For a long time I blamed my sister for not giving her husband a second chance, she complained of emotional abuse, psychological abuse, body shaming, education level shaming but there was no assault, he never touched her and to us as family thats what we know as abuse so we always asked her to bear. Of course kids were in high cost schools, my sister was designated driver with allowance of 100k+, manager of family finances but she left all that, looking back she was deprived of high life but she says now she can sleep from 8-8 nonstop-peace of mind she has! From grace to grass!! Listening to mama wachira now, I salute my sister, shes a hero she could not tolerate abuse. Heko my sister
The only problem I find here is the lack of involvement of the husband in buying the plot. He should have been part of the project especially because that's where the future home would be built.
I'm too angry already.. I'm breathing fire like a dragon. This story is a replica of every other woman's story. Wasted 15yrs with the devil and I was left with scars that will never heal. I have lived to regret. I gave him the best of everything and how did he pay me back! My fellow girls, these things don't work anymore. Don't expose yourselves to violent demons in the name of marriage. It's about time we started a women's caucus to deliberate on the way foward regarding these matters. This madness from men has to stop!! Period!!!🤗
Ditto. His mistress and him taking pics on our marital bed, going to places together where we used to go to, and her calling and texting me to tell me how fat I am... body shaming me and her wanting to give me advice on how to take care of my body plus posting the pics on fb still bothers me,it is unbelievable the shite that someone you cared for and loved will do to you.
Wooii,Judy my classmate back in high school.The most,outgoing, humble,polite,intelligent,God fearing lovely gal I ever met then.Jehova Rhapha grant you full recovery.
Judy,you sre fearfully and wonderfuly made Your humbleness has made God togive you Peace,and that is why you are giving us encouragement .Mvumilivu hula mbivu
If Judy is this beautiful after all she have been through, imagine akiwa msichana alikua aje, and I never understand why women with big dreams always end up in manipulative relationships 🤦🤦
@mercylynn ALL Men secretly hate women with big dreams as u say, financially independent women & assertive women. A few express this hatred openly. It goes back to the garden of Eden where man was created to be above the woman.
Judy, you have been through a lot and still manage to hold your head high. May you get full healing and may victory be your portion. You are a fighter.
Madam MISTRESS, read my words carefully. Because that man has known you carnally, Mark my words!! You will PAY every single of Mama Wachira’s tear drops with your blood. MARK 👏🏾 MY 👏🏾 WORDS! Baba Wachira, right now it is only God who can help you because the thunder that is going to strike you is doing sit ups. Utakufa kifo cha MBWA 🚮🚮🚮
You are very right, I went through hell in the name of a marriage but mine was hell ,beatings na kurushwa juu ya ngorofa, yes I survived,long story short God turned the tables, he got sick with h.i.v, and I later came to USA. Take heart my sister and tell him to watch this space.
Judy I pray that you be healed and be free from cancer. You will live to see your great-grandchildren. May Almighty God bless your children to be great people in our generation and may their father be alive to see all these things happening. Amen God bless you
She had the kind of man I had, at 30 years married for 2 years. Left the marriage last year since I could not sit down with my husband and discuss anything. 'Matiathagwa niatumia' used this phrase regularly. I thank God am good n raising my 3 children. He even told me he is doing me a favour to raise my child I came with.
My friend Judy, may God's peace be with you and may He expand your territories that you may never lack and may you soar high and high like the eagles. Hugs hugs sent over ❤️❤️
He was a narcissist , they make you feel so much drained and you start to believe that there is no better life than what he is offering. Take heart madam judy God is in control. Please ladies lets stop swiping matters under the rug for the name of marriage and relationships. Look at her now 27 years wasted by a damaged man.
So sorry my schoolmate Judy (Saintee Nyeri) you are still beautiful and composed as ever. May the Almighty God heal you. May your children overcome what they went through. Have peace and feel loved.
I left a 4 year relationship with a narcissist. The minute Judy made this statement "walking on eggshells" my heart has just started beating so fast. I knew this story would be about narcissists
What a wonderful woman, strong and powerfuI am feeling shedding tears when am listening but am telling u mum, trust God there is our father in heaven who pays..God bless you
I can say she is a very beautiful woman, just natural. My grandmother used to say ''kama hujafa hujaepa chongo'' so the mistress has childish behaviour, she sees only where she is seated, so she doesn't know what future can bring her! God is not blind, he sees everything she is doing to this humble woman.
