I’m proud of you for trying I’m proud of you for walking in proud of you for breath I am proud of you for eating I’m proud of you for sleeping I’m proud of you for watching this I am proud of you for dealing with people I am proud of you for anything and everything thank you for your time i am so damn proud of you so get that though your smart brain you are amazing and beautiful and smart you are one of a kind you are you you are unique you are worth it if no one cares know that I care even if I don’t know you I fricking care about you now go take care of yourself it will be okay even if you don’t wanna move then take a nap or shower it will make you feel better❤️
I just got done with one of my "sessions" and saw this. I've never seen you're content and I usually try to just "man up". This is one of the first times I've cried in probably months to a year. Thank you, kind stranger, thank you for this gift.
Kinda i mean nobody cared enough to stop me and now ive got scars that make me worry about how i look more than I already did its the reason why i never have my hoodie off longer than a handful of minutes
i’ve had ptsd of people finding my scars because of a situation with my mom finding it. i got 0 comfort during that situation so hearing comforting words and an actual apology was appreciated. lovely video, thanks for making this. 💙💙💙
I have so much dread for that situation to happen to me because I have so many scars and I know it will all go to shit when one of my parents sees them one day
I am 25 y.o drug addicted guy, self harmer, which does not deserve any kind of love…i'm feel very lonely and broken…but only your voice makes me feel like that someone cares about me…you are like an angel…so i just want to thank you, thank you so much.
🫂🫂🫂🫂 You do deserve love. Both things you describe is in part addictions and an illness. I’m not saying that to offend you in any way, its the opposite. Cause you probably wouldn’t say that someone battling an illness is unworthy of love, right? You deserve happiness, love and a really good life. I truely hope you’ll fight for all of that. 🫂
You deserve all the love in the world. We all have our flaws but it doesn't mean we don't deserve love. I know I can't understand ur situation but I am just trying to help!❤
My roommate, who is my best friend, is the only person that knows I have scars but doesn’t know that I’m still doing it. It feels like the only way to escape the thoughts and feelings. The pain makes me take my focus off of everything else and gives me temporary relief from the psychological pain. It’s obviously unhealthy but it’s a temporary escape I need. ASMR rp audios are the only place i can go to feel cared about, so thank you❤️❤️
I hope the other comments here makes you feel like you’re not alone. Not alone in cutting, wanting to escape or in hiding. And I bet your comment will make others feel like they’re not alone either. Sending you much love ❤️
yo dawg, think about your roommate, would they want you to continue hurting yourself and adding scars, or would they want you to come to them for help instead. Next time you feel the need to cut yourself, go to ur roommate and tell them whats going on. Cutting might help temporarily, but having someone to help you through your troubles helps a lot more in the long run, especially with your mental health
I don't have any physical scars, but I have plenty of mental ones. My brain can be such a dark place and a lot of the time it feels like a prison. I'm pretty new to ASMR and I don't really get tingly but I find videos like this so comforting.
Sometimes people criticize or belittle me for having such strong mental issues but not having scars. I never cut, I was always afraid of the pain, but that didn’t stop the crushing feelings in my mind. They think I’m lying for attention or something, but I don’t want attention for it, I just want support.
@@aiden3614 Thank you for your concern. Funnily enough, I posted this a few days before I stumbled into a friend group that've had similar issues to me. This group also introduced me to my first BF, so I'm on the up n' up right now. Well wishes to everyone that reads this. If I can stumble into good fortune, so can you.
You don’t know how much this has helped me… I’ve been a victim of my own hands for around 14 years… Hearing people like you talk to me is so soothing, you have no idea how much you help me🥺💜 Thank you💜
I don’t care if ur clean for one minute week month year or not clean at all I’m incredibly proud of you and your so beautiful this world is way better with u In it ❤
I am successfully 3 years clean and it’s been a huge struggle many times but if I could do it, I believe in all of you that you all can do it, I both love and believe in you all!❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much for making this. I don’t usually “cut” myself, whenever i feel like harming myself I scratch myself very hard, and I my nails don’t go past my finger and I still tear off skin. Thank god it heals without scars so no one notices. The only person who knows is my mom and thats because one day I was constantly checking my upper chest to see if my scratches were still visible, and she asked me what I was doing and I tried to beat around the bush but I just ended up saying that I was checking for scratch marks. She didn’t really say anything and I honestly felt worse about the whole thing. And I hope if your going through this that your doing ok
Relaps doesn’t take away those minutes, hours or any amount of time where you didn’t cut. Nothing could take that away from you. Be kind to yourself, you deserve it ❤️
Haven't harmed in awhile but when I did I looked for audios like this (i guess as a coping mechanism) but couldn't find any so I thank you for making this and I hope that anyone that is going though this is ok and gets the help they need be that meds, therapy, family etc. I definitely recommend going to the gym/physical activity, even something as simply as a short walk (which I know this can be hard when the intrusive thoughts are hitting hard but please try). Can't promise it gets better but it doesn't hurt to try. I love you and you'll be alright ❤️
Im thankful for these audios it may seem stupid that I have to listen too these but I have no one else in my life to talk to or express my emotions too. Hearing the “Its going to be okay.” Hits so hard because thats all I want to be told by someone
this audio bought tears back to my eyes. its become to a point where even cutting doesnt make me feel emotion to make me cry since most of the time all i feel is numbness but i havent felt a level of comfort like this in so so long and it bought tears to my eyes in an instant. You do such a great job with these videos. thank you
ive never been the one to listen to comforting asmr's but you are just in a way different. this asmr made me feel loved, more loved and appreciated than i ever have been. having gone through a terrible relationship then breaking up just like two days ago, this asmr just helped me alot, ill plan on listening to more of your videos from now on. thank you
I’m not going to lie… I’ve been clean for a long time but things are starting to get really bad in life again. Quite the coincidence RUclips decided to recommend this video to me just now. I just don’t know what to do. I have a therapist so I’m already getting professional help, but damn this is hard.
