Can Career Destroy a Marriage? Episode-5
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- Опубликовано: 12 сен 2024
- In this video, we dive into the intriguing question: When two people commit to a lifelong partnership, do their individual careers take a backseat? Join us as we explore the dynamics of being a dual-provider couple and how to balance career ambitions with relationship goals. We want to hear from you! Share your experiences and tips on how you navigate the challenges of being a career-driven couple. Let’s learn from each other! #CareerCouples #RelationshipGoals #worklifebalance #RAWmanticwithGGs
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One thing that's really helped support my partner's career in our marriage is being his biggest cheerleader. I always make time to listen when he talks about work, whether it's celebrating his wins or just being there when he needs to vent after a tough day. I show genuine interest by asking questions and offering my thoughts when he needs them. It's all about being there for each other and creating a supportive space where we both can thrive.
Gautam's hindi is mind-blowing..
I don't need any gift but I love to listen your podcast it helps me to improve my life ❤
👏🏻❤Great work..Mr and Mrs GG.👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻This issue is a very underlying thing and is affecting so many couples.. A big big hug to you for bringing this issue up 🎉... Me and my family are super proud of you both and adore you both a lot❤you guys are doing great by addressing such issues in your podcasts and the tips that you both give are really wise and can help a lot of relationships which are falling apart. Me and my husband both watch it at the same time and thats the time during your podcasts that we both get some more time together 🫂thankyou so much Mr and Mrs GG
I am telling you from my personal experience, my husband only cares about his work and doesn't respect my work. He never takes my side if there are conditions which requires him to do so. I have always been vocal to him but then he just stops communicating with me - for days, months (till the time I go and initiate the conversation). I have suggested therapy multiple times but he just doesn't want to join me.
I think balance is super important. There are days when he packs/makes me lunch and I make Dinner while when he is busy other way around. We usually ensure on weekends we are cooking ,going out,Sat we tend to keep for me times and Sundays for us.
I just need to say this because I think most people don't realise it but having a dishwasher or a washing machine might seem like it has made things easier for women somehow, but the truth remains that loading those machinery and utilising those modern equipments is still very much a chore that both takes efforts and time and is therefore still hard and very time consuming. I know it sounds much easier, but it absolutely is not. Something that maybe took an hour before is now maybe taking 50 mins at best because having a washing machine would not mean that the washing machine would collect your individual clothes, seperate them into necessary requirements of washing, select its own desired settings and then proceed to hang them out to dry when done. Person responsible - usually and aka women - are still very much responsible for doing all of that. Same goes for every other advancement that men might think has led to women somehow finding more time and convenience at their hands which frankly, if you're actually paying attention and care to do so, would realise is not true. They're still NOT free or somehow more relaxed as is what I suppose assumed because it "seems" to. More often than not, what little time is left for them (those maybe 10 mins) either gets utilised into a different task or gives them a few seconds to catch up on the leftover chores because, well, there's always an abundance of them. Specially in Indian households where it's simply expected that women take responsibility while men take credit for being the responsible ones because we're still struggling to and as is the case for some, refusing to grow out of our orthodox ways.
Like Smriti said, support from your partner might actually go a long way. Help them out. Chores aren't a women thing and they're also output of men's day-to-day activities. It shouldn't be such a hard thing to grasp onto.
Always love watching your videos on mr and mrs gg....and have to say these podcasts are so raw, real, to the point and unfiltered....loving these❤❤
I want to say if both the partners are working , first they should respect each other's work regardless the position or field....
I can say how we manage
smoothly...we go to our respective work daily but when we come home we do household chores together ..we cook together..we eat together ..overall at that time after returning home we do something or the other with each other for each other ...its like its our us time..we do take time out on weekends that is completely for us and family...as we can't ignore family for work and noone should ever...there should be balance ...it's on us to find out how things would work for us in our favour ,that thing one should look upon...taking out time for eachother and family is very important
And also this way we could work easily without thinking or stressing unnecessary thingss...
