My safety tip, talk to the truckers! Sometimes they have cameras recording where your semi is. I've had a trucker stop me from going to dinner alone and told me he and his wife would go with me. Apparently, his wife had a weird feeling about a man who had been going around "accidentally" walking into the women's bathroom. My RV was also picked up by their camera. They let me know what time they would be leaving and I left when they did. They were doing their reset and I got a solid amount of rest while having a couple that helped look out for me.
I drive a truck and have been all over the country, ive found its best to leave the phone in your pocket when you get out anywhere and lock your doors and keep your eyes moving like you do when your driving
I have driven a truck for 45 years and have never had any problems!! Sometimes people don’t pay attention and I will give you that . But if your to scared to go out and enjoy this life then maybe it time to stay home where it can happen there also!!!!!!!
This is probably going to get worse. I am a single woman and travel by myself with my show dogs. I’m almost 70. I had a a young man come by my motorhome after I stopped at a rest area. He left, but when he was walking away I saw a knife in his hand which was behind him. I’m not a little old lady (yet). I carry.
Yes, me too. I'm 56 and starting to feel more vulnerable at times. Concealed carry gives me peace of mind. I live in Washington state on Tuesday a career criminal who should have been locked up in a psychiatric unit for career criminals decided to carjack an 80-year-old woman who was out walking dogs she fought to get the dogs out of the car and he rolled over her killing her and then dumped the car and decided to hurt the dog as well. Had one person had a gun it all would have ended much differently. People tried to come to her aide one of the gentlemen hopped out of the van with a baseball bat but it was too late because he had a knife and was very busy with it. People in Seattle love to talk about how dangerous guns are and I couldn't help but think had someone just had their concealed carry this woman might still be alive and a dog as well. Stay safe. It's going to be like the '70s all over again. With the drug addiction & runaway crime. Police are short staffed and burnt out. The general public gets to be the sitting ducks.
I’m 62 solo towing 33’. I carry a big stainless steel jug with ice in it when I go into gas stops. It has a a place on the lid I can put my hand through and bop you up the side of your head if you mess with me. I try to walk with my shoulders back when going in. I have bear spray handy in my truck. I guess I’m an oddity at campgrounds as people have asked me if I’m alone. I decided for safety measures to get a loveseat camp chair to look like there’s more than one person there. I also put out additional seating. People stopped asking after I did that. I listen to my gut instinct. I’ve been known to leave when it felt off at overnights stops or gas stations, I’ve even started down a trail and it felt wrong so I went back to my vehicle.
Back when I used to hike a lot, one day I set out on a trail alone. Not far down the trail I clearly heard the words, "Go BACK!" NO idea what, where, or why... I have learned to listen to that gut instinct without question, especially when it's that loud and clear.
@@joanies6778 Although I do my hiking with my Greater Swiss Mountain Dog mix (87 pounds), I too listen to that instinct. An evening walk in woods in Washington State just didn't feel right so I turned back. Next day I found out from the campground owner that there were bears sighted on the trail later in the evening. My dog is big and protective but not an even match for a bear.
One thing I would suggest is if you are in your trailer/RV always lock your door and if you get a knock at the door check out a window before you unlock your door. You can always talk through the window if needed.
I am a 49 year old motorhome transporter that travels solo. These are great tips!! I also always pretend like I’m not alone. When leaving the RV, I talk loudly back into the RV like I’m talking to someone. I also talk to truckers. They are a whole community that looks out for each other.
Rather be judged by 12 than carried by 6. This situation would have ended very differently if he had attacked our family. If you can legally carry, it is your duty to defend your life. Law enforcement can't be everywhere all the time, baddies can be. Fitness only gets you so far when baddies have a knife or a gun. Stay fit and aim small. Tips and Tricks: Smith and Wesson M&P Shield EZ for older folks; Glock 19 for boring folks; Sig Sauer P365 for spicy folks; PSA Dagger Compact for poor folks; H&K P30 for rich folks.
Your semi-auto bias is shown (I prefer them also). However, not all people can chamber a semi-auto This is were a revolver, like a Ruger SP 101 or SW 60 or even a smaller caliper revolver comes in handy.
@@Elizabeth-rq1vi I respect your opinion. You are welcome to it. You're categorically wrong, but that's never stopped anyone in history from making poor decisions. I wish you nothing but the best, fellow human. May the odds ever be in your favor.
I teach a course “Refuse to be a Victim” (NRA gun free course) 1) be aware of your surroundings! 2) TRUST your instincts, women are the worst as we think ‘oh I shouldn’t think that about that guy’.. yes you SHOULD 3) have additional latches on your screen doors, as well as your Rig door 4) walk with confidence looking at people! 5) play the “what IF” game. As you are walking through a parking lot (or store etc) think “What would I do if this happens? “ planning at all times will keep your plans sharp in case you need them. 6) If you have to unhook your toad or puller, HOOK them back as soon as you can. 7) DON’T advertise on facecrack etc where you are, or you are out of town! I could go on.. Take regular safety classes & if you carry…. Get out on the range often!!
We have been full-time RVing for a year now. When we pull in for diesel or a rest area, I'm always watching now. But when we first started, I was so vigilant about it. But when I heard this story earlier this year, it woke me up. Love how you covered it, too! Thank-you!
Stopping at a rest area south of portland, oregon one evening after dark...I was walking to the rest rooms with my German Shepherd...I noticed 3 men standing together near the buildings....they appeared to be perusing the people who were coming and going into the restrooms and parking lot....I will tell you my spider sense kicked in.....I noticed that they watched me coming down the sidewalk...I know that i would be an easy mark...an old fat woman in her seventies....but as I watched them their eyes went to the dog by my side on a leash.....and all three took a partial step back....that was a very strange moment...creepy....
We also went full-time with our German shepherd,,at 1st I thought why did we choose such a big dog..we're old and we still have young kids..our dog is amazing,,she won't even allow people to approach our children or grandchildren without a firm warming 😉..staying safe requires a line of defense and a backup plan
This may sound weird but I have always been judged by people as "an approachable" person. I have been in two very bad situations in my lifetime- twice attacked but when I was younger and in my home city of FL. My brother, a retired policeman and who lived in Manhattan and Boston, told me that the best thing to do in an unfamiliar environment is be very non expressive and more deadpan and look at no one but look around and assess the space.
As a military veteran, I had veteran plates on my truck (we have a travel trailer) before I moved to Canada. Now I have different articles on the truck that are Marines related. It serves several purposes, but the largest is that people know to look elsewhere if they are looking for "excitement". I diligently practice most of the things you mentioned - staying alert, know your surroundings, apparently I typically "look intimidating", which is really helpful in avoiding that previously mentioned "excitement". As far as your last point, I sincerely hope that no one will ever know my stance....
My wife and I have camped in every state except Alaska and Hawaii. We also have camped in Canada. We have been camping for over 50 years and we have never had a serious problem. On a recent trip from Ohio to Florida we stopped for fuel in Elizabeth Town Kentucky at a Five-star gas station/convenient mart in a very good neighborhood. I filled up with fuel and got in our 2021 Thor Compass. I looked in the passenger side mirror and saw a man carrying 2 Jack Russel type dogs unleashed coming toward the camper. He tried to pull open the camper door. It was dead bolted and locked. He looked in the passenger side door and said something we could not understand. He returned to his green Chevy 1/2 ton truck with his 2 unleashed dogs. Keep your doors locked and have a way to protect your family if an intruder gains access to your home on wheels. Be safe and prepared. America is not what she use to be. Now for the rest of the story. We did not confront the man. We continued on I 65 south toward the Sunshine State. After a couple of miles I saw the green Chevy truck with his 4 ways on approaching, he pulled beside us. We could see him and the 2 dogs. He was very close to us. He tried to run us off the road. I slammed on the brakes to avoid hitting the truck however I did not stop. He tried this 3 times and was not able to get us to stop. We were in panic mode. My wife called 911. He was beside us again in his attempt to stop us. He saw me with the phone and sped off. We were able to get a partial plate number. We could see him at a great distance because he had his cargo light on in the rear of the truck bed. 911 told us they would let them know. The green truck with his cargo light on had pulled over at the next exit, waiting for us. We did not know what we would have to endure next. A class C RV had passed us and my wife suggested we stay close to the class C RV which I did. Maybe that is why the green truck did not try to follow us. Warnings to follow: 1. Keep your doors locked. 2. Purchase a dash cam. (We now have one) 3. Security cameras (we have them at home) 4. Have a way to protect yourself if someone gains access to your rv. 5. Do not stop. 6. If you are older you are a target. 7. 911 was no help. This was typed on Sticky Notes. It happened to my wife and I on October 31, 2022 at 7:08 am.
At this point with the same of our country it doesn’t matter how in shape you are it’s the mental state of the attacker being aware of your surroundings pay attention never leave yourself open to attack! I personally believe concealed carry is the best protection but be well advised and trained with your personal carry options.
