Casey zander i want to flag your video for that thumbnail but im not going to because i respect you much please consider this a warning and um try to be a bit less 18+ I've yet to watch the video
Been watching his content since a year now, this man is the only genuine RUclipsr among his colleagues who make videos on same stuff. It’s like he breaks down everything to you and puts so much effort. God bless you Casey.
It's a bit fun, but at the end of the day I notice that he is a pretty handsome fellow and this is going to make a huge difference in his experience. Average guy it will be bit different. "Dating is easy, just be yourself" -- Henry Cavill
I agree with you but you also really gotta check on "Fitxfearless". He's a beast in the game and one of the realest and (Get to the point) guy. Respect to Casey too.
@@rickstoic6907 that's true... the caveat that he should mention is that when a man is confident, content, and sure of himself he will attract a woman in his attractiveness bracket rather than not attracting any woman at all. If a guy doesn't fit contemporary beauty standards and is not wealthy, the most he can aim for is a woman of the same speed. He's not landing a model nor a conventionally attractive female. It is what it is.
If you can be a man that treats her well, has a purpose, in control of his life, his mind and emotions yet could cheat, there’s other women wanting him.. that’s the sweet spot women just love competing, be the man worth competing for!
There's still a chance of her cheating. Guys will be bluepill and be extra sweet to a girl, give her gifts and shower her with attention. Then go "red pill" sort of like casey content and who the audience is and limit attention, fuck with her by teasing and shit and get her attached. But ultimately, both of these mindsets are coming from the same place. You are doing all of these things for her. The motivation is the same. You HAVE TO truly not give a fuck and be focused on yourself and they will be a byproduct of this. Fuck the "sweet spot" for women you shouldn't care about that.
@@LuisNMW I agree, always a chance of cheating.. when a man lives in abundance and internal peace, yes sir you just don’t give a **** and that’s the attitude they crave. They come and go as they please, a man should see them as the cherry on top not the cake, I’m 30 now and ow I get the attention of the young ones and older just because I treat everyone with charisma, the confidence is real no need to prove it.
This is gold! That aspect of being stoic and not worried about whether or not you’re having sex and how you’re comfortable in his own skin is great advice.
Considering if everything can be taken from you by a woman. It's worth more investing in yourself. Did you know the only reason big smart bucks die? Because they chase female deer. No other reason why they will get caught. We do alot of dumb stuff for women we wouldn't normally do if it was just us.
Except for the fact that you're essentially pretending disinterest in sexual intimacy, it becomes difficult to sustain the pretense indefinitely. Even after two months of pretending, if your partner continues to show no interest, it raises questions about the validity of the belief that you genuinely don't care about receiving any intimate connection. At this point, it may be worth reconsidering whether the notion of not desiring it remains accurate.
Well, it's nuanced. You can't keep pretending disinterest indefinitely and that's not the point he's making. What he's essentially saying is that you shouldn't appear so desperate for it because not only can that be used against you but it'll make you look weak in front of her. It should happen with the flow and if she seems receptive enough, you should initiate sexual contact. What happens usually is that the guy rushes things and wants to escalate too soon and that often isn't reciprocated. It's a case by case basis. @@thedutyofman
Brother, I’ve battlefield-tested this mindset-or in my case, I was born with it. It really is the truth. I just focus on getting to know them without even thinking about sex. When they bring something up, I say something like, “You don’t have to do that, let’s just chill,” and it drives them even crazier. But honestly, I wholeheartedly don’t care about quick dopamine hits or instant gratification through sex and in general. Once you become aware that most things-like casinos, nightclubs, marketing, or mainstream products-are designed to exploit your brain chemistry, you’ll not only become more powerful with women but also in life overall. Avoid instant gratification at all costs for an extended period and watch the transformation happen. Sex is just a temporary fleeting feeling, meaningless if you dont actually plan to have children with her.
I so love this guy. I'm a woman myself & I'm amazed at how he understands how women's mind & emotions operate. He is so right & on point. Just be in the present moment with the woman that you want. That's it. Just enjoy the moment. Period. Nothing else matters.
There's a book called Casanova Optimization of Attraction, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
I just got a book from this site, and I’m loving it. Thanks for pointing me in the right direction I’m finally feeling like I can address my fear of women.
As a woman, I agree. Men desperate for sex is a turn off for me. It shows weakness. Showing strength, care and other qualities provoke a woman to feel safe, let her guard down and trust you. I have tried sharing this with guys.
You can be the hottest celebrity and athlete and those guys still get cheated on, dumped, divorced, betrayed, looking inward where your true value lies is definitely worth it. It seems so simple yet it's something so many men struggle with throughout their lives regardless of how successful and physically attractive they are. Beautiful video, makes total sense.
Amen. This will be the last video I consume for the evening so I can marinate on this idea. Truly an enlightening philosophy and I started to wonder "how many things do I participate in because of societal programming, like going to church, why do I go to church when I've really started to not find it meaningful or valuable." This question could literally be asked about anything "Why did I start learning Spanish. Why did I start wanting to Salsa dance. Why did I get a dog, etc. etc. etc.." It really made me sit back and think that there are levels to this shit, and it's almost like the philosophy of "I have fuck you money now, you cannot cancel me." And as he said, this isn't a license to be evil just because you have "found yourself", rather you stop becoming the societal jester who is strictly being used as entertainment for other people. And you stop becoming a slave to things that don't matter to you, only to your reputation or perception. This guy is really fucking sharp and I appreciate just the few videos I've consumed. Take care, good luck on your quest for self-acceptance.
Except it’s not completely accurate. I’ve watched quite insecure dudes get every female in a general area just by being attractive… the concept of not giving a fuck is good but if you’re not attractive in the face then you’re 100% limited on what level of female u can attract.
@@baileybuckley4796 Also not completely accurate. They might get the ladies because they're physically attractive, but usually end up paying heavily for the insecurity underneath in an actual relationship, and i've seen the opposite where a guy is dating way out of his league but ends up having a good relationship, granted that is even less frequent in the digital era with people choosing life partners like it's from a catalog.
@@baileybuckley4796 100% fact! If you're a 5 you can f@ck you're confidence and mind game, 9's and 10's won't even let you speak, it will be over before you open you're mouth period.
Always have a prenuptial. Years ago my ex wife wanted out, and I sent her on the way. I kept my house, my car, my dog and all of my money. She left with what she brought. 6k, her clothes, some furniture, credit card debt and cookware then moved back home to mom and dad. Haven't spoken but twice in 20 years.
You crushed this one CZ. This one brings back a time when I was about 21 and I started dating this girl. I was 6 weeks out from a competition and I flat out told her that we weren’t getting intimate until after my show. It drove her bananas.
Casey is way ahead of his peers bro. I've been slowly applying myself to his teachings and it's game changer. From super nice guy, afraid to overstep boundaries with women to confidently speak my desires... and the results are astounding lol.
