Thank you for pointing out Robyn’s ridiculous ploy of requesting “clarification” of a perfectly direct statement, when all she is actually doing is buying time to fabricate an excuse.
@happilyeverreality Robyn's response to the students' questions is a poor excuse of an answer. You're right as usual. She makes no sense, as children grow up and mature, so should the interactions and relationship between them and theeir parents. I think that's why Robyn can't be trusted, she always backs up Kody's BS!!
@@tinaguy3954 Kids develop reasoning fairly young. Some have clarity of thought as toddlers. So thinking as a parent, you have to protect, isolate them from life etc all the things Robyn considers protecting her kids is only stunting their reasoning & treating them like little kids when they are not little kids any more. When does Robyn expect them to have independent thoughts & behaviors? As far as it's not safe, based on what? That Kody might get upset & have some words with a son or daughter. That is what happens as kids move into the teen years. They are compelled to question & sometimes get into arguments or conflicts with a parent(s). That is normal as long as respect is there for the parent & parents need to respect that growing teens need their own thoughts to be said & considered.
IMO Robyn is not good at any finesse of any situation. She just says she does not understand or is confused or she did not want whatever to happen in her life. Every adult even a child will be confronted by things that they wish they did not have to deal with. It is called life.
Oooh okay so the reason Christine acted that way with the longer courtship part was because in their faith its not okay to ‘date’ a married man. The courtships for 2+ wife is super short because the things he did with the robyn courtship were not allowed, ie pre wedding kiss, overnight visits etc. it was very much not allowed
Kody expects he can openly tell a wife I do not love you, I do not want intimacy or even friendship with you & the wife will agree but still give him money. Kids are way below what Kody thinks of one of his now ex-wives. Way below. He has moved so many times & does not care if the kids have a school they like or sports to get scholarships, or friends. They have to obey Kody. Kody is not a g-d, he is a deeply flawed human who is clueless, does not command respect & is lazy. He fell for Robyn & decided he preferred Robyn to any of his 3 loyal, faithful wives. Now he only has 5 kids that he cares about & we do not even know what he thinks of Robyn's 3 older adult kids. He has not kicked them out of HIS house yet even though they are over the limit of 18 years of age. Deadbeat dad who has openly on film neglected the health of Ysabel who years ago needed spinal surgery, he almost lost Truely when watching his kids while the wives had a trip & she went into organ failure. He was there when Dayton had his serious injury riding an ATM that he did not know how to drive. Three examples that Kody is incompetent & heartless as a father figure. Take your pick Kody is a weak, lazy, greedy person. He does not deserve 18 kids. He does not care.
@joerudnik9290 Because he would've had to quarantine himself away from Robyn for about a month! He refused to leave her, except when he officiated at his friends wedding and Janelle's Mom's funeral. He's such a hypocrite! 🤔
The surgeon told Christine & Kody on film that Ysabel needed immediate surgery for her spinal condition. They did useless exercises that did nothing for her condition (as a story line). Years later Christine finally crowd sourced the deductible for Ysabel to have surgery. Kody knew for years she needed surgery & he did not pay anything for it & did not support Ysabel during her recovery from a serious surgery. How low can a father be?
she was desperate to hide that truth and not have them repeat it. the same way she wanted her kids to not hear the students talk about "worldly" things that would cause them to THINK for themselves
Give me a break. What worldly things were discussed. It is a precursor to Robyn so-called protecting her kids when they need information to become adults. Robyn is arrested development & has poor if any real parenting skills. A parent's job is to bring their kids into adulthood. Shielding her kids was to protect them from the truth of what a monster their mother really is & cover her lies. These kids loved their bio-Dad. They never needed Kody to be their Dad. She is disgusting to do this to her kids. I call Robyn unsafe.
Robyn is the queen of making excuses for her own - and Kody's - bad behaviors. Whenever I hear Robyn speak all I can think of is how her life is a complete facade that she has created. She is willing to say or do anything to keep up the "act".
To keep the money rolling in she needs to keep Kody completely happy in any way he demands. Robyn degraded herself to have shopping money. Not a good mother role model. Shopping is more important then her kids. She has isolated & stunted the older 3 adult kids. They belonged at their brother's funeral services. No excuse.
I think Christine was upset everyone but Robyn had a short courtship. So he's sort comparing everyone to Robyn again. And in the flip side Robyn was demanding more time from kody during the courtship as if she was alrwady married. So i think Christine was feeling a double burn. Not to mention she never thought he'd marry after her.
