The one thing that made me soooo mad was that they just threw the adrien guy from the end of the second season out. I started the 3rd season like “who is this man” 😂
Why are we all obliged to "take home" somebody? Why are our parents always expecting us to "take home" someone? Why can't we be all right at home by ourselves?
parents like to believe the lives they want for their children is the best thing for them. letting your child grow into the best version of themselves is the best thing for them. setting expectations for them to live exactly the life you wanted just pushes them away when they feel like they’ll never live up to your “standards”
I love Pose, it was so beautifully done (even the most difficult of subjects), it perfectly captured my NY teen years in the early 80s, the music, the culture, the vibe, it nailed it on every level. After this episode (and scene), boy did I have a big gurl ugly cry.
@@johnapostol1648 Contrary to popular belief, “actor” has become a gender neutral term because it literally means “PEOPLE who act” and “actress” is actually outdated. In fact, many female actors prefer NOT to be called “actress” and would rather be called “actor.” Why? Because they’d like to be considered PEOPLE who act… not just be reduced to their gender. So, I know you THINK you’re correcting when you say “actress,” but it’s actually okay to call female actors like MJ “actors.”
This comments section is rank tbh... People spurting religious nonsense trying to justify their homophobia through religion. And other people can't grasp the fact that a trans woman is a WOMAN and its none of your business... It will not destroy the world. Trans are not hurting anyone, they are not affecting your life so get over it and let them live their best life!!!
Do trans women have female genitals? Are they XX or XY? I think we all know they aren't women. It doesn't mean they aren't allowed to live their lives, but to deny reality is quite frankly ridiculous. It doesn't take a religious lens to see it makes no sense to call this person a woman.
@@xixingpooh Do you have a masters degree in biology? Your definition of male and female is extremely basic... Primary school level basic. Chromosomes are more complicated than merely XY and XX and what about people who are born with two sets of genitals? There is more to what makes up a woman than chromosomes.
@@guineapig0208 Chromosomes are more complicated than that, certainly, but it does not make it any less true. Those who were born with two sets of genitals are incredibly rare in the grand scheme of humans, and even among them in almost every case they are predominately one sex over the other. You are right. Women have menstrual cycles. Women have the ability to bear children. Women have breasts. Women possess many wonderful differences from men and such has been the case for the entirety of human history. The person in this clip is not and will never be a woman. They can present themselves as they wish but that does not change the material reality that we live in.
Glad to see POSE is being shown. Never seen these stories on the big screen and I love that Ryan Murphey will be seen by more people. Learn ya a thing or two.
Can I ask you a question? Were you safe? After watching this show, I worry about kids like Damon, Angel, Ricky. What happens if they don't have someone like Blanca, Elektra, and Pray Tell?
@@msrain1235 I'll tell you what happens, children like me live in denial, in fear, scared and without feeling a home and someone who understands us and accepts us as we are, when I saw POSE I cried, I want a home sm...
This was such a powerful scene. Blanca was unapologetically herself and stood up for herself in the face of injustice. And to add the cherry on top, the person she loved, did not just stand by and not say anything. He opened his mouth, peotected his woman like a man should. Even when the face of injustice was that of his own mother. She didnt need him to, but he did it anyways. That right there speaks VOLUMES.
I’m not sure what you’re trying to say. So people who haven’t watched the whole series yet express positive views on this teeny tiny little video are the fringe dwellers and freaks? Or do you mean the people who get triggered by any mention of trans people? Honest question.
Ive learned so much from this show. And I feel blessed to have my mind opened more to the struggles of the LGBTQ community. I dont want to be ignorant and intolerant like this woman is. I want to be accepting of the people my future children choose to love. So long as that person makes them happy and isnt hurting them. Then thats all I'll ever need to know❤
I just happened upon this clip & am not familiar with this series, but this is how minds are changed. Putting trans folks in the media builds acceptance. Good on this.
I love the way she stood up for herself. Us women can learn a lot from our trans Sistah’s. Because I know so many cis women who would have set through the abuse and dealt with it.
Who here knows that while in utero … at the very beginning of embryonic status… all genders look exactly the same? Who knows next, that according to the genetic code delivered, that determines whether the embryo begins to develop internal (female) or external (male) sex organs? Who is also aware, that there are human beings born with both internal (female) and external (male) sex organs? After all that knowing… why is it such a stretch to believe that IF, someone can be born with visible male and female sexual organs simultaneously, that another can also be born with internal gender mis-identity? There have been countless stories of people being born with ambiguous genitalia and the parents deciding at birth which gender the child will be and after the child grew up it was discovered that the parents chose the wrong gender to assign to them. The human did NOT identify internally with the sexual organs they presented. How is this anyone’s fault or doing in terms of this possibility existing? The infant certainly did not make this ambiguous genitalia come about consciously nor did the mother or father. It just happens. And then there is a dilemma. And choices to be made. How is it impossible for some of you out there to imagine that could also happen internally with hormones etc?? Aren’t we all a series of chemical compounds and reactions? How can anyone be so sure that a transgender person does not truly feel the way that they do? Can’t you just be happy that you were not born with such a dilemma and not make their lives harder than necessary with your harsh condemnations? Just my two cents. Take it or leave it but I pray just be kind at the very least.
@Rain its definitely not insane. Our gender is literally a thing because of our consciousness. I am a woman not because i have breast and a vagina but because in my every day life that's how I feel. I feel feminine, beautiful and take pride in being a woman. I cant even have children. If my body magically turned into a male body the next day I would still be a woman. Because that is who I am inside. We are consciousness walking around in a flesh suit, controlling it. My flesh does not dictate who I am and it never will. If we base are gender on our body alone then you would have to say intersex people are both woman and man. Where do they fit in society??? Don't they have a say? There are also people born with androgynous bodies, women with perfectly flat chest, big clitoris. Men with petite frames and micro penises, women who have no vagina at all or can't have children. Bodies are not cut and dry enough to be the base of gender identity. Its just not black and white.
