The Christmas Gift That Changed My Marriage

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  • Опубликовано: 1 дек 2022
  • I'd like to introduce you to my first love: music. It's what I'm using to fix our broken marriage.
    There are some stories I film but never release because their significance is not apparent at the time. This was one of those stories. After nearly losing our marriage last year, my husband Adam and I are trying to do more, important things together. Building this guitar and amp changed our marriage and lives for the better.
    Wilkinson 60s Vintage-T Guitar Kit: www.stewmac.com/kits-and-proj...
    '59 Tweed 15W Amp Kit: www.stewmac.com/kits-and-proj...
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    MORE ABOUT ME
    I'm Anne of All Trades. In NASHVILLE, I have a woodworking, blacksmithing and fabrication shop, a selection of furry friends, and an organic farm. Whether you've got the knowledge, tools, time or space to do the things you've always wanted to do, everything is "figureoutable."
    I became "Anne of All Trades" out of necessity. With no background in farming or making things, I wanted to learn to raise my own food, fix things when they break and build the things I need.
    8 years ago I got my first pet, planted my first seed and picked up my first tool.
    My goal is to learn and share traditional techniques and skills while showing my peers how to get from where they are to where they want to go, how to do the things they are passionate about, and what can be done TODAY to engage their own community and grow deep roots.
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  • @bertquerry3694
    @bertquerry3694 Год назад +6

    So many marriages fail because one or both spouses can’t or won’t put in the work that it takes to keep a marriage working and on the same journey together. I pray that both of you continue in the direction you have chosen ,and many more collaborations of life keep you close and in love….. be the exception!!!!

  • @alankee1065
    @alankee1065 Год назад +5

    “Failing Forward “. I love that. My grandfather had a similar philosophy, he taught “How to Fail”.

  • @HealthyHearts
    @HealthyHearts Год назад +6

    Okay you made me cry. I love watching your videos but this probably was the best one yet. Certainly the most important. My dear wife and I have been married since 1975 and she is the greatest blessing of my life. Continue to value your marriage!

  • @carabela125
    @carabela125 Год назад +5

    These ARE the good old days.

  • @PatrickvanHalderen
    @PatrickvanHalderen Год назад +5

    THIS is what it's about. Period.

  • @BroqueCowgirlHomestead
    @BroqueCowgirlHomestead 4 месяца назад +2

    My mom bought my dad a 1956 Fender Esquire guitar and amp for their first Anniversary in 1957. Yes it's still in the family :)

  • @YaYaLee
    @YaYaLee Год назад +5

    Adam has SKILLS ❤

  • @levent8208
    @levent8208 Год назад +5

    Working too much can really kill a marriage. One sure thing, he is a VERY lucky guy, I can see why he fell in love with you !

  • @backdoor5993
    @backdoor5993 Год назад +33

    Congrats to you and Adam for choosing to make your marriage work, and working your marriage. That is really the key in marriage, both people choosing the marriage over momentary comfort. Blessings and grace are almost always the result of your effort, anchored boats cannot be steered and thus, go no where.

    • @speakrighttogod
      @speakrighttogod Год назад +3

      Key words: "both people." At least it shows mutual interest, mutual effort and hopefully mutual love.

    • @jensmith4005
      @jensmith4005 7 месяцев назад +1

      You and @speakrighttogod said it best.

  • @pedalman4595
    @pedalman4595 Год назад +13

    MORE PEOPLE NEED TO HEAR AND UNDERSAND THIS MESSAGE!!!!!!!!!! THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!! BLESSINGS TO YOU BOTH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @Reynopatrick
    @Reynopatrick Год назад +7

    My heart just grew 2 sizes ❤️

  • @mikededmon
    @mikededmon Год назад +14

    THIS is love. Relationships require work. They are hard and full of struggles but if people love each other, they can also flourish with good communication and vulnerability. This story was beautiful. Thanks for sharing!

  • @bobkok3890
    @bobkok3890 2 месяца назад +2

    That’s AWESOME I’ll be 60 this year and I can’t even play the radio 😅 We are on year five of homesteading and year 42 of marriage Keep on moving forward fail or no fail learn love and keep on being happy

  • @compunurse
    @compunurse Год назад +4

    Well. That’s the best video I’m going to watch all day.

  • @jonnyglucose72
    @jonnyglucose72 Год назад +3

    A five year old shot the music video? I’ve worked with pros that didn’t shoot that well…my, oh my. Such talent!

  • @mabmachine
    @mabmachine Год назад +4

    I love this story.