Thank you Judy for being a voice to many.... Abuse is real and has taken many to an early grave, Lets break the silence and speak out. Judy The Lord is Our Battler, Let us hold on to Him, His word and alliw Him to carry us through. Be encouraged with Psalms 91, 23, 34, 37 and know that i love you and God loves you even more.
Adu arume aya nii nyamu theri. I visited a potential boyfe and got sick visiting. He dropped me off annoyed at the casualty - I couldn't walk straight, I was in pain he didn't walk me in - he drove off 🤷🏾♀️ and told me to catch public transport back to his house whenever released. Weh, hawa watu. I returned home after my visit and never picked up his phone calls again. Imagine whoever ended up with this narc 🤯
You're a strong woman!Yaani ume narrate iyo story without a tear!I understand you have cried enough but God will come through.Gia na thayu thiini wa ritwa ria Jesu nigukorwo HE knew you before you were formed in your mother's womb!It is well🙏🙏
Abuse is bad and can reduce even the most intellectual 😢😢😢 lakini sielewi wanaume aki 😢😢 when they become sick the women stands by them but if the opposite happens most of the men they forsake the women. Huyo mzee angojee karma it will serve him a good portion and bonus. Hugs mami
A great woman indeeed...The story resembles my mother's life..she has been through such too and she is a cancer survivor too..grace has been sufficient ...
the man should confess and ask for forgiveness because her wife didn't ask for the sickness n to the lady who keeps on calling you wait until your turn your will know God doesn't disappoint kiboko ya mungu ya wagojea
She is a very very strong woman. That She didn't cry during the interview.......Kagoni almost did on her behalf. Pole sana mama, God sees, just watch space.
This woman's life is a mirror of my mum's except that she never lived to tell her story. The abuse led to lots of stress related illnesses, high blood pressure, a brain tumour that eventually killed her. Women, why do you stand this??? Never beg a man to have you.
My sister stand tall coz you’ve been a strong woman, let neighbors talk, laugh ignore, the best is you know God and you’ve a home to live in , all the best
this woman says the truth.most men from Neri are very thick now Onder they are beaten by their wives.my ex too was from Neri and he really ruined my youthful time exactly what this lady is explaining.you tell him you do something he doesn't want,you do it yourself he brings trouble.very abusive
Not all nyerians are narcissists its sad for anyone to lump them together.when you meet a narcissist utajua hujui gas lighting,almost making you loose your mind.
Sometimes people fail to understand the value of those close to them....it is sad what Judy and her children have had to go through. There is a God in heaven....May He heal her completely from cancer. She should consider starting a group that can provide support and help to people who are going through similar situations....
If it's Virginia kamotho ali smile, even Judy God will fight for you Nothing Impossible to God coz what you goes through it's similar like Virginia case
What Virginia kamotho went thru is nothing compared to what we went thru for more than 20yrs....till today we cry. But God is still faithful n we've seen his faithfulness. May God of vingeance serve it while you are still alive so that you can testify ....
Judy may you receive total healing, may our good Lord give you peace that surpasses all understanding. Your children are blessed... And your latter days will be greater than your former days Amen 🙏.
You are so strong my namesake,may God be always be there for you and guide you.I won't judge but you have made a good decision,it's better to be alive than dead to please others.Osinanchi gone through but now we are mourning her when it's too late.May God keep you and heal you completely
Waaaah......oooooh no,arume Kai mwendaga atia?🤦🤦some words sio zakwambia mtu especially a sick one, what goes around comes around, ya Mungu ni mengi ,ajui ata yeye anaeza left the world mbere ?hugs mum may God bless u with many years 🙏en give u peace 🕊️
A narcissistic personality disorder causes problems in many areas of life, such as relationships, work, school or financial affairs. People with narcissistic personality disorder may be generally unhappy and disappointed when they're not given the special favors or admiration they believe they deserve. They may find their relationships unfulfilling, and others may not enjoy being around them......
If stupidity and ignorance were names. They would fit those concubines and that man very well. Some people are just stupid. May our good Lord avenge for you Judy.
Hi Judy my sister"a best maid. Thanks for sharing your story. You are an overcomer, God has won this battle for you. You will surely see the goodness of the Lord in the Land of the living.🙏🏾
Life is Spiritual… NOTHING just happens…. May your spiritual eyes be opened you will be shocked what you will discover… praying for your physical, emotional and spiritual healing mama🤗
Thank you for sharing Judy - praying for a life of peace & joy for you and your children. But let me say this, families especially parents & the church/community should encourage abused spouses to leave. Provide emotional & financial support because this kind of trauma & abuse is hard to heal from, and can affect even future generations.
