If I was a 25 year old man today. I would stop dating 100%. Hit the gym, learn a language, work on a few hobbies, just continue to be selfish and build myself. Then at 35 I’d have my pick of the 18-25 year old group.
Yeah, you'd think that's the process but it's alot different. I'm 6'7 with a 6 pack, not bad looking and own a tree business. The majority are delusional, or narcissists, or cheaters, alot are on drugs or have alot of "emotional baggage " that I'm supposed to help her grow out of somehow.. What!?!... No thank you, I'm still waiting for a real one but not going out of my way to do it for now and stay focused on my business!
@@racerx9223 that’s what men are suppose to do. Wait for the right one. Women monkey branch from one to the better. Men can wait 5-10 years easy and still have a great life. Let the new crop witness the 304 behavior. And chose not to.
@@racerx9223 focus on your dreams, women and Money will follow you.. make like i make,when i meet new girl and She starts with what you have,what you own i say: i dont have Money,house,nothing and then see the behavior.. if She still talking with you is a good start but most i met they swap conversation very quick and then you say bye and move on but dont waste your energy .. but dont quite to start your own family and have your own children.. but is tough for singles..
I am 43. I am building my life from scratch again. I had a beautiful wife that is 12 years younger than me, who I still love to this day and very much in love with. She's on boyfriend number 3 since me, and that's it. She took my daughter in the divorce and fled. I promised I'd love her to death do us part, and I am a man of my word. It is actually a great consolation to not have to worry about dating because you're already taken, and to offer the sacrifice for your children to God. Always drawing good from every evil is what makes a man a man. Lemonade from lemons. But I'm Italian, so for me it's lemon cello. 😎 plus, to be honest, it's extremely peaceful without women in my life to bother it. Not the choice I would've made, but it's the way I am informing. Just glad I have critical thought, which a lot of people, especially of the opposite gender, seem to lack. Especially judges and lawyers. They are the worst.
why the fck did the man married this good for nothing women in the first place, men stop being thirsty and leave these dusty broke women in the streets, I have shooed out many women from my life with this attitude and they all start boo hoo boo tears like water falls mostly fake,
I’m a woman and it never stops to amaze me how the “ modern” females ONLY see what’s “ wrong” with men, what’s wrong with them etc But they NEVER see their own fault and failures as a wife! I was never told to sit down and stay quiet when I grew up. I grew up learning to be independent and don’t rely on a man but that doesn’t mean I don’t WANT a man. I am born and raised in Sweden so could be why. Different countries different cultures
If a woman divorces you and tries to milk you out of assets that you worked so hard for, be smart and play it wisely !!! Don't allow her to weasel back into your life. The fact that modern women are posting videos crying online about their relationship is pathetic. The fact that modern women are looking for sympathy online is even more pathetic !!!
I look at it like this, since most areas of the world is joint assets until divorced then if you know she's going to wreck you out of all your money my advice is liquidate everything and put it into crypto, on settlement give her the half without the password key. If the law in the area claims this would be like giving her nothing then after liquidating everything put it on a sports bet where it doubles and you two split it, or lose it all thus spliting nothing. Screw her if her intention is to screw you out of all assets, you owe her nothing.
I'd just commented on a facebook post that there wasn't a lot of incentive to be in a relationship anymore. She instantly dismissed and passed it off to the "real woman" thing. Dismissive is a huge red flag, avoid.
If she doesn't take care of her "husband" and only takes care of "HER children", odds are that he is not the father of those kids and doesn't know it. She is using him as a bank and not a husband or father
Questions for women: 1. Do you believe men should pay any or some of your bills as a prerequisite for you to spend time with them? 2. Do you believe men should have to pay for all the dates? 3. Do you believe a man should act and treat you traditionally - when you do not act traditionally? 4. Do you think a man should have to support you emotionally at all times? 5. Do you think a man is interested in dealing with your drama? 6. Do you consider yourself "strong and independent"? 7. Do you believe that it's "empowering" to have a high body count? 8. Are you unwilling to sign a prenuptial agreement? 9. Do you think a man should want you if you don't know how to cook or prepare a meal? 10. Are you unwilling to equally reciprocate a man's efforts in a relationship? 11. Are you a single mom? 12. Are you divorced? 13. Do you think that you should be able to go on a girls trip even if you're in a committed relationship? 14. Are you a "boss babe"? 15. Do you still hang around with any old boyfriends? 16. Do you expect a man to change for you? 17. Do you expect to be treated like a "princess"? If you answer "yes" to any of the above, your chances of landing yourself a good and masculine man are all but non-existent.
that list is rather flawed, women always wanted their partner to change for them, if you take that thing out of the picture for the candidate then you basically exclude even your grandma probably the same is with support thing
@@DarkSeresutia no. Bettering one self is not the same as changing. Your grandma probably wanted the man she married just for him to do better. Expecting change like all of a sudden I’m going to put down the toilet seat get bent.
Take away the financial benefit of divorce. 96% of divorces would have never happened. Don’t pay, go to jail or flee the country. She doesn’t deserve your money she isn’t with you.
