testicular cancer, because testicular cancer is so treatable and usually occurs when young, whereas breast cancer usually develops in older men.
He seems like a totally normal guy. I think the weirdos are the ones dressing up as the opposite sex , making podcasts about sleeping with random people being perverted as f. I guarantee your parents HATE YOU.
Its also more complicated, lots of cis women *are* attracted by their own bodies, does that make *them* 'autogynophiles'? What about queer women? Cis and Trans Bisexuals and Lesbians enjoy their own and other female bodies.
@@Luixxxd1 Its not *unhealthy* to find yourself attractive, or to be turned on by your own body and playing with your own body. Its only 'narcissistic' if you do it to the exclusion of all others, and if you consider yourself to me more attractive than anyone else. As women, we are taught to downplay ourselves, to constantly find fault with our own physical appearance, to be unduly humble and to rely upon others for boosts to our self-esteem. Its why so many men will tell you that you are beautiful and then act like you're a monster if you say something like, 'I know' or even 'why yes I am, thanks for noticing.' You didn't ask for them to comment on your appearance, yet they did and expect you to be grateful for it even if they are a total stranger.
@@queenvagabond8787 " Its not unhealthy to find yourself attractive, or to be turned on by your own body and playing with your own body. " only insane people would say being insane is not insane. Holy shit what a bunch of nonsense "As women, we are taught to downplay ourselves" NO YOU SELF-CENTERED BRAT. AS HUMANS YOU ARE TO BE HUMBLE. Just because some people don't care about being humble doesn't mean only women are told to behave. "to constantly find fault with our own physical appearance, " same with dudes, we oughta be strong, since being weak is pathetic. Dont you even see how self-centered it is to pretend only you are being held to a standard? AGAIN: JUST BECAUSE SOME MEN DONT CARE ABOUT IT DOESNT MEAN ONLY YOU ARE TOLD TO BEHAVE... i stopped reading past that, it's just self-absorbed "the world is against me and only against me" psychobabble
I'm not the gender police, other people expressing themselves differently from me has zero effects on my life. I transitioned at 30 and recently finished my medical transition 4 years later. Legal name change is in two weeks, concluding my social transition. It was a very private, personal experience, who am I to tell people what theirs should look like?
So I don't know if you saw this while looking him up but Josh has done this/ similar things for other lgbtq+ communities. He made a huge deal about being bi and being the "first" bi bachelor's contestant only to then come out saying bi people don't exist but then after a few more controversies (stunts for attention) he came out as pan and dropped an OF but was talking shit about the men who bought it and said stuff about how disgusting sex with a man was next he jumped into the feederism community and gained some weight so people would send him money like all his other stunts after a while he lost the weight and said it was an experiment to show people don't care about health just their fetish and how easy it is to get into shape (think like those trainers who gained weight to experience what their clients go through). The thing he did before this trans experiment was him seemingly trying to into politics and I think he saw he got a lot of conservative attention and I won't be surprised if he goes down the conservative influencer route to make money.
I think he wanted to be told he is disgusting and be dog pilled on therefore he have a reason to repress himself further into the closet- if people are accepting, and or don’t care- then why is he repressing himself? Why is he denying himself the life he want to live if people don’t really care. He goes to people to confirm his own disgust (maybe fetish ) to not be who is he, instead of confronting why he chooses to waste his life not being who he is But, I think people who criticize others for accepting others at face value.. is weird and strange, because we are taught to be kind and respectful. So, if we are those things then we are weak minded people,.okay girl
I can't think of any downsides to just trusting someone about their gender either. His whole thing was "Gotcha! Bet you feel stupid right now, huh? I said I was a woman and you believed it!" and it's like...ok? He might as well have lied about his favorite color and then called us gullible for believing it. I'd rather risk looking like a fool to conservatives (who would never approve of me anyway) than risk hurting someone over something that's none of my business.
Absolutely agree. I always try to treat people the way they present themselves to me. Reminds me of when a beautiful trans woman came to the customer service counter at the grocery store where I was working. And after I helped her my coworkers kept coming up to me and whispering “you know that’s a man, right?” Awful. It’s like so many cis people want to prove that they aren’t “fooled.” 😢
i was so distracted by the burger king cup in the feminine health tiktok because i was like "the way it's placed this looks like a burger king sponsorship" but then i remembered burger king probably doesn't know he exists
Half-ass bigotry just looks like desperation. Cause his "sample size" was shit plus the queer pple that interacted with him told him to live his truth, and finally, he reveals the hoax to mostly shame makeup... none of this required five months of cross dressing.
As comical as this situation can be at time you can obviously tell that he is trying to get people to target trans creators like Dylan Mulvaney which is incredibly fucked up. I'm not really a fan of Dylan Mulvaney's content but she shouldn't get hate for just being trans and putting her story out there.
@@devonmunn5728 exactly. i fear with the amount of attention nikocado's reveal recieved that it is already inspiring others to do similarly harmful/shocking "social experiments" 😔
omg as a sociologist it's so embarassing to see him say he studied sociology and then pull THIS shit. yes, makeup is mostly viewed as a part of feminine social role, but gender is fluid, meaning it can manifest in different forms. and it can be a part of femininity, and can be a part of masculinity - for instance, there is a TON of research on non-conventional/non-hegemonic masculinity (like homosexual masculinity, soft masculinity, etc.) which might include use of makeup in certain social situations. I did my bachelor thesis in the prespective of gender studies and read up on this quite a lot and demonstration of conventionally feminine traits can even yield benefits for men in some situations (e.g. caring fathers - they demonstrate the parental qualities more typically seen in mothers but often get a lot of praise and social rewards for being more involved and caring for their children than "traditional" fathers)
Back in the yee ol' times, CD's were the biggest tr*nny chasers around. I would constantly get the most disgusting messages from them. It's kind of ironic because people portray trans women as predatory, when we are usually the ones be preyed on. MySpace was wild with chasers in the 2000's. I could write a whole book on the subject lol
He gets a lot of the terminology mostly correct? (Not the concepts) so is he paying a lot of attention to trans women without respecting them? Is this chaser behaviour?
@@phoenixc7245chasers are (usually) cis ppl that fetishize and sexualize trans ppl. In my experience they tend to have transphobic ideas of what a trans person is and sometimes believe they can ‘turn’ trans ppl cis and are very dehumanizing to trans ppl
@@phoenixc7245 putting people (insert person or demographic here) on a pedestal in order to approach them and then enter into a sexual relationship a close-ish summation
As a leftist trans man, I never thought he was a girl, I just didn't care enough to do anything. If he said something like, idk I'm making my cat vegan, I'd react because it's abuse. But dressing in ugly clothes? Nuh uh
The “once dated MBH storyline” was a delightful and totally clarifying plot twist! These conflicted CDs or closeted gay men who date trans women so often secretly think they are superior to them. I’m sure this “social experiment” is just a sad little confused boy trying to get revenge by negating a whole community’s existence.
"trans women are men who wear dresses, wear make-up, and get off to the idea of being a woman, it doesnt make them a woman" Me, a trans woman who rarely wears dresses, doesnt wear makeup, and is asexual: "okay"
That's why Kat's theory made sense: if we replace "trans women" in the sentence by "Josh Seder/cross dressers", we have solved this particular issue and can all move on with our lives!
I had a brief interaction with a trans woman in a bathroom. She was dressed in a traditional and old fashioned way with a flowery shirtwaist dress and scarf. I was startled when I met her gaze because she did not have a feminine face, it just wasn’t what I expected. Other than the brief confusion over the masculine face dichotomy I met her gaze and held it for a moment letting her know I saw her and accepted her like you would any other person you acknowledge in a public place. She looked so insecure, uncomfortable, and vulnerable. I hope she has found the acceptance she deserves and I am so worried about her and others in our current political climate. Why would accepting someone else on their own terms be bad? How is that owning the left?
It's so funny how people will make the jokes trans people made about themselves on livejournal 20 years ago and they think they are SO original. You will never beat marginalized ppl at making fun of themselves.
This reminds me of the "controversial ways i raise my son. He has to walk in pride parades or i don't feed him. i force my horse to be gay. Gay horse." Video
I recognize Josh Seiter as Joshua Andrews and I discovered him through tumblr because he was showing off his 🍑 and that was a couple years ago so it's wild to see him treading on the internet.
