Thank you for this video! I have spent 2 years in Ghana, and it was super interesting to compare your experiences with mine. It took me quite a few months to get to grips with the cultural differences, one of which - when you invite someone to meet up, or even if they invite you, always expect you'll be the one paying, and choose a nice local bar/drinking spot under a tree or something that is affordable, and avoid all the touristy/expat'y places. And should the miracle happen and your non-date-date pays for himself or even both of you (and yes that does actually happen quite often and unexpectedly) then you'll just enjoy that all the more without the constant guesswork :) When it comes to any harrassment from police, basically be polite, respectful, play slightly dumb, ask questions on how to be better and generally prove to them you have more time than they do. I have made friends in the police this way and never had to bribe anyone. Also the scammers and fakes are very prevalent in Ghana, with equally dangerous potential for gay people, but if you have enough time on your hands and don't jump to judgments too quickly, you may even be able to make friends with them, from my experience they are usually guys from slum-type areas trying hard to get out by any means necessary. I find that avoiding conflict in any situation is always the best solution. In my case, I had already made friends in the slums, in the army, in the police, in the media and in the government before anything bad happened and through that i was able to manouver myself out of all situations that i got myself into (of which there were plenty haha) and I was a very low budget traveller there. so to sum up, get a tan, be honest, respectful, curious and engaging, learn as much as you can of the language and local customs, make friends everywhere and your experience goes up and prices go significantly down straight away :)
I think Kenya is a great place to visit as a gay person if you are not overly flamboyant. Generally speaking, people are very nice to everyone and unless you are walking around in heels, makeup, etc, you’ll be fine. The standards for masculinity are also not as stringent as they are in the west so you can be a bit gem and still blend in. Unless you are an overtly fem person, I see no reason to be scared in Kenya. If you go with your spouse, just avoid PDA. Try to learn some Swahili, it helps establish a connection and can help you negotiate prices. Everything, for the most part, is negotiable in Kenya. Keep some bribe money with you in case the police harass you. Generally if you throw some change your way they leave you alone. DO NOT wear anything expensive. The locals do not have a lot of money so anything that looks too nice will automatically make you a target. I suggest actually buying some clothes at the local glee markets, that way you are basically wearing the same clothes as the locals. In general I would suggest avoiding public transportation. Uber is very easy to use and reliable nowadays in Kenya and will be “cheap” for a foreigner. I would also suggest getting a translator if you can afford it, especially when you go shopping for souvenirs so they can negotiate and bargain for you. I love Kenya and think with proper preparation it can be a great gay destination.
13:12 I think you should have covered his part of the bill as well. I always do that. For ppl from western countries it's so easy to get to the money to cover the luxury of a afternoon coffee and cake. You and me, we don't know us. I see, you are dedicating a lot of time to traveling (which might force you to watch your money too), but even your travels are a luxuary while the locals are living their day to day life. Not to mention, that our welth is build on their backs. So thats why I think you should have covered his part too. And the reason, why I do it. I learned even to accept the point that most take it for granted, rarely say thank you and often go for the more expensive part of the menu.... I say I learned it, because I actually don't like it. I learned to order around the price the guy who invited orders. But I understand that they usually don't get to order from this part of the menu and that reminds me how spoiled we are and just let it go.
@@tosheatower My partner and I are going in February to Kenya for Safari (will only be in Nairobi for airport). Did you feel it was comfortable for a gay couple to be in the bush? We will be mostly in the masai mara.
Personally, I found Africa to be the most homophobic place I've ever been, even more so than the Middle East. So, chances are you are paying a lot of money to do Safari as they aren't cheap and the tour guides and hotel workers will be outwardly respectful, but no, I would not recommend any public displays of affection or too obvious gay mannerisms or apperal in Kenya.
