How to Build a Strong Marriage: Tips on Having A Peaceful Relationship | Jonathan Evans

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  • Опубликовано: 18 фев 2024
  • Jonathan Evans and his wife, Kanika Evans talks about building a healthy relationships and marriage on a panel at Oak Cliff Bible Fellowship Church in Dallas, Texas to young adults. Don't forget to share your thoughts in the comments and share with a friend!
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    Jonathan Evans, a mentor, author, speaker, and former NFL fullback treasures his relationship with Christ along with the opportunity to use his life to glorify God. Jonathan seeks to impact today’s athletes, men, and young adults by equipping and encouraging them in their faith.
    Jonathan serves with his pastor, friend, and father, Dr. Tony Evans, both in the local church and the national ministry. They also teamed up together to write Get in the Game, a practical guidebook filled with sports analogies and spiritual truths aimed at strengthening readers with the skills they need for living victoriously.
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Комментарии • 109

  • @user-mo6gr2bt6v
    @user-mo6gr2bt6v 16 дней назад +5

    The interviewee is very respectful. Props to him too!😊

  • @JashawnMurphy33
    @JashawnMurphy33 4 месяца назад +23

    She had 5 children wow 😍😌 she is beautiful. Praise God . Bless pastor and his wife in jesus name

  • @dillonclarke5460
    @dillonclarke5460 4 месяца назад +73

    Respectfully, Jonathan is a chip off the old block. Jonathan and Kanika are continuing the Evan’s legacy of Godly wisdom in marriage and relationships. May God continue to bless and keep you both and your entire Evans family. 🙏🏽

  • @Iceman-oc4ep
    @Iceman-oc4ep 4 месяца назад +29

    Young people need to hear this because dating and getting marriage is a process that has to be done the right way.

  • @kmcdon3
    @kmcdon3 4 месяца назад +17

    Pride is not only thinking too highly or yourself, but also thinking too low of yourself 🔥🔥🔥

  • @nbruner111
    @nbruner111 4 месяца назад +18

    Thank you all for sharing steps and modeling what it takes for a good marriage. I hugged my wife afterwards and let her know that she means so much to me.

  • @danidc5930
    @danidc5930 4 месяца назад +11

    Ya’ll are teaching here!!! ❤ my husband and I have been married for 28yrs and we are still forever learning!!! Good word Pastor and Kanika!

  • @UniQueSol17
    @UniQueSol17 26 дней назад +3

    This was sooo good! As a recent newlywed it gets challenging to find a source to help enhance & strengthen your relationship.

  • @modupeoladeinde8995
    @modupeoladeinde8995 4 месяца назад +7

    Until you're ready to serve, don't get married! Very true!

  • @peacelight7858
    @peacelight7858 Месяц назад +2

    Wow thank you for this amazing interesting counselling for a strong marriage thank you may God bless you and all your family 🙏🏿✨

  • @tashafamuyiwa8917
    @tashafamuyiwa8917 4 месяца назад +20

    Thank you. Year 9 for my Husband and I Lord please keep our marriage together thank you Mr and Mrs Evans may God continue to bless your marriage.

  • @kmcdon3
    @kmcdon3 4 месяца назад +4

    Service is the success of your relationship

  • @ldthomas0609
    @ldthomas0609 3 месяца назад +1

    “Fear is actually prideful.” I’m pretty sure this statement has just changed my life. Thank you

  • @briannabridges518
    @briannabridges518 4 месяца назад +12

    This was such a blessing to watch. I just wish they would unpack what it means to serve one another… so many take the term literally and attempt to do everything for their spouse. Serving one another also means learning your spouse and being attentive enough to tap into what they need on a spiritual, emotional, mental level and serve that need as well... this is by far more important than making sure their physical needs are met

    • @Jeaniyah24k
      @Jeaniyah24k 2 месяца назад +1

      What a powerful insight Sis. Married for 25 years and yet I don't receive love mentally, spiritually or emotionally. He is a great provider but it stops there....longing for companionship and to be seen🙏🏽

  • @garysiler5717
    @garysiler5717 3 месяца назад +2

    Man of God you are on it !! This message... God has blessed me with that Woman of God... We fashion our relationship on everything you said... Confirmation.. love your teaching...may God continue to cover you and your family and children all the time.. thank you for being transparent... God is using you in a mighty way... God is good 😊

  • @sharoncook4221
    @sharoncook4221 4 месяца назад +7

    This word is on point!

