Healing a Crushed Spirit - Victory Over Emotional and Verbal Abuse - Session 1
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- Опубликовано: 17 окт 2017
- "You're worthless!"... "You'll never amount to anything!"... "I wish you had never been born!" Words like these in childhood can wound the heart for a lifetime.
And further wounding takes place in adulthood when "control" is the name of the game. Threats like... "If you leave me, I'll hurt the children!" or "I've taken the keys-you're not going anywhere!"... are both emotionally and verbally abusive and are ways of maintaining control in relationships.
Abuse can also be perpetrated without a word-whether with degrading looks, obscene gestures, or threatening behaviors. These actions inflict immense pain and impede emotional growth. You don't have to allow an abuser to make you feel worthless. Jesus says that God not only knows each and every sorrow, but He also knows you intimately and gives you worth.
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Asking for prayer, deliverance and healing from verbal and emotional abuse from my husband and son.
I will pray for you, right now. May God give you treasures in the dark, Isaiah 45:3. For you: psalm 34:19. Pray for the ones that are persecuted you, that God will show them what they are doing. Tell God how you feel, and what it is doing to you. Ask Hım to heal you. 🌸❤❤❤❤🌸
@@ritajohannessen9804 Thank you and God bless
Prayers to help and do not give up. Pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name.
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Heavenly Father, I come to you through the name of my Saviour Jesus Christ. I pray that you carry, protect and guide my daughter who is currently trying to escape and be saved from an extremely abusive partner. Lord I pray that You bring all the lies and abuse into the light. Lord I pray that the people who are in authority on these matters are guided in righteous wisdom. Lord I pray that Your Will, for my daughter and little grand daughter, will be done. You have promised your children a full and good life. Lord, I pray that my daughter's 9 year abusive suffering be turned into a testimony of Your Love and Your Promises! I pray this in the Almighty Name of Jesus! Amen!
amen.
Lifetime of verbal abuse from my mom and that side of the family to this day.... all of it...
I’m an only child
Even hearing I’m of great worth I’m having a really hard time believing it
Thank you for this
I’m an only child too. Some people like to push people around and they don’t like it when you stand up fit yourself. They want the cycle to continue.
SO true 😭😭😭. The Lord is dealing with me about this now. I realize that what is really is is cognitive dissonance - our deep held belief of our lack of worth is nearly impenetrable, but the Lord says, "Is My hand shortened that it cannot deliver?" (Isaiah 59:1). He CAN deliver me from my deep-rooted negative mindset.
Thank you for this word- years of this from both my parents following chronic illness and grieving. Black sheep of the family, and never perfect enough
I’m with ya. It didn’t seem like I needed to be perfect, I was just plain ole rejected. It’s very painful to be cast away by those who typically should love you the most. You’re not the only one - sometimes it feels good to know that.
You are a truly remarkable woman who deserves to be in a relationship where you feel safe, respected, appreciated, and trusted on a daily basis. You deserve to have your emotional needs and wants to meet consistently. You wholeheartedly deserve to be surprised with random romantic gestures which make you feel sincerely cherished and loved. You deserve to come home each and every day, knowing that you are always safe and appreciated. You will be able to discuss what’s going in your mind with your partner without worrying about what his reaction might be. You will be once in a while showered with physical affection in the form of reassuring hugs and sweet kisses. You will be able to know that he will be there for you, no matter what happens and vice versa. You will share spontaneous laughs with him as well as find him to be a shelter where you can share unspoken tears. ❤ Stay extraordinary, my lovelies!
I wish, been with my husband for 9years. Have been praying a long time, that lovely memories would start being made. I think he is beginning to hate me because I am always fighting for a loving Christ centered marriage.
I was just asking the other day what do I deserve? Thanks for this reminder.
Bell 1611 I'm so sorry you're going through this.
I hope it's better I'm in same boat. 2 Corinthians 6:14 do not be unequally yoked with unbeliever, (its pertaining to the ox having to be equal to correctly steadily carry carriages) for what fellowship righteousness has with unrighteousness. This is consequently done when bamboozled in beginning of relationship thats all impressive like job interviews and that could been for long while which is why so important to remain sexually pure for a very much longer time in dating eben if almost yr it should be over a yr or more to rely knowing waited 7months getting to know but not really plus I was young not really knowing relationship should be.
@Anna Dau Thank you. I started crying before I finished your first sentence. I wish I could have that type of relationship. I thought I did when I married my husband but I was so wrong. I kept trying to make it work for decades. But have only endured more of unimaginable abuse. God Bless
Thank you for sharing this. A lot of churches or Christian's won't touch upon this subject. A lot of people are affected by this and not a lot of help is available for it. God has clearly anointed you all for the hurting victims of emotional abuse. God bless.