LOL thats cuz all eggs are X chromosome hence why ppl say everyone starts out as female and why males have nipples. just one chromosome until fertilized with sperm. then its official what the sex is. that being said, an unfertilized egg is incomplete. you cant be just one chromosome. nice try
Beautifully said. I've said something similar, but not as eloquently -- autism makes my points, sometimes, sound like scribble scrabble. I appreciate putting it together in this way 🫶🏾
And folks kill me talking about children as if theres not an ocean of sweet faced children waiting to be adopted. Even two healthy cis gendered adults are not guaranteed to have a child. Shit happens and you do the best with what youve got.
I'm sorry, but it's was unrealistic of Blanca to just expect his mum to have that sprung on her and immediately accept it. Especially when she was so hostile towards her in her delivery. It seemed as if she was trying to have a conversation, as ingorant as she was it was an excellent opportunity to educate her. No, imo Blanca had the WRONG approach! And that itty bitty skirt is too short to be going out to dinner with you bf parents.
Since mother started being condescending Blanca stop owing her patience, latin people have pride and we are raised not to take anyone's bs when we are worth respect.
Because in this episode and the other the mom kept makig backhanded compliments or snide remarks so she had made her feel like shit in a previous episode,but yeah she went off on her this time LOL I mean respect is free man,the mom could've calmed down.
@@silk.and.cologne That is not a woman. That is a man pretending to be a woman. A woman has female genitals. A woman is XX. This person has neither. It doesn't mean that he can't express himself however he wants, but he will never be a woman.
@@xixingpooh if she can express herself however she wants how about you respect that and call her a WOMAN like she WANTS? what is that? you don't want to? you dont respect it? what else dont you respect and are willing to risk be disrespected because someone else doesnt respect it like you do? sit tf down.
All I ever wanted every time I hear Blanca speaks is to pass her some lozenges! Gosh that constant breaks in her voice is bloody annoying!!!! 😅 No shade, I do like her character thou...✌
Indeed, the religion in the sight of Allah is Islam. And those who were given the Scripture did not differ except after knowledge had come to them - out of jealous animosity between themselves. And whoever disbelieves in the verses of Allah, then indeed, Allah is swift in [taking] account.(إِنَّ ٱلدِّینَ عِندَ ٱللَّهِ ٱلۡإِسۡلَـٰمُۗ وَمَا ٱخۡتَلَفَ ٱلَّذِینَ أُوتُوا۟ ٱلۡكِتَـٰبَ إِلَّا مِنۢ بَعۡدِ مَا جَاۤءَهُمُ ٱلۡعِلۡمُ بَغۡیَۢا بَیۡنَهُمۡۗ وَمَن یَكۡفُرۡ بِـَٔایَـٰتِ ٱللَّهِ فَإِنَّ ٱللَّهَ سَرِیعُ ٱلۡحِسَابِ) [سورة آل عمران 19]
People act like the parents the victims like idgaf they have adult kids,they have their own life,why do they care so much they arent in the relationship ofc,so...yk.
@@jmikhael5200 - Sorry your looking to Pick a a Fight. But, a better question to me, would be; "How is it being a Great - Grandfather ?" Which brings to mind; In "your world", aren't You taught to respect your Elders ? So who are You, "To throw Stones" ???
They do blaspheme who say: Allah is one of three in a Trinity: for there is no god except One Allah. If they desist not from their word (of blasphemy), verily a grievous penalty will befall the blasphemers among them.(لَّقَدۡ كَفَرَ ٱلَّذِینَ قَالُوۤا۟ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ ثَالِثُ ثَلَـٰثَةࣲۘ وَمَا مِنۡ إِلَـٰهٍ إِلَّاۤ إِلَـٰهࣱ وَ ٰحِدࣱۚ وَإِن لَّمۡ یَنتَهُوا۟ عَمَّا یَقُولُونَ لَیَمَسَّنَّ ٱلَّذِینَ كَفَرُوا۟ مِنۡهُمۡ عَذَابٌ أَلِیمٌ) [سورة المائدة 73]
I kinda actually understand the point of view of the mother. I mean at the time it was quite unusual for a son to bring home a transsexual girlfriend, she actually had genuine questions, she wasn’t trying to discriminate her. For a woman of her time she was actually quite mild towards Blanca
She could ask questions nicely but she was definitely discriminating and picking at Blanca in as many ways as she could. As a parent if your children are happy with their partner (as long as that partner is of age and there is not abuse or harming each other) I really see no reason for issues. The mother is a bigot full stop.
@@gabby.maya11 I don’t think she was discriminating or at least, to a point where it was problematic, she was obviously shocked, but didn’t seem unfamiliar with the subject. If I had a conversation with her I wouldn’t be offended, coming from a trans perspective.
I mean why can't people exist without their existence being debated? Like really think about how depressing that is. Personally, I would hate for people to want to have a ted talk filled with these "genuine questions" about whether is it right if I exist or not. If they aren't actively harming others people existing shouldn't be a topic of debate.
Have they not traveled through the earth and observed how was the end of those before them? They were greater than them in power, and they plowed the earth and built it up more than they have built it up, and their messengers came to them with clear evidences. And Allah would not ever have wronged them, but they were wronging themselves.(أَوَلَمۡ یَسِیرُوا۟ فِی ٱلۡأَرۡضِ فَیَنظُرُوا۟ كَیۡفَ كَانَ عَـٰقِبَةُ ٱلَّذِینَ مِن قَبۡلِهِمۡۚ كَانُوۤا۟ أَشَدَّ مِنۡهُمۡ قُوَّةࣰ وَأَثَارُوا۟ ٱلۡأَرۡضَ وَعَمَرُوهَاۤ أَكۡثَرَ مِمَّا عَمَرُوهَا وَجَاۤءَتۡهُمۡ رُسُلُهُم بِٱلۡبَیِّنَـٰتِۖ فَمَا كَانَ ٱللَّهُ لِیَظۡلِمَهُمۡ وَلَـٰكِن كَانُوۤا۟ أَنفُسَهُمۡ یَظۡلِمُونَ) [سورة الروم 9]
@Melissa Leon Why would you say goodbye to your child forever just because they were trans? I'd think I'd love my child either way. Plenty of people dont breed, but they are still loved by their families.
@Melissa Leon "Concern" is one thing, but you dont reject your child for loving someone. Plenty of people dont have children and they are still valued by their parents. Some women cannot have children but that does not mean they dont deserve love. You seem obsessed with the breeding thing, but really, your children are not your brood mares.
