Wip+Chat - Updates (more surgery!) and My Thoughts on The Situation

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  • Опубликовано: 18 окт 2024
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Комментарии • 161

  • @lisasegorski
    @lisasegorski 3 месяца назад +7

    I know i lurk more than post in your group. But it is the one place that i know i can go check every day and smile. I left fb for years because of the cruelty, got back on only when i picked dp back up. I think people forget we are all humans with all the feels and everyone deserves common respect. Nothing is black and white. Thank you for spreading kindness. You give so much to the community. So happy you are getting surgery and hope it goes well 🙂

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  3 месяца назад

      Thank you for sharing! It’s nice to know you are still lurking!

  • @LabMamato3
    @LabMamato3 3 месяца назад +9

    Hi Alysa
    As someone who is older and has "lived" and suffered loss of a child, job - due to health reasons, and overall quality of life from what I once had I'm more "intune" today more than ever with my happiness and pick and choose from this hobby those things that strike those good emotional boxes for me. I feel that there are a lot of individuals in today's society with a sense of entitlement in thinking they have the ability to form and voice opinions on things:
    1. That they know nothing about and/or is NONE of their business.
    2. That they feel they need to have an opinion and or take a side in whatever conflict is happening (despite not having all the facts) and expect others to do the same sometimes to the point of bullying.
    Unfortunately, who knew "high-school behaviour would continue into the adult years because we have some "bad apples" in the world?
    The difference now is we don't have to have relationships, or have them in our personal space. We don't need to justify our thoughts to anyone and can have clear, concise boundaries that protect our mental health. There is a whole bigger picture in this world that so many people are missing - It is called LIFE! Living and not wasting precious time and energy on things that don't serve us. ❤

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  3 месяца назад +1

      Such wise words my friend! Thank you ❤️

    • @fannyd6765
      @fannyd6765 3 месяца назад +1

      So true❤

    • @mycreativeheart4159
      @mycreativeheart4159 3 месяца назад +1

      Thank you!❤ Very well said. I actually have not been involved in social media for this exact reason... "bullying, rudness and disrespect". I only started FB when I started DP last November. In 9 months I've had more than my fill. Like Alysa... I'm empathic too.... an I feel nauseated, get migraines, and vomit when I take on emotions and conflict of others. I was surprised at how much some FB groups feel like highschool all over again! Seriously... aren't we adults??? Yes...let's just enjoy actually living life.❤

    • @LianaH8448
      @LianaH8448 2 месяца назад +1

      I think this is very well written and agree 💯 ❤

  • @feliciaP406
    @feliciaP406 Месяц назад

    Hi Alysa! I’m a little behind on RUclips but I just want to say I appreciate so much of what you’ve said and talked about in this WIP & Chat! It’s really hard when the community is so divided and they make us feel like we have to choose a side. I sincerely appreciate everything you do for the Diamond Painting community and for the little community you’ve created here and on facebook! 💜 Thank you for keeping this a safe and kind space for everyone here! I’m sorry this situation has been so hard on you but I’m so glad you are still here making videos and still diamond painting!💜

  • @lalickly3900
    @lalickly3900 2 месяца назад +3

    I appreciate your honesty and vulnerability. Your channel, your rules. I also do not engage in drama and avoid it when possible, and I thank you for keeping this a safe space! 🥰

  • @barbpaisley5948
    @barbpaisley5948 3 месяца назад +4

    I've been subscribed for a few months. I appreciate your frustrations and am proud of you creating boundaries. The phrase I learned and try to live is "don't allow yourself to be pulled into the drama". Though it is easier said than done. Positive thoughts coming your way!!!

  • @diamondsandthoughts
    @diamondsandthoughts 2 месяца назад +2

    This is a great video!!!!

  • @lindakendell8431
    @lindakendell8431 3 месяца назад +3

    I totally agree with not taking a position on something like this. This is up to lawyers, mediators or courts to resolve. If it was clear cut there would probably already be a resolution. Take care of yourself and I wish you a speedy recovery!

  • @angellearose
    @angellearose 2 месяца назад

    Enjoyed this Video, I believe in two sides of a story and facts. Huge healing hugs... stay strong 💜💜💜

  • @Rubies_And_Moonstones
    @Rubies_And_Moonstones 3 месяца назад +2

    I’m so sorry you’ve been feeling so poorly. I can’t imagine living in the pain and anxiety and all the medical issues that you have to deal with every day, and then going on and doing so much for your channel and your amazing FB group.
    I don’t think you should have felt forced to speak on this subject, but at the same time I appreciate hearing what you had to say: especially how no one can really know what’s going on except the people in it, and it’s best to stay out of conflicts if they don’t involve you. Hearing your passion has been inspiring to me and I do appreciate hearing your thoughts and opinions. I would have respected you regardless if you spoke on this today or if you decided not to. You do have so much more important things going on that you don’t need this added stress
    Keep taking care of yourself. You and your health are more important than anything else and especially anyone else’s drama.
    Take care

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  3 месяца назад +1

      Thank you for your comments. I appreciate your thoughts!

