If a woman rejected you or broke your heart SHOULD YOU STOP DATING?
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- If a woman rejected you or broke your heart, SHOULD YOU STOP DATING?... In this dating advice video, I will talk about rejection and help you answer the question: Should you stop dating if a woman rejected you? When she rejects you, giving up on women is not the solution. Ensure you pay attention to this dating help to learn how to handle rejection.
I don't want you to stop dating if a woman rejects you. When she rejects you, you need not worry because I will explain what to do when a woman rejects you in this dating advice. Embrace this love advice to learn how to get over rejection.
I want you to understand that rejection when dating is expected and know what to do when rejected. This love advice will make dealing with rejection much easier for you. The dating tips will give you the best possible ways to deal with rejection when dating.
As your wingmam, your female wingman, and a dating coach for men, I want to make dating easier for you. I hope and pray that you find this dating advice for men video helpful.
If you are asking any of the following questions or searching for:
- Dealing with rejection
- If a woman rejected you
- Stop dating
- How to handle rejection
- What to do when a woman rejects you
and more, well, I believe this dating advice for men video will give you the clarity you need.
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Yay, my comment is now immortalized in one of Anna's vids. I can say I've lived and can die a happy man now.
Jokes aside, on topic, and to be blunt. Even if my last long-term relationship ended poorly a few months ago, I really do love women too much to stop dating. Full disclosure: I'm nowhere near being a "Chad" but I do put effort into looking and smelling presentable. So even if my cold approaches rarely end up with me getting a number or a date, I can see that the majority of women are genuinely receptive and appreciative of a man walking up to them to ask them out. Ergo, positive attitudes. That in and of itself tells me that there are still women out there who are in a good place with themselves. I've had two very poor reactions to a cold approach in the last four months; they were married, seemed bitter, and acted like I was beneath them. Awful attitudes, yes. Not enough to demotivate me. I'm sure I will eventually find that special someone.
This is the attitude every man who wants to settle down *without settling* would do well to have! :)
Yea, not receptive..save me time..thanks. Just like sales..law of large numbers.
There IS no "special" someone. They are not God. They are merely human.
@@bikotheanimator6169 I'll decide about that, no need to project your views onto others, chief. Special means something different to me than it does to you.
@@JackGordon86 I am not "projecting" any views on "others," chief. Good luck finding that "special" someone who does not exist. Be a simp to the fullest. You shall only encounter more disappointment. Always remember the great words of Michelle Jones in Spiderman: No Way Home. *"If you expect disappointment, then you can never really get disappointed."* You will need it.😁😏👍
It's not a matter of being rejected or having your heart broken, the fact is very few women actually bring anything to the relationship table. Financially, intellectually, or personality -wise. I admit this is also true for many men, but not nearly as much so as women. Another factor is that once women get to the late 30s they become increasingly neurotic and becomes exacerbated when they reach menopause
Hi Polecat. it sounds like you are simply attracting the wrong type of women so of course you have this view, Dating for you has been exhausting and has gotten you no where in finding the relationship you seek. You know where to reach out when you are ready to get to the bottom of this, you do not need to do life alone.
I understand why you feel that way, especially with all the feminists and narcissists on social media. I have a different bias because I get the success stories. Nonetheless, we agree the good ones are few and far between!
p.s. hopefully new protocols for menopause will curb the crazy factor! lol
That P-sleeve is all they got, that's the bait for the switch.
@@tamaratrueconnection where would that be?
It's also about finding someone who doesn't behave conditionally toward you. If your behaviour doesn't meet the Disney checklist then she will choose to shut down or not take part fully in the relationship. It's funny how one minute you are "good enough to get in to a relationship with " and in the next heartbeat "not good enough".
I spend a fair bit of time talking to my sons about relationships with women, and your videos are often shared with them.
You’re a good dad!! Thank you so much!
give this guy dad of the year
Me two. My boys are 23 and 21 now and know reality. Main message has little to do with ladies, more to build themselves and the rest will follow.
I LOVE that! We talk openly about relationships, love, communication and sex openly in my house. Being a good partner takes practice and dedication.
@@greymatters14So true Grey! Both sides need to be in it and ready to be in a healthy relationship.
I see what you're saying... but these aren't the reasons I'm considering bowing out of dating. THIS is the reason: ZERO women show any *real* interest in me. NO RECIPROCATION of MY interest and enthusiasm for THEM. Do a video about that. As Darius M says, "If it feels like pulling teeth, it's not for you chief."
Do you think you might have nice guy syndrome? Sometimes showing too much interest in them could be a turn off even if they are high value. I know that sucks. Nice guy video recommendation in my pinned comment. Hug!
Get your passport. Travel to South America. Colombia, Peru, Brazil. The women there are more adult and love men. It’ll change your perspective totally. Very little of the mess from the western dating scene.
@@chrischreative2245 One caveat: if they're really gorgeous, chances are very strong they're related to a vicious dictator or to a Drug Lord. 😐
@@djs12007 ummm, no. That’s not even a thought there
@@YourWingmam How it's working for Sylvester Stalone and Tom Brady? Can you ever satisfy the Hunger of a Black Whole?
You Know Anna! I have been through a marriage, got raked over the coals, paid child support, she got full custody, saw my kids once a week or two. Made the best of my life, dated but never found the one that was right for me, at this point in my life I have become content living alone but leaving the door open, I have stayed involved in the community enjoying socializing and some companionship. Yes!!! it is very hard to find decent women, and I know they are out there, but! regrettably I have yet to discover the one, and my youth has evaporated to a much older version of myself.