Blanca had a bad Attitude, she was extremely combative even without having to be. That’s not how you talk to your partner’s mother even if they are being rude, which I don’t believe the mother was until Blanca start with all the neck rolling. It seem like Blanca was projecting.
Blanca had to deal with so much shit her entire life, especially after her transition. And her boyfriend’s mom continued to disrespect her, talk down to her, and belittle her. Blanca stood up not only for her pride, but for identity. She was in the right.
If you had to deal with crap your whole life you would have an attitude too. And she was polite to the mum but she still continued to disrespect Bianca and belittle her. At some point you you have to say enough is enough
Let's not shame the mum people need time to process you can't expect her to just jump for joy it's shocking news especially for a son she has raised all her life the grand children he told her he would have all that changed and she deserves to grieve just as much
Ok true but you cannot excuse the Mum's attitude, her approach to the situation wasn't very effective, it was pretty snarky, snobby, and elusive. If she wanted to ask questions, or if she wanted to process the situation very well, make it clear. Don't try and shame your son's partner.
@@gentleauroraasmr8562 Girl what about the grace that she didnt give to Blanca,she kept judging her up and down in this episode or anther,atp your feelings are irrelevan if you look down upon on someone and this was even before she knew she was trans.
Gender femenine, sex male, that's a fact, their relationship is a genetic dead end, also facts. They know it and that is only their buisness, facts. If the lady wanted grandchildren she should've had more kids, cuz lots of people don't want children.
Know the difference of sex and gender,gender is what you identify as,sex is what you got down there.Thats a woman who cant have kids ofc,but adoptions a thing idk why people acting like its the end of the world too,and what if they dont want any?
@@jfabiani Why do you conflate what she said with hatred and fear? It sounds like disapproval, sure. People disapprove of other peoples actions all the time. Doesn't mean that there's hatred or fear attached. That's weak.
@@xixingpooh Because the disapproval is without merit. I watched the show. Its in the script. I understand earned disapproval, but the source of the mothers disdain was not earned but rather sheer bigotry.
I'm happy Blanca got with a man who loves her but i do not think Christopher mother was wrong. These are reasonable questions. How does he expect to have children with a trans woman who biologically can't? Theres no rule book for how a biological woman is suppose to take the fact her son is with a transwoman.
"While there is still time, let them have recourse to the fount of My mercy; let them profit from the Blood and Water which gushed for them." (from the Diary of Saint Faustina Kowalska; partial record 848)
The mother had every right to be concern and ask the questions to get better understanding of the situation. The son could have handled it in a better manner. There were parents during that era that had every right to be concerned about their children's choice of company not because of religion or beliefs, but because their love for their children but the majority situations, the child hopped on the self righteous guilt trip wagon instead of actually given their parents a chance to listen and understand their point of view.
@NativeBrownboy : Why are ALWAYS the children to have to be understandable ??, why can parents just accept their kids when they aren't doing ANYTHING wrong ??!! .
@@giuliapicchiotti in that era, the children were infact doing things very, very wrong, which resulted in most of them getting infected and dying an early life they had just begun. There was, a shit ton of fowl play at hand in the gay community which literally prayed on the ignorant and those who had no at home support.
@@giuliapicchiotti Why is it always the children have to be accepted. Why not the parents?? Why can't ya understand a parents concern?? Why can't ya accept a parents wishes?? They literally gave you life, a life which you wouldn't be able to live nor experience anything out of. People will kids are people too and if that's the case then you can't call it abuse or neglect if the kid isn't accepted in the household anymore. If they are their own person then why should parents take care of them?? And if you say well that's the parents job but it's also the kids job as well. To take care of them, to carry out the legacy, the family tree, to continue what they built. That's the child's job as well they arent on this planet for nothing, they're not here just so they can do whatever they want 🙄 ya need to get ur minds straight.
But that son didn't, he brought home a beautiful strong woman. But even if he brought home a man as long as they loved and supported one another that is all that matters.
@@xixingpooh Actually she is only genetically a man, as science has proven that biologically trans people are born with the same size brain as there cis counterparts, meaning trans womens brains are far closer to cis womens then cis men.
@@rosieg6989 That does not change his chromosomal makeup, bone density, genitals, etc. If he were to die tomorrow and his skeletal remains reviewed, they would be able to conclude he was male. This isn't a reality people can escape from by creating new terms, changing their appearance or even surgery. This is just biological fact.
@@UTubeGoNSoft687 Even biology says that their a man so you don't need to learn anything. These people need help. And it is sad that common sense and reality is being changed by bigoted people.
Trans people literally have to see therapists before they are even allowed to medically transition. They have to see three types of doctors who thoroughly examine them physically and mentally before determining their claims are legit and allowing them to proceed in their transition.
Christ the son of Mary was no more than a messenger; many were the messengers that passed away before him. His mother was a woman of truth. They had both to eat their (daily) food. See how Allah doth make His signs clear to them; yet see in what ways they are deluded away from the truth!(مَّا ٱلۡمَسِیحُ ٱبۡنُ مَرۡیَمَ إِلَّا رَسُولࣱ قَدۡ خَلَتۡ مِن قَبۡلِهِ ٱلرُّسُلُ وَأُمُّهُۥ صِدِّیقَةࣱۖ كَانَا یَأۡكُلَانِ ٱلطَّعَامَۗ ٱنظُرۡ كَیۡفَ نُبَیِّنُ لَهُمُ ٱلۡـَٔایَـٰتِ ثُمَّ ٱنظُرۡ أَنَّىٰ یُؤۡفَكُونَ) [سورة المائدة 75]
"He who refuses to pass through the door of My mercy must pass through the door of My justice..." (from the Diary of Saint Faustina Kowalska; partial record 1146)
Terrible thing to say, that Blanca is his life, when jesus is the only life. We are talking about the judgement day When CHRIST comes,Blanca will realize ,how badly he was destroyed on earth, as he opposed God's design for him.
Leviticus and deuteronomy are the books where God the creator, warned the Israelites and other human beings to be ware ,else, destruction. I can't sugar coat the warnings concerning our morals.
