I was Forced to Marry a Dead Man, We Now have 3 Kids together (NIGERIA)

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  • Опубликовано: 4 ноя 2024

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  • @DavidNkwa
    @DavidNkwa  7 месяцев назад +173

    Please let make these women's voices be heard. Share this video widely. Thank you🙏

    • @samuelobasi6863
      @samuelobasi6863 7 месяцев назад +4

      Can't see the details of the NGO

    • @DavidNkwa
      @DavidNkwa  7 месяцев назад +5

      Check the description of the video

    • @susanopara9574
      @susanopara9574 7 месяцев назад +2

      Seend the account no

    • @Devil66652
      @Devil66652 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@DavidNkwasir please for her safety maybe you should cover her face because I don’t know how the community leaders will react to this if they see that said thanks this

    • @patma2929
      @patma2929 7 месяцев назад

      Sottotitoli prego

  • @originalceo
    @originalceo 7 месяцев назад +407

    The elders who allow and perpetrate these traditions and customs need to be jailed. Starting with that mother in law

    • @esthersalau5478
      @esthersalau5478 6 месяцев назад +7

      What nonsense is this God! Help this ladies in Jesus ny

  • @raissa7586
    @raissa7586 7 месяцев назад +560

    When she said his mother is a native doctor the debate was closed!
    She is the one that was torturing the girl !!! What evilness is this?!

    • @prelifegoeson7058
      @prelifegoeson7058 7 месяцев назад +45

      Exactly! She scared her to agree to it and she can't even take care of her and her children. What a wicked woman. I just pity the children and the lady. She should have run away and go directly to churches like winners, mfm or others

    • @Beautifullybroken30
      @Beautifullybroken30 6 месяцев назад +3

      You just said my mind

    • @hausaversion2023
      @hausaversion2023 6 месяцев назад

      ​@prelifegoeson7058 she can't run away they will stiff her in the house she can't go anywhere even if they will be cutting her meat in the house, she need to very prayerful one day the charm will break

    • @Lita-bj5ir
      @Lita-bj5ir 6 месяцев назад

      That's the way of they living, it is they culture . That's they life. Of course I'm European, I don't understand it, but I'm European, different culture and believes of course. Also now all those people from this particular country, and others, ( similar countries to this one including) they all now going to live in Europe. We don't have enough jobs for us, , we don't have enough resources for us, I don't say about them invading whole Europe . They every where literary. Now I do understand why they don't want to live and stay in they own country and moving to Europe, it specially UK, England. Where they are involved in drug dealing, prostitution. That's what they do when they come to Europe. It specially they woman they agree for every think literary. (black woman) Also they destroying other female family's , relationship's. (Why no idea why , but those black woman they usually run after married man ) They don't care ( black people) when they in Europe, they don't care about suffering they do to others around them, it is tragic for us Europeans. It specially black woman who's doing for man what ever they ask, cause we white woman we have our pride and value our bodies, and we not agree to be slaves for a man, or do for them every think , we not agree to be prostitutes , we not, - but those ones, (black ones) they no shy to offer to local man they sex services. Black woman no shy at all, to offering to white man such thinks, and it is disgusting. I hope they will deal with they problems in they own country , where they are now , and I also hope they will stay there. It will be magical.

    • @raissa7586
      @raissa7586 6 месяцев назад

      @@Lita-bj5ir ?!?!!! What are you talking about?!
      1- in Europe you have disgusting things going on as well in your culture so STOP STIGMATIZING A HOLE CONTINENT BECAUSE YOU FEEL BITTER INSIDE !!
      2- talking about immigration, that's a long and complicated topic to have with you but to cut it short, OUR men and women who are coming to Europe are following our stuff YOU "(white people)" took from us and you don't have to cry here!. What goes around comes around. Especially UK.
      You are from the UK and you can't even write in English?! Bref .
      As for your "(white men)" they have always been attracted to us and this will never change.
      - NOT ALL MARRIED MEN HAVE MISTRESS AT ALL!!! Those with mistress aren't forced to go into that, so stop crying in the internet and go take care of your man.
      3- as for the prostitution, You "(white women)" have started with that by not giving yourself for free and you call it PROUD.
      Can a white woman talk about PROUD Infront of an African woman?! Hell No!
      BUT SOME white women (likeYOU) can compare themself to an expat Afro looking for a way to survive where she feels like the only way is to give herself to men or married men like YOURS cause that's your level.
      4- stop putting your desperate comment under mine.
      *I'm married to a white man and you know what? That's minus ➖ 01 man from your community and you are lucky he's not from the UK!
      Tsuuuuup!

  • @ujunwaaniakor5420
    @ujunwaaniakor5420 7 месяцев назад +277

    And people are saying let's go back to our root,I reject

    • @smart741
      @smart741 6 месяцев назад +20

      As a Nigerian, I'm just seeing this for the first time.
      This is not common.

    • @akm1374
      @akm1374 6 месяцев назад +9

      😂..

    • @aleroiyara7271
      @aleroiyara7271 5 месяцев назад +10

      Reject it in Jesus name

    • @corrolesscps
      @corrolesscps 4 месяца назад +5

      The light has already shine and the glory of the Lord has risen. In Jesus Kristo name

    • @Bella-qu5pf
      @Bella-qu5pf 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@smart741 this isn't something native to just Nigeria, I've heard of this before in protestant times happening to young European girls, so this is something that has much older roots than thought

  • @realiwatisitz
    @realiwatisitz 7 месяцев назад +193

    😮😢This needs to stop😡

  • @EnubeeStyle
    @EnubeeStyle 7 месяцев назад +410

    Something demonic and manipulative about this process. May God deliver them from it in Jesus Name 🙏🏽

    • @moa5351
      @moa5351 7 месяцев назад +26

      Exactly. It was a demon conjured by her MIL that was appearing to her. All she needed was deliverance . She has such a good heart, poor thing.