  • @aletheamallory9674
    @aletheamallory9674 2 месяца назад +2

    Sage wise wisdom. Good job young man👑

  • @kmcdon3
    @kmcdon3 4 месяца назад +10

    When a man doesn’t want to be held accountable, that’s a red flag

  • @mrsheatherteske
    @mrsheatherteske 2 месяца назад +1

    I grew up like your wife and my husband grow up in a hime like yours. Even as adults we still have yhings we work on. Blessed to have our Kingdom husbands ❤

  • @kenneth-natasha
    @kenneth-natasha 4 месяца назад +3

    Love is all in the matching shoes 🤍

  • @garysiler5717
    @garysiler5717 3 месяца назад +2

    I continue to eat this message ❤

  • @melbaknowlton
    @melbaknowlton 4 месяца назад +11

    Great clip!! Very insightful and good words of wisdom!!

  • @ericadrayton7908
    @ericadrayton7908 4 месяца назад +4

    Johnathan and Kanika!!! Yes indeed! Continue to let The LORD use you. You both dropped so many great nuggets! ❤🙏🏾

  • @barbarasmith1110
    @barbarasmith1110 4 месяца назад +7

    That’s good about pride and practice

  • @user-mo6gr2bt6v
    @user-mo6gr2bt6v 16 дней назад +1

    For such a time as this

  • @barbarasmith1110
    @barbarasmith1110 4 месяца назад +9

    Teach Jonathan

  • @MarryOnChain
    @MarryOnChain 4 месяца назад +1

    Marriage is a beautiful union between two individuals who commit to love, support, and cherish each other through life's ups and downs. A wedding ceremony symbolizes this commitment, bringing together family and friends to celebrate the love shared between the couple as they embark on a new journey together.

  • @go2yourself
    @go2yourself 2 месяца назад +2

    Really good conversation ❤😂

  • @keahburton8740
    @keahburton8740 4 месяца назад +4

    I like that he said that about being served or serving! I’m not sure if I do serve my husband BUT I will ask what I can do for him more often and learn to serve him. Man do they have a marriage class? 😂

  • @karlaj.mattox7631
    @karlaj.mattox7631 4 месяца назад +2

    What a precious couple! Thank you both for your wisdom and service! Much love and blessings!

  • @michellewafer7414
    @michellewafer7414 4 месяца назад +4

    Amazing interview! Thank y’all so much for sharing 🫶🏽

  • @mistymax
    @mistymax 11 дней назад

    Amen 🙏🏽. Communication is key.💕

  • @joyjallah
    @joyjallah 11 дней назад +1

    Thank you for sharing

  • @annmarcano3056
    @annmarcano3056 4 месяца назад +3

    Oh this was so good, so much good info for our young people to learn, thank you pastor and first Lady, blessings to you guy's. ❤

  • @user-mr8jf3oy6f
    @user-mr8jf3oy6f 2 месяца назад +1

    This was so good

  • @reginadavis1028
    @reginadavis1028 4 месяца назад +2

    My husband and I listened to this. It was very good w/great takeaways.

  • @ForeverkeepingmeTrice
    @ForeverkeepingmeTrice 4 месяца назад +1

    Love it...thx for sharing and teaching

  • @janaesimmons4672
    @janaesimmons4672 4 месяца назад +1

    Yes. Keep living in gratitude...God bless 🙏

  • @sharlenejohnbeard195
    @sharlenejohnbeard195 4 месяца назад +2

    Great words from you guys,marriage is a beautiful thing but you have to put God in it in order for it to work,and be humble and a great listener because sometimes you think you’re listening, but you’re not listening to your mate.

  • @TinaC84
    @TinaC84 11 дней назад +1

    Love this

  • @mrsdivana78
    @mrsdivana78 4 месяца назад +2

    This is so so good.

  • @barbarasmith1110
    @barbarasmith1110 4 месяца назад +2

    Good advice Jonathan thanks for sharing about being intentional

  • @debraspates3185
    @debraspates3185 4 месяца назад +4

    So BEAUTIFUL and GOOD wisdom nuggets

  • @rosalindprayerwarrior4987
    @rosalindprayerwarrior4987 4 месяца назад +2

    Good evening Pastor Evans and Sister,Evans,thanks, so much for sharing!

  • @carolnorman235
    @carolnorman235 4 месяца назад +2

    VERY GOOD TEACHING

  • @SuperDjtoomuch
    @SuperDjtoomuch 4 месяца назад +2

    This is good. Thanks

  • @FarTooPrecious
    @FarTooPrecious 4 месяца назад

    This counsel is so wholesome❤

  • @destinynitunga1522
    @destinynitunga1522 4 месяца назад +2

    Wish it was longer, 😊 Praise the Lord ...