I dated a guy once that would mention other women he had dated and compare how they had been to me. I wasn't jealous but found it very strange as I had dated lots of guys before and none had ever done anything like that. He wanted me to move in with him and expected me to support him. He was in college FT and working PT, whereas I was working FT as a secretary and met him while taking a class at college. I declined and we broke up soon after. A year later his best friend ran into me and told me he had done terrible things, and I was lucky to be rid of him. I was thinking right but I felt nothing, and it confirmed breaking up was the right thing! Years later I saw him on the street, he was doing road work for a job, apparently never used his college degree, he didn't notice me. I was a nurse by then, but truth is over half of people with college degrees work in jobs that don't require them so think twice before spending money on it unless you have a specific goal or its for technical job training!
It triggers Christine because he was saying that his marriage was better with Robyn than the rest. Who did he have a long courtship with? Who didn't he have long courtship with?
@@happilyeverreality we know Christine is very sensitive and aware of the differences between her relationship with kody and Robyn relationship with kody. To her I think it felt like he had said that he was happier with Robyn because the rest of them he wish he courted longer.
@@harrietyounger6118 Kody replaced Christine as the fun, want to be with wife with Robyn. The long courtship & Kody was OK with a divorcee with 3 kids & massive debt in a plural family that had food insecurity. In what way did a longer courtship help Kody's decision? It was Robyn's bedroom skills that got him on board. Who paid Robyn's debt, the 3 wives.
It’s just logical that knowing someone really well before committing to marriage makes sense. It did play out though that they were not meant to be, although I love what Christine is doing now ( but I still think she rushes into things).
I think if Kody had spent more time courting he wouldn’t have married his current wives. Kody didn’t realize how bad his personality and Meri’s would rub against each other. He didn’t realize how competitive Christine was. I think he ultimately decided not to marry for love but for practicality. Janelle for financial management, Christine for homemaking and childcare. Meri was for love… but Kody didn’t understand that she was very selfish and controlling and couldn’t manage sister wife relationships.
It is strange that Christine grew up in polygamy & should have known that being a 3rd wife is not the top wife position that Meri had under control. She thought she would be the last fun, younger wife but based on what? In polygamy, the husband can get as many wives as he can get. It's part of the system she grew up with yet she was surprised Kody went for #4. Christine left Kody & ditched the polygamy faith all in one fell swoop. Not even Meri has completely left because she is actively seeking a church release. Earlier this year Janelle left Kody but said she was still open to polygamy! (This was before the family tragedy) IMO Kody lied that he NEVER loved any of his 3 ex-wives. He had to have some attraction to them. You can meet someone & be immediately drawn to them but then it does not work & the relationship ends. Kody just went almost immediately to marriage in part because he decided as an adult man to be a polygamist. That means he needs to get wives & have kids. No one forced him to get into the polygamy faith. He made the decision.
If I remember correctly Kody and Christine didn't even really court. They knew each other and they decided to bring her in as the 3rd wife, while living in a different state from Kody, Meri and Janelle.
I cannot remember what season the family started seeing Pat,the therapist ,but she has each sister wife have a one on one weekend with Kody where she had them do so tasks to help build their relationships.They were very wife oriented.With Christine,Kody was supposed to use some rocks to demonstrate the strengths of their relationship and it ends up being all about Robyn and nit about Christine.Naturally,Christine was devastated.Rightfully so.Usually,there are not more than 3 wives. By the time Robyn came along there were 12 children already born and Christine was pregnant with Truely.Meri and Kody had been married 20 years with Janelle and Christine shortly thereafter. Christine was the last wife fir many years and never dreamed she would have to compete with a much younger,slimmer woman who Kody was obviously gaga over.
Thank you for pointing out Robyn’s ridiculous ploy of requesting “clarification” of a perfectly direct statement, when all she is actually doing is buying time to fabricate an excuse.
Yep, she keeps repeating the question. 🙄
@happilyeverreality Robyn's response to the students' questions is a poor excuse of an answer. You're right as usual. She makes no sense, as children grow up and mature, so should the interactions and relationship between them and theeir parents. I think that's why Robyn can't be trusted, she always backs up Kody's BS!!
@@tinaguy3954 Kids develop reasoning fairly young. Some have clarity of thought as toddlers. So thinking as a parent, you have to protect, isolate them from life etc all the things Robyn considers protecting her kids is only stunting their reasoning & treating them like little kids when they are not little kids any more. When does Robyn expect them to have independent thoughts & behaviors?
