Jarrett showed Iyanna who he was from the door, never let yourself knowingly be someone's second choice. Iyanna deserves LOVE and she appears to be a lovely person. I wish her nothing but the BEST!
Jarett is one of those people who always says the right thing when asked what he needs to do to improve himself and the relationship. He always sounds mature and well-spoken. And then he does NOTHING or continues to do the exact same problematic things as before. He's all talk, no action.
Iyanna is a QUEEN!!! His indiscretion was your protection! Thank God you stood your ground and left when you did. Thats you loving yourself enough to not take that bullshit!
Jarrett needs to take his L and be quiet after this. There is nothing he can say to make him look better. Anything at this point will make him look worse than we already perceive him to be
The problem is the fans are stuck on the storyline from the show and no one will know the full dynamics of their relationship. So even if he for example wasn't at fault everyone will always see him as the guy who chose Iyanna second and always went clubbing.
Wasn't his story, because of his near death accident and experience is why he decided to join the show, change his life and find a wife who would be his life's partner ?? He knew he wasn't ready for the married life.
It’s so diabolical to me when a cheater makes you the problem out to be the problem because they broke your trust and your aren’t forgiving and forgetting as fast as they want you to.
And this is why Jarrett and Zach are not comparable. J make sure Iyana knew she was 2nd choice. The fact that Iyana wanted a divorce in itself is prove. We all felt that Jarette was not serious even through the screen
I never thought Jarrett deserves her. He appeared to have some issues maturity wise. I’m sorry but a female in my home I would have to get at her‼️ I can’t stand men like him. I hope Iyanna finds herself, forgives herself and moves forward. She’s a beautiful soul. His dad should put his foot in his ahhhz
Honestly we all knew it wasn't going to work out. And You can tell a lot about a man by the company he keeps. Iyanna ignored a lot of red flags. From being the second choice, to his interaction with Mallory in Mexico, to partying all night and being outside everyday. So sad it took all that for her to finally leave
Someone in another comment brought up Iyanna having a medical condition and how Jarrette was there for her. I remember hearing her thank him as one of the people that was there for her and I was like hmmm ok. They’re still cool after the divorce. And so people (and myself at first) were asking why bring up anything if they are cool? Kojo mentioned in the extended video that people like Jarrette who profess to be nice people do things with conditions. Unbeknownst to us he cheated on her, which led to her divorcing him. Him being or doing nice things for her after the divorce now has me thinking it was all to keep her quiet. Like I did things for you how could you then talk bad about me. I wonder… now that we know he cheated and that’s why they divorced.. Will he still be the nice person he professed to be to Iyanna with his faults being revealed? 🤔
I know towards the end of this interview she says him doing certain things isnt enough for you to leave a marriage... But I recently watched something that said the fact that you want to leave that is enough. I'm glad that she got out and I'm glad that she found out the type of person he is. But if anyone's out there saying oh I can't leave because they haven't done this. That's not a reason to stay if you want to leave, just leave. 💙
@@lizzieg1319 I'm not going to pretend to understand the point of marriage as I've only been married for three years and everyone has a different reason for wanting to be married, and for choosing the person they want to spend their lives with, but in my opinion if you're not happy in a marriage, partnership, or friendship or any type of relationship and you aren't receiving what you believe you deserve...that to me is enough to walk away. You don't have to wait for another reason not to be there. People change and grow and if you grow out of your marriage then that's just a relationship you've ended, whole yes there can be other factors, it's still a relationship you no longer want to be in...so why stay and be unhappy? Now, if you're willing to work out whatever issues you have great! That's amazing and you can potentially build a stronger bond with that person...but to say you have to stay and make it work when you truly don't want to or don't have anything else to give to someone/something is a losing battle. And I'd ask why would you want someone to stay in that situation?
@@spankylewis2010 Marriage is a commitment. That’s why it’s different than dating or any other relationship you have. You don’t make vows to a friend, or sibling, or any other family member. You stay committed for the sanctity of marriage. Of course there’s extenuating circumstances, but to say that if you’re simply unhappy you should just up and leave seems immature and poorly thought out. There’s a lot of reasons to give up on things, and I think people see an out and downgrade the importance of the vows taken.