  • @Crafty-ishKristyn
    @Crafty-ishKristyn 3 месяца назад +3

    Big hugs and will be praying for your anxiety and up coming surgery🩷🩷🩷

  • @Sharilyn75
    @Sharilyn75 2 месяца назад +1

    I need to order from Patsy Putty. I really like the new DAC pen and putty in it, but I'm struggling to find a good putty for my multiplacer.
    Sending you lots of love and prayers for you and your surgery and recovery!
    There really is a lot of conflict in the diamond painting community. It's truly sad. I, too, am an empath. When I see the conflicts, I struggle between stepping in and trying to help stop it and stepping away because I know how it will affect me. When I see it, I tend to catch myself shutting down and stepping away from the social media that's involved.
    I agree. You and your mods do an amazing job keeping your space safe and peaceful.
    I respect you completely for not getting involved in all the conflict. You shouldn't have to get involved and make any statements on them.
    You are an amazingly strong person with everything you live with and i am very thankful for all the love and positivity you put into this crafting community!

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад +1

      I definitely recommend trying Patsy Putty it has been one of the only putties I have had good success with all around. Another one is Cats Diamond Painting UK. Thank you for the prayers! I agree there is always some time of conflict going on. My husband said what do you expect when you have a hobby with mostly women, especially those staying at home for one reason or another. I used to always step in to try and calm conflict down but that usually doesn't end well either so I have learned to step back most of the time unless I see harm coming about or abusive language, bullying, etc then I may stand up. It is very easy for me at least to be affected by conflict and it really ruins my diamond painting experience for me. I am glad you feel my space stays a safe one I am really happy to hear that we try really hard. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts!

  • @shiazee
    @shiazee 2 месяца назад

    I watched this video after seeing that your surgery went well and I'm very happy about that! Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Such profound words, and I completely relate. Though I don't have your horrible health issues (I'm so sorry about those), I do suffer from anxiety and depression. Fortunately, meds work brilliantly for me, but conflicts such as what you describe do tend to trigger me and put me in a bad place. I think being an empath, like we both are, has both benefits and curses. I love that it makes us care deeply about people, their feelings, and their well-being (I'm also a nurse), but another person's pain, emotional or physical, manifests in our bodies and minds in ways that can be pretty darned horrible. I feel things deeply in my gut, and have to fight off nausea and vomiting when someone else is hurting. I can do that fairly successfully in my nursing career, but have no't mastered the art of not letting friends' and families' pain become my own pain. Though I'm American, I recently joined your Facebook group and love the positive atmosphere. Being pretty shy, I haven't contributed yet, but will as soon as I feel brave enough to post. I am aware of the drama discussed, and I also choose not to form an opinion, mostly because I don't know anything about copyright law. I want the best for the artist and also the company, and hope things are settled amicably. Lastly, I'm glad you are here. Love your videos and your caring, friendly, and calming presence.

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад

      I suppose alot of nurses are empaths. hello fellow nurse :) anxiety and depression are also just as big in terms of conditions that can affect us. You are very right as a nurse I am good at turning that off but not as a human in daily life. Thanks for joining our little fb group. Dont be shy to post and comment we have a lovely group of mostly women, a few diamond painting men too but they usually just post their wips. Thank you for taking the time to share and its great getting to know you!

  • @CraftingwithMary
    @CraftingwithMary 2 месяца назад

    I do not like conflict either. Hope everything goes well with surgery and speedy recovery!

  • @elnoralouisa1
    @elnoralouisa1 3 месяца назад +2

    I have listened to the two chats that explain HL's views on everything, and truthfully, what upsets me is not who is right or wrong, but that HL is getting the public involved. Like you said, we don't understand contracts and such. I am just a hobbyist, and enjoy diamond painting, or did. The other night (also had a conflict with a small shop recently, but it's resolved--thankfully), I am getting upset about all this when I paint. I used to paint, and turn on youtube, and just have it on in the background, and now all it is, is HL is right, DAC is wrong, and with all the other junk going on in the world, I was ready to pick up my paintings and put them away, and do another hobby. My friends that are in dp just go out and buy a picture and do it, and aren't into all the online stuff, and that is where I wish I was now. Problem is, can I turn it all off at this point.....I don't know. I have four HL's to do here, and I am asking myself if I should de-stash them, even though I love them, but I am afraid at this point, they might just make me depressed. I think her and the company need to settle this themselves, and not bring the whole world into it.