    • @seyioyetade
      @seyioyetade 7 месяцев назад +4

      ​@@moa5351how did U know all this rubbish? You people always have or know solutions to other people problems expect your own 😅😅😅

    • @seyioyetade
      @seyioyetade 7 месяцев назад +2

      Jesus doesn't do anything oga , people are funny sha, so U think all the people in this world have not heard of Jesus before

    • @danetteukattah7728
      @danetteukattah7728 7 месяцев назад +15

      So demonic, Jesus Christ can deliver her from this bondage. She has no life, even the children are born into this evil situation.

    • @seyioyetade
      @seyioyetade 7 месяцев назад +3

      @@danetteukattah7728 I thought jesus created us? So why did Jesus create the children into the evil?

  • @nancystonestone9252
    @nancystonestone9252 7 месяцев назад +189

    That is pure evil.

  • @Zanny386
    @Zanny386 7 месяцев назад +172

    These people are crazy. Without knowledge the people will perish. Congratulations for helping these women.

    • @nkechinyeremelvauguru7260
      @nkechinyeremelvauguru7260 7 месяцев назад +2

      At this point we have merely told their stories and galvanizing support to empower them and provide an alternative safe space for them to thrive. We need your support and partnerships to achieve this. Please see the description.

    • @gowey11
      @gowey11 7 месяцев назад +4

      Utter ignorance and foolishness in the year 2024.

    • @ReynelleGreaves
      @ReynelleGreaves 7 месяцев назад +3

      I'm soooo sooo tired as a woman & things we have been forced to endure but I think this is the worst thing I have heard.. I'm shocked to the core that anyone can survive such a cruelty & ordeal....What evil depths is this?? What else?😢😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔😭😭😭

    • @gowey11
      @gowey11 7 месяцев назад +2

      @@ReynelleGreaves time the women wake up and start living real lives. Leave these villages.

    • @gowey11
      @gowey11 6 месяцев назад

      There is no honor in keeping traditions that are harmful and demeaning. Stop the nonsense, you looking silly to the rest of the world.

  • @ChristianneAnnette
    @ChristianneAnnette 5 месяцев назад +79

    That mother in law is a witch , I’m convinced that she had a hand in what that young lady was experiencing.

    • @Nurse_villa
      @Nurse_villa 2 месяца назад +1

      Oh wow witches do stuff like this

    • @yopgyang6817
      @yopgyang6817 2 месяца назад +2

      Yessssss, you are very correct. When the young girl refused, the wicked mother inlaw was the one appearing to her. Wicked soul. If she continues to disturb this young lady, Holy Ghost fire 🔥

  • @finalwarningformankindlove3260
    @finalwarningformankindlove3260 7 месяцев назад +73

    The dead knows nothing.... This is manipulation. The spirit that keeps appearing to them is not the dead man but a familiar spirit a demon. The spirit was called upon through black magic to torment these innocent girls.

    • @LizzyFrancis-jt7uz
      @LizzyFrancis-jt7uz 16 дней назад

      Infact you nailed it I wish they should go for deliverance too

  • @Shai61
    @Shai61 7 месяцев назад +56

    Chaii, culture and tradition has truly kept some of my people in the dark with no light at the end of the tunnel. May God help all those in these sort of situations.😢

  • @reneevaneldijk8376
    @reneevaneldijk8376 7 месяцев назад +27

    This really sad.. and this is still happens now in 2024.. I share this to all my friends.. Thank you David for all the work you did and always doing, God bless you ,

  • @wellwait4197
    @wellwait4197 7 месяцев назад +165

    Demonic…. Everything about this whole situation is demonic

    • @AllthingsHealth_
      @AllthingsHealth_ 7 месяцев назад +2

      Hence the poverty 😫

    • @ayodejimosopefoluwa7527
      @ayodejimosopefoluwa7527 6 месяцев назад +4

      This is the same thing I thought immediately I heard it. This is demonic.

    • @AdenikeTemitope-tm8us
      @AdenikeTemitope-tm8us 2 месяца назад

      Honestly, manipulation of evil..the man is dead they are just manipulating the woman

  • @jgee7338
    @jgee7338 7 месяцев назад +86

    This is so wrong 😭💔pure evil. The devil is in control of this community 😢

  • @mavissowah7038
    @mavissowah7038 7 месяцев назад +25

    Wow, i watched same story in a nollywood movie i never thought it could be true story 😢😢

  • @felipeford1836
    @felipeford1836 7 месяцев назад +124

    A very sad world we live in now. Soon my Lord will come and fix the suffering forever.

    • @taharka3897
      @taharka3897 7 месяцев назад

      What world? You mean Nigeria

    • @felipeford1836
      @felipeford1836 7 месяцев назад +8

      @@taharka3897 Do you think Nigeria is the only place where people are suffering? I think not. The entire world is suffering because of who runs the world! Christ will return to fix all these things.