@@lizzieg1319 that's up to those people though? I don't take my vows any less seriously because someone else decided they didn't like their partner and wanted to end the marriage. I also won't judge them for making that decision for themselves. I'm about doing what feels right to you...and if what's right for you is ending a marriage go for it. Who am I to judge that decision? I'm not in that relationship. My initial point was not to say if you're unhappy just leave, but if you don't see a future with that person, or if you've run into a wall with that person and have decided there is no point in continuing, then that is reason enough to leave. Why put work into something you no longer want or believe in? At that point you're just lying to yourself and your partner.
@@spankylewis2010 oh ya we won’t find common ground if you’re one that makes decision on emotion and feeling. No one is talking about judging anyone, just the point of marriage is a vowed commitment
I feel for Iyanna. I’ve been through something similar. It’s rough. I get why she’s talking about it, because talking is therapy. I did the same. But in hindsight I wish I’d been way more careful about who I shared with. I hope Iyanna chooses to talking therapy instead of going on platforms like this, where her trauma will be exploited for views
and yet you sat through it enjoying it....you made a few comments like thhis...u dont want to be here but u enjoy the content...you gone hurt urself fighting against this great content u enjoying and learning from
@@LittleBlackBook91 in all honesty, I haven’t watched it. I’m not knocking your channel, I’m speaking from experience and thinking about Iyanna. I want her to do well, heal and move forward. As for any comments I just type the thoughts that come into my head, sorry
@@LittleBlackBook91 exploiting others pain is "great content"... I hope your other guests are cognitive of your thought processes and have the same mindset going in. This is exactly why people in the celebrity world feel isolated.
@@95luannaable the drama of a reunion is not the same as someone being traumatised from cheating and divorce. I recognise when I can see someone spiralling and I want to see Iyanna heal which I think is best done away from the public eye.
I appreciate the added perspective. I wanted to love Iyanna and Jarretch together but something was off. We admire how you left when you did w/o financial ruin, children etc. As was said Iyanna is a Queen in her own and has so much to give AND RECEIVE in a partnership whenever she is ready
when i watched after the alter i thought it was her that was the red flag but after watching this it makes so much sense. Love you iyanna you deserve real LOVE
I think her and Marshall will make a great couple. They're very self aware and emotionally mature enough to cultivate a healthy relationship. Giving they're experience/history of being on the show.
Lawd some of these menssss be trifling badly. I'm glad she knows her worth and got up from the table when she saw the meal being served. Wish her thr best and that her true soulmate finds her, she deserves the world!
Wow!!! I see a very brave women there...look at how she is laughing and smiling even tho she went thru something so sad and heartbreaking!!! It must be so hard to talk abt all this... 😢especially mentioning things like " they were in our bed together "..she is brave to speak up. .i hope she really finds someone who vaules her for who she is ❤❤❤ 😊
Had she looked like Mallory it would’ve been a different situation I just honestly don’t think he really liked her cause even now he’s not taking accountability for his own actions
He came back and said exactly what she said she was going to say. Obviously that incident had no impact. It was just obvious he didn't like or want her just like she said. He actually cried over the white (racially ambiguous girl) His preference wasnt preferencing 🥴So he was back at square one and pulled the sweetest cast member into his Narcissistic Web!
But didn't she watch the show like we all did? 😂 As handsome as he was we could see it going that way. Also that season produced the most annoying cast who refuses to fade into obscurity.
Dude was like this from the beginning. Everyone saw this coming. She should have said no, because he was clearly faking being into her. This doesn't lessen how wonderful Iyanna is. She just wasn't his preference. His preference did not want him. They never do.
I knew his ass cheated! He didn’t want to say why the marriage was ending but everyone knew. Funny thing is makes swear that women have to deal with that bs! I’m so happy she left his ass!
Wow !!! I didn't watch their after the altar ... by then I heard 2 couples divorced.... people in the comments a re heartless saying I don't feel bad for her because she knew his ways on the show. I can tell by her mom response that she's raised to give her relationship all she had and that's what she did
There is no justifying what he did to her. Once your man cheats on you yes eventually forgive him for your mental peace but don't even think of giving him a second chance because once anyone in a relationship does that it should be the end.
Eh I agree. We don’t have context in what she meant by that. My husband is super type A, OCD clean freak. If you can’t bounce a quarter off a bed then the room ain’t clean in his opinion. I’m the complete opposite. We are incompatible that way. But I love him. And we’re happily married. Marriage is about compromise.