Ooh my the saddest story I have ever heard,it's similar to mine,being married to a beast actually I used to call him Hitler 😬 luckily I left for good and he passed on four years later like a dog!!I feel your pain mum,you are very beautiful and so full of life,may God always favour you and protect you and your kids,you are an iron woman,nakuoera Ngai Indo ciaku ciothe iria ciariireo ni ngige Ngai akurihe na akuhe deliverance,and Divine Healing in Jesus Name!
You are right. We need to appreciate that being single or a single parent is NOT a death sentence. Neither is being married is not a reward to good ladies n being single is a punishment to the ladies. Am yet to lay a finger on any scripture that those who are married will take the lead to heaven. Yes, l respect marriage as it is God ordained institution right from the Garden of Eden, but it us human beings that have completely distorted the institution. Ladies, parents n the church, let's stop this business of idolizing marriage. That is why we are sinking in deep life long yet painful lives in the name of marriage. Let's appreciate all for who we are. Shalom
but nobody is forced to get married..and the worst thing is you can't advice someone inlove esp ladies...let people make the right choices because choices have consequences...
This story is so heartbreaking. God Loves you so much Mama Wachira, he will Never Leave nor forsake you. Trust in Him, you are a Brave Woman Mungu atakupigania malipo ni hapa hapa duniani tu.
Waaah😥😥,,Why would a husband utter such words really? Kwani yeye amejegwa na cement??,woii,he might die before her,,aki those sidechicks😰😥😥,KARMA is doing exercises.unakaa na Bwana ya mtu alafu unamtusi waah,,God let this woman live long
I can't believe this is what you were going through Judy. The ever smiling Judy!oh my!!!!!people hide pains behind their Beautiful smiles. Lady with very big dreams and a big heart!oh my!!!
At this pace am just afraid of marriage.......the rate at which abuse and killings in a marriage set up is taking place it makes you wonder what's the furure
It is okay.If you have never worn the domestic violence shoes you can never understand..Thanks for your testimony Judy and God help you.Thanks Kagoni you are a gem
These marriages, just imagine if these two pple were on the same page,thy would be wealthy couple,this woman sounds industrious, focussed,some marriages kurudisha mtu nyuma!!
Judy healing is your potion.you will heal even from the abuse.This man will surely pay he will not leave this earth without paying God is a just God watch this space baba wachira.
A stronger woman you are ma'am. Na Sasa , I always wonder, instead of abusing someone, why not let them go in peace? Sorry mama wachira, you are narrating the story, you are sober and strong, am listening and crying 😭😭. Gods grace is sufficient for you mama
Very true.... please say that LOUDLY! she started doing secret property investments and expected him to take it normally! It is treason...like a man keeping a secret wife then expecting his wife to take easy when she finds out. Nyani haonagi kundule.
Parents,relatives,church, police failed her and she also failed her children in the name of marriage that wasn't working..May God restore your wasted years
Mama Wachira, you are one very tough lady. You are still young and you will get a job to cater for your needs. I know God who knows you best will hear your prayers. May our Lady of Sorrows intercede for you and your children, to come out of the whole tough situation peacefully and in good health.
Kuna kuteswa na kuna KUTESWA, I am so sorry Judy for what you had to go through…hugs hugs.. I love your parting shots, be kind to people going through abuse, don’t invalidate them but be Empathetic, listen and show the abused some love. As an abused woman, at times we want people who understand & support us but don’t need the judgment
Sounds like the man was a narcissist, they can make you hate yourself but in reality they are the ones who are broken inside and flexing small muscles. Pole for what you went through, hugs to your children, it is not easy even for them.
After the devil, hitler and bin ladin i think that husband is the worst i have ever heard off. Thats a dog in a pair of trousers. Mungu saidia wamama wote hii dunia.
For a long time I blamed my sister for not giving her husband a second chance, she complained of emotional abuse, psychological abuse, body shaming, education level shaming but there was no assault, he never touched her and to us as family thats what we know as abuse so we always asked her to bear. Of course kids were in high cost schools, my sister was designated driver with allowance of 100k+, manager of family finances but she left all that, looking back she was deprived of high life but she says now she can sleep from 8-8 nonstop-peace of mind she has! From grace to grass!! Listening to mama wachira now, I salute my sister, shes a hero she could not tolerate abuse. Heko my sister
God bless you Mama,you will live long to testify His blessings upon your life
Do you really know the meaning of abuse? Emotional and psychological abuse is worse than physical abuse.