@@chichiudaku1805 you realise the bible saying being gay is wrong is a mistake in the translation right? it said something a long the lines of ‘man shall not lay next to boy’ as in an adult should not sleep with a child. it was against pedophillia and not against LGBTQAI+. and according to the bible you should ‘love your neighbour’. LGBTQAI+ people count as neighbours. oh also the only reason they didn’t correct the mistranslation from the bible was because of priests who groomed and manipulated children into a sexual relationship.
Why turn they not to Allah, and seek His forgiveness? For Allah is Oft-forgiving, Most Merciful.(أَفَلَا یَتُوبُونَ إِلَى ٱللَّهِ وَیَسۡتَغۡفِرُونَهُۥۚ وَٱللَّهُ غَفُورࣱ رَّحِیمࣱ) [سورة المائدة 74]
"Tell sinners that I am always waiting for them, that I listen intently to the beating of their heart... when will it beat for Me ?" (from the Diary of Saint Faustina Kowalska; partial record 1728)
"In the Old Covenant I sent prophets wielding thunderbolts to My people. Today I am sending you with My mercy to the people of the whole world." (from the Diary of Saint Faustina Kowalska; partial record 1588)
Thankfully science has come a long way, for them surrogacy is a great option, and for other lgbt couples other options include artificial insemination, and ivf. Trans women can also breast feed if they want to. And within the next decade ivg will allow any couple (no matter biological sex) to have a baby together, and uterus transplants with the help of ivf will allow trans women to have periods, get pregnant, and carry a baby for 8 and a half months. But even if all these options didn't exist adoption is still a very noble option.
"But I want to tell you that eternal life must begin already here on earth through Holy Communion. Each Holy Communion makes you more capable of communing with God throughout eternity." (from the Diary of Saint Faustina Kowalska; record 1811)
I was so glad to see Blanca has finally found someone who treats her right and loves her for her .
The one thing that made me soooo mad was that they just threw the adrien guy from the end of the second season out. I started the 3rd season like “who is this man” 😂
@@zeekboy98oh what?! They had good chemistry I feel :(
Love that he told his mother that she was out of line, and that he defended Blanca
the way blanca handled that, icon. truly
Why are we all obliged to "take home" somebody? Why are our parents always expecting us to "take home" someone? Why can't we be all right at home by ourselves?
I totally agree its as if it's a form of "approval" from the family.!!
parents like to believe the lives they want for their children is the best thing for them. letting your child grow into the best version of themselves is the best thing for them. setting expectations for them to live exactly the life you wanted just pushes them away when they feel like they’ll never live up to your “standards”
THAT
Exactly! I’ve been with my girl for 4 years and we have no intention on me meeting her bigoted parents and much happier that way! 🌈💕
This was in the 90s for perspective
I love Pose, it was so beautifully done (even the most difficult of subjects), it perfectly captured my NY teen years in the early 80s, the music, the culture, the vibe, it nailed it on every level. After this episode (and scene), boy did I have a big gurl ugly cry.
she is a great actor Blanca I love her
actress not actor
Yes, MJ is a great actor.
@@johnapostol1648 Contrary to popular belief, “actor” has become a gender neutral term because it literally means “PEOPLE who act” and “actress” is actually outdated.
In fact, many female actors prefer NOT to be called “actress” and would rather be called “actor.” Why? Because they’d like to be considered PEOPLE who act… not just be reduced to their gender.
So, I know you THINK you’re correcting when you say “actress,” but it’s actually okay to call female actors like MJ “actors.”
This comments section is rank tbh... People spurting religious nonsense trying to justify their homophobia through religion. And other people can't grasp the fact that a trans woman is a WOMAN and its none of your business... It will not destroy the world. Trans are not hurting anyone, they are not affecting your life so get over it and let them live their best life!!!
Jesus, I was looking for a comment like this. This comment section Is definitinely messy
Louder for the back mama!
Do trans women have female genitals? Are they XX or XY? I think we all know they aren't women. It doesn't mean they aren't allowed to live their lives, but to deny reality is quite frankly ridiculous. It doesn't take a religious lens to see it makes no sense to call this person a woman.
@@xixingpooh Do you have a masters degree in biology? Your definition of male and female is extremely basic... Primary school level basic. Chromosomes are more complicated than merely XY and XX and what about people who are born with two sets of genitals? There is more to what makes up a woman than chromosomes.
@@guineapig0208 Chromosomes are more complicated than that, certainly, but it does not make it any less true.
Those who were born with two sets of genitals are incredibly rare in the grand scheme of humans, and even among them in almost every case they are predominately one sex over the other.
You are right. Women have menstrual cycles. Women have the ability to bear children. Women have breasts. Women possess many wonderful differences from men and such has been the case for the entirety of human history.
The person in this clip is not and will never be a woman.
They can present themselves as they wish but that does not change the material reality that we live in.
Glad to see POSE is being shown. Never seen these stories on the big screen and I love that Ryan Murphey will be seen by more people. Learn ya a thing or two.
How are you doing John Fabiani
@@jennifersmith7819 no complaints. Hopefully likewise.
@@jfabiani I know we can be friends with all our dreams of chat more on hangouts?
I wish I had a mother like Blanca as I grew up as a gay man. She would have definitely raised me right
Can I ask you a question? Were you safe? After watching this show, I worry about kids like Damon, Angel, Ricky. What happens if they don't have someone like Blanca, Elektra, and Pray Tell?
@@msrain1235 they di3
@garryeagle ❤
U wouldn’t have been gay if u were raised right 😂😂
@@msrain1235
I'll tell you what happens, children like me live in denial, in fear, scared and without feeling a home and someone who understands us and accepts us as we are, when I saw POSE I cried, I want a home sm...
They deserve each other! They are a power couple!
And if you can't accept that your gonna lose me 🥺🥺🥺 wow deep powerful words
This was such a powerful scene. Blanca was unapologetically herself and stood up for herself in the face of injustice. And to add the cherry on top, the person she loved, did not just stand by and not say anything. He opened his mouth, peotected his woman like a man should. Even when the face of injustice was that of his own mother. She didnt need him to, but he did it anyways. That right there speaks VOLUMES.
Wow, this teeny tiny little video excerpt sure brought out the fringe dwellers and freaks. LOVE IS LOVE>
Love your username!👋🏼I love Will & Grace!🤩😍And Karen Walker, lol.😅
I’m not sure what you’re trying to say. So people who haven’t watched the whole series yet express positive views on this teeny tiny little video are the fringe dwellers and freaks? Or do you mean the people who get triggered by any mention of trans people? Honest question.
that's right standing by he love of your life.