My rules are simple: situational awareness and not being nose deep into your phone. I have a less than lethal Byrna in hopes of de escalation, but also a real pew for the worst case. It also helps that I have a rescue LEO GSD K9. It never hurts to mutter and yell to yourself like a crazy, if you start to get the weird feels.
@@GratefulGlamperit also helps to know how to deal with the unfortunate situation like a knife attack, in that the outer facing portion of the forearm is the best tool for deflecting a knife swipe. There are no arteries in this area. Yes you will get cut bad, but won’t bleed out.
We are 74 & 71 and in pretty good shape. We avoid states (and Canada) that restrict 2nd Amendment rights. I carry a second amendment device on my person and have 2 others in our Airstream. I practice my second amendment rights at least weekly. We also choose our campsites carefully. Otherwise we enjoy life.
I am not so scared. Yes things happen but the chances are not high that they will. I have slept a lot with my rv door and windows open and nothing has happened to me or mine.
@@vanssolo1 One incident is all it takes . We are not crazy for taking steps to keep ourselves, our families and our pets safe. I don't "gun tote". I'm no showboat. But, both my wife and I have CCP's. It's the last thing we'd ever want to do but are willing to if necessary.
Situational awareness is the key. Crooks love a victim who is walking around with their head in the clouds oblivious to their surroundings. If you can, be armed and have the confidence and will to defend yourself. Better to be judged by 12 than carried by 6. Stay with your traveling companions. Non lethal weapons are crap unless you are some kind of well trained self defense expert. Don’t travel remote areas such as rest stops at night. Be where you need to be by dark.
I often camp alone. I have a giant pair of men’s boots that I keep outside my camper door. I also sleep with my car keys under my pillow so I can set off the car alarm in an emergency.
that's why we carry whenever we're on the road. but the name of the game is situational awareness you have to have your head on a swivel its sad but true
A great refresher video! I watched a video of felons viewing people on a video & when asked they all independently picked the same potential targets! Main lesson don’t give off a vulnerable vibe & don’t display apparent wealth! A small container of Bear Spray Gel (not liquid) has multiple protection qualities. Thank you for exploring this necessary but difficult subject!
I was doing contract work and drove from Ohio to CA. I took my 65 lb dog with me. Found out earlier that if I felt angry/upset towards someone, in this case hunters going on a popular hiking trail, he would growl and lunge at large men. I did go to the ranger station and report them and found out they could hunt there, but there were no signs to alert people. The rangers gave the spiel, but when I just looked at him, he said yeah I know, he didn’t like that he had to permit it and it did endanger hikers. My dog’s normal personality was all people are friends or potential friends. I had to tell him all people don’t want to pet him when I could see they were afraid of him. He became better known at the apartment I was staying at than me! Had a woman open her window and ask if that was Buddy. When I said yes, she said her husband talks about Buddy, could she and her children pet him. This absolutely made his day. But I knew he would protect me. As a single 140 lb woman, I know I can be a target so I am always alert and paying attention to my surroundings as I don’t want to become a statistic.
Great option for states 2A friendly; however, be careful in the antigun states. Research where you can carry before you end up in hot water. Plenty of resources and groups online.
@@austinboone2265 Maryland, any New England State, there are many more out there. Thankfully, I live in Alabama and have my freedom. I only travel in the South where I can protect myself and my family.
Things are definitely much different now. We were lack’s on the door locking at first. It irritates my husband but since the couple in Texas got murdered I am locking our RV door every time I come in. I need to be better at rest stops. Thanks for the info
Thanks for this important message. Every so often there is an awful tragedy like this and it reminds us that as full time RVers we always have to take precautions.
Age 72, fairly fit, taller woman, not heavy and not skinny, have been told I’m intimidating, walk confidently, try to stay aware of surroundings…make it obvious I’m looking around….when traveling alone. Often drive longer distances in large pickup alone. When I stop for rest break/nap, I text my husband exactly where I am and how long I may be resting…and take pictures of the area. Then text when I’m headed back on the road. Also “often” exercise right to carry.
I hear of tragedies and near tragedies. I want people, they don’t listen, they’re extremely naive, stubborn and rarely listen. People who isolate themselves and isolate themselves in the backcountry are asking for trouble and it’s sad.
I lock my doors as soon as I am getting in. I drove solo over the road truck driver for 14 years and was 42 when I started driving. Before cell phones. I learned to always pay attention to everything around me when walking. So many are looking a their phones while walking. Not a good idea. After dark I never walk close to other vehicles and look all around you.
We had a huge discussion after this occurred and came to the conclusion that surrendering whatever the perp wants is most likely the best strategy unless you can get the upper hand. I think often the first reaction is to fight but at what cost. Very sad and horrifying.
We always have our air horn beside the door. Wasp spray that sprays about 10-15 ft away, and our more serious things on our side. When my husband is out pumping gas I am watching all around us. Our dog is not huge but very protective. There are plenty of good people out there but now with the open boarder there are thousands that are already breaking the law and have no fear of our laws. It pays to be vigilant!
We made the mistake of not knowing, even though we checked reviews, that a campground we were going to stay overnight in was a Party Spot. Nothing before dark gave indication. Then, a full caravan of 20-somethings showed up with tents, pop-ups, campers, etc, and started throwing down immediately. Camp Host was "gone for the evening" supposedly. We didn't settle in, just wanted to sleep, so we cranked up and left by midnight when the bonfires (6 of them on the lakeside) started having fireworks added. Made damn sure I got my money back, but my point of this story is just to be vigilant. Campgrounds don't guarantee safety. Be vigilant and aware at all times.
I don't understand staying at a rest area. They are busy, loud, and dangerous. I don't think it is a secret that you are at a greater risk at rest areas and truck stops.
When we RV, we always head to Provincial Park Campgrounds in Canada with lots of trails for hiking, water for Kayaking and we spent alt least 1-1/2 to 2 hours a day doing these outdoor events, we do not really call them exercises as they are really rewarding activities. As such we also carry bear spray for those out back park hikes in the BC mountains so that in it's self would be a good deterrent to any violent attacks. I for one am always in the moment, no headphones or ear buds as I am enjoying nature.
A Sheriff's Deputy friend recommended Wasp Spray as a devastatingly powerful self defense weapon that does not need constant practice to stay proficient at using. Spray it into the face of the most determined attacker and you will incapacitate them long enough to escape and call authorities if you're spaying any attention at all to the other safety guidelines in this video. The best part? After you use it for self protection, you won't find yourself in jail waiting for a lawyer you most likely won't be able to afford while everyone is watching you on the evening news.
@@GratefulGlamperand you don’t have to be so close like bear spray. Also because it’s a steady stream it’s less likely to blow back at you. We carried it when out on the ATV’s always.
Not a bad plan, but I disagree with not finding yourself in jail. In most cases you won't, but in certain areas of the country any self-defense action will land in jail in need of a lawyer.
Thanks for the tips. I am always searching my location for thing that look out of the ordinary and all the way we can exits a situation if need be. My husband is disabled being aware is the most important tip I can give.
Martial art is a great way to learn how to protect yourself and your loved ones. I studied tae kwon do years ago with a sensei who taught the Korean military. He taught us to walk away and only use what he taught us if you have no other choice. In some cases you might take some firearm training and learn gun laws. Man’s best friend is another option you might want to consider. There are a lot of things that should be consider when it comes to you and your family’s security. Money can be replaced lives cannot be replaced. I have noticed that high end coaches have a safe room door on the bedroom, that can be closed and secured. That would be something to consider when ordering a new coach. My dad taught firearms in the military. He always said to me “ never point a loaded gun at anyone unless you intend to use it and never let anyone point a loaded gun at you “. Hopefully you will never have to deal with either of those situations. Stay safe and safe travels
We are both 75 and never go without our two big dogs. They are both cream puffs. However their bark is huge and they can be, and are, very threatening to strangers who come into their territory.
Situational awareness is key …. Gotta pay attention to where you are and ask around, folks will often tell you if you should or should not stop somewhere. Broken glass, needles, trash and so on will tell you what’s happened there. Don’t be afraid, be aware. Great video Charity!!
Had to laugh again, Charity! I am one of those over 55. I am a single, 71 year old, 5'2" 120 lb woman who usually travels alone, except for my 75 lb yellow lab, Boux! (I'm from Louisiana, rhymes with roux, lol) And, my safety is a concern. I am very careful about where I stop and try to always be vigilant of my surroundings. Good work. Enjoy your videos, especially the diy's and organizational videos!
Thank you for bringing the awareness of this tragedy. By heart goes out to the Weaver family. I donated a small amount to their go fund me. If everyone posting here would do the same maybe that would help them get to their financial goal. Will not bring Mr. weaver back but will show them there are still good people in this world.