I never cut, THANK GOD! But I was bullied a tonnnnn as a kid/teenager. So I was crying a lot. A lot of the time I felt like no one heard me. This was so sad. Sarah, you are literally the best. To anyone going through cutting-you’ll get through this. I’m here if you need to talk
I didn't cut (properly anyways), bar a couple, but I really beat myself up and hurt myself in a multitude of ways. I didn't tell any of my friends or family about this, and I guess I'm still hurting. Several classmates didn't make it through, so saying this makes me feel horribly selfish and needy, but I guess I just want to know if I deserve to feel this reassurance when I'm still here, breathing, eating and sleeping with my family.
Its nice to hear a comforting voice every once in a while. One that wont judge me, or view me as weak, or a disappointment for feeling like escaping from this world. Its good to hear this voice, even if i know its not real, it makes me feel warmth in my heart.
Thanks chum, this was really really nice. I've been going through a rough time and had thoughts of self harm, this kinda helped me feel a but better about things though, so once again, thank you
You and me bro your not alone she did awesome with this I know times get rough I hope you get better it will always get better hurting yourself is not a path to go down I am proud of you for even waking up today
Situations like this is probably the biggest reason why I've actively been avoiding relationships. The thought of being a burden on the person you love, is almost more painful than the illness itself.
If there's an award on RUclips for the best comfort audio this one is a winner 1) Thank you, a thousand times 2) The first part is so good that it should/could be an audio on his own 3) Dealing with SH sucks, but it helps to know you're not alone and audios like this make it easier to understand that 🫂♥️
I’ve never gotten this kind of care in my whole life. They just ignored me or were just upset with me. I even appreciated that tho bc I wanted to be cared so much. I’m crying now while listening this. Thank you so much for this.
Years ago I cut, due to an ex, she's the only one that knows, we broke up shortly after, and the cutting did stop after that, but it. Made me realize how powerful it was, and how hard it can be to stop, and this video is a great comforting reminder of that, and the idea that things will get better
I've inflicted pain upon my body dozens of times, but I have never drawn blood with any such instance of this. I do believe I partially understand the reason why self harm is done. Emotions can often feel like they're building up pressure within your body, like wearing a suit of armor that's too small. I can understand why someone might want to poke a hole in that armor, so to speak.
Thank you for this. I had a relapse over the weekend after staying away from it for a couple years or so. I feel like I'm at the lowest point in my whole life currently. I'm just feeling so confused and lonely and so... just tired lately. Anyways, I really appreciate you making this.
Relapses don’t take away your success. Every minute, hour, day, week etc that you don’t harm is amazing. Be proud of yourself for every moment like that, and extra kind when it gets hard. You deserve kindness, love and compassion. Always 🫂❤️
I've been lonely... Thinking that the people around would help but at the end of the day it's these kinds of videos that make me break down in the middle of the night and wish I had someone to be proud of me and happy to know me... but I end up following someone who doesn't even answer me. So thank you so much and I'm sorry you had to read this and imagine something and me taking your time. But at the same time ( sorry ) thank you for reading this and making this
I recently started cutting for the first time, I never thought I would ever do it I was always so happy and had no care in the world. I used to say to people that sometimes I forced myself to cry because I hardly every get to experience sadness. But now I can't handle is anymore I haven't been truly happy in so long I just hate feeling like there's no where out or only one way forward it just scares me and I just don't ever know what to do. That's why I turned to cutting, I thought it would be a good idea while I was drunk and then suddenly started doing it more and it felt nice it distracted me from everything all I had to do was focus on the physical pain and it was a relief. I don't want to cut myself anymore because my mom found out and I can tell she's upset from it.
I have a very hard time coping with anything and I never let myself feel anything very well, and stuff like this really helps to get all my emotions out in a healthy way so thank you for that
Sorry to everyone who went through this experience, I don't have anything similar, but I can expect how painful it is for the person psychologically and physically, and now something strange happens to me, my wrist is burning annoyingly, I don't know if I'm just imagining it because of the video or not it's really stupid 😅 thank you for this audio and all audio you make i'm very sure it's help a lot 🙏
@@losttrader1170i don't speak English well so At first I didn't understand. I google it When I was reading about this topic that I knew nothing about I was like 🤯🤯 thanks for this information
when u said that the listener was everything for u, i started crying cause my girlfriend broke up with me two weeks ago and i always used to say these words to her.. but she left... and now im so lost, broken and lonely.. and all i can do is come here and listen to comforting things... ur voice is very nice and calming. thank u very much for doing this
Ty for this… I have a lot of times where I feel to self harm. Any rare self harms I’ve done isn’t anything bad, but over time I’ve felt worse and worse cause my mental health. I hate myself for how I am and because of how sad I always feel inside, hate how much I suck at life, hate how much of a failure I am, hate how I feel I’m not getting anywhere, hate how I feel I let everyone down etc. I always feel so stressed and anxious. Ty for how much comfort and how you make me feel, it’s ASMRs like these that help me feel bette even if it’s a lil bit. Ty Ty Ty ❤️🩹😖🌧
not me actually running away but all in all thank you for this ive been clean for 1 year but it still haunt and taunts me to this day this really eased the pain so thank you
For me and many other as well its a escape from feeling something but the emptiness as three days grace said "I'd rather feel pain than nothing at all" and to anyone who reads this know you are not alone though based on me is sure as heck feels like you are
I was wondering if you could do a video on self harm urges, the before instead of the after, like the listener telling you they want to do it and you trying to calm the urge ❤️
I am sadly a victim of self harm, I struggle with autism, adhd, and ptsd. my age is irrelevant considering how often my experiences are down played due to age. I want you all to know that life is obviously shit, im sure of you feel like mistakes but your not, your no mistake. even if shitty people tell you your a mistake, your not and I promise that, I know what its like to reach a limit and self inflict pain but know this there's light in the end, look at yin and yang for example life is a constant battle of order and chaos, love and hate, joy and pain. whatever pain your going through its not the end. your very much loved choom, I promise. your nobody until somebody loves you and that somebody is me, keep fighting friends because you got this I promise.