  • @barbarasmith1110
    @barbarasmith1110 4 месяца назад +3

    You go girl

  • @barbarasmith1110
    @barbarasmith1110 4 месяца назад +3

    WOW good instructions

  • @barbarasmith1110
    @barbarasmith1110 4 месяца назад +2

    Amen about alignment

  • @Srrc2567
    @Srrc2567 4 месяца назад +1

    Great discussion
    Very real 👏🏿🙏🏾🙌🏿

  • @gorgeouswales9635
    @gorgeouswales9635 4 месяца назад

    Good teaching.✨ I’m married keep us in prayer 👏🏽👏🏽

  • @donnaadams2561
    @donnaadams2561 4 месяца назад +2

    A fantastic interview!!! Thank you both

    • @FarTooPrecious
      @FarTooPrecious 4 месяца назад

      Such insight about American culture

  • @chibwekapakala8813
    @chibwekapakala8813 4 месяца назад +1

    Best advice I have heard on being single

  • @ouranoswealthgroup7042
    @ouranoswealthgroup7042 4 месяца назад +1

    🙌🏾 stretch lab. Yes indeed!!

  • @NormasBath
    @NormasBath 12 дней назад

    19 years for us in November.

  • @joannawofford
    @joannawofford 4 месяца назад

    That's awesome

  • @macrob2274
    @macrob2274 4 месяца назад +1

    Very good

  • @ninag5766
    @ninag5766 4 месяца назад

    So good…

  • @jasminewillis4997
    @jasminewillis4997 4 месяца назад +1

    12:04 make it make sense. Just gave me new light on the fullness of pride. Wow. Deep. Never thought it in that way 12:04

  • @BH4H
    @BH4H 4 месяца назад

    This was very helpful! Thank You for sharing your wisdom and experiences.❤ I found it interesting that two of the 3 questions were about how to navigate very challenging relationships that they felt somewhat obligated to and Pastor Jonathan I really appreciate your responses and agree. As someone who also feels called to serve in a relationship (not marriage but an Elderly Parent/Child relationship) that is difficult and feels abusive many times, it was refreshing to hear that I'm not alone in trying to walk upright in this journey. It seems like it would be helpful for the Church (Big C) to address the realities and practical applications of how to navigate extreme relational challenges when it seems as if mental health issues are on a steady rise in our society.

  • @angelagrey9144
    @angelagrey9144 3 месяца назад

    God bless you both abundantly. Your sincerity and faith provided a platform for transparency and truth . You both sre going to change young lives for the better. I was married for 30 years and divorced now for three. My husband left at the height of the pandemic. He was a wonderful and amazing husband and is an excellent father. Hr fell out of fellowship with God and fell out if love with me. Christ has filled my heart with so much forgiveness towards him. These past three years has been a season for me to grow closer to Christ and deeper in His word. Tony Evans series in marriage have been an instrumental learning tool. and now this interview with Pastor jonathan and his beautiful wife is another resource for me in my growth and preparation for marriage again someday. Thankyou and I will share this interview with as many as I can God has bern so gracious to our family and hearing this level of encouragement fills me with even more hope for whet is to come. Glory yo the Most High Savior

  • @sherrynelson365
    @sherrynelson365 4 месяца назад

    This is good

  • @garysiler5717
    @garysiler5717 3 месяца назад

    You and your wife are such a beautiful couple...you can tell that God fashioned you for one another 😊

  • @lifeatpecancottage5263
    @lifeatpecancottage5263 4 месяца назад

    Amen!!!

  • @barbarasmith1110
    @barbarasmith1110 4 месяца назад +1

    Teach Neka

  • @donnalewis9951
    @donnalewis9951 4 месяца назад

    This is so good. One thing though, there is a scripture that tells us to submit to one another. That Waze illustration is so good.

  • @cynthiacornelious3062
    @cynthiacornelious3062 4 месяца назад

    Love this may God keep blessing your marriage and keep sharing this is much needed.

  • @barbarasmith1110
    @barbarasmith1110 4 месяца назад +1

    Joyce Myers’s says something similar about apologizing Jonathan good info

  • @barbarasmith1110
    @barbarasmith1110 4 месяца назад +2

    Yea h encourage

  • @jasminewillis4997
    @jasminewillis4997 4 месяца назад

    29:30 omg Jon. If you could say that one more gain please. Yes you get it. Take some stuff of your wife’s plate. That’s a whole sermon right there🙌🏾🔥🙌🏾

  • @estew2917
    @estew2917 4 месяца назад +2

    This was such a blessing and confirmation to my soul and I pray that my spouse will receive this when I send it to her because Lord knows this was all truth❤❤

  • @barbarajoe74
    @barbarajoe74 4 месяца назад +1

    Amen 🙏

  • @jasminewillis4997
    @jasminewillis4997 4 месяца назад

    35:07 caught it 🏈🙌🏾

  • @kmcdon3
    @kmcdon3 4 месяца назад +1

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @WW-qt9dw
    @WW-qt9dw 4 месяца назад

    Just wonderful! such God fearing wisdom Prov. 2:6,7 Great, honest counsel Prov. 15:22👍🏾💯 Please 🙏🏾 for me🤲🏾!