    • @yambafonjah2583
      @yambafonjah2583 7 месяцев назад +3

      Rubbish

    • @FlorenceNguajah
      @FlorenceNguajah 7 месяцев назад +1

      Amen and Amen

    • @felipeford1836
      @felipeford1836 7 месяцев назад +4

      @@yambafonjah2583 This usually where normally people say something mean or unkind! I hope that you find Jehovah as I did! His peace in MY LIFE is real. I use to kill for a living for a murderous “Democracy” now I share peace. Let me share this peace with you! Please?

  • @Totalchaos0228
    @Totalchaos0228 6 месяцев назад +14

    Imagining what these young girls go through... Not having a say even in what goes on with their own bodies.. i realize how brave and how strong they have to be while they are still children themselves. I wish they could have different choices..

  • @boobookiss1
    @boobookiss1 7 месяцев назад +82

    May the Lord of Heavens Army rise up and fight for you. No witch, no warlock, no strong man or woman can hold you down in Jesus name, Amen!
    Please tell this lady to read the bible and pray, Jesus has given us authority to step on serpents and scorpions, and there’s nothing that the kingdom of darkness can do to us.

  • @leggyReid4c
    @leggyReid4c 7 месяцев назад +72

    All this because of fear. Fear is such a strong emotion, we need to study it honestly. When we let go of it, we truly can sit on the driver seat of our lives.

    • @smart741
      @smart741 6 месяцев назад

      I've witnessed a lot of people die from this powers you commonly call "fear" if you don't have a higher power, especially Christ, you'll fall a prey.
      If you like travel to the ends of the earth, if you want to test it go to your village and challenge the witches there then go back to the city without living your address.
      You'll know for yourself.

    • @Violet-fg9db
      @Violet-fg9db 4 месяца назад +3

      Yes fear is the lowest vibrational emotion and love (true love, not passion) the highest. And Lord Jesus told us to have trust in Him so that we don't fear nothing.

  • @mercykariithi7919
    @mercykariithi7919 7 месяцев назад +151

    She has a spiritual husband the only remedy for her is to accept Jesus Christ and be delivered that's the only way out

    • @NefaJallow-cf8re
      @NefaJallow-cf8re 7 месяцев назад +16

      💯 percent she really needs Jesus Christ in her life

    • @ChinakaJacinta-zn2zc
      @ChinakaJacinta-zn2zc 5 месяцев назад +2

      She's weak in Christ

    • @roaxelie
      @roaxelie 4 месяца назад

      ​@@ChinakaJacinta-zn2zchow?

    • @ChinakaJacinta-zn2zc
      @ChinakaJacinta-zn2zc 4 месяца назад

      @@roaxelie what do u mean again by how does my English hard for u to understand ?
      I simply said she's weak in Christ read to understand pls

    • @roaxelie
      @roaxelie 4 месяца назад +3

      @@ChinakaJacinta-zn2zc you said shes weak in Christ and I asked you how? I understood what you wrote, I just asked you tp elaborate

  • @sarahmoonlighttales
    @sarahmoonlighttales 6 месяцев назад +30

    I think the mother in-law invoked the spirit of her dead son to hunt the girl to succumb to marry the dead son.

  • @ThaiPrinceMew
    @ThaiPrinceMew 7 месяцев назад +131

    I wanna speak to the young lady directly. I plan to renovate her room, but I need to speak to her or see her on a video call. I understand izzi. I was born and raised there

    • @ahappierworld8819
      @ahappierworld8819 7 месяцев назад +15

      God bless your heart ❤. .And may you never lack 🙏

    • @AdamaBockarie-ow6eo
      @AdamaBockarie-ow6eo 7 месяцев назад +3

      Ameeen yarabi

    • @HelenFenuku
      @HelenFenuku 7 месяцев назад +3

      Amen

    • @Spiceluvj
      @Spiceluvj 6 месяцев назад +2

      Amen bless you🙏🏽 message him look in description you will see ways of reaching him

    • @NafeesaMB-fh3yp
      @NafeesaMB-fh3yp 6 месяцев назад

      Stop this ugly culture, is better than to repair her home, and let her continue leaving this miserable life😢😢😢😢

  • @taharka3897
    @taharka3897 7 месяцев назад +40

    I can not believe this backwardness is allowed to happen in Nigeria in modern times. What a pathetic government.

    • @ashleypetertv5894
      @ashleypetertv5894 7 месяцев назад +1

      Its no about the government its the people practising this kind of barbaric traditions that are pathetic..The government cannot impose this horrific traditions on people..I can't imagine this and the way nigetia is blessed with annointed pastors and gospel singers..God help us!

    • @AkinboladeElizabeth
      @AkinboladeElizabeth 7 месяцев назад

      It is only where you get to in Nigeria that you know,that ebonyi that share boundary with Cross River...A lot of things is happening there
      I pray that the Lord will save the incoming generation in those territory

    • @pepichikako7122
      @pepichikako7122 6 месяцев назад

      Imagine such stupidity

    • @Everythingreactionswithkemi
      @Everythingreactionswithkemi 5 месяцев назад

      What business is it if government to settle what they practice as tradition..if governments do anything against it same Nigerians will say why are they penetration into another man’s tradition

    • @taharka3897
      @taharka3897 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@Everythingreactionswithkemi it became my business when it was posted on RUclips. If you really believe in traditions you would not be a Cristian or Muslim. I got 20 like 👍🏾 from people that agreed with me, let's see how much people agreed with your nonsense comment.

  • @LatrinaWright-e6m
    @LatrinaWright-e6m 7 месяцев назад +114

    His mother needs to leave her alone.with that spell .