Me who's just using this to fall asleep 😶 I was like this roughly 2 years ago I am not anymore thanks to friends and family and these kind of audios it gets better friends just hold on a little longer
The other day I did it again, I hadn’t done it in months, I wanted to finish it and end it, before I did that I, one thought came through, last time I suffered through this alone, I have friends who love me, I can talk to them. So I stopped before I did anything that would change my life forever. I texted the person whom I consider my most trusting and caring friend. I told her everything about it, she was sad. She told me that she really cares about me and my life is worth living and how that this hurt her to find out I tried to do this. She also mentioned how sad she would be if I was gone, she made me realize my life has meaning and I am not alone. If you finished reading this, someone loves you and cares for you. Reach out to them, talk about it with them. You will feel better.
Great work 😊👍I have have a friend who has gone through an addiction like this and I had to talk it through with them on discord, we managed to pull through so I know how it feels from a perspective of comforting the person so great work
I was in a bit of a dark place today. I was talking about pain I would endure simply for love. And I said that the pain and horrific scars would be small in the grand scheme of things. I don’t value my life very much. But when I heard this… I was brought back. Bless you.
The only person I talked to this about, I can't talk to anymore, and I don't really have anyone else to, so I guess I'll whisper into the void. I've self harmed alot, in several ways, and nobody really knows about any of them unless I went out of my way to tell them, which I never do. I'm very smart, and understand the people I'm close to well, as well as just clever in general, so it's as easy as breathing to keep it a secret. I just wish I had a single person to talk to about it. It's not like people in my life wouldn't be willing to listen, I just don't want to burden them with it, especially when I've talked the same people down from mental breakdowns and relapses. Although its said differently, that I can come to them when in need, I know I can't, becuase I've become an emotional pillar and if I Crack once I'll crumble. So I can never crack at all. Not when going through breakups, not when relapsing, not when I'm out of my body. It is okay to be weak, and you can't be strong all the time, and it is okay to cry, just not for me, becuase if people saw how broken I am they'd never fully believe my reflection anymore. I'd never be able to help them in the same way again.
Listening to this ASMR reminded me of just how alone I feel (which I know it was meant to do the opposite) currently laying in bed in a empty room with the only white noise being a fan keeping me cool, the thoughts always come at the worst time, the only silver lining is that I have no physical scars as my mind hasn’t stooped low enough for me to want to attempt cutting.
Some scars I have are from surgeries. But a few of them are little cuts that turn into scars. I got one on my top lip where my Rottweiler bit me and I will always remember her with the souvenir she gave me.
I look at my.."past deeds" and feel immense shame. I fear my scars would scare someone away or...having that uncomfortable conversation as to why. I'd like this one day, just...kissing my scars and being gentle about it. I haven't done it for a few years now. Stuff like this reminds me that it's okay to open up about it. Thank you.
I wish i could talk to someone about this without them reacting the way know they will. So instead I get to suffer in silence. Thank you for making this. At least i get q little relief from this
If I had a girlfriend so caring like presented here, I'd definitely stop harming myself to not upset her more, also try to change, make myself better so I could feel that I deserve her love... But guess what! Nothing like that will ever happen!
I never did cut myself but the way I sorta dealt with was numbing it by playing on my Xbox one for extended periods of time and despite getting help I’m still recovering and some scars still haven’t healed yet in my head at least.
If y’all need a song to listen to, just to cheer u up just a bit listen to after the storm by kali, it’s a really great song that’s gotten me through dark times, cause remember everyone, the darker the night, the brighter the morning
What having scars is like: I created them and I hate them but they will never go away. my body is filled with old wounds which came from a blade. I hate them but I am still creating them, day after day. More appear, you may not be able to see them but I can feel them. Enduring the pain. smiling. knowing I’ve ruined my body over and over again
I want to cry so bad while listening to this, and i can't even do that, funny how this works, i push everyone out and come here with open veins to have fake reassurance from a stranger talking to a microphone in the past.
I keep getting really close to hurting myself, but my passion for firearms keeps me from doing it. They're one of the few connections I have with my dad and I can't lose them.