Yep, and that's the entire problem here. She viewed their incompatibility as something she could change, because she saw the ways in which they were incompatible as ways in which he was "wrong." He wasn't wrong. They were just wrong for each other. And instead of realizing that, she sat there and beat him down trying to change him, and wasted her damn time, and hurt them both. And she clearly still hasn't learned anything, so I don't know why people are going on and on about how she's a queen.
We live and we learn of course but I was the most disappointed in you giving him a chance after he fully knew he was picking/wanted an “other” over you. You will never get the respect you deserve when you choose an undeserving man. I wish you the best in love.
Everyone knew they were not going to last. 1) You were his second choice 2) You are not his type - let’s not lie, he “prefer” non black women. I guarantee you the women he cheated on her with are not black. 3) He had nothing going for himself. He had bad friends who literally stabbed him. That should have been a cautionary tale for her to know that he keeps BAD company! Unfortunately black women give black men soo many chances that black men eventually see black woman as unworthy of anything even a decent relationship
This what happpens xhen you get chosen 2nd and you accept it.. men will settle for what makes them look good on paper and go play with what they want... If a man has to think twice about choosing you, let him choose the other one. Thats okay it is not a lost. I bet you money he and Malory had a little thing.
Idk... its just hard to feel sorry for her, cuz he CLEARLY did not want her, She was literally his consolation prize and she went along with it. She chose to be naive. I hope she learns to love herself and hold herself to a higher standard so she don't fall for niggas like him.
I have so many questions, why now? I remember when they both said there was no-one cheating. So he cheated while they were not together? I think people need to interview them together because it seems Iyanna is the one making allegations and everytime Jarrette keeps quiet.
@@likelovetothelost yeah she got the email while he was helping her undo her hair. But in this video she implied that they were not living together when he cheated. She says she came to discuss working on the relationship the day after the girls were at their place.
I’m with you. Why bring it up after all this time. He’s out here not talking about you living his life quietly and you start sh**. Stop giving Iyanna a pass. I’ve watched them after the divorce do an interview where she wanted to continue friends with benefits. I watched her video when she was in the hospital in pain because of a cyst and who did she call to sit with her Jarrett but now she wants to talk sh** about him. Why???? I was team both of them but not feeling her at all now.
I agree she needs to stop, cause keep talking about this is bad energy. I love to see her in her completely healing without that ex man of her in her vocabulary
@@Rhenadhis who said I watched? Clearly an assumption on your part, I saw the title, made a comment and dismissed it. My choice. Why do you even care what I say or think enough to comment on it?
I'm not going to lie... He cheated on her because of her. I highly doubt she was a good wife to him, and that's not saying she's not a good wife, but she clearly wanted him to change. They weren't compatible. Just because he wanted to live a more active lifestyle doesn't mean he couldn't be committed or be a husband, but if your wife doesn't ever want to hang out with you, or whatever, I don't blame him for feeling left out. I have never once heard anyone criticize Iyanna for the way she treated him, but the entire time, she talked down to him, and acted like he was going to have to change so much just to be with her.
@@UmM722 Like, I don't think she's a bad person either, per say, but I think she needs to grow up too, but can't see it. She sees her introversion and homebodiness as a sign of maturity. You could tell she treated him like a child. And if you treat someone like a child, they're probably going to act like one, you know? I totally want to see what he has to say, because I honestly think that Iyanna was not good to or for him either. I think too many people often forget no one really has to be a villian, or a bad person, or immature. We just will not be compatible with every human on the planet. If we were, dating wouldn't be a thing. We'd just go into a matchmaking unit once we'd grown up enough and developed self awareness, and everything would work out fine. But there's more to making a relationship work, and there's more to compatibility than just "maturity" which is defined different for everyone anyway.
@@Twin.tinyyy I said what I said, and I stand by it. Being neglected, talked down to, and treated poorly by your partner, because they consider you a child does in my opinion justify cheating. Sometimes someone breaks you down to a point that you literally do not know how to handle validation when it happens. She clearly never really liked him, and I don't know why she married him, just trying to change him the entire time. I'm sure he felt hella down on himself. I'm also sure that their sex life wasn't good if she was sitting here treating him like that, so... I'm sorry, but like, if you don't want your partner to cheat, don't treat them like you hate them, or start neglecting them. If you do those things, imho, you asked for it, baby girl.
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Jarrett showed Iyanna who he was from the door, never let yourself knowingly be someone's second choice. Iyanna deserves LOVE and she appears to be a lovely person. I wish her nothing but the BEST!
eh it was more than a second choice issue I think. he's def the type to say what he's "supposed to say" but doesn't actually live it.