I pray that you receive the woman who is truly best for you, the woman God has for you 🙏
Oh John, we've all been there. Gosh, I had 5 or is it 6 lifelong relationships. We blokes are used to rejection from being weaned off our mothers. But there are many great women about. I've been rejected by most f them. I always consider the problem is me ... I can do things about me ... Remember, as Dick Solomon advised "Women! You can't live with them. You can't have heterosexual sex without them."
I’m concentrating on lawschool and bettering myself. Yep.
Excellent! 🙌
Many men suffer in silence. That is why it's important to continue to work on yourself not just physically but internally as well. Many men just entertain the wrong person. Pursuing a woman who has multiple failed relationships or multiple intimate partners can hurt your self esteem. Have better standards for the type of women you choose to have in your life. And always remember that not everyone you meet is right for you.
I agree! Also we careful of catching feelings for the ones you intend to have short term flings with. High hotness factor doesn’t mean high value!
Gary, the science says the game and the looks are part of the initial attraction and that’s it. Working on the inside is just as important in the long run. After the first week most women form an emotional attachment and it’s that emotional attachment between two people giving keys to the heart. It’s why you’ll see a gorgeous woman with a guy far far from a Chad.
I rarely comment on RUclips videos, but with all sincerity, Thank you. I follow you intently, and you personally have made many positive changes in my way of thinking. You're absolutely right, and it is difficult to get over a heartbreak especially because when we fall we fall hard. The only issue in my opinion is trusting the process again, believing that things could end up differently this time and not have your heart broken once more. What can we do if people have taken pieces of us and left? What do you do if you can't find enough pieces of yourself to make one whole one? I will be coming back to watch this video again and again hopefully it will give me some more faith.
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35 and single my whole life..constant rejection ... gave up on love or ever finding someone..
Maybe a better place to be is "surrendering" to life. But I invite you to take the advice of improving yourself and your life regardless. Stagnancy can lead to sadness. :)
Hi....you know I was married for 25 years and she passed away almost 3 years ago....I've never ever kept up on social trends with women...I don't know if I'll ever settle down with someone else..but having someone to talk to or just have someone to do something with ..I've never been alone and I'm just beside myself and following you...and a few other like minded people..I now realize how special my wife was...and really not really to fully understand how women can be so bad....but I've followed a few tips..gone keto and trimmed up ...tossed out old clothes and got nice shoes and nice form fitting t s...trimmed up hair..then went out and low and behold...shoes..t..s...and trim healthy appearance gets lots of double glances....
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It has nothing to do with being broken hearted, it has everything to do with finding true contentment alone.
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Can't say I've experienced much of rejection, but I've done my share in being heart broken. Ultimately, it made me what I am now and where I'm heading (the clue is in the handle), and I wouldn't change a thing. I was born with free spirit, never really been a "home as place" person. Until last two years, I didn't know, that I have times I call home. When world is going crazy, I'm finding clarity. Heartbreak, was a gift- a drive for a journey within. For the last two years, I've been a cartographer of my inner world- the world, I have control over. I like it this way, never been calmer. I guess, there must be a balance.
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@@YourWingmam but it doesn't fit to the "poor oppressed men" narrative. Not to worry, soon enough, growing a spine will be matter of life and death. Mostly death.
Just remember guys, the longer you stay single the more value you will attain.
This is true if you consciously work toward that end! :)
I hope this was true. It isn't. Single men at older age are seen as failures by most women.
@@josephang9927 not of you keep yourself in shape and have a little money.
NOPE, women like men with options, not losers with no options
Think you meant to say "the longer you stay alone"
First thing I wanna say is Thank You! I along with many other men out there are very appreciative for your videos. There is not a lot of support for us when it comes to our mental health, relationship tips, and break up advice. I am newly single again but still have my ex in my life because we have a child together and my mentality has been to stay single and not get back in relationships because I am just staying focused on providing the best life possible for me and my son. I subscribed to your channel today and will continue watching!
Welcome aboard, and don't forget to click on the notification bell to be notified whenever I release a new video ❤ 🙏
My last relationship taught me two valuable lessons.....1. What I have to offer isn't enough & 2. I'm someone who doesn't deserve a second chance.
So, I'm done. I focus on myself, my well being, my success & hobbies that give me pleasure.
I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
@@YourWingmam Thank you. I'm sure I will, just not today.
Never give up Fellas! You Attract and Resonate with What / Who you Are for a time period; it starts with Healing Loving ,Caring and Oneself first ( Process)to Connect with
that Mate☯️
To Thine Own Self Be True 🦉
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Hi Anna, 1) Great timing...Just found out that my ex wife has just moved again, 7th time in less than 2 years since taking off and destroying (attempted) our family.
I have the paid for house, the kids, and my business.
There is no point wasting my life hating her, today I forgive her many sins and maybe slowly move on.
At 67 , things are good/bad, but that's life.
2) You are getting more beautiful every video, and your wisdom resonates ! Cheers from Sunny So Cal
Best decision you've made, giving up hate. It's like drinking poison and expecting the other person to suffer. And thank you, ☀️ SoCal!
Age wise I'm right in there with you. Coming up on 68 in late October.
Good thing I had a big heart with my ex..she only ripped out a part of it.the human body has ways to heal itself...
I'm not searching..but observing right now..I'm positive true love will fall on my lap..er um u know what I mean..love will come around
Great vid Anna
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!