One of the Scriptures the Lord gave me was Proverbs 22:24-25; and Ecclesiasticus (not a misspel) 8:16 ruclips.net/video/hSew2dPR9Lo/видео.html
My husband mentally, emotionally, and verbally abused me everyday. I don’t know what to do. He’s got complete control of my life.I get $100 a week and he takes that so I can’t save any money.he’s got a job as well. He makes plenty. He doesn’t want me to get on my feet . Cause then I want need him. Also I’ve been clean from drugs and alcohol 6 years. He’s really pushing me
I've been there. Had a 5 month old daughter. He was insane and I was scared for my life and my daughter's...had to call the police to get out of there! If you don't have family or friends or a church where you can escape to, call someone you trust and ask them to contact an organization for women to organize your escape. He does not have complete control on your life. Do not believe this lie! I understand all that extreme anxiety has weakened you; but you can do this! Congrats on getting clean! You were able to achieve this, you can find a way out. Get out of there! Ask for help, no one else is going to come and help you otherwise. Doing this alone is extremely hard already, but with a bit of support you WILL be on your feet; you can do it! ❤ God be with you! 🌹
Coercive control and narcissistic abuse
Thank you. I have traumatized by various churches. Most recently yelled at and labeled. My dad yelled at me as a child. I will not put up with a deacon or those in the church doing this. I am an outcast. :( This has totally shattered my spirit. I would have quit, but love God and His Word and God has delivered me from so much why would I ever go back?
Hope seeker, I realize this is an old comment. There are good people in the church. Please don't judge God by his creations. God loves you.
Dear hopeseeker, may you be blessed in your quest for hope. I have lost all hope and I gave up. I have been abused for decades. God has not rescued me. The churches helped my chief abuser.They told me if I was more submissive to him he would stop abusing me. They old me that I probably deserved it and they would not talk to him because the church might lose numbers. Many Christian counselors and churches encouraged me to suck it up, and do my duty. There is help in Jesus but not in churches. There is peace in the Word, but not in the churches. They ENABLED him to keep hitting. It is comforting to know that I am not the only person that has been abused by a spouse AND the CHURCH. Keep the faith, we will make it through.
@@pamelaranchwoman4559 they've been abused by their dad!
Remember, it was not God that hurt you, it was the church. For years I struggled with those I looked up to treating me as though I'm rubbish, today i still feel like rubbish, but soon I'll be fine
My dad (clergy) yelled at me as a child, played the part of a saint in church, lashed at us in the home. I'm so fucking tired of seeing my mom suffer. I just got out, getting treated for chronic illness, but have no support. Having to say goodbye to them all, devastating
Thank you. I have been emotionally abused for 24 years from my husband and I didn’t even realized it until he left me.
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Its going to be ok dear. Its good u realize now . Its good he left .
Yes It’s good he left .
Rejection hurts no matter who it is but it released you from his abuse .
May God protect you and heal you .
Thats good to be out of that relationship no matter how manipulation and denies abusive relationship just know its a blessing to be out of those mind games and a demonic spirit of Jezebel thats all about selfish desires using controlling methods intimidation deceitfulness manipulation and sinful sex towards you Which is all to take advantage of you.
My abuse has been going on for 26yrs. He groomed me for 2yrs at our job and I didn't even know. I didn't even know him. He hid himself and watched me. Abuse began before we were married but I so badly wanted to know God and he was supposed to be a Christian. Poured out gas lighting the day we said "I do". It has never ended.
P. S. I was enlightened 5 mo ago. I'm so confused.
My husband abused pain and psychiatric drugs for 2 weeks, then he'd run out and be sick for about 2 weeks. Un available emotionally, spirituality and physically for 35 years now. I understand now, I mistook rejection and narcissistic abuse because my mother would rather be a career mom. So, I started working when she did at age 2 going to nursery school to be handled by strangers. She pushed me away and my golden child brother both made myself and my late father their scapegoats.
Really sad now trying to heal at 65, get divorced, try to live in my SSI and part time jobs. I am hopeless!!! I don't know how to close this door so God can use me. I feel so much bitterness and resentment towards people and every response is a trauma response. I feel like I'm becoming just like them, sadly.😢
Thank you Pastors😭😭🙏🙏🥰 covert overt narsasist / psychopath Please pray for me, traumatized health 😭😭🥰🙏mental emotional financial and the rest,all of them they love to reject slander humiliate, angels in public
Restoration healing, Lord to return all the enemy has stollen, hear Jesus, know my worth identity in him, healing, anxiety trauma panic
Yes control oppression warefare
Pain you can’t wrap your mind around🥵😭😭
Others also different forms growing up, Lord must have good plans for me.🥵🙏tired exhausted
You described the guy I married, he’s with who knows who 2 months playing the victim
It’s definitely demons
Psychological warefare is right,if I dint have Jesus deep inside I would not be alive today
Yes isolation
Yes then they blame you while they are doing what they blame you for, and play victim
Patterns my whole life
And no one cared, in fact they secretly enjoyed it. I learned, I can say things that can make a well seasoned shutter. I petition that God send the next 7 generations of their lineage into bondage.