  • @cornerstone4you
    @cornerstone4you 7 месяцев назад +7

    Good find and great sharing. I had heard about this community and culture but am not sure about the storyline as a child. Thank you for educating us.

  • @valerieherron4185
    @valerieherron4185 7 месяцев назад +89

    This is the craziest thing. How cam a deadman lineage continue when the children are from another

    • @AjuuFarm
      @AjuuFarm 7 месяцев назад +2

      It is their tradition. Common in Igbo land. Please respect peoples traditions even if it is different from your.

    • @Sageandloving
      @Sageandloving 7 месяцев назад

      ​@AjuuFarm a tradition that holds firmly to subjugation cannot be respected. This is blatant rape. Cultures like this have to evolve, so that our societies can be better.

    • @plvtoiii1227
      @plvtoiii1227 7 месяцев назад +53

      @@AjuuFarmno. Wrong is wrong

    • @taharka3897
      @taharka3897 7 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@AjuuFarmyou are a Christian is that an igbo tradition?

    • @AjuuFarm
      @AjuuFarm 7 месяцев назад

      @@taharka3897 I am not a Christian.

  • @nikicarrie4071
    @nikicarrie4071 6 месяцев назад +18

    Im tired of people forcing women to do mess nobody else would

  • @macanthony1982
    @macanthony1982 7 месяцев назад +58

    the other issue is, Nigerian society uses culture, tribe, religion and poverty to mentally cage these people

    • @imrandamss2385
      @imrandamss2385 7 месяцев назад +2

      Exactly, particularly if u are poor

    • @Nurse_villa
      @Nurse_villa 2 месяца назад +1

      And it's even crazier because women from abroad don't really know the marriage rules

  • @nkechimelva3710
    @nkechimelva3710 7 месяцев назад +17

    This was one of such difficult field works we always have to engage. We visit to give help, even get emotional sometimes but they live these realities.
    Thank Mr David, you are amazing ❤

    • @nonsonwankwo7112
      @nonsonwankwo7112 Месяц назад

      T
      his is unbelievable, what people are being subjected to due to a foolish, senseless tradition.

  • @laraobaji_ogar2614
    @laraobaji_ogar2614 7 месяцев назад +61

    The mother _in-law is a big witch, and is actually behind this woman's woes. I pray, in the name of Jesus, that Jehovah El-roi will arise on behalf of this women!!!

  • @NoName-ex7ne
    @NoName-ex7ne 7 месяцев назад +5

    Thankyou for bringing this to light...may our abba protect his children

  • @Adelinechuks
    @Adelinechuks 7 месяцев назад +49

    The interpreter did a good job

  • @genevachisumpa8328
    @genevachisumpa8328 7 месяцев назад +95

    Please help that woman, and find a pastor for her to deliver her.There' nothing God can not do.

    • @OmarSanyang-w3u
      @OmarSanyang-w3u 7 месяцев назад +9

      pastor they are the same like this people's 😂😂😂😂

    • @gettininiede9025
      @gettininiede9025 7 месяцев назад +4

      She doesn't need a pastor. She needs your support. Don't be fooled though. It has been organised to look pathetic. It is their culture. She hasn't been forced to come back. When she gets enough money you will see her wearing mini skirts and iPhone. What exactly stops her from running away now?

    • @Bettyboop-hd9xp
      @Bettyboop-hd9xp 7 месяцев назад

      Not all of them ​@@OmarSanyang-w3u

    • @BraveheartMother
      @BraveheartMother 7 месяцев назад +1

      Pastor is moving away from fraying pan to a direct fire.

    • @Rosettna
      @Rosettna 7 месяцев назад

      My people perish because of ignorance " the Bible says" you're right she doesn't need a pastor she needs deliverance but still God uses pastors to deliver his people,the help is needed but God's intevation is needed most​@@gettininiede9025

  • @Chideranwaforfilms
    @Chideranwaforfilms 7 месяцев назад +10

    This is so sad thanks for this update David 😢

    • @AjuuFarm
      @AjuuFarm 7 месяцев назад

      David has been deceived this time. As usual I like his coverages. I call him Indiana Jones of Africa. He should be more objective.

  • @stvvbee
    @stvvbee 7 месяцев назад +6

    Dave, I will continue to commend you for all that you do.

  • @amaraokonkwo_
    @amaraokonkwo_ 7 месяцев назад +43

    This is evil. They building on the ignorance of these girls and women. They also need spiritual help.

    • @AjuuFarm
      @AjuuFarm 7 месяцев назад

      It is not evil. I didn't see in the video where anyone forced her to come back. She did so on her own. She can refused the gifts and marriage rights. We should hear from her mother in-law.

  • @Flower-ck2bs
    @Flower-ck2bs 7 месяцев назад +30

    Where are the children when a strange man knock the door to make their mother pregnant. So dirty. So terrible. Children are exposed to everything. Stop this!!!!!!!!!!

    • @AjuuFarm
      @AjuuFarm 7 месяцев назад +2

      We should help these families scratch out better living conditions. Show that you care by supporting them. You will smile after 6 months to see the rewards of your support.

  • @byHisgraceandmercy
    @byHisgraceandmercy 7 месяцев назад +30

    Lately Nigerian stories have traumatized me 😢 if they are not employing little children as housemaids and tearing them apart with hot knives they are sending them out at midnight to fetch water miles away, now this one is having 3 whole babies with a ghost 👻..