@@lafayetthines4942 hey baby I will pay your alimony when you are performing sex acts 3 times a week. You didn’t do it when we were married so I don’t expect I’ll ever pay a check. ;-)
When you are a modern male who is educated, employed, stable, confident, experienced, and masculine you are unmoved by the forces of feminists/feminism. You walk daily through a valley of female desperation and defeat at your feet. Women desire you and they loathe you because they know they cannot control you. Live Free Brothers.
Women who need to repeat themselves, chances are, it's unrealistic expectations that they are complaining about. So how can a man give something that's not realistic?
The degree to which women are self absorbed is truly staggering. I mean, would you ever hear one mention what her partners needs might be? Men should stay single and happy.
@@abjectt5440 what John just said had my wife and I cracking up! I am a very blessed man myself and married many years to a wonderful wife and mother. It just breaks my heart to see the suffering of our young men and women today and the poor children that are brought into all this vileness. We old heads were called names while we tried to tell them not to accept all this vileness.The worst part is we cant save the children. Its set in stone now and the children pay dearly.
On one of these YT videos there was a young American woman. She was I think mixed blood Asian European. She was very pretty, even beautiful. This was a vision of female beauty and loveliness that I could fall desperately in love with. And then she opened her mouth ......... The loveliness vapourised in seconds.
Here’s a tip about handling the ‘mental load’ use a calendar! Also, most appointments I have for everyone in the family I get a reminder from the place, and thank god! Otherwise I’d forget. 😅
Lets not forget the young women who was so selfish that while her Husband and Father in law were building her a HOUSE, she shamed him on the internet and was soon divorced. Some other women is enjoying her house.
Just do what the soccer pro did, put everything you earn under someone else's name. That way, when the woman you marry tries to gut you for all you own, she will end up owing you all she owns instead, because you own nothing. Genius.
Men marriage is a dream killer. Being single is not so bad because you spend or not spend your money on what you want and you do what you want. Once married you will end up begging her for some time with her and if you do not believe me you will pay the price. The little time you get with her is not worth what you have to do to get it. You will find out only after it is too late.
Here is the thing with divorce, even if she gets nothing, it costs you the same. My divorce lawyer put it this way... every man pays. Either he gives his money to his ex, or he gives it to the lawyer. My ex cost me about 2 year's salary. 1/2 went to my lawyer. Knowing how much her lawyer charged, I can say that she paid out nearly all her settlement to pay her lawyer. I take great satisfaction in that while ot hurt to pay out that money, she didn't get anything to show for her efforts. 😂
It's Triggered Me, I wont be disrespect like that without consequences. You want something to complain about, I will do just that. You Gonna Learn Today.
These influencers that say that women leave only after they have told him over and over what she needs never give an example of even one unmet expressed needs.
26:30 whose money is she using to do the shopping??? If she's using MY money, she better buy my stuff or she's getting cut off. Get your own money and get out!
A household was the first business ever created. (And up until 2 centuries ago, most businesses were still Mom&Pop at -home enterprises) So, the household is still the base model for the Industrial Revolution. If an "employee" quits or gets fired, then the business founder hands over neither ownership nor the assets.
It's not women change and men don't. I want who I met. But that was an act til you got what you wanted. Then the controlling narcissist thinks she can train her man. Sorry but I'm not a dog that can be trained. You can give me a thousand hints of something you want me to do. I'll enjoy ignoring you a thousand times and watch you lose it because you can't get what you want.
Or vice versa. The very first woman speaks about a man presenting himself inone way but it not being how he can maintain. Perhaps he acted in a way to attract and seduce her, and once in the relationship, those actions stopped. Which would leave the woman believing they had been decieved. Or would have her trying to get him back to how he presented himself during the dating phase. Just playing Devils Advocate. But men are no more innocent than women
@@hdw237men arent innocent is why men now play by the rules of women , they can fake,be kind for having sex and then after they see reality and runn away of problems.. Do i think this is the correct behavior, no at alll but women arent princesa anymore to rescue and take care..only want something from you ,your time,wallets.. To the good men and women outhere dont get sexually envolved with any ramdom person, protect yourself,body,soul.. and be Patience the right person is looking aswell..
They play these little "games" or hints as you like to call them and if you don't catch on then you're the problem. Hey women- How about just use your adult vocabulary to express how you feel? Try it sometime it works much better than tests and riddles.
The girl talking about conservative and liberal rotted my brain! I dont Know many men who even like extreme Liberal women! 😂😂 I am more conservative and Liberal women scream loud and cuss me out; I don’t give in to their energy which makes them more angry… who would want that? 😂😂😂
These women remind me of Jacob and Esau, Esau gave away his inheritance for a piece of meat, married women who leave their spouses for another man, are trading down for nothing.
You cannot be a good coach if you always side with the same side in arguments. I’m beginning to realise that one of the biggest problems facing marriage is the swathes of unqualified women online who misinform other women, justifying everything they do, even when they’re the ones cheating, initiating the divorce and women are the ones who usually “change” because they want to find themselves. That last one is code for “I think I can now do better than this man because I’ve seen other women online who I think I’m Better than and I suspect they have more than me”.