The only problem I find here is the lack of involvement of the husband in buying the plot. He should have been part of the project especially because that's where the future home would be built.
@@anitafaith1310 Read proverbs 31. God has allowed a woman to buy land. There is no where it stated that she should consult the husband.
Same same exact words and deeds, what kind of problem is this.
I'm too angry already.. I'm breathing fire like a dragon. This story is a replica of every other woman's story. Wasted 15yrs with the devil and I was left with scars that will never heal. I have lived to regret. I gave him the best of everything and how did he pay me back!
My fellow girls, these things don't work anymore. Don't expose yourselves to violent demons in the name of marriage. It's about time we started a women's caucus to deliberate on the way foward regarding these matters. This madness from men has to stop!! Period!!!🤗
You would think women reps would champion our cause but they've been reduced to flower gals in political rallies.
@@wanjiruciru6237 say no more
May God heal you
Story of my life
Ditto. His mistress and him taking pics on our marital bed, going to places together where we used to go to, and her calling and texting me to tell me how fat I am... body shaming me and her wanting to give me advice on how to take care of my body plus posting the pics on fb still bothers me,it is unbelievable the shite that someone you cared for and loved will do to you.
Wooii,Judy my classmate back in high school.The most,outgoing, humble,polite,intelligent,God fearing lovely gal I ever met then.Jehova Rhapha grant you full recovery.
Judy,you sre fearfully and wonderfuly made Your humbleness has made God togive you Peace,and that is why you are giving us encouragement .Mvumilivu hula mbivu
In Jesus Christ Name Ameen 🙏
I just can't imagine. She was always humble. I just loved her
If Judy is this beautiful after all she have been through, imagine akiwa msichana alikua aje, and I never understand why women with big dreams always end up in manipulative relationships 🤦🤦
She was so beautiful when in high school. I just can't believe this!
I am also wondering
VERY PRETTY ,WE GREW UP TOGETHER AND THE MUM SO LOVELY
@mercylynn ALL Men secretly hate women with big dreams as u say, financially independent women & assertive women. A few express this hatred openly. It goes back to the garden of Eden where man was created to be above the woman.
Ndimwendete muno aragia wega muno
This is the reason i bought my own house, i live my own life, sitaki stress za mtu,...mum, you will rise again above where you are.
We see people out here looking fine but we do not know the struggles they are going through in their homes. It's terrible!!!
True,I also underwent the same, pple pass thru alot.
Wainaina true
Judy, you have been through a lot and still manage to hold your head high. May you get full healing and may victory be your portion. You are a fighter.
There women out there that were created with a heart of Gold....Putting up with a Narcissist is not for the Faint Hearted
Madam MISTRESS, read my words carefully. Because that man has known you carnally, Mark my words!! You will PAY every single of Mama Wachira’s tear drops with your blood. MARK 👏🏾 MY 👏🏾 WORDS!
Baba Wachira, right now it is only God who can help you because the thunder that is going to strike you is doing sit ups. Utakufa kifo cha MBWA 🚮🚮🚮
Those tough words but plain truth. It hurts for real
Wueh wueh punguza makasiriko.🙏🙏
Wueh wueh punguza makasiriko.🙏🙏
You are very right, I went through hell in the name of a marriage but mine was hell ,beatings na kurushwa juu ya ngorofa, yes I survived,long story short God turned the tables, he got sick with h.i.v, and I later came to USA. Take heart my sister and tell him to watch this space.
@@sharelaughwithkaboina2023 may the favor of God surrounds you like a shield
Madam Mistress. It's true mama hana matiti,,,. But ata matiti yako, ni mungu ameiweka n you don't know about tomorrow. Kanyanga pole Pole.
Judy I pray that you be healed and be free from cancer.
You will live to see your great-grandchildren. May Almighty God bless your children to be great people in our generation and may their father be alive to see all these things happening. Amen
God bless you
God of mercy remember this lady,you healed the woman who was bleeding for 12 yrs
She had the kind of man I had, at 30 years married for 2 years. Left the marriage last year since I could not sit down with my husband and discuss anything. 'Matiathagwa niatumia' used this phrase regularly. I thank God am good n raising my 3 children. He even told me he is doing me a favour to raise my child I came with.
