even if he doesnt have bad intentions its not right, he wants attention and befriend them, get a daughter of your own dude is job is to teach the subject and be an adult role model not a 'cool friend' an adult knows how to manipulate and fake relationships
Steve Harvey said it well-when discussing the lack of boundaries between students and teachers he said: "When I was in school we didn't even know if our teachers had knees...and that's the way it should be"! I agree.
Gay or straight, his behavior is inappropriate, completely. It is unprofessional. No teacher should behave in this manner, ever. The school was right to fire him.
@@kthevsamig4958 - #1 - he's paid to TEACH, not record tiktok videos. #2 - A grown man should not be encouraging young girls to touch him, and groom him like this. It's called 'grooming behavior' and it's what sex offenders do to prepare kids for being touched sexually. #3 - Minors can not legally consent to being in his videos. Who knows what he's planning to do with these videos. Sex offenders would love to watch them and get off to them. #4 - As a teacher he's been taught that this is inappropriate behavior and he's doing it anyway. Very concerning. These kids are being taught to let themselves be used by an adult, for the pleasure of the adult, when they should be learning schoolwork. It's disgusting on many levels. Glad they fired his nasty butt.
@@kthevsamig4958It’s not professional I mean your doing. I would think they are just trying to avoid what ever what’s to come. You don’t put them on tiktok. Let me ask you this if those girls were going to be a masseuse is it cool to record the girls massaging him?
@@elaineanderson2989 Yeah. I mean, if you want to run a side-class/program where kids can do that with approval by the school and parents, then cool. Not on normal class time.
@@elaineanderson2989 The other problem is, everything is recorded now. Maybe back in our day (90s-2000s) that would be cool, nobody would see it and teachers weren't as weird back then. Now we are more vigilant and that sometimes makes good teachers look bad, but is what it is.
I can see being a fun teacher can make your job easier, & I understand that kid's joy can make your day. Making them happy gives you hope for the future, but there should ALWAYS be boundaries. I've worked with kids, I don't accept too many gifts if any. The furthest physical touch goes is high fives and that's worked perfectly fine all this time. As a male teacher, I'm very aware around teenage girl students. Why? Because teenagers in general are developing feelings and hormones they can not handle. I make sure to protect them by teaching them boundaries for their male classmates. I feel the hair braiding was unprofessional , and when I found out he was messaging them outside of school I said no way, fire him.
IT IS GROOMING! He was breaking or blurring boundaries that should exist between adults and kids, teachers and their students. This so called teacher is disturbed.
As a white guy, I can confirm white girls love to do hair, nails and makeup. A lot of white girls these days end up going to beauty school and getting into all of those things. I don't think that's a race specific thing! However, doing that in school on your teacher is VERY inappropriate. It's not even about it being sexual. It's just personal contact on an adult from a child... and they're also not getting an education. I don't blame them if they fire him, but I don't think this is the worst thing in the world... as long as he wasn't enjoying it and in a weird way.
And how would we know if he’s enjoying young girls touching on him? That’s the problem, unless you’re a mind reader, the behavior is wrong. We can only go on what we see. And we can see with our eyes that this teacher chose to gr👀m these young girls by blurring the lines and making them believe that it’s okay to touch adult men. He made them feel comfortable. That’s how it starts sir. Anyone condoning this behavior is suspicious! All the pdf files across the country are so excited that it’s this easy to fool adult people!!!
This is very strange and the boundaries are crossed. Even if it's innocent completely, its an issue of him having authority over them and the lines are being blurred.
As a teacher, I would never post students on the internet. It is not allowed. This is a bad look, you are there to teach. You shouldn’t have any personal communication with students at all. I think there was probably more than one incident. This is bad. I don’t know if it is a race thing. In Asia it’s not a thing we just teach the curriculum
This could be seen as 'grooming', as in an adult prepping a child to become an intimate partner. I retired from teaching partly because of this kind of behavior going on with younger teachers in our school. I would not be a part of this behavior.
It doesn’t matter if he is gay or not nor how well meaning he may be. It’s a matter of proper and healthy boundaries between a teacher and students. He is not their friend, he is their teacher and should behave in an appropriate manner. He should not have these blurred boundaries but rather be in the position of leadership. He needs to leave this stuff with his nieces or whatever.
I'm sure it was innocent but still very unprofessional. He is supposed to be their superior, not their friend. This gives off vibes that I can do whatever I want in his class.
I'm 62 years old and always had hair down to my butt. The black girls CONSTANTLY wanted to mess with my hair and the teachers had to call them out for it. I think it is a cultural thing. Also, it's not okay for a teacher to NOT BE TEACHING when it's class time that this is happening! Shame on him!