  • @bendavanza
    @bendavanza Год назад +7

    No one looks back on their life and looks fondly on their office job. They remember the time spent together, vacations, adventures, personal projects. Thank you for sharing this part of your life and leading by example. ❤️

  • @paulaflynn9170
    @paulaflynn9170 6 месяцев назад +2

    Anne, I totally agree that spending quality time with your best friend is the most important and necessary thing to do to grow a strong life together. I enjoy doing things with my husband more than anyone. I get a deep appreciation for him. Merry Christmas and God Bless too you and yours!

  • @jensmith4005
    @jensmith4005 7 месяцев назад +3

    Amazing story. You benefited my husband's & my relationship. He works from home and I'm medically retired. We need a "guitar" project. Easton did a great job!

  • @jennab313
    @jennab313 Год назад +3

    OK, Anne --- side note before I forget (still watching the video) . . . WONDERFUL to see your BEAUTIFULLY restored farm truck actually moving. And DRIVING!! If you've posted the completion elsewhere, I must have missed it. That truck is da BOMB!!!

  • @MichaelNatrin
    @MichaelNatrin Год назад +3

    The best Stew Mac commercial ever 😆 seriously though, quitting corporate America is a fantastic decision & I'm glad that you are both happier making things & working together 💛

  • @Danielily1
    @Danielily1 10 месяцев назад +2

    I’m very glad you are taking your marriage as a priority. Keep working at it. Marriage will get better with time. Remember that no one and nothing is perfect on this earth. So, allow each other the space to make mistakes, forgive each other and give each other the benefit of the doubt. Also, look for your spouse’s love language and do that for each other. This is very important to have a full tank of love.

  • @leebarnhart831
    @leebarnhart831 Год назад +7

    I bet your husband is a really nice guy and you deserve no less than that. To many long and happy times and life together! That don't happen by mistake you know. I know you know.

  • @blackdog850
    @blackdog850 Год назад +5

    Dang nice Telecaster!!! Dang nice video! Thanks for sharing Anne! Best to you and Adam!

  • @tpreviti2995
    @tpreviti2995 Год назад +29

    Dang it, Anne! You had me in tears, again! Love, love, love hearing these stories. You two make me smile and long for what you're building together. Miss you, buddy!

  • @remingtonstealmyheart
    @remingtonstealmyheart Год назад +31

    Couldn't agree with you more. The time you spend making great memories is priceless.

  • @markg.1159
    @markg.1159 Год назад +13

    My aunt achieved her childhood dream of become a farmer when she got re-married to a neighbor who raised dairy cows. Which they retired from recently only to rehab a condemned house together. Watching how they worked together, and also seeing how much you threw yourself into your projects, I thought "it's got to be hard on their marriage for Adam to be so disconnected from all of this". I thought I might see a video about that at some point, and I'm so glad it's a happy one!

  • @andrewpaterson4672
    @andrewpaterson4672 Год назад +4

    your cut scenes are very well done. This might be the first time we've ( I ) have seen (3:33) your more formal wedding ring.

  • @philabraham658
    @philabraham658 Год назад +3

    A beautiful story about a beautiful couple with a beautiful message… Thanks for sharing x

  • @NGinuity
    @NGinuity Год назад +5

    I bought one of those Type S kits from Stew Mac last year and I even have some upgrades like a set of new Fender Eric Johnson pickups and a Floyd Rose Rail Tail... still sitting in the box. The quality of the kit parts are top notch and I actually checked the neck to body fit immediately, perfect. Maybe I'll give that a go this Christmas instead of sitting around in despair. Thanks for the thought to refresh my memory and video.

    • @adamofnotrades
      @adamofnotrades Год назад +2

      Go for it! Those strat kits are great!

  • @Pure_KodiakWILD_Power
    @Pure_KodiakWILD_Power Год назад +18

    Glad you two came back from the edge 💪🏽 Take care of each other, and keep rocking. Also that truck is niiiiice.

  • @tgrif04
    @tgrif04 Год назад +5

    At the end of the day, all one has left is the memories. I hope everything works out for you and Adam.👏🙏👍

  • @vonormykirk
    @vonormykirk Год назад +7

    1. Congratulations Adam!
    2. Great story, I love it!
    3. Gorgeous tele!
    4. PLEAAAASE post the full cover of y'all doing That Thing You Do!

  • @Rudelherz
    @Rudelherz 3 месяца назад +1

    I hate commercials but this one is not, it is a love story❤

  • @terrybowden3499
    @terrybowden3499 Год назад +7

    Beautiful story, thanks for sharing.

  • @GWPHomestead
    @GWPHomestead Год назад +7

    Awesome story, thank you for sharing! Love the Easton Cam, tell the young man he did a good job.