We all need to realize that anything can happen anywhere,! I'm 71 and even On a short walk I carry a weapon !!! Not a gun but a metal cane or a rock in a sock! I also wear a loud whistle around my neck and "watch constantly! "...😮❤😊
Fifty years of driving truck you must be aware in a rest area watch for truck drivers don’t be afraid to ask one of them for help most are willing to help even be a look out for you remember safety in numbers. So sorry for this tragedy.🙏🏻
I have the popular fuel card that RVers use and I cannot tell you how many times I have been approached at a major fuel stop while fueling or even at a rest stop (yes, I have stopped at that same rest stop). Sometimes it is a trucker curious about my RV, but other times it is a random person who asks to use my points for showers and such. Living in Los Angeles as long as I did I learned to have everything locked at all times, walk around with a different set of keys laced between my fingers, act like my head is on a swivel, if one person is trying to talk with me being on the lookout for a partner who may try to come up alongside or behind me, and carry myself like I am amped up and may be looking for a fight myself. Most people try to avoid crazy so that's the persona I project. Sad that I cannot have a quality convo with a trucker who means well, I am using the fuel pumps they rely on to make a living, but I am just trying to avoid being a target. Oh, and the wife has had extensive krav maga training. I pitty the fool that tries anything on her. Thanks for the video. Best...
Good tips! Dont pull into an overnight parking throw out your slides, turn on your ginny at 11:30 at night, dont CAMP....it makes people trying to sleep angry. Dont make people mad! I have met several Unstable people
Sadly, this couple live only about 30 minutes from us, in Missouri, and in the same community our kids have lived for 20 years. While we do not know them, our hearts break for the wife and family. We, too, are RVers in our 70's and try to always be aware of our surroundings when we stop at Rest Areas to walk the dogs and at fuel stations. This is a practice we have used for many, many years and taught our children every day of their adolescent to adult lives. We still remind them of this any time they are out. We travel with two dogs and almost never leave the RV without them or each other when we stop at Rest Areas. At fuel stations I always keep my eye on my husband and the surroundings. We live in a very scary world but, it is not going to keep us from enjoying our travels. Happy Glamping and may God Bless and keep us all safe.
I'm a car traveler, but I hardly ever stop at interstate rest stops. They just don't feel safe to me. I would rather stop at a convenience store with lots of other people around. The more people that are around, the safer you are. Of course, you have to pick your locations carefully too, but I usually scout my route before I get on the road.
These are excellent tips! Situational awareness is first. In addition, I carry a Byrna loaded with teargas and we both carry stun/flashlights. I don't care if I never have to use them.
I just commented on another channel she was just sitting in her van editing and all of a sudden she looked up and a guy was actually walking into the van, she screamed get out, what are you doing? He looked at her but then he did leave! I'm just starting to hear about more of weird things happening, more people are just doing weird stuff. Thank you so much for your information ❤
You need to remember, many of your subscribers that RV are Canadians, and basically any weapon cannot be carried/used, which is unfortunate, at least to give you some confidence in 'having' safety! Nonetheless, I'll tell you a short story, where on a solo hunting trip several years back, I got myself a Motel room for the night, and was awoken to some noise outside. There was a young fellow (I say young as he apparently was 19 years old) trying to break a side window out of a vehicle opposite of the room I was in. He wasn't able to, so he went to a second vehicle, did the same..again, no luck, although he did keep trying. After a while he left, walking behind the opposite side of Motel rooms between the parking lot. About 15 minutes later, the alarm goes off on my pickup truck, so I stuck my head out the door and asked what he was doing...his answer, he's trying to get into 'his' truck...so I quickly slid on my jeans and t-shirt, and headed outside. After getting out the door the guy was coming right at me! Now, I'm in my early 70's, and now very angry...so I put him in a head-lock, and I could tell after a short while my energy level being angry was cutting off his breathing...so I let off somewhat, and he came to life again, trying to fight me. I had bare feet, but we ended up in the gravel parking lot, but again I got the better of him, back in a head-lock again, to where we fell down, and I held him until the police arrived, as the owners had heard the scuffle. He tried telling me he just wanted something to drive to town...nonetheless, my hand was bleeding, my feet where bleeding and the woman owning the Motel came to my room and cleaned up the best she could. That was the one and only fight I've had in my life, and he had no weapons (thankfully) so as you say, staying in relatively good shape, you can hold your own if you try. When the adrenalin kicks in, one can truly not realize what they are capable of honestly. Thank you for this, as like you we have a Class A diesel pusher, and tow our Honda CRV. One thing that came to mind, when you mentioned about being able to leave quickly...we have to take the key out of our CRV, and put the transmission in Park, so leaving would be tough, if we had to quickly. Perhaps a manual transmission vehicle wouldn't have that issue, but we do as I'm sure do others. No idea if there are ideas on this issue, but I'd sure love to hear them! We're Snowbirds, so we do travel and use Rest Area's, so a big thanks for tackling this issue, as it's much appreciated!
Note to Canadians if you go to any good sporting goods store and by the orange flare gun in an orange floating box you will find this great in your boat or RV. A flare in the face would scare most attackers away. Note a 12 gauge shotgun shell is the same size as the flare shell. In Canada of course you have no right to defend your self and can be charged if you do as the criminals rights are just so much more important than honest people's but if you have to fire a flare gun to defend yourself or family you at least get to be judged by a Jury, which is better than dead. Alternatively move to the US. I love Canada but having to be defence less is just not on. In the past we have had to call 911 a number of times and they just dont come so you really are on your own.
We put ring doorbell, cameras throughout and all the way around the RV. In this way, we can constantly monitor the RV while we are in or away from our camper. These cameras can record or be viewed live with communication abilities to deter or fool possible intruders. They are also motion censored to where we can be alerted before anyone is actually close enough to break in and gives time to scare off intruder or call authorities. Just having a recognizable camera at our front door acts as a deterrent to possible theft or malicious act.
We carry our Byrna guns. They are a non lethal weapon that uses CO2 chargers to shoot pepper spray "bullets" (pellets filled with pepper spray). They are very effective!
They are regarded as “less than lethal”, but can be lethal based on shot placement. You can use the projectiles with pepper spray or just the kinetic projectiles that can and do often cause broken bones, large bruises, etc. They are not considered firearms in the U.S., but are effective deterrents. I’ve seen RUclips vids of people being shot with them, and it is game-over when hit.
Our large dog also has a big bark & really strong jaws…he’s a mutt that has a few big breeds in him & like Alaska has never been put into that situation (thankfully) but a person would have to be really deranged to open a door where there’s an unseen large bark behind it.
The most fit person can be overpowered by surprise. All precautions may not stop a crazy person. We all can only do our best, but there is no perfect method to be 100% safe.
Extremely bright flashlights can be useful for self protection. They sell flashlights on their highest setting that are brighter than both highbeams on a vehicle combined. Flashing that in someone's face generally will make them recoil in pain and be disabled until they can see again.
The production value of these videos are amazing. I mean you guys rig looks like a sound stage or back drop. Is this a news channel or real campers? I haven’t seen them post actual rv’ing vids in quite some time.
Then you missed several of our recent travel videos. We definitely work hard to put out high quality videos and our standards for ourselves re:production are always a work in progress. Thanks for watching
Desert Eagle 50 cal, always being aware of my surroundings, make sure your RV is ALWAYS locked especially when you’re inside. So many RV’ers relax when inside the RV, feeling safe because you’re inside. Lock it up.
In Australia you can’t ‘carry’, no taser, no pepper spray, etc. So I carry a large screwdriver in the car door pocket because it is not a weapon. I also carry a small can of aerosol deodorant, body spray, or hair spray in my handbag when I travel alone. It may be just enough to help me if I get in a difficult situation. It a scary world out there these days.
My husband was a long haul truck driver and he has told me never stop at a rest stop. They are very dangerous. He said to stop at a truck stop if you need to stop somewhere. There are a lot more people in truck stops. No place is perfect but he said to go to the safer of the two.
@@sush2043 I'm sure that he could have dropped that car in less than a minute and saved his own and his wife's life instead of being hard headed and dead.
@@vanssolo1Wow, so you were there and witnessed it but didn't help? So easy to judge without all the facts. BTW, It takes my husband at least 3 minutes to disconnect.
@@sush2043 Not judging their actions, but there were witnesses that saw the guy ask them for the keys and I know MY husband would have told him to go take a hike...
I have pepper spray with me 24/7 always everywhere I go. I also have a CPL, but it isn't always convenient or an option to carry a pistol. Plus, if you use pepper spray and later found to have used it in a situation where it was not justified, nobody dies, and nobody goes to prison.
This boy never ever acted like this. I know his gramma. and it's unusual he just had a new baby. They think drugs were involved. He was not into them either. No one in his family knows why he did this. Jimmy was a great kid. His mother and father are sick. Thinking why he went there? Why he did this. His grandparents are sick too. They feel so sorry for the man and his wife. Prayers for everyone.😊
When I lived in the US I packed a hand gun with me everywhere. I’d also have a first alert emergency alarm with me. Always look around at your surroundings as well.