Social media has changed a lot of things. Most people can't even hold a conversation or have any substance at all. I think the internet mainly social media dumbed down things.
It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
Thanks for very kind words.
My pleasure ❤️
This video was lovely and beautiful oh thank you so very much dear women, you make me cry but you are right. We must not live under victimism and self compassion for others actions. We have to heal our hearts and love again☺️❤️
Healing is definitely key, thank you for sharing!
Thanks for the encouragement! 😃💖🙏✌
My pleasure ❤️
Great video. So true i was feeling that way but time can heal wounds if you set goals for yourself. Thats what im doing now? And its a good feeling.
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Yes indeed I gave up completely. I totally gave up. It was just too painful to give your all for nothing. Too painful. Thank you for your help. Yet I will never give up. There are good women or there and.I will find her
Keep working on bettering your life where you can and the wait til you find her will be far better! :)
I think the older men become, who have been hurt, just don't see the worth in pursuing women, even if she's a good one. Because although she might seem good, later on she might turn bad. So it's a huge risk men have in our minds. Too many Women lead me on with no actual relationship intention, it's purely for their ego. I think men could just go for the prize and foster someone, this has more meaning and fulfilment. Or get a dog or cat. The troubles to raise a child/pet is worth it, because you're giving back to the community and watching someone grow into their potential. And you can feel great that your efforts show in their happiness.
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You are Wonderful!
Thanks I have been
Thanks for this video
Thank for watching, I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
I came out of a 10 year relationship last year... took 6 months to heal as i recognised how false and coward my previous ex was... i then decided to trust again and try another time with another woman who already had a child... again, cheated, and heartbroken and even worse got told all the details what was happening in her life... it was just 8 months, but it was the most painful break up i ever had. .. 5 months after it i still am struggling.. therapist sessions and trying to find myself again...
My ex instead is already in her 3rd relationship this year
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
Desiderata
“Be yourself.
Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment, it is as perennial as the grass.”
Wow.. you’ve stuck a chord.
But I’d imagine many women have same stories.
Many comments reflect my own experience.
For my part I am not searching. I will let her find me, if that’s what is meant to be, and I’m content with that.
I have love in my life… grown children, grandchildren
And friends both men and women.
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I've been overlooked, rejected, and never given the time of day far too long most of my entire life...hence the bitter resentful attitude
I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
Should you stay single? To ask the question is to answer it. I liken the search for a good woman to pulling the winning lottery ticket: yes, it's possible, but it's deeply improbable. Even the creator concedes "she's a unicorn." Aren't we talking astronomical odds here? Given the abysmal chances and the fact we all have a finite amount of time and resources, what would you do? No amount of positive thinking will change the overall paradigm. Those are the lies we tell ourselves. It's a lonely road, but I think it's just better to look at life the way it really is, not the way we want it to be. That's not cynicism or negativity; it's acknowledging how the world works in the same way that we know the sky is blue or the earth revolves around the sun -- life in the real world, not a fantasy.
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Thank you ... I needed that!🤗
I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
She is so amazing knows everything going on out 100%true everytime extremely very knowledgeable
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The truth is, about half of all men don't really have the option but to give up on dating.
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I'm learning that a major red flag is if a woman comes on to me. I end up taking care of a woman with a drug habit. When your lonely you ignore a lot of red flags.
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Super good information here. I'm a engineering guy. I understand numbers. The numbers don't favor men these days. I know some really good women. But as always, they are taken. I'm in year 28 post divorce. I'm doing fine just by myself. I see it all the time, men married and they aren't happy. I really don't know much about their relationships. So, I can't judge who's fault it is. Don't be afraid to go MGTOW men. I had a friend at the gym ask me what I did on this holiday weekend. I told him, "Whatever the hell I wanted" He just smiled as he explained a weekend of Hell with his in laws. One point of advice for men going their own way. Adopt a dog, they are the true companions.
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I don't know
Watch the video to know ❤
I was good, but got sick, lost my job, fell into addiction, and my wife left me for a church councilors son.
I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
While there will always be harmful people out there, something I've allowed to slip my mind is that culture plays a big role in how we view ourselves and others.
Despite the fact all countries have their issues, maybe in America the dating world (though similar) is quite different.
I can thankfully say that our women are little more down to earth.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
I had kids when I was young and I'm glad I had kids. I learned to take good care of myself and I've never had a women that seemed to want to do anything much in the way of what might be called acts of service, things like cooking or helping around the house. I've seemed to end up in relationships with some abusive women, high up on the attractive and crazy matrix. Nowadays I'm financially secure, I do what I want to do, I have my passport, I know the world outside of Canada is in many ways better for a single older man. So, I don't detest women or anything like that. But I have taken my ball home and stopped playing the game with them. MGTOW with money and a passport.
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Thanks for your video I had a really terrible experience with my exwife of 16 years I would put her in the category of the spoiled only child princess I am just now 10 years after my divorce starting to get my confidence back and see there are good women our there
I'm glad to hear you're regaining your confidence. It's important to remember that not all experiences define the future. Keep an open heart, and you'll find good, genuine connections with people who value you. This video might help you :) : ruclips.net/video/szebb8JBzG8/видео.htmlsi=XuERDYZUy0oGHYH7
I'm not doing it for them I'm doing it for myself so I don't get hurt anymore I could live without them
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Found a beautiful dairy farmer woman Who appreciates another farmer. She knows a good man when she sees one who knows how to fix anything and do everything. I consider myself very lucky.