See, this is how you rightfully win a Golden Globe.
Blanca stand up for herself talk that talk
Ive learned so much from this show. And I feel blessed to have my mind opened more to the struggles of the LGBTQ community. I dont want to be ignorant and intolerant like this woman is.
I want to be accepting of the people my future children choose to love. So long as that person makes them happy and isnt hurting them. Then thats all I'll ever need to know❤
So far every single clip of Pose on RUclips is a variation of this scene.
The irony of this woman saying that Blanca "can't be a mother". SMDH
I just happened upon this clip & am not familiar with this series, but this is how minds are changed. Putting trans folks in the media builds acceptance. Good on this.
That's not how it works its about how they are presented, whether people's reservations can be satisfied, if anything this is bad rep.
Worth a watch. POSE!
@@crown9413 have you watched pose at all??? How is this bad representation??
I love the way she stood up for herself. Us women can learn a lot from our trans Sistah’s. Because I know so many cis women who would have set through the abuse and dealt with it.
Good for Them ! ... Carry On .
Who here knows that while in utero … at the very beginning of embryonic status… all genders look exactly the same?
Who knows next, that according to the genetic code delivered, that determines whether the embryo begins to develop internal (female) or external (male) sex organs?
Who is also aware, that there are human beings born with both internal (female) and external (male) sex organs?
After all that knowing… why is it such a stretch to believe that IF, someone can be born with visible male and female sexual organs simultaneously, that another can also be born with internal gender mis-identity?
There have been countless stories of people being born with ambiguous genitalia and the parents deciding at birth which gender the child will be and after the child grew up it was discovered that the parents chose the wrong gender to assign to them. The human did NOT identify internally with the sexual organs they presented. How is this anyone’s fault or doing in terms of this possibility existing? The infant certainly did not make this ambiguous genitalia come about consciously nor did the mother or father. It just happens. And then there is a dilemma. And choices to be made. How is it impossible for some of you out there to imagine that could also happen internally with hormones etc?? Aren’t we all a series of chemical compounds and reactions? How can anyone be so sure that a transgender person does not truly feel the way that they do? Can’t you just be happy that you were not born with such a dilemma and not make their lives harder than necessary with your harsh condemnations? Just my two cents. Take it or leave it but I pray just be kind at the very least.
@Rain its definitely not insane. Our gender is literally a thing because of our consciousness. I am a woman not because i have breast and a vagina but because in my every day life that's how I feel. I feel feminine, beautiful and take pride in being a woman. I cant even have children. If my body magically turned into a male body the next day I would still be a woman. Because that is who I am inside. We are consciousness walking around in a flesh suit, controlling it. My flesh does not dictate who I am and it never will. If we base are gender on our body alone then you would have to say intersex people are both woman and man. Where do they fit in society??? Don't they have a say? There are also people born with androgynous bodies, women with perfectly flat chest, big clitoris. Men with petite frames and micro penises, women who have no vagina at all or can't have children. Bodies are not cut and dry enough to be the base of gender identity. Its just not black and white.
LOL thats cuz all eggs are X chromosome hence why ppl say everyone starts out as female and why males have nipples. just one chromosome until fertilized with sperm. then its official what the sex is. that being said, an unfertilized egg is incomplete. you cant be just one chromosome. nice try
thank you
Intersex people are at 1%!
Beautifully said. I've said something similar, but not as eloquently -- autism makes my points, sometimes, sound like scribble scrabble. I appreciate putting it together in this way 🫶🏾
Any man who can stand up to his mother for his woman is a prince in my book.
there! A real man!
Bianca is so lucky.
This scene right here
HELL YEA 👏🏻👏🏻
Oh I'm in love with him!!!!
The only thing missing in this comment section are some pictures of shirtless old men.
Why?
DILIVAAAA DELIVER BAYYY DILIVAAA DILIVAAA DILIIIIIIIIIVAAAAAAAAA
This entire comment section missed the whole point of the show.
SLAY
I would've left since the psychiatrist comment
Even in 2024, to find a man like this is a RARITY. smh
Blanca fiance stands up for her sept 5 2023
What s the name of the show I must watch it .
Pose.
@@Moona1966 ty!
Pose
Posie.
the mom looks like Doja Cat
Good for you, son!
Thats a gentelman
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No
You’re the first comment
Wooooo
What’s the name of the series?
Pose 👍
Losers anonymous !!
@@j.a.0088 Would you like some cheese for your whine?
The Ongoing Emasculation of Black Men by Racist White Feminists. I believe this is season two.
@@richardhart9204 That fragile eh?
What season is this
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I'm stuck i can understand d mother n I'm happy for her son
👏trans👏women 👏are👏women
Thank you for speaking facts. I really don't get why people can't understand that. It's common sense people.
No there not
@@estherthequeen3473 Oof. Better remove your status as queen.
A real queen tells the truth and that is what I just. Did and if you cannot take it that is on you
@@estherthequeen3473 truth where? All I see is transphobia.
How are some of yall transphobic and watch pose i dont get it😂
And folks kill me talking about children as if theres not an ocean of sweet faced children waiting to be adopted. Even two healthy cis gendered adults are not guaranteed to have a child. Shit happens and you do the best with what youve got.
Exactlyy
Blanca is soooooo beautiful
the new darh man
I'm sorry, but it's was unrealistic of Blanca to just expect his mum to have that sprung on her and immediately accept it. Especially when she was so hostile towards her in her delivery. It seemed as if she was trying to have a conversation, as ingorant as she was it was an excellent opportunity to educate her. No, imo Blanca had the WRONG approach! And that itty bitty skirt is too short to be going out to dinner with you bf parents.
Since mother started being condescending Blanca stop owing her patience, latin people have pride and we are raised not to take anyone's bs when we are worth respect.
Honestly, that's how I viewed it too.
Yeah but why was Blanca so aggressive with that poor woman😭
Because in this episode and the other the mom kept makig backhanded compliments or snide remarks so she had made her feel like shit in a previous episode,but yeah she went off on her this time LOL I mean respect is free man,the mom could've calmed down.