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  3 месяца назад +2

      I have to agree with you. I understand why she felt she needed to bring it public but I worry that will hurt her in the long run. I don’t think a court system would take that as a positive. It also causes people to feel they must pick a side which is so unfair, we just want to diamond paint good quality products from wherever we want to shop from and no one should be made to feel bad for doing so. Please don’t let the conflicts out there ruin the hobby for you. I’ve decided to destash a few of my Hannah Lynn’s too I just will not enjoy them as much anymore and I need to focus my energy on the positive aspects of our hobby. When you feel overwhelmed take a deep breathe, push away all those ruminating thoughts about quitting and remind yourself that you are a strong woman who won’t let anyone take your love for the hobby away. Please know you are always welcome in my space.

  • @Jeanie-Bee
    @Jeanie-Bee 2 месяца назад

    I so appreciate and respect you for your honesty and I wholeheartedly agree with everything you said (also an empath, so I understand what you are saying 100 percent!). Thank you! Please do what you know you need to do for your own well being. Your health should always be your first priority. Sending prayers for you that your surgery goes well and you have an easy recovery.

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад

      Thank you for your support and understanding! Thank you for the prayers!

  • @aned246
    @aned246 3 месяца назад +2

    Well said. Praying your syrgery goes well. I just want to diamond paint...i definitely stay away from drama.

  • @DiamondsandDoxies
    @DiamondsandDoxies 2 месяца назад

    I really appreciate your stance on the conflict. It’s the same as mine. I’m not a professional. And what isn’t moral may not be illegal. I have no idea either. I have actually unsubscribed to some channels because it’s just drama. Some people thrive on drama and conflict. Not me. I’m also an empath and I’ve finally learned to remove anything that causes me stress because it’ll take me down a dark path. I talked on my channel about NO DRAMA. I don’t like it and I don’t want it. Like the saying goes in regards to drama - you either created it or invited it in. So I choose to not allow it in my head space. And that is YOUR right as a content creator. And I respect that. Keep being you. The right people love you for it!

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад

      Thank you I appreciate your support! It is hard to set that boundary to remove anything causes us stress but it's so important! I am glad you have the similar opinion as me. I really like that saying regarding drama you either created it or invited it in I have to remember that one! Thanks so much! I just subscribed to your channel I will take a look in my surgical recovery. Have a great day!

  • @novascotianhiker9002
    @novascotianhiker9002 2 месяца назад

    Praying for a good outcome on your surgery. I too try and stay out of conflicts. I like diamobd art clubs diamond paintings and i like Hanna Lynn's art. I want everyone to be happy and well. Take care of yourself and good luck with your surgery tomorrow. ❤❤❤

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад

      Thank you very much!! In a perfect world everyone would be happy and content!

  • @mycreativeheart4159
    @mycreativeheart4159 3 месяца назад

    Thank you Alysa.... for being honest, respectful, and vulnerable.❤❤❤ I think of you often.
    Some of the things you are going through... I have/am too. I have had Fibromyalgia and Chronic Fatigue Syndrome since age 9, debilitating migraines since puberty, Hashimoto's Thyroiditis since my 20's, Arthritis beginning to interfere with mobility in my 30's. I have lost friends, a husband, a home, and a career in the medical field because of FM/CFS. I have had no support from immediate family as they believe it's all in my head. All my progress has been at my own hand and hard won. And I do what is necessary every single day to ensure my progress.
    Like you, I am also empathic and take on the emotions of others. Avoiding conflict is a big thing for me. I feel nauseous, get migraines, and vomit when I take on others emotions. I've also worked hard and long with an energetic practitioner (BodyTalk) to heal from various emotional traumas... and this has helped to dial down my empathic absorption.
    I've heard you mention in many of your videos that you want to know about your listeners/watchers. Having you be vulnerable has allowed me to be as well.... so thank you. I have also..... often layed curled up in bed crying..... you are not alone.
    I hope your surgery goes well and your recovery is uneventful. I will be thinking of you and sending you love and healing vibes. In your sanctuary group... you will know me as Deanne.💖

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад +1

      Thank you for your kind words. I am so sorry you deal with multiple health challenges too. CFS is a really awful disease to have. I too feel the physical effects when I absorb conflict. sounds like you have done lots of work to heal. Thank you for sharing your story Deanne!

  • @alicat61
    @alicat61 2 месяца назад

    Alyssa, thank you. That's all I have to say about that. Will be keeping you in my prayers. Best of outcomes for your surgery. May God bless the surgeon's hands.