Instead of being unsure of when to express my desire for women, I now tease and banter openly (within reasons of course). I've learned that women are far more emotional then we are as men, so instead of talking logic, I create an atmosphere of light/fun/humor for us to enjoy ourselves. @@IvanRubin
@@IvanRubin Talk about Job improvement=More money, You want to Travel some Places= he is not Boring, Treating yourself with some High quality food and buy the things you never could before=He is Living and enjoying life. Those things Signal Stability without being boring.
This is a really helpful video and especially for the guy that need to realise that they should’t be shy or insecure, because they matter. Guys, let’s break our fears and became the best version of ourselves so we can attract what we deserved. Preach!
No wonder Casey says this video is his most important every time. He’s not lying. When the content keeps on getting better and better, every recent video will be the best yet. Keep up the good shit brother
Bro this video is literaly gold. Can't explain how much I needed this video right now. Can't put it in word. There are still smart people in this world.
Now I will tell you after my body changed a year into the gym, my confidence skyrocketed. I’ve always been an extrovert but my view of my looks was too low to match my extrovert energy in regards to approaching women. Changed my body and money and now I have the confidence to use my extroversion. Crazy difference. Remember if you fake it till you make it enough you will literally become what you’re faking
Woman cant control there attraction, Facts! & that's from experience. damn what you said 100! i've experienced most of these situations as a man. Your the best dating coach thus far! Keep it up!
I swear you were talking to me throughout this video. Thank you for taking your time to make these. I just found your channel, I’ve watched three videos and already my life has changed. Thank you. 🙏🏿
It's all about confidence. Everything that builds your confidence is good for you. And demonstrating that confidence to women is what they like the most.
I watched your videos and it reminds me of something I always tell my clients. If your content, product or service is good you don't have to convince people to buy into it. I see a Man that truly cares about his audience and delivers content that actually solves the problem of masculinity. People maintain power with violence, manipulation and fear and if your woman is telling you that this content is toxic then she does not respect you and you need to leave her.
“I am who I say I am” that is gold. Men we must have congruency w our words and our actions. Every man has failed at this including me. Those who have learned this discipline are always better internally and externally than the average man. Just recently I told my gf I was getting up at 5:30am to work out. We stayed up till 2:00am having a great conversation. I didn’t go work out at 5:30am… I failed a shit test I set for myself 😂. Thankfully I recognized it and I will go to bed at a reasonable hour and start the day off right next time.
Great vid! It’s exactly how I feel about dating women. Im a bit jaded by life. Jaw has been twisting off my neck for well over a decade from a car accident. Now after surgery my confidence is sky high!
*Understanding the psychology behind female attachment is key to building deeper connections. This breakdown of how desire and emotional bonding work really explains why trust and consistent behavior matter so much in relationships.*
Casey your theories are more thought out and accurate about female nature than many other opinions I've seen or read. I'd take your concepts about inner masculinity and say embracing and cultivating this part of yourself is the key to true fulfilment in life, not just towards successful relationships with women.
Learning to let go of the need for external validation is powerful. Certainly just the awareness of it. They want that so much and desperately rush to the feeling of it in men. All about FEELING. I wish all of my fellow men the best on their journey in it. Casey is basically taking what Patrice Oneal espoused and boiled it down to the next basic element without rage.
Very cool video A month ago, I ended a five-year relationship. My soulmate made the decision to walk away from me, and even though I've done everything in my power to get him back, I can't help but feel disappointed because I can't see my life with anyone else. I want to say that I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I simply can't. I miss him so much and I don't know why I'm saying this here.
I learnt the hard way that saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult when a 12-year relationship ends. But I was unable to let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counsellor, and he was able to assist me in getting him back.
I appreciate you providing this important information; I've just checked him up online. striking I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and wow, he's really genuine. Thank you so much again ❤
At first i was thinking this is gonna be weak... By the end i tell you this man is spot on! There's several gems within this board talk. Applause my guy, this is grown man mentality. Str8 game next level on all levels... Great job
I say this with the utmost gratitude and sincerity, this video is deep. I've learned more in this 22+ minute video than all the Red Pilled content I've consumed over the years.
Men. Why Casey is so confident and intelligent is awareness. He may have naturally gained it or worked on it but MEDITATION is a great tool to develop that internal confidence. When you know yourself, know what you want and where your going. Those kinda cute girls that are bad for you, you’ll brush them off and they’ll beg to sleep with you. The woman you want will respect you and fall into your frame as well because your making decisions and have a vision. Remember, not every single girl will like you, so you will “fail” at times. Micheal Jordan has missed thousands of shots, he never gave up and is a goat. Use that same philosophy
Meditation is a great tool but it’s even better when combined with semen retention. When practicing semen retention, you will have no choice but to be in frame. It comes 100% naturally
This was a fantastic video one of my all time favorite Zander videos, what he said about the internals and even giving all those things to someone insecure on the inside how it would not change them was a genius take.
Yeh, my dad taught me a LONG time ago, just do your thing, in a good productive way, and women will latch onto who they want. Doing your thing, but making yourself available, is the best way to get the girl you want.
Hey Casey, I've been watching your videos for a few months now, and I want to say thank you. I've experienced highs and lows in terms of my own personal development, but because of severe deficiencies in self-confidence I've never been very attractive towards women, or I succeed in the first few steps, then insecurity rears up and she exits. I've struggled with needing other people's approval for the majority of my life. Meanwhile I've watched others succeed in relationships apparently effortlessly. Through watching your content I've been able to realize that your internal frame of self confidence, your internal masculinity is what women are really filtering for. Not looks, not money, not external success, they are hardwired to fall for your confidence in yourself. This is why men who are successful with women are often not always successful in other areas of their lives: they might have mediocre careers, average looks, average intelligence, but as long as they are unshakeable in their confidence women find them attractive. This trait of self confidence has become extremely rare in the western world. Secure masculinity that doesn't need external reinforcement is very rare indeed.
Being present with oneself and showing the world who you are take it or leave it, is actually displaying vulnerability, it's courage and actual strength. Some people will like you, some not. Pleasing other people while not being satisfied with oneself is loss of self and weakness. There is no way around it, the only way to win in life, is to love and value oneself, despite circumstances.
So true. Not to be cocky. I was always that tall handsome guy with muscle. But had a lot of insecurities, fears and timidness around women. Believe me they can smell if your internal is weak.
Two things a man should remember in a relationship not to be afraid to say no to a woman and don't be afraid to tell them the rules early that you do not accept. Remember those two things and you will do fine. don't be weak and needy be confident.
Casey is right. Just believe him, and you will see instant results. He’s helping you men unwrap the bs and be who you truly are. He’s literally taking me back to who I was when I was 5, who I’ve always known I was. Chicks dig that, more than anything.
‘Women only look at a man in the sense of; Is he 100% confident in his own identity, in his own personality. This is what makes an alpha male. The internal.’ This is probably the most important sentence in this video. It what it all boils down to.
Yeah that’s the way it sounds . Im a super masculine man and have a 10 for a girlfriend . She didn’t get turned off when I show her my vulnerability - and sensitivity
Women fall in love with men who have principles and boundaries. Narcissists have boundaries hence why women are attracted to them. But real men of value aren’t narcissists, they have boundaries and principles and have the confidence to live without a woman.