😂 THE mother is not wrong for speaking the truth 😂
So basically this was her son's "coming out" moment.
Yeah - coming out as being in love with a fabulous woman.
Opening the door, yes, but to let her/them decide to come into his world; not for him to walk out of it
Opening the door, yes, but to let her/them decide to come into his world; not for him to walk out of it
There is lot of bi men out there anyway. We are all human and want love .
i don't think this dude is bi. he loves a woman, after all.
@@marachime FINALLY SOMEBODY IN COMMENT SECTION WHO CALLS BLANCA A WOMAN AND ACTUALLY ACCEPTS TRANS PEOPLE-
@@silk.and.cologne That is not a woman. That is a man pretending to be a woman. A woman has female genitals. A woman is XX. This person has neither. It doesn't mean that he can't express himself however he wants, but he will never be a woman.
@@xixingpooh and you’re a Chinese Pooh bear. Why should any of us even listen to you.
@@xixingpooh if she can express herself however she wants how about you respect that and call her a WOMAN like she WANTS? what is that? you don't want to? you dont respect it? what else dont you respect and are willing to risk be disrespected because someone else doesnt respect it like you do?
sit tf down.
"Mankind will not have peace until it turns with trust to My mercy." (from the Diary of Saint Faustina Kowalska; 300)
Is that a threat?
Why you spamming these in this comment section?
So sad ...and tragic ..
Its a good show. Get over it.
@@jfabiani if you are a man get over it .
All I ever wanted every time I hear Blanca speaks is to pass her some lozenges! Gosh that constant breaks in her voice is bloody annoying!!!! 😅 No shade, I do like her character thou...✌
Trans Rights are Human Rights, btw
loooooooooooooooooooool
Adoramus Te Domine
May we know Him more clearly and love Him more dearly ...
He sounds needy.
Sounds desperate
Indeed, the religion in the sight of Allah is Islam. And those who were given the Scripture did not differ except after knowledge had come to them - out of jealous animosity between themselves. And whoever disbelieves in the verses of Allah, then indeed, Allah is swift in [taking] account.(إِنَّ ٱلدِّینَ عِندَ ٱللَّهِ ٱلۡإِسۡلَـٰمُۗ وَمَا ٱخۡتَلَفَ ٱلَّذِینَ أُوتُوا۟ ٱلۡكِتَـٰبَ إِلَّا مِنۢ بَعۡدِ مَا جَاۤءَهُمُ ٱلۡعِلۡمُ بَغۡیَۢا بَیۡنَهُمۡۗ وَمَن یَكۡفُرۡ بِـَٔایَـٰتِ ٱللَّهِ فَإِنَّ ٱللَّهَ سَرِیعُ ٱلۡحِسَابِ)
[سورة آل عمران 19]
Another religious freak. Go wish to a cloud in the sky or something.
That really is a lot for a Parent to take in.
That her son is in a consensual relationship with another adult?
girl please
Really?
That their child has a life of his own and chooses to live it on his terms?
People act like the parents the victims like idgaf they have adult kids,they have their own life,why do they care so much they arent in the relationship ofc,so...yk.
Stabat Mater Dolorosa
Mother in law is eager to see her grandchildren which will never happen with this relationship .
There's always adoption.
@@jmikhael5200 - hey ! I'm a Great - Grandfather ... But the HATE, is NOT for me.
@@RoaroftheTiger
Which hate??
@@jmikhael5200 - Sorry your looking to Pick a a Fight. But, a better question to me, would be; "How is it being a Great - Grandfather ?" Which brings to mind; In "your world", aren't You taught to respect your Elders ? So who are You, "To throw Stones" ???
@@RoaroftheTiger
I am someone who believes that this is wrong and don't agree with it .
I do respect every one but I don't have to like everyone.
And Mama! if you don't change your Evil ways! no one is gonna Love you! Anywhere! Anyplace! or Anytime!. Now how do you want me to cook these Greens?.
They do blaspheme who say: Allah is one of three in a Trinity: for there is no god except One Allah. If they desist not from their word (of blasphemy), verily a grievous penalty will befall the blasphemers among them.(لَّقَدۡ كَفَرَ ٱلَّذِینَ قَالُوۤا۟ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ ثَالِثُ ثَلَـٰثَةࣲۘ وَمَا مِنۡ إِلَـٰهٍ إِلَّاۤ إِلَـٰهࣱ وَ ٰحِدࣱۚ وَإِن لَّمۡ یَنتَهُوا۟ عَمَّا یَقُولُونَ لَیَمَسَّنَّ ٱلَّذِینَ كَفَرُوا۟ مِنۡهُمۡ عَذَابٌ أَلِیمٌ)
[سورة المائدة 73]
Proof apart from a religious book wrote hundreds of years ago by straight men?
Proof? Apart from a religious book wrote hundreds of years ago by men?
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Already completely lost...
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I kinda actually understand the point of view of the mother. I mean at the time it was quite unusual for a son to bring home a transsexual girlfriend, she actually had genuine questions, she wasn’t trying to discriminate her. For a woman of her time she was actually quite mild towards Blanca
She could ask questions nicely but she was definitely discriminating and picking at Blanca in as many ways as she could. As a parent if your children are happy with their partner (as long as that partner is of age and there is not abuse or harming each other) I really see no reason for issues. The mother is a bigot full stop.
@@gabby.maya11 I don’t think she was discriminating or at least, to a point where it was problematic, she was obviously shocked, but didn’t seem unfamiliar with the subject. If I had a conversation with her I wouldn’t be offended, coming from a trans perspective.
@@emiiannotta8634 She was intentionally being bigoted.
@@emiiannotta8634 Her tone is pretty threatening, if I do say so myself. It's kind of hard to not get pissed at her questions.
I mean why can't people exist without their existence being debated? Like really think about how depressing that is. Personally, I would hate for people to want to have a ted talk filled with these "genuine questions" about whether is it right if I exist or not. If they aren't actively harming others people existing shouldn't be a topic of debate.