  • @egbluesuede1220
    @egbluesuede1220 Год назад +3

    Thanks for sharing......so true! Shout out to Stew Mac......if you haven't hit their website yet, they are an amazing company. Great products and great service.

  • @MyBacktrail
    @MyBacktrail Год назад +1

    A good reminder of what is most important.

  • @tomas5376
    @tomas5376 Год назад +11

    Right on! In today’s chaotic times, true love can be difficult to maintain. Over the years as I watched your videos, it was always obvious that you two were meant for each other. Felicidades on rediscovering true love💕🙏🏼

  • @bushman4124
    @bushman4124 Год назад +4

    GO Girl! Even-though I ended up alone, i totally agree with you fight for your relation is the most important thing in the world. People in general give up to easy, especially when life kicks you right in the ... I am happy for you two, that you found your music back again.

  • @ghume79
    @ghume79 9 месяцев назад +2

    Beautiful. God bless you all. 🙏🏾✨🙏🏾

  • @cindyspiess9963
    @cindyspiess9963 2 месяца назад +1

    Great !
    That is a great outcome !
    I'm so happy for you guys and anyone who follows your lead . 👍

  • @LaddGardner4
    @LaddGardner4 Год назад +13

    Great storytelling, Annie, with a moral that resonates best at Christmas time. Love you guys.

  • @edblough4134
    @edblough4134 Год назад +2

    Remember you and Adam are bone of bone and flesh of flesh, one bone one flesh. Love each other, enjoy each other and never be in competition with each other. Make your self Adams playmate and make Adam your playmate. Most of all love each other.

  • @annettehauler1033
    @annettehauler1033 Год назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your love and work to save that love with all of us.

  • @LonelyRavenProductio
    @LonelyRavenProductio Год назад +1

    The Easton Cam was the best part!

  • @armadillerff
    @armadillerff Год назад +3

    1:06 in and I’m already tearing up…

    • @cindyspiess9963
      @cindyspiess9963 2 месяца назад

      I thought she was going to ( but she didn't) shew that was a close one . 😊

  • @andym6568
    @andym6568 Год назад +6

    Your story is so spot on especially at this time of year! Thanks for sharing this beautiful story! I'm so glad you put your marriage first!

  • @RBWI
    @RBWI Год назад +1

    Wow. In tears. Beautiful.

  • @daveclemmer4536
    @daveclemmer4536 Год назад +1

    Such an awesome way to reset priorities in your marriage and life!

  • @BillDeMarr
    @BillDeMarr Год назад +1

    Just saw this video, what an awesome story and so much truth. a year before retiring I started looking for projects to do , I now make pens and things, It has saved me. please keep making this videos you may never know how many people you are reaching that are being touched by them.

  • @GreenTeaDigital
    @GreenTeaDigital Год назад +2

    Anne, goodonya for keeping it real :)

  • @snellscroft
    @snellscroft Год назад +1

    Totally agree with you, nothing beats being able to see what you have made, I have farmed and made things to earn a living all my life, working with my wife and children some of the time, they are all adults now, with partners and some with children, most of them also make their living making things, others for fun, teaching them to make was the most important thing we did.

  • @thomastieffenbacherdocsava1549
    @thomastieffenbacherdocsava1549 Год назад +1

    Anne and Adam, more than a guitar you found a way back. The power of two exponentially expanded?

  • @niccomaker
    @niccomaker Год назад +1

    So happy to hear that you're doing well

  • @greatgrandpaswoodworking
    @greatgrandpaswoodworking Год назад +2

    WOW. Thanks. Great life story.

  • @mjbusmc
    @mjbusmc Год назад +1

    Amazing story! Can't wait to see what you build together.

  • @kplante7881
    @kplante7881 Год назад +2

    Fantastic… Thanks for sharing!

  • @LoriM222
    @LoriM222 Год назад +3

    I'm a brand new subscriber and this is my first comment. 😊 You are such an inspiration to so many and I love your content! Thank you. I will be watching many of your videos. Best to you both and continued blessings in your marriage 🙏

  • @Red12Harley
    @Red12Harley Год назад +2

    Great video…again!! Real people being real!

  • @cbrusharmy
    @cbrusharmy Год назад +2

    So great. Bless you

  • @michaelmaker8169
    @michaelmaker8169 Год назад +1

    Absolutely! 🙏
    God bless.

  • @christophermartin7973
    @christophermartin7973 Год назад +4

    Great story and hope you have many years together!!!

  • @nkuete
    @nkuete Год назад

    You two are so inspirational!