He’s supposed to be TEACHING, that’s why he’s getting paid!! This is unprofessional, stupid & crazy!! He deserved to be fired! It’s not a color thing, it’s a school thing
Not setting boundaries as a teacher sets off alarms. You can be friendly and kind as a teacher. But you have to walk a fine line. I don't care if he's gay or a "tic tok teacher." What does that mean anyway? Just because he might post on tic tok doesn't mean he abandons his professionalism as a teacher. Sometimes people hide behind their "good" intentions. Don't buy it. He's unprofessional. He should be fired. Then he down plays it. "That's what girls do." Sounds like grooming to me.
yeah its a bit too much for a classroom, but it isnt grooming. this word has been ruined by its overuse if it was male students cutting his hair, or a female teacher getting hers braided, nobody would give af, even though under your definition it would still be "grooming" (lol)
@@panagiotagiakoumis5127bc you’re using it wrong it very vaguely fits this situation it’s more just unprofessional rather than grooming I don’t see him keeping in contact for 7+ years to try to get with them later over some hair braiding
@@jeremymoore5546 I think we will have to agree to disagree. I worked in the CPS sex abuse unit. I heard a lot of crazy things. There are a lot of sick people out there. I will stick with my first assumption. Could I be wrong? Maybe. God only knows what is in this man's heart, I am not claiming to know that. His actions are very suspicious. Many perpetrators go into fields where they are surrounded by children.
If he has 5 sisters, why would a sister choose the brother to put makeup, nails, and wigs on and not one of the other 4 sisters?? It sounds to me like he volunteered his assistance.
If you were these Teen girls father and you saw a video of your daughters braiding this Adult Man's hair or painting his nails while he was eating Orange Slices you'd go straight to that school & confront that Man or Sue the school district.
Why this is 'grooming' - lack of boundaries, building rapport & trust, physical touch, contact via phones. None of this is appropriate in a teacher/student relationship. His job is to teach, not have young girls playing in his hair & painting his nails.
Even if he did not have mal intent, as adults we are supposed to be wiser and more prudent with our actions and how we teach innocent children about healthy boundaries. We need to protect children from those who would have other intentions by teaching strong personal boundaries. This adult’s behavior desensitizes kids to be vulnerable to predators. If the teacher wanted to encourage talents and skills he needed to have made this part of a more structured class with parent permission and notification. He really crossed adult child boundaries by texting and having personal contact with them outside of the school parameters. It is sad because children are so loving and need caring adults in their lives but there is a right way and a wrong way and in this case the means did not justify the ends. It is an unfortunate situation that could have been avoided and could have actually been a good thing had it been approached professionally. This teacher could have started an afterschool hair and cosmetology styling program with parent permission and school administrative support.
I worked middle school with students in a multi aged classroom of 6th -8th graders. I saw how some of the girls in our class loved watching braiding tutorials so I bought each girl student a mannequin to learn how to roll, braid hair during free time and when each student left 8th grade I gifted the mannequin to that student. I did not let them braid my hair or each other hair because of Covid. I also worked Daycare for 25 years Multi ages from kindergarten to 6th grade, we did nail painting but it was the staff painting the kids nails with the parents permission. I got mad one year because at our annual sleepover one of the staff painted my son's nail I was livid. But I also one time painted a boys nail and he said his parents would not care but when the Dad came for pickup he was livid, I just immediately removed his son nail polish. We were always trained to never let the kids sit on our laps even if they said it was okay or never let the kids sit in each other laps, it did not matter if they were girls or guys no kids sitting on your laps. But we did have staff that let the kids play in their hair, braid their hair but I think as a caregiver or teacher you can be close to your kids without letting them touch you or get that close to you, because anybody can switch up and say you did this or that. You need to have some level of professionalism with the students and set clear boundaries with your student. I'm black and been working with kids since I was 13. I'm this way no matter what race. Pick your struggle for me, he needs to see now that he should move differently in the future.
As a young teacher, I am extra diligent and boundaried w kids, I would never give them my number or touch them or let them touch me even as a straight young woman it would be inappropriate for me to have girls touching me at all.
In the video, the man uses examples of his sisters and his daughter. There is a unbelievably huge difference between sisters, daughters and then STRANGERS. These young girls are not his relatives and they are extremely impressionable. They should not be touching him in any way shape or form like that. If one of them was my daughter, we would have some serious problems.
It doesn’t matter his skin color or his sexual preference. He is a teacher, getting paid to TEACH kids basic educational standards. All of the other stuff is extra and should not be done in school. And he should NOT be texting students. That falls outside the teacher/student relationship and is wrong.
Yet they are the first ones to dictate how you should raise your kids and how you should live and vote lol. Brainwash reeducation centers aka universities. I bet he also thinks communism is a good idea too.