How do you always know what's going on in my life i swear anything happens to me and theres a video by you in my recommended comforting that exact thing. Don't know how that magic works but ill take it
I have some old scars and i hate myself doing it.. I wished my mom reached like this... she just yelled at me and called me mental, and saying I properly do it with my friends... And the other day she said we are out of bandages because "i cut my arm f up" i felt so hurt.. I'm glad my mom doesn't know that she's the reason why i did it... she would probably do something horrible... Thank you❤ i sadly didn't cry because i haven't cried for almost a year and i don't know what's wrong with me...😕 but thanks 😊 i felt very loved...
When I clicked on this video this isn’t what I expected I just clicked on it because it said scars and me and my best friend have both had a big scar down our chests our whole lives. I didn’t know it was a suicide video. Me and my best friend have had the same scar our whole lives but we met in middle school. It’s a really weird coincidence. And we didn’t know about each other’s scars until a year after we met. We’ve been friends for 5 and a half years.
Her: I’m here Me: but your not.. no one was lol sorry for venting just something that came to mind anyone else hugging there pillow and having my scars in view makes me happy the scars make me me love your scars they have a story behind them❤️
I have a lot of scars on my arms, and my head and I kept getting scratched by something or someone else, but my scars are still on my arms and head, but I'll never forget about my scars😔😔...
Wish I could give you a big hug. Life is indeed tough but it does have great moments that are sooo worth fighting for. Sometimes we just need a little help to see it. It is nothing that ASMR can do even if they might help a bit in the moment. There is however great resourses out there if you feel open too it. I don't know you and everyones struggle is different but trust me when I say that I've been in the shittiest and darkest of places and wished that I had gotten help for myself sooner.
I've never cut, but I've contemplated it a lot. I guess it stems from an unhealthy coping mechanism of burying myself in other problems so I don't have to think about my depression. Add into that I don't and never had anybody to... really even begin to approach this type of scenario with. Which... seems to be a bigger problem than normal lately. I guess that's what brought me to this video to begin with. I know this is probably strange to read, I'm probably not even making any sense, but I guess I want to say thank you for making this sort of depression comforting content.
Depends. Some derive satisfaction from punishing the person they hate the most, others do it to end it and there's attention seeking edgelords who want others to notice and pity them. They want to feel special, not matter the cost. (Before someone calls me names, I know I'm right, cuz I'm speaking from experience)
I’m proud of you for trying I’m proud of you for walking in proud of you for breath I am proud of you for eating I’m proud of you for sleeping I’m proud of you for watching this I am proud of you for dealing with people I am proud of you for anything and everything thank you for your time i am so damn proud of you so get that though your smart brain you are amazing and beautiful and smart you are one of a kind you are you you are unique you are worth it if no one cares know that I care even if I don’t know you I fricking care about you now go take care of yourself it will be okay even if you don’t wanna move then take a nap or shower it will make you feel better❤️
Thank you some much you don’t know how much this means to me :)) ❤️
@@yourprettymommy ❤️
@@kirstyowen1671 hug* dont cry it’s ok I’m here :)
You don’t know how much I needed this thank you sm
@@Onyresthegaywriter I’m glad I could help
I just got done with one of my "sessions" and saw this. I've never seen you're content and I usually try to just "man up". This is one of the first times I've cried in probably months to a year. Thank you, kind stranger, thank you for this gift.
Crying is healing ❤
@@senjychannelWe Are proud of you, as Ian Malcom once said “you did it, you crazy son of a b@$&! You did it”. Cheers to you🥂.
Thank@@O5-7
I hope you’re better now❤️
Same. Hang in there.
To everyone who has gone through this i hope you're doing well now
Kinda i mean nobody cared enough to stop me and now ive got scars that make me worry about how i look more than I already did its the reason why i never have my hoodie off longer than a handful of minutes
@@s7shorty I’m comfortable with the scars I have, but other people aren’t comfortable with seeing them. So I hide them as to not cause drama
No I still want to kill myself,and not even in a joking way
I am not but thank you for your consideration
Thanks
Really
i’ve had ptsd of people finding my scars because of a situation with my mom finding it. i got 0 comfort during that situation so hearing comforting words and an actual apology was appreciated.
lovely video, thanks for making this. 💙💙💙
Dawg
I have so much dread for that situation to happen to me because I have so many scars and I know it will all go to shit when one of my parents sees them one day
Damn that's crazy
I am 25 y.o drug addicted guy, self harmer, which does not deserve any kind of love…i'm feel very lonely and broken…but only your voice makes me feel like that someone cares about me…you are like an angel…so i just want to thank you, thank you so much.
🫂🫂🫂🫂 You do deserve love. Both things you describe is in part addictions and an illness. I’m not saying that to offend you in any way, its the opposite. Cause you probably wouldn’t say that someone battling an illness is unworthy of love, right? You deserve happiness, love and a really good life. I truely hope you’ll fight for all of that. 🫂
Bro, everyone is deserving of love,no matter what they're going through. Keep on pushing through the shit and keep your head up
You deserve all the love in the world. We all have our flaws but it doesn't mean we don't deserve love. I know I can't understand ur situation but I am just trying to help!❤
My roommate, who is my best friend, is the only person that knows I have scars but doesn’t know that I’m still doing it. It feels like the only way to escape the thoughts and feelings. The pain makes me take my focus off of everything else and gives me temporary relief from the psychological pain. It’s obviously unhealthy but it’s a temporary escape I need. ASMR rp audios are the only place i can go to feel cared about, so thank you❤️❤️
I hope the other comments here makes you feel like you’re not alone. Not alone in cutting, wanting to escape or in hiding. And I bet your comment will make others feel like they’re not alone either. Sending you much love ❤️
I hope you can somehow escape your dark hour and see your deserved glory my friend
@@Unidentified_UnknownUser what happened?