At work we work and after coming back home we have lot to talk about day or family or anything ....conversation is must that we do daily related to us or anything else......at last i just want to say mutual understanding is the key..if both partners are working then its their responsibility to look after their relation, family and other household things together.....
Lots of love to you guys ❤❤
Goutam ko hindi bolna chhahiye because log hindi bhul gye hai. I love it when he speaks the hindi words and that is good that u both use both of the languages. we feel connected by the language. lots of love, and support to you both and love for Anayaka!!!🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰❤❤❤❤❤❤
Gaurav is a superb guy
As for me & my husband, we quiet love the fact that we are both working so when we get back to each other after a long day of work we value each other's presence significantly & have lots of stories to add of our own !
We love playing games in the night (like Carrom & Monopoly) & we are quite competitive at that whatsoever 😂 - which keeps the fun/drama & cute banter alive.
Depending upon a series of matches in the week, the person who wins most of them, takes the other out for a Fine Dine or orders their favorite meal home on Saturday nights.
As for Sundays, we plan to go out n about n engage in activities together, like jet skiing, Theme parks rides or simply visiting the cinema..
How cool and what fun . 🤩
@@RAWmanticwithGGs ❤️❤️thanku . U both r adorable n so fun to watch .
Smriti you are looking very beautiful todayyyy. loads of love to youuuuuu!!!!! listening to you both is therapeutic.
lots of love to from my side ❤❤ i litrally listen your podcast in short interval during my study break.
We as a couple have always shown empathy instead of sympathy, we listen to understand each other's point of view rather than just listening for the sake for reply, also as a woman whatever opinions I have are valued and thought after.
Also as a couple where both of us are working we share the chores, if he has a meeting he I cook if I have a meeting he does the cooking and dishes.
In short working in partnership ❤❤
I think everyone should watch this particular podcast, all the men and women. To have clear communication with your partner about your work is the key. They both should understand and support each other. It's 2024 but still, women are questioned about their careers. It's like if you want to work then work but with that, you also have to look after house cores and everything.
So if your partner is understanding then half the problem gets solved. Thank you Mr and Mrs GG for giving perspective on this topic ❤❤.
You guys are an inspiration 🫶🏻🫶🏻
We empathise. We back off and take each other as a friend. Not expecting everything from one person, we gracefully discuss and then respect each other’s decision.
There isn’t just one strategy, we take situational leaderships based on the scenario. At times we become each others biggest critic, the other times we are supporting each other. In achievements and low times we become each others cheerleaders. We pause when we see the other half loosing the calm and understand that it’s not the person, it’s just the situation a partner is going through. Honestly speaking, giving each other space helps a lot, we stay quiet in frustrating situations after communicating what we felt. Basically we both know we are each others back bone and we show up for each other every day without any ego.
Watched your all reels videos following u since aashiqi
You guys are opposites but still have similar outlook towards life, perfect example to set a standard. On this topic, I think education/awareness is playing a crucial role in this changing career mindset in the society. Smriti pointed out correctly about the rage in women, oppression leads to rebellion in this case feminism.
Our strategy is to have a dinner together without TV (that is hard😅) so we can appreciate the time we're getting together, go for daily night walk together even for 10 mins (good for health also), go on a date once every weekend (could be date at home as well) and the 2-2-2 rule (got this one from Instagram, not sure how effective)
What’s the 2 2 2 rule ?