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
if you don't give the gold diggers your heart, they cannot break it
And if you don’t give the golddiggers your heart they can’t break the bank!
What is the difference between a golddigger and me being generous?
My rule is move on with the quickness.
The easiest way to forget a woman is...find another woman. Old girl will know that you've moved on in 2.4 secs. No matter what, stay happy and have fun. Happiness is the best revenge for rejections and breakups. I promise you.
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Hi Anna Great advice Thanks 👍🏻😉
You’re welcome! 😊
Heart-felt message today. Simple but wonderful! Guess it's that new lighting that makes your hair look more radiant than ever. Praying for you. -- Russ P PS/The fourlegged furball send his regards.
Thank you, Russ, I do care and am glad you can see that! 🙏 Thank you for the prayers, God bless, and a scratch for Mr. T! :-)
Thank you, I really needed that talk. haha
You're welcome, I hope it helped!
My fav part of your videos is finding your cat pillow!
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching!
What a nice video. I tend to be somewhat sceptical towards modern women, and the idea of giving up is alluring. The reason for that is, admitedly, my lack of success (never had a GF at the age of 32) and, again, admitedly, relative lack of trying (I have asked out women, have gone on dates and am not a virgin, but my courage towards women is somewhat limited) rather than me having my heart broken.
However, the video does bring some good points indeed.
I’m glad you found some value in the video! You are not alone and never having had a girlfriend in the 30s. It sounds like there are a couple of areas to work on that will improve your chances. If you’d like a guide for how to do that, you’re a good candidate for my wake up to the program, but (fair warning) there’s a lot of homework at home (internal) and in the real world (external). Link in pinned comment if interested. Otherwise, stick with me and my videos will help you get there!
If you want to be happy. Stay a way from ....
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Dating is very hard
Girls are to smart
They tbink they know everything
I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
There are more women on this planet then men. one one would think it would be easier…… Personally I’m happy to be single. Don’t need another boss.
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Yup realy appy an I’ve even got a healthy bank balance too.
Thanks for sharing guys
Paul 19.15 gmt Uk cheers
Thanks for watching, Paul from the UK! :)
Also I did meet two other women that I avoided because they appeared to have a Red Flag of Chronic Heartbreakers!!
Good to watch for the flags! Next time find out why they leave a wake of broken hearts. Did they lead them on? Or did they filter them out because those men just weren't right but fell too hard too fast? etc Ask them what they did wrong in their past relationships. :)
So, I was cast aside two years ago by what I believed to be my forever. And I was done. I confided in a female friend who also was used and lied too, she was done.
We hangout together, help each other and do some fun stuff not wanting to date anyone or each other.
There is an attraction and some sexusl flirtation. We are both afraid to go beyond what we have but that underlying need for companionship is there. On paper we are great. Part of the hesitation is she is in Stage 4 breast cancer. I have committed to her I will do whatever it takes to get through this or to finality, she is that good of a person I would make the sacrifices for her and I look for nothing in return.
Any thoughts?
Thanks, really..
My pleasure ❤️
Thank You!
Welcome!
What if you've been screwed over by literally EVERY SINGLE ONE? Cheated on, cheated on me with my best friend at the time, & the last one = everything was amazing, and she dropped out of nowhere after I FINALLY let my gurard down. I'm sorry, I don't need to prove shit to anyone. I've never cheated. I've never been no homewrecker. She needs to prove her worth to me - and she could probably try to do it every day - but I have so much relationship related ptsd, I just sort of expect everyone to leave now - it's an unfortunate series of events - nonsingle handedly malicious enough to destroy me, but enough bad like that is enough bad luck for four people in four lifetimes. Just an unfortunate series of events, I suppose. I've lost faith in women a long time ago and built a wall around myself. It's unfortunate too because, at heart, I'm a complete hopeless romantic. I've always believed love could conquer anything and overcome any obstacles in life. I suppose I still believe that - genuine, true, lifelong love. I suppose I'm just disappointed because in my gut, I just have this feeling - I just know, that unfortunately finding lasting love was just never in the cards for me. I'm jealous for those whom are so lucky. Oh well, maybe in the next life...
Great video though, Wingman! Keep up the great content - love your channel! Most Sincerely and Respectfully, Mark B.
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Thank you so very much for dedicating your channel for helping every man finding his Eve.
Anna, don't you think women and men weren't taught at home, by their parents in the first place, how to handle rejection and express 'no' properly? i don't know. just thinking.
I just came out from one. A single-parent relationship.
I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
I've only had one girlfriend in my life
who I loved and she destroyed me.
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
Great stuff, Anna! I appreciate you saying this!
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Anna, is that why people keep on going back to their ex’s? I know some guys who keep on going back to their ex’s, and they even told me in the past that their toxic .
Great question! Sometimes, it's the familiarity. Sometimes, it's unresolved early life trauma that continues to play out in that relationship. Until they feel to the core of them they deserve better, they won't get better... better being a better mate and a better self-image. :(
Senor Stuffy!!
Don't have to be broken hearted or whatever.
Just have to understand data, math and female tendencies and then ask yourself is the juice worth the squeeze?
The best ones are those that post their pics with 13 filters, freckles and different eye colors and then ask why can't they find an honest man.
Those are the absolute best.
It is a numbers game! There are a lot of things in life that require effort: working out, becoming successful, developing a satisfying social life etc. choose your effort.
@@YourWingmam
Everything is a numbers game in life.