@@ztlgextra9573 read the comment lol 👆
yo dawg, think about your roommate, would they want you to continue hurting yourself and adding scars, or would they want you to come to them for help instead. Next time you feel the need to cut yourself, go to ur roommate and tell them whats going on. Cutting might help temporarily, but having someone to help you through your troubles helps a lot more in the long run, especially with your mental health
I don't have any physical scars, but I have plenty of mental ones. My brain can be such a dark place and a lot of the time it feels like a prison. I'm pretty new to ASMR and I don't really get tingly but I find videos like this so comforting.
Dude mine feels like an office building except everyone's running around screaming and yelling WHAT THE HELL IS HAPPENING
I feel your pain most people care more about physical scars and abuse but mental scares hurt just as much and last much longer
Sometimes people criticize or belittle me for having such strong mental issues but not having scars. I never cut, I was always afraid of the pain, but that didn’t stop the crushing feelings in my mind. They think I’m lying for attention or something, but I don’t want attention for it, I just want support.
@@CynamminStyx I'm really sorry to hear that. I hope more genuine people come into your life.
@@aiden3614 Thank you for your concern. Funnily enough, I posted this a few days before I stumbled into a friend group that've had similar issues to me. This group also introduced me to my first BF, so I'm on the up n' up right now. Well wishes to everyone that reads this. If I can stumble into good fortune, so can you.
You don’t know how much this has helped me…
I’ve been a victim of my own hands for around 14 years…
Hearing people like you talk to me is so soothing, you have no idea how much you help me🥺💜
Thank you💜
I'm happy to help in any way ❤
That door slam scared tf out of me, i was almost asleep too 😂😅😭
I don’t care if ur clean for one minute week month year or not clean at all I’m incredibly proud of you and your so beautiful this world is way better with u In it ❤
Needed to hear this rn, life’s getting in my way
2 months clean.. thoughts are coming back though...
@@yagirlabby09I'm 3 months clean and I feel the same... But I believe we can do this, don't give up.
I am successfully 3 years clean and it’s been a huge struggle many times but if I could do it, I believe in all of you that you all can do it, I both love and believe in you all!❤️❤️❤️
@@beethebeanbag692 omg 3 years clean?! I'm sooooo proud of you! I've been clean for 5 months by now!
Thank you so much for making this. I don’t usually “cut” myself, whenever i feel like harming myself I scratch myself very hard, and I my nails don’t go past my finger and I still tear off skin. Thank god it heals without scars so no one notices. The only person who knows is my mom and thats because one day I was constantly checking my upper chest to see if my scratches were still visible, and she asked me what I was doing and I tried to beat around the bush but I just ended up saying that I was checking for scratch marks. She didn’t really say anything and I honestly felt worse about the whole thing. And I hope if your going through this that your doing ok
I unfortunately relapsed a few days ago, and I wish I had this support so… thank you ❤️
Hey, listen everyone has a relapse mistake. You are human!
Relaps doesn’t take away those minutes, hours or any amount of time where you didn’t cut. Nothing could take that away from you. Be kind to yourself, you deserve it ❤️
You're not broken. You're wounded and wounds, with the right care, heal ^^
But there is no one to heal these very wounds ... and this video works, one might say, only as an anesthetic ... and then temporarily
Haven't harmed in awhile but when I did I looked for audios like this (i guess as a coping mechanism) but couldn't find any so I thank you for making this and I hope that anyone that is going though this is ok and gets the help they need be that meds, therapy, family etc. I definitely recommend going to the gym/physical activity, even something as simply as a short walk (which I know this can be hard when the intrusive thoughts are hitting hard but please try). Can't promise it gets better but it doesn't hurt to try. I love you and you'll be alright ❤️
Im thankful for these audios it may seem stupid that I have to listen too these but I have no one else in my life to talk to or express my emotions too. Hearing the “Its going to be okay.” Hits so hard because thats all I want to be told by someone
This is a temporary relief for my dreadful loneliness.
this audio bought tears back to my eyes. its become to a point where even cutting doesnt make me feel emotion to make me cry since most of the time all i feel is numbness but i havent felt a level of comfort like this in so so long and it bought tears to my eyes in an instant. You do such a great job with these videos. thank you
You can do this.
I believe in you.
10/10 self harm comfort audio. Thank you so much ❤❤❤
ive never been the one to listen to comforting asmr's but you are just in a way different. this asmr made me feel loved, more loved and appreciated than i ever have been. having gone through a terrible relationship then breaking up just like two days ago, this asmr just helped me alot, ill plan on listening to more of your videos from now on. thank you
Aww, that warms my heart thank you
I’m not going to lie… I’ve been clean for a long time but things are starting to get really bad in life again. Quite the coincidence RUclips decided to recommend this video to me just now. I just don’t know what to do. I have a therapist so I’m already getting professional help, but damn this is hard.
I never cut, THANK GOD! But I was bullied a tonnnnn as a kid/teenager. So I was crying a lot. A lot of the time I felt like no one heard me. This was so sad. Sarah, you are literally the best.