52:38. I’ve lost everything in divorce…. I get that. And why I would quit my job. Donate all I owned to a church or other charity and refuse to pay her a dime.
The lady is correct that marriage is hard. Women who are 'house wives' depending on their age... The wife does hopefully come into the relationship with education...working power etc... a marriage is a relationship between two people and the expectations and the boundaries should be talked about before marriage. Kids /no kids?? Should be prepared or talked about even before 'dating cohabitation '... Not even at marriage yet... Right? Goals should be discussed as far as time worked at home then re transition to work force ? Yes. Education after the kids grow up ?? Yes. Social media?? From home or??? Yes , talk about the options. It goes both ways... Even if the woman makes more than the man and he's the at home Dad. Roles are not set in stone. I don't know why the first lady didn't use what was 'told' to her personally ... She kept using 'generalizations' that aligned to her 'narrative'. Instead of what everyone tells other women or men ..what was told you?? Did you not see the right path then?? Did you buy it or did you go your own way? Did your now ex behave like the 'chads' ? Or was he a 'good man's who bored you because you are 30+ and didn't feel like you had an identity?? If it was that ...sounds like in 10 years you wallowed in attention getting from people you never had a chance to meet because you were 'trapped' at home--- --- The divorced woman at 56 minutes is so whacked out of her mind making a post to her kids about their father and men. Why teach your children to look for men just like that?? She is so narrow minded in generalizing men to be only one thing to the child and the next part of it was disturbing that the only thing in their life is to prioritize themselves as 'empowerment'. That is an empty life . People are to get together and to share and experience and to make moments together through good and bad and sharing the burden together not alone or expectation that a man needs to do it sll for you is absurd. Like the host explains men need the emotional support and when they do show vulnerability the first time not 3-5 times show action and help through actions. It does not have to be financially all the time. Your time in true interpersonal one on one face to face interaction is equity and investment in the relationship as caring , concern and love.
American women are wired for divorce and will break up their family even if they have best husband providers. Note...it is always the man's fault. It's interesting how many women divorce as soon as the house is paid off, the cars are paid off, etc. It's interesting how what is expected from men is enforceable by law but what men expect from their wives is not. She is not required by law to be loyal, treat a man well, be respectful, etc. Men today do not want to enter into a marriage contract which rewards women for breaking that contract and penalized men.
9:34 wait, what? This dude says the exact same thing is a narcissist and was abusive but he thinks she’ll be the best choice to raise the kids? That doesn’t make any sense!
In some states, if the man buys the house before getting married, the man gets to keep the house in a divorce. If you are a man and are considering marriage and a house, see what your states laws are and if it fits, buy the house on your own first. That way she can't get it when she chamges. Also, if you keep your banking separate, this can help you save your assets in some divorces. You should probably pay to talk to a divorce lawyer in your state before marriage to know how to structure your assets just in case. Females completely change over time. Never forget, The woman you marry today will be a different person in 3 years. They call it growing. While men choose to be stable. Women call that not growing.
My friend in medical school was 1 of 4 siblings a single mom who was a nurse. He would always sing the blues because when his parents divorced his father was quite wealthy with realestate I imagine 30-40million - and he remarried and he promised that his first four biological kids would inherit the money. He passed away early and didn’t have things set up and his new wife was able to take control of everything and she had 2 kids of her own from a previous marriage. She kept all the money for herself and gave all the money to her own children and she made sure that her late husbands own biological children “ my friend” never saw a single dime.
I’m an old dude now but one thing I realized while dating is you meet the ego before you meet the person. That goes both ways. You meet the real person much later after some kind of control has been established. Like the Lynyrd Skynyrd song gos…. Things I like I try them twice… I only got married once😅
1:30 It actually IS fair to tell someone how to love you because if they act on that advice, they are CHOOSING to love you. It isn't fake. MEN are creatures of logic. It is illogical to keep making the same bad choice over and over. So for a man to keep choosing every day to love you is actually true love. So what the woman said is false.
If a woman talks and her man doesn't understand what she is trying to tell him it seems to me they both have a problem. It surprises me how few women are willing to notice what they are doing that just does not work with men. It also surprises me how many women when upset by what a man says seem unable to accept that the problem likely is her lack of understanding what the man intended to convey to her. Men are willing to admit they often do not understand women. In my 75 years I have only met about a dozen women who acknowledged they often do not understand a man, a man's intent.
I did leave my ex, my mother's house. My girlfriend moved her . mobile home on my 6 acres of land. She can take it with her if she decides to leave. But my property is paid for in full, and will be mine until I die...
A friend of mine 8:39 has been married for 26 years, in what he thought was a stable, happy marriage. Came back from working to find all his clothes packed at the door and the locks changed. So OK, I guess we are getting divorsed. Exept that she thought her lifestyle was not going to change and she was keeping the house and the cars. She was quite surprised when she received the order to vacate the house since it was going to be sold for the separation of assets. She was livid, saying that he wasn't a real man by taking away "her" house. Is not yours, sweetheart. It will be divided just like all other assets. And by the way! The Mercedes SUV is also being sold.