I was gonna make a comment saying a reality tv reject who wants attention and doesn’t make an OF must have a button down there, then I saw this comment and remembered that name, button confirmed
This guy managed to live his crossdressing dreams for five full months and then pivot right back into being adored by conservatives. It says a lot about him and conservatives that this happened, but not much about anyone else.
my mouth dropped wide open when you said "as a trans woman", i did not expect that. you are absolutely stunning and gorgeous. i dont mean this in a back-handed "but you dont look trans" type of way; im just a trans guy, happy to see other trans ppl :)
@@bloodsports94 LMAO. Josh has already dated trans women in the past. There are posts of that all over the internet. The thing is, he is a closeted cross dressing chaser. He lived off his CD fantasy while gullible idiots like you think he did a social experiment for 5 months.
If makeup is going to be woman face, I'm going to start calling pants man legs. "I had a dream last night that I had to do a speech and I didn't have man legs on!" 😱
As an actual cross dresser, I have to say: a cis person will not be comfortable going out expressing themselves as the opposite gender if they weren’t into it sexually. It is so mentally and socially uncomfortable a lot of the time, that being into has to overpower all that discomfort. He did the makeup the uncomfortable looking dresses, it’s way too much fucking effort for 5 MONTHS to be a bit. He’s definitely into it 😭.
Literally what I was thinking. Not as a cross-dresser myself, but as one who has known many. I literally don’t care about this man at all, but I do hope he finds peace with himself.
He needs therapy so he can be introduced to himself in whatever form he will be happy in. There seems to be a wall between who he is and who he really wants to be and he doesn't strike me as someone who can work through that on his own.
i dont think ALL cross dressers do it for sexual reasons. some people just like the clothes they like. some definitely do it for a fetish, but some guys just like women's clothing, and some women like to wear men's clothing. its just their sense of style.
I can see many ways beyond sexual gratification cis women would be comfortable being seen as men and I can think of a few other ways men could enjoy presenting more femme (especially if it includes how Josh turned out in drag while doing his "experiment") although I wouldn't say it applies that much to STRAIGHT cis guys. I just think that when guys like Josh are doing it, especially considering his record... that's suspicious af
I feel like this is his desperate attempt to regain his 'masculinity' after dating a trans woman by degrading her sexuality. The same way when you rejected dude and he calls you a bitch and not pretty anyway. It's giving fragile ego.
Okay but before we even start…. Ma’am the hair/wig situation is sooo cute!! I normally don’t like that style (not a big mullet/hockey flow person) but THIS on YOU is just *chef’s kiss* 😘 If it’s a wig, please share the detail!! If you were just blessed with good hair then I shall admire from afar 🥲😂
I heard about this like two days ago on Treads I think. It's infuriating to think men will go that far to try to prove our lives a joke. This the kind of thing people delete us about.
i had a best friend that dated someone that came out and began their transition into womanhood as they were dating. my friend told me that she felt that her partner’s love towards her felt like envy. i went to visit this friend and we ran into their ex at a restaurant she works at. my ex-friend made the choice to stay to prove something and ordered food and talked shit until the cows came home, deadnaming her ex. i had taken a lot from this friend on this trip, and i finally stood up and told her it wasn’t right. she didn’t take kindly to being challenged and shut me down. i texted her about it after i left and she acted like i was the problem and we haven’t talked since. transphobia is a disease
Ughhh thank you so much for this video! I'm autistic, and this guy kept popping up in my insta, and at first, since he made so many videos like this, i thought it was genuine (its really difficult for me to tell this kind of "irony" away from the truth), but recently went into his profile to find out it was a stunt, but immediately i was like "ummm, is he sure that this is a stunt??"
7:28 as a trans dude with endometriosis I will chimme in and say that because endometriosis (aka bad "period cramps") is the developement of uterine cells OUTSIDE of the reproductive system it's entirely possible for some trans woman to have endometriosis (the devellopement of theses cells) without knowing and have theses painfull menstrual pains triggered by the oestrogen treatment. I think that's what we say when we say "trans women have periods" and not the blood/ovulas leak ofc. I think transfemmes (but also everyone else because yeah even some cis dudes have it) who have this very painfull afliction shouldn't be dismissed. (not aimed at you but every demographic in general).
Not the party city wig while getting your back blown out 😂😂 got me snort laughing at my desk at 10am!! its okay josh you can come out that closet, its very freeing!! Thanks Kat for another thoughtful vid ❤
I remember seeing his posts with kind comments pinned after revealing it was an “experiment”. He was setting up people to eventually be mocked for being nice to him. It’s so nasty.
And tbh, it's not even as big of an L as he thinks it is for the people who were nice to him. Like, it says a lot about a person who mocks the deceived instead of condemning the deceiver, so who's really the foolish one?
I don't think they care to learn enough about how trans people actually are to do a convincing parody. Aside from all the stuff they look at in incognito tabs, but that doesn't work in youtube videos
Too fucking true. A lot of cis people just don't understand trans people and that in itself is okay but when they're not willing to learn or be accepting, that's where the problem lies.
@@ChocolateChipcookiie I guess to be fair to them it is extremely difficult to understand, even for us, just perhaps not best for them to default to being hateful lol
both homophobia and transphobia are literally just rooted in misogyny. being a gay man is bad because it’s feminine… being a trans women or gnc AMAB person is bad because it’s a “failure of masculinity”. i honestly could argue that most bigotry is rooted simply in either white supremacy or misogyny and understanding that really makes all bigoted talking points all the more bigoted.
I was like wow he really worked on his femme voice, but when he took the makeup off his voice didnt change
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
lol I had the same thought
The fish emoji😭I love it
His voice is completely different . You people are the dumbest humans on earth.
I came here to comment this 🗣️😭
“just because you put on makeup doesn’t magically make you a woman” thank you for validating me as a trans guy Josh❤
He has like 1950s idea of gender. Lol
You ate that.
He's also validated JD Vance.
MOOD
is he wrong tho?
Cis/straight/white boomer woman here. I don't see a downside to accepting someone's gender identity either. If a Josh Seiter "fools" me, so what? I'm supposed to suddenly hate anyone who's trans because of that? Nah. I'd rather be fooled by the occasional conservative knucklehead than abandon the whole trans community (which would include some truly marvelous people in my life)! I hope Josh gets some help, though.
As a trans man, I thank you for your support, it means the world to me and many other lgbtqia people
Having boundaries doesn’t mean I hate someone. If I don’t want to have sex with you or I’m not attracted to you in that way because you’re not a man (I’m gay) that doesn’t mean I ‘hate’ women. And you can ‘identify’ as a man all you want but that won’t change the fact that you are a woman and it won’t change my sexual orientation. And sorry to be blunt but a piece of plastic is not the same as a real penis on a real man and no amount of homophobic bullying will change that.
@@Gatheist Thog don't caare
@@Gatheist i really don’t get transphobic gays. your transphobia won’t protect you. you are still the weakest link of the lgbt community and holding back progress for yourself.
you don’t have to be attracted to vaginas, but to call trans men women is just you being insecure in your sexuality. no different than any straight man who fears putting on makeup or painting his nails.
i also highly doubt that penis is the only thing that drives your sexuality. that a man has to be fully nude for you to find him attractive.
gay men did not struggle through homophobia just to be called straight by some ugly-ass, sexually insecure, transphobe for being attracted to trans men.
it is not homophobic for gay men to be attracted to men, trans or cis. it is however homophobic to call gay men “not gay” just because their sexuality doesn’t fit the bounds of what cis-heterosexuals deem gay enough.
gender diverse people existed long before sexual orientation was constructed. gender diverse people existed long before you, and will exist long after you.
you’re framing your sexuality as a disgust for certain people instead of as a love for others.
go live your small ‘queer’ life and choke on the c0cks you love so much.
but if you don’t want to experience trans men, stay out of trans spaces -like a trans woman’s channel.