To anyone going through cutting-you’ll get through this. I’m here if you need to talk
I didn't cut (properly anyways), bar a couple, but I really beat myself up and hurt myself in a multitude of ways. I didn't tell any of my friends or family about this, and I guess I'm still hurting. Several classmates didn't make it through, so saying this makes me feel horribly selfish and needy, but I guess I just want to know if I deserve to feel this reassurance when I'm still here, breathing, eating and sleeping with my family.
Its nice to hear a comforting voice every once in a while. One that wont judge me, or view me as weak, or a disappointment for feeling like escaping from this world.
Its good to hear this voice, even if i know its not real, it makes me feel warmth in my heart.
I couldn’t help but tear up listening to this. You’re such a loving person for shedding light on the self harm issue ❤
❤ It is such an important topic!
Thanks chum, this was really really nice. I've been going through a rough time and had thoughts of self harm, this kinda helped me feel a but better about things though, so once again, thank you
You and me bro your not alone she did awesome with this I know times get rough I hope you get better it will always get better hurting yourself is not a path to go down I am proud of you for even waking up today
Situations like this is probably the biggest reason why I've actively been avoiding relationships. The thought of being a burden on the person you love, is almost more painful than the illness itself.
If there's an award on RUclips for the best comfort audio this one is a winner
1) Thank you, a thousand times
2) The first part is so good that it should/could be an audio on his own
3) Dealing with SH sucks, but it helps to know you're not alone and audios like this make it easier to understand that
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That is very, very sweet, thank you. I'm glad you liked it ❤🤗
I’ve never gotten this kind of care in my whole life. They just ignored me or were just upset with me. I even appreciated that tho bc I wanted to be cared so much. I’m crying now while listening this. Thank you so much for this.
Years ago I cut, due to an ex, she's the only one that knows, we broke up shortly after, and the cutting did stop after that, but it. Made me realize how powerful it was, and how hard it can be to stop, and this video is a great comforting reminder of that, and the idea that things will get better
I've inflicted pain upon my body dozens of times, but I have never drawn blood with any such instance of this. I do believe I partially understand the reason why self harm is done. Emotions can often feel like they're building up pressure within your body, like wearing a suit of armor that's too small. I can understand why someone might want to poke a hole in that armor, so to speak.
I have been to scared to open up about this these feelings and this feels so genuinely freeing to hear, thank you from the bottom of my heart
Thank you for this. I had a relapse over the weekend after staying away from it for a couple years or so. I feel like I'm at the lowest point in my whole life currently. I'm just feeling so confused and lonely and so... just tired lately.
Anyways, I really appreciate you making this.
Relapses don’t take away your success. Every minute, hour, day, week etc that you don’t harm is amazing. Be proud of yourself for every moment like that, and extra kind when it gets hard. You deserve kindness, love and compassion. Always 🫂❤️
@@YourgirlfriendASMR Thank you. I'll try my best.
I've been lonely... Thinking that the people around would help but at the end of the day it's these kinds of videos that make me break down in the middle of the night and wish I had someone to be proud of me and happy to know me... but I end up following someone who doesn't even answer me. So thank you so much and I'm sorry you had to read this and imagine something and me taking your time. But at the same time ( sorry ) thank you for reading this and making this
My friend dont text me whit something like "what are you doing right now?" For weeks, or moths maybe and i realizing how alone i am
I recently started cutting for the first time, I never thought I would ever do it I was always so happy and had no care in the world. I used to say to people that sometimes I forced myself to cry because I hardly every get to experience sadness. But now I can't handle is anymore I haven't been truly happy in so long I just hate feeling like there's no where out or only one way forward it just scares me and I just don't ever know what to do. That's why I turned to cutting, I thought it would be a good idea while I was drunk and then suddenly started doing it more and it felt nice it distracted me from everything all I had to do was focus on the physical pain and it was a relief. I don't want to cut myself anymore because my mom found out and I can tell she's upset from it.
I have a very hard time coping with anything and I never let myself feel anything very well, and stuff like this really helps to get all my emotions out in a healthy way so thank you for that
Sorry to everyone who went through this experience, I don't have anything similar, but I can expect how painful it is for the person psychologically and physically,
and now something strange happens to me, my wrist is burning annoyingly, I don't know if I'm just imagining it because of the video or not it's really stupid 😅
thank you for this audio and all audio you make i'm very sure it's help a lot 🙏
Empath you are
@@losttrader1170i don't speak English well so At first I didn't understand.