I just want say one thing after watching all of your content .... that u r are really truly raw people i ever seen in my life. God blessed u keep shining n btw its not for your giveaways gifts i really enjoyed u guys
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I agree to almost everything you have discussed in this podcast. I am a CA and my husband is a business man. I help him with his CA related work. I think what works in our favour as a couple is that we are always happy when the other one is doing well for himself/herself. We discuss almost everything related to work. I have heard people saying why do you discuss your work and all with him but the fact Is communicating the work-life does helps us in striking the balance with work and personal life. We both ask for suggestions to each other as we do have knowledge about each other’s field and ego is never a case in the discussion. I feel more than happy and proud when my husband is giving me any work related suggestion and vice versa. Plus i think our family really helps us in striking a balance as we live in a small town where bahu’s are not expected to be career driven and are being judged heavily for doing the same but luckily my family is so supportive that they are not at all bothered about people judging me and are always supportive of my work and are equally proud of my work.
Thanks for sharing
We are a couple with a 4 year old daughter, so striking balance between us both and we as 3 becomes very very important as our routine is a little too busy (in my opinion). But still we make sure, we go drop or pick up our daughter from school no matter where or how busy we are (with some exceptions :) ) and importantly me and my husband make sure we enjoy our late night tea sessions together after putting our daughter to bed. We don't miss out on this as this is the time when we discuss our entire day at work or otherwise and just relax. And also we have this pact of going to a near by park where my daughter plays maybe for 15-20min but we do that as a family and the most important part, every friday our daughter stays at nani house and that is when we two enjoy, go out for dinner, party or just relax at home JUST TWO of us.
Hi Smriti & Gautam, I just love the things you do in your routine life to live a healthy life. I don't follow any other youtube channels but its only yours which I follow because I can connect with all your emotions.
So, me and my husband we both are working but the tragedy is, my husband works 9-5 Monday to Friday (some days work from home and some days work from office as he is havinh hybrid work profile) and I work in Marks and Spencer with working weekends always. In this case we cant get time for each other on weekends but my husband takes work from home on the days when I get my week off and we manage to spend evenings together.
Specially on weekends, he makes sure to cook dinner for us (that too whatever I prefer) and gives me my space and then rest of time we spend together watching some movies or some programmes or sports.
Its been more than a year now finding time for each other and we dont regent about it as we both feel, we are doing whatever is best for our lives currently and for our future as well.
Much love to you and your lovely family xx
Thanks for sharing .. ❤️
We try to balance our work life with our personal ,we don’t entertain any works calls once we are off work and try to ensure we have our dinner by just talking to each other checking on each other with no tv no phones nothing …it really works for us and maybe if one of us is busy or tired post work the other will get dinner ready serve dinner and help clean up also if required but that’s how we balance our relationship with worm
Miss Briganzaaa❌ Miss Smrtianzaaa with Mr. GG😂😂 (Lovecoach)♥️🧿
I guess when we speak about supporting our partners, the gender bar should completely be removed, if the man wants to look after the house and the kids and the woman wants to go out and work, that is something we should make obvious, supporting your partner, believing in them, and being there. If it is your partner's responsibility to cook today and they can't because they are simply tired, you should take on that responsibility and not question them about their "responsibilities" which happens to most housewives, mutual respect for professions, Partners should sit and talk about the hardships they are facing with each other, instead of thinking "He/She will not understand. Money is definitely an important factor but only priority to money doesn't work. Every couple isn't the same, so communication and setting the ground rules for future is very important and that doesn't mean that once it is set it can't change, you need to sit down timely and discuss them, so that if someone wishes to switch or try something new because they grew in life, they should be allowed instead of being told that now suddenly you can't be "ambitious". Mutual Understanding is definitely the key to it all.
What a relevant topic in today’s day and age. Glad how Smriti has professed so much about financial independence primarily for women and even more glad to hear Gautam’s POV…such an open minded conversation. Thank for this…lots of lessons learnt ❤❤
Balance work and romance by taking vacations where we get to spend quality time
Lots of family time
Going out sometimes even on weekdays for movies, eating out, comedy shows to just chill together
Going on walks everyday at night to catch up ❤
Great work! I love your podcasts!