We are told to avoid abusers.
I have been horrifically abused .
2 Timothy 3
1 Corinthians 5:11
thanks youtube for this , i was almost at rock bottom🙏🏾🦋
Hope you realize your importance
@@kerryvargas8951 🙏Amen
Heal my crushed spirit Lord
Thank you for speaking about this topic!
You talk a lot about abusive spouses but you never mention abusive mothers or parents....this can all be said about abusive mothers as well.
WORDS DO HURT....and i feel SORRY FOR him..at the same time saddened...he NEEDS JESUS...and is lost...GODS LOVE...is the example we need to live by..😥🙏🏠🙏
I ask for prayers I can have also prayers for my life I am worthy
Loved the closing comment: _"Don't forget your children"_ hahaha
I really wanted to hear the man saying lol. Awesome service
Awesome sermon!!!!
This is a great sermon!
Thank you, this was beautiful 😍
fabulous, thx! 🙏
I am verbally and emotionally abused by my so 32 yrs and grandson 21 yrs. I am so broken, I am afraid.
Please reach out. This is a no judgement zone. Anytime.
“Andale”…did he say that? Does he know Spanish too? Man he’s brilliant!
I am unable to hear the woman speak even though the sound is working. Did anyone else have this problem?
The part I disagree with this talk so far is the speaker saying, “You allowed the abuse!” NO, you are wrong and this is not the love of God either. This is a straight up LIE. (A child that is abused by a parent did not allow it. They had no choice in the matter.) You are not to blame in any way for how others treat you. No one deserves abuse period. Implicitly shifting the responsibility of the abuse onto the victim is NOT from God. God has given every human free will. We are not puppets. With this free will some choose to abuse another.
Thats true children have no choice to endure abuse and this is where the making of having future abusive relationships as acceptable or normal because of what we experienced and seen in relationships we see its okay to be abused and or to abuse a partner which is never okay.
@@inspireresilience6413 I agree.
Thx!! 4 some reason when his wife was speaking, there was no sound: played it 2nd to be sure!!
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How can I get copies of the handouts? This is an awesome series that is rarely taught or preached.
I felt called to serve this church , but what if the pastor is doing this to me
Her section has no audio…not even a beep. Do you have corrected version?
Good afternoon, I am unable to hear anything from Sister Francine. 😥
This a powerful blessing. God bless you Pastor Rodriguez and Sister Francine
Can't hear the lady speaking :(
Yes! I know. I hope they're aware
It went back on later and is worth hearing
Hi! Were can I find the following sessions ?
The series can be found here:
ruclips.net/user/praisecenter80219search?query=healing+a+crushed+spirit
Hi Natalia. All 8 Sessions you can find on our channel. The videos are dated back in October and November of 2017. Here is the link to session 2. ruclips.net/video/wmzVR7bqhaY/видео.html WE apologize for the audio as the session was happening during a remodel of our sanctuary. The audio is there, but not at the start.
Is there some other video with sound? I have experienced this for 20 years I didn't realize how badly it was affecting me until my health deteriorated and I went to dr who recommended councelling for me. My eyes began to open and with Gods help I got out 3 months ago. Now I see how much witnessing and living with this damaged my 2 children and my 15 year old daughter is in emotional crisis after exposing long time drug use and promiscuity and ran away. I pray all day long for healing for us. I'm tormented by fears and no confidence, my mind continually plays tapes of how "stupid and crazy and messed up I" am and that I'll "never make it" his voice is still louder than Gods
@@melissad.6722 I'm sorry you experienced this as well but I feel a lot 9f it goes back to scripture forgive them for they not know what they do so please know they are more deeply wounded and more calloused then you because when someone isn't as pure it aggravates their demons to want to hurt like an animal that preys for food its also called kick the dog syndrom or kicking someone well there down being more vulnerable to attack
@@inspireresilience6413 our abusers have kick the dog syndrome?
Father, is there a balm in Gilead???
Jesus loves you, He can heal anything, just ask.
ask for beauty for ashes 🌹
Where is session 2?
playlist on RUclips
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Francine has no sound
How can I leave him?
get your stuff together and leave when. hes not there.
Lucy Lou & Me are you okay now? Praying that you are safe and happy.
It’s ok if you have to leave “things “ behind.
Peace of mind is much better worldly possessions.
I had to do this and trust God to provide and meet your needs .
It takes time .
God will give you beauty for ashes .
are you still there with him? I just read this and want to see how you are?
Just move far away, then find strength to break up with him. Remember what you deserve 💛
Is ur just me who couldn't hear the second half
29:46 - gaslighting
Muted at minute 44
You are talking about the problem, but how do you deal with an abuser?
The perfect church on Earth does not exist and you cannot make the perfect church. If you can prove me wrong and find this church DO NOT JOIN IT!!! If you do you will spoil it.