@@Gatheist i really don’t get transphobic gays. your transphobia won’t protect you. you are still the weakest link of the lgbt community and holding back progress for yourself.
you don’t have to be attracted to v@ginas, but to call trans men women is just you being insecure in your sexuality. no different than any straight man who fears putting on makeup or painting his nails.
i also highly doubt that p3nis is the only thing that drives your sexuality. that a man has to be fully nude for you to find him attractive.
gay men did not struggle through homophobia just to be called straight by some ugly-a$$, sexually insecure, transphobe for being attracted to trans men.
it is not homophobic for gay men to be attracted to men, trans or cis. not to expect gay men to treat trans men as men, regardless of if they’re attracted to them or not. it is however homophobic to call gay men “not gay” just because their sexuality doesn’t fit the bounds of what cis-heterosexuals deem gay enough.
gender diverse people existed long before sexual orientation was constructed. gender diverse people existed long before you, and will exist long after you. gay trans men existed and exist, and so did/do the cis gay men that love and f*ck them.
you’re framing your sexuality as a disgust for certain people instead of as a love for others.
go live your small ‘queer’ life and choke on the c0cks you love so much.
but if you don’t want to experience trans men, stay out of trans spaces -like a trans woman’s comment section.
The fact that his parody of trans women is just being nice, reminding people about going to the doctor and making silly jokes about his cat. Like the worst version of a trans woman he could think of is just a wholesome person
i could l̶i̶t̶e̶r̶a̶l̶l̶y̶ tell you to your face "Im lying to you" and if i say it nice enough with the correct dress code, you will comply and agree, because you want to be nice
EDIT: i had the word literally scratched cause i took a massive L on that
@@Luixxxd1 I also like to fantasize about hypothetical conversations I could have with other people, when I take a shower, but it's pretty weird that you've convinced yourself those fantasy conversations would play out the same way irl.
@@LucyTheBox so, if projection had a definition, how would what you just said not fall under it? Honestly askig.
You could also have asked: how have you come to that conclusion with so little info? and i would have admited: it's just an asumption based on phrasing patterns and statistics (no, im not citing every single study i have read in the past 10 years that has a tangential relation to my conclusion just to satisfy both of our egos, lets just keep sharing eachothers understanding of the topic) on human behaviour, just like some people claim being [INSERT RACE OF CHOICE] means you need to be protected.
@@Luixxxd1 i generally go by looks. if someone looks like a woman to me, ill call them a woman. i won't ask. yall are nosy as hell
@@Luixxxd1 why are you here?
From my experience as a digital SWer, you’re spot on about the autogynophilia. I had clients, cis men, who were aroused by cross-dressing. They oftentimes referred to themselves as s*ssies. These clients enjoyed fetish play that included “forced feminization” or even being coerced/forced (consentual nonconsent) into s*x acts with other men. These clients are masochistic and view femininity as inherently degrading. I stopped doing feminization play because the idea of femininity or womanhood being inherently degrading doesn’t sit well with my spirit.
So spot on. People’s kinks tend to be the opposite of their irl politics
I'm not disagreeing with you here, but I think a lot of people who enjoy these kinks and enjoy sissy content are using it to explore gender in a safe environment. Trying to grapple with the idea that your whole gender is not what you always thought it was is a huge, life changing thing that can be difficult to face. Grappling with a new kink is much easier.
It's like drag in that way. Iknow at least a few people who started exploring their gender via sissy stuff and later came out as trans, same as there are many drag queens who started their careers thinking they were cis men, only to later realise they're trans women.
@@coolkorners181 wait this explains alot
@@ed6705 I also would like to add that sometimes it can be a way to cope with the pressure of being so manly all the time and escape from a cisheteronormative society by breaking those social norms with a person that you trust, I think that it's more the relationship people have with the kink that can be toxic and not the act itself
i've had some experience with men that do this themselves and the explanation I got is that it felt safe to be treated as girl by their dom while in other contexts being perceived as girly could make them feel unconfortable because of the ridicule they're affraid of suffering in society, engaging in a different gender presentation in the bedroom helped them feel more confident and less threatened by other people's opinions on their masculinity during the day
A man gets dumped by a girl and turns misgonystic/transphobic.
And the sky is blue.
Crazy how it took one little break up, when women have been dealing with men's BS their entire lives.
@@sleepyspacegremlin and most of us don't turn against all men as a result, we just stop dating for a while lol
@sleepyspacegremlin
Men when women are SA'd: not all men!!!
Men when they experience any kind of negative experience with a woman: yes, all women.
😢
@@sleepyspacegremlin exactlyyy
"no its just ironic, i wear dresses and make up but in an ironic way, i enjoy and embrace my feminine side BUT IN AN IRONIC WAY, I FEEL PRETTY BUT ITS IRONIC I SWEAR"
lol
The transmaxxers in a nutshell
One week might be ironic. FIVE MONTHS, on the other hand…
@@RSStarfire when does it go past irony and become f1nn territory?
🤣🤣🤣
"One of the greatest social experiments of our modern internet age" Hello??? This is blatant nikocado villain era erasure and I will NOT stand for it
Right?!
😂😂😂 #JusticeforVillainNik
Cole Sprouse is somewhere screaming crying throwing up
@@caitlinlouise7354 shitting pants
LOL
He wanted to try public humiliation but instead got love and support, so he's pissed
Nooo humiliate me >:(
8:29 This is a misogynist. Period. The way he talks about ‘feminine’ things, the way he puts his ‘trans voice’ together breaths that he thinks of women as less- less intelligent, less worthy of attention; and essentially less than. This man is revolting.
so much trans hate is innately tied into misogyny it's amazing they can even leave their house without pitching a fit
Yep! Misogyny is at the core of this and that’s why they mostly focus on trans women and when they focus on trans men they’re always confused women who should be having children.
I agree, but this is also the same criticism people had towards Dylan mulvany. Yet enough people defended that as well. This attention seeking behavior is perpetuated by how the internet works.
@@RawrItsJuul I agree with those specific criticisms, but most "criticism" i saw of Dylan was just people accusing her of being a predator, and also arguing that ~real~ women would _never_ engage in potentially harmful stereotypes in order to sort of express their gender and be seen as a proper woman.
People suddenly realize how weird gender is when someone does it "the wrong way"
@actualgoblin I've seen many people upset and talking about how Dylan was wearing woman face and making a mockery of them. Dylan was very much acting like what he thinks stereotypical women act like. "Walking around the forest in my little hiking boots and my hiking shorts", screaming hysterically at a bug and falling to the ground, talking about his experiences as a woman as "crying emotionally", the "women" have bulges. I think people believe Dylan sooner is because he already looked like a Twink and more feminine, but in behavior there is no difference between this Josh guy and Dylan.
“I proved how stupid the left is by pretending to be trans, they were all nice to me!!!!” He’s such a dolt
Like it literally costs nothing to take people at face value...
"I lied and people believed it!"
"they shouldve verbally abused me like the morally upstanding conservatives!"
Like imagine somebody fakes having glasses and then 6 months later says "HA! YOU GUYS ARE IDIOTS FOR BELIEVING WHAT I SAID!"
LMFAO LITERALLY typical white m*n sh**
As an actual peer-reviewed & published researcher in social science (psychology), can we PLEASE stop claiming things are social experiments 😭 this man trying to use his bachelor’s degree in sociology to say give weight to his “social experiment” is unhinged 👹
unfortunately people like him LIVE by doing so
it gives their lives meaning, same can be said of TERFs (or FARTs, Feminist-Appropriating Regressive Transphobes) and it seems most conservatives that swallow such propaganda
even worse that much of the U.S doesn't care to learn, and that the UK actively disregards any study that disproves their crusade (eg, the recent ''cass report'' that multiple scientific bodies have debunked and refuted, and called into question the inherent bias in those running the study who changed it's parameters before it was completed)
I get the impression that the audience for these sorta things typically don’t even have degrees at all. So him getting one is supposed to do all the heavy lifting
@@KatBlaqueThat makes a lot of sense. I asked for sources from a person here on YT on body size and race. They gave me TWO non-peer reviewed journals. Who are they trying to fool? 😭💀
@KC-2049conservatives aren't often educated, whereas progressives are. that's why they fearmonger about college and university making you a liberal.
I'm just going to start shouting "SOCIAL EXPERIMENT" every time something embarrasssing happens.
I really thought he was putting on a voice when he was in his Trans character but that's just his regular voice😂😂
LMAOOOOOOOOO
SAME OMG
Omg I knew this motherflocker was a god damn troll ps you’re cute 🎉@harry
Wait... WHAT 😰😳
💀💀💀
Faking your own death is so Tumblr teen- I can't 💀
A lot of his stunts give arrested development
@@KatBlaqueLMFAOOO
I hate when Internet randos call their shenanigans "social experiments". EXPERIMENT?? Girl, WHERE? Is the methodology in the room with us? What are the variables?? Results and conclusion?? Riddled with wild bias. And all of this for what? Because a trans woman broke up with him 😭 Embarrassing.