Hey guys! Consult an attorney and set up an LLC. List your parents or family members as the board of directors, transfer ALL of your assets to the LLC. At that point, your assets are no longer “your’s” but the LLC’s, and protected by the “corporate veil”. I don’t know all the specifics, that’s why you consult an attorney!
My wife divorced me 24 yrs ago. A bit of a rough patch but worked through it. Got my feet under me, rebuilt, and became a better person than I have ever been. Never went back to the plantation, never dated again. Never been happier. The ex?.Through the years has repeatedly tried to re-connect. No thank you. Not happening. As I recently had to remind her, she divorced me, not the other way around. Not my circus, not my monkeys. She made a choice. Deal with it.
First Girl: She needs to know her statement swings both ways for men too. Guys check out when they realize a women is using the old bait and switch when they are presented with an idealized version of what that woman thinks she is then he discovers her real self. It is then, they run!
I loved the girl early on, quoting great chunks from the feminist misandry handbook. Women thirty up being told to sit down, be quiet and let your husband lead? What planet was she from? As for emotional immaturity, yep, she sure displayed a bucket-load. My great-grandmother was born in 1880, pre the surprisingly odious suffragette movement (Karen Straughan and Janice Fiamengo have all the details), and she was the one person in the family that inspired fear in grown adults right up until her death in the 1970s. Marriage was never about telling women to sit down and shut up. Great Gran dominated her husband and everybody else, and she is not the only instance I can cite. Patriarchs AND Matriarchs.
she's wrong !!! if a man is single is expences are much less than if he's married ,because he has to pay for everybody ,is better only for a couple but NOT for a single man for a simple matematic count ,40.000 +40.000 for a couple is 60.000 ,but for a single man is 40.000 ,no more ,so if he earn 80.000 he save 40.000 but as a couple he can save only 20.000
If I was a 25 year old man today. I would stop dating 100%. Hit the gym, learn a language, work on a few hobbies, just continue to be selfish and build myself. Then at 35 I’d have my pick of the 18-25 year old group.
Yeah, you'd think that's the process but it's alot different. I'm 6'7 with a 6 pack, not bad looking and own a tree business. The majority are delusional, or narcissists, or cheaters, alot are on drugs or have alot of "emotional baggage " that I'm supposed to help her grow out of somehow.. What!?!... No thank you, I'm still waiting for a real one but not going out of my way to do it for now and stay focused on my business!
@@racerx9223 that’s what men are suppose to do. Wait for the right one. Women monkey branch from one to the better. Men can wait 5-10 years easy and still have a great life. Let the new crop witness the 304 behavior. And chose not to.
And still get robbed in the end. NOPE!!!
It's all me , all the time. I am the only one that counts in my life. Women , did that to me.
@@racerx9223 focus on your dreams, women and Money will follow you..
make like i make,when i meet new girl and She starts with what you have,what you own i say: i dont have Money,house,nothing and then see the behavior.. if She still talking with you is a good start but most i met they swap conversation very quick and then you say bye and move on but dont waste your energy .. but dont quite to start your own family and have your own children.. but is tough for singles..
I am 43. I am building my life from scratch again. I had a beautiful wife that is 12 years younger than me, who I still love to this day and very much in love with. She's on boyfriend number 3 since me, and that's it. She took my daughter in the divorce and fled. I promised I'd love her to death do us part, and I am a man of my word. It is actually a great consolation to not have to worry about dating because you're already taken, and to offer the sacrifice for your children to God. Always drawing good from every evil is what makes a man a man. Lemonade from lemons. But I'm Italian, so for me it's lemon cello. 😎 plus, to be honest, it's extremely peaceful without women in my life to bother it. Not the choice I would've made, but it's the way I am informing. Just glad I have critical thought, which a lot of people, especially of the opposite gender, seem to lack. Especially judges and lawyers. They are the worst.
That female who doesn't cook, clean or shop for her husband - after seeing this tiktok her husband kicked her out!
I still think that it was a Catfish video. You just can't kick a women out with your kids.
I thought that it was revealed that it was a skit? I don't know, can't believe most of these things.
If that's true, I love a happy ending. 😁
why the fck did the man married this good for nothing women in the first place, men stop being thirsty and leave these dusty broke women in the streets,
I have shooed out many women from my life with this attitude and they all start boo hoo boo tears like water falls mostly fake,
If the Nanny is doing more than the wife. Marry the Nanny.
Joe Biden DID!
The Nanny won't be the same once married.
@northernlights5481 This right here!
Lol
I’m a woman and it never stops to amaze me how the “ modern” females ONLY see what’s “ wrong” with men, what’s wrong with them etc
But they NEVER see their own fault and failures as a wife!
I was never told to sit down and stay quiet when I grew up. I grew up learning to be independent and don’t rely on a man but that doesn’t mean I don’t WANT a man.
I am born and raised in Sweden so could be why. Different countries different cultures
Thank you! I’m not alone
If a woman divorces you and tries to milk you out of assets that you worked so hard for, be smart and play it wisely !!! Don't allow her to weasel back into your life. The fact that modern women are posting videos crying online about their relationship is pathetic. The fact that modern women are looking for sympathy online is even more pathetic !!!