😢I'm in the same state ,I'm moving out this year I'm 29 but vitu nimepitia for 4 years aaaah can't stomach all this
This story is heartbreaking. This lady is just a queen. She says it with gentleness inspire of the so much pain. You are blessed mama Wachira.
So heartbreaking 😰
Woiyee pole mum,,, God is in control,, he'll be paid back by God,,,ndagakoma mbiriraini atacaite,,uriia agucaithirie
You're so beautiful mama wachira,no one knows about tommorow,no one kneels down n ask for a problem.leave it to God,he will revange on your behalf.
Dear God I pray for everyone who's fighting a silent battle 🙏🙏
I join you in praying for them, may God fight those battles for them in Jesus Name
NGAI Baba uyu ni mutumia ngatha
I join you praying ,most of women fight this battles secretly May the lord give them strength .
AMEN
Am here silent almost the same
My friend Judy, may God's peace be with you and may He expand your territories that you may never lack and may you soar high and high like the eagles. Hugs hugs sent over ❤️❤️
Even him he can get prostate cancer he is not beyond it, he is in this world and those his mistress.
He shall die before her or live a long painful and miserable life. God doesn’t like ugly. Karma is doing push ups preparing for proper landing.
What a beautiful, pleasant person. May she find joy for the rest of her life. May God grant her every desire.
Amen
He was a narcissist , they make you feel so much drained and you start to believe that there is no better life than what he is offering. Take heart madam judy God is in control. Please ladies lets stop swiping matters under the rug for the name of marriage and relationships. Look at her now 27 years wasted by a damaged man.
It is the woman who is narcissistic.
@@KK-ygh are you the husband? I’ve seen your earlier comment saying we can’t see what’s wrong with the woman. Well, enlighten us pls🤔🤔
That is exactly my thought. The husband is a real narcissist.....
This kk maybe is the husband.You are soo bitter.A narcissist too
Totally agree with you, when you see the tell tale signs please listen to your inner self not even your folks, its your life.
Monica and all of us have power to pray for this woman.woiii hugs mama
Ooooh pole sana mamii .You are a Victor. It's well and you are beautiful 😍. We have God who sees us through fire 🔥..And you are blessed. Hugs mamii.
So sorry my schoolmate Judy (Saintee Nyeri) you are still beautiful and composed as ever. May the Almighty God heal you. May your children overcome what they went through. Have peace and feel loved.
God will fight your every battle. Hugs Judy and your children. I am a millennial (Saintee Alumni)
Why should one person go through all this? Judy you are a great soul. It's not yet over, the future is bright.
Rahab either Ni huyo mzee wake alipanda kile atavuna ama Ni huyu Mama anavuna kile alipanda,
Probably those that body shamed her are the one who who disliked this video ...
Maybe but God is watching one day they will go looking for her for forgiveness
I can imagine someone bodyshaming another due to cancer, as if they are immune...but mungu ni nani they will suffer the same
I can't imagine the trauma the kids went through at young age. They missed a happy childhood. Hope they will heal someday.
This is the saddest story I have watched on this channel. Courage Judy, God loves you.
Dealing with a narcissist is the most painful thing in life, better to walk out
The minute she mentioned "you felt like walking on eggshells all the time", Narcissist No.1 trait. He is one big one. An intelligent lovely lady...
Toxic relationships
I left a 4 year relationship with a narcissist. The minute Judy made this statement "walking on eggshells" my heart has just started beating so fast. I knew this story would be about narcissists
Very very true,a narcissist will make you feel guilty for even breathing the way you do so that you don't offend them
This is the saddest thing I have listened to on this channel.. May God restore those 27yrs for you mama Wachira..
Ngai ukahura mundu niundu wa kugura plot maguta maguta, Those Red flags...
Kiura Ruga
What a wonderful woman, strong and powerfuI am feeling shedding tears when am listening but am telling u mum, trust God there is our father in heaven who pays..God bless you
I can say she is a very beautiful woman, just natural. My grandmother used to say ''kama hujafa hujaepa chongo'' so the mistress has childish behaviour, she sees only where she is seated, so she doesn't know what future can bring her! God is not blind, he sees everything she is doing to this humble woman.
Thank you Judy for being a voice to many.... Abuse is real and has taken many to an early grave, Lets break the silence and speak out.
Judy The Lord is Our Battler, Let us hold on to Him, His word and alliw Him to carry us through.
Be encouraged with Psalms 91, 23, 34, 37 and know that i love you and God loves you even more.
The house is very beautiful.mum Judy you're a great lady. You will make it by Gods grace
😝🤔
"BE KIND "
One in a million woman you deserve nothing but blessings follow unto you dear.