@@DM-jn3zo facts…typical gaslighter
@@DM-jn3zo This. It's possible that he was gonna be the same man with his first choice.
Jarett is one of those people who always says the right thing when asked what he needs to do to improve himself and the relationship. He always sounds mature and well-spoken. And then he does NOTHING or continues to do the exact same problematic things as before. He's all talk, no action.
Iyanna is a QUEEN!!! His indiscretion was your protection! Thank God you stood your ground and left when you did. Thats you loving yourself enough to not take that bullshit!
Kissing and groping in their BED? He's a dog!!!!
Jarrett needs to take his L and be quiet after this. There is nothing he can say to make him look better. Anything at this point will make him look worse than we already perceive him to be
😂 But we all knew it would go this way by just seeing him on tv.
@Van I never really understood what she saw in him...she was too good for him
The problem is the fans are stuck on the storyline from the show and no one will know the full dynamics of their relationship. So even if he for example wasn't at fault everyone will always see him as the guy who chose Iyanna second and always went clubbing.
Yo as soon as they entered the “living together” part of the show and he was out all the time I knew he wasn’t serious. So sad but yea I called it.
Wasn't his story, because of his near death accident and experience is why he decided to join the show, change his life and find a wife who would be his life's partner ?? He knew he wasn't ready for the married life.
It’s so diabolical to me when a cheater makes you the problem out to be the problem because they broke your trust and your aren’t forgiving and forgetting as fast as they want you to.
And this is why Jarrett and Zach are not comparable. J make sure Iyana knew she was 2nd choice. The fact that Iyana wanted a divorce in itself is prove. We all felt that Jarette was not serious even through the screen
Its the “in my bed” for me 😢😢😢😢😢😢
I enjoyed her so much on the show! I love her energy! I’m so happy that she put herself first because she didn’t deserve that at all!
I don’t blame her for moving out.
SMH 🤦🏽♀️ Iyanna I truly hope you find your happiness.
This man showed her the upmost disrespect from the jump. When someone shows you who they are believe them 😢❤
I never thought Jarrett deserves her. He appeared to have some issues maturity wise. I’m sorry but a female in my home I would have to get at her‼️ I can’t stand men like him. I hope Iyanna finds herself, forgives herself and moves forward. She’s a beautiful soul. His dad should put his foot in his ahhhz
Jarette showed his ass from the beginning.
toxic people love to say you're holding a grudge when you really just holding them accountable
Honestly we all knew it wasn't going to work out. And
You can tell a lot about a man by the company he keeps.
Iyanna ignored a lot of red flags. From being the second choice, to his interaction with Mallory in Mexico, to partying all night and being outside everyday.
So sad it took all that for her to finally leave
Someone in another comment brought up Iyanna having a medical condition and how Jarrette was there for her. I remember hearing her thank him as one of the people that was there for her and I was like hmmm ok. They’re still cool after the divorce.
And so people (and myself at first) were asking why bring up anything if they are cool?
Kojo mentioned in the extended video that people like Jarrette who profess to be nice people do things with conditions. Unbeknownst to us he cheated on her, which led to her divorcing him. Him being or doing nice things for her after the divorce now has me thinking it was all to keep her quiet. Like I did things for you how could you then talk bad about me.
I wonder… now that we know he cheated and that’s why they divorced.. Will he still be the nice person he professed to be to Iyanna with his faults being revealed? 🤔
I know towards the end of this interview she says him doing certain things isnt enough for you to leave a marriage... But I recently watched something that said the fact that you want to leave that is enough. I'm glad that she got out and I'm glad that she found out the type of person he is. But if anyone's out there saying oh I can't leave because they haven't done this. That's not a reason to stay if you want to leave, just leave. 💙
So what’s the point of marriage? Shouldn’t everyone just date and live together by that standard?
@@lizzieg1319 I'm not going to pretend to understand the point of marriage as I've only been married for three years and everyone has a different reason for wanting to be married, and for choosing the person they want to spend their lives with, but in my opinion if you're not happy in a marriage, partnership, or friendship or any type of relationship and you aren't receiving what you believe you deserve...that to me is enough to walk away. You don't have to wait for another reason not to be there. People change and grow and if you grow out of your marriage then that's just a relationship you've ended, whole yes there can be other factors, it's still a relationship you no longer want to be in...so why stay and be unhappy?