High maintenance vs High Value, I like that. Always very motivational and your advice gives me hope. Not ready to give up yet. No rafters lol...
Thanks So Much ! 👍👍👍
Glad you liked that and you’re welcome!
I’m 29 and never had a girlfriend in my life but I know I will have a girlfriend and someday a wife!!! I know I will
Yes, you will!!
@@YourWingmam I will meet the right woman one day. It will all come together and she will appreciate better than anyone else has. She’s out there somewhere
Hmmm.
I’ve got my preferences.
I’ve learned a lot from being with a woman, undiagnosed but definitely on Dark Triad Spectrum.
Mostly, how much she used stereotypes and social rules and constructs to her advantage, people who work in professional careers, who still went to her aid and protected and even gave advice.
Before, during and since being with her, I realise I’ve had little to no IOI’s at all.
I’ve been no contact from Nex going on three years now. Nothing with anyone else.
I’m not bitter or wary.
I know what I like and what I don’t want.
I’m happy being on my own and accepted, that’s how I’m supposed to be.
She comes along, I won’t say no, so long as there isn’t too many red flags.
Someone said you never know what’s round the corner… well, damn, that’s some LONG corner.
You seem to be in a good head space! And yes, life is a series of long corners with a few sharp turns thrown in.
Good positive advice here u have the problem of hunting and the ones that may be good are with guys that shouldn't be with those guys that will hurt them yet that's what some go for the bad guys that aren't good at all makes the lady a bad one
Which is why the best way to get a good one is to be a good man standing firmly in masculine dominance. That's the part good women are attracted to. :)
@@YourWingmam I did that once and got approached by a female offering sex lol turn her down told her I was gay and blew her off maybe I shouldn't have lol
Do you have to exercise or go to the gym to be attractive or date someone?
Nice video, good job! It's my opinion, that relational damage in this culture's gone even further. Men and Women are divided and I think that's more the rule than the exception. Did you watch video clips of the Woman's March in DC a few months ago? It's 4th wave Feminism on steriods. You should see the video clips, the man-hating signs. It's really bad. Generally, in my opinion, more women these days are feeling more entitled to take from men, and I'm not meaning just take, but rape. Men and women fight differently. Men get angry with other men, or have a blow up with their male buddy friends and it's over and done very quickly, we apologize, recognize the value in our friendship and get along. Women get passive-aggressive, they sabotage, say snide shitty things, selectively forget things that we've told them are important to us; many women think we're just bank accounts and cars to take them from A to B, while keeping an eye out for the BBD (bigger better deal). I'm 55. An X combat veteran-honorable modestly decorated, I have a BS in Finance from Texas A&M with a minor in Chemistry, a professional guy, worth about $6M, single, no kids, almost married twice which didn't work out, 6'1", 205-210pds, I exercise, cook, clean, live on my own in a nice place. I retired in 2018 because I have enough to keep this going for the next 40 years assuming I live that long. I've pretty much got everything anyone could possibly want in a first World country and plenty of disposable cash. No debt. I get into my dentist regularly, I get a physical exam each year. I have nice things, but I also keep it on the down-low because I know there're a lot of takers out there and I don't "live large," and party like a millionaire rockstar. You get it, Wingman? And I know I'm high value. And I look around the World I live in, on and offline. And I know valuable women are hard to find, because they're valuable and in very short supply. So what's left over? high-maintenance takers and hookers doing webcam shit over the internet. So, I just keep it to myself, isolate, read books, watch my movies/film/whatever, and stay single. I don't have the solution but I entirely know what's going on. Women are degrading and we all know it.
Oh, I hear ya on the feminism bit!! Coved that again recently. The younger generation certainly have a higher percentage of low value women (including, maybe especially, the hottest ones). There are keepers but they're hard to find. Isolating won't find them, but if you're happy then maybe single is better for you than continuing to make the effort. If you decide you want to make an effort, here are 15 places you might check out for where to meet women (including a funny story about how Nick tried to pick me up lol): ruclips.net/video/VM3roQKZeMI/видео.html
@@YourWingmam HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! One thing is for sure, never lose your sense of humor. It's a life-saver. Thanks for the link, I've seen it. And I'll be straight with you, I do not want to work that hard. I retired because I'm done with it, and I don't want to go back to full time work to turn over rocks to find that "hidden Gem." I'm not doing it. I'll let things play out organically and see what happens. Thank you for the online therapy session, send me the invoice. 🤪
Women aren't looking for love ; they're looking for help.
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I fall in love with one of these girls, but she is so desired by other men, infact she's got a boy-friend since 10 yrs ago. High value women are not available for every men, and especially for men like me, with a physical defect. I stop dating simply because no one wanna date me at all.
I pray that you receive the woman who is truly best for you, the woman God has for you 🙏
I just laugh at these types of women. I'm single because I know I deserve better than what's in front of me. Some women just don't get it that some of us men actually have a head on our shoulders. I love being stereotyped , it motivates me to keep being different , while they stay the same.
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Okay hurt by one woman is one thing. The reason I'm not dating is because of women.
Let's go down the list shall we:
My very first girlfriend ran off to live with two guys
The next one only one out with me on a dare and that was about the only reason she was there
After that was Debbie who broke up with me when my parents died because she couldn't handle it
Satima who broke up with me because I got tired of working backbreaking Blue Collar jobs and got my first job in an engineering department
Then there was the one whose husband took off on her when she got pregnant. I stuck by her and then after she had her child she ditched me. Want to feel used try that one
Then there was the one who was separated from her husband and things were going great between us then her son committed suicide and she kind of forgot to tell me that after that her and her husband got back together.