I google it When I was reading about this topic that I knew nothing about I was like 🤯🤯
thanks for this information
@@leah2271 learned you have! Have a nice day Or night? Timezones and all that
@@losttrader1170 thanks
you to 🌻
when u said that the listener was everything for u, i started crying cause my girlfriend broke up with me two weeks ago and i always used to say these words to her.. but she left... and now im so lost, broken and lonely.. and all i can do is come here and listen to comforting things... ur voice is very nice and calming. thank u very much for doing this
Ty for this… I have a lot of times where I feel to self harm. Any rare self harms I’ve done isn’t anything bad, but over time I’ve felt worse and worse cause my mental health. I hate myself for how I am and because of how sad I always feel inside, hate how much I suck at life, hate how much of a failure I am, hate how I feel I’m not getting anywhere, hate how I feel I let everyone down etc. I always feel so stressed and anxious. Ty for how much comfort and how you make me feel, it’s ASMRs like these that help me feel bette even if it’s a lil bit. Ty Ty Ty ❤️🩹😖🌧
not me actually running away but all in all thank you for this ive been clean for 1 year but it still haunt and taunts me to this day this really eased the pain so thank you
thank you 🥰 this make me comfort 🙏💜
Glad it helped ❤️
Man, even as someone who’s never been through something like this it still messed me up emotionally, great asmr
For me and many other as well its a escape from feeling something but the emptiness as three days grace said "I'd rather feel pain than nothing at all" and to anyone who reads this know you are not alone though based on me is sure as heck feels like you are
I've never tried that... i was about to, but then i saw this video.. this helps me to feel alive, again. thank u so much 🫶🏻
I was wondering if you could do a video on self harm urges, the before instead of the after, like the listener telling you they want to do it and you trying to calm the urge ❤️
I think I could do that 😊
@@YourgirlfriendASMR you're the best, I love you, thank you 😭❤️ I also love when you speak Swedish
Really grateful for people such as yourself who offer comfort to us people who don't get it in any other way
thank you
I am sadly a victim of self harm, I struggle with autism, adhd, and ptsd. my age is irrelevant considering how often my experiences are down played due to age. I want you all to know that life is obviously shit, im sure of you feel like mistakes but your not, your no mistake. even if shitty people tell you your a mistake, your not and I promise that, I know what its like to reach a limit and self inflict pain but know this there's light in the end, look at yin and yang for example life is a constant battle of order and chaos, love and hate, joy and pain. whatever pain your going through its not the end. your very much loved choom, I promise. your nobody until somebody loves you and that somebody is me, keep fighting friends because you got this I promise.
and one more thing, dont rely on cutting. it won't fix anything
Me who's just using this to fall asleep 😶
I was like this roughly 2 years ago I am not anymore thanks to friends and family and these kind of audios it gets better friends just hold on a little longer
This was really comforting, thank you so much ❤️
The other day I did it again, I hadn’t done it in months, I wanted to finish it and end it, before I did that I, one thought came through, last time I suffered through this alone, I have friends who love me, I can talk to them. So I stopped before I did anything that would change my life forever. I texted the person whom I consider my most trusting and caring friend. I told her everything about it, she was sad. She told me that she really cares about me and my life is worth living and how that this hurt her to find out I tried to do this. She also mentioned how sad she would be if I was gone, she made me realize my life has meaning and I am not alone. If you finished reading this, someone loves you and cares for you. Reach out to them, talk about it with them. You will feel better.
Great work 😊👍I have have a friend who has gone through an addiction like this and I had to talk it through with them on discord, we managed to pull through so I know how it feels from a perspective of comforting the person so great work
Thank you so much this is so helpful and amazing great job your a nice person
I was in a bit of a dark place today. I was talking about pain I would endure simply for love. And I said that the pain and horrific scars would be small in the grand scheme of things.
I don’t value my life very much.
But when I heard this… I was brought back.
Bless you.
Ive never cut, but ive recently thought abt it at times, ty for killing those thoughts
You: your voice is shaky
Me: my throat's a bit sore
You're the best channel on earth...
Aww, thank you ❤️
my hand tingles now after doing it the first time, anyone here that has it too? feels kinda nice even though ive been crying for 2 hrs now
Thank you for this. I relapsed a few days ago and this is so helpful. Thank you ❤.
I really appreciate how you say get some backup not get help
The only person I talked to this about, I can't talk to anymore, and I don't really have anyone else to, so I guess I'll whisper into the void. I've self harmed alot, in several ways, and nobody really knows about any of them unless I went out of my way to tell them, which I never do. I'm very smart, and understand the people I'm close to well, as well as just clever in general, so it's as easy as breathing to keep it a secret. I just wish I had a single person to talk to about it. It's not like people in my life wouldn't be willing to listen, I just don't want to burden them with it, especially when I've talked the same people down from mental breakdowns and relapses. Although its said differently, that I can come to them when in need, I know I can't, becuase I've become an emotional pillar and if I Crack once I'll crumble. So I can never crack at all. Not when going through breakups, not when relapsing, not when I'm out of my body. It is okay to be weak, and you can't be strong all the time, and it is okay to cry, just not for me, becuase if people saw how broken I am they'd never fully believe my reflection anymore. I'd never be able to help them in the same way again.
I love your audios so much, they being me so much comfort even in the saddest ways
I really appreciated the hand twin reference 💛
I just relapsed this week cause I've just been so depressed and no one at all will answer... thanks...
I’m so sorry… it sucks to be alone in tough times.. Sending you much love ❤️
Listening to this ASMR reminded me of just how alone I feel (which I know it was meant to do the opposite) currently laying in bed in a empty room with the only white noise being a fan keeping me cool, the thoughts always come at the worst time, the only silver lining is that I have no physical scars as my mind hasn’t stooped low enough for me to want to attempt cutting.
I'm probably coming back to this vid more often that I think I should...
I love this audio can you please make a part 2 of this with a lot of shushing
Some scars I have are from surgeries. But a few of them are little cuts that turn into scars. I got one on my top lip where my Rottweiler bit me and I will always remember her with the souvenir she gave me.
I look at my.."past deeds" and feel immense shame.
I fear my scars would scare someone away or...having that uncomfortable conversation as to why.
I'd like this one day, just...kissing my scars and being gentle about it. I haven't done it for a few years now. Stuff like this reminds me that it's okay to open up about it. Thank you.
I am went insane after seeing and listening to this that someone loves me but after i realised that waste true i cried for 2 hours
I've been there before hope you doing fine❤
I wish i could talk to someone about this without them reacting the way know they will. So instead I get to suffer in silence. Thank you for making this. At least i get q little relief from this
Did you have a instagram or a discord?
