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Story #1, Being direct to the nosy bitch is the only way to get the "mind your own business" message understood.
Story #2, Terrible "marriage". Terrible in-laws. Wife did the right thing.
First story: no need to apologize. New girl was very rude and she kept asking after being told no. Second story: she didn’t overreact. Now she knows exactly how her husband and his family think of her. He chose his mother over his wife. She is in the right and should not back down.
2nd story..... the wife was 100% within her right to leave. her husband was a jerk for going to the dinner without his wife. he failed to have his wife's back. he should have said "well if my wife is not invited then I'm not going"
Husband like that you don’t need them
i felt that even if she fake apologized, the newbie would see that as a ticket to again ask for the salary amount
She should say: "I'm sorry for calling you a b*tch, but I'm not sorry for calling you nosy" 😂
There ya go, that's a good response!
Why was she asking for the salery?
*For the last one, the OP should divorce the husband. If the MIL isn't accepting her as one of them and the husband not doing anything to fight for his wife against his family then she should just leave that toxic family.*
Yeah definitely
0:05: Some people need to learn to mind their own business. It's rude to ask about someone's salary, but yeah, maybe an apology (real or otherwise) can smooth things over and prevent any strife in the work place. (Then again, maybe not.)
3:05: It's abundantly clear her husband's family is embarrassed that he married someone who is of a "lower class" (whatever that means) than them. Bottom line is they don't want her coming on any family vacations. She was right to go back home. Plus, man-child needs to grow a pair and stand up to his family.
lower class middle class high class
they have money
True, but just money. The lack of class is glaringly obvious......😉
I would leave the husband, since "I'm not high class enough for them"
In the last story if this happens with me I'll be so petty that I'll book a table at same restaurant they are going and eat alone and even pay their food bill
Same! 😂
The only apology I would give in story 1 is “I’m sorry i called you that when you were pushing my boundaries after I tried politely to get you to stop”
With the second story, I would have left too. Because if they do it once, they'll do it again. And I'm not going to sit there on vacation left out of everything while they have all the fun and go to so many nice places and eat a lot of good food. Like no. We went there together, we go places together. Or my husband should opt out of going with his family and instead take me on dates and, etc. But the fact that her husband didn't even bother to think about taking his WIFE out to a different, equally good restaurant is just a red flag for me. So yea, good on her for knowing her worth and leaving, instead of sitting there bored all the time while they had fun.
Story 1-Apologize for the name calling, as it is not appropriate in the workplace, but make it very clear that prying into coworkers private business is not appropriate either.
Story 2- she should get the hell out of Dodge. And when she files for divorce, give the reason as he and his family are insanely disrespectful and abusive. Done. She absolutely did the right thing. He is a huge wimp and has more fear of his mother than love for his wife.
Story 1 - my petty response would be in front of the rest of the co-workers say, "I'm apologize for lashing out from being hurt after you called me stuck-up just cause of being denied info about a married man's salary 3 times in 1 convo from his wife i should've minded my language when telling you "no" means "no" a bit better sorry" gives context to whatever sob story the girl was trying to pull.
Story 2 - to the original OP ignorant, backwards, ridiculous, irrational.........are all words i would not like to hear about myself/behavior from someone with no cause other than their own bias/prejudice much less in-law family members and one's own spouse. So please take the self-worth that you wrote those words that obviously hurt you in the post and that it wrong to hear in context to you with the action of why you flew home in the first place and get therapy for beginning to get gaslit from their attitudes (this questioning that it an overreaction do to their peer pressure) or just plain LEAVE your spouse again but permanently cause it unhealthy to stay around people that bully you even if it's just with words.
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1st story. That woman is old enough to take no for an answer besides that not all people like bragging about their wealth. A lot do, but not all of them do.
The lady in second story probably can eat the food properly, they just never asked to see it/had there heads way up their own butts
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Story 1: OP could say I apologise for the name calling and absolutely stand by the rest of my statement.
Story 2: husband and family may have money but they have absolutely no class. Only mistake OP made was not to keep right on walking all the way to divorce court.
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I didn't think anyone would be rude enough to ask your salary. Manners and decorum are out the window for sure.
That person was so rude
So I work at the grape field with my parents until I go back to college. Even though my parents are in their mid 50s and I am in my very early 20s they are better at cutting grapes than I am, because they done this for many years. Especially my dad, he is very fast. He accidentally slam his thumb in his van door a few days ago and is still faster than me. My dad always wants me to go fast and I tell him this "Do you want me to do the job fast or right?" He says "Both." I tell him that I can't do both. They want us to clean the grapes, remove the green ones and rotten ones. I have to clean them up because thats what we have to do. But my dad kept on pushing me to go faster. I had enough and I tried to show him my point. I stopped doing the job right, and went on to do it fast. I cut every grape to be packed, leaving all of the green ones and rotten ones. My dad was not happy about this. I may have went fast but I did the job wrong. I then said "I told you. Do you want it fast or right? And you can't say both."