  • @Tracy-er6zr
    @Tracy-er6zr 2 месяца назад

    Bless you…I totally understand how you feel 🥺. I hate conflict so much it makes me want to hide away from everyone and everything. As like yourself I have a myriad of health conditions that leave me in constant pain and it’s so hard living every day. Diamond painting helps me to keep going each day as it helps me to kinda live in a different world (if that makes sense).
    I’ll be praying that you have a successful surgery & that it helps stop at least some of the pain that you have. I really wish it would take away all of your pain as being in pain 24/7 is so draining and really taxes not only your body physically but mentally also.
    I’ve had to have multiple surgeries in the last few years two of them being the amputation of both legs, and it was frightening as I’m also classed as ‘high risk’. But your team of surgeons, doctors & nurses will take good care of you & get you through this 💖.
    I don’t very often post comments as I’m always afraid that I will say the wrong thing & will make people mad at me, but when I saw your video today it made me hurt that you were hurting & I wanted you to know that I’ll be keeping you in my thoughts & prayers 🙏🏻.
    Sending you lots of love & hugs ❤️🤗🥰
    Tracy xx

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад

      Thank you for taking the time to share with me! Never feel afraid of commenting on my channel I read everything and I’ve only ever had to block a few rude people. That must have been a very scary surgery for you! I hope you are doing well these days.

  • @Katya8461
    @Katya8461 2 месяца назад

    Hi Alysa, I will keep you in my prayers. Your surgery will go very well ❤ You are special and appreciated. Have beautiful week.

  • @rantsofafangirl7000
    @rantsofafangirl7000 2 месяца назад

    My tbi is a work injury. Its so true about how dark it gets. Im in the middle of it and its so hard to see the end. Diamond painting lets me switch off with minimal energy.

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад

      I was so depressed and honestly suicidal during the fight with insurance and my injury. Don’t give up keep fighting to the end. As long as the medical is there you should come out on top. It’s so sad that they make people who are actually injured fight for their life!

  • @dwagner8468
    @dwagner8468 2 месяца назад

    Praying for your fast recovery without tons of pain.
    Appreciate you always sharing the weekly sneak peeks.

  • @GraceLBDP
    @GraceLBDP 2 месяца назад

    I so enjoy your videos so I hope this issue doesn't drive you away from the craft. I do believe though, that you need to take care of you first and formost. Prayers for safe surgery and quick healing!

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад

      Thank you very much. I won’t let something like this take me away but it’s hard not to feel that way sometimes

  • @graylagran7443
    @graylagran7443 2 месяца назад

    I binged Designated Survivor on Netflix for the second time recently. I also like Longmire and Firefly Lane.

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад +1

      oh yes I remember firefly lane that was a good one. I dont know if Ive seen designated survivor I will have to go take a look. thanks for the suggestions!

  • @marianedupuis3269
    @marianedupuis3269 2 месяца назад

    Sending good vibes for your surgery ❤ I appreciate a lot the drama free place you created in your group. I hate conflicts too !!

  • @elizabethedwardenablersout4812
    @elizabethedwardenablersout4812 2 месяца назад

    Ooh! I am loving watching the series Your Honor on Netflix (originally a Showtime series)! Bryan Cranston from Breaking Bad is in it. Only 2 seasons but hopeful for more!

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад

      I haven’t seen that one I will go take a look thank you friend!

  • @mags277
    @mags277 3 месяца назад

    Sending lots of positiveness and healing vibes for your upcoming surgery. Hope all goes well 🙏💛

  • @LockedInDiamondPainting
    @LockedInDiamondPainting 2 месяца назад +1

    diamonds and thoughts put the video on this up some time ago but its important to talk about. i expect dac will release a statement to her so im excited to see all sides.

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад

      Yes I did see her video. It did give me some strength to speak on my opinions and stand up for those who don’t feel comfortable being so public, I am interested to see her response video.

    • @LockedInDiamondPainting
      @LockedInDiamondPainting 2 месяца назад

      @@thediamondstitcher Women Supporting Women am i right....

    • @LockedInDiamondPainting
      @LockedInDiamondPainting 2 месяца назад

      @@thediamondstitcher im glad you felt brave and did your video ...... Lets hope all turns out well and we are united as a community.....

    • @LockedInDiamondPainting
      @LockedInDiamondPainting 2 месяца назад

      @@thediamondstitcher huggs

  • @robinpennington5758
    @robinpennington5758 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for the WIP and chat, Alysa. I completely agree with your stance on the drama going on right now. I am not a lawyer and do not know the legalities so I will leave it up to them to figure out. I do appreciate that you do not allow the negativity into your group, there will always be someone that has to be a bully behind a screen. Good luck on Thursday, I will keep you in my thoughts. I know you have other reason for having a bit more anxiety about the surgery but it is a pretty easy surgery with an easy recovery so I am sending you all the good vibes that everything remains 'easy' for yours, as well!