And then you have the men who are silently confident but can treat you as the woman you should be. But only you would know where he’s confident and isn’t. a man who will say he’s not happy with this or that. But for the right reasons. I could go on. The issue is today. That women don’t like being called out or that a man has boundaries coz that’s then controlling. The issue with a narcissist is that they manipulate you only so you fall in line. being masculine isn’t controlling your woman. but women think it is.
I've found that it's when I start to see myself as higher value and acting a certain way that I've been able to draw in more girls instead of thinking "she is out of my league". Value yourself boys
Awesomw talk. This helped organize things more in my head and understand why I often feel stuck in life. Its like I had a conversation with the wisdom of my youngest and purest self.
Courage comes from the Greek word Cor- meaning from the heart. Without courage you cannot face the truth, handle reality, reject the crowd and ultimately embrace your individuality. Courage to live from the heart comes first. Everything else follows.
So true, I learned to declined intimacy in late twenty, having witness the devastating effect of HIV/AIDS in the mid 80s. Some women even ask what's wrong with me because I don't show interest beyond work or business. Thanks for the reminder, I hope my boys will value it, because it's not from me, the Old Man. May God Bless you & Happy New Year !
I have been studying the topic of seduction and women for many years now. Lots of positive and negative experiences. And I can confidently say that this is one of the best videos on the topic that I have seen.
17:31 Shots fired! I recently found your channel and binged your vids, your message truly resonates within me and I'm grateful that I have access to this knowledge to improve my life. Thanks for sharing your insights!
That’s my brother! Gifting the keys to life to us all free of charge because you care about men as a whole. I’ve been watching you for a couple of years now and you’ve drastically improved my mentality. Thank you Casey.
After 2 years of listening to you off and on, Casey, I came across this particular podcast, and you hit me with the single most important aspect of self-worth when you spoke about the fact that God made us, we are special, and we need to remember this and build our self worth around these foundational words. Yes, pursue self-improvement in all respects, but do it with the remembrance that God made us in His image. Thanks for stating this Casey.
I ultimately think Casey's advice will make you into a better man, not necessarily a "ladies' man." ... And that goodness will, in turn, make you a "ladies' man" to the right kinds of ladies. 😎💪
this is the best video on this that ive genuenly ever seen. Every man should hear this, every last one. Props to you man, doing an amazing job! Have to follow and support genuine men like u. keep it up!
Your RUclips videos alone have changed my sex life, never was not able to get girls or friends but their was a disconnect in some areas that is completely gone now. Whenever I do everything I need to I get king’s treatment and when I slack I get slack treatment, I understand the “formula” throughly because of your videos. From the bottom of my heart and others who haven’t found your videos yet thank you Casey Merry Christmas.
Casey really is god send I’ve been binge watching all this videos on building the internal value and my life has been night and day difference. Do the work gentleman build up that internal confidence
This is the most valuable video i’ve ever seen on RUclips on this topic. You’ve changed my perspective on everything. My new favorite channel and content creator. Thank you brother.
I just wanted to comment, as a woman who watches men’s dating advice videos to get an idea of the men’s side of things, that this is one of the few videos I completely agree with. First off, I always notice men’s version of self improvement (this can happen in women too I just tend to notice it more in men) where they go down the workout pipeline, believing that getting a good physique is the main form of self improvement. Life is about self improvement. The most attractive thing is to see another person improving themselves, for themselves, and learning of the specific ways they are doing it. I would also like to mention that having a passion for something, or even learning of what you truly want to achieve while on your journey of self improvement is a very attractive quality. This ties into the point he mentioned that many women can see right through a man showing off “good qualities on paper”, trying to sell an idea, but he’s only doing it for the purpose of being with more women. Social media praises the sort of loud confidence, the “ fake it till you make it” and the verbal exclaims “I am confident”. True confidence is usually silent and can’t be faked. A person who can sit with themselves or in a group of people and be content with their situation and who they are. This is a very attractive quality. A calm sort of masculinity, a protecting one, I believe puts alot of women in a safe state. (Real women anyways, the ones who are so prideful they won’t allow a man to open the door for them 🙄) Anyhow, he really makes some good points and im glad to see someone making an effort to share genuine advice rather than the superficial things other RUclips channels try to claim.
This is by far the best video I've seen! The diner table analogy in the starting was on point - you've really nailed it ! Basic idea is being confident in yourself and your worth and being unbothered of potential outcomes while also being respectful in interaction ! Keep it up mate !
What you are describing is a sigma male. The name for the new wave of man that is emotionally intelligent, has set his own standards and values, thoughtful, and capable of living his life without approval or validation from others.
You’ve completely changed my outlook on relationships and I’m really grateful to have come across your channel. Can you make a video on getting over the fear of being cheated on and not knowing. I feel it’s the only thing that keeps me from being at my best as a man.
Getting over ANY type of Fear is to learn how Fear can paralyze Your physical body. There's fear of doing something for the first time and there's fear of failing like You did the last time You tried. Fear is only New the first time. It's also one of the most used weapons in warfare and the negotiation process. We all debate internally, but the worst fear is such that loves to take advantage of weakness...
Hate to say it but to overcome your fear you must surround yourself with it. Maybe a better route is to simplify why you have these fears and remove what is causing them instead of overcoming the fear. Or just learn to not care, which is easier said than done.
I was cheated on. It really sucked and broke my confidence down. Something that has worked lately for me letting go of worry to win her back. I realised that I had lost myself, my integrity when I didn't set my own boundaries. Expressing what you want is vulnerability it takes courage. As said in another video women need to be led spiritually. So speaking your truth and sticking by it, is actually the only option, every other way you lose. Loss of integrity is losing every time. Standing for nothing is being nothing. Know thyself, don't lose thyself. Look deep there are many layers and sides to uncover examine as many as possible, there is a bigger picture.
I adopted the 'idgaf' attitude when my first daughter was born. I realised that she was the proirity. It was a double edged sword. I gained wealth, but also weight because I had to spend so much more time at home. It is powerful to be focused though and genuinely not care what anyone thinks.
That's also your prolactin and test levels going up in tandem for a little while as a 'dad reflex' it's rather well-documented response, and I wouldn't sweat it because it can be somewhat temporary but only catch is to make sure you optimize your metabolism and longevity factors to be the best dad you can be for as long as possible, and it also gives you the elusive +900 strength build so stay up and keep it up brother
@@fury_saves_world I had a daughter 2 years ago, I gained some weight as I was dealing with the stress of the mother and being a parent. Recently as I've gotten my life more organized and sorted out I have lost most of the weight and I am in good shape. The weight will come off as the stress eases!
I don't understand the excuse of putting on weight because you were at home. Do some jumping jacks, buy a weight rack, go for a run around the block, optimize your diet, etc. Regardless of any supposed hormonal factors, there is literally no excuse apart from legitimate mental illness, or a lack of knowledge and insight to provide you the practical means to strengthen discipline. As well, you might say stress was a factor? Exercise is one of the most effective and natural ways to deal with stress, and has benefits that ripple into nearly every area of your life. I don't understand how you could make up such an excuse, but feel free to enlighten me.