I think both the partner should appreciate and encourage each other in every sort of way nd respects their choices.. i am a house maker nd i am very happy for me my job is making my house full of happy moments peace nd love for each other..nd myself also.. nd yaa nowadays House makers are not appreciated the way they should & taking for granted if she treated like a queen she would love to rule their own empire.. like i am duin🫶🏻😇👑
-Develop routine of summarising day's activity before we go to sleep
-Going for walk and share thoughts whenever possible
- Planning weekend getaway whenever possible
Awesome
Smirti is glowing. Keep making these videos ❤
Very Interesting 😊
Love your videos ❤
“Communication” is the key. Lets get real, we are not in the era of “mai uske ankho me dekhte hi uske dill ki bat samjati/samajata hu”. Have a monthly/ weekly discussion where the couple can have topics like spending quality time with family, finance, fill in for each other when one can make it.
Make the partner understand the kind of work you do and take him/her into confidence.
Having said that there has to be a line coz at the end of if you can give time to your relationship its not worth it.
Secondly be there for each other. Give a listening ear. Sometimes that is all a partner needs.
You both are the best couple ❤🥹 and you look very pretty smriti
We maintain a balance between our personal and professional lives by engaging in small talks throughout the workday and ensuring we always have dinner together, where we share the events of the day. Even spending an hour together after a long day makes a big difference. Every month we plan a dinner date and every three months, we plan trips to have something to look forward to and enjoy quality time together. When one of us is going through a particularly tough week, we arrange weekend getaways to help each other feel better and provide the necessary support.
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I feel if we go with a strategy or a mindset that i have to support my strongheaded wife or my husband in their career's ; one can do it only till a certain time and then the competition or small loop holes do arise that loosen the relationship. Simple answer is- agar aap insaan se pyar krte ho toh aap sab kuch uske liye kroge. Thats it
Jo cheez dil se nikalti h kisi ke liye wo dimag kar hi nai sakta
First of all you have to respect the work or job of your partner. Like my partner is in police department so there is no specific timings of work so phli cheez toh m yhi bolti hu you do your job, mai khi bhagi nhi ja rhi, i am there for you so isse kya hota h wo apni duty me peaceful rhta hai. Or ek bande ko ky chaiye achaa khana or 2 pyar ki baate ❤❤ sbse important hota h jab wo duty se aye toh patiently unka mood dekho kaisa hai, tbi apni bakwass accordingly kro. As you guys said thoda space dena toh bnta hai.
-Develop routine of discussing day's activity before you go to sleep
-Go for walk and share thoughts whenever possible
- Plan weekend getaway whenever possible
First and foremost, congratulations to both of you for becoming parents again and the success of your podcast! I have become an even bigger fan of yours because it reveals a completely different side of you. I am married to my long-distance boyfriend, going against my parents' wishes as they were not convinced. My husband is my only support, and we have been happily married for the last 5 years, with a total of 12 years in our relationship. We are each other's biggest supporters. As both of us are working professionals, we ensure to take time for each other on weekends, for lunch, or maybe a movie, just to be completely present with each other. I admire the incredible support Gautam provides you, and Smriti's transparency and pure-heartedness shine through her thoughts. I only wish for a love like yours and hope people learn that it's easy to give up but truly challenging to hold on to one thing and stand by your partner, no matter the situation.❤❤
Thank you 😊
Enjoying these podcasts😊
So glad!
Loving the podcast ✨❤️
Gautam is a green forest
Smriti u r great👍👍
Bhut beautiful hote jarhe ho ap pregnancy mai ❤ aur tnsn maat lo jb mai born huye the Mera wait gram mai tha kuch but abhi tkkk Zinda hu and doctor ke pdai kr rhe hu
Big fannn
فيديو ❤😊
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You guys are literally raw on every podcast, the conversations especially the things smriti talks about are sooo relatable 🤌🤌 it's like she knows and understands normal people's (non celebrity) POV also ❤ and Gautam is 💯
What are their Instagram hadles
Mistergautam Smriti_khanna