With women initiating 70% of divorces I'd think it's men who devoted their lifes, it's MEN who are happy with their current love, it's WOMEN who are always looking for the next best thing.
I have always been a big fan of the cars and ric. Yet I don't think he was probably emotionally there for her. All her interviews sound like he ignored her and she just couldn't stand it anymore. It happens all the time as women get older. Men may stay in marriages longer then women but men also have lives outside of the home and jobs, that they put first. The wife is at home trying to make a family and giving 100 while me are giving maybe 40 percent. Men stay because they are fine with the situation. They get their cake and eat it to. Women don't. I think that's why more women leave marriages. That's just my opinion I'm not saying it is every situation but I have been around a lot of divorce and heard both sides and that is the majority of the reason the woman was done.
Love her, she takes responsibility in other interviews for not being wise financially by allowing her money to be controlled by others. She now teaches women to be aware financially so this does not happen to them. She is clearly not destitute either and is modeling again in her 50's. She will always be beautiful in my eyes.
@@debra13 no facial maintance does not always mean fillers...i for example have done maintance like CO2 or specific facials + certain facial yoga...i'm not saying this is what she has done, but if she has basics like botox or fillers to fill out hollows...why not.
@@debra13 well if you dont really care...+ your obviously bothered by this discusion that you take opinion personally and want to end it so quickly...then you shouldn't have made any assumed beauty care comments in the 1st place!
Paulina is such a class act. She is generous, honest and real. She was hurt and treated unfairly and yet, defends how that act of disinheritance might have not have been Ric's intention. She is someone I would love to have been friends with.
Such BS how was she a class act when Rick was Married to Suzanne and Paulina caused the divorce? Really that is your friend? What does that say about you?
I lived in New Braintree, MA many years ago and my farm bordered the infamous recording studio Longview Farm. One particular day back in the 80's, I noticed a tall man with scraggly hair walking in one of my fields... I went outside and wandered over to greet the man and he explained that he was recording over at the studio. At that very moment, I suddenly realized that the person in front of me was Ric Ocasek! He explained that he had gotten lost while taking a walk and asked for directions back. Seizing on the moment, I offered to drive him back to the studio. He accepted and I was more than happy to give him a ride. A few days later, I received 2 tickets to one of their concerts and 2 backstage passes with a note that read simply; "A small gesture in return for your kind gesture. RO" I will never forget the man and that moment in time! RIP RO...
@@mareeenchen4164 the fact that 80% divorces are initiated by women and it is exceptionally rare for men to file it. She must have fucked up real bad. Anyways he doesn’t owe her shit. She had her own money. In the times when women say they don’t need men but want one. I don’t think any women should be entitled to any claim over a man’s assets.
@@sandeeprana-yo3wm He was much much older than her. She said in an interview that the age gap perhaps finally made a difference but to HIM not to her. She was the one that wanted to stay married, she even kept living with him. She did have her own money and she put it all into the marriage. Most women are wonderful, caring and empathetic creatures by nature. I see her like that too and I doubt that she srewed him over.
She was too beautiful for her husband physically.. m saying cuz l got jealous of her husband... I dn't know what others saying beauty inner beauty blah blah... 😌😌😏
She gave him two sons and they were married for thirty-five years. I am appalled by what he did to her. It would be okay if he wanted the divorce but not her. If he couldn't own her, he would embarrass her and leave her with as little as possible. I wonder if he ever loved her. I doubt it. Or he would not have been so cruel.
Where did you get your story from? I had read before he died he let her go because she was much younger and healthier and he was not working and very sick. He let her go, and she left and got her own place. At that time there was no word or indication that this was anything but mutual and in fact she was ready to move on and did with his blessing.
@@angelumaya320 nope. In her words, he treated her like a piece of the furniture, didnt desire her, notice her etc. All emotional and mental abuse if you ask me. So she put it out there and said, well if you're wanting a divorce be cause you don't seem invested....and he pretty much said well it seems you've made your mind up. Didn't say no, didn't fight for her. This was in another interview she gave. I think due to her daddy issues she overlooked a lot in her marriage. He was a screwey and self loathing individual. A real dickhead, and if it wasn't for her own traumas, she would have ditched him years ago.