I am a 75 yo female and have wanted to travel solo for yrs. I feel I'm about there. Now seeing this I am not as sure. I would not stop in a rest stop being solo and I am constantly checking locks but this is scary. 😳🕊
Don’t let fear stop you! There are many of us solo females out there and we watch out for each other. There’s a lot of good advice in this video but if you can connect with other solo females, we can all provide information on what we do and what works best for us. But #1 is situational awareness. A lot of the RV clubs have groups for people who have different interests or are looking for like-minded RVers. I belong to Escapees and they have a group for solo travelers. There are some others I haven’t had a chance to take a look at but RV Life could be a good place to start. We would love to see you out on the road enjoying your life! 😀
Hubs and I both carry switch blades and have plenty of lead on hand. Of course first we need to be aware and leave a questionable area. we also have a dog who warns us of every single thing. But when pushed into a corner...
Something happened on my 10,000 mile, coast to coast Spring road trip in a very serene setting. I travel with big boom protection but the only thing that would have helped in this particular situation was a ccw so, I'm gonna' get one of those to accompany my new 9mm.
I just bought my RV, living stationary solo but with my pup. I just watched your video and immediately bought the personal alarm off Amazon. Being disabled and not being able to "just leave" in my RV, is my #1 fear 😢
Thanks for watching - while these types of incidents are rare (thankfully) it never hurts to be proactive with personal protection. Thanks for watching.
Always aware of who and what and have major protection on hand. We had an attempted robbery in LasVegas at Frank Sontra signal before the turn towards Circus circus RV parking
2nd amendment and trained here. I also keep myself fit and ready to move at 60 years young. I always lock my doors when I leave or when I come inside my RV but on hot days I leave the door open and the cheap plastic screen doesn't lock. Any tips or recommendations for screens or screen locks?
I had not heard about that until I saw your video. That is tragic. I always stop at the Grand Island KOA on my way out west (I'm currently there tonight) and have been by that rest area many times. I know it's a chance, once in many years occurrence. But it still causes one to stop and take stock. Your tips are great and I have considered many. A ball bat and bear spray is what I currently use (since the coastal states are so up tight about guns). Thanks and safe travels.
Check in regularly. I travel for work, and this is a practice I have carried to my personal life. Every night on the road, I would send my mom a pin of our location.
I was just on road with my family in our RV towing our jeep. We stop in a well lit rest stop gas station but I'm always ALERT!!! I Alway have your gun on you even even when you get gas. The entire country has culture has changed crime has increase so don't be an air head stay ALERT!!
The news article had said the man entered their RV, which immediately what came to mind was how strong are those doors and locks if he was able to get in so easily? Are there additional ways to secure the door(s) against forced entry?
A very helpful video on an important topic. Thank you. I wanted to add a side note: I might not have linked that particular advertising to this tragedy. I wouldn't want the family to perceive that anything about the couple led to this random event. I know that wasn't your intention, and obviously, in this particular tragic instance, physical fitness of the couple was unrelated to the random and brutal attack. Nevertheless, I would remove that advertising, and let your video just stand as a legacy to the couple in that their story may help others, and invoke discussion in the RV community about safety.
I told you before we are going to start this type of lifestyle I have four young kids, two dogs and a cat. I already told my wife there is zero chance I would start doing this, unless I know I had a firearm to protect my family. Yes I can use my hands. I’m pretty strong I’m in my 30s but still those only get you so far if someone else has a weapon. I would never want to feel like I could not protect my family from a bad person.. such a sad story
I love your videos. I agree with everything you said in this video, however, I want to point out that being physicallyphysically fit is certainly not always a deterrent. A wide receiver for the San Francisco 49ers was shot yesterday because someone tried to rob him in broad daylight at Union Square, so you just never know, and everyone needs to be prepared.
Very good points. I , myself like to keep my keys with me at all times. Any intruder or sketchy person, press « alarm » on your key attachment. Surely will make anyone disappear if you are sleeping or sitting outside your rv, camper or van. 😮👍🇨🇦
If you're moving be very careful what hotels you're staying at and where you're parking your U-Haul especially if you're coming anywhere on the West Coast I live in the Tacoma Washington area we have military that will unfortunately not be aware that they are staying at a hotel in the bad area come out to find all of their belongings stolen because their U Haul was stolen. It's heartbreaking. Same thing with rest stops most of the rest stops on the West Coast have some unsavory characters that like to hang around. The police to try to do their part to keep them moving. It's like playing wack a mole. Keep your head on a swivel. Do not let children or teens use the restroom by themselves.
I totally agree with people becoming too absorbed in phones and earbuds. If I'm wearing earbuds in public, I only use 1. My earbuds also have a "transparent" mod that allows me to hear what's going on around me. I read an article years ago on being aware of your surroundings at ALL times (especially women who are alone). Always walk with your head up and constantly scan your surroundings. Being aware of who/what's around you can also make you aware if someone else might need your assistance. Also, know where you parked your car. I can't tell you how often I see people wandering around a parking lot looking for their car because they forgot where they parked, and lock all your doors immediately after entering your vehicle.
About 50 years ago my husband’s aunt and uncle were killed in a rest area by Ely Nevada. They were sleeping and he entered their RV and killed them, just for fun. He left hem to rot. Closed the door and went on his way. He was killed when he tried to kill another couple, they had a pew pew. He had a note book where he bragged about his victims.
Awareness is the key and fitness. Also an easy conceal item is a pocket knife. My 85 yo mother never leaves without one. There are very slim and thin knifes with clips for any type of clothing. I know may are not comfortable with firearms but criminals are. Just a thought.
My safety tip, talk to the truckers! Sometimes they have cameras recording where your semi is. I've had a trucker stop me from going to dinner alone and told me he and his wife would go with me. Apparently, his wife had a weird feeling about a man who had been going around "accidentally" walking into the women's bathroom. My RV was also picked up by their camera. They let me know what time they would be leaving and I left when they did. They were doing their reset and I got a solid amount of rest while having a couple that helped look out for me.
That’s so great they watched out for you. Thanks for sharing
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There is at this moment a serial killer on I5 working the Highway rest areas - they think it is a trucker - be safe people.
God bless that angel couple!
What a blessing,!!
I drive a truck and have been all over the country, ive found its best to leave the phone in your pocket when you get out anywhere and lock your doors and keep your eyes moving like you do when your driving
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I, too, am a driver. And I never exit the truck without my phone.
I have driven a truck for 45 years and have never had any problems!! Sometimes people don’t pay attention and I will give you that . But if your to scared to go out and enjoy this life then maybe it time to stay home where it can happen there also!!!!!!!
Thx for such great information!! Better to be safe than sorry!!
Hey now ...I'm not over 55 for another 15 years... Good informational/thought provoking video as always
This is probably going to get worse. I am a single woman and travel by myself with my show dogs. I’m almost 70. I had a a young man come by my motorhome after I stopped at a rest area. He left, but when he was walking away I saw a knife in his hand which was behind him. I’m not a little old lady (yet). I carry.
That is scary! Glad you were ok, stay safe and thanks for sharing
That IS scary for sure!
So glad you carry!!! I teach an NRA course so I want to add, Get out and practice regularly
Similar happened to my parents a few years back. Their show dogs were three German Shepherds. No problem for the parents.
Yes, me too. I'm 56 and starting to feel more vulnerable at times. Concealed carry gives me peace of mind. I live in Washington state on Tuesday a career criminal who should have been locked up in a psychiatric unit for career criminals decided to carjack an 80-year-old woman who was out walking dogs she fought to get the dogs out of the car and he rolled over her killing her and then dumped the car and decided to hurt the dog as well. Had one person had a gun it all would have ended much differently. People tried to come to her aide one of the gentlemen hopped out of the van with a baseball bat but it was too late because he had a knife and was very busy with it. People in Seattle love to talk about how dangerous guns are and I couldn't help but think had someone just had their concealed carry this woman might still be alive and a dog as well. Stay safe. It's going to be like the '70s all over again.
With the drug addiction & runaway crime. Police are short staffed and burnt out. The general public gets to be the sitting ducks.
I’m 62 solo towing 33’. I carry a big stainless steel jug with ice in it when I go into gas stops. It has a a place on the lid I can put my hand through and bop you up the side of your head if you mess with me. I try to walk with my shoulders back when going in. I have bear spray handy in my truck. I guess I’m an oddity at campgrounds as people have asked me if I’m alone. I decided for safety measures to get a loveseat camp chair to look like there’s more than one person there. I also put out additional seating. People stopped asking after I did that. I listen to my gut instinct. I’ve been known to leave when it felt off at overnights stops or gas stations, I’ve even started down a trail and it felt wrong so I went back to my vehicle.
Well done!
Thanks for sharing
The only time your gut is wrong is when you don't listen to it.
Back when I used to hike a lot, one day I set out on a trail alone. Not far down the trail I clearly heard the words, "Go BACK!" NO idea what, where, or why... I have learned to listen to that gut instinct without question, especially when it's that loud and clear.