Pre-nupts mean nothing to crooked judges,
but offshore trust accts. are untouchable.
I look at it like this, since most areas of the world is joint assets until divorced then if you know she's going to wreck you out of all your money my advice is liquidate everything and put it into crypto, on settlement give her the half without the password key. If the law in the area claims this would be like giving her nothing then after liquidating everything put it on a sports bet where it doubles and you two split it, or lose it all thus spliting nothing. Screw her if her intention is to screw you out of all assets, you owe her nothing.
I'd just commented on a facebook post that there wasn't a lot of incentive to be in a relationship anymore. She instantly dismissed and passed it off to the "real woman" thing.
Dismissive is a huge red flag, avoid.
I'm 1000% convinced that the vast majority of women who use the term "gaslighting" have zero idea of what the definition actually is
Or are doing it themselves
If she doesn't take care of her "husband" and only takes care of "HER children", odds are that he is not the father of those kids and doesn't know it. She is using him as a bank and not a husband or father
Happiness for a woman is fleeting just like her emotions
She says "You are in control of your own happiness" immediately after talking about leaving a marriage that made her unhappy.
Questions for women:
1. Do you believe men should pay any or some of your bills as a prerequisite for you to spend time with them?
2. Do you believe men should have to pay for all the dates?
3. Do you believe a man should act and treat you traditionally - when you do not act traditionally?
4. Do you think a man should have to support you emotionally at all times?
5. Do you think a man is interested in dealing with your drama?
6. Do you consider yourself "strong and independent"?
7. Do you believe that it's "empowering" to have a high body count?
8. Are you unwilling to sign a prenuptial agreement?
9. Do you think a man should want you if you don't know how to cook or prepare a meal?
10. Are you unwilling to equally reciprocate a man's efforts in a relationship?
11. Are you a single mom?
12. Are you divorced?
13. Do you think that you should be able to go on a girls trip even if you're in a committed relationship?
14. Are you a "boss babe"?
15. Do you still hang around with any old boyfriends?
16. Do you expect a man to change for you?
17. Do you expect to be treated like a "princess"?
If you answer "yes" to any of the above, your chances of landing yourself a good and masculine man are all but non-existent.
they dont want to learn, unfortunately
Very well put sir
I’d add some sort of social media. Are you posting on FB, Insta, something else?? I don’t date women who post on social media.
that list is rather flawed, women always wanted their partner to change for them, if you take that thing out of the picture for the candidate then you basically exclude even your grandma probably
the same is with support thing
@@DarkSeresutia no. Bettering one self is not the same as changing. Your grandma probably wanted the man she married just for him to do better. Expecting change like all of a sudden I’m going to put down the toilet seat get bent.
Stay away from dating.
Stay away from marriage.
Use them like you use your appliances, when you're done.....Turn them off.
Women catfish ALL the time 🤣🤣🤣
Take away the financial benefit of divorce. 96% of divorces would have never happened. Don’t pay, go to jail or flee the country. She doesn’t deserve your money she isn’t with you.
A woman with options rarely behaves well.
The man that never gives in wins.
@@meengene777
Prove they have LaW IQ 😂
💯 agree, I hate that women still expect benefits after leaving a relationship 🤦 that's like the man still expecting se.x
@@lafayetthines4942 hey baby I will pay your alimony when you are performing sex acts 3 times a week. You didn’t do it when we were married so I don’t expect I’ll ever pay a check. ;-)
0:59 Look at that makeup. They're blurring the lines between autobody repair and makeup.
😂
her hair looks like those christmas curlers you put on gifts.
it is amazing what you can do with BONDO and a Palate Knife
Bondo Bab
Everytime I hear that line 'finding your real aunthentic self' bullshit before or after divorce makes me laugh AF. 🤣🤣🤣
When you are a modern male who is educated, employed, stable, confident, experienced, and masculine you are unmoved by the forces of feminists/feminism. You walk daily through a valley of female desperation and defeat at your feet. Women desire you and they loathe you because they know they cannot control you. Live Free Brothers.
Women who need to repeat themselves, chances are, it's unrealistic expectations that they are complaining about. So how can a man give something that's not realistic?
The degree to which women are self absorbed is truly staggering. I mean, would you ever hear one mention what her partners needs might be? Men should stay single and happy.
It’s okay that we gave them shoes or the right to vote but did we really have to teach them to talk?
You know how dogs can bark all day? Women can yap all day long. Thankfully not my wife. We married in 1971 and we're still together.
@@abjectt5440 what John just said had my wife and I cracking up! I am a very blessed man myself and married many years to a wonderful wife and mother. It just breaks my heart to see the suffering of our young men and women today and the poor children that are brought into all this vileness. We old heads were called names while we tried to tell them not to accept all this vileness.The worst part is we cant save the children. Its set in stone now and the children pay dearly.
It's not that they talk it's that they never stop talking.
Giving females the right to vote condemns a society.
On one of these YT videos there was a young American woman. She was I think mixed blood Asian European. She was very pretty, even beautiful. This was a vision of female beauty and loveliness that I could fall desperately in love with.
And then she opened her mouth .........