The age difference not the deal but the fact he literally paid no attention to the kids he had beforehand. Total destructive narcissist how can anyone treat their kids like this. She was ok with that?
When they 1st became a couple, I was a teenager, I was always a little confused as to how he landed such a beautiful, beautiful woman....and I'm still confused as to how it ended...😕
She explained in another interview that Rick’s first wife had taken him to the cleaners years and years ago and when he got old he wasn’t entirely thinking clearly - kind of taking revenge on the wrong woman.
I'm confused too. She is so gorgeous and smart she could have gotten one of the best men out there and yet she chose him. He looks like he could be Olive Oyl's brother! I know it's not about looks but there should be at least a little compatibility in that regard! And to top it off, he ended up betraying her!
@@latsnojokelee6434 He was thinking very clearly. Her Pride won't allow her to accept what he had done. He's gone so she will say anything. Especially so he won't look bad to the kids they shared.
Well,Ashley Banfield is a lawyer and TV Court analyst and she is actually very good and fact driven. I think she senses Paulina is not the super innocent little Church mouse. Paulina was clear before Rick died that she had moved out, they broke up, and she was living on her own and dating other people. Now he's gone and she wants everyone to forget those little details.
Ric Ocasek stated in the will she abandoned him. She was out yahoo-ing with another man as he was ailing at home. So he was ticked off and probably said I'll show you.
I have become interested in Paulina's story because I have recently re discovered The Cars. Ric Ocasek was always a strange, mysterious guy. He is the one who broke up the band and unfortunately subsequently Benjamin Orr who was a Co-Founder of The Cars was betrayed by him and never got over that after the demise of the group. But now it makes perfect sense, that's who Ric was. A person who would betray his closest friends and loved ones. How could he cut Paulina out of his will after 26 years of marriage and 2 children ! You can't even understand that.
I used to have a crush on Paulina when she was modelling. was floored when I heard she married Ric Ocasek. So much older etc. She is still a drop-dead gorgeous woman. It absolutely terrible how it tuned out. Whether it was Rick or his lawyers, it is terribly unfair to her. I hope it turns out well for her.
I think her choice regarding how the change in the will happened is quite reasonable. It's very, very sad. I know what it feels like to be cut out by someone you loved, and it becomes the "period" on the end of the sentence of a whole lifetime's relationship. It is very hard. And it's normal that people often don't have control at the end of their lives. I think she's very brave. I wish she would make her own cosmetics line or some other enterprise that is unique and distinctive to her. She is great.
I've never been married and I truly understand how everyone goes into it hoping it will be forever. The more stories I see like this, the more I think sharing my heart with someone, esp. in marriage may not be the best thing, unless I get a pre-nup and do it that way.
No, it's when you bring your past baggage into your men or women choices and don't include God and sacrifice. It's when you marry a man that you know deep inside doesn't love you. Funny thing is, SHE actually made him and his sons secure and safe. She used her savings. She cleaned and provided. She loved and cared for. She was her own caretaker. It's when you ignore your intuition and red flags 🚩🚩...for so many years. It's when you don't see your worth and see the bigger picture. The picture being that you are an example to so many others. You live your life as a beacon of light and see that your choices will affect how others choose. Most importantly, BOTH, YOU and HIM need to have clear set objectives and similar goals from the beginning. You need to have more in common then both being the same culture and one being older. He was brainwashed by outer jealous influences. He was not mature.
Do not let stories like this dissuade you from falling in love, getting married, and sharing your life with someone else. Marriage is not roses and tulips and sunshine 24/7. It is work. Both people have to be aware of this. Both people have to realize there is a give and take and there will be times you just want the other person to shut up and leave you alone. But when you really think about....you wouldn't want any other person to be mad at. You wouldn't want any other person to have an argument with and then make up with later. Life is a shitshow as it is, don't let other people's bad stories affect your life. That's their life. This is yours.
Yes. This is what my biological dad did to me. I had only seen him a half dozen times. He never paid my Mother child support. Oddly enough, he wanted to see me when he was near death.
