My Family Sold Me To Other Members Of The Church
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- Опубликовано: 27 авг 2024
- Today, our guest Isami Daehn, who is a survivor of CSA and human trafficking tells her story. She grew up in a religious cult with an abusive family who sold her to the other members of the church.
As someone who experienced those horrific situations firsthand, she has trained in anti-trafficking to help others in similar situations.
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Sweet girl I am so very proud of you and impressed with your strength and tenacity to help others!!❤️
I hate any type of abuse, but particularly loathe when it is connected to religious justification. So sorry you had to endure so much alone. It must have been so devastating and confusing to be ignored and hurt by the very people who should have loved and protected you. Believe there’s a special punishment reserved for hypocrites who have the nerve to misuse the Bible/God to support their evil. So happy for you that you’ve found a way to move on and also make such a positive difference in the world. Thank you for sharing your journey.♥️
You have a gentle and beautiful spirit. I am sorry this happened to you. Thank you for sharing. ❤ You are brave and your story really matters.
I was abused by a tutor, but my parents wouldn't stop the sessions because they were afraid they wouldn't find another one. They finally stopped when they realized she was ripping them off. I was abused by a teacher, but the folks were afraid we'd be seen as troublemakers. Finally, my sister became a bully, and my parents wouldn't confront her out of fear she'd kill herself, and I said, "F-ck it, my sanity comes first," and I confronted her.
You are so brave and a truly beautiful soul x
I can relate to not knowing what happened to me until now at 44 years old. I didn’t realize my whole childhood was trauma that’s it’s called childhood trauma. I thought it only happened to some people and thought I was raised like everyone else that it was normal. Even had consoling from ages 35-41. None of the counselors told me that I have childhood trauma.
I’ve been reading all kinds of books like Self-Love for Women, Ones about childhood trauma, I was learning how to be a mindset coach/someone that could give extra support to those from childhood trauma/domestic abuse.
Found out my severe fibromyalgia is because of all the trauma and being the strong one of the family. I was the one protecting everyone and being a counselor to my mom. I was a kid!!! I felt like I was the adult not my mom. I never cried in front of my family members because I thought if I act strong and comfort and protect them it would help them more. But I’d cry alone in the bedroom with the door closed. No one in my family knows that. Both of my parents had undiagnosed mental illnesses and I knew they did. So I told myself it’s not my parents fault they are sick mentally ill they cannot help what they did to the family especially what they did to me. But yes, they could have realized their behavior wasn’t healthy for us kids and get the help they needed.
I honestly don’t know how I lived this long battling suicidal thoughts and attempts. I even told my mom about this when I was 13 years old and she acted like it was strange. I never mentioned it again. Anyways, they finally got help when I was miles away from them. Dad apologized for his behavior, but he wouldn’t let me say how it made me feel and have a conversation about it. It was like I said I’m sorry and that’s it.
I tried saying a little something to a sister of mine but she was so young then i don’t think she remembers that I took most of the abuse to protect her and the other family members. I told her something and she said oh you just don’t like how people are. I was like wow…acting like I’m being unreasonable for feeling hurt. So I ended the conversation. I will never be able to comfort my parents and hear my siblings say thanks for trying to protect us and we know you suffered. Only my mom keeps in touch with me the rest of the family doesn’t remember me. I feel like they blame me for moving out at age 21 permanently and stayed away because I couldn’t emotionally deal with it anymore. Plus, when I was about to call the police at age 15…it scared them so they took it seriously and did change significantly so when I left most of it stopped the abuse but I needed to get out of there to save myself mentally and emotionally.
I think it’s great that your are trying to help many children and adults that went through or children facing Human Trafficking. You know from experience how awful it is and you don’t want others to suffer alone. So many people need someone to help them escape from toxic and dangerous people and so many of us don’t know what a healthy loving family is. It’s good to know that we as survivors can break the chain of abuse and be better parents and people to help others not experience it or at least be the one to help them get out of this horrible situation. ❤❤❤
Thank you for making a difference, love and blessings, Eva from Hungary
Thank you for giving others insight to secrets that expose the danger and the sins that humans can do. A broken world, but there is hope and there is righteous justice that will one day heal all wounds suffered in this life. Don't ever give up. Yourr life is of much value.❤
I'm so sorry you went through this!!!
You seem like such a sweet and strong person. I hope you're no contact with those monsters.
I saw a little girl in the shopping centre the other day that my gut told me something was not right. But how and what can a person do? Where to from a visual to helping her?
I'm so very sorry this happened to you, but I'm so proud of you for telling your story! One day I hope I'll get to be heard, share my story and be believed to... My life's goal is to help others, the way I wish I had help going through my childhood hell. Until then I share my story on my channel, but hope one day I'll be able to share on this amazing channel. But, I'm absolutely invisible... As I've been my entire life.
I'm so happy you are getting your peace, your ability to share your voice and to help others! Proud of you! ❤️
Maybe, one day we can share our stories to one another. I thought about sharing mine on this channel, but I just think it will make my life much worse.