    • @gettininiede9025
      @gettininiede9025 7 месяцев назад

      Not literarily. She is having children with other men approved by the mother in law and herself. That is how it is done. Selective breeding. If she has sex with other men for the fun of it that is her business. How many men and women have sex out of wedlock or in wedlock. She is only having these children to carry on her late partner's lineage. It is in the name of the father. Just like adoption or surrogacy.

    • @Sun-wp9mx
      @Sun-wp9mx 7 месяцев назад +1

      Now I know the reason why mist of the Igbo bloggers are bullying Wunmi and Liam Aloba. Why did they come here to ask for dna?

  • @DonatusOkechukwuOkoli-zc7nz
    @DonatusOkechukwuOkoli-zc7nz 7 месяцев назад +5

    This is very disturbing!!!
    I urge the Ebonyi state government to wade into this matter.
    This should not be happening in the 21st century!!!

  • @true4585
    @true4585 5 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you so much. I appreciate you providing a way to support her.

  • @uyuy5131
    @uyuy5131 7 месяцев назад +55

    Really sad. Nigeria strikes me like a really messed up place.

    • @cave129
      @cave129 7 месяцев назад +21

      This is just one tribe practicing this evil,you can't condemn the whole country.

    • @uyuy5131
      @uyuy5131 7 месяцев назад +6

      Am sorry, I didn't mean to condemn the entire country. I am a fan of Nigeria and really do hope that the lives of most people there are improved for the better, someday. I have seen and heard too many horrible stories from all corners of the country in the last 25 years or so, since I first took interest in the country. Just heartbreaking to see how so many people still live, and with not much of advancement in practically all aspects. I do hope that you guys get it right some time soon.

    • @ayankunleakanbi1650
      @ayankunleakanbi1650 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@uyuy5131From whe're U?

    • @AjuuFarm
      @AjuuFarm 7 месяцев назад +3

      Nigeria is a messed up place. We know that. I am a Nigerian and more especially Igbo. I love and respect my community tradition. My ancestors were not stupid when they made the traditions. Every African tradition made sense then and now. Though the European would do anything to admonish our traditions for theirs.

    • @activeobserver1150
      @activeobserver1150 7 месяцев назад +9

      This is more of a cultural practice: Nigeria as a whole does not practice this.

  • @NRDewiNurmayani
    @NRDewiNurmayani Месяц назад +1

    I do appreciated for sharing this theme, it’s important to bring this theme among other women all over the world

  • @habibahamidu4882
    @habibahamidu4882 6 месяцев назад +11

    Some culture is Babaric....Kudos to the interpreter Nkechi....she was my senior in secondary school.

  • @UsmanGorko4
    @UsmanGorko4 7 месяцев назад +3

    How did you find out about this story boss? You're a genius RUclipsr May Allah bless you for things that you are sharing to us

  • @naijaarrogance241
    @naijaarrogance241 7 месяцев назад +39

    I'm skeptical that the man was appearing to her the way she described. It’s the fear that was deeply ingrained in her, affecting her mental well-being due to the pressure to have grandchildren for this family. She was sexually trafficked. Forced her to sleep with numerous men against her wishes for offsprings. They exploited her for their selfish motives, despite the children not being biologically related to them. Furthermore, she wasn't married to him before his passing. she still has the option to leave.

    • @ThankGod2024
      @ThankGod2024 7 месяцев назад

      This juju culture and transition is too deep deeper than we outsider could fathom . They manipulate demons to appear in the body of the dead , it’s a dark spiritual things .

    • @AjuuFarm
      @AjuuFarm 7 месяцев назад

      Bravo! Well said. No one forced her. Just fear and greed to acquire the gifts. If she had maintained her initial decision not to come back the only option left for the dead warrior parents would be to marry another woman for their son. I am an Igbo man. It happens in almost igbo communities. Nothing wrong with that. Just our way of life. The NHO woman is just running a prostitution ring.

    • @Sageandloving
      @Sageandloving 7 месяцев назад +10

      Psychology is one thing, Astral projection is another and very real. a lot of people can be manipulated with this. The fiber of the voodoo we see today is largely dependent on the latter.

    • @jeremiahnwenyi8307
      @jeremiahnwenyi8307 7 месяцев назад

      On this story who forced the girl to marry the man is it the mother?

    • @moa5351
      @moa5351 7 месяцев назад

      It wasn't fear. They were real demons conjured by the late man's mother.

  • @gatimillicent4728
    @gatimillicent4728 7 месяцев назад +15

    This is a plan by the in laws, how can a dead person lineage continue if another one man is the father of kids

  • @angelaafriyie8472
    @angelaafriyie8472 7 месяцев назад +11

    How could this happen in extraordinary Nigeria???
    How bizarre?

  • @dawnfache
    @dawnfache 6 месяцев назад +4

    I volunteered with Kachem Young Initiative as a youth corps member in Ebonyi state.
    This story is just one out of the many horrendous experiences women face in Ebonyi state.

    • @OffiseyMendy
      @OffiseyMendy 5 месяцев назад

      Is this really true

    • @dawnfache
      @dawnfache 5 месяцев назад

      @@OffiseyMendy Yes o

  • @CaribbeanQueen72xx
    @CaribbeanQueen72xx 7 месяцев назад +8

    I can’t watch this , too much for me 😮 😞. I watched long enough to understand , I still can’t . This GIVES the word sad ,and weird a whole new meaning smh .