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад +1

      Thanks Robin! That is very true people very easily become keyboard warriors! I will pray the surgery goes well and its easy peasy!

  • @vivianprince1126
    @vivianprince1126 2 месяца назад

    I, too, stay out of the drama, just lurk in the background. I went to a retreat yesterday for the first time, and I'm just like, it's diamond painting! Woah! Haha anyway, easier said than done, don't let the haters get to you, it's your page, no rhyme or reason, there's block/delete buttons for you to utilize. Good luck on surgery!!! ❤

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад +1

      Sometimes it is best to lurk, you dont get dragged into it. I hope you enjoyed the retreat! I would love to go to one one day.

    • @vivianprince1126
      @vivianprince1126 2 месяца назад

      @@thediamondstitcher I was so nervous, but it was so much fun! ☺️

  • @dellafowler6582
    @dellafowler6582 2 месяца назад

    Prayers for your surgery to go well and have quick healing. I’m a lurker on almost all channels that I choose to watch. I very seldom post. I am glad you choose not to get into things that don’t really affect you. I enjoy listening to your channel.

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад

      Thank you very much for sharing!! Nice to meet you too!

  • @sharonrodriguez71
    @sharonrodriguez71 3 месяца назад

    Thank u hope surgery goes well. My son is very sick right now. I will pray for a speedy recovery . You are just the sweetest person ever.❤

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  3 месяца назад

      I am sorry to hear your Son is so sick. I pray he heals quickly and diamond painting gives you some relief from the stress!

    • @Mary-LynnFulton-pb2ce
      @Mary-LynnFulton-pb2ce 3 месяца назад

      🙏

  • @Setrimacoky
    @Setrimacoky 2 месяца назад

    I’m so sorry to hear that you are having another surgery next wk. Praying that your surgery is successful and your recovery is a speedy one.
    I really appreciate your drama free and safe space.
    It’s saddening to see the drama in this art. I also agree with their being truth somewhere in the middle.
    I would hope you find some peace in this hobby! I feel shocked that you almost left the community due to drama. That seems so surreal! I hope you continue to create! Keep being a shining positive leader for this art!

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад

      Thank you very much for your kind words! I am glad you feel the space we created is safe!

  • @veganblume3415
    @veganblume3415 2 месяца назад

    thank you. I feel like I got to know you a lot better during this video.
    And I absolutely can understand why other creators don't share their opinion about this topic just yet. I feel the same about it, because I think I got way to less information to form a whole opinion on it.

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад

      Thanks for your support! It’s hard to share an accurate opinion without all the information

  • @tangerinegin4568
    @tangerinegin4568 2 месяца назад

    I completely agree with you on the conflict - I never know why people can't follow the principle 'if you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all' I rarely comment as I am a bit of a lurker ;-) but also because I don't want to get involved in any drama and I have seen a fair amount in a short time since joining the diamond painting community. Facebook is a useful tool to stay in touch with other diamond painters without having to have a RUclips or Instagram channel myself, but I don't like to see others being shot down for some passing comment, thank you for sticking with those of us that just want to enjoy the craft. Good luck in the surgery sending good vibes and positive thoughts!

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад

      Thank you so much for taking the time to share! As my husband says what do you think will happen when you get a group of women together 🤣

  • @shinebrightdiamonds2023
    @shinebrightdiamonds2023 2 месяца назад

    Hi Alysa, thanks for sharing your thoughts and creating an FB group that is a safe space and conflict free. It is deeply appreciated. You are a role model when it comes to creating boundaries. Wishing you a speedy recovery with your upcoming surgery. If you are looking for action tv shows, I enjoy watching Will Trent and Tracker. Both I think are still on Disney + in Canada. Take care 💜

  • @rebeccahutto1701
    @rebeccahutto1701 3 месяца назад

    I truly hope your surgery goes well with a speedy recovery. Congratulations on your anniversary. I’m fortunate to have a husband who stands by health issues, anxiety and depression. I must say I love your space is because we lift everyone up. If I’m on another site and a simple question or statement immediately attracts nasty comments I click off. Your space for you and your mods is a joy for relaxing, thank you 💕

  • @tammyhyler3001
    @tammyhyler3001 3 месяца назад

    I’m sorry you have a bad day.
    Sending you loving healing light. ❤

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  3 месяца назад +1

      Thank you Tammy! Just like the good days the bad days come and go too

  • @k9mama0814
    @k9mama0814 2 месяца назад

    I hope all goes well on Thursday and you’re feeling better soon after. You’re such a positive and inspiring part of this community, and I am blessed to call you a friend! 💚 Series to watch: It’s dark, but I enjoyed Sons of Anarchy, Shogun on FX; on Prime/Paramount: Yellowstone and Billions

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words! I've watched all those series but I may go back and rewatch sons of anarchy it's been a while.