Now, if you're willing to work out whatever issues you have great! That's amazing and you can potentially build a stronger bond with that person...but to say you have to stay and make it work when you truly don't want to or don't have anything else to give to someone/something is a losing battle. And I'd ask why would you want someone to stay in that situation?
@@spankylewis2010 Marriage is a commitment. That’s why it’s different than dating or any other relationship you have. You don’t make vows to a friend, or sibling, or any other family member. You stay committed for the sanctity of marriage. Of course there’s extenuating circumstances, but to say that if you’re simply unhappy you should just up and leave seems immature and poorly thought out. There’s a lot of reasons to give up on things, and I think people see an out and downgrade the importance of the vows taken.
@@lizzieg1319 that's up to those people though? I don't take my vows any less seriously because someone else decided they didn't like their partner and wanted to end the marriage. I also won't judge them for making that decision for themselves.
I'm about doing what feels right to you...and if what's right for you is ending a marriage go for it. Who am I to judge that decision? I'm not in that relationship.
My initial point was not to say if you're unhappy just leave, but if you don't see a future with that person, or if you've run into a wall with that person and have decided there is no point in continuing, then that is reason enough to leave. Why put work into something you no longer want or believe in? At that point you're just lying to yourself and your partner.
@@spankylewis2010 oh ya we won’t find common ground if you’re one that makes decision on emotion and feeling. No one is talking about judging anyone, just the point of marriage is a vowed commitment
😭😭😭😭 Iyanna went throoooough it,I feel for her
I feel for Iyanna. I’ve been through something similar. It’s rough. I get why she’s talking about it, because talking is therapy. I did the same. But in hindsight I wish I’d been way more careful about who I shared with. I hope Iyanna chooses to talking therapy instead of going on platforms like this, where her trauma will be exploited for views
and yet you sat through it enjoying it....you made a few comments like thhis...u dont want to be here but u enjoy the content...you gone hurt urself fighting against this great content u enjoying and learning from
@@LittleBlackBook91 in all honesty, I haven’t watched it. I’m not knocking your channel, I’m speaking from experience and thinking about Iyanna. I want her to do well, heal and move forward. As for any comments I just type the thoughts that come into my head, sorry
@@newid10 so didn’t you watch love is blind and the reunion for the drama ?
@@LittleBlackBook91 exploiting others pain is "great content"... I hope your other guests are cognitive of your thought processes and have the same mindset going in. This is exactly why people in the celebrity world feel isolated.
@@95luannaable the drama of a reunion is not the same as someone being traumatised from cheating and divorce. I recognise when I can see someone spiralling and I want to see Iyanna heal which I think is best done away from the public eye.
I appreciate the added perspective. I wanted to love Iyanna and Jarretch together but something was off. We admire how you left when you did w/o financial ruin, children etc. As was said Iyanna is a Queen in her own and has so much to give AND RECEIVE in a partnership whenever she is ready
when i watched after the alter i thought it was her that was the red flag but after watching this it makes so much sense. Love you iyanna you deserve real LOVE
I think her and Marshall will make a great couple. They're very self aware and emotionally mature enough to cultivate a healthy relationship. Giving they're experience/history of being on the show.
Actually, I can see that!!
Agreed, but he has a girlfriend 😅
He’s not that great of a guy. He has a savior complex. Something about him isn’t right.
@@KpTheG something about him seems sooo fake
@@KpTheG Happy someone sees it too.
Marshall seems very fake with his Saviour complex.
I wanted Iyanna to run away after he started flirting with what’s her name during the mixer. Red flags 🚩 🚩
Lawd some of these menssss be trifling badly. I'm glad she knows her worth and got up from the table when she saw the meal being served. Wish her thr best and that her true soulmate finds her, she deserves the world!
Wow!!! I see a very brave women there...look at how she is laughing and smiling even tho she went thru something so sad and heartbreaking!!! It must be so hard to talk abt all this... 😢especially mentioning things like " they were in our bed together "..she is brave to speak up. .i hope she really finds someone who vaules her for who she is ❤❤❤ 😊
Good for her for not settling for less... that must've been really hard when u r being scrutinized by the whole country
Had she looked like Mallory it would’ve been a different situation I just honestly don’t think he really liked her cause even now he’s not taking accountability for his own actions
He came back and said exactly what she said she was going to say. Obviously that incident had no impact. It was just obvious he didn't like or want her just like she said. He actually cried over the white (racially ambiguous girl) His preference wasnt preferencing 🥴So he was back at square one and pulled the sweetest cast member into his Narcissistic Web!