@@joanies6778 Although I do my hiking with my Greater Swiss Mountain Dog mix (87 pounds), I too listen to that instinct. An evening walk in woods in Washington State just didn't feel right so I turned back. Next day I found out from the campground owner that there were bears sighted on the trail later in the evening. My dog is big and protective but not an even match for a bear.
One thing I would suggest is if you are in your trailer/RV always lock your door and if you get a knock at the door check out a window before you unlock your door. You can always talk through the window if needed.
I am a 49 year old motorhome transporter that travels solo. These are great tips!! I also always pretend like I’m not alone. When leaving the RV, I talk loudly back into the RV like I’m talking to someone. I also talk to truckers. They are a whole community that looks out for each other.
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Rather be judged by 12 than carried by 6. This situation would have ended very differently if he had attacked our family. If you can legally carry, it is your duty to defend your life. Law enforcement can't be everywhere all the time, baddies can be. Fitness only gets you so far when baddies have a knife or a gun. Stay fit and aim small.
Tips and Tricks: Smith and Wesson M&P Shield EZ for older folks; Glock 19 for boring folks; Sig Sauer P365 for spicy folks; PSA Dagger Compact for poor folks; H&K P30 for rich folks.
Thank you for the info
@@loraineforshee699 Dead men tell no tales !!
Your semi-auto bias is shown (I prefer them also). However, not all people can chamber a semi-auto This is were a revolver, like a Ruger SP 101 or SW 60 or even a smaller caliper revolver comes in handy.
@@betterwithrum one does not have to carry a firearm in order to fulfil your duty ti defend.
@@Elizabeth-rq1vi I respect your opinion. You are welcome to it. You're categorically wrong, but that's never stopped anyone in history from making poor decisions. I wish you nothing but the best, fellow human. May the odds ever be in your favor.
Situational awareness is key! One of the first things they teach you in a conceal carry class
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100% agree. Training is important!!! Practice needs to be consistent.
Head on a swivel.
I teach a course “Refuse to be a Victim” (NRA gun free course)
1) be aware of your surroundings!
2) TRUST your instincts, women are the worst as we think ‘oh I shouldn’t think that about that guy’.. yes you SHOULD
3) have additional latches on your screen doors, as well as your Rig door
4) walk with confidence looking at people!
5) play the “what IF” game. As you are walking through a parking lot (or store etc) think “What would I do if this happens? “ planning at all times will keep your plans sharp in case you need them.
6) If you have to unhook your toad or puller, HOOK them back as soon as you can.
7) DON’T advertise on facecrack etc where you are, or you are out of town!
I could go on..
Take regular safety classes & if you carry…. Get out on the range often!!
Thanks for the tips!
where do you teach your course?
My dad taught my sisters and me to fight like a man so that we could defend ourselves
Where do you teach this course? I'm in southern Illinois.
This is GREAT advice! I like #5 the best and I naturally do this 100% of the time. It surprises me how many people just don't know how to do this.
We have been full-time RVing for a year now. When we pull in for diesel or a rest area, I'm always watching now. But when we first started, I was so vigilant about it. But when I heard this story earlier this year, it woke me up. Love how you covered it, too! Thank-you!
Thanks for watching and for the comment
Thank you for the wake up call.
My condolences to those that were not so fortunate.
Once you get by our German Shepherd, then you'll have to deal with me.
Say goodnight Gracie.
We travel with our 85 lb German Shepherd, Bear. Haven't had any trouble yet!
We also have a German shepherd, great protection she barks if someone talks to me. She will sit right in front of me until she deams you safe
Stopping at a rest area south of portland, oregon one evening after dark...I was walking to the rest rooms with my German Shepherd...I noticed 3 men standing together near the buildings....they appeared to be perusing the people who were coming and going into the restrooms and parking lot....I will tell you my spider sense kicked in.....I noticed that they watched me coming down the sidewalk...I know that i would be an easy mark...an old fat woman in her seventies....but as I watched them their eyes went to the dog by my side on a leash.....and all three took a partial step back....that was a very strange moment...creepy....
We also went full-time with our German shepherd,,at 1st I thought why did we choose such a big dog..we're old and we still have young kids..our dog is amazing,,she won't even allow people to approach our children or grandchildren without a firm warming 😉..staying safe requires a line of defense and a backup plan
Awareness, confidence, common sense, and a big dog (rotties for me) are absolute musts.
I would like to point out... bear spray works on people as well.
Yes it does…
So does wasp spray!
@@debragriffith6628and wasp spray has a truer aim and further aim
Unfortunately some people do not respond to pepper sprays due to being under influence of illegal drugs. Stay situationally aware at times.
This is great information. I was just wondering about bear spray last night.
This may sound weird but I have always been judged by people as "an approachable" person. I have been in two very bad situations in my lifetime- twice attacked but when I was younger and in my home city of FL. My brother, a retired policeman and who lived in Manhattan and Boston, told me that the best thing to do in an unfamiliar environment is be very non expressive and more deadpan and look at no one but look around and assess the space.
And note the insulting superficiality of how this was reported on "the news".
As a military veteran, I had veteran plates on my truck (we have a travel trailer) before I moved to Canada. Now I have different articles on the truck that are Marines related. It serves several purposes, but the largest is that people know to look elsewhere if they are looking for "excitement". I diligently practice most of the things you mentioned - staying alert, know your surroundings, apparently I typically "look intimidating", which is really helpful in avoiding that previously mentioned "excitement". As far as your last point, I sincerely hope that no one will ever know my stance....
Thanks for your service ‘jar head’ 😉
Signed:
Navy Wife , Navy Brat & Army mom
Thanks for your service 🇺🇸
So that's why all those old farts wear military caps and teeshirts . They are trying to look intimidating
My wife and I have camped in every state except Alaska and Hawaii. We also have camped in Canada. We have been camping for over 50 years and we have never had a serious problem.
On a recent trip from Ohio to Florida we stopped for fuel in Elizabeth Town Kentucky at a Five-star gas station/convenient mart in a very good neighborhood.
I filled up with fuel and got in our 2021 Thor Compass. I looked in the passenger side mirror and saw a man carrying 2 Jack Russel type dogs unleashed coming toward the camper. He tried to pull open the camper door. It was dead bolted and locked. He looked in the passenger side door and said something we could not understand. He returned to his green Chevy 1/2 ton truck with his 2 unleashed dogs.
Keep your doors locked and have a way to protect your family if an intruder gains access to your home on wheels. Be safe and prepared. America is not what she use to be.
Now for the rest of the story.
We did not confront the man. We continued on I 65 south toward the Sunshine State. After a couple of miles I saw the green Chevy truck with his 4 ways on approaching, he pulled beside us. We could see him and the 2 dogs. He was very close to us. He tried to run us off the road. I slammed on the brakes to avoid hitting the truck however I did not stop. He tried this 3 times and was not able to get us to stop.
We were in panic mode. My wife called 911. He was beside us again in his attempt to stop us. He saw me with the phone and sped off. We were able to get a partial plate number. We could see him at a great distance because he had his cargo light on in the rear of the truck bed. 911 told us they would let them know.
The green truck with his cargo light on had pulled over at the next exit, waiting for us. We did not know what we would have to endure next.
A class C RV had passed us and my wife suggested we stay close to the class C RV which I did. Maybe that is why the green truck did not try to follow us.
Warnings to follow:
1. Keep your doors locked.
2. Purchase a dash cam. (We now have one)
3. Security cameras (we have them at home)
4. Have a way to protect yourself if someone gains access to your rv.
5. Do not stop.
6. If you are older you are a target.
7. 911 was no help.
This was typed on Sticky Notes. It happened to my wife and I on October 31, 2022 at 7:08 am.
Totally terrifying! What was with the dogs? He sounds very mental
Thank God, you’re OK
Glad you’re ok, how terrifying
At this point with the same of our country it doesn’t matter how in shape you are it’s the mental state of the attacker being aware of your surroundings pay attention never leave yourself open to attack!
I personally believe concealed carry is the best protection but be well advised and trained with your personal carry options.
My rules are simple: situational awareness and not being nose deep into your phone. I have a less than lethal Byrna in hopes of de escalation, but also a real pew for the worst case. It also helps that I have a rescue LEO GSD K9. It never hurts to mutter and yell to yourself like a crazy, if you start to get the weird feels.
Yes, thanks for sharing!
@@GratefulGlamperit also helps to know how to deal with the unfortunate situation like a knife attack, in that the outer facing portion of the forearm is the best tool for deflecting a knife swipe. There are no arteries in this area. Yes you will get cut bad, but won’t bleed out.
@@GratefulGlamper I'm 58 and heart patient I need more info on self defense ?
I love that! Crazy acting people do scare all people.
Good advice! Acting crazy in a dangerous situation helped King David!