@@paulawhite2546 That is so sad. I'm sorry to hear how he treated you but it's ...what's the word? poignant? that he wanted to see you before he died. He probably wished he had been in your life more.
I like this hair color on her. Hope this all works out very soon. She is unique and beautiful and and I think she'd do so well if she went back to school and used her smarts and amazing creativity to move onto the next thrilling chapter of her life.
Years ago, I went through an acrimonious divorce. It was the worst experience of my life. She was screwed and tattooed, no doubt. But for me, the death of my ex at that time wouldn't have been the worse thing - I'm just kidding! Ms.Porizkova has my total sympathy. That said, unlike her, I didn't have the proceeds from the sale of a 10 million dollar townhome to help me get through the financial straits and future uncertainty. Unless she had no major debt, all she need do is learn to downsize her lifestyle, and she'll be fine. I'd wager she's still in demand in the entertainment /fashion/ modeling/ luxury goods industry, and it's undoubtedly just a matter of time till she meets a new Mr. Right...
I like Paula but enough is enough. The woe is me is getting a bit much. How many times is she going to continue to go on? There is 2 sides to every story and unfortunately he isn't here to tell his.
So sorry for your loss. He surly had plenty of time to take care of it. Like the day of your marriage. He was older, it should have been done immediately. I am so sorry. Paulina you are Amazing! I am so sorry for your loss.
Maybe it was a mistake, maybe not. I had something similar happen to me and it was due to outside influences whispering in his ear. Very hurtful when you've spent most of your life with someone and had their children.
Best way to feel about it otherwise she wld be PISSED. But it’s a warning to not let anyone have financial control over you. Had they been divorced she wld be in worse financial stress. He spent all her $$$ during the marriage so I think her husband was bitter she was divorcing him. He knew what he was doing. She let him control all the finances and at one point made more $$$ than him. Don’t blame the lawyer her husband didn’t have her back.
A gorgeous 19 year old marrying a gross looking 40 year old? She was manipulated from the start. And she still doesn't seem to realize it. That's super sad.
Hmm let's see super talented musician creates a band and a career and creates rick songs he sells for millions. Marries and woman who, well took some pictures when she was 20. Yeah I'd say he had a bit more talent and put in a bit more work into his 30 year career. I love when women call men a creep because he's not well, sitting on a stool looking pretty.
She was twenty four when she got married - well old enough to know what she was doing. Marrying a rock star raised her modeling career a lot. Then when Ric got old and ill, she dumped him for Ed Solomon. She's not some grieving widow.
@@firenze5555 If a middle aged man leaves his wife to marry a much younger woman, he has to realize that young woman when she is in her 40s will have needs than he in his 60s and 70s he will not be able to do. So her having another man to fulfill her needs in her 40 shoudl be accepted. Milkmen have another meaning, this is common.
She is absolutely gorgeous and sweet, and strong in most areas. HOWEVER, there’s denial here regarding her husband. I hear the excuses. My heart goes out to her. I pray that she can break free from those areas that are robbing her of living in the present and be able to experience more joy.
I think it’s because she was divorcing him he realised how beautiful and younger she was and she’d find someone else and they’d spend his money. I’d say he did it out of spite.
He was a covert narcissist. There is no other reason for him to treat her like that. I wish she would speak more about what really went on in their relationship to help women. What he did is so cruel. And for what just to hurt her. He was envious of her.
Lol I didn't know you knew Ric personally? tell me more about him lmao you're just taking sides here when you have no idea what actually went on, Ric can't speak anymore and what he did say was that she abandoned him and that's why he changed his will, why are you ignoring that? why is her word worth more than his? also he has every right to change his will and I don't think he would have changed his will at the last minute for no reason, there must have been a reason, whether his wife thinks it was justified or not. Also "what he did was so cruel" lol you all acting like she is now a pauper, she sold their house for 10 million and she is still out here looking like a super model so spare me the violin. Of course there may be truth in her side too, she may have been wrongfully removed but moral is you just don't know so stop acting like you do, I don't know what went on either but I am definitely taking Ric's side into account, when celebrities leave a will that someone in their family is unhappy about it always show true colours, if she was being truthful then she shouldn't want any of his will, if he wrongly took her out then she should want none of it, I know I wouldn't but yet she is trying to make the will invalid, and what does Ric's sons have to say about this? notice how none of them are speaking constantly about this like she is. She just keeps victimizing herself but I have to understand she is a feminist so that's to be expected. Also you think she should speak to help women? apparently you think only women are victims in relationship when in reality men are victims of bad relationships just as much as women are, but this is irrelevant since she claims to love him and to have had a good marriage so there is nothing to tell, she got written out of the will because Ric felt like she abandoned him and maybe she did or maybe he just thought she did either way both those are valid, she was dating someone else while still being married to him so again no one knows but those involved so maybe stop demonizing Ric when you don't know what made him do it.