  • @nataliehampton3319
    @nataliehampton3319 6 месяцев назад +4

    God bless these women. Our world is fucked up, and sadly no one cares. I most definitely will be spreading the word about this. 1 Luv

  • @preciousodiase8456
    @preciousodiase8456 7 месяцев назад +34

    This is nonsense, you should have run away from that community and seek spiritual help from a true church to pray with you. Those relatives of the dead man and the witch doctor were the ones attacking you spiritually and making you to hallucinate about your dead friend so that you will agree to their nonsense. You were not married to him and even if you were married you have the right to leave after his death.

    • @AjuuFarm
      @AjuuFarm 7 месяцев назад

      The sensible thing you said is hallucination. If you watch the video again notice what the young woman said initially - afraid when the boy friend died. It is the fear in her mind that caused the hallucinations. No one put a spell on her. I am not saying they didn't try. All these juju, magic, native doctors, spiritualist and pastors charms are pure nonsense. Mind power. Not everyone has the power to control their minds.

    • @gbadebofestus2612
      @gbadebofestus2612 7 месяцев назад

      Don't crucify her. She was manipulated by d native tradionalist mother in law with demons. N u can see that she isn't educated. N most igbo communities r deeply entrenched in their questionable traditions n customs. So don't blame this woman. Any enlightened lady would have battled d ghost of d dead with hot prayers n fasting, were she a good Christian. She was manipulated

    • @thandozuma8740
      @thandozuma8740 6 месяцев назад

      Agree it nonsense,

    • @oshiomowemomodu3724
      @oshiomowemomodu3724 6 месяцев назад +4

      Leave to go where?with no money she was stuck mentally and financially

  • @lindawillamsdagama3819
    @lindawillamsdagama3819 7 месяцев назад +5

    This is so so sad. Almighty God please help these ladies

  • @juliatripp2010
    @juliatripp2010 7 месяцев назад +4

    Its eady to call the mother in law evil but dont you all realize that it is men that establish these customs and women are enforcers under the same pressures that continue these customs. The men tgat also sleep with these women but dont even give them money are also evil. WHY WHY WHY do we not HOLD MEN AS ACCOUNTABLE AS WE DO WOMEN???!!! That is ignorant and evil to let them off the hook too!

    • @serehnamumba536
      @serehnamumba536 6 месяцев назад +1

      I agree with with you this is pure evil how can a man impregnate a women without giving her support 😢

  • @rabellalioni6590
    @rabellalioni6590 7 месяцев назад +1

    Deadly traditions 😢. Ooh my goodness. I hope this young mother gets help.
    Jehovah is watching over you lady.

  • @Reverendclementegbekai
    @Reverendclementegbekai 7 месяцев назад +3

    Amen & Amen: The FGN, state and loca governments are liable for this evil - Our constitution and laws do not tolerate such crimes again daughters of this nation🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️♥️

  • @JanephaNtege
    @JanephaNtege 5 месяцев назад +6

    MIL is anative doctor,she just torturing this gal...she called the ghost to follow the gal every where.the kids belongs to those guys.watching from Uganda 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬

  • @deborahfrancois714
    @deborahfrancois714 7 месяцев назад +19

    May the God of the universe deliver all of these women in Jesus name

  • @Mr47Bullet
    @Mr47Bullet 7 месяцев назад +14

    I pray she can get out of there and get her deliverance in Jesus mighty name. Lady run

  • @DizzKola3
    @DizzKola3 6 месяцев назад +4

    This abuse and these archaic and barbaric traditions NEED to end! Wherever it needs to begin, that’s where it needs to start!

  • @joses2712
    @joses2712 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much for all you do, David. I just hope the Minister for Women Affairs can see all this.

  • @Sendupprayer
    @Sendupprayer 7 месяцев назад +5

    So she has a spiritual spouse. She needs deliverance.

  • @soxpeewee
    @soxpeewee 5 месяцев назад +4

    Education is key to ending the evils of the world

  • @norahmvelase5693
    @norahmvelase5693 6 месяцев назад +4

    Nigeria Nigeria Nigeria Nigeria

  • @ChiAngel
    @ChiAngel 7 месяцев назад +1

    😢Jesus!! Thank GOD for Melva & her fearless work, may this wickedness end in Jesus name!! David 🤯 is unreal 🙏🙏

    • @DavidNkwa
      @DavidNkwa  7 месяцев назад +1

      Amen. Melva needs support. She really needs to build a safe home for these women.

    • @ebukahillary-pj7cb
      @ebukahillary-pj7cb 7 месяцев назад

      She will get it in jesus name

  • @Noli_dstos
    @Noli_dstos 7 месяцев назад +4

    I only hear bad stories about Nigeria this is extremely scary , poor woman I've never seen or heard anything like that😢.

    • @nnaemekanweke
      @nnaemekanweke 6 месяцев назад +1

      Where have you been getting your so called stories from?

  • @helenhector4047
    @helenhector4047 6 месяцев назад +1

    May God help you and guide you sister.

  • @salisumusa512
    @salisumusa512 7 месяцев назад +5

    Where are those people that claim the south is perfect on the media

    • @NkechinyereMelvaUguru
      @NkechinyereMelvaUguru 7 месяцев назад +1

      Nothing perfect about the south, it’s mostly window dressing

    • @mohamedndaro1431
      @mohamedndaro1431 7 месяцев назад

      much better than the rest of the federal state, they themselves believe

  • @modernlegacy5555
    @modernlegacy5555 Месяц назад +2

    She needs to raise funds to bring in an exorcist. These people need deliverance.