I thought about writing a book on everything from childhood to all the other things I went through and it’s a miracle I’m not dead for many reasons. I like hearing others peoples stories. I’ve notice that all of us survivors are a lot alike in that we figure out a way to make it through everything and we don’t allow it to keep us from not living our lives it’s like we have this deep hope that it will eventually end or that we can break free and work on healing. We want to heal ourselves enough to be able to help others that’s been through it, currently going through it, and help them be rescued from it or recover enough to have a better life. ❤
@@truth_hunterAbsolutely!!! I'd love to share with you, maybe we can heal together. I too am writing a book, I'm not sharing everything on my channel, but I do find it healing to share my story... I find it does help others. However, on here (RUclips), I feel absolutely invisible and like my voice doesn't matter. But, I keep going... Even though I don't know why. I guess, my drive to help others is tremendously strong for me.... Even though it hurts to be invisible, I have to believe, I'm helping people, somehow... Even if they never say anything or show they care. Be blessed and stay safe! 🫂
thank you for coming forward
I'm so sorry. Thank You for telling your story!
I’m so so sorry you went through this 💔💔 I too endured similar from 5-15yrs old & only was able to start speaking up more about it & start healing when a counselor told me “what happened to you is trafficking”. Before, I felt unseen, unheard or not believed by so many people & carried so much shame but hearing it’s more than being “sensitive or dramatic”, it’s trafficking & horrendous!
I’m so proud of you for speaking up for yourself & also, helping others along the way!
I know EXACTLY how you felt when you felt helpless about that child. It massively triggered your CPTSD and each time you are rescuing your little self. I did this for YEARS as a social worker ...please be careful doing this type of work as while you are driven to it so fundamentally, it will always trigger you. I'm in sales now.... I couldnt keep doing it x
Same here I worked for CPS and it’s too much to bare
Thank you for sharing your story I admire you 👏👏👏❤️💐
thank you for sharing your story, I unfortuately experienced this me my life too..and at the age of 60ty plus I have yet told anyone.
You Are A Angel❤ Thank You God For Giving Us This 😇
And honestly this is why I left the church, BUT I still have communication with yeshua! I read my Bible and pray daily
Bless you 🙏🏻 your an Angel
Whats with the music in the background? Does “Unfiltered Stories” really need dramatic effects?
I thought it was normal to dislike our parents, I thought everyone disliked their parents.
Wow really? 😢
What a pervert, maybe your a monster on the other side 🤬🤮🤮
Thank you for sharing your story.❤
God bless you❤
Yes fearful intent to support their aspect and point.. glad you point back. Maybe, the momma was not whom you felt. We seem to think that many know instinctively that this is wrong since it's inheritly distinct feeling in self. Saying uncomfortable and avoiding is one strategy ..so the topic is not a burden of mind. Thanks sharing..I see many stories and am not sure all are actual. Some are I'm sure
For those of you saying she doesn't look Asian. She looks Half Asian & White to me.
Thank you for sharing ❤
My mom thought my suffering was funny too.
😢 I'm so sorry.
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God bless you on your healing journey and your courage to stand up and make a change. I wonder if your mother herself had been abused and not known how to reconcile it with the way society handled this sort of thing as she grew up. Such topics seemed to be hushed by the older generation rather than dealt with head on. Psychology has come very far since your mothers childhood and abuse is strongly and openly condemned in todays world, at least in the U.S. If your mother had been abused its possible that is why she giggled (possibly in nervousness for you, lacking the courage to stand up against your abusers or what abuse she might expect from your father if she discussed it with him). It would be interesting to hear a follow up after youve spoken with your mother and found out what hell she endured as a child. Life is so complex and full of so many intricate moving parts. Our stories are never our stories alone but are part of the grand tapestry of the human family. Where one life begins it is overlapped and interwoven with the life of another.
I'm sorry.
Hugs
Very sad and horrific to hear the evil she had to endure as an innocent child. As a man of God I can't help but to look in the spiritual realm instead of the earthly realm for why things like this happen.
Religion is in no way of Jesus Christ, Point Blank Period!
God is very kind and patient. While satan is a control freak and is always in a rush to try and hurry to ruin someone's life.
Get to know Jesus on a personal intimate level and He will protect you and change your life FOREVER!
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Absolutely ridiculous! Your mom thought it was hilarious. Woe unto her mama. Judgement is coming for her
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SAD!!VERY SAD,INDEED!!MM MM MM!!
I cant believe your mom didnt protect you, she should of protect you awful mom
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Beautiful lady sure don’t look Japanese
Hello, you were not aq
I'm really sorry for what happened to you. But you don't look like you have Korea blood in you. Please try to do DNA test , then you can even take them to court for all your suffering.
She said she was from japan born and raised there until 17 yrs old, her dad was from japan, didn’t mention her mother. Its that couple that came from south korea
Hello, you were not aq
Hello, you were not aq
Hello, you were not aq