@@netflowdesign No excuse mate. It was a lack of discipline. I used to exercise because I cared what other people would say if I got fat. Learning to do it purely for my own health in my 20s was hard. Now I'm nearly 40 and I can force myself to do things I hate every day. Plus I get sore if I don't work out so it's less of an issue.
This isn’t a video about getting women attached. This is a video about realizing that self confidence is key. If you do things externally to build that confidence that’s okay, just make sure you’re improving for YOURSELF, not for others. As a side effect, women will likely be attracted to you. Good video.
If you take the time to build your internal confidence before acquiring the external factors, not only will it help you get the external things but when you do, your confidence will truly be unshakable. Imagine being confident while looking like a potato - now imagine that confidence once you have an admirable physique, money, and status. You will feel unstoppable.
So true, good video ! Women do fall in love through words, through personality, true. Men need to see, women need to hear. Through expression. Must be genuine, fake will ruin everything
I have learned two things from you on how to keep a woman attraction and it works like a charm: 1- lower her anxiety on safety ( stable jobs, purpose in life ,ambition , keep improving for myself) 2 - Keep her anxiety on a high level ( been confident, in shape dress well good hygiene and she knows you are desired by other women and you have multiple options and the most important you are able to walk away when she starts her BS)
i swear bro i dont know if its fate but im watching all youre videos and everyt single thing you say is wrong i use to fo with the girl i was dating a year and a half and now i initiated a break up cause it was way too disrespectful. but i feel broken and i know that its just my fault that i wasnt masculine enough and let myself get weaker with her and then she became less feminine. im really investigating this whole thing i have to get better and know why tf shit went so bad for me. thank you bro love you and the contant !
19:44 happens with me every day since high school... simply because i do NOT validate women. I had always been this way since high school and the HOTTEST GIRLS always flocked around me. Because they got CURIOUS, WHY wasn't I giving them validation and attention like other guys. I will never forget the co-worker who ALL the men at work wanted, but I was just chill. She made it her task to get to know me, get closer to me, got to the point where she started to SHOW ME HERSELF ON HER PHONE... I still didnt validate her.
Yeah women tend to love validation especially if they get it all the time, and when they see a man who doesn’t give them validation they get angry sometimes
15:53 best takeaway. "A woman wants to see you have that level of confidence where no matter where you're at, you're still a solid stable rock. You know who you are."
I usually listen to these Social Content creators like Casey and a few others to see if I can reprove and align their philosophies with my own experiences. This particular episode rings so true because when we witness men like Napoleon, Kevin Hart, Michael Keaton, Bob Marley and Enzo Ferrari they aren’t the conventional physical Alpha type that we’re led to believe, yet Alpha looking males seek their logic and teachings to learn how to become more driven, desirable, magnetic and iconic men. I found this to be true in my own life and observing those around me. Keep going Casey, teach ✅
Absolutely 100% accurate. I’ve been doing this for a long time and as long as the woman isn’t strictly interested in money or sex, it works every time. It takes sincerity on your part in order to work, so like he said, only do it if you’re interested in a future with her, because it’s GOING TO WORK 😉 Every woman I’ve seriously pursued has turned into a long term relationship.
Listening to this makes me realise how good I was in one of my relationships, this one time my ex was extremely in the mood and she asked me to have sex (would have been our first time) but I said No as I had other interests in that particular moment, since then I have been going off the rails a little bit but I've realised that what I crave isn't sex, it's the emotional support a woman can provide
Ups ! No words to explain .... You have verbalised those things that used to go in my mind but I can't get them fully before; 100% you should focus to improve your self in every dimensions of life but that mustn't be to get validation. Thanks a lot bro🙏🙏🙏
Agreed with all this, I found out so recently that you validating all of it is great, and helped really digesting it and it’s only bc I’m on my 3rd LTR now and I love her and she’s crazy for me bc of all this!! Much love ❤
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Casey zander i want to flag your video for that thumbnail but im not going to because i respect you much please consider this a warning and um try to be a bit less 18+
I've yet to watch the video
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Women fall in love for one reason: The way they feel about themselves when they're with you.
This right here is more valuable than the video.
Elaborate
Partly. It's less about how they feel and more how MUCH they feel.
You need to bring negative energy and cocky jokes sometimes.
@@anonnnnnnnnnnnnso that's why she stays with me even though I'm abusive and controlling. well, the problems run much deeper than that...
The longer you focus on and put energy towards getting women, the longer you will be unhappy
Been watching his content since a year now, this man is the only genuine RUclipsr among his colleagues who make videos on same stuff. It’s like he breaks down everything to you and puts so much effort.
God bless you Casey.
It's a bit fun, but at the end of the day I notice that he is a pretty handsome fellow and this is going to make a huge difference in his experience. Average guy it will be bit different.
"Dating is easy, just be yourself" -- Henry Cavill
I agree with you but you also really gotta check on "Fitxfearless". He's a beast in the game and one of the realest and (Get to the point) guy. Respect to Casey too.
@@rickstoic6907If you think like a loser than it makes you a loser
@@rickstoic6907 that's true... the caveat that he should mention is that when a man is confident, content, and sure of himself he will attract a woman in his attractiveness bracket rather than not attracting any woman at all. If a guy doesn't fit contemporary beauty standards and is not wealthy, the most he can aim for is a woman of the same speed. He's not landing a model nor a conventionally attractive female. It is what it is.
@@tylerdurden7142Yes, I can see there might be something to that.
This is hilariously true. Men you need to love yourself first and foremost, that's where true confidence comes from.
If you can be a man that treats her well, has a purpose, in control of his life, his mind and emotions yet could cheat, there’s other women wanting him.. that’s the sweet spot women just love competing, be the man worth competing for!
There's still a chance of her cheating. Guys will be bluepill and be extra sweet to a girl, give her gifts and shower her with attention. Then go "red pill" sort of like casey content and who the audience is and limit attention, fuck with her by teasing and shit and get her attached. But ultimately, both of these mindsets are coming from the same place. You are doing all of these things for her. The motivation is the same. You HAVE TO truly not give a fuck and be focused on yourself and they will be a byproduct of this. Fuck the "sweet spot" for women you shouldn't care about that.
@@LuisNMW I agree, always a chance of cheating.. when a man lives in abundance and internal peace, yes sir you just don’t give a **** and that’s the attitude they crave. They come and go as they please, a man should see them as the cherry on top not the cake, I’m 30 now and ow I get the attention of the young ones and older just because I treat everyone with charisma, the confidence is real no need to prove it.
So be a giga-chad,, yeah alright then bro
@@SupernaturalPowerz is a choice, you don’t have to
not really no; for a good woman its a fucking turnoff being in competition.
This is gold! That aspect of being stoic and not worried about whether or not you’re having sex and how you’re comfortable in his own skin is great advice.