Thank you for this video! I have spent 2 years in Ghana, and it was super interesting to compare your experiences with mine. It took me quite a few months to get to grips with the cultural differences, one of which - when you invite someone to meet up, or even if they invite you, always expect you'll be the one paying, and choose a nice local bar/drinking spot under a tree or something that is affordable, and avoid all the touristy/expat'y places. And should the miracle happen and your non-date-date pays for himself or even both of you (and yes that does actually happen quite often and unexpectedly) then you'll just enjoy that all the more without the constant guesswork :) When it comes to any harrassment from police, basically be polite, respectful, play slightly dumb, ask questions on how to be better and generally prove to them you have more time than they do. I have made friends in the police this way and never had to bribe anyone. Also the scammers and fakes are very prevalent in Ghana, with equally dangerous potential for gay people, but if you have enough time on your hands and don't jump to judgments too quickly, you may even be able to make friends with them, from my experience they are usually guys from slum-type areas trying hard to get out by any means necessary. I find that avoiding conflict in any situation is always the best solution. In my case, I had already made friends in the slums, in the army, in the police, in the media and in the government before anything bad happened and through that i was able to manouver myself out of all situations that i got myself into (of which there were plenty haha) and I was a very low budget traveller there. so to sum up, get a tan, be honest, respectful, curious and engaging, learn as much as you can of the language and local customs, make friends everywhere and your experience goes up and prices go significantly down straight away :)
I think Kenya is a great place to visit as a gay person if you are not overly flamboyant. Generally speaking, people are very nice to everyone and unless you are walking around in heels, makeup, etc, you’ll be fine. The standards for masculinity are also not as stringent as they are in the west so you can be a bit gem and still blend in. Unless you are an overtly fem person, I see no reason to be scared in Kenya. If you go with your spouse, just avoid PDA. Try to learn some Swahili, it helps establish a connection and can help you negotiate prices. Everything, for the most part, is negotiable in Kenya. Keep some bribe money with you in case the police harass you. Generally if you throw some change your way they leave you alone. DO NOT wear anything expensive. The locals do not have a lot of money so anything that looks too nice will automatically make you a target. I suggest actually buying some clothes at the local glee markets, that way you are basically wearing the same clothes as the locals. In general I would suggest avoiding public transportation. Uber is very easy to use and reliable nowadays in Kenya and will be “cheap” for a foreigner. I would also suggest getting a translator if you can afford it, especially when you go shopping for souvenirs so they can negotiate and bargain for you. I love Kenya and think with proper preparation it can be a great gay destination.
13:12 I think you should have covered his part of the bill as well. I always do that. For ppl from western countries it's so easy to get to the money to cover the luxury of a afternoon coffee and cake. You and me, we don't know us. I see, you are dedicating a lot of time to traveling (which might force you to watch your money too), but even your travels are a luxuary while the locals are living their day to day life. Not to mention, that our welth is build on their backs. So thats why I think you should have covered his part too. And the reason, why I do it. I learned even to accept the point that most take it for granted, rarely say thank you and often go for the more expensive part of the menu.... I say I learned it, because I actually don't like it. I learned to order around the price the guy who invited orders. But I understand that they usually don't get to order from this part of the menu and that reminds me how spoiled we are and just let it go.
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Hey! I enjoyed/appreciated your guide. Any scoop re: the lesbian scene/vibe there?
Hey Della, sorry but I don't recall anything specific to the lesbian scene.
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Did u ever post your safari experience?
I don't think I did, but it was amazing - especially the one I did in Tanzania. It was very expensive though.
@@tosheatower My partner and I are going in February to Kenya for Safari (will only be in Nairobi for airport). Did you feel it was comfortable for a gay couple to be in the bush? We will be mostly in the masai mara.
Personally, I found Africa to be the most homophobic place I've ever been, even more so than the Middle East. So, chances are you are paying a lot of money to do Safari as they aren't cheap and the tour guides and hotel workers will be outwardly respectful, but no, I would not recommend any public displays of affection or too obvious gay mannerisms or apperal in Kenya.
@@quentinsilvey2147 how was your experience in Kenya as a Gem.
I'm a local Kenyan and i'm not into the local guys. I wanna travel to Europe for the men lol.
Hii can we hook up