*takes backshots to own the libs~
Solid point
You're not a proper ally if you don't let me top you, you little cissy
kenjaku type beat
@@myra-yves I’ll show these soyboy libs a real merger!
That’ll show em
This shit just shows how little they think about women in general.
Yep
@KatBlaque OMG you replied 😭
I mean, I didn’t think he thinks of women more than a little…
Exactly
The venn diagram between transphobes and misogynists is a circle.
“Hahaha, they were nice to me even though I was making fun of them the whole time! Look how stupid they are!”
Ahahahaaah
Conservatives genuinely think kindness and empathy are weaknesses.
@@electronics-girl It's like basically acting kind to anyone not considered "normal" is "enabling their delusion" or some other bullshit
@@electronics-girlit’s genuinely so sad tbh
@@ashyeet702 i'd say pathetic, to be deluded that deeply requires willing participation, not just being led to believe it's the right path
Men will literally villainize an entire group of people instead of talking to a therapist.
so true
men are intrinsically evil and we've been told since childhood to not go to a therapist, you need to get a grip and understand that the world in which men get help and stop being terrible people legitimately does not exist
The thing about trolls is that no matter how people react to them, they view it as a win. In this case people were kind and accepting which means he gets to call them dumb and gullible. “Haha I fooled them!”
If people rejected his claim and accused him of lying, then he gets to call them hypocrites. “So much for the tolerant left!”
exactly, this is what it was really about. if it was any kind of "experiment", then the topic of it was his ability to get people to react. because that *feels* like having power and influence..... to an insecure person.
He and Steven Crowder both did this. They seem very enthusiastic to wear dresses and makeup any chance they get, and then act like it's all for trolling.
I really enjoy your perspective on crossdressing cis men and how so many of them have these conflicted feelings, how so many of them are conservative, and how so many are transphobic. Your experiences in dealing with them sound exhausting.
If I remember well, Crowder also said at some point that he had a "bisexual phase" in college. It seems to me that he might be quite repressed in that regard as well.
@@minako10 I think many homophobic people are. They hate LGBTQ+ because they get to live what they have denied themselves through social pressure.
@hinasakukimi no, all homophobes have had gay thoughts. Might be bi and not gay, hence the reason they think it's a choice. But every homophobe has had sexual thoughts about the same sex for sure. That's why they get so scared
@@hinasakukimi they're disgusted with themselves and have to take it out on anybody else instead of confronting their own issues and desires.
@@orionishi6737 are you serious? maybe like an "emotional" homophobe that has a strong instinctual physical/emotional reaction to gay/bi people (of their own gender), but there are plenty of people who have just grown up with awful values and believe in those values because they believe what they were taught growing up (for example), there are tons of ways to be homophobic
I'm confused as to what exactly the gag was supposed to be. That ppl were accepting & respectful of Josh's fake transition? That ppl decided to be kind? Like this for me (much like that other girl who faked being pregnant & having a miscarriage) just makes him look so unhinged & insanely cruel. What did he expect for ppl online to do?😂😂😂
Well, there's certainly an aspect to conservatism that says kindness is stupid and weak and foolish, except when it's directed at the Right People, the insiders, People Like Us. I guess "I was mocking them but they were nice to me" is peak conservative humor.
"Ha, I was shown basic human respect"
Could almost pity the line of thinking, if not so dangerous.
I don’t know. He kept saying he fooled the left, but the only people I saw fooled were conservatives and their comments section. I kept responding that he was obviously trolling. Although I do see the point he was making, and recognize that what he was saying was real shit “trans lesbians” have been saying online for real. He’s still a creep, though.
Yeah, as if people online can tell if you're faking it or not. You can literally lie about everything, and if you're not well known, you'll probably get away with it.
He was expecting them to be as cruel as he is. Because people like him do not know the meaning of emapthy
Oh that was his normal voice
Right?? I thought he changed his voice to sound more feminine in the videos
my exact thoughts lmao
I haven't watched any old videos of him, but I feel like he probably been doing that voice for so long that now it is his normal voice, lol.
He sounds nice like wtf man
The way he rarely repeated an outfit too... miss thing has a whole ass wardrobe!
I love the new format: leaning in to the BDSM personality/aesthetics, starting with a story from your personal life and using it as a way to understand a larger story, the reaction phone! It's excellent imo.
I don't have thoughts on Seiter besides being desperate in more ways than one, so that's my comment.
Saying wearing makeup is womanface when you were literally on the bachelorette, where you had to compete against 24 other men who are all wearing makeup (because TV), is so insane to me
Reminds me of one who'd said that the message of a trans woman winning a beauty contest was that "women, men can be better than you even at being women". Makeup, beauty, winning a beauty context... truly, the essence of womanhood 🤡 the misogyny is so clear. They accuse trans people of thinking womanhood is just a Feminine stereotype, but once again the call is coming from inside the house
While sitting for a televised show, and knowing damn well all the men on television also wear makeup otherwise they']d look like a sack of potatoes left to rot behind a chair somewhere. As thought nobody sees their delusion.
bro literally worked in tv and got pretty'd up for it and he of all people uses that stupid line when he knows better. the grift couldn't be any more transparent if it were made of glass.
Obv kink shaming is bad, but imho, as a person who hangs out in kink spaces, there’s a certain subsection of humiliation kink and forced feminization that screams transmisogyny
Oh no I’m in a pretty dress and doing the laundry! How humiliating! It kind of begs the question: what exactly is humiliating ? Is being a woman inherently lesser than? Is it the fact that you’re actually doing chores for once in your life?
What peeves me also is how the same people lump feminization with barnyard animals. Like wtf does that say about their perception of women 😭💀
Hard agree. I'm a femme trans man who is a sub and it honestly makes me very uncomfortable when people in kink spaces talk that way to me. I hate being talked to as if what I enjoy is supposed to be humiliating (plus when it comes to transmascs/trans men, "force fem" usually comes with "detrans" added on).
Louder for the people in the back!
@@Nat_778felt as another femme transmasc person
Kinkshaming and analysis of kink shouldn't be conflated, in my opinion. If you do race play, for instance, it's really important that you can acknowledge what about it HAS to be play and what about it is drawn from bigotry because if you don't, you're just being racist in a sexual setting.
I know that kink can lead to a lot of harmful shame, but that goes in both directions. If your kink involves some kinds of bigotry, you can end up harming partners if you're not careful and if you don't navigate that properly either.
It's not kink-shaming to point out when a dom is really bad at being a dom. When they're reckless, when they ignore boundaries, when they bring in play that wasn't cleared or they know the sub doesn't like.
We shouldn't endure that shit, and we shouldn't endure people who refuse to acknowledge bigotry inherent to the kink that is literally just bigotry as a kink. It doesn't mean they are an irredeemable person, it means they need to understand their kink better and respect other people around them more.
I never really thought of it like that, you made me think.
I always thought of it as being forced to be something that they are not, so being forced to dress as a woman is something they generally don't do, so it would be humiliating to be forced to be something you feel you are not, to me, I thought, it wasn't about being a woman that was humiliating, it is a man, who identifies as a man, who doesn't dress feminine, being forced to dress in a way and do things that is not typically them, or not considered stereotypically them, doing things that are stereotypically something different to what they identify as, while being forced dressed like that too, would indeed increase the feelings. And doing chores that stereotypically, a woman does while forced dressed as a woman, means it would get them into the headspace of being a woman, so more humiliating due to them identifying as a man, so I thought it wasn't the woman aspect that is humiliating, I always thought it is the fact they are being forced to be something they don't actually identify as. That would be humiliating to some people. Maybe that is why barnyard animals were lumped together. I always thought it was about being forced to be something you don't feel you are, or identify as.
Maybe I was wrong in thinking this, I don't know, but that is how I have always seen it. To me, forced feminization's humiliating aspects, play with the stereotypes and kinda enforces them, but in a way that still plays with them. I always thought, it would be the same for a very feminine female, who dressed very feminine, acted very feminine, to be forced to dress very masculine and do stereotypical masculine things. It would stir up feelings of humiliation, I felt, as that isn't who they feel they are. So, I didn't feel it was about the fact of being a female that was humiliating, just the fact of being forced to be something they don't feel they are...🤷♀ Idk..