When I saw him read the letters and he’s full on balling crying and they saying bestie and all this? Come on man. Balling over not being around his tween female students anymore? I keep the same energy for the women doing this too.
A teacher is suppose to have a straight professional relationship with students. He could end up giving these girl preferential treatment due to how close they are.
Why should a parent trust HIM simply based on HIM saying he's trustworthy? Does he understand how ignorant that is? Anyone that has bad intentions isn't going to tell you about their intentions. So this is why you just don't even cross this line.
I remember when I was young and wanted to play makeup and nail polish with my Dad. He explained why he wouldn't let me put makeup or polish on his nails but he did make me happy by polishing my nails and then putting my hair into a pony tail and told me to put on my best dress and he would dress up in his best suit and we went to McDonalds (my choice) for dinner. It isn't about being secure in your manhood but explaining and showing a different way to play dress up with your child.
Solomon is wrong! That behavior is inappropriate no matter the color of their skin!! That dude was grooming those kids. It’s not a race thing at all!!! Clearly!
Teachers should not be your children’s friends. They are there to teach!! You are not friends!! You can respect each other, but under no circumstance should Teacher and students be friends!!
My daughters should not be doing any non-family member’s hair, especially during school hours! They were going to lose their phones for a week, and that fool was going to meet me personally!
If your daughter has a mother, why does a man feel like he needs to dress up like a girl or wear makeup to play with his daughter? When I was a kid, I NEVER even thought to ask my dad to do that. I played dress up with my mother for obvious reasons. That's why kids are confused now smh..
• he's using the girls as beauticians when he's supposed to be teaching a subject • there is NO REASON FOR GRADE SCHOOL GIRLS TO HAVE THEIR MALE TEACHERS CELL PHONE NUMBER.!!! If thats my child, oh we got a fkin problem bru. • other than an emergency situation, there is no reason for a teacher to ever put your hands on a child, OR to let them put their hands on you.... In ANY manner. This is wildly inappropriate and unprofessional. Unacceptable.
It's inappropriate period. Both of my sons graduated from high school and college. No touching on either end is supposed to be happening period, at all school levels.
He wasn’t fired-he was reassigned. The ethical guidelines say a teacher should respect the student’s physical space, etc. He has also allowed the girls to paint his fingernails. He was also texting his “besties.” This teacher was acting out his fantasies about being a “better” teacher than others. I can’t say if he was grooming the girls or responding to their need for fathers or if they fantasized about him. There is a condition called: Limerence, which is a state of mind which results from romantic feelings for another person, and typically includes intrusive, melancholic thoughts, or tragic concerns for the object of one's affection. Now, the girls are devastated because they don’t understand the poor boundaries and rules regarding certain relationships. Mr. White is naive and did not get adequate supervision and guidance. I think he needs help with his role. Also, not only is touching the head of someone intimate, it is special. Also, many black women sometimes miss the boundaries and red flags due to cultural norms and the lack of structure and discipline within some black families, especially when fathers are absent. I like your show. Keep up the good work! #parentingisplanning!
I was very close with my teachers and high school teachers, never touching but we were friends online. Then it came out one of them was sleeping with one of the students.
My classmates were friendly with our teachers in highschool and they said we are NOT friends until we graduate. To the point they wouldn’t accept our Facebook requests until we graduated. And even then it’s still a student teacher relationship after highschool lol. That’s the boundaries they set to this day we still respect them as teachers more than friends. 2020 graduate just fyi
Nah white parents and white kids don’t play like that, the boys would tell their parents the teacher wasn’t teaching them anything and that’s a phone call from the parents next day
I grew up in a different era where if you are a boy being caught playing around with Barby dolls or wearing nail polish your father will pop you with a belt so no I have no clue where this "maybe it's acceptable " shit is comming from
You guys are invaluable in waking people up. Watching the 4 of you debate these issues amongst one another is really something to see. I wanna see you guys on the veiw so bad. It was awesome to see B. Tatum shouting out your swag!
everything has to be about race with Soloman, so stupid... if a teacher asked any class if someone wanted to paint their nails there would be a girl that would do it. Same thing would happen in highschool too and with how woke kids are these days, probably college.
@@BeanMacdui if children are being groomed by their teacher (I don't mean in the hair and nail sense) and thats "no big deal" in any community, there is an issue.
@@mflambert I agree, grooming is grooming regardless of race. I was just saying that Solomon was pointing out that the black community was condoning the teacher’s behavior. Solomon explains it more clearly at the end of the video.
@@mflambert I'm not taking the teacher's defense, but I think you Americans are crazy in the head. Whenever you see an adult interacting with a child, you automatically come to the conclusion that it must be "grooming". You don't even realize how paranoid you are.
