When you’re dating you’re busy asking at what did you eat. Dating is a time to discuss such stuff like finances what debt you have. You dated for 3 yrs how can you not know the guy can’t keep a job smh. Lady needs to take some accountability.
The family was like let him marry maybe he will change 😅 I know someone who married a drunk his family organized everything bought everything for the wedding in hopes that he will change 😅
The fact that she is not talking about leaving him means she wants to hang in there. Unfortunately that is her only choice, for her own sanity and child's financial security she has to leave that man
I know someone else going through a similar situation and we are all praying she leaves or goes on separation till he gets proper help because its an old problem. He was in debt before marriage and still is in debt.
I wouldn't even think twice I would be gone. That idiot of a husband will never let this woman flourish. She will do better by herself than she is with him. Funny enough there hasn't been mention of divorce because this is too much. She shouldn't even go to church for counseling cz they don't help but encourage people to stick to rubbish
This situation is unimaginable,as in there's no way of out of that debt...its way way too much..i just cant imagine how she feels,she needs to leave him mwe,maybe he will learn.
The family knew and just wanted to attempt to make him more responsible if he got married ...elo that house and farms were a way of the family trying and doing their last for him .. .such men never change ....childishness plus stupidity...run tabaa mama.
Awe let her leave him mwe, there's no hope for him and he's going to drag her down with him. Even if she somehow by a miracle pays that k500pin, he will find ways of borrowing more 🤦♀️🤦♀️ run baby girl while you still have strength. Remember there's a child you have to raise. Your little salary can be your saving grace whilst you still have a job.
He sounds very dull. If she intends on staying with him then she needs to become the boss in that house. She needs to actually stand up. That’s if she wants to stay with him. She just has to become the leader of the home and get her husband in order. She also needs to confront the relatives with a plan on how to get that guy in order. Im sire he has uncles. They need to sit with him and make a plan for him to pay back his debt and grow up. That’s my advice if she wants to remain in that marriage. She needs to force him to face reality and grow up. Another thing to do it to just live their separate lives in that house. You do you, feed yourself and your child and let him live his life also. Meanwhile you are also doing some savings, maybe trying to create extra streams of income that kind of thing. That way you’re insulating yourself and your child. If anything you’d be able to get out if it ever comes to that.
I'm pretty sure she'd live a decent life if she focused on her and her kid and leave that man child. He's the reason she's constantly borrowing. If he's cut off, she would breath
Such a pity. If they want you to take care of him, they should ensure he lives with nothing to his name. There are just some men who want to be fed and baby sat. You can either take him like another child of yours or leave him. I can even tell his friends and family why I am leaving.
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When you’re dating you’re busy asking at what did you eat. Dating is a time to discuss such stuff like finances what debt you have. You dated for 3 yrs how can you not know the guy can’t keep a job smh. Lady needs to take some accountability.
You said it! 👏🏾 I always say this to singles too. Have those uncomfortable conversations!
She knows what to do, when she is ready she will do it. That man will not let you flourish baby girl
Elo you people are good.... Ine I would have left with the bailiffs 😢
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Elo she shouldn't dare bring another child into this madness
She has refused his lying lips on her body
Women have been known to perform wonders, I wouldn't be surprised if she became pregnant
It's the way she went straight to the point for me, "My husband is an idiot" 😂
They could move to a cheaper house and put their big house on rent
The family was like let him marry maybe he will change 😅 I know someone who married a drunk his family organized everything bought everything for the wedding in hopes that he will change 😅
Not even changing, they where happy someone gets to inherit him as a whole problem,off him
Sometimes these families just want to hand over a problem to someone else
Your stories are interesting and you give good advise. I hope your channel grows larger with time😊
Aww thank you so much🙏🏾
The fact that she is not talking about leaving him means she wants to hang in there. Unfortunately that is her only choice, for her own sanity and child's financial security she has to leave that man
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I know someone else going through a similar situation and we are all praying she leaves or goes on separation till he gets proper help because its an old problem. He was in debt before marriage and still is in debt.
Og my got..😂😂😂 the video title alone haha 😂😂😂..
Aweh sure
😂😂😂 OK but why did I laugh at the bailiffs getting the crib and car seat. That seems so petty om their part honestly.
Eish, this guy is a serious liability. She needs to leave him with his financial recklessness and look after her child.
Walk away mama it doesn't get better it gets worse
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Imwe let him serve some time. Hopefully it will help change him. Pantu everyone is and has been enabling him. Stop bailing him out.
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Its not worth it. For your sake, you only have one life and your child needs security. Please think about that.
I wouldn't even think twice I would be gone. That idiot of a husband will never let this woman flourish. She will do better by herself than she is with him. Funny enough there hasn't been mention of divorce because this is too much. She shouldn't even go to church for counseling cz they don't help but encourage people to stick to rubbish
This situation is unimaginable,as in there's no way of out of that debt...its way way too much..i just cant imagine how she feels,she needs to leave him mwe,maybe he will learn.
The family knew and just wanted to attempt to make him more responsible if he got married ...elo that house and farms were a way of the family trying and doing their last for him .. .such men never change ....childishness plus stupidity...run tabaa mama.
Just leave this man. He is not responsible 😢
Yoh, thats huge
Awe let her leave him mwe, there's no hope for him and he's going to drag her down with him. Even if she somehow by a miracle pays that k500pin, he will find ways of borrowing more 🤦♀️🤦♀️ run baby girl while you still have strength. Remember there's a child you have to raise. Your little salary can be your saving grace whilst you still have a job.
He sounds very dull. If she intends on staying with him then she needs to become the boss in that house. She needs to actually stand up. That’s if she wants to stay with him. She just has to become the leader of the home and get her husband in order. She also needs to confront the relatives with a plan on how to get that guy in order. Im sire he has uncles. They need to sit with him and make a plan for him to pay back his debt and grow up. That’s my advice if she wants to remain in that marriage. She needs to force him to face reality and grow up.
Another thing to do it to just live their separate lives in that house. You do you, feed yourself and your child and let him live his life also. Meanwhile you are also doing some savings, maybe trying to create extra streams of income that kind of thing. That way you’re insulating yourself and your child. If anything you’d be able to get out if it ever comes to that.
Girl file for divorce and make sure you get the house
Five hundred thousand 🙆🙆🙆🙆
Divorce him immediately
I know this type
Gurrrllll😢 it's time to mummy that man😂😂😂😂
Ohhh my 😮
Honestly how can one person generate such debt, that's a family of 3 what do they spend all this on?🤦
The truth can make you pap
Infact go back to the same family and ask for help
I'm pretty sure she'd live a decent life if she focused on her and her kid and leave that man child. He's the reason she's constantly borrowing.
If he's cut off, she would breath
Such a pity. If they want you to take care of him, they should ensure he lives with nothing to his name. There are just some men who want to be fed and baby sat. You can either take him like another child of yours or leave him.
I can even tell his friends and family why I am leaving.
The things people are married to SMH
Are you sure that man is not into drugs, he likely has addiction issues
I think she did not do her homework you needed to investigate her man way before marrying him.
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He is not smart at all 😂and Ego issues big time 😂
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Fact that you are the one handling home upkeep means you can manage on your own with your child. Leave gal!