@@eranodelpum9752 yeah, I've got a discord. Why?
@@eranodelpum9752 yeah, I have discord. Why?
@@Tentacult_Sapling did you mean if i dm you and we talk?
If I had a girlfriend so caring like presented here, I'd definitely stop harming myself to not upset her more, also try to change, make myself better so I could feel that I deserve her love...
But guess what! Nothing like that will ever happen!
Lost my harm streak roday, but rhis really helps me. Thank you ❤
Good job on taking your time while recording this.
Thanks, I really needed this. I managed to finally talk to someone before relapsing last week.
I never did cut myself but the way I sorta dealt with was numbing it by playing on my Xbox one for extended periods of time and despite getting help I’m still recovering and some scars still haven’t healed yet in my head at least.
"Cause you're kind of...not here"
Me being zoned out: "WOOWWWWWW hold it lady, are you a psychic?!"
Well it's not a new wound, I've been clean for about 3 days but I'll take it
That is awesome!!
If y’all need a song to listen to, just to cheer u up just a bit listen to after the storm by kali, it’s a really great song that’s gotten me through dark times, cause remember everyone, the darker the night, the brighter the morning
What having scars is like:
I created them and I hate them but they will never go away. my body is filled with old wounds which came from a blade.
I hate them but I am still creating them, day after day. More appear, you may not be able to see them but I can feel them. Enduring the pain. smiling. knowing I’ve ruined my body over and over again
I want to cry so bad while listening to this, and i can't even do that, funny how this works, i push everyone out and come here with open veins to have fake reassurance from a stranger talking to a microphone in the past.
I keep getting really close to hurting myself, but my passion for firearms keeps me from doing it. They're one of the few connections I have with my dad and I can't lose them.
thats cool bro, glad to hear it
How do you always know what's going on in my life i swear anything happens to me and theres a video by you in my recommended comforting that exact thing. Don't know how that magic works but ill take it
Maybe I'm in your walls (😱) Kidding ofc, but happy it helps in any way ❤
Your amazing Sweetheart your audios help me soo much thank you for sharing them with us love you Sweetheart ❤❤❤❤💖💖💖💖
This sounds exactly like my coworker that I have a crush on, and I found this on the night she ended up finding my scars too
I have some old scars and i hate myself doing it..
I wished my mom reached like this... she just yelled at me and called me mental, and saying I properly do it with my friends...
And the other day she said we are out of bandages because "i cut my arm f up" i felt so hurt..
I'm glad my mom doesn't know that she's the reason why i did it... she would probably do something horrible...
Thank you❤ i sadly didn't cry because i haven't cried for almost a year and i don't know what's wrong with me...😕 but thanks 😊 i felt very loved...
When I clicked on this video this isn’t what I expected I just clicked on it because it said scars and me and my best friend have both had a big scar down our chests our whole lives. I didn’t know it was a suicide video. Me and my best friend have had the same scar our whole lives but we met in middle school. It’s a really weird coincidence. And we didn’t know about each other’s scars until a year after we met. We’ve been friends for 5 and a half years.
This help me calm down at 1:24am I struggle since my childhood still struggling
2 words. Thank you.
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Her: I’m here
Me: but your not.. no one was lol sorry for venting just something that came to mind anyone else hugging there pillow and having my scars in view makes me happy the scars make me me love your scars they have a story behind them❤️
I don't know how much longer I can keep this up
same man, its just too much
@@bobsmith-fq3qr@apocrophetic5725 I believe you two.
Ahhhh, fun topic. Not sure if I should watch.
If that is your initial thought, you probably skip this one^^
The best way to tend wounds
I have a lot of scars on my arms, and my head and I kept getting scratched by something or someone else, but my scars are still on my arms and head, but I'll never forget about my scars😔😔...
I'm pretty sure most men have scars that no girl can kiss. They can't heal those scars, but they can make the medicine that helps numb the pain.
I’m still in a dark place right now but I don’t see a way through life is tough
Wish I could give you a big hug. Life is indeed tough but it does have great moments that are sooo worth fighting for. Sometimes we just need a little help to see it. It is nothing that ASMR can do even if they might help a bit in the moment. There is however great resourses out there if you feel open too it.
I don't know you and everyones struggle is different but trust me when I say that I've been in the shittiest and darkest of places and wished that I had gotten help for myself sooner.
thank you for this 🥲❤️
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I've never cut, but I've contemplated it a lot. I guess it stems from an unhealthy coping mechanism of burying myself in other problems so I don't have to think about my depression. Add into that I don't and never had anybody to... really even begin to approach this type of scenario with. Which... seems to be a bigger problem than normal lately. I guess that's what brought me to this video to begin with.
I know this is probably strange to read, I'm probably not even making any sense, but I guess I want to say thank you for making this sort of depression comforting content.
Recently graduated from scratching to cutting. Wish I had someone like this to stop me
I stopped fighting my demons and embraced them best decision ever
I still dont understand myself
This is a good video bu I genuinely don’t understand why people do it
Depends. Some derive satisfaction from punishing the person they hate the most, others do it to end it and there's attention seeking edgelords who want others to notice and pity them. They want to feel special, not matter the cost. (Before someone calls me names, I know I'm right, cuz I'm speaking from experience)
I need someone like her irl im too broken
We are all gangsta until we see that warning pop up