Seriously this is high level
Only way
Considering if everything can be taken from you by a woman. It's worth more investing in yourself. Did you know the only reason big smart bucks die? Because they chase female deer. No other reason why they will get caught. We do alot of dumb stuff for women we wouldn't normally do if it was just us.
Except for the fact that you're essentially pretending disinterest in sexual intimacy, it becomes difficult to sustain the pretense indefinitely. Even after two months of pretending, if your partner continues to show no interest, it raises questions about the validity of the belief that you genuinely don't care about receiving any intimate connection. At this point, it may be worth reconsidering whether the notion of not desiring it remains accurate.
Well, it's nuanced. You can't keep pretending disinterest indefinitely and that's not the point he's making. What he's essentially saying is that you shouldn't appear so desperate for it because not only can that be used against you but it'll make you look weak in front of her. It should happen with the flow and if she seems receptive enough, you should initiate sexual contact. What happens usually is that the guy rushes things and wants to escalate too soon and that often isn't reciprocated. It's a case by case basis. @@thedutyofman
I'mma listen to this every single fking day until I realise self-improvement must be a process only for my own self.
That's why it's called "self-improvement".
Not caring about the outcome of sex and being completely confident in your own skin. Advice that I needed to hear right now. Great content !!
So much, internal confidence are more important than anything
Brother, I’ve battlefield-tested this mindset-or in my case, I was born with it. It really is the truth. I just focus on getting to know them without even thinking about sex. When they bring something up, I say something like, “You don’t have to do that, let’s just chill,” and it drives them even crazier. But honestly, I wholeheartedly don’t care about quick dopamine hits or instant gratification through sex and in general.
Once you become aware that most things-like casinos, nightclubs, marketing, or mainstream products-are designed to exploit your brain chemistry, you’ll not only become more powerful with women but also in life overall. Avoid instant gratification at all costs for an extended period and watch the transformation happen. Sex is just a temporary fleeting feeling, meaningless if you dont actually plan to have children with her.
This guy is super intelligent. No cuts or clipped on his film. Just straight up nonstop explanation of true reality.
"Your reality has been constructed for you " 100% right.
Matrix
Si
How can sb change their perceived reality?
only if you suck it up and go along, to have the comforting company of other morons.
What?
I so love this guy. I'm a woman myself & I'm amazed at how he understands how women's mind & emotions operate. He is so right & on point. Just be in the present moment with the woman that you want. That's it. Just enjoy the moment. Period. Nothing else matters.
There's a book called Casanova Optimization of Attraction, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
The fact that nobody talks about forbidden books on Revandles is so crazyy
I just got a book from this site, and I’m loving it. Thanks for pointing me in the right direction I’m finally feeling like I can address my fear of women.
Nah. /
As a woman, I agree. Men desperate for sex is a turn off for me. It shows weakness. Showing strength, care and other qualities provoke a woman to feel safe, let her guard down and trust you. I have tried sharing this with guys.
You're broken..
@@AliBenBrahim-s9xshut up she speak truth
😂@@AliBenBrahim-s9x
You can be the hottest celebrity and athlete and those guys still get cheated on, dumped, divorced, betrayed, looking inward where your true value lies is definitely worth it. It seems so simple yet it's something so many men struggle with throughout their lives regardless of how successful and physically attractive they are. Beautiful video, makes total sense.
Amen. This will be the last video I consume for the evening so I can marinate on this idea. Truly an enlightening philosophy and I started to wonder "how many things do I participate in because of societal programming, like going to church, why do I go to church when I've really started to not find it meaningful or valuable." This question could literally be asked about anything "Why did I start learning Spanish. Why did I start wanting to Salsa dance. Why did I get a dog, etc. etc. etc.." It really made me sit back and think that there are levels to this shit, and it's almost like the philosophy of "I have fuck you money now, you cannot cancel me." And as he said, this isn't a license to be evil just because you have "found yourself", rather you stop becoming the societal jester who is strictly being used as entertainment for other people. And you stop becoming a slave to things that don't matter to you, only to your reputation or perception. This guy is really fucking sharp and I appreciate just the few videos I've consumed. Take care, good luck on your quest for self-acceptance.
Except it’s not completely accurate. I’ve watched quite insecure dudes get every female in a general area just by being attractive… the concept of not giving a fuck is good but if you’re not attractive in the face then you’re 100% limited on what level of female u can attract.
@@baileybuckley4796 Also not completely accurate. They might get the ladies because they're physically attractive, but usually end up paying heavily for the insecurity underneath in an actual relationship, and i've seen the opposite where a guy is dating way out of his league but ends up having a good relationship, granted that is even less frequent in the digital era with people choosing life partners like it's from a catalog.
@@baileybuckley4796 100% fact! If you're a 5 you can f@ck you're confidence and mind game, 9's and 10's won't even let you speak, it will be over before you open you're mouth period.
Always have a prenuptial. Years ago my ex wife wanted out, and I sent her on the way. I kept my house, my car, my dog and all of my money. She left with what she brought. 6k, her clothes, some furniture, credit card debt and cookware then moved back home to mom and dad. Haven't spoken but twice in 20 years.
You crushed this one CZ. This one brings back a time when I was about 21 and I started dating this girl. I was 6 weeks out from a competition and I flat out told her that we weren’t getting intimate until after my show. It drove her bananas.
“Don’t use this for evil” is the line that invites that sort of behavior 😂😂😂
Lol. It's just line to keep some suckups watching it.
“Don’t use this for evil"
”Oh, OK then."
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I am usinf this…. For 😈
Lack of control probably you guys don’t
more or less
Casey is way ahead of his peers bro. I've been slowly applying myself to his teachings and it's game changer. From super nice guy, afraid to overstep boundaries with women to confidently speak my desires... and the results are astounding lol.
Give an example please!
Yeah, give an example of what confidently speaking your desires has done for you.
Instead of being unsure of when to express my desire for women, I now tease and banter openly (within reasons of course). I've learned that women are far more emotional then we are as men, so instead of talking logic, I create an atmosphere of light/fun/humor for us to enjoy ourselves.
@@IvanRubin
@@IvanRubin Talk about Job improvement=More money, You want to Travel some Places= he is not Boring, Treating yourself with some High quality food and buy the things you never could before=He is Living and enjoying life. Those things Signal Stability without being boring.
THIS MAN IS A MAD SCIENTIST IN JUST BREAKING DOWN THE FACTS... keep shining light on the truth brother, love seeing another master of men's work!
This is a really helpful video and especially for the guy that need to realise that they should’t be shy or insecure, because they matter. Guys, let’s break our fears and became the best version of ourselves so we can attract what we deserved. Preach!
No wonder Casey says this video is his most important every time. He’s not lying. When the content keeps on getting better and better, every recent video will be the best yet. Keep up the good shit brother
In a 10+ year relationship, but I've still been listening to these lately. Love a good psychology vid.
Bro this video is literaly gold. Can't explain how much I needed this video right now. Can't put it in word. There are still smart people in this world.
