I along with my family members will take collective decision that we have to stop the marriage as we can't assure that the family who can ask for such illegal things will not hurt my sister in futute🤝
Actually collective decision is also not required....these will not be good people who ask dowry...so end the wedding is best option and then find a good match for sister
I would ensure the event is cancelled, cant risk my sister's life and well being ! what you said about consent and stuff would be already taken care of before the ceremony instead the groom's family on the eve of ceremony if demands cash it amounts to blackmail, god knows what would happen to her in coming times if these demands are complied with, greed is a very strong sin! I think my thought conveys my willingness to prioritize the welfare of my men first even if it costs me the efficiency of an operation as a commander! I would rethink a new plan(looking for a new groom)
They have demanded dowry.What will sister do in this? Either we have to give or deny or choose a way of mediation.My response: accompanied the groom, convinced his family, reiterated sister's competence,had a grand welcome
"What will the sister do in this?" Sister is the one that decides whether the marriage will continue or not continue. What do you know? Maybe the Sister could feel genuinely disappointed at the ask for dowry. Maybe she was told earlier that no dowry's would be involved and now the offer may make her doubt the honesty and competence of the groom. You really just want to go ahead and explain to the groom that dowry is bad when he has the guts to ask for dowry during the wedding ceremony itself? Are you going to take the risk that the groom will not harrass her after the marriage? See, this is Colonel sir's point. Think now, outside the confines of the patriarchal mindset
@@mohnish9320 if problem is solvable why not delay it a little bit ? Dono side ke rishtedar aur mehmano ke samne familial matters discuss krne se optimum solution kabhi nhi milta
JAI HIND SIR , SIR JAISA KI HAMNE DISCUSS KIYA KI DOWRY MANGNE KE BAAD HAM SISTER KE OPINION DEKH RAHE HAI BUT WE R IN MANDAP AND WITHOUT SEEKING SISTER'S VIEW ISKA SENCE TO YE JATA HAI KI HAMNE PAHLE SISTER SE PUVHA HI NAHI GAYA TO YE TO HO NAHI SAKTA SIR PLEASE SOLVE OUT IT AGAIN
I along with my family members will take collective decision that we have to stop the marriage as we can't assure that the family who can ask for such illegal things will not hurt my sister in futute🤝
Exactly
Actually collective decision is also not required....these will not be good people who ask dowry...so end the wedding is best option and then find a good match for sister
I would ensure the event is cancelled, cant risk my sister's life and well being ! what you said about consent and stuff would be already taken care of before the ceremony instead the groom's family on the eve of ceremony if demands cash it amounts to blackmail, god knows what would happen to her in coming times if these demands are complied with, greed is a very strong sin! I think my thought conveys my willingness to prioritize the welfare of my men first even if it costs me the efficiency of an operation as a commander! I would rethink a new plan(looking for a new groom)
They have demanded dowry.What will sister do in this? Either we have to give or deny or choose a way of mediation.My response: accompanied the groom, convinced his family, reiterated sister's competence,had a grand welcome
"What will the sister do in this?" Sister is the one that decides whether the marriage will continue or not continue. What do you know? Maybe the Sister could feel genuinely disappointed at the ask for dowry. Maybe she was told earlier that no dowry's would be involved and now the offer may make her doubt the honesty and competence of the groom. You really just want to go ahead and explain to the groom that dowry is bad when he has the guts to ask for dowry during the wedding ceremony itself? Are you going to take the risk that the groom will not harrass her after the marriage? See, this is Colonel sir's point. Think now, outside the confines of the patriarchal mindset
Tell ok we'll talk about it later and as everyone is here we should proceed with the ceremonies, later on convince them to change their mind
That represents you as you run away from your problems instead of facing them?
@@mohnish9320 if problem is solvable why not delay it a little bit ? Dono side ke rishtedar aur mehmano ke samne familial matters discuss krne se optimum solution kabhi nhi milta
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JAI HIND SIR , SIR JAISA KI HAMNE DISCUSS KIYA KI DOWRY MANGNE KE BAAD HAM SISTER KE OPINION DEKH RAHE HAI BUT WE R IN MANDAP AND WITHOUT SEEKING SISTER'S VIEW ISKA SENCE TO YE JATA HAI KI HAMNE PAHLE SISTER SE PUVHA HI NAHI GAYA TO YE TO HO NAHI SAKTA SIR PLEASE SOLVE OUT IT AGAIN
Different view😯