Hallo school mate (Saintee). Thanking God for you, Judy. You remain a victor not a victim, girl. Wewe in wetu!!!!!!
which saintee. Am from Saintee Kisumu
I am so so sorry Judy. May God grant you victory in every battle. You are a beautiful and strong woman. Thank you for sharing your story.
Adu arume aya nii nyamu theri.
I visited a potential boyfe and got sick visiting. He dropped me off annoyed at the casualty - I couldn't walk straight, I was in pain he didn't walk me in - he drove off 🤷🏾♀️ and told me to catch public transport back to his house whenever released. Weh, hawa watu. I returned home after my visit and never picked up his phone calls again. Imagine whoever ended up with this narc 🤯
Woi
Ngai wa atumia responds quickly,ur lucky u got the flag mapema
Good Lord, thanks for not ignoring this signs many pple ignore this signs and end up regreting
You very lucky to have read the signs mapema
God loves you
The Lady is still cute despite the Pain....The Hairstyle is Natural and Cute
She is such an amazing and intelligent woman mum may our good Lord heal your wounded heart and repay u back by fulfilling ur heart desires
This is my close cousin and she cannot deserve this humiliation .God will be your provider Judy.
You're a strong woman!Yaani ume narrate iyo story without a tear!I understand you have cried enough but God will come through.Gia na thayu thiini wa ritwa ria Jesu nigukorwo HE knew you before you were formed in your mother's womb!It is well🙏🙏
I saw that too she must have cried a river and now composed and ready to move on .... I know this point where nothing matters at all‼️‼️
Whenever you notice a red flag, 'kiura ruga' . This is a sad story. I left my marriage after one year six months and I don't regret.
Abuse is bad and can reduce even the most intellectual 😢😢😢 lakini sielewi wanaume aki 😢😢 when they become sick the women stands by them but if the opposite happens most of the men they forsake the women.
Huyo mzee angojee karma it will serve him a good portion and bonus. Hugs mami
I totally understand where she's coming from. I bought a house which I am currently living in 10 years after the separation.
Smart
A great woman indeeed...The story resembles my mother's life..she has been through such too and she is a cancer survivor too..grace has been sufficient ...
This woman has been married by a beast, he is just waiting for his judgement day,live long mama.pole
That is a harsh statement!
This lady is soo beautiful, intelligent,forcuseed and strong...take 💓 Mama..malipo ni hapa hapa duniani
the man should confess and ask for forgiveness because her wife didn't ask for the sickness n to the lady who keeps on calling you wait until your turn your will know God doesn't disappoint kiboko ya mungu ya wagojea
She is a very very strong woman. That She didn't cry during the interview.......Kagoni almost did on her behalf. Pole sana mama, God sees, just watch space.
This woman's life is a mirror of my mum's except that she never lived to tell her story. The abuse led to lots of stress related illnesses, high blood pressure, a brain tumour that eventually killed her. Women, why do you stand this??? Never beg a man to have you.
😭😭
Same to my Mum,sijui aki walikua wanangojea wakufe kwanini
My mum went through the same
likewise, it is saddening.
My sister stand tall coz you’ve been a strong woman, let neighbors talk, laugh ignore, the best is you know God and you’ve a home to live in , all the best
this woman says the truth.most men from Neri are very thick now Onder they are beaten by their wives.my ex too was from Neri and he really ruined my youthful time exactly what this lady is explaining.you tell him you do something he doesn't want,you do it yourself he brings trouble.very abusive
I concur with u Nyeri Kuna shida..
You are an idiot. Go back to school
@@faithmwiraria4330 shinda ni wewe
Not all nyerians are narcissists its sad for anyone to lump them together.when you meet a narcissist utajua hujui gas lighting,almost making you loose your mind.
Sio wote...mtu mmoja akiaribika awache kuchanganywa na wengine.
I love the fact that she mixed with English and Kiswahili and so I enjoyed thank you
How I wish they translate Kiswahil, not English.
Honestly, I don't know what I can say to this woman but sending prayers.
I walked out of my abusive marriage after 25years . It’s now 2 years. You cannot understand what abuse is unless you go through it.
I know
Sometimes people fail to understand the value of those close to them....it is sad what Judy and her children have had to go through. There is a God in heaven....May He heal her completely from cancer. She should consider starting a group that can provide support and help to people who are going through similar situations....