The tougher a man acts the closer to gay he actually is If you end up in jail overnight you will see how quickly a “straight” “tough guy” will turn gay without women around and how openly flamboyant these “straight tough guy” men are
If this was family, that would be one thing, but these are kids he should be keeping at a certain distance. Also, his eyes look quite evil in this context.
I think if the girls asked him if they can do his nails, he probably just said sure because it seems harmless. The really WEIRD part is that he's texting these girls.
Someone explain to me how this is a bad luck or how this is inappropriate. I'm confused. How could you compare this to grooming or how could you even compare this to Diddy? I am so confused. There's a teacher on Instagram who hugs and has physical contact with his children. He actually films it and does lives. The children respect them and look up to him. What's the difference? These children look up to this teacher in this video and respect them. I know him. He has gotten through to them and he's teaching them. This is just one moment and one thing. It is just hair, what is wrong with it?
Case in point : A track coach has been training a little girl since she was 8 yrs old . Now , she's 16 & he's texting her , asking for pics late at night . Plus , he sent her an inappropriate pic . Thank goodness the Dad had his daughter's phone & he notified the cops . That man was a coach for 30 yrs . So , they are asking other potential victims to speak up . Everyone involved is African-American. 😡 He's been grooming that child for 8 yrs . 🤬
Why not just go to a hair salon or a barbershop? Also having kids doing stuff like this is extremely inappropriate, he should be fired and not allowed to teach again
It shouldn’t be happening in school PERIOD! Why isn’t he teaching them what they need to succeed? And what about the kids who aren’t interested in doing hair & nails? How does this benefit them? If your argument is this benefits some people
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This new generation of teachers are deranged
Fucking mental
Amen.
They need a mental evaluation lol like dawg wtf is going man. THAT IS BIG NOOOOOOOO!!! End of times
Satan blurring the lines between adults and children and opening the door for sinful behavior.
Don’t clump us all into that. I teach high school and would never…
It's weird. WHY IS HE TEXTING YOUNG GIRLS?
He was not texting little girls. The students were sending emails to him in
support after he was fired
@@robrown7656 Super inappropriate.
even if he doesnt have bad intentions its not right, he wants attention and befriend them, get a daughter of your own dude
is job is to teach the subject and be an adult role model not a 'cool friend' an adult knows how to manipulate and fake relationships
@@robrown7656 It begs the question of WHY they had his Email.
@@aprilbennett4161 especially since the school gives him an email to converse with students and parents, thats monitored.
Not a race thing, teachers need to keep a physical distance from all kids. And texting?!!
If it’s actually texting the number that’s wierd but their is a lot of apps where teachers and students can text eachother not through the number.
Letting a sister or daughter do your hair and makeup is VASTLY different than a student.
Steve Harvey said it well-when discussing the lack of boundaries between students and teachers he said: "When I was in school we didn't even know if our teachers had knees...and that's the way it should be"!
I agree.
Gay or straight, his behavior is inappropriate, completely. It is unprofessional. No teacher should behave in this manner, ever. The school was right to fire him.
Wtf did he do wrong
@@kthevsamig4958 - #1 - he's paid to TEACH, not record tiktok videos.
#2 - A grown man should not be encouraging young girls to touch him, and groom him like this. It's called 'grooming behavior' and it's what sex offenders do to prepare kids for being touched sexually.
#3 - Minors can not legally consent to being in his videos. Who knows what he's planning to do with these videos. Sex offenders would love to watch them and get off to them.
#4 - As a teacher he's been taught that this is inappropriate behavior and he's doing it anyway. Very concerning. These kids are being taught to let themselves be used by an adult, for the pleasure of the adult, when they should be learning schoolwork.
It's disgusting on many levels.
Glad they fired his nasty butt.
@@susanbeals7597it’s common sense
@@kthevsamig4958It’s not professional I mean your doing. I would think they are just trying to avoid what ever what’s to come. You don’t put them on tiktok. Let me ask you this if those girls were going to be a masseuse is it cool to record the girls massaging him?
@@susanbeals7597 100% true
There's a big difference between having your daughter do these types of things to you than having your students do it .
It's not a black or white thing... it's inappropriate and sooner or later, trouble.
Totally inappropriate for a teacher to allow and even condone this behavior!!
It’s a bad look. No matter how much you want to defend the teacher, it is still inappropriate and very unprofessional on his part.
I agree, he is probably a great teacher and was genuinely being cool, but he has to maintain order and be professional, like you said.
But there’s women on video doing the same exact thing, you are inappropriate for sexualizing children
Yep there is a professional line and he crossed it.
@@elaineanderson2989 Yeah. I mean, if you want to run a side-class/program where kids can do that with approval by the school and parents, then cool. Not on normal class time.
@@elaineanderson2989 The other problem is, everything is recorded now. Maybe back in our day (90s-2000s) that would be cool, nobody would see it and teachers weren't as weird back then. Now we are more vigilant and that sometimes makes good teachers look bad, but is what it is.