The loveliness vapourised in seconds.
" At least leave me the house" You mean everything i've worked for, for the last twenty years? OMFG.
If I have to "make" a woman 'love' me , then I have no use for her.
I change for NO ONE!!!
Never convince a girl to love you because you’ll be her Simp
That effeminate beta was so cringe I almost skipped the video.
He was pathetic.
Me too
She drive him nuts he’s in anti depressants
He’s reading a script
Yeah I had to fast forward that part. My ears were starting to bleed.
Here’s a tip about handling the ‘mental load’ use a calendar! Also, most appointments I have for everyone in the family I get a reminder from the place, and thank god! Otherwise I’d forget. 😅
Lets not forget the young women who was so selfish that while her Husband and Father in law were building her a HOUSE, she shamed him on the internet and was soon divorced. Some other women is enjoying her house.
Women and their insane entitlement. Nothing is ever good enough. Just ask Tom Brady
5:28 the amount of mental gymnastics she had to do to get to that conclusion is jaw dropping. it's crazy how crazy some people can be
Just do what the soccer pro did, put everything you earn under someone else's name. That way, when the woman you marry tries to gut you for all you own, she will end up owing you all she owns instead, because you own nothing. Genius.
Fraud is not the manly way.
@@BobMartin-h1z Beta simp.
Men marriage is a dream killer. Being single is not so bad because you spend or not spend your money on what you want and you do what you want. Once married you will end up begging her for some time with her and if you do not believe me you will pay the price. The little time you get with her is not worth what you have to do to get it. You will find out only after it is too late.
Wow...that guy near the beginning.... what a simp.
Here is the thing with divorce, even if she gets nothing, it costs you the same.
My divorce lawyer put it this way... every man pays. Either he gives his money to his ex, or he gives it to the lawyer.
My ex cost me about 2 year's salary. 1/2 went to my lawyer. Knowing how much her lawyer charged, I can say that she paid out nearly all her settlement to pay her lawyer.
I take great satisfaction in that while ot hurt to pay out that money, she didn't get anything to show for her efforts. 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
No woman in at least 40 years was told growing up that they need to be quiet and listen to the man.
It’s not fear. It’s called prudence.
You never CHANGE in a relationship. If you do, you lose yourself. Either she likes you as you are, or there is no future.
It's Triggered Me, I wont be disrespect like that without consequences. You want something to complain about, I will do just that. You Gonna Learn Today.
I love the intro how she gets smashed into the wall like she should 😮😅😂
Right. Poor Orihime has soup for brains by now! 🤣
These influencers that say that women leave only after they have told him over and over what she needs never give an example of even one unmet expressed needs.
I feel comfortable. No marriage, help my grown children, saving a nice amount of money. So yeah, I get comfortable and no women. Love Life!
Women are beautiful and men desire them but you will get very little for all you do for her. You will only find out when it is too late.
I can't believe she said women are raised to be wives,that hasn't been the case for like 50yrs
Marriage is not continuous dating. The woman who basically said that needs to grow up.
26:30 whose money is she using to do the shopping??? If she's using MY money, she better buy my stuff or she's getting cut off. Get your own money and get out!
A household was the first business ever created. (And up until 2 centuries ago, most businesses were still Mom&Pop at -home enterprises) So, the household is still the base model for the Industrial Revolution. If an "employee" quits or gets fired, then the business founder hands over neither ownership nor the assets.
'Feelings' can be easily changed with 'chemicals',facts and logic can't
'True self'
😅😅😅 psychobabble
It's not women change and men don't. I want who I met. But that was an act til you got what you wanted. Then the controlling narcissist thinks she can train her man. Sorry but I'm not a dog that can be trained. You can give me a thousand hints of something you want me to do. I'll enjoy ignoring you a thousand times and watch you lose it because you can't get what you want.
Or vice versa.
The very first woman speaks about a man presenting himself inone way but it not being how he can maintain.
Perhaps he acted in a way to attract and seduce her, and once in the relationship, those actions stopped. Which would leave the woman believing they had been decieved. Or would have her trying to get him back to how he presented himself during the dating phase.
Just playing Devils Advocate.
But men are no more innocent than women
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@@hdw237men arent innocent is why men now play by the rules of women , they can fake,be kind for having sex and then after they see reality and runn away of problems..
Do i think this is the correct behavior, no at alll but women arent princesa anymore to rescue and take care..only want something from you ,your time,wallets..
To the good men and women outhere dont get sexually envolved with any ramdom person, protect yourself,body,soul.. and be Patience the right person is looking aswell..
They play these little "games" or hints as you like to call them and if you don't catch on then you're the problem. Hey women- How about just use your adult vocabulary to express how you feel? Try it sometime it works much better than tests and riddles.
With the way men complain about pushy demanding women it seems a damned if you do damed if you don't situation.
The girl talking about conservative and liberal rotted my brain! I dont Know many men who even like extreme Liberal women! 😂😂 I am more conservative and Liberal women scream loud and cuss me out; I don’t give in to their energy which makes them more angry… who would want that? 😂😂😂
This video is a prime example of y all hope is lost. Thx fer cementing it into r minds that this will never get better!