  • @yahyabadjie899
    @yahyabadjie899 7 месяцев назад +6

    Lack of education is the cause of all this ignorance to people.

  • @tintamunjile9799
    @tintamunjile9799 7 месяцев назад +2

    She deserves deliverance from that wicked mother in law manipulating her young and simple mind with charms.

  • @periswagathiki
    @periswagathiki 7 месяцев назад +6

    People need deliverance here😢😢

  • @sunnyn6684
    @sunnyn6684 7 месяцев назад +2

    These are the documentary our media houses should be bring out yet they seat on their station to cast news and discuss nonsense issues.

  • @NtokozoPearlKhaula-et3vi
    @NtokozoPearlKhaula-et3vi 7 месяцев назад +3

    May Almighty God take you out from slavery in the name of Jesus Christ 🙏.

  • @noraabubacar9405
    @noraabubacar9405 7 месяцев назад

    Im also belong to a tribe with so much tradition to follow and fortunately I have a family who are very openminded and give us freedom as long as we dont do anything that can harm us(tribe).

  • @beonceeadababe1150
    @beonceeadababe1150 7 месяцев назад +4

    Dave ,thank for the good job .

  • @SarahMakungila-t2i
    @SarahMakungila-t2i 7 дней назад

    This things only happens in Nigeria, cos it new to me . I never heard of women marrying dead people, this too scary .

  • @originalceo
    @originalceo 7 месяцев назад +6

    Sorry I cannot. One minute talking about local deity next minute talking about God. At some point you gotta love yourself. Even if you gotta run away. Traditions and culture is for man. Man is not for traditions and culture. These people make idol out of traditions.

  • @naleditshehla917
    @naleditshehla917 7 месяцев назад +1

    Almighty God, Your children are going through a lot please remember us😢

  • @lettyiyambo966
    @lettyiyambo966 7 месяцев назад +3

    When will Woman oppression End in Africa?😢😢

  • @businesslogistics6346
    @businesslogistics6346 2 месяца назад +1

    “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest". Matthew 11:28 All traditions without Christ is bondage. It doesn't matter whether it is western, African or Eastern. Jesus Christ can set her free.

  • @akm1374
    @akm1374 6 месяцев назад +4

    She needs to leave..but shes warned if she tries to then she will be killed.. omg. This is pure evil

  • @cjcj955
    @cjcj955 7 месяцев назад +3

    Yeah, this is a common practice in Igbo land and other parts of Nigeria and Africa in general.
    Yes, that this might be an issue in Nigeria specifically Igbo land, understand that the Western World also practiced this particular stuff during the first and Second World War.
    This practice happened more during the Biafra and Nigeria Civil war on those who went to war and never came back.
    In other words, this could be seen as legitimate because if the dead war lords didn’t go to defend the community, there is the possibility that the whole village could be taken over by the adversaries.
    The greatest sacrifice is that person who die for others to live as Christ did.
    These men sacrificed their lives for others to live.
    Without them, I don’t think that those who are politicians today would have the opportunity to become so rich.
    Now, the solution here is for the state government to understand what is happening to engage these women into meaningful job.
    Mazi, do not call this “Barbaric” because you are able to engage in your RUclips business today because there are those in Igbo land who sacrificed for your parents to be alive and give birth to you.
    So sometimes we must take overview of issues before concluding with negative assumptions.
    The government in that state has the responsibility to understand their culture and assist these women.
    Sacrifice of death for others to live is not barbaric but giving others the opportunity to live and comforting bereaved families and that’s why the culture is there , also all Africa and even the western world.

    • @DavidNkwa
      @DavidNkwa  7 месяцев назад +1

      You have a point. Nonetheless, no one should be forced against their will

    • @cjcj955
      @cjcj955 7 месяцев назад

      @@DavidNkwa Do you think is about one’s “Will”?
      If it is decided on one’s Will, then the community and the state will seize to exist because their adversaries will win.
      Now, the issue of “Will” shouldn’t be in discussion in this case because what is the issue here is the continuous existence of these people and most especially those who lost their sons for others to live.
      Women in this village understand the culture and tradition of their people and even the state government who came from there understands their culture.
      “Will”, using this word does not fit into what is the paramount here.
      Like I said, government of the state should come to their aid and provide these women opportunities to avoid trauma.
      It is being practiced today in parts of European countries, not to talk of African countries.
      Our communities in Igbo land must exist and this is the only way.
      Do you know there are people who marry their blood relatives even in Jewish communities to keep that blood linage going.
      In the UK, it is rampant with the people of Pakistan and Bangladesh marrying cousins etc.
      When you ask them, they tell you is been in their culture for centuries and they won’t change because they now live in the UK.