As far as it's not safe, based on what? That Kody might get upset & have some words with a son or daughter. That is what happens as kids move into the teen years. They are compelled to question & sometimes get into arguments or conflicts with a parent(s). That is normal as long as respect is there for the parent & parents need to respect that growing teens need their own thoughts to be said & considered.
Robyn is so calculated, she knows how to finesse a situation.
Yeappppp.
IMO Robyn is not good at any finesse of any situation. She just says she does not understand or is confused or she did not want whatever to happen in her life. Every adult even a child will be confronted by things that they wish they did not have to deal with. It is called life.
She should've point it out a lot of time with Sol but not as much with Truely as she's only 1 year older.
This is why Robyn’s girls weirdly sat on Kody’s lap and kissed him on the mouth for waaaaayy too long.
Oooh okay so the reason Christine acted that way with the longer courtship part was because in their faith its not okay to ‘date’ a married man. The courtships for 2+ wife is super short because the things he did with the robyn courtship were not allowed, ie pre wedding kiss, overnight visits etc. it was very much not allowed
Christines reaction... i think she" heard". Robyn and I had a long courtship and that makes "our" marriage better.
Young or adult, Kody wants to be worshipped and ‘OBEYED’, by all, that surround him.
Kody expects he can openly tell a wife I do not love you, I do not want intimacy or even friendship with you & the wife will agree but still give him money.
Kids are way below what Kody thinks of one of his now ex-wives. Way below. He has moved so many times & does not care if the kids have a school they like or sports to get scholarships, or friends. They have to obey Kody. Kody is not a g-d, he is a deeply flawed human who is clueless, does not command respect & is lazy.
He fell for Robyn & decided he preferred Robyn to any of his 3 loyal, faithful wives. Now he only has 5 kids that he cares about & we do not even know what he thinks of Robyn's 3 older adult kids. He has not kicked them out of HIS house yet even though they are over the limit of 18 years of age.
Deadbeat dad who has openly on film neglected the health of Ysabel who years ago needed spinal surgery, he almost lost Truely when watching his kids while the wives had a trip & she went into organ failure. He was there when Dayton had his serious injury riding an ATM that he did not know how to drive. Three examples that Kody is incompetent & heartless as a father figure. Take your pick Kody is a weak, lazy, greedy person. He does not deserve 18 kids. He does not care.
The anthropology student should have specifically called out the comparison between time spent with Sol vs Truely or Savanah.
If they had longer courtships, they might have seen his childishness and he wouldn’t be a polygamist.😂😂😂😂
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Thanks for these 15 minute reviews.
No problem 👍
Sol and Dayton both had surgery without issues but back surgery isn't necessary. R and K are disgusting.
They seem to have selective memory.
Oh, but it was because of Covid that Kody didn't go to Isabelle's surgery! Yeah, right! 🤨
No he told Ysabelle, he couldn’t ‘LEAVE’ his family!!!!🤮🤮🤮🤮🤬🤬🤬🤬
@joerudnik9290 Because he would've had to quarantine himself away from Robyn for about a month! He refused to leave her, except when he officiated at his friends wedding and Janelle's Mom's funeral. He's such a hypocrite! 🤔
The surgeon told Christine & Kody on film that Ysabel needed immediate surgery for her spinal condition. They did useless exercises that did nothing for her condition (as a story line). Years later Christine finally crowd sourced the deductible for Ysabel to have surgery. Kody knew for years she needed surgery & he did not pay anything for it & did not support Ysabel during her recovery from a serious surgery. How low can a father be?
I think meri was jealous from the start. And she has been mad all these years.
and she couldn't accept her jealousy because it was a sin to feel jealousy! where does that pain and anger go?
They should have compared it to Truly!
she was desperate to hide that truth and not have them repeat it. the same way she wanted her kids to not hear the students talk about "worldly" things that would cause them to THINK for themselves
Give me a break. What worldly things were discussed. It is a precursor to Robyn so-called protecting her kids when they need information to become adults.
Robyn is arrested development & has poor if any real parenting skills. A parent's job is to bring their kids into adulthood. Shielding her kids was to protect them from the truth of what a monster their mother really is & cover her lies. These kids loved their bio-Dad. They never needed Kody to be their Dad. She is disgusting to do this to her kids. I call Robyn unsafe.
Robyn is the queen of making excuses for her own - and Kody's - bad behaviors. Whenever I hear Robyn speak all I can think of is how her life is a complete facade that she has created. She is willing to say or do anything to keep up the "act".