So, if a woman doesn't get constant reassurance and entertainment, that's grounds for divorce!
Feelings based decisions render feelings based results.
These women remind me of Jacob and Esau, Esau gave away his inheritance for a piece of meat, married women who leave their spouses for another man, are trading down for nothing.
the chinese symbol fir trouble is 2 women under the same roof.
The woman assumes that she was all-that to begin with! 😂
No, they leave when they get bored. Not because they have someone that's a good provider, cooks, cleans and watches the kids.
She’s just bored by security & seeks more drama
The woman on the left is so much better and more coherent with the volume turned off.
You cannot be a good coach if you always side with the same side in arguments. I’m beginning to realise that one of the biggest problems facing marriage is the swathes of unqualified women online who misinform other women, justifying everything they do, even when they’re the ones cheating, initiating the divorce and women are the ones who usually “change” because they want to find themselves.
That last one is code for “I think I can now do better than this man because I’ve seen other women online who I think I’m Better than and I suspect they have more than me”.
1:41 babbling is why men stop caring, she is an expert in nothing
Change into what? He's the man u married. If u think he needs to change after marriage then he wasn't the man u should've married.
She leaves the marriage she gets Jack NOTHING! She didn’t pay for it she doesn’t get it! Women change men are creatures of habit!and stay the same.
I agree with alot of this. But don't wait to get better until after she leaves you. Always make yourself better. With or without them.
Gratitude and growth??? 😂😂😂
The shear amounts of projection these types of women have mindnumbing
What point is there for a man to sign a contract that only one party is allowed to change?
@3:28. I had a girlfriend like her once... emphasis on "had."😅
Reality always defeat delusional.
Women lack loyalty...
52:38. I’ve lost everything in divorce…. I get that. And why I would quit my job. Donate all I owned to a church or other charity and refuse to pay her a dime.
The only emotion men have when women leave is happiness 😂
Well women need to learn how keep a man happy also
“It’s too difficult to buy a calendar and write appointments dow “ ?
If one wife cannot handle it, perhaps we do need HAREMS ?
The lady is correct that marriage is hard. Women who are 'house wives' depending on their age... The wife does hopefully come into the relationship with education...working power etc... a marriage is a relationship between two people and the expectations and the boundaries should be talked about before marriage. Kids /no kids?? Should be prepared or talked about even before 'dating cohabitation '... Not even at marriage yet... Right? Goals should be discussed as far as time worked at home then re transition to work force ? Yes. Education after the kids grow up ?? Yes. Social media?? From home or??? Yes , talk about the options. It goes both ways... Even if the woman makes more than the man and he's the at home Dad. Roles are not set in stone. I don't know why the first lady didn't use what was 'told' to her personally ... She kept using 'generalizations' that aligned to her 'narrative'. Instead of what everyone tells other women or men
..what was told you?? Did you not see the right path then?? Did you buy it or did you go your own way? Did your now ex behave like the 'chads' ? Or was he a 'good man's who bored you because you are 30+ and didn't feel like you had an identity?? If it was that ...sounds like in 10 years you wallowed in attention getting from people you never had a chance to meet because you were 'trapped' at home---
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The divorced woman at 56 minutes is so whacked out of her mind making a post to her kids about their father and men. Why teach your children to look for men just like that?? She is so narrow minded in generalizing men to be only one thing to the child and the next part of it was disturbing that the only thing in their life is to prioritize themselves as 'empowerment'.
That is an empty life .
People are to get together and to share and experience and to make moments together through good and bad and sharing the burden together not alone or expectation that a man needs to do it sll for you is absurd. Like the host explains men need the emotional support and when they do show vulnerability the first time not 3-5 times show action and help through actions. It does not have to be financially all the time. Your time in true interpersonal one on one face to face interaction is equity and investment in the relationship as caring , concern and love.
Change doesn’t mean grow. That’s like saying keep turning street corners and taking exits but it’s not the DIRECTION where you need to go.
27:47 You can't talk crap about her husband, he divorced her right after she released that video.
Wow! I thought it was a skit. And why, he obviously didn't have a problem with it before.
@@NavySharkz Not sure, she posted another video saying her husband filed for divorce.
You give very good commentary.
American women are wired for divorce and will break up their family even if they have best husband providers. Note...it is always the man's fault. It's interesting how many women divorce as soon as the house is paid off, the cars are paid off, etc. It's interesting how what is expected from men is enforceable by law but what men expect from their wives is not. She is not required by law to be loyal, treat a man well, be respectful, etc. Men today do not want to enter into a marriage contract which rewards women for breaking that contract and penalized men.
9:34 wait, what? This dude says the exact same thing is a narcissist and was abusive but he thinks she’ll be the best choice to raise the kids? That doesn’t make any sense!
9:26 this guy is Such in denial... smh
Right! This jacka$s probably wasn't much of a father.
In some states, if the man buys the house before getting married, the man gets to keep the house in a divorce. If you are a man and are considering marriage and a house, see what your states laws are and if it fits, buy the house on your own first. That way she can't get it when she chamges. Also, if you keep your banking separate, this can help you save your assets in some divorces. You should probably pay to talk to a divorce lawyer in your state before marriage to know how to structure your assets just in case. Females completely change over time. Never forget, The woman you marry today will be a different person in 3 years. They call it growing. While men choose to be stable. Women call that not growing.