Listening to conservative men talk about topics like gender feels like grown men having a board meeting about and discussing the intricacies of a baby's first book about farm animals
"Dont make your fetish my truth" from a conservative man who wants to get rid of reproductive rights 💀
@@henrylangham6428Do you have schizophrenia
@@henrylangham6428 wtf is klee yammering about
@@actualgoblinCrazy what solitary can do to a girl
there genuinely is NOT A SINGLE downside to supporting someone's gender identity.... even if its a fake one 😭😭 bro is actually delusional.
bur ur stunning as always Kat 😏😏
Im so glad you decided to tackle this fool. As a woman who transitioned 40yrs ago, I knew that he was pretending from the very beginning. He just poured fuel on a fire that's already raging.
The obvious giveaway in his first video is him suggesting that there's no difference between cis women and trans women, something that no trans person believes, but that transphobes seem to think trans people believe. I didn't guess that he was faking before because I wasn't even aware of his existence, and I'm guessing neither were most people.
@@chrisbfreelanceNo they do not. The simple act of transitioning gives a trans woman a different life experience to a cis woman. While there are many experiences all women (whether cis or trans) share, no trans woman is claiming her experience as a woman is exactly the same as a cis woman's
@@handfetisch Extreme trans activists in the faux trans movement LITERALLY say that transwomen ARE women. Stop it.
@@chrisbfreelance nope, keep believing that little narrative (LIE), the TERFs and nazis appreciate it
@@chrisbfreelance it's vastly more likely that you misinterpreted what someone said (or are simply making shit up) than that you found the one trans person in the world who thinks that trans women generally have uteri.
@@VuDuGrrrrl8075 yes. Trans women are women but trans women aren't cis woman.
Cole Sprouse's tumblr era was a more thought out social experiment ffs 💀
This makes Timmy Thick seem like an actual Harvard researcher.
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It doesn’t shock me that a man that’s dated trans women is now on a hate train against them because she didn’t want his stupid ass. When some men get rejected they get angry even with cis women so yeah that definitely sounds about right 😑
I've noticed that when certain dudes hate on a certain group of women it's almost always because they've been rejected by them and they can't stand the slight to their ego.
Dude, not even trans guys are safe. I was asked out by man who was very clear he was straight, but then he threw a tantrum when I pointed out he probably wouldn't be attracted to me after I take T 🤦♂️🤦♂️
@@Nat_778 yeah.
Yeah...Most of the times if a man is targeting a specific demographic. That's what happened.
My first thought with that "feminine health" video was "oh, the pink top kinda works with his skin tone."
Also, i feel like even when he TRIES to do a bit to make people mad, the lesson is actually really important: being aware of prostate health.
It's a relief you clarified not all crossdressers are like that. You had me at first ngl.
I am a crossdressing man (well, I may be somewhat gender fluid but I tend to stick with masculine pronouns and a male name) but I do not have a kink from it, and I wear women's clothing because I just do prefer presenting myself as being more feminine, and hate looking masculine. I very much accept and verify trans women as women
24:14 The projection in this statement aaah 😭”men turned on at the thought of themselves being women” as he dresses up for a 5 month long ‘bit’ imagining himself being a transgender woman and openly dressing in traditionally feminine clothing. hm… Suspicious!
He is really telling himself. Lol
SERIOUSLY I DOT UNDERSTAND HOW HE DOESNT SEE HIS IS TELLING ON HIMSELF
He totally was angrily masturbating into the mirror wearing those dresses/makeup.
That guy is clearly leaking all over the idea of being a submissive bottom
(...yeah, even straight men can be bottoms, prove me wrong)
@@JohnSmith-ep6bj because the only people making it sexual is you lot who can't think of anything besides the next coom
Thank you for explaining something that I've had a hard time wrapping my head around!
I'm a straight cisgender woman, and a previous partner I had was a straight cisgender man who enjoyed wearing women's clothing (especially MY clothing, and especially receiving oral sex while cross-dressing).
Naively, I thought he would be an open-minded breath of fresh air.
He ended up being the most misogynistic man I've ever been with!
I was shocked when he refused to wear condoms and insisted that I go on birth control. I told him I didn't want to mess with my endocrine system and troubleshoot different birth controls and their side effects. He claimed this was transphobic and I must by extension be opposed to hormonal gender affirming care.
He would sometimes wear my clothing out in public and it never phased me until a friend pointed out that when he did, he would carry himself and speak in this ditzy "dumb blond" persona, giggling and batting his eyes a lot. I couldn't unsee it, and it irked me, but I was too self-conscious to say anything about it. I was terrified I might unknowingly be a transphobe. Or at least, be accused of that and not know enough to argue otherwise.
He also tried to keep the clothes I had lent him during our relationship, after our breakup. I came by at the agreed-upon time to pick up my things and he handed me a bag conspicuously missing all my clothes he'd borrowed. When I asked for them he threw a really scary temper tantrum (BIG dude) that made me cry and call a friend to witness for my safety.
Mostly, I try not to think about him now.
Hearing your description of your experience with (some!) cross-dressing men was the first time I've thought about him in a long time, and for once it wasn't angering or confusing! It gave me some clarity, and also a good laugh.
Hearing how these guys behave in interactions with trans women also sheds light on how comfortable he was using trans women in his narrative to control me.
They are frustratingly nonsensically misogynistic against ⭐All Women 💞
sending you love because i know being in a relationship with any kind of misogynist is really fucking awful
@@mhj4 🫂
*Imagine* calling condoms transphobic... Ladies, is safe sex and caring for your partner's well-being transphobic? Glad you're out of that situation now! I hope you have much better times ahead of you.
Thank you for writing this. I had similar experience with colleague on my job, who was misogynistic and acted like this
I hope you are well now
People’s kinks tend to be the opposite of their real-life politics, and I cannot stress that enough. So sorry you had to go through that
as someone with an autism special interest in the psychology of fetishes and thus fetish content, i clocked this as being fetish content IMMEDIATELY. it’s so obvious and i’m so glad you made a video discussing it. also, if he “majored” in sociology, he must’ve barely passed cause good god
What about it makes you think it's a fetish? /gen
please explain, would love to learn more
His whole trans presentation was pure caricature in my eyes, which had that gross sexual vibe to it@@airplanes_aren.t_real
I really appreciate the distinction you made between cross-dressing and being trans because it's such a difficult thing for people who aren't terminally online to wrap their heads around.
I find nothing but joy in my femininity and womanhood, it's why I wanted to transition because I couldn't find that same happiness as a feminine man. I don't feel degraded or lesser from how I look or dress, I just feel like myself and that makes me happy because I spent so long trying to find that, getting close but never quite grasping it until I started to transition. I don't even really "pass" but people still treat me like they would any other woman and it's because of that happiness, I think.
This Josh person seems to really want to just hang on to whatever speck of relevance that seems to have already passed him by at all costs and he's airing out his dirty laundry to do so because he can't handle being a mediocre man.
I'm just so exhausted of people confusing trans women, drag queens, and crossdressers 🙄🙄🙄
That is an excellent point, usually I'm the first to get on people about that being an etymology nerd but I didn't think of how bad the interview was for not being clear about it.
Although these days most transvestites (cross dressers, vestis meaning clothes) identity as trans in some way. Transsexual used to be in the binary sense, MTF or FTM and TERFs still follow this, but now trans more generally means transgender, identifying as any sort of outside the cisgender binary (including FTM and MTF.)
In this case it isn't confusion, it's an agenda
Im a trans girl who doesnt pass very well. I honestly thought at first that he was like me when i saw a pic. Just hasnt done much medically, and has mostly masculine genes. Then i saw a vid and oml.
Pass or not, henny, you are valid. And beautiful and loved. 🖤
Love to you
It’s not about passing it’s about gender dysphoria and making an effort
@@thewatersop9795 all the love in the world to all non-passing, muscled, hairy, gnc trans women fr but his presentation was insane! he rocked a masc haircut that MUST have been retouched a few times in the MONTHS he kept doing the persona, he didn't seem to even trim his chest hair, his face consistently had at least a few days worth of hair growth... for the character he was playing, that didn't make any sense at all!