Thank God you have given this lady a big heart,even to smile,yes you're God of another chance,,heal recovery is your portion Mya sister
What goes around comes around. He will know there is a God in heaven who does not play dirty games
A very strong lady. After the test comes the testimony. He will look for you and your children. His downfall will be thunderous.
If it's Virginia kamotho ali smile, even Judy God will fight for you Nothing Impossible to God coz what you goes through it's similar like Virginia case
What Virginia kamotho went thru is nothing compared to what we went thru for more than 20yrs....till today we cry. But God is still faithful n we've seen his faithfulness. May God of vingeance serve it while you are still alive so that you can testify ....
@@nyamburanjengah5797 narcissistic abuse is horrific to each and every one who goes through it!
Mum may God see thru niunjungu
@@nyamburanjengah5797 it shall be well keep going
Hugs Judy Ngai e nawe, it doesn't matter what that man thinks or says you are an overcomer. You are a strong woman and God loves you.
This lady is so beautiful and strong
some of us were brought up by narcissistic parents,some knew that they were narcissists, some knew not what they were doing to their children
Uyu muthuri ndimui....no ndamutigira Ngai..even those women calling you...he doesn't have the capacity to love them.
Judy may you receive total healing, may our good Lord give you peace that surpasses all understanding. Your children are blessed... And your latter days will be greater than your former days Amen 🙏.
I love the smile on her face despite going through all that.....there is sunshine ahead mummy you are a victor in Jesus name 🙏🙏🙏
I wish you could post pic of that narcist . Am tired of visualizing how he looks. Sorry Judy for all you have gone through. And you are so beautiful.
Lord I pray for everyone going through such a battle...Judy you are a strang girl...
You are so strong my namesake,may God be always be there for you and guide you.I won't judge but you have made a good decision,it's better to be alive than dead to please others.Osinanchi gone through but now we are mourning her when it's too late.May God keep you and heal you completely
Waaaah......oooooh no,arume Kai mwendaga atia?🤦🤦some words sio zakwambia mtu especially a sick one, what goes around comes around, ya Mungu ni mengi ,ajui ata yeye anaeza left the world mbere ?hugs mum may God bless u with many years 🙏en give u peace 🕊️
A narcissistic personality disorder causes problems in many areas of life, such as relationships, work, school or financial affairs. People with narcissistic personality disorder may be generally unhappy and disappointed when they're not given the special favors or admiration they believe they deserve. They may find their relationships unfulfilling, and others may not enjoy being around them......
If stupidity and ignorance were names. They would fit those concubines and that man very well. Some people are just stupid. May our good Lord avenge for you Judy.
You're gorgeous lady..u will live to testify the glory of God..ugutura muoyo nginya thuu ciaku cithethuke
Hi Judy my sister"a best maid. Thanks for sharing your story. You are an overcomer, God has won this battle for you. You will surely see the goodness of the Lord in the Land of the living.🙏🏾
Amen Amen. And by the stripes of Jesus she is healed.
Life is Spiritual… NOTHING just happens…. May your spiritual eyes be opened you will be shocked what you will discover… praying for your physical, emotional and spiritual healing mama🤗
I feel your pain mama wachira. God will be with you and your sweet kids and what goes around comes around.
Thank you for sharing Judy - praying for a life of peace & joy for you and your children. But let me say this, families especially parents & the church/community should encourage abused spouses to leave. Provide emotional & financial support because this kind of trauma & abuse is hard to heal from, and can affect even future generations.
Hugs mum....there is God in heaven 🙏
Ooh my the saddest story I have ever heard,it's similar to mine,being married to a beast actually I used to call him Hitler 😬 luckily I left for good and he passed on four years later like a dog!!I feel your pain mum,you are very beautiful and so full of life,may God always favour you and protect you and your kids,you are an iron woman,nakuoera Ngai Indo ciaku ciothe iria ciariireo ni ngige Ngai akurihe na akuhe deliverance,and Divine Healing in Jesus Name!
Wow, you deserve a medal dear..abuse is real .all the best in your healing journey both phyically and emotionally. It shall be well.
Marriage is so overated, let's protect our kids from these agents of the devil in the name of marriage.
You are right. We need to appreciate that being single or a single parent is NOT a death sentence. Neither is being married is not a reward to good ladies n being single is a punishment to the ladies. Am yet to lay a finger on any scripture that those who are married will take the lead to heaven. Yes, l respect marriage as it is God ordained institution right from the Garden of Eden, but it us human beings that have completely distorted the institution. Ladies, parents n the church, let's stop this business of idolizing marriage. That is why we are sinking in deep life long yet painful lives in the name of marriage. Let's appreciate all for who we are. Shalom
but nobody is forced to get married..and the worst thing is you can't advice someone inlove esp ladies...let people make the right choices because choices have consequences...