And we had the school teacher who the only reason I was in her life is because she admitted she wanted me to around just to get her pregnant cuz that was the only thing that was missing in her life was a child.
Oh I shouldn't forget the one who stabbed me. Why because a friend of mine who has the very similar voice was saying short people got no reason to live to a 4 ft 10 woman who had insecurity issues he was behind me she came up wanting money for cigarettes and I wouldn't give it to her and he starts saying short people I turn around tell him to shut up and when I turn back I get a knife in my sternum and grateful it was in my sternum because if it was an inch over it would have been in my heart. I have a nice faded scar as a cost a reminder of her.
Then there's my now ex-wife. I'll just quickly surmise my 9 1/2 year nightmare with this, three concussions, dislocated jaw, 10 police reports, domestic violence charges against her, and I became an expert at blocking knives.
After the ex-wife I dated one other time, we were in a relationship for about 3 weeks and she got diagnosed with cancer so our entire relationship was about her treatment and I stood by her when she was absolutely surprised at. After two rounds of chemo and two surgeries they finally got all the cancer and when she got the final diagnosis that she was cancer-free she got rid of me too.
There's so many people telling me how I'm a great guy I'm a boy scout, I'm in the Coast Guard auxiliary I get back to my community I earn a six-figure income I own my own house my vehicle is paid for. I've never cheated on anyone I've been with. Hell there's even six people still sucking air on this Earth because of me. I'm a stand-up straight guy who believes in honor and integrity and Valor. But I'm also somehow a psycho woman attractor. So this is why I've stopped dating I've stopped looking. By all definitions of what women are looking for today I'm it but what I find is dismal
Cheated on after 43 years of marriage. Tried dating. They're all nuts. I'm done.
It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
@ Daniel Steele - whenever I'm told this classic line..."There's more fish out in the sea"....I always reply and say..."Yeah, but they all smell like tuna"..Lol.🤣
Anna - Thank You - Its Bigger Than This! In the past couple years I have seen so many throw in the towel. Not out of desperation. Us 50+ yr old guys are out of time. We have teen or young adult children (Time and Money). We have aging or dying parents (Time and Money). We are in the homestretch to finish strong in our career, pY off the house and fund retirement. TRUTH BOMB: We don't have time to sift thru the plethora of Bad Ones for the Handful of Good Ones. MGTOW is not mean or selfish. Its time we focus on those who need us and count on us. Sorry ladies, many of you were playing cougar with the 20 and 30 somethings while we aged into our 50s. We learned how to cook, clean and be content alone.
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@@YourWingmam Right On, Jason... well said, brother. I got dumped by a backstabber. Turned out to be a blessing. I spent several years taking care of my parents (both terminal) and giving my adult kids more time. It was worth every minute and I never felt lonely or simped to any women. They had their chance at their peak... in their 20's... to devote themselves to a good man (which they ignored b/c he wasn't a Chad or Tyrone) and build a good life. Now, the youtube is full of "where are all the good men" video's? Go die alone with your Netflix and cats.
@Spots Corner Agreed. I would be so much farther ahead had I gave up in my mid 30s
I’m happy as a single dad. I was married to a serial cheater. Dated a few women from rich to middle class. All ended because of too many red flags that you actually taught me. At 48, living in a man hating society I have no idea where to meet a high value woman. I stopped believing in love because it’s so conditional it’s meaningless.
Here are 15 best places to meet high value women 👉 ruclips.net/video/VM3roQKZeMI/видео.html
@@YourWingmam Thanks for the feed back. You can be my Wingman anytime.
The reality is, high value women are everywhere in roughly the same percentage of everywhere else. "Everywhere" is not always a place, or even a moment conducive to meeting them though. I would agree the percentage of what I would call a high value woman has dropped some, so you have to filter more with "less investment"(time, money, effort), and that means, "be where more of them are". But it's more than that.
Analogy: Yes the best fishing is to go where known good fishing is but who doesn't have a story about being camping near a swimming beach and drowning a worm near wear kids were just making a racket and pulling one in?" So in a more unlikely circumstance "it" happens. So when "it" happens, best to have skills reasonably polished to take best advantage of those fleeting moments.
I'm 20 years older than you, the woman in my target group are eyeing you. I was a divorced, single Dad also. I feel the "man hating society" thing too, the feminism, Woke, and Karens. But they're not all that way, and you only need one. You likely deserve one. So hang in. Keep a line in the water.
I'm am 54 years old and have never been in a relationship with a woman. I am ugly, stupid and don't make a lot of money. I really don't have anything to offer a woman. For years I have felt horrible about all this, but seeing that a lot of men are just giving up on women, it actually makes me feel better. Maybe by being the way I am I avoided a lot of bad things. Like losing half my assets in a divorce or not being able to see the children I might have had. I still don't like they way I am, but seeing that a relationship with a woman isn't that great after all, I find that comforting in a weird sort of way.
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I can tell that you aren't stupid by your writing. Your comment saddens me. 1st because you are 54 and never been in a relationship with a woman. 2nd because your 'silver lining' is that you see it as avoiding all the expense and heartbreak. Both of those things are a sad commentary on our culture. Have you thought of seeking a wife from Asia/Pacific?
You need to get a passport
Womens dont want a relation. They dont want men. They only want play and they have nothing to offer.