Now I will tell you after my body changed a year into the gym, my confidence skyrocketed. I’ve always been an extrovert but my view of my looks was too low to match my extrovert energy in regards to approaching women. Changed my body and money and now I have the confidence to use my extroversion. Crazy difference. Remember if you fake it till you make it enough you will literally become what you’re faking
Woman cant control there attraction, Facts! & that's from experience. damn what you said 100! i've experienced most of these situations as a man. Your the best dating coach thus far! Keep it up!
I swear you were talking to me throughout this video.
Thank you for taking your time to make these.
I just found your channel,
I’ve watched three videos and already my life has changed.
Thank you.
🙏🏿
YOU REALLY 100 PERCENT RIGHT NOBODY EVER BREAKS IT DOWN THIS WAY THIS WAS LITERALLY A PERFECT BREAKDOWN
It's all about confidence. Everything that builds your confidence is good for you. And demonstrating that confidence to women is what they like the most.
As a guy who dated a woman 40 years younger than me this year I agree with this. Especially the Stoic bit. "It's the journey not the destination".
Casey you legit showed me light towards finding my path, I will never forget these lessons
I watched your videos and it reminds me of something I always tell my clients. If your content, product or service is good you don't have to convince people to buy into it. I see a Man that truly cares about his audience and delivers content that actually solves the problem of masculinity. People maintain power with violence, manipulation and fear and if your woman is telling you that this content is toxic then she does not respect you and you need to leave her.
True when you’re self confident, enjoying yourself and not chasing is when you attract attention and makes you desirable.
“I am who I say I am” that is gold. Men we must have congruency w our words and our actions. Every man has failed at this including me. Those who have learned this discipline are always better internally and externally than the average man.
Just recently I told my gf I was getting up at 5:30am to work out. We stayed up till 2:00am having a great conversation. I didn’t go work out at 5:30am… I failed a shit test I set for myself 😂. Thankfully I recognized it and I will go to bed at a reasonable hour and start the day off right next time.
Honestly, thank god you help guys like me. I couldn’t be more grateful for you and your content
Great vid! It’s exactly how I feel about dating women. Im a bit jaded by life. Jaw has been twisting off my neck for well over a decade from a car accident. Now after surgery my confidence is sky high!
*Understanding the psychology behind female attachment is key to building deeper connections. This breakdown of how desire and emotional bonding work really explains why trust and consistent behavior matter so much in relationships.*
Casey your theories are more thought out and accurate about female nature than many other opinions I've seen or read. I'd take your concepts about inner masculinity and say embracing and cultivating this part of yourself is the key to true fulfilment in life, not just towards successful relationships with women.
Learning to let go of the need for external validation is powerful. Certainly just the awareness of it. They want that so much and desperately rush to the feeling of it in men. All about FEELING. I wish all of my fellow men the best on their journey in it. Casey is basically taking what Patrice Oneal espoused and boiled it down to the next basic element without rage.
Casey, this is the most sweet & heartfelt post you've done thus far.
Very cool video A month ago, I ended a five-year relationship. My soulmate made the decision to walk away from me, and even though I've done everything in my power to get him back, I can't help but feel disappointed because I can't see my life with anyone else. I want to say that I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I simply can't. I miss him so much and I don't know why I'm saying this here.
I learnt the hard way that saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult when a 12-year relationship ends. But I was unable to let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counsellor, and he was able to assist me in getting him back.
Interesting-sounding! How can I most efficiently get in contact with a spiritual counsellor that you recommended?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
I appreciate you providing this important information; I've just checked him up online. striking I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and wow, he's really genuine. Thank you so much again ❤
Just came home from work at 5am watching this rn and this is just pure gold man.. You are a legend
He literally said. Just have confidence for like 20 mins straight
At first i was thinking this is gonna be weak... By the end i tell you this man is spot on!
There's several gems within this board talk. Applause my guy, this is grown man mentality. Str8 game next level on all levels... Great job
Much respect Casey. You summed it up, and like you said a couple of times, nobody else has put it quite as directly as you have here.
I say this with the utmost gratitude and sincerity, this video is deep. I've learned more in this 22+ minute video than all the Red Pilled content I've consumed over the years.
Men. Why Casey is so confident and intelligent is awareness. He may have naturally gained it or worked on it but MEDITATION is a great tool to develop that internal confidence. When you know yourself, know what you want and where your going. Those kinda cute girls that are bad for you, you’ll brush them off and they’ll beg to sleep with you. The woman you want will respect you and fall into your frame as well because your making decisions and have a vision. Remember, not every single girl will like you, so you will “fail” at times. Micheal Jordan has missed thousands of shots, he never gave up and is a goat. Use that same philosophy
Goat???
@@luker1hutcher315greatest of all time
@@luker1hutcher315you’re out of touch
GOAT= Greatest Of All Time 🐐🐐
Meditation is a great tool but it’s even better when combined with semen retention. When practicing semen retention, you will have no choice but to be in frame. It comes 100% naturally
This was a fantastic video one of my all time favorite Zander videos, what he said about the internals and even giving all those things to someone insecure on the inside how it would not change them was a genius take.
Yeh, my dad taught me a LONG time ago, just do your thing, in a good productive way, and women will latch onto who they want. Doing your thing, but making yourself available, is the best way to get the girl you want.
100%
Hmm I have been doing that and it’s not really working out, oh well 🤷
Hey Casey, I've been watching your videos for a few months now, and I want to say thank you. I've experienced highs and lows in terms of my own personal development, but because of severe deficiencies in self-confidence I've never been very attractive towards women, or I succeed in the first few steps, then insecurity rears up and she exits. I've struggled with needing other people's approval for the majority of my life. Meanwhile I've watched others succeed in relationships apparently effortlessly.
Through watching your content I've been able to realize that your internal frame of self confidence, your internal masculinity is what women are really filtering for. Not looks, not money, not external success, they are hardwired to fall for your confidence in yourself. This is why men who are successful with women are often not always successful in other areas of their lives: they might have mediocre careers, average looks, average intelligence, but as long as they are unshakeable in their confidence women find them attractive. This trait of self confidence has become extremely rare in the western world. Secure masculinity that doesn't need external reinforcement is very rare indeed.
Being present with oneself and showing the world who you are take it or leave it, is actually displaying vulnerability, it's courage and actual strength. Some people will like you, some not. Pleasing other people while not being satisfied with oneself is loss of self and weakness.
There is no way around it, the only way to win in life, is to love and value oneself, despite circumstances.
So true. Not to be cocky. I was always that tall handsome guy with muscle. But had a lot of insecurities, fears and timidness around women. Believe me they can smell if your internal is weak.
Two things a man should remember in a relationship not to be afraid to say no to a woman and don't be afraid to tell them the rules early that you do not accept. Remember those two things and you will do fine. don't be weak and needy be confident.
Casey is right. Just believe him, and you will see instant results. He’s helping you men unwrap the bs and be who you truly are. He’s literally taking me back to who I was when I was 5, who I’ve always known I was. Chicks dig that, more than anything.