@@LostInOldMovies narcissists have abandonment issues. The abandonment wasn't real, he perceived the abandonment in his head. She was younger and healthy, he was sickly and older. He couldn't handle that so he felt abandoned in his mind.
I am so curious to know could she have done anything legally. They were still married , she had made money in her time what ever they had it was both of them , so how can any judge not give her anything. She had worked and made a lot of money, really I can't stop thinking about her suffering. I'm sorry to say that but he knew what he was doing by signing you out of the will He was retaliating, because you were divorcing him. My best wishes to you and your kids .
This is so ridiculous! She is getting half of the assets they accumulated in the divorce. She is not getting HIS half of the estate. He left his half to his children, which is also her children. They are not speaking now because mom is suing her own children for the money dad left them. She wanted ALL the money, says it at 2:30 open your ears and listen to what she states. I find it appalling this information is NOT disclosed in any of these interviews.
From what I've heard, Ric told her that they didn't need separate bank accounts and that what was hers was his and vice versa. And unfortunately, when the will goes into probate and a spouse has been cut out of the inheritance, EVERYTHING is frozen. That means the joint account Paulina was using is now under the list of assets that belonged to Ric. You might want to brush up on your law before you start spouting anger toward a woman you have never met.
Do you really believe Ric and she were using the same bank accounts during a divorce? Do you think Ric was paying for her attorney out of his own account? I don't think so. They were separated for years. She is entitled to half the community assets without question. She is NOT entitled to his half of the community assets because he left it to his sons in the Will. All this whining is because she feels she's entitled to both half’s after his death. He was more than 20 years older than her and she knew one day she would get everything, but the cards didn’t fall that way. Facts are facts, don't try and manipulate the situation because the greed is coming from a female perspective.
In NY, someone has to be at fault for a divorce to occur. So the fault was placed on her for abandonment even though she didn’t abandon him. Typical lawyer shenanigans.
She had a boyfriend while still married to Rick his name was David Solomon this unit interview is quite biased she has an angle to thisShe wants the money now she’s blaming the lawyer to make it look like Rick wasn’t in his right mind marriage is some sickness and in health and when he got sick she was already dating somebody else His dying wish was not to leave or anything because he abandoned him notice how her kids don’t come to her defense very shady
It sounds like she was married to a narcissist. When she asked him for a divorce it took away his control over her, so taking her out of the will was his way of punishing her. She was also, obviously way better looking than him. He knew this and felt intimidated by her beauty and independent success and was jealous. Some men can’t handle that kind of competition. They can’t deal with the attention, because they want it all for themselves, so he wanted to discredit her publicly . He was determined to be on top of her and everything else. He probably manipulated her into handing over her income. More control. She got played by her husband and it sounds like he was doing this from go for years. He saw how vulnerable she was and didn’t believe in herself and needed attention and love and he probably love bombed her in the beginning to gain her trust, then control of her. That’s why he lost interest in the end, because she grew wise and tired of his games and in turn he discarded her . He needed a new source for his narcissistic supply because she wasn’t taking it anymore. So he made sure he punished her even from beyond the grave. Narcissist can’t stand to loose.
Poor woman; she clearly did not desert him! She wiped his ass as he recovered at their home after heart surgery!💩head lawyers worded the will that way.
Well she did stop by to visit. But she has moved out and was dating someone else. She does leave that part out, conveniently. He had not moved on. She moved out and moved on
He was left alone after heart surgery and cancer in his townhouse. No RN. No Aide. No family member. He was abandoned. He was left there all night alone and was found dead. A month before, she was flirting with Ed Solomon on Twitter. Ocacek had 6 sons. Two from 3 marriages. His 1st two sons were not in his Will.