I have pretty much given up on women. It seems like most women are simply looking for security ..... financial security. They want a man to pay for their lifestyle, to buy them things, to pay their bills, etc. I'll occasionally date, hoping that "this one" will be different, but over time I end up being disappointed again and again.
There are times being single sucks and loneliness sets in .... especially during the holidays .... but the freedom to do what I want, when I want, without having to consider someone else's "feelings", makes being single worthwhile.
Anne,
You should start another channel for women, and teach them how to have a relationship with men. Let them know it's not a man's duty to make them happy. It's not a man's responsibility to pay their way. And they can only get out of a relationship that which they put into it. Just a thought.
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My current girlfriend is an 8lb Chihuahua. Best girlfriend ever.
Dogs love unconditionally even without training!
I find myself rejecting all women now, even the good ones. Everybody else can deal with it. No bad feelings towards women at all.
Even having a dog these days is too difficult.
I love women and I love dogs, but I'm over being judged, exploited, or pressured.
Good luck to everybody else though.
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Even having a dog? There is no other creature on the planet that loves you more than it cares about itself. Man, what is up with that. Or are you saying that any responsibility other than to yourself is too much now. That is something I can certainly understand.
YEP!!! STOP DATING. I did ten years ago. I found all the good ones are taken (because they are good ones) and the rest are damaged goods.
There are still some good ones out there but they're hard to find. If it's not worth the effort (it IS effort) then best to stay single! :)
The more you get rejected or toyed by a woman, the wiser you become and walking away becomes easy without any regret
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Not so much a broken heart but a broken wallet. Yes, after "divorcing" myself from these women who are financial nightmares, I actually have some $$ left over at the end of each month. Better to be alone than be broke. I feel bad for young men these days that want to have a family. Once you have children with these women everything changes and they know that. Indentured servitude and nothing less. You are now her employee. Furthermore, there are two places you will never hear the word equality. The Bible and family court. Don't be beguiled by them.
Conflict can bring you closer when it is done with love, respect and understanding. But a struggle no, it should not feel like a dramatic push and pull. Part of it is perspective too, you can look at it like you are excited to get to know more about your partner or irritated that everything isn't perfect, which of course it will never be. You want to have that trust there so that each of you is free to speak your mind and be yourselves so that one is not doing all of the compromising.
That's why filtering and testing *her* are so important early on. Then teach her how to treat you with reminders as needed. :)
@@YourWingmam if prospective testing was all that was required, things would be much easier. but women change and that's well known.
@@tamaratrueconnection your response is complete nonsense and does nothing to address his comment at all. just platitudes.
"Some skank who broke your heart.." Love it.
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Thanks for your positive outlook. However my life reality at 63 is really hopeless in this western world. Relationships way too complicated
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The problem with high value women is that they're just as fickle and irrational as any other. You can be the world's best guy to a really worthy woman, and even she will one day just turn to you and say: "Sorry, this isn't working. Let's break up!" And that's it, you're done. No second chance, ever. And it's never because you're not worthy, it's just because she feels so. Nothing rational or even understandable.
It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
The problem is you might not find out what she is until way down the line. True story of someone I know. She was married for years, had kids, was all about "Christian family values". Facebook timeline full of pics of the kids growing up, typical childhood milestones, trips to Disney, etc. Their anniversary came up one year and she was going on about her "years of happy marriage to her wonderful Christian husband" on Facebook. Turns out, at the same time she's carrying on with some schmuck at the NoTell Motel. No, the husband wasn't abusive, not a drinker, wasn't himself horsing around, nope - he worked hard and was doing what he was supposed to do to take care of his family. She worked in the public schools. She had once upon a time been my girlfriend but we stayed friends over the years. For whatever reason she told me about all this - I knew about it before her husband did. She even had a pregnancy scare with the a-hole she was messing around with. She was genuinely surprised when I got angry at her, ripped her a new one. The fact that she was willing to crap on the life she and her husband had in utter defiance of her supposed "values" was mind-boggling. It hurt her feelings when I told her "Boy, **I** sure dodged a bullet didn't I." Good, I hope it really burned. I feel badly for her husband, he was basically trapped - the way the laws are it would have cost him a fortune to divorce her. This is just one example of what I'm leery of with females - this kind of out-of-left-field insanity. Had you ever asked her if she'd ever do something like that, of course she'd have said "Of course not!" with an indignant attitude. Yet there she was.
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Nope.... My ex-wife left me. Though it was the majority of the time my fault because of lying to her and she's such a good woman. I'll never find a woman like her ever again.
I quit dating and I've given up hope into ever finding anything. After the divorce, she found someone else and I didn't. I don't deserve anything nor anyone.
I'm better off dealing with loneliness for the rest of my life. Not even a relationship with God could save me.
I tried dating apps and just tried dating in general. I only ended up attracting bad apples and I realized something was wrong with me. So I turned my back on dating. The juice is not worth the squeeze.
I would rather be a customer to a sex worker or to a brothel to pay to get my rocks off than deal with the average woman in today's climate nowadays.
So miss me with that "there are good woman out there" bs! It will never exist.
I take accountability for what happened in my marriage, though I didn't cheat, I messed everything up.
So I give up dating for good. I quit. I'm out... forever.
Before you give up on dating, try changing your focus from dating to learning, and you will start to see positive results in your dating experiences!