I'm 66, I didn't know anything about my teacher's personal life. There was a boundary line between students and teachers that should not be crossed.
Is this what's going on during school hours?
He called a teenage girl a jack of all trades...what is America coming to??
❤ white chick here. In a white middle school... This would be grooming, and the parents would insist he be arrested. Just saying.
Idk u could read it in a negative way but white schools be having teachers with huge bolt ons idk what u seen lol
Yes
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ROFL you said this was "grooming" which is something he should be taking care of on his own.
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I can see being a fun teacher can make your job easier, & I understand that kid's joy can make your day. Making them happy gives you hope for the future, but there should ALWAYS be boundaries. I've worked with kids, I don't accept too many gifts if any. The furthest physical touch goes is high fives and that's worked perfectly fine all this time. As a male teacher, I'm very aware around teenage girl students. Why? Because teenagers in general are developing feelings and hormones they can not handle. I make sure to protect them by teaching them boundaries for their male classmates. I feel the hair braiding was unprofessional , and when I found out he was messaging them outside of school I said no way, fire him.
Not a race thing, but an AGE thing.
And a professional thing.
IT IS GROOMING! He was breaking or blurring boundaries that should exist between adults and kids, teachers and their students. This so called teacher is disturbed.
its not go touch some grass
Boundaries need to be set between teachers & students.
You cant have female students all over you like that. The fuck was he thinking??? That's an intimate moment right there.
As a white guy, I can confirm white girls love to do hair, nails and makeup. A lot of white girls these days end up going to beauty school and getting into all of those things. I don't think that's a race specific thing! However, doing that in school on your teacher is VERY inappropriate. It's not even about it being sexual. It's just personal contact on an adult from a child... and they're also not getting an education. I don't blame them if they fire him, but I don't think this is the worst thing in the world... as long as he wasn't enjoying it and in a weird way.
How many white men do you know that get their hair braided?
You can bank on it he was loving having everyone with all eyes on him, he's a dam freaking weirdo.
How do you measure how much he was enjoying it? You scare me bro!
And how would we know if he’s enjoying young girls touching on him? That’s the problem, unless you’re a mind reader, the behavior is wrong. We can only go on what we see. And we can see with our eyes that this teacher chose to gr👀m these young girls by blurring the lines and making them believe that it’s okay to touch adult men. He made them feel comfortable. That’s how it starts sir. Anyone condoning this behavior is suspicious! All the pdf files across the country are so excited that it’s this easy to fool adult people!!!
Saying it's what young girls like to do etc is no excuse for it. That's for outside of school with friends and family, not in school with a teacher...
This is very strange and the boundaries are crossed. Even if it's innocent completely, its an issue of him having authority over them and the lines are being blurred.
no its not
As a teacher, I would never post students on the internet. It is not allowed. This is a bad look, you are there to teach. You shouldn’t have any personal communication with students at all. I think there was probably more than one incident. This is bad. I don’t know if it is a race thing. In Asia it’s not a thing we just teach the curriculum
Posting students is not that bad but letting them touch you like your their classmate is creepy
@@jasonbeasley9774 this really makes all of us teachers look bad. We aren't all like this :(
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1. Inappropriate
2. Inappropriate
3. Inappropriate
4. Fired
Posting minor children on the internet that are not yours is definitely inappropriate @@jasonbeasley9774
This could be seen as 'grooming', as in an adult prepping a child to become an intimate partner. I retired from teaching partly because of this kind of behavior going on with younger teachers in our school. I would not be a part of this behavior.
"I'm going to let them do their thing every single time." 🤮 The music and his low talking voice aren't helping either. Gross.
IKR
It was the sobbing for me. The epitome of an unhealthy teacher/student relationship
I don't think it's so much a black thing than it is a thing that is age inappropriate and can lead to favoritism
It doesn’t matter if he is gay or not nor how well meaning he may be. It’s a matter of proper and healthy boundaries between a teacher and students. He is not their friend, he is their teacher and should behave in an appropriate manner. He should not have these blurred boundaries but rather be in the position of leadership. He needs to leave this stuff with his nieces or whatever.
This is crossing boundaries no matter who is involved...
It is against the "rules" of education.
Period
I'm sure it was innocent but still very unprofessional. He is supposed to be their superior, not their friend. This gives off vibes that I can do whatever I want in his class.
I’m surprised the parents don’t have a problem with their kids being on TikTok during school.
You are assuming their parents know or/and care…
When you're a teacher, you're that. You're not a friend. You can be friendly, compassion, empathetic and provide guidance. But you are not a friend.