Tortured genius, my ass. He was selfish man who let others dictate his wife's faith, not to mention his previous children. Any merit he might have as an artist goes down the drain after this
She probably loved him but kind a slap from the grave that she still living with him but they were getting a divorce but he cut her out but she was still watching out for him. She seems like nice person but he probably a genouis but maybe narristic qualities so he left to there kids.
@@pufipie2290 His Health was Failing and he was VERY MEDICATED, he wasn't well ! He wouldn't of done this to her, he made a MISTAKE ! THE LAWYER WAS THE CULPRIT !
It is easy to demonize Ocasek, but Paulina makes it clear that she even doesn't have all the facts. Rather than putting words in her mouth as this journalist was trying to do, let's wait and see.
She separated from Ric when he became old and ill and moved on with Ed Solomon. She DID abandon him when he needed her the most. She IS a wealthy woman - she's just greedy and wants more - like Ric's music royalties that he had before their marriage. It's normal that Ric left his personal fortune to his children and not his ex. If she really loved Ric she wouldn't constantly be complaining in the media about him.
@@lemonhead162 Why don't you read this article that was written by someone who knew Ric: "Ric Ocasek Was Diagnosed with Cancer Just Before His Death, Resented Estranged Wife Paulina Porizkova’s Boyfriend, Ed Solomon" www.showbiz411.com/2019/11/08/exclusive-ric-ocasek-was-diagnosed-with-cancer-just-before-his-death-resented-estranged-wife-paulina-porizkovas-boyfriend-ed-solomon Paulina is not some grieving widow! She had been separated for years from Ric and had boyfriends and now acts all shocked that Ric didn't leave her everything. Poor Ric. He left his personal fortune to his children which is normal.
@@lemonhead162 The author of the article, Roger Friedman, has written for the NY Times, Washington Post and other famous media outlets. He has known Ric Ocasek for years and Ric confided in him. What we do know is that Paulina herself announced being separated and going through a divorce on social media. She was separated for years before Ric's death. She was seen in the media all dressed up with her boyfriend director Ed Soloman while Ric was ill. Now she's trying to become relevant again off her famous ex's death and complaining she didn't get everything. She is greedy and ghoulish.
I've always admired Paulina.. and her hubby did that to her. My gut it hurt I felt betrayed by my husband and his family.. I was shocked as well all the lies exposure.. now I know the truth.. forgive past stays in past and yeah. Keep pushing forward. 🕊️
She was a very smart and beautiful and ambitious immigrant when he left his wife and other children for her while old enough to be her father. Sorry, but I'm not shedding any tears.
Pufi Pie perhaps but.... I think they probably spent all their money... &ric perhaps had some income/money from publishing.. so since she had a bf, so he did it for their kids... otherwise they would see nothing
@@pufipie2290 it sounds like then Ocasek was just being fiscally responsible to have money for them to live on and keeping a buffer. The will was to make it clear she had left him. she would be entitled to 1/2 but not all as she dated people etc. she's just putting a twist on it to earn money.
@@pufipie2290 I think I figured it out - they got married after his big 80s hits. So that 'money' he earned before getting married does not become hers - even if she added to the marriage afterwards. So he would have full control over the portfolio from that and will it at his discretion. If they had no joint assets spent all her money and his after being married then she ends up being broke when he dies. Unless he specified some of it for her - but he only did to some of his kids.
Thank you for your truth,my dear, so sorry for you.It’s obvious you two still loved each other, and yes the greed of the lawyer was in play . I think sometimes when we argue, we think,( I’ll fix them ) and when we wake up in the morning,we don’t expect them to have died. All the best, and remember to share your truths with other women, we’re all watching.Cuddles from Canada 🌸🌸🌸🌸🇬🇧🇨🇦M
All you have is your integrity, and Paulina has it in spades imho. My guess is the divorce settlement was supposed to divide their assets so there was no need to recognize each other in the will once they were divorced. I've just recently lost my mom& beyond all the grief and heartache, there's a lot of time-sensitive stuff about the estate you need to settle. Definitely a worse-before-better situation.