Have they not traveled through the earth and observed how was the end of those before them? They were greater than them in power, and they plowed the earth and built it up more than they have built it up, and their messengers came to them with clear evidences. And Allah would not ever have wronged them, but they were wronging themselves.(أَوَلَمۡ یَسِیرُوا۟ فِی ٱلۡأَرۡضِ فَیَنظُرُوا۟ كَیۡفَ كَانَ عَـٰقِبَةُ ٱلَّذِینَ مِن قَبۡلِهِمۡۚ كَانُوۤا۟ أَشَدَّ مِنۡهُمۡ قُوَّةࣰ وَأَثَارُوا۟ ٱلۡأَرۡضَ وَعَمَرُوهَاۤ أَكۡثَرَ مِمَّا عَمَرُوهَا وَجَاۤءَتۡهُمۡ رُسُلُهُم بِٱلۡبَیِّنَـٰتِۖ فَمَا كَانَ ٱللَّهُ لِیَظۡلِمَهُمۡ وَلَـٰكِن كَانُوۤا۟ أَنفُسَهُمۡ یَظۡلِمُونَ)
[سورة الروم 9]
I am the first comment I win an intense dinner
"Well my Son, I guess it's goodbye forever, or until you come to your senses."
Richard Hart is a shitty tyrant who would leave their child for loving someone.
@Melissa Leon Why would you say goodbye to your child forever just because they were trans? I'd think I'd love my child either way. Plenty of people dont breed, but they are still loved by their families.
@Melissa Leon "Concern" is one thing, but you dont reject your child for loving someone. Plenty of people dont have children and they are still valued by their parents. Some women cannot have children but that does not mean they dont deserve love. You seem obsessed with the breeding thing, but really, your children are not your brood mares.
"Sayonara Mom🤚🏾"
@@ninibugg6203 Sayonara ... "Son" ...
Blanca had a bad Attitude, she was extremely combative even without having to be. That’s not how you talk to your partner’s mother even if they are being rude, which I don’t believe the mother was until Blanca start with all the neck rolling. It seem like Blanca was projecting.
@july Just because you have a right to, doesn't mean you should
Blanca knew his mom was gaslighting her. She isn’t stupid.
@@hanaj - Your "on the Money" ! ... well said.
Blanca had to deal with so much shit her entire life, especially after her transition. And her boyfriend’s mom continued to disrespect her, talk down to her, and belittle her. Blanca stood up not only for her pride, but for identity. She was in the right.
If you had to deal with crap your whole life you would have an attitude too. And she was polite to the mum but she still continued to disrespect Bianca and belittle her. At some point you you have to say enough is enough
That’s a man
Oh give me a break.
Let's not shame the mum people need time to process you can't expect her to just jump for joy it's shocking news especially for a son she has raised all her life the grand children he told her he would have all that changed and she deserves to grieve just as much
If she wants to mourn at an empty grave that's on her
Ok true but you cannot excuse the Mum's attitude, her approach to the situation wasn't very effective, it was pretty snarky, snobby, and elusive. If she wanted to ask questions, or if she wanted to process the situation very well, make it clear. Don't try and shame your son's partner.
Exactly, people give no grace to women to at all. She's not wrong for feeling how she feels!
There is a big difference between needing time to process and being down right disrespectful
@@gentleauroraasmr8562 Girl what about the grace that she didnt give to Blanca,she kept judging her up and down in this episode or anther,atp your feelings are irrelevan if you look down upon on someone and this was even before she knew she was trans.
Yes how to have kids !!!!!! This women was right
That’s a man, therefore the relationship will be a genetic dead end.
Gender femenine, sex male, that's a fact, their relationship is a genetic dead end, also facts. They know it and that is only their buisness, facts.
If the lady wanted grandchildren she should've had more kids, cuz lots of people don't want children.
Know the difference of sex and gender,gender is what you identify as,sex is what you got down there.Thats a woman who cant have kids ofc,but adoptions a thing idk why people acting like its the end of the world too,and what if they dont want any?
-they can adopt children and raise it as their own-
I would have said the moment you started dating a man trying to be a woman i lost you so sad.
girl stfu
@@allistxr first I'm a grown woman don't be disrespectful second I doubt very seriously you would say that to my face if you saw me.
Why would offer your hatred, fear, and disapproval to people in love? That is so ugly and wrong.
@@jfabiani Why do you conflate what she said with hatred and fear? It sounds like disapproval, sure. People disapprove of other peoples actions all the time. Doesn't mean that there's hatred or fear attached. That's weak.
@@xixingpooh Because the disapproval is without merit. I watched the show. Its in the script. I understand earned disapproval, but the source of the mothers disdain was not earned but rather sheer bigotry.
I'm happy Blanca got with a man who loves her but i do not think Christopher mother was wrong. These are reasonable questions. How does he expect to have children with a trans woman who biologically can't? Theres no rule book for how a biological woman is suppose to take the fact her son is with a transwoman.
damn mama, if dudes wanna b with dudes thats them i just dont think the female gentleman should be flexin on the other guys mom
hes not with a man
@@SoldierOfLoveForNow Blanca has a penis…. That’s a man
"While there is still time, let them have recourse to the fount of My mercy; let them profit from the Blood and Water which gushed for them." (from the Diary of Saint Faustina Kowalska; partial record 848)
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Nah
Booooooo 👹
The mother had every right to be concern and ask the questions to get better understanding of the situation. The son could have handled it in a better manner. There were parents during that era that had every right to be concerned about their children's choice of company not because of religion or beliefs, but because their love for their children but the majority situations, the child hopped on the self righteous guilt trip wagon instead of actually given their parents a chance to listen and understand their point of view.
They already had,but they kept being very ignorant and kept acting up on Blanca in previous episodes,so if anything they ruined it for their son.
@NativeBrownboy : Why are ALWAYS the children to have to be understandable ??, why can parents just accept their kids when they aren't doing ANYTHING wrong ??!! .
@@giuliapicchiotti in that era, the children were infact doing things very, very wrong, which resulted in most of them getting infected and dying an early life they had just begun. There was, a shit ton of fowl play at hand in the gay community which literally prayed on the ignorant and those who had no at home support.