Stay away from the young girls
I'm 62 years old and always had hair down to my butt. The black girls CONSTANTLY wanted to mess with my hair and the teachers had to call them out for it. I think it is a cultural thing. Also, it's not okay for a teacher to NOT BE TEACHING when it's class time that this is happening! Shame on him!
He’s supposed to be TEACHING, that’s why he’s getting paid!! This is unprofessional, stupid & crazy!! He deserved to be fired! It’s not a color thing, it’s a school thing
Not setting boundaries as a teacher sets off alarms. You can be friendly and kind as a teacher. But you have to walk a fine line. I don't care if he's gay or a "tic tok teacher." What does that mean anyway? Just because he might post on tic tok doesn't mean he abandons his professionalism as a teacher. Sometimes people hide behind their "good" intentions. Don't buy it. He's unprofessional. He should be fired. Then he down plays it. "That's what girls do." Sounds like grooming to me.
HOW is it "grooming" exactly? Do you American people have any idea what this word means at all?
yeah its a bit too much for a classroom, but it isnt grooming. this word has been ruined by its overuse
if it was male students cutting his hair, or a female teacher getting hers braided, nobody would give af, even though under your definition it would still be "grooming" (lol)
@@randomwatcher8673 yes, I do know what it means. Why does the word used in that term offend you?
@@panagiotagiakoumis5127bc you’re using it wrong it very vaguely fits this situation it’s more just unprofessional rather than grooming I don’t see him keeping in contact for 7+ years to try to get with them later over some hair braiding
@@jeremymoore5546 I think we will have to agree to disagree. I worked in the CPS sex abuse unit. I heard a lot of crazy things. There are a lot of sick people out there. I will stick with my first assumption. Could I be wrong? Maybe. God only knows what is in this man's heart, I am not claiming to know that. His actions are very suspicious. Many perpetrators go into fields where they are surrounded by children.
If he has 5 sisters, why would a sister choose the brother to put makeup, nails, and wigs on and not one of the other 4 sisters?? It sounds to me like he volunteered his assistance.
If you were these Teen girls father and you saw a video of your daughters braiding this Adult Man's hair or painting his nails while he was eating Orange Slices you'd go straight to that school & confront that Man or Sue the school district.
This is really creepy lettin little girls be all over you like this in stead of keeping your boundaries as an adult.......
Appreciate the honesty in your videos, it's rare these days
This is grooming, period! Teachers need to be professional with their students.
How is it "grooming" exactly? Give a clear and articulate answer.
Why this is 'grooming' - lack of boundaries, building rapport & trust, physical touch, contact via phones. None of this is appropriate in a teacher/student relationship. His job is to teach, not have young girls playing in his hair & painting his nails.
Even if he did not have mal intent, as adults we are supposed to be wiser and more prudent with our actions and how we teach innocent children about healthy boundaries. We need to protect children from those who would have other intentions by teaching strong personal boundaries. This adult’s behavior desensitizes kids to be vulnerable to predators. If the teacher wanted to encourage talents and skills he needed to have made this part of a more structured class with parent permission and notification. He really crossed adult child boundaries by texting and having personal contact with them outside of the school parameters. It is sad because children are so loving and need caring adults in their lives but there is a right way and a wrong way and in this case the means did not justify the ends. It is an unfortunate situation that could have been avoided and could have actually been a good thing had it been approached professionally. This teacher could have started an afterschool hair and cosmetology styling program with parent permission and school administrative support.
I worked middle school with students in a multi aged classroom of 6th -8th graders. I saw how some of the girls in our class loved watching braiding tutorials so I bought each girl student a mannequin to learn how to roll, braid hair during free time and when each student left 8th grade I gifted the mannequin to that student. I did not let them braid my hair or each other hair because of Covid.
I also worked Daycare for 25 years Multi ages from kindergarten to 6th grade, we did nail painting but it was the staff painting the kids nails with the parents permission. I got mad one year because at our annual sleepover one of the staff painted my son's nail I was livid. But I also one time painted a boys nail and he said his parents would not care but when the Dad came for pickup he was livid, I just immediately removed his son nail polish. We were always trained to never let the kids sit on our laps even if they said it was okay or never let the kids sit in each other laps, it did not matter if they were girls or guys no kids sitting on your laps. But we did have staff that let the kids play in their hair, braid their hair but I think as a caregiver or teacher you can be close to your kids without letting them touch you or get that close to you, because anybody can switch up and say you did this or that. You need to have some level of professionalism with the students and set clear boundaries with your student. I'm black and been working with kids since I was 13. I'm this way no matter what race. Pick your struggle for me, he needs to see now that he should move differently in the future.
As a young teacher, I am extra diligent and boundaried w kids, I would never give them my number or touch them or let them touch me even as a straight young woman it would be inappropriate for me to have girls touching me at all.