    • @DavidNkwa
      @DavidNkwa  7 месяцев назад +3

      So your point is that this practice is okay.
      Someone dies, and a lady is married against their will to bear children for the dead. While I respect your viewpoint, I totally disagree with you.
      Who told you those women are okay with the situation? They are not. And the community is not facing alienation persec.
      Even if I was to agree with you for a second, while will you force a girl to continue to give birth after having 3 kids against her will. This is slavery my friend, and should be stopped

    • @cjcj955
      @cjcj955 7 месяцев назад

      @@DavidNkwa if a woman is married and she continues to give birth to 10 kids, will you call that a slavery?
      No, I never said it is totally okay- what you feel that it is bad might be what works for others in their culture.
      That’s why you have Muslims, Christians, and others that believe in what ever they think is their beliefs system.
      You see God is the first person to practice democracy and thus allowed people to live accordingly.
      You might not see that those communities are going into extinction because you are not from there!
      If you are from these communities or families where you have only a son and the son dies due to war, I assure you that your parents will take such decisions to secure their ancestral homeland.
      The practice is their tradition and culture and one’s culture must be respected at all cost, as this is what causes problems and wars among communities and nations.
      You can’t go to any community and assume that she was forced to marry the dead even after she narrated her ordeals to you, when she was feeling reluctant to agree.
      In other countries or communities it might not happen but in her community it happens either you agree or not, the dead might make your life uncomfortable as she stated.
      There are communities in Igbo land today that when a brother dies, the other brother takes over the wife.
      Which would have happened to this young lady but the late brother stopped his brother from marrying his “supposed betrothed wife”.
      There is no forcing here against your will, Mazi.
      It is “culture and tradition” and not forcing.
      I must also tell you that in your village, there are some practices that you don’t like, but you can’t do anything about it because it is “called Culture and tradition” of your community and have been in existence for centuries.
      Government of her state is the only solution to make their lives better by providing employment.
      “Idle mind is devil’s workshop”- that could result to continuous giving birth and taking advantage of them by men and families.

    • @binaryhills2491
      @binaryhills2491 7 месяцев назад +4

      ​@@cjcj955lmao this specific tradition is sinister and wicked. Writing paragraphs defending foolishness.

  • @codedchilli4727
    @codedchilli4727 6 месяцев назад +3

    She's a native doctor but couldn't protect her son, shsme 👎🏿👎🏿👎🏿👎🏿👎🏿

  • @PartyWisdomdivine
    @PartyWisdomdivine 6 месяцев назад +2

    Marry in Nigeria country at your Own risk hoooooo 🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃

  • @jonikets
    @jonikets 7 месяцев назад +8

    A very pathetic story. Ebonyi state Governor and Abakiliki LGA chairman should swing into action to mitigate the Negative Publicity this story is portraying about the State. I am very 💔💔💔 that such barbaric act is ongoing in this present time.

  • @happinessogbuinya5194
    @happinessogbuinya5194 2 месяца назад

    Please how how do i get in touch with this lady i will travel to Ebonyi state let me go and see her and look into this matter deeply because i can see the mother in-law is the real witch here, seriously this lady need a good life and new environment

  • @QueenElisabeth-f9g
    @QueenElisabeth-f9g 7 месяцев назад +5

    😢 women are suffering oh God

  • @olaifas.clement1602
    @olaifas.clement1602 6 месяцев назад +2

    How can A dead man impregnate a living soul?
    Please explain how

  • @HelenEtukudo-k9w
    @HelenEtukudo-k9w 7 месяцев назад +6

    I believe her 100%

  • @sundayprecious8078
    @sundayprecious8078 2 месяца назад

    Native Doctor that can't protect her Son from dead.
    Thank you Lord for your Precious Blood that you shed to redeem us from sin and Dead🙏

  • @jerrygarner4103
    @jerrygarner4103 7 месяцев назад +3

    these people have much more problems to care about, than a name disappearing.

  • @ritanwali8759
    @ritanwali8759 5 дней назад

    I’m from Ebonyi and I’m happy it’s not my culture. I hope this Barbaric culture is condemned by the government.
    So the traditionalist mother could not protect her son from death. The dead warlords would rather allow strangers to defile his living woman rather than accepting his brother marriage to his woman?
    It’s a crazy world and a deceitful and brainwashed method to convince women in that community.
    It’s better the younger ones leave the community if they can before they become subjected to this inhumane treatment enforced by their people who are meant to protect them, in the name of custom and tradition.
    I hope they find exposure and good lives.

  • @ThantaswaJongihlathi
    @ThantaswaJongihlathi 7 месяцев назад +9

    Oh Lord Jesus You died on the cross to free us from every bondage. Lord rescue these women in Jesus Name of Nazareth.Amen.🙌🙌🙌This is just pure witchcraft.

  • @rosewilliamson2153
    @rosewilliamson2153 Месяц назад

    This is a tradition which is in most of African cultures. It’s like when you stay with a man without wedding or dowry , when your boyfriend dies it’s upon you join him in his native land and raise your kids there or go somewhere and have kids raised by other families. Most cultures don’t allow kids from other men due to cultural differences which affects the relationship between the new man and the kids especially when they are boys. This Naigerian culture is harsh considering other or west African is more harsh

  • @bridgetnkhata9224
    @bridgetnkhata9224 7 месяцев назад +9

    Im thinking they want her to produce future warlords, considering the fact that the land they stay in is in ceaseless warring

  • @AminatuMohammedMusah
    @AminatuMohammedMusah 2 месяца назад

    Why will she got married to a dead man, I don't understand. Why?

  • @LI6FE
    @LI6FE 7 месяцев назад +14

    This woman is a victim

  • @bellaanaba9126
    @bellaanaba9126 5 месяцев назад +2

    This is purely demonic,all in the name of culture.
    This lady needs our help. How do we do it ?
    She needs stronger spiritual help,material, etc
    GOD show us mercy 🥺.

  • @Bee-833
    @Bee-833 7 месяцев назад +3

    The boy is handsome.

  • @ChySpace
    @ChySpace 7 месяцев назад

    This is just terrible. The men wouldn't want to provide for the kids hence they customarily do not belong to them.
    Well, you and Nkechi are doing so well. Hoping they get liberated