It makes me sick to see what a mess American society has become. I blame it on women's lib, social media and dating apps that have turned a lot of young women into mentally deranged unsalvageable wrecks of human beings that no decent man would want anything to do with. I'm 67 years old and thank God I was born in a much saner world. My heart goes out to decent hardworking young men who just want to meet women who have real value. I've always hated game playing so I never even liked meeting women in bars. I know I'd be in big trouble in today's world where there's so much BS flying around .
As an old geezer I feel I have a right to give some advice. Guy's, stay out of bars and stay away from dating apps, that's not where the good ones are. Avoid lounge lizard game playing slouches at all cost. Pick a hobby you want to explore, something your interested in and join a club. Save a whale or do something else altruistic. Join a bike club. Get involved with animal rescue. Buy a camera and take a photography class. Get the picture? That's where the decent young women are, not in bars or online. If you can afford it, learn to fly. There are great people in private aviation. Good luck!
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I've had a couple of bad enough experiences that only really caused me to change my approach. After one of these ended, I was moving on another within the day.
Arguably, the 'next' girl kinda suffers from this change because she may not get something from me that I delivered before. But, she'll also benefit from the improvements I've made.
Great attitude! Try, fail, learn, revise, repeat!
I enjoy the company of a good woman/girl and don't fear the outcome.
As an FYI woman = adult human female. Girl= adult human female I wanna get with.😆
No thanks I will keep my freedom and joy.
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Since I started trying to date when I was 15, I am 55 now and stayed a virgin till the age of 29, I've been successful only twice, other than that, I've been dragged through the mud and made fun of by all the women I tried to go out with.
It sucks when you are poor AND ugly, you catch no breaks because the whole dating game is about money and looks. Anything else is just bull, it does not count
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@@YourWingmam It doesn't work, believe me, it's just a question of money and looks
When u have neither, trying to date is like hitting your head against a steel wall, as simple as that
Got money, got house, got looks, got hair, got 6feet tall, got interests, got ability, got great body, got big D. Not a single date in over three years and celibate for just as long. The whole thing is a waste of time. I ain't swapping all that for a damp hole that cant cook.
@@disaffectedmale Frankly all I want is a hook-up and I cannot do paid sex, I just can't, All my guy friends proposed to get me women and even some of my women friends did (notice the irony, they r ready to pay for women to have sex with me but they would not touch me), but i just cannot do paid sex
Some ppl just are not lucky, I am just poor and ugly, unfortunately for you, I don't know what is not working for u
I've been single all my life and got so accustomed to it. I'm an observer. Standing outside of it all and see so many guys getting heart broken. Such a shame. I always advise them to focus on themselves, invest in themselves, take care of their bodies 💪 and make money. 🤑 They will notice that the women will come to them and of course the man will be in that drivers seat. 😜 Focusing too much to find the right one is not going to happen. Just let it happen and if it happens you will know it. 😍❤
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Got money, got nice body, got big D, got house, got car, got motorcycle, got interests, got side hustle. The applicant list is yet to surpass zero. These women would find something wrong with Superman.
I gave up on dating. It’s cool. I still have female friends that still get surprised when I tell them that I don’t date.. and truth to be told you make your own happiness. In other words, it’s a serious error to find happiness in a relationship. I learnt that the good way. Work on yourself by living a good moral life.
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@@YourWingmam thank you! Love your videos.
The wife left me when I was struggling to recover from an injury from work and my mother being diagnosed with a terminal illness ( she told me we were separating on my way to spend the last few days at my mothers care home with her )
The callous way that she separated from me, making me resign from a new job ( no longer lived near the job ), losing my home and leaving me to try and work through PTSD treatment on my own while sat isolated in a loaned caravan...unforgivable in my mind.
Good news, an old army friend got in touch and offered me his house to live in ( old farmhouse we are rebuilding together )and I am now starting a brand new career in something exciting and in a completely new direction.
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
Getting treated like a wallet on the first date. That's the vast majority, not the minority.
Woman want power of a man, privileges of a women, accountability of a child.
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@Spots Corner If they are not willing to take equal responsibility to ask men out on a dates. Why on earth did men give them equal rights to vote.
@Spots Corner They can never be equal, so long as they have privilege. Due, to there life of greater longevity, they vote for many more years. Since they are the majority of voters, they are the ones with the most political power. Governments pander to that power.
If you want true equality, you going have to take that vote off them, to take away that privilege. No more government handouts to survive. No more allimony to survive. They will have to stand on there own two feet, or partner equally with a man.
I've never met the fabled high quality woman before, I have 3 teenage nephews who witnessed my relationship from dating to marriage and divorce over span of 6 years, and I wish I had the wisdom to guide them to better outcomes in their dating lives but the best I can draw is a "be very selective about who you choose to date" kind of advice.
I’m sorry you went through that painful experience! :( It’s good of you to help your nephews! Share with them what you find of value in my videos :-)
Dear Anna,
Been following you for years, however, this video is truly your MASTERPIECE!
It encompasses:
EMPATHY,
COMPASSION,
HONESTY,
INTEGRITY,
TRUTH
Honestly, if the were awards given out for RUclips contents, this video deserves AN OSCAR!!!
Stay safe and stay blessed, Anna...
Wow, thank you so much! For the kind words and for sticking with my channel! 🙏🤍
Living a life of self improvement, taking care of health, shape and self care, learn how to read bad intentions though small actions, patience and gratitude for what we have and had are valuable advice that you always remark through your videos, and all this in a nutshell: find love or die trying! Thank you wing for keeping hope and happiness alive. ❤️
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