  • @tammypengelly1097
    @tammypengelly1097 3 месяца назад

    Happy anniversary🎉. Hope your surgery goes well. Im a very passive person and truly dislike conflicts or drama it weights on my heart cause I try to make every one happy and take on their pain. I'm sure the lawyers and both parties will get things sorted in due time and it will work out. I truly don't know where I'd be with out this community it's seen me thru a lot of very dark days.

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад

      Thank you very much! Sounds like you are an empath like me! I am sorry you have dark days too.

  • @BattleBugCrafts
    @BattleBugCrafts 2 месяца назад

    Gallbladder attacks are no joke, I went through it and it was so rough.

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад

      Thanks for your comment and thoughts ! I appreciate your support and agree lots of ugliness comes out when there is conflict. I hope the surgery does make me feel better!

  • @MiasLifeWithKFS
    @MiasLifeWithKFS 2 месяца назад

    I refuse to be part of or talk about conflicts, I only did once since it involved a friend and she was innocent. But other peoples/shops beef isn't my problem as long as I keep out of it.
    I pray that your surgery will go well ❤ And that your recovery will be speedy and problem free
    Take care, Alysa, and don't let others decide what you should or shouldn't have an opinion about ❤❤❤

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад

      I appreciate your point of view too! Thank you for the prayers! I am hoping my pain conditions aren't flared up too bad post op either.

  • @GraceLBDP
    @GraceLBDP 2 месяца назад

    I tuely understand your wish to avoid others conflicts. Conflicts between family, friends even publicly can make me physically nauseated.

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад

      That’s a good way to explain it and exactly how I’ve felt too!

  • @autumnsartstudio
    @autumnsartstudio 2 месяца назад

    Being an empath myself is the reason why I dont go on Twitter or Facebook much. I post what I'm working on and then log off. I try not to get into a habit of scrolling endlessly due to my anxiety. I barely even watch my local news and disconnected my cable because of all the negativity. I've been told from family and others that I can't hide from it just ignore the anxiety. That's a reason why I don't post my thoughts and opinions because people made me feel like my thoughts are invalid and don't matter so I keep to myself. So that's why I lurk in most diamond painting groups nowadays.

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  Месяц назад

      I am sorry you are made to feel your thoughts dont matter. They do in my space! Scrolling social media can really make my anxiety worse too I try and disconnect daily.

  • @rantsofafangirl7000
    @rantsofafangirl7000 2 месяца назад

    "everyday theres something wrong with me" girl i feel that. Im just at that exhausted point of mu TBI journey. Nothing surprises me anymore

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад

      I’m so sorry you are struggling with your health too. No matter how dark it gets it will get better I promise just stay strong and keep fighting

  • @craftingmayhemmorewithkina
    @craftingmayhemmorewithkina 2 месяца назад

    I totally understand being an empath and I am a nurse also (yay nursing). I have been around a long time and have witnessed the conflicts, low key bullying, and passive aggressive behaviors of some of the OG creators. As a matter of fact, I have unsubscribed from a lot of them. However, I believe that if Marissa never posted anything DAC would not have addressed the issue publicly at all. For me, discussion is a good thing and some level of controversy fuels discussion. I don’t think anyone should bash you for not talking about the issue…it’s your channel and your choice just as it was for Marissa. If she had reported maliciously then I wouldn’t have listened but I think she did fair and impartial videos. On the other hand an OG creator has admitted being passive aggressive when she chose to comment on Marissa’s video and it’s that negative behavior that creates the REAL problems in this hobby. When you choose to be a content creator and you have thousand of subs YOU do have a responsibility to be professional and that incident was not. Everyone makes mistakes and she half ass admitted her mistake but it still had me smh and actually changed my opinion of her. That’s my tow cents on the matter. I am praying for and hope your surgery went well.

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад +1

      Hello fellow Nurse! I miss working so so much. I do agree in a fair discussion though I understand why when something is going the legal route maybe they are advised not too. I am always one who likes transparency and I think it goes a long way.

  • @CraftingwithShay
    @CraftingwithShay 2 месяца назад

    Thinking about you and I hope your surgery goes well….❤

  • @denisehudson4723
    @denisehudson4723 2 месяца назад

    First I want to say you se like a few nice person. Than I want to say Happy Anniversary! Glad you had a lovely time. I want to wish you well with your surgery. I'm sorry for what your going through and I would hope you didn't leave diamond painting or your channel this conflict seems like it should just between the artist and the business owners not everyone else. Anyway you take care of yourself.