She is obfuscating waaay too much. She’s not being honest. Come on, Paulina, tell us the REAL story. You can bet your ass there’s much more to this story.
@@pufipie2290 There’s definitely more to this story. She’s lying, and i feel sorry for Ric that she’s smearing him like this. Her two sons know the real story. They have no communication with her at all. Ric excluded her from that will for a reason.
@@pufipie2290 So what? Ric kept her disarmed then fixed her ass in the end. Big deal. He knew what she was doing so what’s good for the goose... BTW, don’t you mean you try to be as OBJECTIVE as possible, not subjective?
Of course I don't know her but it's seems to me she knows more than she is willing to admit. She has abandonment issues from childhood. He wanted out of the marriage but she kept holding on. She even wanted to live with him as the divorce was happening. Then she said she wanted to get a house next door to her soon to be ex- husband. Hmmm I think she needs to do some real soul searching.
Of Course, she can forgive him now. *She went after his Estate legally and has now been granted a Settlement.* She declined to reveal how much she received. Her husband was worth $5 Million at the time of his death. *She would've been left even more Destitute* had he been alive to get all the Money. He left her with *No Money to pay for the Homes Or Groceries, but her Friends came through.* Had it not been for them *she would've been Homeless.* Her Pride won't let her accept it. *He did not make a Mistake;* he's responsible for it and did what he wanted. *He was of Sound Mind when he Cut her **_Out of his Will._* A lawyer did Not make him do this. She has to LIE to herself about what he had done to feel better about herself.
Sometimes it's both, or neither. Then it lands somewhere over there after the dust has settled. Let's see what P has to say regarding this/ric a few years from now.
@@crystalship9900 she was dating David Salomon funny how Bias this interview was she has an angle to this to get the money now she Blaming the lawyer to make it look like Rick was in was it in his right mindMarriage is through sickness and health and when he got sick she left him for another man so Rick cut her out like he should’ve
Usually people emotionally not available think their relations are great no matter how much they have hurt the others unintentionally and the worst part is that this person stills unaware that there might be something wrong with her. I am not telling RO was an angel or best husband of the world but if at the end he did that there was a reason, a hidden wound. Who knows?
HOW MANY women DEVOTED their lifes to men who DID NOT deserve it...
HOW MANY men DEVOTED their *lives to women who DID NOT deserve it..
Sometimes beauty is very shallow. What else can it be?
With women initiating 70% of divorces I'd think it's men who devoted their lifes, it's MEN who are happy with their current love, it's WOMEN who are always looking for the next best thing.
Me 3 times, happily single for over 20 years. I'm not good at picking partners 😉
I have always been a big fan of the cars and ric. Yet I don't think he was probably emotionally there for her. All her interviews sound like he ignored her and she just couldn't stand it anymore. It happens all the time as women get older.
Men may stay in marriages longer then women but men also have lives outside of the home and jobs, that they put first. The wife is at home trying to make a family and giving 100 while me are giving maybe 40 percent.
Men stay because they are fine with the situation. They get their cake and eat it to. Women don't.
I think that's why more women leave marriages. That's just my opinion I'm not saying it is every situation but I have been around a lot of divorce and heard both sides and that is the majority of the reason the woman was done.
Love her, she takes responsibility in other interviews for not being wise financially by allowing her money to be controlled by others. She now teaches women to be aware financially so this does not happen to them. She is clearly not destitute either and is modeling again in her 50's. She will always be beautiful in my eyes.
Paulina is graceful and gorgeous inside and out
Paulina is still so beautiful. Thank goodness she hasn't touched her face.
@@debra13 But not like Melanija Knavs Knauss Trump who looks a lot different because of surgery from when she was a young model.
@@debra13 she has had maitanace procedures that rejuvenate and relax her face, but she has done no plastic surgery.
@@KristinaUSA-x5n difference is Paulina has a brain, Melania's brain left somewhere longtime ago on indeffinate leave!