@@giuliapicchiotti Why is it always the children have to be accepted. Why not the parents?? Why can't ya understand a parents concern?? Why can't ya accept a parents wishes?? They literally gave you life, a life which you wouldn't be able to live nor experience anything out of. People will kids are people too and if that's the case then you can't call it abuse or neglect if the kid isn't accepted in the household anymore. If they are their own person then why should parents take care of them?? And if you say well that's the parents job but it's also the kids job as well. To take care of them, to carry out the legacy, the family tree, to continue what they built. That's the child's job as well they arent on this planet for nothing, they're not here just so they can do whatever they want 🙄 ya need to get ur minds straight.
It isn’t every day that your son bring home a...man
Thank you
But that son didn't, he brought home a beautiful strong woman. But even if he brought home a man as long as they loved and supported one another that is all that matters.
@@rosieg6989 That is not a woman. That is biologically a man.
@@xixingpooh Actually she is only genetically a man, as science has proven that biologically trans people are born with the same size brain as there cis counterparts, meaning trans womens brains are far closer to cis womens then cis men.
@@rosieg6989 That does not change his chromosomal makeup, bone density, genitals, etc. If he were to die tomorrow and his skeletal remains reviewed, they would be able to conclude he was male. This isn't a reality people can escape from by creating new terms, changing their appearance or even surgery. This is just biological fact.
What a lot of crappy crap crap….
Well here's a revolutionary idea .. don't watch it.
@@PlatinumRoseLady oh and quick witted too!
Let people live their life and get one of your own,ideally where u help make the world a better place and help people instead of tearing both down.
Biological man is what commonsensical wise what the mother is seeing. Soo sad this world has come to. NOO OFFENSES HERE
no offense yet you're saying that you're sad bc the world has trans ppl. go away...
take a biological class past high school level and you'll revise your statement.
Educate yourself and come back.
@@Conchitaakirb Man common sense is sure tough to come by these days.
@@UTubeGoNSoft687 Even biology says that their a man so you don't need to learn anything. These people need help. And it is sad that common sense and reality is being changed by bigoted people.
This man would never be a woman... instead physical change they would be better off seeing shrink ...!
Trans people literally have to see therapists before they are even allowed to medically transition. They have to see three types of doctors who thoroughly examine them physically and mentally before determining their claims are legit and allowing them to proceed in their transition.
Christ the son of Mary was no more than a messenger; many were the messengers that passed away before him. His mother was a woman of truth. They had both to eat their (daily) food. See how Allah doth make His signs clear to them; yet see in what ways they are deluded away from the truth!(مَّا ٱلۡمَسِیحُ ٱبۡنُ مَرۡیَمَ إِلَّا رَسُولࣱ قَدۡ خَلَتۡ مِن قَبۡلِهِ ٱلرُّسُلُ وَأُمُّهُۥ صِدِّیقَةࣱۖ كَانَا یَأۡكُلَانِ ٱلطَّعَامَۗ ٱنظُرۡ كَیۡفَ نُبَیِّنُ لَهُمُ ٱلۡـَٔایَـٰتِ ثُمَّ ٱنظُرۡ أَنَّىٰ یُؤۡفَكُونَ)
[سورة المائدة 75]
Matthew stands up for himself
Who the hell is Mathew? This comment makes no sense, love.
@@aiyannashannon9989 Im assuming they're trying to be transphobic and call Blanca Matthew.
Pure cringe.
"He who refuses to pass through the door of My mercy must pass through the door of My justice..." (from the Diary of Saint Faustina Kowalska; partial record 1146)
Sounds like a tyrant control freak.
No one asked for the preaching. Talk about the show or go away.
A nice fairy tail. This is a great lesson to know for the transphobes and people discriminating against LBGTQIA+ people.
We could also just refuse to pass through your door. No need for a petty judging dressed up as "mercy"
Nah
Terrible thing to say, that Blanca is his life, when jesus is the only life.
We are talking about the judgement day
When CHRIST comes,Blanca will realize ,how badly he was destroyed on earth, as he opposed God's design for him.
You are never going to bring people to God if this is how you behave.
Leviticus and deuteronomy are the books where God the creator, warned the Israelites and other human beings to be ware ,else, destruction. I can't sugar coat the warnings concerning our morals.
@@chichiudaku1805 you realise the bible saying being gay is wrong is a mistake in the translation right? it said something a long the lines of ‘man shall not lay next to boy’ as in an adult should not sleep with a child. it was against pedophillia and not against LGBTQAI+. and according to the bible you should ‘love your neighbour’. LGBTQAI+ people count as neighbours. oh also the only reason they didn’t correct the mistranslation from the bible was because of priests who groomed and manipulated children into a sexual relationship.
@@chichiudaku1805 What proof do you have the bible is real?
@@C6Wolveswell u can find the bible in churches and libraries so i think it does exist
Why turn they not to Allah, and seek His forgiveness? For Allah is Oft-forgiving, Most Merciful.(أَفَلَا یَتُوبُونَ إِلَى ٱللَّهِ وَیَسۡتَغۡفِرُونَهُۥۚ وَٱللَّهُ غَفُورࣱ رَّحِیمࣱ)
[سورة المائدة 74]
Bacon sandwich ?
@@j.a.0088 😂😂😂😂
"Tell sinners that I am always waiting for them, that I listen intently to the beating of their heart... when will it beat for Me ?" (from the Diary of Saint Faustina Kowalska; partial record 1728)
Insecurity wants all hearts to beat for him? Strange.
Nah
"In the Old Covenant I sent prophets wielding thunderbolts to My people. Today I am sending you with My mercy to the people of the whole world." (from the Diary of Saint Faustina Kowalska; partial record 1588)
We're still angry about the thunderbolts!
You are like a child who believes a fairytale. Cept you wont let it go.
Love doesn’t send you hell peoples I’ll listen to the mom on this one man and women create a family not same sex
Thankfully science has come a long way, for them surrogacy is a great option, and for other lgbt couples other options include artificial insemination, and ivf. Trans women can also breast feed if they want to. And within the next decade ivg will allow any couple (no matter biological sex) to have a baby together, and uterus transplants with the help of ivf will allow trans women to have periods, get pregnant, and carry a baby for 8 and a half months. But even if all these options didn't exist adoption is still a very noble option.
ma don't decide what he does with his life or afterlife
"But I want to tell you that eternal life must begin already here on earth through Holy Communion. Each Holy Communion makes you more capable of communing with God throughout eternity." (from the Diary of Saint Faustina Kowalska; record 1811)