To keep the money rolling in she needs to keep Kody completely happy in any way he demands. Robyn degraded herself to have shopping money. Not a good mother role model. Shopping is more important then her kids. She has isolated & stunted the older 3 adult kids. They belonged at their brother's funeral services. No excuse.
I think Christine was upset everyone but Robyn had a short courtship. So he's sort comparing everyone to Robyn again. And in the flip side Robyn was demanding more time from kody during the courtship as if she was alrwady married. So i think Christine was feeling a double burn. Not to mention she never thought he'd marry after her.
I dated a guy once that would mention other women he had dated and compare how they had been to me. I wasn't jealous but found it very strange as I had dated lots of guys before and none had ever done anything like that. He wanted me to move in with him and expected me to support him. He was in college FT and working PT, whereas I was working FT as a secretary and met him while taking a class at college. I declined and we broke up soon after. A year later his best friend ran into me and told me he had done terrible things, and I was lucky to be rid of him. I was thinking right but I felt nothing, and it confirmed breaking up was the right thing! Years later I saw him on the street, he was doing road work for a job, apparently never used his college degree, he didn't notice me. I was a nurse by then, but truth is over half of people with college degrees work in jobs that don't require them so think twice before spending money on it unless you have a specific goal or its for technical job training!
@@bugsy2902
That guy was a walking red flag.
@@g.flesch9731 I was young and naive but got out of the situation fast. Never made that mistake again!
@@g.flesch9731 Right, I was young and thankfully it was short lived, and I never made that mistake again!
It triggers Christine because he was saying that his marriage was better with Robyn than the rest.
Who did he have a long courtship with? Who didn't he have long courtship with?
I didn't even think of that. Good point! In the honeymoon episode, Kody talks about that 10-month courting period and he seems really proud of it.
@@happilyeverreality we know Christine is very sensitive and aware of the differences between her relationship with kody and Robyn relationship with kody.
To her I think it felt like he had said that he was happier with Robyn because the rest of them he wish he courted longer.
@@harrietyounger6118 Kody replaced Christine as the fun, want to be with wife with Robyn. The long courtship & Kody was OK with a divorcee with 3 kids & massive debt in a plural family that had food insecurity. In what way did a longer courtship help Kody's decision? It was Robyn's bedroom skills that got him on board. Who paid Robyn's debt, the 3 wives.
It’s just logical that knowing someone really well before committing to marriage makes sense. It did play out though that they were not meant to be, although I love what Christine is doing now ( but I still think she rushes into things).
I think if Kody had spent more time courting he wouldn’t have married his current wives. Kody didn’t realize how bad his personality and Meri’s would rub against each other. He didn’t realize how competitive Christine was. I think he ultimately decided not to marry for love but for practicality. Janelle for financial management, Christine for homemaking and childcare. Meri was for love… but Kody didn’t understand that she was very selfish and controlling and couldn’t manage sister wife relationships.
It is strange that Christine grew up in polygamy & should have known that being a 3rd wife is not the top wife position that Meri had under control. She thought she would be the last fun, younger wife but based on what? In polygamy, the husband can get as many wives as he can get. It's part of the system she grew up with yet she was surprised Kody went for #4.
Christine left Kody & ditched the polygamy faith all in one fell swoop. Not even Meri has completely left because she is actively seeking a church release. Earlier this year Janelle left Kody but said she was still open to polygamy! (This was before the family tragedy)
IMO Kody lied that he NEVER loved any of his 3 ex-wives. He had to have some attraction to them. You can meet someone & be immediately drawn to them but then it does not work & the relationship ends.
Kody just went almost immediately to marriage in part because he decided as an adult man to be a polygamist. That means he needs to get wives & have kids.
No one forced him to get into the polygamy faith. He made the decision.
If I remember correctly Kody and Christine didn't even really court. They knew each other and they decided to bring her in as the 3rd wife, while living in a different state from Kody, Meri and Janelle.
I cannot remember what season the family started seeing Pat,the therapist ,but she has each sister wife have a one on
one weekend with Kody where she had them do so tasks to help build their relationships.They were very wife oriented.With Christine,Kody was supposed to use some rocks to demonstrate the strengths of their relationship and it ends up being all about Robyn and nit about Christine.Naturally,Christine was devastated.Rightfully so.Usually,there are not more than 3 wives. By the time Robyn came along there were 12 children already born and Christine was pregnant with Truely.Meri and Kody had been married 20 years with Janelle and Christine shortly thereafter. Christine was the last wife fir many years and never dreamed she would have to compete with a much younger,slimmer woman who Kody was obviously gaga over.
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