I myself am a nonbinary transfemme, I rarely shave my legs, intentionally keep my pit hair, accept the fact that hair grows in my face and can't deal with it everyday... and I know a lot of other women/transfemmes who deal with or even appreaciate some of their "masculine" features, but the whole combo he was putting on is insane and a clear parody to anyone who know any trans people
@@xXxzAAa0aAAzxXxI am a post op trans woman with a butch side. I couldn't finish facial electrolysis due to the pandemic. Now that I no longer have insurance coverage for it, I haven't bothered. I don't shave daily. It's not enough facial hair to really trigger my dysphoria. And there are ciswomen with facial hair. Sometimes I wish I had enough facial hair to grow a nice beard.
watching this channel is slowly eroding my internalized transphobia
:3 same
Happy for you :)
Yay! I appreciate hearing that!
That’s awesome ❤
Watch out! The erosion of your internalised transphobia could have horrible side effects such as:
-Self-acceptance
-Having a more positive outlook on life
-Being more genuine around others
-Gaining a greater understanding of people's experiences
And in extreme cases, it could lead to you living a long and happy life.
"I like to wear party city wigs and get my back blown out" 😂 the way I actually screamed at this.
Does he understand it's not the LGBT community who hates him , it's the party he's trying so hard to simp for
A similar thing will happen with some men when they get their heart broken by a person of another ethnicity. All of a sudden “ethnicity” is whatever “negative stereotype” so I’m not surprised at all. Sometimes I think people use “clout chasing” as an insult when their job is some form of entertainment thus attention is required. However, this stunt was definitely about clout chasing in the negative aspect. Doing something unethical, unreasonable, intentional spreading misinformation, creating hate bait content is “clout chasing” in the negative way.
You have made some absolutely PROFOUND observations about cis men-especially conservative cis men-who are cross dressers and find the idea of dressing like a woman and being "feminine" as "inherently degrading." You are doing god's work. Thank you so much for this video and all of your content!!!
Trans women arnt doing “women face” but that dude definitely was
They are, dylan mulvany def. doing it
As a cis woman, I kinda disagree. If we're making the comparison to black face, then what he was doing was trans face. It was a deliberately cruel mockery of specifically trans women, not women as a whole.
@@Albinojackrussel “Trans face” sure, that works..
@@Albinojackrussel trans women mocking womanhood.
@@Albinojackrussel trans women making woman face.
19:16 for me it was the hair. I'm a chica with disablities who just cut her hair today cuz too painful for shower when too long,(I might be hyperfocused right now on hair is what I'm saying lol) so just from the thumbnail. You need a LOT of upkeep to keep hair that short and the style to me has always screamed um, hypermasculine conservative male trying too hard to me, given the other details in his outfit.
my thoughts exactly! it's such an uneducated parody that screams "I'm taking that off when i stop filming"
and it's not even that he should've let his hair grow, but the fact that he didn't change anything about it - even cutting it shorter would be more convincing.
His character was very contradictory. It was a very binary trans woman, putting a lot of stock on having the same experiences as cis women, but also rocking a beard and a very masculine haircut, mixing in some very left field enby discourse... just an obvious lady ballers style parody
That’s a really good point. Trans women aren’t likely to be confident in wearing their hair that short at the start of their transitions especially.
Same. I've never seen a woman w that hair cut trans or cis.
@@SpecialBlanket you should hang out with lesbians, they're cool
@@KatBlaqueBingo! When I first started my transition I grew my hair out. Sometime after getting bottom surgery I shaved my head full cue ball. I have done a shaved head or short hair a bunch since then. I am trying to grow it out again, but I don't know how long I will go before deciding to shave it off again.
Well. He's EXPERIMENTING and he's making it everyone's problem so maybe it is social experimenting 💀
If he was trans she would be slaying with that attitude 🥲💅🏽
im screaming lmfaooooooo
Well said lol
As a cis woman who is a biology nerd, yes estrogen causes intestinal cramps. Whether you want to call it a "period" or not is probably debatable, but it's directly causal. The uterus and intestines are both smooth muscle; the only smooth muscle we have in our bodies. The hormonal signals that make the uterus contract are also going to make intestines contract. It happens to me every month. It also happens to my trans wife now that she's started HRT. So, I'm not gonna say you should call it a period; it might be most accurate to just call it hormone cramps, but it's the effects of estrogen and prostaglandins on smooth muscle. (Guy mocking it is annoying, but whatever.)
those are not the only smooth muscle in the body
Thank you! Its so weird that people insist that hormones have no effect on this, when that what they literally do!
Great now everytime my stomach hurts I'm going to think I'm being poisoned by estrogen
for me (a trans man), it's the way that so many people say "it can't be that bad", "they're just exaggerating", "they're just oversensitive and need to suck it up", "there's no way that the pain and mood swings they say happen to them every month is actually happening"... that makes me refer to the hormonal imbalance trans women go through as periods. because that's exactly how people treat periods with cis women, lol.
@@AnotherAustin-z7b estrogen isn't a poison
I live for Kat's little dance when he was saying trans woman are men, how he was dressed is how he truly pictures trans women, as men in dresses and lipstick
Maybe he is mad that his trans girlfriend wasn't masculine enough, and he just wants a man or a CD.
This video made me understand why so many trans women who post porn on tumblr have “Sissies DNI” in their bio
It's for people like Josh lol
Oh my god. Thank you for making me understand. I was like "They are homophobic ?? Impossible."
Yup. People’s kinks tend to be the complete opposite of their irl politics!!!
My favorite thing was when someone said that my (late-in-life) transition was autogynephilia. But I'm a transmasculine individual. So ....
I dunno man, some people are just ... not ok.
This is a random fact but to fetishise being male or masculine is actually autoandrophilia 🤓☝️
People just don’t know what words mean lmao. Maybe this is an argument for teaching linguistics or some kind of rudimentary classics in schools again, I was made to systematically learn Greek and Latin roots in high school biology and it’s actually made me a stronger reader too.
I find this amusing as a post op trans woman with autoandrophilia. Sometimes I get sexually aroused if I imagine myself as a muscular dude with a big dick. I even got a packer and packing undies for when I am feeling extra butch.
Like at least change the Latin lol
I came across this random website that talked about AGP and HSTS, and then was like "There's not currently a known one for MtF" which I found so funny as a (mostly) gay trans man.
This video was hard to watch. I'm glad you were able to take it with a grain of salt and in a jovial manner, but the fact that he spent months mocking trans women and is now pretending like its some big gotcha is mind blowing. LIke. There are so many more things you could make stupid "social commentary" on. Trans people shouldnt be some big ballot issue. We live in a society. Everyone plays into roles. It should not matter what people are deciding to do with thier lives when it effects NO ONE. If people even cared half as much about the corruption of billionaires the world might actually be a better place.
I'm genderfluid, and it took me a long time to figure out my relationship with gender. I find it really funny when I hear the argument, "But what if they change their minds???"
So? Sometimes my gender changes on an hourly basis. People change. They grow to know themselves and how to articulate their identity. Just because *you* need an instruction manual on how to perform your assigned gender doesn't mean the rest of us want one.
Kat! You really are in a new era with videos. They keep getting better.
Speaking of, men are more likely to die from breast cancer than testicular cancer, because testicular cancer is so treatable and usually occurs when young, whereas breast cancer usually develops in older men.
I legit feel bad for this dude’s cat. Sorry I just had to say that lol I feel bad for any animals owned by weirdos.
He seems like a totally normal guy. I think the weirdos are the ones dressing up as the opposite sex , making podcasts about sleeping with random people being perverted as f. I guarantee your parents HATE YOU.
His cat did not sign a waiver and will be talking to his own legal counsel 😾
@@bloodsports94 This is a big hissy fit, little buddy.
@@jencendiarySpeciesist, and abelist and gaslighting, if this is not a transphobe, etc., you are responding to?
@@bloodsports94 Totally normal guys don't go on the internet to pretend to do a social experiment to live off his cross dressing fantasy.
literally all of the stuff he was saying about autogynophilia sounded like it was being said directly into a mirror lmao
Its also more complicated, lots of cis women *are* attracted by their own bodies, does that make *them* 'autogynophiles'? What about queer women? Cis and Trans Bisexuals and Lesbians enjoy their own and other female bodies.
@@queenvagabond8787 thats just narcissism.
@@Luixxxd1 Its not *unhealthy* to find yourself attractive, or to be turned on by your own body and playing with your own body. Its only 'narcissistic' if you do it to the exclusion of all others, and if you consider yourself to me more attractive than anyone else. As women, we are taught to downplay ourselves, to constantly find fault with our own physical appearance, to be unduly humble and to rely upon others for boosts to our self-esteem. Its why so many men will tell you that you are beautiful and then act like you're a monster if you say something like, 'I know' or even 'why yes I am, thanks for noticing.' You didn't ask for them to comment on your appearance, yet they did and expect you to be grateful for it even if they are a total stranger.