  • @jasminewillis4997
    @jasminewillis4997 4 месяца назад

    30:17 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @kmcdon3
    @kmcdon3 4 месяца назад +5

    Defensive people can’t grow

  • @nicolerussell2424
    @nicolerussell2424 4 месяца назад +1

    It okay to disagree with the people you love.

  • @nickies5325
    @nickies5325 4 месяца назад +4

    I am just now seeing thjs video and i am a member. Respectfully, I love this church but im concerned that you stated that both of you are apart of the D9. I have been watching alot of videos of denouncing these organization and that its idolatry. I have also met people within the church who denounced due to what they have learned about them. Pastor Evans and Kanika, you are beautiful people and i can not help but be concerned about your association and union with these organizations. I have learned by being attach to these org, you have cursed your bloodline. While you did a wonderful explaination of how to keep a Godly marriage, what do you say about the convenant that you made with these organizations? Have you heard of these denoucing and that these gods that are attached to them?

  • @Jackson4D1V
    @Jackson4D1V 4 месяца назад

    Please CORRECT the misspelling on the Video thumbnail/preview image: MARRIAGE (it also includes the letter "A")

  • @tangulasimmons2041
    @tangulasimmons2041 4 месяца назад

    You can't go out of alignment with God to be in alignment with man! #bars#facts

  • @ShamirYukno
    @ShamirYukno 4 месяца назад

    The bible actually does say submit to one another. Ephesians 5:21.

  • @maji6416
    @maji6416 4 месяца назад +1

    40:55 Just a correction brother it doesn’t say specifically say husband submit to your wife but Ephesians 5:21 does say submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. So we’re suppose to submit to our wives as well. Much love !

    • @JonathanBlakeEvans
      @JonathanBlakeEvans  4 месяца назад +2

      You're absolutely right! I have a video on my channel talking about that verse and about serving our wives. Thank you for watching!

    • @maji6416
      @maji6416 4 месяца назад

      @@JonathanBlakeEvans I’ll go check it out bro, always room for growth. You’re welcome, keep pushin !

    • @maji6416
      @maji6416 4 месяца назад

      @@JonathanBlakeEvansyou have the link ? Or the title ?

  • @macrob2274
    @macrob2274 4 месяца назад

    49:00

  • @wachera
    @wachera 4 месяца назад +1

    Hi Jonathan @40:56-41:00 you said "there's no where in the bible the man is told to submit to the wife" I don't think that's true Eph 5:21-33 The bible clearly says submit yourselves one to another. Yes there's structure but both are to submit to each other.

  • @NormasBath
    @NormasBath 12 дней назад

    That's his wife? Wow! Thought she was one of his kids.

  • @joannawofford
    @joannawofford 4 месяца назад

    Amen be unmarried

  • @ouranoswealthgroup7042
    @ouranoswealthgroup7042 4 месяца назад

    I'm glad the guys approved/validated how he should approach her. Wow..*SMH*

  • @user-mo6gr2bt6v
    @user-mo6gr2bt6v 16 дней назад

    If Jonathan looks closely at his reflection... he'll see his dad. A chip off the 'ol block!

  • @jblewishan
    @jblewishan 4 месяца назад

    No sound

    • @Marcus-uz1mr
      @Marcus-uz1mr 4 месяца назад

      its only on the left ear

  • @TheEntrepreneurWifeAndMom
    @TheEntrepreneurWifeAndMom 4 месяца назад +2

    Respectfully will disagree with you Jonathan on “nowhere in the Bible does it say a man should submit to a woman “. Because it does . In Ephesians 5:21… it says “submit to one another out of reverence for Christ”. As much as the Bible calls women to submit , which I am 100% for, submission isn’t only for wives to submit to husbands, but husbands are to submit to their wives too . I love you both and a huge fun of the Evan’s legacy but I disagreed on this .

    • @FarTooPrecious
      @FarTooPrecious 4 месяца назад +1

      You disagreed then agreed...being pedantic is not good for communication my friend.

  • @chenellechavez
    @chenellechavez 4 месяца назад +2

    Respectfully, both of y’all have to renounce and repent for that sorority stuff because that is not a covenant from God. That’s is demonic

  • @Sueanne7811
    @Sueanne7811 13 дней назад

    I'm so sorry l have fallen out with the evans family they are such a lier especially Jonathan Evans and Tony Evans stop playing with god

  • @monicadhenderson8670
    @monicadhenderson8670 4 месяца назад

    Yes we love each other & we can disagree 🩷