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Second story: how will she ever learn the fancy etiquette if no one teaches her??? Is it not the family’s responsibility to show her? Rather than exclude her and potentially her attend something later and embarrass them/herself???
Clearly they have no intention of integrating her into their lives.
Maybe the husband could teach her separately if it’s so important/such a concern the etiquette be perfect.
Either way clearly he doesn’t value her enough to stay at the hotel with her while his family went. Which means he’s not worth staying for either.
That's a really good point. And a restaurant away from home is the perfect place to teach a new family member.
first story: i think the ONLY thing the op should apologize for is: calling the co-worker a bitch. that's it.
second story: i honestly don't blame the wife for taking the first plane back home, because her husband didn't have her back AND her inlaws are vile, toxic people. i hope she divorces her husband and leaves that toxic family behind. they don't deserve to have her in their lives!!
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1st Story: OP doesn't need to apologize. The new girl was very rude when she asked OP how much her (OP's) husband makes and kept asking after being told no. 2nd Story: OP didn't overreact. OP should divorce her husband.
Second story. I would have gone and dined by myself. And made sure that my in-laws could see me.
Last story just makes me think about training chopsticks. Unless someplace is *especially* snooty, if it doesn’t match the ethnic makeup of the surrounding area, typically they’ll be understanding and help a patron learn how to use new utensils/eat the food. If OP being treated this way is a pattern, tbh they should divorce, since it doesn’t even sound like the spouse likes them, let alone the in-laws.
Second story: he and his family are classist. I don’t see why you would want to be with people like them
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First Story: People who chase wealth and fake-flaunt it like that will never actually get wealthy. Nobody likes desperate people.
Second Story: That husband is terrible. How do you not stick up for your own wife?
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Never have I ever even thought of asking someone I work with what their spouse earns.
Second story
"Did I overeact?" ...I think a little bit, yes, because a plane was involved. I would've stayed at the hotel and do my own thing.
But do you know what's a terrible lack of _etiquette_? Indirectly criticizing people on Facebook. Pretty sure etiquette says to be discreet and discuss things face to face like an educated adult.
That was a not overreaction, don't be on places were you are not welcome, specially from your own family, she did good on getting to the plane, and the husband need to grow up and stand with the person he loves. He is just as terrible as his family.
@@TheDarkOne1920 "don't be on places were you are not welcome" is a hard truth, and I agree. And she should consider a long-term solution to this issue.
But in this case after she already made the trip there, going back on a plane seems a bit much, I would've gone to another restaurant + a show. Let's hope the family's intention wasn't to also keep her isolated and stranded.
Reminds me of another story that Kyutie read, about a woman who was supposed to get together with her inlaws at a restaurant and when she got there her MIL told her there was no seat for her at the table. So that OP sat at another table and ate a good meal by herself.
@@riel4553 I know it my seem to extream the thing is she was on another country in a placer were neither the family of the husband wanted her and neither the husband wanted her there. (If he truly wanted her he would go no contact with the family untill they respect the new member, specially her being the wife, you know the person that will be with him till the edn fo his life, unless a divorce wich seems a good option for this case).
And I'm sorry if I'm going on vacations just to being not welcome at all, and traited badly because of superficial stuff that don't matter at all, I would have taken the plane so fast and even take it to another country to have my vacation alone. People like the family in the story is the worst and the deserve much more than living them on the vacatiom with the family alone.
First one is so cray cray
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I don't get why people can't tell how much they make. Why does money always have to be so hush hush?
specially when they flaunt it dontknow maybe not ta brag noone else business anyway
Because people are greedy. Money can make relationships tough. Are they with you cause they like and respect you or are they with you cause they want to get your money?
Because you're either setting yourself up for people mocking you if they think you earn too little, or for people asking you for loans and to pay for stuff if they think it's too much.
Or worse, if the wrong person knows you have money they can try to scam/rob you.
In the very first story, the wife should just zip her mouth completely when she is asked about their finances. Besides other people shouldn't know that at all; that's a very easy way to get robbed. Her co-worker better stop being so flashy because she's basically rubbing her wealth in other people faces who might be struggling. I completely agree with the husband here which is for his wife give an a fake apology so that there isn't any tension at the workplace because they could possible effect her job in the long run. In the second story, her husband is straight up mama's boy for doing that to his wife. Even if his wasn't familiar with the restaurant, so what, he still should've brought his wife along with him. Something like that probably hurt his wife's feelings and made her feel unloved by you too because she can tell that her MIL can't stand her. She should just divorce him his whole family don't like her and she's their In-Law. I love you my friend!! Have a great day!! Stay safe!!