As a 5’2 male nothing on the outside will beat a 7’0 mindset!!
being an authentically decent human will
@@LeeHarveyOswald.1963 cope
Hahahahaha 5'2 doesn't matter on mindset alot of chicks wouldn't go near you off of that, it's nice you feel good tho, that's cute
Dudes say this like taller men cant have a good mindset or personality, then what 😂
@@Yarmox exactly. its all about genetics, not “personality”
‘Women only look at a man in the sense of; Is he 100% confident in his own identity, in his own personality. This is what makes an alpha male. The internal.’
This is probably the most important sentence in this video. It what it all boils down to.
As a woman, it sounds like we are wired to fall in love with narcissists who are best at showing confidence.
Yeah that’s the way it sounds . Im a super masculine man and have a 10 for a girlfriend . She didn’t get turned off when I show her my vulnerability - and sensitivity
Women fall in love with men who have principles and boundaries. Narcissists have boundaries hence why women are attracted to them. But real men of value aren’t narcissists, they have boundaries and principles and have the confidence to live without a woman.
@@RUclipsCommentRater A 10 on a pikachu scale u mean
In most of his videos he claims women can't really love a man in any genuine capacity
And then you have the men who are silently confident but can treat you as the woman you should be. But only you would know where he’s confident and isn’t. a man who will say he’s not happy with this or that. But for the right reasons. I could go on. The issue is today. That women don’t like being called out or that a man has boundaries coz that’s then controlling. The issue with a narcissist is that they manipulate you only so you fall in line. being masculine isn’t controlling your woman. but women think it is.
I've found that it's when I start to see myself as higher value and acting a certain way that I've been able to draw in more girls instead of thinking "she is out of my league". Value yourself boys
Awesomw talk. This helped organize things more in my head and understand why I often feel stuck in life. Its like I had a conversation with the wisdom of my youngest and purest self.
Courage comes from the Greek word Cor- meaning from the heart. Without courage you cannot face the truth, handle reality, reject the crowd and ultimately embrace your individuality. Courage to live from the heart comes first. Everything else follows.
Man..
You are the best and the most wise man I've ever met in my life....
So true, I learned to declined intimacy in late twenty, having witness the devastating effect of HIV/AIDS in the mid 80s.
Some women even ask what's wrong with me because I don't show interest beyond work or business.
Thanks for the reminder, I hope my boys will value it, because it's not from me, the Old Man.
May God Bless you & Happy New Year !
I have been studying the topic of seduction and women for many years now. Lots of positive and negative experiences. And I can confidently say that this is one of the best videos on the topic that I have seen.
Really ?
17:31 Shots fired! I recently found your channel and binged your vids, your message truly resonates within me and I'm grateful that I have access to this knowledge to improve my life. Thanks for sharing your insights!
That’s my brother! Gifting the keys to life to us all free of charge because you care about men as a whole. I’ve been watching you for a couple of years now and you’ve drastically improved my mentality. Thank you Casey.
After 2 years of listening to you off and on, Casey, I came across this particular podcast, and you hit me with the single most important aspect of self-worth when you spoke about the fact that God made us, we are special, and we need to remember this and build our self worth around these foundational words. Yes, pursue self-improvement in all respects, but do it with the remembrance that God made us in His image. Thanks for stating this Casey.
I ultimately think Casey's advice will make you into a better man, not necessarily a "ladies' man." ... And that goodness will, in turn, make you a "ladies' man" to the right kinds of ladies. 😎💪
I got goosebumps when you talked about dont have sex with her.. so pure. I'm happy for you that you finally have the viewer count that you deserve :)
this is the best video on this that ive genuenly ever seen. Every man should hear this, every last one. Props to you man, doing an amazing job! Have to follow and support genuine men like u. keep it up!
Yo this guy is talking 200% facts bro ngl. To be honest I’ve been battling with lust and I’m 17 and watching this video helped me a lot. Thanks bro
Your RUclips videos alone have changed my sex life, never was not able to get girls or friends but their was a disconnect in some areas that is completely gone now. Whenever I do everything I need to I get king’s treatment and when I slack I get slack treatment, I understand the “formula” throughly because of your videos. From the bottom of my heart and others who haven’t found your videos yet thank you Casey Merry Christmas.
Casey really is god send I’ve been binge watching all this videos on building the internal value and my life has been night and day difference. Do the work gentleman build up that internal confidence
This is the most valuable video i’ve ever seen on RUclips on this topic. You’ve changed my perspective on everything. My new favorite channel and content creator. Thank you brother.
Bro this is gold, honestly you explained the hole men’s life through a deeply simple video
I just wanted to comment, as a woman who watches men’s dating advice videos to get an idea of the men’s side of things, that this is one of the few videos I completely agree with.
First off, I always notice men’s version of self improvement (this can happen in women too I just tend to notice it more in men) where they go down the workout pipeline, believing that getting a good physique is the main form of self improvement. Life is about self improvement. The most attractive thing is to see another person improving themselves, for themselves, and learning of the specific ways they are doing it.
I would also like to mention that having a passion for something, or even learning of what you truly want to achieve while on your journey of self improvement is a very attractive quality.
This ties into the point he mentioned that many women can see right through a man showing off “good qualities on paper”, trying to sell an idea, but he’s only doing it for the purpose of being with more women.
Social media praises the sort of loud confidence, the “ fake it till you make it” and the verbal exclaims “I am confident”. True confidence is usually silent and can’t be faked.
A person who can sit with themselves or in a group of people and be content with their situation and who they are. This is a very attractive quality. A calm sort of masculinity, a protecting one, I believe puts alot of women in a safe state. (Real women anyways, the ones who are so prideful they won’t allow a man to open the door for them 🙄)
Anyhow, he really makes some good points and im glad to see someone making an effort to share genuine advice rather than the superficial things other RUclips channels try to claim.
This is by far the best video I've seen! The diner table analogy in the starting was on point - you've really nailed it !
Basic idea is being confident in yourself and your worth and being unbothered of potential outcomes while also being respectful in interaction !
Keep it up mate !
Some other consideration
Being in present
Being charismatic
Being popular - likeable personality
What you are describing is a sigma male. The name for the new wave of man that is emotionally intelligent, has set his own standards and values, thoughtful, and capable of living his life without approval or validation from others.
"sigma males" are literally just healthy introverts.
This sigma male crap is retarded. You sound like a fucking infomercial.
@@iamblight707They are mature alphas
@@iamblight707 except when they are very extroverted
Bro on god pls stop using these dumbass terms I cant anymore
Yes bro everything you were saying is like what ive had to learn to get to this point where you realize whats important.
Competence breeds confidence.
You’ve completely changed my outlook on relationships and I’m really grateful to have come across your channel. Can you make a video on getting over the fear of being cheated on and not knowing. I feel it’s the only thing that keeps me from being at my best as a man.
Getting over ANY type of Fear is to learn how Fear can paralyze Your physical body. There's fear of doing something for the first time and there's fear of failing like You did the last time You tried. Fear is only New the first time. It's also one of the most used weapons in warfare and the negotiation process. We all debate internally, but the worst fear is such that loves to take advantage of weakness...