We are 74 & 71 and in pretty good shape. We avoid states (and Canada) that restrict 2nd Amendment rights. I carry a second amendment device on my person and have 2 others in our Airstream. I practice my second amendment rights at least weekly. We also choose our campsites carefully. Otherwise we enjoy life.
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I am not so scared. Yes things happen but the chances are not high that they will. I have slept a lot with my rv door and windows open and nothing has happened to me or mine.
@@JCcreates927 I agree. One incident and everybody wants to arm up. Crazy.
@@vanssolo1 One incident is all it takes . We are not crazy for taking steps to keep ourselves, our families and our pets safe. I don't "gun tote". I'm no showboat. But, both my wife and I have CCP's. It's the last thing we'd ever want to do but are willing to if necessary.
Situational awareness is the key. Crooks love a victim who is walking around with their head in the clouds oblivious to their surroundings. If you can, be armed and have the confidence and will to defend yourself. Better to be judged by 12 than carried by 6. Stay with your traveling companions. Non lethal weapons are crap unless you are some kind of well trained self defense expert. Don’t travel remote areas such as rest stops at night. Be where you need to be by dark.
Great tips, thanks for sharing
Exactly!!!
My dad brought me up with “judged by 12, than to be carried by 6” 💁🏻♀️
Also important to practice & train!
Blessings,
I often camp alone. I have a giant pair of men’s boots that I keep outside my camper door. I also sleep with my car keys under my pillow so I can set off the car alarm in an emergency.
Great tips. Thanks for sharing
I think that so many people use the boot thing that it is a dead giveaway that there is a single woman inside.
Thank you for the car keys tip! I never thought of that. They will now be within arms reach when I’m asleep!
Good ideas. I also have started keeping a dog dish and dog leash outside my door, even though I don't have pets.
@@vanssolo1no, boots are not a dead give away, but glad you already know of that trick.
that's why we carry whenever we're on the road. but the name of the game is situational awareness you have to have your head on a swivel its sad but true
A great refresher video! I watched a video of felons viewing people on a video & when asked they all independently picked the same potential targets! Main lesson don’t give off a vulnerable vibe & don’t display apparent wealth! A small container of Bear Spray Gel (not liquid) has multiple protection qualities. Thank you for exploring this necessary but difficult subject!
Thanks for watching
I was doing contract work and drove from Ohio to CA. I took my 65 lb dog with me. Found out earlier that if I felt angry/upset towards someone, in this case hunters going on a popular hiking trail, he would growl and lunge at large men. I did go to the ranger station and report them and found out they could hunt there, but there were no signs to alert people. The rangers gave the spiel, but when I just looked at him, he said yeah I know, he didn’t like that he had to permit it and it did endanger hikers. My dog’s normal personality was all people are friends or potential friends. I had to tell him all people don’t want to pet him when I could see they were afraid of him. He became better known at the apartment I was staying at than me! Had a woman open her window and ask if that was Buddy. When I said yes, she said her husband talks about Buddy, could she and her children pet him. This absolutely made his day. But I knew he would protect me. As a single 140 lb woman, I know I can be a target so I am always alert and paying attention to my surroundings as I don’t want to become a statistic.
I highly recommend the LCP .380. Fits in your front pocket like a phone. I don’t leave my house without it.
Good to know, thanks for the comment
Buy the LCP .380 II the original one has a terrible trigger
Great option for states 2A friendly; however, be careful in the antigun states. Research where you can carry before you end up in hot water. Plenty of resources and groups online.
@@dwaineesch1344 , great point sir! Thankfully I have no desire to go to California, New York or New Jersey lol!
@@austinboone2265 Maryland, any New England State, there are many more out there. Thankfully, I live in Alabama and have my freedom. I only travel in the South where I can protect myself and my family.
I'm 70. Female. Pull a 23' travel trailer. I have a large dog. I'm always wanting and willing to learn something new.
Things are definitely much different now. We were lack’s on the door locking at first. It irritates my husband but since the couple in Texas got murdered I am locking our RV door every time I come in. I need to be better at rest stops. Thanks for the info
Thanks for watching
Yes, even when awake and day light. I've seen people "accidentally" enter the wrong RV. That doesn't happen if locked.
Thanks for this important message.
Every so often there is an awful tragedy like this and it reminds us that as full time RVers we always have to take precautions.
Age 72, fairly fit, taller woman, not heavy and not skinny, have been told I’m intimidating, walk confidently, try to stay aware of surroundings…make it obvious I’m looking around….when traveling alone. Often drive longer distances in large pickup alone. When I stop for rest break/nap, I text my husband exactly where I am and how long I may be resting…and take pictures of the area. Then text when I’m headed back on the road. Also “often” exercise right to carry.
Don't forget your golf 😉 clubs.
I'm praying for the Weaver family and all those in need.
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I hear of tragedies and near tragedies. I want people, they don’t listen, they’re extremely naive, stubborn and rarely listen.
People who isolate themselves and isolate themselves in the backcountry are asking for trouble and it’s sad.
I lock my doors as soon as I am getting in. I drove solo over the road truck driver for 14 years and was 42 when I started driving. Before cell phones. I learned to always pay attention to everything around me when walking. So many are looking a their phones while walking. Not a good idea. After dark I never walk close to other vehicles and look all around you.
We had a huge discussion after this occurred and came to the conclusion that surrendering whatever the perp wants is most likely the best strategy unless you can get the upper hand. I think often the first reaction is to fight but at what cost. Very sad and horrifying.
We always have our air horn beside the door. Wasp spray that sprays about 10-15 ft away, and our more serious things on our side. When my husband is out pumping gas I am watching all around us. Our dog is not huge but very protective. There are plenty of good people out there but now with the open boarder there are thousands that are already breaking the law and have no fear of our laws. It pays to be vigilant!
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American born kid from Ohio...not someone who crossed the open border. Worry less about them and more about everyone else.
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I always overnight at a campground, just feel safer than overnighting at a parking lot.
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We made the mistake of not knowing, even though we checked reviews, that a campground we were going to stay overnight in was a Party Spot. Nothing before dark gave indication. Then, a full caravan of 20-somethings showed up with tents, pop-ups, campers, etc, and started throwing down immediately. Camp Host was "gone for the evening" supposedly. We didn't settle in, just wanted to sleep, so we cranked up and left by midnight when the bonfires (6 of them on the lakeside) started having fireworks added. Made damn sure I got my money back, but my point of this story is just to be vigilant. Campgrounds don't guarantee safety. Be vigilant and aware at all times.
I don't understand staying at a rest area. They are busy, loud, and dangerous. I don't think it is a secret that you are at a greater risk at rest areas and truck stops.
When we RV, we always head to Provincial Park Campgrounds in Canada with lots of trails for hiking, water for Kayaking and we spent alt least 1-1/2 to 2 hours a day doing these outdoor events, we do not really call them exercises as they are really rewarding activities. As such we also carry bear spray for those out back park hikes in the BC mountains so that in it's self would be a good deterrent to any violent attacks. I for one am always in the moment, no headphones or ear buds as I am enjoying nature.
👍 Bear spray is great personal protection, thanks for sharing.
A Sheriff's Deputy friend recommended Wasp Spray as a devastatingly powerful self defense weapon that does not need constant practice to stay proficient at using. Spray it into the face of the most determined attacker and you will incapacitate them long enough to escape and call authorities if you're spaying any attention at all to the other safety guidelines in this video.
The best part? After you use it for self protection, you won't find yourself in jail waiting for a lawyer you most likely won't be able to afford while everyone is watching you on the evening news.
Great tip, thanks for sharing
@@GratefulGlamperand you don’t have to be so close like bear spray. Also because it’s a steady stream it’s less likely to blow back at you. We carried it when out on the ATV’s always.
And can be carried in Canada!
My husband a retired semi driver..all his buddies told us to get wasp spray during the riots..good info
Not a bad plan, but I disagree with not finding yourself in jail. In most cases you won't, but in certain areas of the country any self-defense action will land in jail in need of a lawyer.
Thanks for the tips. I am always searching my location for thing that look out of the ordinary and all the way we can exits a situation if need be. My husband is disabled being aware is the most important tip I can give.
Martial art is a great way to learn how to protect yourself and your loved ones. I studied tae kwon do years ago with a sensei who taught the Korean military. He taught us to walk away and only use what he taught us if you have no other choice. In some cases you might take some firearm training and learn gun laws. Man’s best friend is another option you might want to consider. There are a lot of things that should be consider when it comes to you and your family’s security. Money can be replaced lives cannot be replaced. I have noticed that high end coaches have a safe room door on the bedroom, that can be closed and secured. That would be something to consider when ordering a new coach. My dad taught firearms in the military. He always said to me “ never point a loaded gun at anyone unless you intend to use it and never let anyone point a loaded gun at you “. Hopefully you will never have to deal with either of those situations. Stay safe and safe travels
We are both 75 and never go without our two big dogs. They are both cream puffs. However their bark is huge and they can be, and are, very threatening to strangers who come into their territory.