  • @diamondsandthings
    @diamondsandthings 2 месяца назад

    You are lucky that you found someone like your husband, I have never found anyone decent to share m life with even though I was married twice. That's life though. Good luck with your surgery. I had my gall bladder out years ago, had flank pressure for a while. I just started watching a show called - The Last Thing He Said to Me - on Apple TV. If you like musicals, The Greatest Showman was awesome. There wasn't alot of songs, but it is about Barnum, the circus, and a wonderful theme song called Never Enough. It's a great show. I just don't' understand why people feel that they are better than someone else. Everyone is entitled to do what they want as long as they don't hurt anyone or themselves. I watch a content creator and she said just about the same thing, that everyone in this community is not nice, she must have had some conflict also. I have learned over the years to shut those ignorant people out of my life. Hopefully you can learn to do that. I'm right there with you - I believe there are 3 sides to every story. I like getting the facts too, but we will not know the full truth because we are not in that situation.

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад

      Thank you for taking the time to comment! I will take a look at those shows.

  • @lynnbondoc7964
    @lynnbondoc7964 2 месяца назад

    Good morning, I am so glad you're going to have your gallbladder surgery. I will be praying for you.
    I agree with you that the conflict is between Hannah Lynn and DAC. I do watch Diamond and Thoughts. However, I can't watch her when she's talking about the conflict. My anxiety won't let me. So I will watch her as long as she talks about anything else.

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад

      Thanks! I am glad you are able to realize your boundaries and stay strong in them! Happy Diamond Painting!

  • @tammeyaa
    @tammeyaa 3 месяца назад

    Get better sweet lady ❤️

  • @dianawu8972
    @dianawu8972 3 месяца назад

    I hope your surgery goes well. I will be thinking of you on Thursday.
    I take Ozempic and I know what you mean by having a slow digestive system... Most of the time you feel nauseated and don't want to eat but you know you have to because you'll get sick in other ways.
    I understand what you mean by having pain everyday. I have botox shots for my spasticity on my right side. Now my left arm is getting bad because that's the only one I have to use. I now see the botox shots as pain management. I was so very sore when they stopped because of covid and very glad that I was their first client when it started again.
    No worries on jumping topic to topic. I'm also all over the place when I talk. I'm more coherent when I write... At least I think so.
    You are such a tropper. Never stop caring. It's what I love about you and it shows in your group. ❤ ❤

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад

      Thank you Diana! I am sorry ozempic makes you feel sick. I have to miss botox now until after surgery so I am feeling the effects of not having it. I am glad it helps you.

  • @jleelee71
    @jleelee71 3 месяца назад

    Empath also . Sending you love. You continue doing u!

  • @alicat61
    @alicat61 2 месяца назад

    As far as a show to watch...since you liked "Breaking Bad", you should watch "Better Caĺl Saul." Also, there is a follow up movie entitled "El Camino". Just a suggestion

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад

      Thanks I’ve seen both of those shows! I’ve had a lot of free time on my hands!

  • @GrennEyeCrafts
    @GrennEyeCrafts 2 месяца назад

    Hi, this is also an older series, but have you seen Sherlock (produced by the BBC/ on Netflix in Norway)?
    Get well soon, Herdis.

  • @BreannGrovesAshlynnandKenadee
    @BreannGrovesAshlynnandKenadee 2 месяца назад

    Do you have Ehlers Danlos Syndrome? You may want to look into it. It causes Gastroparesis. Your fellow EDSer here! ❤ lots of healing thoughts sent your way!

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад

      I have often wondered this as I also have thoracic outlet syndrome which can coincide with EDS too. If I do I think I would have the stiff person version but we havent really looked into it. I do fit some of the criteria though I also think genetically my mom and grandma may have it as well though went undiagnosed

  • @unicorn32169
    @unicorn32169 2 месяца назад

    My daughter has Gastroparesis it very hard to treat for her she's been on several different meds

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад

      I’m sorry to hear that. It’s such a difficult condition and has made me so sick for so long. I hope she finds a treatment that helps soon

  • @TheDiamondTechnician
    @TheDiamondTechnician 3 месяца назад

    I feel for what HL is going through truly. I feel bad for her but I do agree with the process of hand rendering being an art form in and of itself. This seems like a huge grey zone as it WAS derived from the artist’s work, however, another artistic endeavor was then achieved when the rendering was done. This is where us not knowing about the ins and outs of copyright laws and also not knowing both sides of the story make us maybe not equipped to form a good opinion.