But didn't she watch the show like we all did? 😂 As handsome as he was we could see it going that way. Also that season produced the most annoying cast who refuses to fade into obscurity.
He was never handsome to me and he become even more unattractive with his actions.
😂😂😂
That man is not handsome😂😭
@@iamjennelleross He is though!!! he was most handsome there
When you watch the show you can see you were his second choice & he still enjoyed clubbing. He was nowhere near ready to settle down 🙄
I always admired her. But glad she chose herself
Dude was like this from the beginning. Everyone saw this coming. She should have said no, because he was clearly faking being into her. This doesn't lessen how wonderful Iyanna is. She just wasn't his preference. His preference did not want him. They never do.
“The truth is the truth” !
It is the greatest betrayal and there is never ever a coming back from that. I’m glad she left him. She deserves soo much better.
I knew his ass cheated! He didn’t want to say why the marriage was ending but everyone knew. Funny thing is makes swear that women have to deal with that bs! I’m so happy she left his ass!
That’s trash yo
Don’t be hard on yourself, we all get it. It’s not easy to pick up and leave
She was the second choice. I’m not surprised.
Did she know you were gonna post this ? Iyanna’s going through it 🥺
Wow !!! I didn't watch their after the altar ... by then I heard 2 couples divorced.... people in the comments a re heartless saying I don't feel bad for her because she knew his ways on the show. I can tell by her mom response that she's raised to give her relationship all she had and that's what she did
Thea writing was on the wall. But denial is destructive thing.
Poor Iyanna…. She deserves so much better. She seems like such a sweet person.
Iyanna and marshal from season 4 🎉😊🇹🇹🏴
I said this the very first time they spoke in the pods! He will do this. So he did.
BW will protect BM even when they don’t deserve it. Smh
There is no justifying what he did to her. Once your man cheats on you yes eventually forgive him for your mental peace but don't even think of giving him a second chance because once anyone in a relationship does that it should be the end.
Jarrett is still a boy.
Did she say incompatibility isn’t enough reason to leave a marriage? Did I hear that wrong?
Nope you heard her right, smh
Eh I agree. We don’t have context in what she meant by that. My husband is super type A, OCD clean freak. If you can’t bounce a quarter off a bed then the room ain’t clean in his opinion. I’m the complete opposite. We are incompatible that way. But I love him. And we’re happily married. Marriage is about compromise.
Yep, and that's the entire problem here. She viewed their incompatibility as something she could change, because she saw the ways in which they were incompatible as ways in which he was "wrong." He wasn't wrong. They were just wrong for each other. And instead of realizing that, she sat there and beat him down trying to change him, and wasted her damn time, and hurt them both. And she clearly still hasn't learned anything, so I don't know why people are going on and on about how she's a queen.
@@user-yv9eu4so9p 👏🏼
A fool
He's a serial cheater and pathological liar.
Iyanna you’ll find your king 👑
Did anyone (couples) from that season made it ?
We live and we learn of course but I was the most disappointed in you giving him a chance after he fully knew he was picking/wanted an “other” over you. You will never get the respect you deserve when you choose an undeserving man. I wish you the best in love.
Incompatibility isn’t enough ?
Everyone knew they were not going to last.
1) You were his second choice
2) You are not his type - let’s not lie, he “prefer” non black women. I guarantee you the women he cheated on her with are not black.
3) He had nothing going for himself. He had bad friends who literally stabbed him. That should have been a cautionary tale for her to know that he keeps BAD company!
Unfortunately black women give black men soo many chances that black men eventually see black woman as unworthy of anything even a decent relationship
Oh hellllllll to the NO
This what happpens xhen you get chosen 2nd and you accept it.. men will settle for what makes them look good on paper and go play with what they want... If a man has to think twice about choosing you, let him choose the other one. Thats okay it is not a lost.
I bet you money he and Malory had a little thing.
Great interview Kojo
Cold thing is these males will tell their side chic every single thing about their main chic which is bs!
He never really liked her he just chose her cuz she was desperate
Never trusted Jarrett.
Shock
She’s sweet but he was clear on his double nature from jump.