@@debra13 no facial maintance does not always mean fillers...i for example have done maintance like CO2 or specific facials + certain facial yoga...i'm not saying this is what she has done, but if she has basics like botox or fillers to fill out hollows...why not.
@@debra13 well if you dont really care...+ your obviously bothered by this discusion that you take opinion personally and want to end it so quickly...then you shouldn't have made any assumed beauty care comments in the 1st place!
Paulina is such a class act. She is generous, honest and real. She was hurt and treated unfairly and yet, defends how that act of disinheritance might have not have been Ric's intention.
She is someone I would love to have been friends with.
Such BS how was she a class act when Rick was Married to Suzanne and Paulina caused the divorce? Really that is your friend? What does that say about you?
She cheated with a married man. Karma
👍👍👍👍👍Well said.
I lived in New Braintree, MA many years ago and my farm bordered the infamous recording studio Longview Farm. One particular day back in the 80's, I noticed a tall man with scraggly hair walking in one of my fields... I went outside and wandered over to greet the man and he explained that he was recording over at the studio. At that very moment, I suddenly realized that the person in front of me was Ric Ocasek! He explained that he had gotten lost while taking a walk and asked for directions back. Seizing on the moment, I offered to drive him back to the studio. He accepted and I was more than happy to give him a ride. A few days later, I received 2 tickets to one of their concerts and 2 backstage passes with a note that read simply; "A small gesture in return for your kind gesture. RO" I will never forget the man and that moment in time! RIP RO...
Paulina is more beautiful than ever, omg she is a absolute darling
It sucks feeling betrayed by someone you trusted. I hope Paulina can heal from this.
She was divorcing him when he was dying what the fuck do you think she deserved.
@@sandeeprana-yo3wm that is not true. He did not want to be married anymore. She did.
@@mareeenchen4164 the fact that 80% divorces are initiated by women and it is exceptionally rare for men to file it. She must have fucked up real bad.
Anyways he doesn’t owe her shit. She had her own money. In the times when women say they don’t need men but want one. I don’t think any women should be entitled to any claim over a man’s assets.
@@sandeeprana-yo3wm He was much much older than her. She said in an interview that the age gap perhaps finally made a difference but to HIM not to her. She was the one that wanted to stay married, she even kept living with him. She did have her own money and she put it all into the marriage. Most women are wonderful, caring and empathetic creatures by nature. I see her like that too and I doubt that she srewed him over.
She was too beautiful for her husband physically.. m saying cuz l got jealous of her husband... I dn't know what others saying beauty inner beauty blah blah... 😌😌😏
This beautiful lady is traumatized and in denial. Hope she heals.
Another Empath Stepped On By A Narcissist.
Well said
Right, she’s absolutely the narcissist. And he the empath?? Highly doubtful.
@@crystalship9900 she is an empath.
@@crystalship9900 He is the Narc!
@@crystalship9900 Did you watch the entire video? She is caring for the home during the divorce and caring for him during surgery = empath.
She gave him two sons and they were married for thirty-five years. I am appalled by what he did to her. It would be okay if he wanted the divorce but not her. If he couldn't own her, he would embarrass her and leave her with as little as possible. I wonder if he ever loved her. I doubt it. Or he would not have been so cruel.
Yes pretty vindictive
Where did you get your story from? I had read before he died he let her go because she was much younger and healthier and he was not working and very sick. He let her go, and she left and got her own place. At that time there was no word or indication that this was anything but mutual and in fact she was ready to move on and did with his blessing.
He's narcissistic, expect that from b
@@angelumaya320 nope. In her words, he treated her like a piece of the furniture, didnt desire her, notice her etc. All emotional and mental abuse if you ask me. So she put it out there and said, well if you're wanting a divorce be cause you don't seem invested....and he pretty much said well it seems you've made your mind up. Didn't say no, didn't fight for her. This was in another interview she gave.
I think due to her daddy issues she overlooked a lot in her marriage.
He was a screwey and self loathing individual. A real dickhead, and if it wasn't for her own traumas, she would have ditched him years ago.
Probably not on ever loving her. She needs to get over him some how. It wasn't her. It was him. Him not loving her was all him.
The age difference not the deal but the fact he literally paid no attention to the kids he had beforehand. Total destructive narcissist how can anyone treat their kids like this. She was ok with that?