  • @normantorok5919
    @normantorok5919 Год назад +1

    Love the message...happy for you guys.

  • @markbernier8434
    @markbernier8434 Год назад +1

    A lucky couple. Wit enough o recognize the trouble and courage enough to change.

  • @FastEddie007007
    @FastEddie007007 Год назад +1

    Brought tears to my eyes

  • @greatboniwanker
    @greatboniwanker Год назад +5

    I think the kindest, most loving thing any person can do for another is to free them from the yolk; I love that you were able to do this!

  • @joshuaweaver7124
    @joshuaweaver7124 Год назад +4

    This is amazing ❤

  • @laughingguardianfarm
    @laughingguardianfarm Год назад +1

    This is fantastic to hear!

  • @dawndawn6946
    @dawndawn6946 Год назад

    Right on. God bless you and yours, Anne! 💖

  • @mathieu_davy
    @mathieu_davy Год назад +1

    Priceless memories! ❤

  • @ericjohnson1008
    @ericjohnson1008 Год назад +1

    What an awesome present for all involved. Y'all did good.

  • @RGST57
    @RGST57 Год назад +1

    Love you! Happy holidays and hope to see you both next year and the years to come

  • @melanieedmonson1480
    @melanieedmonson1480 Год назад +1

    Excellent idea, point and story. Thanks 😊

  • @tomhoworth9768
    @tomhoworth9768 Год назад +1

    Merry Christmas Anne and Adam! Keep rockin'.

  • @mattomon1045
    @mattomon1045 Год назад

    Anne I'm so happy for you !

  • @TheLordOfEltingville
    @TheLordOfEltingville Год назад

    Music can be a great healer. I wish you both all the best in this new chapter!!

  • @ericwhite4373
    @ericwhite4373 Год назад +1

    What an awesome story. Thank you for sharing it, it is an inspiration.

  • @jefflavenau6805
    @jefflavenau6805 Год назад +1

    God bless you and your marriage!

  • @SunraeSkatimunggr
    @SunraeSkatimunggr Год назад +2

    Good for you guys!!!

  • @HillyBillyWoodworks
    @HillyBillyWoodworks Год назад

    Thank you so very much this open my eyes

  • @kreech68
    @kreech68 9 месяцев назад +1

    a great story - thank you

  • @jodymooney255
    @jodymooney255 Год назад

    What a beautiful story! ❤

  • @Gforceracing20
    @Gforceracing20 Год назад +3

    Easton holds a steadier camera than I do!!!

  • @mariskabuzzard6650
    @mariskabuzzard6650 Год назад +1

    love you guys!!!!

  • @byronjamerson4198
    @byronjamerson4198 Год назад

    I admire BOTH of you so much - You will not regret being dedicated to each other. I am one out here cheering you on!

  • @bobmartin6055
    @bobmartin6055 Год назад

    So, so awesome!!
    Thanks for sharing!

  • @kelbyfrazier6849
    @kelbyfrazier6849 Год назад +2

    Love this. So glad y'all are working through your stuff and working on projects together!

  • @russbowers3683
    @russbowers3683 Год назад +2

    Congrats on your 10 year anniversary! :)

  • @robthewaywardwoodworker9956
    @robthewaywardwoodworker9956 Год назад +1

    Two thumbs up, one for each of you. My daughter is just in the throws of a divorce, so good for you for fighting to make it last. That's a dying art.

  • @MrKelseyB
    @MrKelseyB Год назад +1

    Keep being amazing Anne.

  • @anitaarguello851
    @anitaarguello851 Год назад +1

    Best video ever...so happy for you both 💖

  • @brendabaker3960
    @brendabaker3960 Год назад

    Thank you for sharing your story! Relationships are way more important than anything else and worth every effort to make them stronger.

  • @brentjohnson6654
    @brentjohnson6654 4 месяца назад

    I loved this video!

  • @GuitarFuYou
    @GuitarFuYou Год назад

    I love this so much.

  • @lenellamaxwell6934
    @lenellamaxwell6934 Год назад +2

    Beautiful! Truly finding each other again and working together to do what you love doing is the best thing ever!

  • @llapmsp
    @llapmsp Год назад

    I am so happy for you that things worked out. Keep the faith and life will be good.

  • @keving8682
    @keving8682 Год назад

    Thanks for sharing and I am very happy for the two of you. Many quit too soon or give up - a great example of sticking with it through some tough times until a solution is found!

  • @amyparker1762
    @amyparker1762 Год назад +2

    Best video ever! Thank you for sharing your story as it speaks volumes to my life and heart. ❤