Idk... its just hard to feel sorry for her, cuz he CLEARLY did not want her, She was literally his consolation prize and she went along with it. She chose to be naive. I hope she learns to love herself and hold herself to a higher standard so she don't fall for niggas like him.
men are full of it in this case
Omg iyanna at this point just stop. You’re giving him more attention than he deserves. Silence is the best revenge
I have so many questions, why now? I remember when they both said there was no-one cheating. So he cheated while they were not together? I think people need to interview them together because it seems Iyanna is the one making allegations and everytime Jarrette keeps quiet.
She said she saw the email while they were together at their home and he was taking her braids together. Sounds like together to me
@@likelovetothelost yeah she got the email while he was helping her undo her hair. But in this video she implied that they were not living together when he cheated. She says she came to discuss working on the relationship the day after the girls were at their place.
In the full interview she said she lied to protect Jarrette.
Of course he’s quiet because he’s the one out here cheating and he didn’t want to be exposed
I’m with you. Why bring it up after all this time. He’s out here not talking about you living his life quietly and you start sh**. Stop giving Iyanna a pass. I’ve watched them after the divorce do an interview where she wanted to continue friends with benefits. I watched her video when she was in the hospital in pain because of a cyst and who did she call to sit with her Jarrett but now she wants to talk sh** about him. Why???? I was team both of them but not feeling her at all now.
Iyanna and Marshall?? 👀 👀
😮 i would like that ...
Marshall has a gf.
He's too immature for her
I love Iyanna. But she needs to stop this. All these love is blind people need to disappear
Why should she disappear? Let the woman be....we the fans love her
I agree she needs to stop, cause keep talking about this is bad energy. I love to see her in her completely healing without that ex man of her in her vocabulary
Why is she doing an interview in her bed and pajamas? Wow
Why wouldn't she? Is she on the news? You people are just on the internet to be negative
You should have not have married him the signs were there ,thats what you get..just an opinion as a viewer.
Who cares? This is old news.
😂 Exactly. This season's people need to rest and realize this whole thing itself was a clown show.
Why are you here watching then?
@@Rhenadhis who said I watched? Clearly an assumption on your part, I saw the title, made a comment and dismissed it. My choice. Why do you even care what I say or think enough to comment on it?
@@Rhenadhis EXACTLY
@Cothron L McMillian of course you watched....don't lie....u got caught 😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅
I'm not going to lie... He cheated on her because of her. I highly doubt she was a good wife to him, and that's not saying she's not a good wife, but she clearly wanted him to change. They weren't compatible. Just because he wanted to live a more active lifestyle doesn't mean he couldn't be committed or be a husband, but if your wife doesn't ever want to hang out with you, or whatever, I don't blame him for feeling left out.
I have never once heard anyone criticize Iyanna for the way she treated him, but the entire time, she talked down to him, and acted like he was going to have to change so much just to be with her.
I agree..HE needs to do an interview! She’s ALWAYS interviewing. And then saying “he’s my friend!”
@@UmM722 Like, I don't think she's a bad person either, per say, but I think she needs to grow up too, but can't see it. She sees her introversion and homebodiness as a sign of maturity. You could tell she treated him like a child. And if you treat someone like a child, they're probably going to act like one, you know? I totally want to see what he has to say, because I honestly think that Iyanna was not good to or for him either. I think too many people often forget no one really has to be a villian, or a bad person, or immature. We just will not be compatible with every human on the planet. If we were, dating wouldn't be a thing. We'd just go into a matchmaking unit once we'd grown up enough and developed self awareness, and everything would work out fine. But there's more to making a relationship work, and there's more to compatibility than just "maturity" which is defined different for everyone anyway.
Can’t be out here justifying cheating
@@Twin.tinyyy I said what I said, and I stand by it. Being neglected, talked down to, and treated poorly by your partner, because they consider you a child does in my opinion justify cheating. Sometimes someone breaks you down to a point that you literally do not know how to handle validation when it happens. She clearly never really liked him, and I don't know why she married him, just trying to change him the entire time. I'm sure he felt hella down on himself. I'm also sure that their sex life wasn't good if she was sitting here treating him like that, so... I'm sorry, but like, if you don't want your partner to cheat, don't treat them like you hate them, or start neglecting them. If you do those things, imho, you asked for it, baby girl.
It doesn’t matter if he felt like she flipped burgers on the moon! That didn’t give him a right to bring a bihhh in their home in her bed!!