When you’re in college and not taught ethics and morals. You become a teacher and don’t know what lines should not be crossed
In the video, the man uses examples of his sisters and his daughter. There is a unbelievably huge difference between sisters, daughters and then STRANGERS. These young girls are not his relatives and they are extremely impressionable. They should not be touching him in any way shape or form like that. If one of them was my daughter, we would have some serious problems.
It doesn’t matter his skin color or his sexual preference. He is a teacher, getting paid to TEACH kids basic educational standards. All of the other stuff is extra and should not be done in school. And he should NOT be texting students. That falls outside the teacher/student relationship and is wrong.
It's just inappropriate all the way around.
These people have no idea about responsibility and proper boundaries
This is a Teacher's Union issue. This should not be allowed period. Teach the three Rs.
These "Educators" are the ones that call you stupid online. He honestly still thinks he did nothing wrong.
Yet they are the first ones to dictate how you should raise your kids and how you should live and vote lol. Brainwash reeducation centers aka universities. I bet he also thinks communism is a good idea too.
When I saw him read the letters and he’s full on balling crying and they saying bestie and all this? Come on man. Balling over not being around his tween female students anymore? I keep the same energy for the women doing this too.
Now he can really focus on his TikTok career!🎉
Wow, this is sick behavior.
A teacher is suppose to have a straight professional relationship with students. He could end up giving these girl preferential treatment due to how close they are.
Why should a parent trust HIM simply based on HIM saying he's trustworthy? Does he understand how ignorant that is? Anyone that has bad intentions isn't going to tell you about their intentions. So this is why you just don't even cross this line.
Ok “Groomer” 😂
I remember when I was young and wanted to play makeup and nail polish with my Dad. He explained why he wouldn't let me put makeup or polish on his nails but he did make me happy by polishing my nails and then putting my hair into a pony tail and told me to put on my best dress and he would dress up in his best suit and we went to McDonalds (my choice) for dinner. It isn't about being secure in your manhood but explaining and showing a different way to play dress up with your child.
Nah, it's insecure and childish. Your dad is a man baby.
Dude is a professional pimp, he is recruiting at the school smh
You really got “pimp” from this? It’s an inappropriate but you reaching hard as hell
The issue is he treating his students like His family WHERE IS THE BOUNDARIES
Solomon is wrong! That behavior is inappropriate no matter the color of their skin!! That dude was grooming those kids. It’s not a race thing at all!!! Clearly!
It doesnt matter if hes gay or not gay or he thinks hes helping him or doing his hair nails eyebrow. He should be teaching them not getting pampered.
Teachers should not be your children’s friends. They are there to teach!! You are not friends!! You can respect each other, but under no circumstance should Teacher and students be friends!!
Black, white, gay, straight, none of that matters. Teachers shouldn’t be interacting with students like this.
My daughters should not be doing any non-family member’s hair, especially during school hours! They were going to lose their phones for a week, and that fool was going to meet me personally!
Saw this on TSR or so on IG and gasped. My shock got worse when I saw people in the comment section defending and excusing it. Lol. SMH
As a native woman parents would LOOSE IT, regarding a half dozen lil girls braiding a male teachers hair. Weird.
If your daughter has a mother, why does a man feel like he needs to dress up like a girl or wear makeup to play with his daughter? When I was a kid, I NEVER even thought to ask my dad to do that. I played dress up with my mother for obvious reasons. That's why kids are confused now smh..
• he's using the girls as beauticians when he's supposed to be teaching a subject
• there is NO REASON FOR GRADE SCHOOL GIRLS TO HAVE THEIR MALE TEACHERS CELL PHONE NUMBER.!!! If thats my child, oh we got a fkin problem bru.
• other than an emergency situation, there is no reason for a teacher to ever put your hands on a child, OR to let them put their hands on you.... In ANY manner.
This is wildly inappropriate and unprofessional. Unacceptable.
It's inappropriate period. Both of my sons graduated from high school and college. No touching on either end is supposed to be happening period, at all school levels.
He wasn’t fired-he was reassigned. The ethical guidelines say a teacher should respect the student’s physical space, etc.
He has also allowed the girls to paint his fingernails. He was also texting his “besties.”
This teacher was acting out his fantasies about being a “better” teacher than others.
I can’t say if he was grooming the girls or responding to their need for fathers or if they fantasized about him. There is a condition called: Limerence, which is a state of mind which results from romantic feelings for another person, and typically includes intrusive, melancholic thoughts, or tragic concerns for the object of one's affection. Now, the girls are devastated because they don’t understand the poor boundaries and rules regarding certain relationships. Mr. White is naive and did not get adequate supervision and guidance. I think he needs help with his role.