Situational awareness is key …. Gotta pay attention to where you are and ask around, folks will often tell you if you should or should not stop somewhere. Broken glass, needles, trash and so on will tell you what’s happened there. Don’t be afraid, be aware. Great video Charity!!
Thanks for watching
Had to laugh again, Charity! I am one of those over 55. I am a single, 71 year old, 5'2" 120 lb woman who usually travels alone, except for my 75 lb yellow lab, Boux! (I'm from Louisiana, rhymes with roux, lol) And, my safety is a concern. I am very careful about where I stop and try to always be vigilant of my surroundings.
Good work. Enjoy your videos, especially the diy's and organizational videos!
Thanks for watching, safe travels
Thank you for bringing the awareness of this tragedy. By heart goes out to the Weaver family. I donated a small amount to their go fund me. If everyone posting here would do the same maybe that would help them get to their financial goal. Will not bring Mr. weaver back but will show them there are still good people in this world.
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We all need to realize that anything can happen anywhere,! I'm 71 and even On a short walk I carry a weapon !!! Not a gun but a metal cane or a rock in a sock! I also wear a loud whistle around my neck and "watch constantly! "...😮❤😊
Fifty years of driving truck you must be aware in a rest area watch for truck drivers don’t be afraid to ask one of them for help most are willing to help even be a look out for you remember safety in numbers. So sorry for this tragedy.🙏🏻
I have the popular fuel card that RVers use and I cannot tell you how many times I have been approached at a major fuel stop while fueling or even at a rest stop (yes, I have stopped at that same rest stop).
Sometimes it is a trucker curious about my RV, but other times it is a random person who asks to use my points for showers and such. Living in Los Angeles as long as I did I learned to have everything locked at all times, walk around with a different set of keys laced between my fingers, act like my head is on a swivel, if one person is trying to talk with me being on the lookout for a partner who may try to come up alongside or behind me, and carry myself like I am amped up and may be looking for a fight myself.
Most people try to avoid crazy so that's the persona I project. Sad that I cannot have a quality convo with a trucker who means well, I am using the fuel pumps they rely on to make a living, but I am just trying to avoid being a target.
Oh, and the wife has had extensive krav maga training. I pitty the fool that tries anything on her.
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just watched your safety vlog from 4 years ago, what a change you have both made, keep up the good work.
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Good tips! Dont pull into an overnight parking throw out your slides, turn on your ginny at 11:30 at night, dont CAMP....it makes people trying to sleep angry. Dont make people mad! I have met several Unstable people
Sadly, this couple live only about 30 minutes from us, in Missouri, and in the same community our kids have lived for 20 years. While we do not know them, our hearts break for the wife and family. We, too, are RVers in our 70's and try to always be aware of our surroundings when we stop at Rest Areas to walk the dogs and at fuel stations. This is a practice we have used for many, many years and taught our children every day of their adolescent to adult lives. We still remind them of this any time they are out. We travel with two dogs and almost never leave the RV without them or each other when we stop at Rest Areas. At fuel stations I always keep my eye on my husband and the surroundings. We live in a very scary world but, it is not going to keep us from enjoying our travels. Happy Glamping and may God Bless and keep us all safe.
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I'm a car traveler, but I hardly ever stop at interstate rest stops. They just don't feel safe to me. I would rather stop at a convenience store with lots of other people around. The more people that are around, the safer you are. Of course, you have to pick your locations carefully too, but I usually scout my route before I get on the road.
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These are excellent tips! Situational awareness is first. In addition, I carry a Byrna loaded with teargas and we both carry stun/flashlights. I don't care if I never have to use them.
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I just commented on another channel she was just sitting in her van editing and all of a sudden she looked up and a guy was actually walking into the van, she screamed get out, what are you doing? He looked at her but then he did leave! I'm just starting to hear about more of weird things happening, more people are just doing weird stuff. Thank you so much for your information ❤
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You need to remember, many of your subscribers that RV are Canadians, and basically any weapon cannot be carried/used, which is unfortunate, at least to give you some confidence in 'having' safety! Nonetheless, I'll tell you a short story, where on a solo hunting trip several years back, I got myself a Motel room for the night, and was awoken to some noise outside. There was a young fellow (I say young as he apparently was 19 years old) trying to break a side window out of a vehicle opposite of the room I was in. He wasn't able to, so he went to a second vehicle, did the same..again, no luck, although he did keep trying. After a while he left, walking behind the opposite side of Motel rooms between the parking lot. About 15 minutes later, the alarm goes off on my pickup truck, so I stuck my head out the door and asked what he was doing...his answer, he's trying to get into 'his' truck...so I quickly slid on my jeans and t-shirt, and headed outside. After getting out the door the guy was coming right at me! Now, I'm in my early 70's, and now very angry...so I put him in a head-lock, and I could tell after a short while my energy level being angry was cutting off his breathing...so I let off somewhat, and he came to life again, trying to fight me. I had bare feet, but we ended up in the gravel parking lot, but again I got the better of him, back in a head-lock again, to where we fell down, and I held him until the police arrived, as the owners had heard the scuffle. He tried telling me he just wanted something to drive to town...nonetheless, my hand was bleeding, my feet where bleeding and the woman owning the Motel came to my room and cleaned up the best she could. That was the one and only fight I've had in my life, and he had no weapons (thankfully) so as you say, staying in relatively good shape, you can hold your own if you try. When the adrenalin kicks in, one can truly not realize what they are capable of honestly. Thank you for this, as like you we have a Class A diesel pusher, and tow our Honda CRV. One thing that came to mind, when you mentioned about being able to leave quickly...we have to take the key out of our CRV, and put the transmission in Park, so leaving would be tough, if we had to quickly. Perhaps a manual transmission vehicle wouldn't have that issue, but we do as I'm sure do others. No idea if there are ideas on this issue, but I'd sure love to hear them! We're Snowbirds, so we do travel and use Rest Area's, so a big thanks for tackling this issue, as it's much appreciated!
Thanks for sharing!
Note to Canadians if you go to any good sporting goods store and by the orange flare gun in an orange floating box you will find this great in your boat or RV. A flare in the face would scare most attackers away. Note a 12 gauge shotgun shell is the same size as the flare shell. In Canada of course you have no right to defend your self and can be charged if you do as the criminals rights are just so much more important than honest people's but if you have to fire a flare gun to defend yourself or family you at least get to be judged by a Jury, which is better than dead.
Alternatively move to the US. I love Canada but having to be defence less is just not on. In the past we have had to call 911 a number of times and they just dont come so you really are on your own.
My thoughts exactly about towing our CRV and waiting while the diesel warms up before we'd be able to start driving.
We put ring doorbell, cameras throughout and all the way around the RV. In this way, we can constantly monitor the RV while we are in or away from our camper. These cameras can record or be viewed live with communication abilities to deter or fool possible intruders. They are also motion censored to where we can be alerted before anyone is actually close enough to break in and gives time to scare off intruder or call authorities. Just having a recognizable camera at our front door acts as a deterrent to possible theft or malicious act.
Very much so! We have the blink cameras all around our RV for the same reason. Thanks for watching
We carry our Byrna guns. They are a non lethal weapon that uses CO2 chargers to shoot pepper spray "bullets" (pellets filled with pepper spray). They are very effective!
Are they legally considered the same as other bang objects??? Or fall under pepper spray rules and regulations?? Or something else.
They are regarded as “less than lethal”, but can be lethal based on shot placement. You can use the projectiles with pepper spray or just the kinetic projectiles that can and do often cause broken bones, large bruises, etc. They are not considered firearms in the U.S., but are effective deterrents. I’ve seen RUclips vids of people being shot with them, and it is game-over when hit.
Thank you Charity for your helpful tips. Praying for the Weavers family.💕🙏💕
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Our large dog also has a big bark & really strong jaws…he’s a mutt that has a few big breeds in him & like Alaska has never been put into that situation (thankfully) but a person would have to be really deranged to open a door where there’s an unseen large bark behind it.
The most fit person can be overpowered by surprise. All precautions may not stop a crazy person. We all can only do our best, but there is no perfect method to be 100% safe.
This is a great video that everyone that camps any should watch. thanks
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Another great video. My husband tells me to be aware all the time. Yes I’m 65 and do need to exercise.
Extremely bright flashlights can be useful for self protection. They sell flashlights on their highest setting that are brighter than both highbeams on a vehicle combined. Flashing that in someone's face generally will make them recoil in pain and be disabled until they can see again.
Thanks for sharing!
maglight, heavy and metal
The production value of these videos are amazing. I mean you guys rig looks like a sound stage or back drop. Is this a news channel or real campers? I haven’t seen them post actual rv’ing vids in quite some time.
Then you missed several of our recent travel videos. We definitely work hard to put out high quality videos and our standards for ourselves re:production are always a work in progress. Thanks for watching
Wow. We live 45 minutes from this and didn't hear about it. Thank you for sharing. Very tragic.