I concur with her, sometimes when under abuse you loose yourself, talking through experience
Judgement and invalidation from family and friends is what really kills a victim of violence.Judy you will be and are victorious.Keep on my dear
This story is so heartbreaking. God Loves you so much Mama Wachira, he will Never Leave nor forsake you. Trust in Him, you are a Brave Woman Mungu atakupigania malipo ni hapa hapa duniani tu.
Waaah😥😥,,Why would a husband utter such words really? Kwani yeye amejegwa na cement??,woii,he might die before her,,aki those sidechicks😰😥😥,KARMA is doing exercises.unakaa na Bwana ya mtu alafu unamtusi waah,,God let this woman live long
I can't believe this is what you were going through Judy. The ever smiling Judy!oh my!!!!!people hide pains behind their Beautiful smiles.
Lady with very big dreams and a big heart!oh my!!!
At this pace am just afraid of marriage.......the rate at which abuse and killings in a marriage set up is taking place it makes you wonder what's the furure
No no....take heart....there are good people out there....trust me.
Just avoid Kikuyu men! Am yet to see a good one
@@vickvicko6607 hahaha
It is okay.If you have never worn the domestic violence shoes you can never understand..Thanks for your testimony Judy and God help you.Thanks Kagoni you are a gem
Exactly dearest
These marriages, just imagine if these two pple were on the same page,thy would be wealthy couple,this woman sounds industrious, focussed,some marriages kurudisha mtu nyuma!!
Exactly some men dont know what they have. Imagine having such a wife he would be a rich man by now and very proud of his family.
Judy and the way you are beautiful, you are great blessed mum. God has given you the grace, to live. You are blessings to us. Love you mama
She's soo numb...the pain has really numbed her ...
Very. Abuse is horrible
No emotion at all ...she is broken
So sad.
But you are a strong woman. Thank God for you. He will restore your health
Judy healing is your potion.you will heal even from the abuse.This man will surely pay he will not leave this earth without paying God is a just God watch this space baba wachira.
A stronger woman you are ma'am. Na Sasa , I always wonder, instead of abusing someone, why not let them go in peace? Sorry mama wachira, you are narrating the story, you are sober and strong, am listening and crying 😭😭. Gods grace is sufficient for you mama
Women, we are our own worst enemies. As sad as it sounds.
Very true.... please say that LOUDLY! she started doing secret property investments and expected him to take it normally! It is treason...like a man keeping a secret wife then expecting his wife to take easy when she finds out. Nyani haonagi kundule.
@@KK-ygh you’re a fool.
I don't know you but l have no words. It's soso traumatizing May the Lord take u thru the rest of ua live.
Parents,relatives,church, police failed her and she also failed her children in the name of marriage that wasn't working..May God restore your wasted years
Marriage is causing women to suffer alot. It's better to be a single parent than to go through hell in the name of marriage
@@susanapollo284 absolutely 💯..and women should love themselves together with their children than their spouses
Mama Wachira, you are one very tough lady. You are still young and you will get a job to cater for your needs.
I know God who knows you best will hear your prayers.
May our Lady of Sorrows intercede for you and your children, to come out of the whole tough situation peacefully and in good health.
Strong woman this one!!!. You are healed and your tomorrow is definitely better than where you've been.
Understand her if she can't express herself fully in Kikuyu, depends on how she's brought up.
True
She said she was born and raised in Nairobi..
Kuna kuteswa na kuna KUTESWA, I am so sorry Judy for what you had to go through…hugs hugs..
I love your parting shots, be kind to people going through abuse, don’t invalidate them but be Empathetic, listen and show the abused some love. As an abused woman, at times we want people who understand & support us but don’t need the judgment
Sounds like the man was a narcissist, they can make you hate yourself but in reality they are the ones who are broken inside and flexing small muscles. Pole for what you went through, hugs to your children, it is not easy even for them.
Truly a bad narcissist and mad,
@@KK-ygh help us see.what's wrong with her?
After the devil, hitler and bin ladin i think that husband is the worst i have ever heard off. Thats a dog in a pair of trousers. Mungu saidia wamama wote hii dunia.
Beautiful lady, may God comfort you mama wachira..