@@queenvagabond8787 " Its not unhealthy to find yourself attractive, or to be turned on by your own body and playing with your own body. " only insane people would say being insane is not insane. Holy shit what a bunch of nonsense
"As women, we are taught to downplay ourselves" NO YOU SELF-CENTERED BRAT. AS HUMANS YOU ARE TO BE HUMBLE. Just because some people don't care about being humble doesn't mean only women are told to behave.
"to constantly find fault with our own physical appearance, " same with dudes, we oughta be strong, since being weak is pathetic. Dont you even see how self-centered it is to pretend only you are being held to a standard? AGAIN: JUST BECAUSE SOME MEN DONT CARE ABOUT IT DOESNT MEAN ONLY YOU ARE TOLD TO BEHAVE... i stopped reading past that, it's just self-absorbed "the world is against me and only against me" psychobabble
@@queenvagabond8787 the insane can't see how insane they sound...
I'm not the gender police, other people expressing themselves differently from me has zero effects on my life. I transitioned at 30 and recently finished my medical transition 4 years later. Legal name change is in two weeks, concluding my social transition. It was a very private, personal experience, who am I to tell people what theirs should look like?
omg congratulations!
So I don't know if you saw this while looking him up but Josh has done this/ similar things for other lgbtq+ communities. He made a huge deal about being bi and being the "first" bi bachelor's contestant only to then come out saying bi people don't exist but then after a few more controversies (stunts for attention) he came out as pan and dropped an OF but was talking shit about the men who bought it and said stuff about how disgusting sex with a man was next he jumped into the feederism community and gained some weight so people would send him money like all his other stunts after a while he lost the weight and said it was an experiment to show people don't care about health just their fetish and how easy it is to get into shape (think like those trainers who gained weight to experience what their clients go through). The thing he did before this trans experiment was him seemingly trying to into politics and I think he saw he got a lot of conservative attention and I won't be surprised if he goes down the conservative influencer route to make money.
Holy molly, Josh has issues.
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@moustik31 yeah he's known in a bunch of communities and sub groups as a fake person that should be avoided and not taught anything about said group
@@sakuramitsukai5292 With his record? That makes 100% sense!
🙅🏾♀️
@@moustik31 most definitely
I wanna live in the woods and never speak to another person again I'm so sick of society and the Internet
so so real
Same
This is low key what a lot of us want tbh
Hey I know a philosopher you might like. 💀
@@omni1001 Industrial society and it's consequences have been a disaster for the human race
I think he wanted to be told he is disgusting and be dog pilled on therefore he have a reason to repress himself further into the closet- if people are accepting, and or don’t care- then why is he repressing himself? Why is he denying himself the life he want to live if people don’t really care. He goes to people to confirm his own disgust (maybe fetish ) to not be who is he, instead of confronting why he chooses to waste his life not being who he is
But, I think people who criticize others for accepting others at face value.. is weird and strange, because we are taught to be kind and respectful. So, if we are those things then we are weak minded people,.okay girl
Or that's his kink.
I can't think of any downsides to just trusting someone about their gender either. His whole thing was "Gotcha! Bet you feel stupid right now, huh? I said I was a woman and you believed it!" and it's like...ok? He might as well have lied about his favorite color and then called us gullible for believing it.
I'd rather risk looking like a fool to conservatives (who would never approve of me anyway) than risk hurting someone over something that's none of my business.
Absolutely agree. I always try to treat people the way they present themselves to me. Reminds me of when a beautiful trans woman came to the customer service counter at the grocery store where I was working. And after I helped her my coworkers kept coming up to me and whispering “you know that’s a man, right?” Awful. It’s like so many cis people want to prove that they aren’t “fooled.” 😢
Lying about your favorite color is a really good comparison! Idk, I just find it really easy to be kind in general. Mean people are weird.
@@LongHairCarolyn Mhmm! It seems like it'd exhausting going through life like that.
as if Joshie ain't the one out here looking like a clown
1:58 when transphobia is a literal fear
that’s a hilarious situation, South Park level of absurdity
i was so distracted by the burger king cup in the feminine health tiktok because i was like "the way it's placed this looks like a burger king sponsorship" but then i remembered burger king probably doesn't know he exists
Half-ass bigotry just looks like desperation. Cause his "sample size" was shit plus the queer pple that interacted with him told him to live his truth, and finally, he reveals the hoax to mostly shame makeup... none of this required five months of cross dressing.
Exactly
As comical as this situation can be at time you can obviously tell that he is trying to get people to target trans creators like Dylan Mulvaney which is incredibly fucked up. I'm not really a fan of Dylan Mulvaney's content but she shouldn't get hate for just being trans and putting her story out there.
24:27 his massive self report lmao
bro wanted his "two steps ahead" moment so badly
Nikocado Avocado also pulled that bullshit as well
@@devonmunn5728 exactly. i fear with the amount of attention nikocado's reveal recieved that it is already inspiring others to do similarly harmful/shocking "social experiments" 😔
He also wrote to Gypsy Rose in prison wanting to date her and also tried to date one of the 1000lb sisters.
omg as a sociologist it's so embarassing to see him say he studied sociology and then pull THIS shit. yes, makeup is mostly viewed as a part of feminine social role, but gender is fluid, meaning it can manifest in different forms. and it can be a part of femininity, and can be a part of masculinity - for instance, there is a TON of research on non-conventional/non-hegemonic masculinity (like homosexual masculinity, soft masculinity, etc.) which might include use of makeup in certain social situations. I did my bachelor thesis in the prespective of gender studies and read up on this quite a lot and demonstration of conventionally feminine traits can even yield benefits for men in some situations (e.g. caring fathers - they demonstrate the parental qualities more typically seen in mothers but often get a lot of praise and social rewards for being more involved and caring for their children than "traditional" fathers)
Back in the yee ol' times, CD's were the biggest tr*nny chasers around. I would constantly get the most disgusting messages from them. It's kind of ironic because people portray trans women as predatory, when we are usually the ones be preyed on. MySpace was wild with chasers in the 2000's. I could write a whole book on the subject lol
I haven't watched the video yet si forgive me if I sound dumb, but-
What does CD stand for?
@@chocomelo454 Cross-Dresser
@@chocomelo454crossdresser
Cross-dresser @@chocomelo454
@@chocomelo454 I’m geussing cross dresser
He gets a lot of the terminology mostly correct? (Not the concepts) so is he paying a lot of attention to trans women without respecting them? Is this chaser behaviour?
Yes.
Yeah
What is a chaser?
@@phoenixc7245chasers are (usually) cis ppl that fetishize and sexualize trans ppl. In my experience they tend to have transphobic ideas of what a trans person is and sometimes believe they can ‘turn’ trans ppl cis and are very dehumanizing to trans ppl
@@phoenixc7245 putting people (insert person or demographic here) on a pedestal in order to approach them and then enter into a sexual relationship
a close-ish summation
You saying "pali-pali" got a giggle out of me, the Finnish word "palli" sounds the same and is a slang word for testicle 😂
🤣
This is useful knowledge!
빨리! Means quickly, faster, etc.
It misophonia'd the shit out of me.
kin la ona li nimi pi toki pona a
loving this new format, Kat you're doing amazing, flourishing, my crops are watered, my skin is clear
THE KOREAN BIT! Girl I'm dead. Love your vibe and WILL be subscribing
is that the same guy that fabricated his death and made his ex (who's a trans woman btw) feel like shit because of their prior breakup?
Yes lol
Oh wow, that's certainly a story
Wtf 😒
Woooooooow
Wait was she transitioned when they dated? Either way this is bizarre
As a leftist trans man, I never thought he was a girl, I just didn't care enough to do anything. If he said something like, idk I'm making my cat vegan, I'd react because it's abuse. But dressing in ugly clothes? Nuh uh
The “once dated MBH storyline” was a delightful and totally clarifying plot twist! These conflicted CDs or closeted gay men who date trans women so often secretly think they are superior to them. I’m sure this “social experiment” is just a sad little confused boy trying to get revenge by negating a whole community’s existence.
Yep!
In my time CD's had music on them. (alright i'll see myself out)
This comment confused me for a second because I watch ManlyBadassHero. Thanks for the confusion, lol.