28:21 GOTTA HAVE THIS CHICK.....
Too bad she's just so..... DESIRABLE... Her husband will never leave her.... Im cRusHEd.
Wait WHY is he with her?????
"Greed and dishonesty". I wonder if that young English lady has looked at the Liebour Party recently 😂
@2:00 she is generally right - also it’s 2-sided but still she got a point that it’s work maintaining the relationship
My friend in medical school was 1 of 4 siblings a single mom who was a nurse. He would always sing the blues because when his parents divorced his father was quite wealthy with realestate I imagine 30-40million - and he remarried and he promised that his first four biological kids would inherit the money. He passed away early and didn’t have things set up and his new wife was able to take control of everything and she had 2 kids of her own from a previous marriage. She kept all the money for herself and gave all the money to her own children and she made sure that her late husbands own biological children “ my friend” never saw a single dime.
1:48 the delusion is real.
I’m an old dude now but one thing I realized while dating is you meet the ego before you meet the person. That goes both ways. You meet the real person much later after some kind of control has been established. Like the Lynyrd Skynyrd song gos…. Things I like I try them twice… I only got married once😅
1:30 It actually IS fair to tell someone how to love you because if they act on that advice, they are CHOOSING to love you. It isn't fake. MEN are creatures of logic. It is illogical to keep making the same bad choice over and over. So for a man to keep choosing every day to love you is actually true love. So what the woman said is false.
If a woman talks and her man doesn't understand what she is trying to tell him it seems to me they both have a problem. It surprises me how few women are willing to notice what they are doing that just does not work with men. It also surprises me how many women when upset by what a man says seem unable to accept that the problem likely is her lack of understanding what the man intended to convey to her. Men are willing to admit they often do not understand women. In my 75 years I have only met about a dozen women who acknowledged they often do not understand a man, a man's intent.
I did leave my ex, my mother's house. My girlfriend moved her . mobile home on my 6 acres of land. She can take it with her if she decides to leave. But my property is paid for in full, and will be mine until I die...
Well there's the reason for guys simply withdrawing from contact with women.
The juice ain't worth the squeeze.
The "woman" that doesn't do anything for the man only for her kids just leave her for a woman.
A friend of mine 8:39 has been married for 26 years, in what he thought was a stable, happy marriage. Came back from working to find all his clothes packed at the door and the locks changed.
So OK, I guess we are getting divorsed. Exept that she thought her lifestyle was not going to change and she was keeping the house and the cars. She was quite surprised when she received the order to vacate the house since it was going to be sold for the separation of assets. She was livid, saying that he wasn't a real man by taking away "her" house. Is not yours, sweetheart. It will be divided just like all other assets. And by the way! The Mercedes SUV is also being sold.
Hey guys! Consult an attorney and set up an LLC. List your parents or family members as the board of directors, transfer ALL of your assets to the LLC. At that point, your assets are no longer “your’s” but the LLC’s, and protected by the “corporate veil”.
I don’t know all the specifics, that’s why you consult an attorney!
LOL 7:40 guy, no I tell the mother to leave my place I keep the children.
Finance(s) are the root of all separations/divorces----abuse is 3rd place
Living on my own finances are much easier because if cost cutting is required it’s easy to do and there is no counter argument.
😂 at 21:00, I couldn’t help but laugh.
My wife divorced me 24 yrs ago. A bit of a rough patch but worked through it. Got my feet under me, rebuilt, and became a better person than I have ever been. Never went back to the plantation, never dated again. Never been happier. The ex?.Through the years has repeatedly tried to re-connect. No thank you. Not happening. As I recently had to remind her, she divorced me, not the other way around. Not my circus, not my monkeys. She made a choice. Deal with it.
This goes both ways friend
That guy you friend zoned probably won't marry you now that you've been ran thru
First Girl: She needs to know her statement swings both ways for men too. Guys check out when they realize a women is using the old bait and switch when they are presented with an idealized version of what that woman thinks she is then he discovers her real self. It is then, they run!
I loved the girl early on, quoting great chunks from the feminist misandry handbook. Women thirty up being told to sit down, be quiet and let your husband lead? What planet was she from? As for emotional immaturity, yep, she sure displayed a bucket-load. My great-grandmother was born in 1880, pre the surprisingly odious suffragette movement (Karen Straughan and Janice Fiamengo have all the details), and she was the one person in the family that inspired fear in grown adults right up until her death in the 1970s. Marriage was never about telling women to sit down and shut up. Great Gran dominated her husband and everybody else, and she is not the only instance I can cite. Patriarchs AND Matriarchs.
she's wrong !!! if a man is single is expences are much less than if he's married ,because he has to pay for everybody ,is better only for a couple but NOT for a single man for a simple matematic count ,40.000 +40.000 for a couple is 60.000 ,but for a single man is 40.000 ,no more ,so if he earn 80.000 he save 40.000 but as a couple he can save only 20.000