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  3 месяца назад +1

      You said it very well. I just cannot form a true educated opinion I dont think many of us can we dont know what the contract really says let alone means. Thanks for being respectful ❤️

  • @EnnoiaM
    @EnnoiaM 2 месяца назад

    By law, derivative artwork has its own copyright, so DAC owns the renderings. DAC needs permission from the original painting creator to sell the derivative artwork, but Hannah doesn't own DAC's renderings and can't use them as she pleases, even less give them to a competitor to sell, which was exactly what she did.

  • @dianehamilton8182
    @dianehamilton8182 3 месяца назад

    🐞 very well said

  • @hartanna
    @hartanna 2 месяца назад

    Have you ever watched white collar? It's a fun spin on a cop kind of show that was on usa back in the late 2000s. It's so funny to see the blatant car ads in the middle of the show. Still one that I like to rewatch and saw it pop up on netflix a few weeks ago.
    I'm with you on the whole situation though. I won't act like I know how it should work out legally, but ethically it just seems wrong. (Heck, munimade even had renderings redone when she switched manufacturers and they were completely different from the first ones!) But there is no reason for some of these people to attack creators over this. It has nothing to do with anyone except for dac and hl. We probably won't know what actually happened until it is settled legally, or maybe even never. But we don't know the truth either way.

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад +1

      no I dont think ive seen that one ill have to take a look! I am sure one day we will find out how it worked out it seems Hannah Lynn wants to keep it public. it is very sad that all she has to do is not steal the rendering and problem solved. it seems like such an easy fix and most of the community I have seen comment on this agrees its not right to take the dac renderings to another shop. there is no point does she think these other shops are not good at rendering? to be their other hand charted kits look great so I dont even know why to go there. oh well.

    • @hartanna
      @hartanna 2 месяца назад

      @thediamondstitcher I feel like it may have just been so she could start making money off her images ASAP.
      Also, thinking of you today! Hope surgery goes well!

  • @craftychefdiamond
    @craftychefdiamond 2 месяца назад

    💜💜💜💜👩‍🍳

  • @rantsofafangirl7000
    @rantsofafangirl7000 2 месяца назад

    In terms of the "drama" i think its interesting as a law student. It can have major implication on DP creation and even ownership. If she can take rendering and she owns it, does that mean we dont own our own art we make? Can we sell completed works? Im interested in the results amd social commentary.
    But other than that, its far too morally dubious and thats where the "drama" is and im not interested really. It wont change my buying habits.

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад

      Thanks for sharing your thoughts! I’d love to hear the opinions of actual professionals who know all about the law of art and copyright!

  • @bambimae2925
    @bambimae2925 2 месяца назад

    Gall bladder attack is so bad. Has symptoms of a heart attack

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад

      Yes it definitely felt like it could have been a heart attack!

  • @Chocolate_Diamonds
    @Chocolate_Diamonds 3 месяца назад

    You don't have to inject yourself/your opinion on the situation and people should respect that! What's going on is
    between them... let the court settle the matter.

  • @dianehamilton8182
    @dianehamilton8182 3 месяца назад

    🐞 but I believe the biggest hurt would be if you allow this to take the joy of diamond painting away from you...please don't let that happen

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  3 месяца назад

      I agree it would be very unfortunate. I need to find a way to not let things affect me so much. I just care too much.

  • @CoffeeMomDiamond
    @CoffeeMomDiamond 2 месяца назад

    Oh Lord that is the worst pain, it was worse than having a baby,

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  2 месяца назад

      It was such an awful and weird pain compared to what I deal with daily. Fingers crossed no more attacks until Thursday!

  • @Vega_Cristina
    @Vega_Cristina 2 месяца назад

    Hi, nice wip Iam new 🩲🩲🩲

  • @AcraftyErin
    @AcraftyErin 2 месяца назад

    💜🩷🧡

  • @nicolerouse3303
    @nicolerouse3303 2 месяца назад

    Try sunny for something to watch

  • @rantsofafangirl7000
    @rantsofafangirl7000 2 месяца назад

    Ive found all craft communities are full of ego and drama. Its so sad. Especially if theres buisness or money involved. Its so gross

  • @sylviakanel9766
    @sylviakanel9766 3 месяца назад

    I'm so glad you are having the surgery! It seems very cut and dry and you really need a success, Alysa! I don't think the pre-surgery anxiety even makes any sense. It's just there and can't be reasoned with! But soon all of this will be over and you will be in better shape for the September surgery.💜🫂💜

    • @thediamondstitcher
      @thediamondstitcher  3 месяца назад

      I agree I always have had pre surgery anxiety especially the week leading up to it. Abdominal surgery will be a new one for me. I think it should be a walk in the part compared to my nerve surgeries!

    • @sylviakanel9766
      @sylviakanel9766 3 месяца назад

      I think you will find that kind of surgery to be very straightforward without all the guessing that goes with nerve injury.💜🫂💜