Also, not only is touching the head of someone intimate, it is special. Also, many black women sometimes miss the boundaries and red flags due to cultural norms and the lack of structure and discipline within some black families, especially when fathers are absent.
I like your show. Keep up the good work!
#parentingisplanning!
He was completely out of line... inappropriate.
I’m with Tash. Him reading the texts are WAY worse than the rest of the videos.
I was very close with my teachers and high school teachers, never touching but we were friends online. Then it came out one of them was sleeping with one of the students.
I’m torn between thinking he should be commended for being their guinea pig and thinking he should be arrested for child labor. 😂
My classmates were friendly with our teachers in highschool and they said we are NOT friends until we graduate. To the point they wouldn’t accept our Facebook requests until we graduated. And even then it’s still a student teacher relationship after highschool lol. That’s the boundaries they set to this day we still respect them as teachers more than friends. 2020 graduate just fyi
Nah white parents and white kids don’t play like that, the boys would tell their parents the teacher wasn’t teaching them anything and that’s a phone call from the parents next day
I grew up in a different era where if you are a boy being caught playing around with Barby dolls or wearing nail polish your father will pop you with a belt so no I have no clue where this "maybe it's acceptable " shit is comming from
White schools would not put up with it.....that is what he is trying to say....and it's true...
Bro to me it's unprofessional and why this teacher doing It in the first place you better go to a beauty salon or something cmon now
To me teachers should be already fired for having a public TikTok
"he gets a pass cus hes gay" had me ☠☠☠☠☠
You guys are invaluable in waking people up. Watching the 4 of you debate these issues amongst one another is really something to see. I wanna see you guys on the veiw so bad. It was awesome to see B. Tatum shouting out your swag!
everything has to be about race with Soloman, so stupid... if a teacher asked any class if someone wanted to paint their nails there would be a girl that would do it. Same thing would happen in highschool too and with how woke kids are these days, probably college.
I disagree, Solomon was saying that the response from the black community was that it was no big deal.
@@BeanMacdui if children are being groomed by their teacher (I don't mean in the hair and nail sense) and thats "no big deal" in any community, there is an issue.
@@mflambert I agree, grooming is grooming regardless of race. I was just saying that Solomon was pointing out that the black community was condoning the teacher’s behavior. Solomon explains it more clearly at the end of the video.
@@mflambert I'm not taking the teacher's defense, but I think you Americans are crazy in the head. Whenever you see an adult interacting with a child, you automatically come to the conclusion that it must be "grooming". You don't even realize how paranoid you are.
The tougher a man acts the closer to gay he actually is If you end up in jail overnight you will see how quickly a “straight” “tough guy” will turn gay without women around and how openly flamboyant these “straight tough guy” men are
“Hey Bestie” Whaaaaat? Why does a student have a teachers cell phone?
There needs to be boundaries.. period
And no teachers should be physically touching anyone in any way
You can tell who went to a black highschool and who didn't.. this happened all the time in my school and we were a black school
Brandon was on point here ⬆️
I laughed so fucking hard at the last video of him crying, made my day. He takes grooming children to a whole new level.
I think that no matter whether it is more prevalent in a black school or not- the standard needs to be held across the entire Department of Education
That father is exactly right.
He was already fired
If this was family, that would be one thing, but these are kids he should be keeping at a certain distance. Also, his eyes look quite evil in this context.
Teachers should not be friends with their teachers. Period.
I think if the girls asked him if they can do his nails, he probably just said sure because it seems harmless. The really WEIRD part is that he's texting these girls.
Someone explain to me how this is a bad luck or how this is inappropriate. I'm confused. How could you compare this to grooming or how could you even compare this to Diddy? I am so confused. There's a teacher on Instagram who hugs and has physical contact with his children. He actually films it and does lives. The children respect them and look up to him. What's the difference? These children look up to this teacher in this video and respect them. I know him. He has gotten through to them and he's teaching them. This is just one moment and one thing. It is just hair, what is wrong with it?
Case in point : A track coach has been training a little girl since she was 8 yrs old . Now , she's 16 & he's texting her , asking for pics late at night . Plus , he sent her an inappropriate pic . Thank goodness the Dad had his daughter's phone & he notified the cops . That man was a coach for 30 yrs . So , they are asking other potential victims to speak up . Everyone involved is African-American. 😡 He's been grooming that child for 8 yrs . 🤬
Why not just go to a hair salon or a barbershop? Also having kids doing stuff like this is extremely inappropriate, he should be fired and not allowed to teach again
If they don’t have straight A’s in every subject they shouldn’t be wasting their time doing this at school.
Brandon is the MVP of this reaction. 💯
It shouldn’t be happening in school PERIOD! Why isn’t he teaching them what they need to succeed? And what about the kids who aren’t interested in doing hair & nails? How does this benefit them? If your argument is this benefits some people