@@Jane_Doe-o4r mew mbg lore just dropped
@@mgsgamer8340Lol.
"trans women are men who wear dresses, wear make-up, and get off to the idea of being a woman, it doesnt make them a woman"
Me, a trans woman who rarely wears dresses, doesnt wear makeup, and is asexual: "okay"
That's why Kat's theory made sense: if we replace "trans women" in the sentence by "Josh Seder/cross dressers", we have solved this particular issue and can all move on with our lives!
I had a brief interaction with a trans woman in a bathroom. She was dressed in a traditional and old fashioned way with a flowery shirtwaist dress and scarf. I was startled when I met her gaze because she did not have a feminine face, it just wasn’t what I expected. Other than the brief confusion over the masculine face dichotomy I met her gaze and held it for a moment letting her know I saw her and accepted her like you would any other person you acknowledge in a public place. She looked so insecure, uncomfortable, and vulnerable. I hope she has found the acceptance she deserves and I am so worried about her and others in our current political climate. Why would accepting someone else on their own terms be bad? How is that owning the left?
It's so funny how people will make the jokes trans people made about themselves on livejournal 20 years ago and they think they are SO original. You will never beat marginalized ppl at making fun of themselves.
literally. I've heard that "My cat is homophobic" a bit
This reminds me of the "controversial ways i raise my son. He has to walk in pride parades or i don't feed him. i force my horse to be gay. Gay horse." Video
I recognize Josh Seiter as Joshua Andrews and I discovered him through tumblr because he was showing off his 🍑 and that was a couple years ago so it's wild to see him treading on the internet.
omg he is sooo messy
That's a twist I didn't expect.
Oop! Clock it!
I think you meant "trending" on the internet, but the image of his trampling all over time internet is honestly so spot on.
I was gonna make a comment saying a reality tv reject who wants attention and doesn’t make an OF must have a button down there, then I saw this comment and remembered that name, button confirmed
This guy managed to live his crossdressing dreams for five full months and then pivot right back into being adored by conservatives. It says a lot about him and conservatives that this happened, but not much about anyone else.
my mouth dropped wide open when you said "as a trans woman", i did not expect that. you are absolutely stunning and gorgeous. i dont mean this in a back-handed "but you dont look trans" type of way; im just a trans guy, happy to see other trans ppl :)
Girl you are so well spoken and charismatic, dang! Excited to watch more!
I saw a post recently alleging that he is currently dating a trans woman... which I REALLY hope is not the case for her sake
He's straight . Why would he date a man? The fact that you are so stupid that you think HES THE BAD ONE. LMAO. YOU ARE SO DUMB.
@@bloodsports94 LMAO. Josh has already dated trans women in the past.
There are posts of that all over the internet.
The thing is, he is a closeted cross dressing chaser.
He lived off his CD fantasy while gullible idiots like you think he did a social experiment for 5 months.
He dated one before but this is new tea. I need the doll to come foward
If makeup is going to be woman face, I'm going to start calling pants man legs.
"I had a dream last night that I had to do a speech and I didn't have man legs on!" 😱
It's a question of historical power imbalance, sexism, and how women have been viewed and charicatured.
@@Elisabet-w7k i have psuedo-feminized bone structure i wear woman face by default. what power does that give me
@@actualgoblin Flight.
@@Jane_Doe-o4r narrr I'm dead!
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As an actual cross dresser, I have to say: a cis person will not be comfortable going out expressing themselves as the opposite gender if they weren’t into it sexually. It is so mentally and socially uncomfortable a lot of the time, that being into has to overpower all that discomfort. He did the makeup the uncomfortable looking dresses, it’s way too much fucking effort for 5 MONTHS to be a bit. He’s definitely into it 😭.
Literally what I was thinking. Not as a cross-dresser myself, but as one who has known many. I literally don’t care about this man at all, but I do hope he finds peace with himself.
He needs therapy so he can be introduced to himself in whatever form he will be happy in. There seems to be a wall between who he is and who he really wants to be and he doesn't strike me as someone who can work through that on his own.
As a cross dresser, nope! I'm not into it sexually, I just enjoy cross dressing
i dont think ALL cross dressers do it for sexual reasons. some people just like the clothes they like. some definitely do it for a fetish, but some guys just like women's clothing, and some women like to wear men's clothing. its just their sense of style.
I can see many ways beyond sexual gratification cis women would be comfortable being seen as men and I can think of a few other ways men could enjoy presenting more femme (especially if it includes how Josh turned out in drag while doing his "experiment") although I wouldn't say it applies that much to STRAIGHT cis guys.
I just think that when guys like Josh are doing it, especially considering his record... that's suspicious af
I feel like this is his desperate attempt to regain his 'masculinity' after dating a trans woman by degrading her sexuality. The same way when you rejected dude and he calls you a bitch and not pretty anyway. It's giving fragile ego.
Okay but before we even start…. Ma’am the hair/wig situation is sooo cute!! I normally don’t like that style (not a big mullet/hockey flow person) but THIS on YOU is just *chef’s kiss* 😘
If it’s a wig, please share the detail!! If you were just blessed with good hair then I shall admire from afar 🥲😂
I heard about this like two days ago on Treads I think. It's infuriating to think men will go that far to try to prove our lives a joke. This the kind of thing people delete us about.
Their loser behavior makes them the joke. We see you, we appreciate you, and we're fighting with you
Indeed it's quite insidious. I'm not trance, but this is heinous
i had a best friend that dated someone that came out and began their transition into womanhood as they were dating. my friend told me that she felt that her partner’s love towards her felt like envy. i went to visit this friend and we ran into their ex at a restaurant she works at. my ex-friend made the choice to stay to prove something and ordered food and talked shit until the cows came home, deadnaming her ex. i had taken a lot from this friend on this trip, and i finally stood up and told her it wasn’t right. she didn’t take kindly to being challenged and shut me down. i texted her about it after i left and she acted like i was the problem and we haven’t talked since. transphobia is a disease
What a shame 😢
Ughhh thank you so much for this video! I'm autistic, and this guy kept popping up in my insta, and at first, since he made so many videos like this, i thought it was genuine (its really difficult for me to tell this kind of "irony" away from the truth), but recently went into his profile to find out it was a stunt, but immediately i was like "ummm, is he sure that this is a stunt??"
Ikr?
7:28 as a trans dude with endometriosis I will chimme in and say that because endometriosis (aka bad "period cramps") is the developement of uterine cells OUTSIDE of the reproductive system it's entirely possible for some trans woman to have endometriosis (the devellopement of theses cells) without knowing and have theses painfull menstrual pains triggered by the oestrogen treatment. I think that's what we say when we say "trans women have periods" and not the blood/ovulas leak ofc. I think transfemmes (but also everyone else because yeah even some cis dudes have it) who have this very painfull afliction shouldn't be dismissed. (not aimed at you but every demographic in general).
Not the party city wig while getting your back blown out 😂😂 got me snort laughing at my desk at 10am!! its okay josh you can come out that closet, its very freeing!! Thanks Kat for another thoughtful vid ❤
I remember seeing his posts with kind comments pinned after revealing it was an “experiment”. He was setting up people to eventually be mocked for being nice to him. It’s so nasty.
And tbh, it's not even as big of an L as he thinks it is for the people who were nice to him. Like, it says a lot about a person who mocks the deceived instead of condemning the deceiver, so who's really the foolish one?
I'm ashamed to say that "Gender Dysphoria By Proxy" did make me laugh out loud.
Same lol
I don't think they care to learn enough about how trans people actually are to do a convincing parody. Aside from all the stuff they look at in incognito tabs, but that doesn't work in youtube videos
Too fucking true.
A lot of cis people just don't understand trans people and that in itself is okay but when they're not willing to learn or be accepting, that's where the problem lies.
@@ChocolateChipcookiie I guess to be fair to them it is extremely difficult to understand, even for us, just perhaps not best for them to default to being hateful lol
Understanding that transphobia so often is just mysogynie makes everything click so easily
both homophobia and transphobia are literally just rooted in misogyny. being a gay man is bad because it’s feminine… being a trans women or gnc AMAB person is bad because it’s a “failure of masculinity”. i honestly could argue that most bigotry is rooted simply in either white supremacy or misogyny and understanding that really makes all bigoted talking points all the more bigoted.
OML YOUR HAIR IS GIVING! (also love your stuff)