Very sad indeed. Thanks for watching
Desert Eagle 50 cal, always being aware of my surroundings, make sure your RV is ALWAYS locked especially when you’re inside. So many RV’ers relax when inside the RV, feeling safe because you’re inside. Lock it up.
In Australia you can’t ‘carry’, no taser, no pepper spray, etc. So I carry a large screwdriver in the car door pocket because it is not a weapon. I also carry a small can of aerosol deodorant, body spray, or hair spray in my handbag when I travel alone. It may be just enough to help me if I get in a difficult situation.
It a scary world out there these days.
Thanks for sharing
My husband was a long haul truck driver and he has told me never stop at a rest stop. They are very dangerous. He said to stop at a truck stop if you need to stop somewhere. There are a lot more people in truck stops. No place is perfect but he said to go to the safer of the two.
Good tip!
We have a large dog that don’t put up with anyone coming near us. And he is with us everywhere we go even inside place.
Thanks for all the safety reminders. Something that's much needed.
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#1 NO material item is worth your LIFE. Hand over the keys!!!
It's not as simple as that when the guy wanted to take their towed vehicle that was attached to their RV.
@@sush2043 I'm sure that he could have dropped that car in less than a minute and saved his own and his wife's life instead of being hard headed and dead.
@@vanssolo1Wow, so you were there and witnessed it but didn't help? So easy to judge without all the facts. BTW, It takes my husband at least 3 minutes to disconnect.
@@sush2043 Not judging their actions, but there were witnesses that saw the guy ask them for the keys and I know MY husband would have told him to go take a hike...
I have pepper spray with me 24/7 always everywhere I go. I also have a CPL, but it isn't always convenient or an option to carry a pistol. Plus, if you use pepper spray and later found to have used it in a situation where it was not justified, nobody dies, and nobody goes to prison.
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In this day and age we must protect ourselves we must get the right training and be well armed…don’t take a knife to a gun fight!!!!
I’m always scanning the area with a purposeful walk, like an attitude. I’m 60. Look alive and alert.
This boy never ever acted like this. I know his gramma. and it's unusual he just had a new baby.
They think drugs were involved. He was not into them either. No one in his family knows why he did this. Jimmy was a great kid. His mother and father are sick. Thinking why he went there? Why he did this. His grandparents are sick too. They feel so sorry for the man and his wife. Prayers for everyone.😊
Such a sad situation all the way around. Thanks for the comment
When I lived in the US I packed a hand gun with me everywhere. I’d also have a first alert emergency alarm with me. Always look around at your surroundings as well.
Lot of Bears out there so put many bear sprayers around the place!
For sure! Thanks for watching
We each own a gun and we also have a fla cc permit and know what states honor our fla cc permit and we r over 60 yrs old.great video
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I am a 75 yo female and have wanted to travel solo for yrs. I feel I'm about there. Now seeing this I am not as sure. I would not stop in a rest stop being solo and I am constantly checking locks but this is scary. 😳🕊
Don’t let fear stop you! There are many of us solo females out there and we watch out for each other. There’s a lot of good advice in this video but if you can connect with other solo females, we can all provide information on what we do and what works best for us. But #1 is situational awareness. A lot of the RV clubs have groups for people who have different interests or are looking for like-minded RVers. I belong to Escapees and they have a group for solo travelers. There are some others I haven’t had a chance to take a look at but RV Life could be a good place to start. We would love to see you out on the road enjoying your life! 😀
Hubs and I both carry switch blades and have plenty of lead on hand. Of course first we need to be aware and leave a questionable area. we also have a dog who warns us of every single thing. But when pushed into a corner...
Good old trusty Glock is always a tool for safety
Something happened on my 10,000 mile, coast to coast Spring road trip in a very serene setting. I travel with big boom protection but the only thing that would have helped in this particular situation was a ccw so, I'm gonna' get one of those to accompany my new 9mm.
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I’m somewhat handicapped so I just keep a weapon nearby at all times
I just bought my RV, living stationary solo but with my pup. I just watched your video and immediately bought the personal alarm off Amazon. Being disabled and not being able to "just leave" in my RV, is my #1 fear 😢
Thanks for watching - while these types of incidents are rare (thankfully) it never hurts to be proactive with personal protection. Thanks for watching.
Always aware of who and what and have major protection on hand. We had an attempted robbery in LasVegas at Frank Sontra signal before the turn towards Circus circus RV parking
New subscriber and former LEO here. Great video and subject matter.
2nd amendment and trained here. I also keep myself fit and ready to move at 60 years young. I always lock my doors when I leave or when I come inside my RV but on hot days I leave the door open and the cheap plastic screen doesn't lock. Any tips or recommendations for screens or screen locks?
I had not heard about that until I saw your video. That is tragic. I always stop at the Grand Island KOA on my way out west (I'm currently there tonight) and have been by that rest area many times. I know it's a chance, once in many years occurrence. But it still causes one to stop and take stock. Your tips are great and I have considered many. A ball bat and bear spray is what I currently use (since the coastal states are so up tight about guns). Thanks and safe travels.
Thanks for the comment and stay safe!
Check in regularly. I travel for work, and this is a practice I have carried to my personal life. Every night on the road, I would send my mom a pin of our location.
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Nebraska 30 years ago is WAY DIFFERENT than Nebraska Today. Hell, Colorado is rapidly turning into Central America.
Hence why we left Colorado several years ago
I was just on road with my family in our RV towing our jeep. We stop in a well lit rest stop gas station but I'm always ALERT!!! I Alway have your gun on you even even when you get gas. The entire country has culture has changed crime has increase so don't be an air head stay ALERT!!
The news article had said the man entered their RV, which immediately what came to mind was how strong are those doors and locks if he was able to get in so easily? Are there additional ways to secure the door(s) against forced entry?
We accidentally locked ourselves out once and not even a locksmith could get in our Rv “front door”
A very helpful video on an important topic. Thank you. I wanted to add a side note: I might not have linked that particular advertising to this tragedy. I wouldn't want the family to perceive that anything about the couple led to this random event. I know that wasn't your intention, and obviously, in this particular tragic instance, physical fitness of the couple was unrelated to the random and brutal attack. Nevertheless, I would remove that advertising, and let your video just stand as a legacy to the couple in that their story may help others, and invoke discussion in the RV community about safety.
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I told you before we are going to start this type of lifestyle I have four young kids, two dogs and a cat. I already told my wife there is zero chance I would start doing this, unless I know I had a firearm to protect my family. Yes I can use my hands. I’m pretty strong I’m in my 30s but still those only get you so far if someone else has a weapon. I would never want to feel like I could not protect my family from a bad person.. such a sad story
I love your videos. I agree with everything you said in this video, however, I want to point out that being physicallyphysically fit is certainly not always a deterrent. A wide receiver for the San Francisco 49ers was shot yesterday because someone tried to rob him in broad daylight at Union Square, so you just never know, and everyone needs to be prepared.
Very good points. I , myself like to keep my keys with me at all times. Any intruder or sketchy person, press « alarm » on your key attachment. Surely will make anyone disappear if you are sleeping or sitting outside your rv, camper or van. 😮👍🇨🇦
If you're moving be very careful what hotels you're staying at and where you're parking your U-Haul especially if you're coming anywhere on the West Coast I live in the Tacoma Washington area we have military that will unfortunately not be aware that they are staying at a hotel in the bad area come out to find all of their belongings stolen because their U Haul was stolen. It's heartbreaking. Same thing with rest stops most of the rest stops on the West Coast have some unsavory characters that like to hang around.
The police to try to do their part to keep them moving. It's like playing wack a mole. Keep your head on a swivel. Do not let children or teens use the restroom by themselves.
We always make our teens walk together when going to the restroom and the stand outside the door to wait for the other one.
I totally agree with people becoming too absorbed in phones and earbuds. If I'm wearing earbuds in public, I only use 1. My earbuds also have a "transparent" mod that allows me to hear what's going on around me. I read an article years ago on being aware of your surroundings at ALL times (especially women who are alone). Always walk with your head up and constantly scan your surroundings. Being aware of who/what's around you can also make you aware if someone else might need your assistance. Also, know where you parked your car. I can't tell you how often I see people wandering around a parking lot looking for their car because they forgot where they parked, and lock all your doors immediately after entering your vehicle.
It doesn't matter how safe you feel, Crime can happen anywhere. Don't let your guard down.
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About 50 years ago my husband’s aunt and uncle were killed in a rest area by Ely Nevada. They were sleeping and he entered their RV and killed them, just for fun. He left hem to rot. Closed the door and went on his way. He was killed when he tried to kill another couple, they had a pew pew. He had a note book where he bragged about his victims.
So much for the safety of "rural" towns.
Awareness is the key and fitness. Also an easy conceal item is a pocket knife. My 85 yo mother never leaves without one. There are very slim and thin knifes with clips for any type of clothing. I know may are not comfortable with firearms but criminals are. Just a thought.
Thanks for sharing and for watching