Hate to say it but to overcome your fear you must surround yourself with it. Maybe a better route is to simplify why you have these fears and remove what is causing them instead of overcoming the fear. Or just learn to not care, which is easier said than done.
I was cheated on. It really sucked and broke my confidence down.
Something that has worked lately for me letting go of worry to win her back. I realised that I had lost myself, my integrity when I didn't set my own boundaries. Expressing what you want is vulnerability it takes courage. As said in another video women need to be led spiritually. So speaking your truth and sticking by it, is actually the only option, every other way you lose. Loss of integrity is losing every time. Standing for nothing is being nothing. Know thyself, don't lose thyself. Look deep there are many layers and sides to uncover examine as many as possible, there is a bigger picture.
@@L6FT I really liked your POV on the matter bro, thank you for sharing 🙏
Bro Im high rn and I understood every single part of it,each element of female Nature désire and arousal, Im high asf...Swear (yes I did took notes)
I adopted the 'idgaf' attitude when my first daughter was born. I realised that she was the proirity. It was a double edged sword. I gained wealth, but also weight because I had to spend so much more time at home. It is powerful to be focused though and genuinely not care what anyone thinks.
That's also your prolactin and test levels going up in tandem for a little while as a 'dad reflex' it's rather well-documented response, and I wouldn't sweat it because it can be somewhat temporary but only catch is to make sure you optimize your metabolism and longevity factors to be the best dad you can be for as long as possible, and it also gives you the elusive +900 strength build so stay up and keep it up brother
@@fury_saves_world I had a daughter 2 years ago, I gained some weight as I was dealing with the stress of the mother and being a parent. Recently as I've gotten my life more organized and sorted out I have lost most of the weight and I am in good shape. The weight will come off as the stress eases!
I am going to wait until I have kids to adopt the "idgaf" attitude as well. And genuinely not care about what anyone thinks.
I don't understand the excuse of putting on weight because you were at home. Do some jumping jacks, buy a weight rack, go for a run around the block, optimize your diet, etc.
Regardless of any supposed hormonal factors, there is literally no excuse apart from legitimate mental illness, or a lack of knowledge and insight to provide you the practical means to strengthen discipline.
As well, you might say stress was a factor? Exercise is one of the most effective and natural ways to deal with stress, and has benefits that ripple into nearly every area of your life.
I don't understand how you could make up such an excuse, but feel free to enlighten me.
@@netflowdesign No excuse mate. It was a lack of discipline. I used to exercise because I cared what other people would say if I got fat. Learning to do it purely for my own health in my 20s was hard. Now I'm nearly 40 and I can force myself to do things I hate every day. Plus I get sore if I don't work out so it's less of an issue.
This isn’t a video about getting women attached. This is a video about realizing that self confidence is key. If you do things externally to build that confidence that’s okay, just make sure you’re improving for YOURSELF, not for others. As a side effect, women will likely be attracted to you. Good video.
If you take the time to build your internal confidence before acquiring the external factors, not only will it help you get the external things but when you do, your confidence will truly be unshakable. Imagine being confident while looking like a potato - now imagine that confidence once you have an admirable physique, money, and status. You will feel unstoppable.
This video hit different. So much common sense so much clear to understand, lol it’s funny how simple it is. this deserves a couple repeat watches 👍
Smooth as hell throughout the whole presentation, really incredible job!
So true, good video ! Women do fall in love through words, through personality, true. Men need to see, women need to hear. Through expression. Must be genuine, fake will ruin everything
I have learned two things from you on how to keep a woman attraction and it works like a charm:
1- lower her anxiety on safety ( stable jobs, purpose in life ,ambition , keep improving for myself)
2 - Keep her anxiety on a high level ( been confident, in shape dress well good hygiene and she knows you are desired by other women and you have multiple options and the most important you are able to walk away when she starts her BS)
i swear bro i dont know if its fate but im watching all youre videos and everyt single thing you say is wrong i use to fo with the girl i was dating a year and a half and now i initiated a break up cause it was way too disrespectful. but i feel broken and i know that its just my fault that i wasnt masculine enough and let myself get weaker with her and then she became less feminine. im really investigating this whole thing i have to get better and know why tf shit went so bad for me. thank you bro love you and the contant !
19:44 happens with me every day since high school... simply because i do NOT validate women. I had always been this way since high school and the HOTTEST GIRLS always flocked around me. Because they got CURIOUS, WHY wasn't I giving them validation and attention like other guys. I will never forget the co-worker who ALL the men at work wanted, but I was just chill. She made it her task to get to know me, get closer to me, got to the point where she started to SHOW ME HERSELF ON HER PHONE... I still didnt validate her.
Yeah women tend to love validation especially if they get it all the time, and when they see a man who doesn’t give them validation they get angry sometimes
Can i know the rest of the story?
15:53 best takeaway. "A woman wants to see you have that level of confidence where no matter where you're at, you're still a solid stable rock. You know who you are."
I usually listen to these Social Content creators like Casey and a few others to see if I can reprove and align their philosophies with my own experiences.
This particular episode rings so true because when we witness men like Napoleon, Kevin Hart, Michael Keaton, Bob Marley and Enzo Ferrari they aren’t the conventional physical Alpha type that we’re led to believe, yet Alpha looking males seek their logic and teachings to learn how to become more driven, desirable, magnetic and iconic men.
I found this to be true in my own life and observing those around me.
Keep going Casey, teach ✅
Women fall in love for one reason: The way they feel about themselves when they're with you.
Absolutely 100% accurate. I’ve been doing this for a long time and as long as the woman isn’t strictly interested in money or sex, it works every time. It takes sincerity on your part in order to work, so like he said, only do it if you’re interested in a future with her, because it’s GOING TO WORK 😉
Every woman I’ve seriously pursued has turned into a long term relationship.
Listening to this makes me realise how good I was in one of my relationships, this one time my ex was extremely in the mood and she asked me to have sex (would have been our first time) but I said No as I had other interests in that particular moment, since then I have been going off the rails a little bit but I've realised that what I crave isn't sex, it's the emotional support a woman can provide
Ups ! No words to explain ....
You have verbalised those things that used to go in my mind but I can't get them fully before; 100% you should focus to improve your self in every dimensions of life but that mustn't be to get validation.
Thanks a lot bro🙏🙏🙏
"Gaining others approval" that is one segment where I really, really need to work on.
this video is an absolute gem , changed my whole perspective on what’s really important in life.
Agreed with all this, I found out so recently that you validating all of it is great, and helped really digesting it and it’s only bc I’m on my 3rd LTR now and I love her and she’s crazy for me bc of all this!! Much love ❤
100% correct.
You are the best.......
Other coaches are misleading ppl. And causing more harm.
Great video, definitely different message to what the TopG guys are saying, status, money, power is what we are told we need
Stfu about top G bs. Guys that call other guys top G’s are pathetic
They have that right and yes they abuse it......
But !!!!
When u chose like u have to listen to "Casey" 👍🏾
Stay on it doggonit.....
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