She is such a sweet person
Paulina is very smart and she will go on and do extremely well!
She is such a gorgeous woman and she also seems like really nice person...
that interviewer.....a bit harsh, don't you think???
Paulina MUST write a book--if for no other reason than to help other spouses from experiencing what she's gone through.
YES SHE NEEDS TO tell other young women who are 19 not to be a side chick to a 40 year old man that is married. Good Idea!
@@michaelidarecis she whored herself to a married man
The Snake hired a Shark lawyer, so sad. I believe she will be fine moving forward.
probably not how will she make it with 55 million look at her net worth
Her Estee Lauder money couldn't hold her over..lol..how much money does a person need???
When they 1st became a couple, I was a teenager, I was always a little confused as to how he landed such a beautiful, beautiful woman....and I'm still confused as to how it ended...😕
Rock stars always get hot chicks. It doesn't matter what the guy looks like.
Weren't we all!!!!
She explained in another interview that Rick’s first wife had taken him to the cleaners years and years ago and when he got old he wasn’t entirely thinking clearly - kind of taking revenge on the wrong woman.
I'm confused too. She is so gorgeous and smart she could have gotten one of the best men out there and yet she chose him. He looks like he could be Olive Oyl's brother! I know it's not about looks but there should be at least a little compatibility in that regard! And to top it off, he ended up betraying her!
@@latsnojokelee6434 He was thinking very clearly. Her Pride won't allow her to accept what he had done. He's gone so she will say anything. Especially so he won't look bad to the kids they shared.
This interviewer has no sympathy and looking for her to break. Shame
damn exactly what i was thinking
No.. she is empathizing with her
Well,Ashley Banfield is a lawyer and TV Court analyst and she is actually very good and fact driven. I think she senses Paulina is not the super innocent little Church mouse. Paulina was clear before Rick died that she had moved out, they broke up, and she was living on her own and dating other people. Now he's gone and she wants everyone to forget those little details.
Love this lady. What an honest, joyful, kind, and delightful human being Paulina is!
She’s clinically depressed now, according to her Instagram
Ric Ocasek stated in the will she abandoned him. She was out yahoo-ing with another man as he was ailing at home. So he was ticked off and probably said I'll show you.
Love her. She's so real. At her very best in life. Look forward to hearing/seeing more of her.
What a beautiful person!! so grounded and strong, yet light and uplifted 🙏❤️💐
I have become interested in Paulina's story because I have recently re discovered The Cars. Ric Ocasek was always a strange, mysterious guy. He is the one who broke up the band and unfortunately subsequently Benjamin Orr who was a Co-Founder of The Cars was betrayed by him and never got over that after the demise of the group. But now it makes perfect sense, that's who Ric was. A person who would betray his closest friends and loved ones. How could he cut Paulina out of his will after 26 years of marriage and 2 children ! You can't even understand that.
You might understand it better if you realize that Rick was married to Suzanne and Paulina was the SIDE CHICK that was upgraded.
She abandoned him
There is another side to the story and Ric did not reveal what caused him to do this
She is so stable and collected in the interview. Such a classy woman.
😮I do not think so. Exactly the opposite
I used to have a crush on Paulina when she was modelling. was floored when I heard she married Ric Ocasek. So much older etc. She is still a drop-dead gorgeous woman. It absolutely terrible how it tuned out. Whether it was Rick or his lawyers, it is terribly unfair to her. I hope it turns out well for her.
I think her choice regarding how the change in the will happened is quite reasonable. It's very, very sad. I know what it feels like to be cut out by someone you loved, and it becomes the "period" on the end of the sentence of a whole lifetime's relationship. It is very hard. And it's normal that people often don't have control at the end of their lives. I think she's very brave. I wish she would make her own cosmetics line or some other enterprise that is unique and distinctive to her. She is great.
I've never been married and I truly understand how everyone goes into it hoping it will be forever. The more stories I see like this, the more I think sharing my heart with someone, esp. in marriage may not be the best thing, unless I get a pre-nup and do it that way.
Back then never heard of such a thing as a pre-nup agreement ,like nowadays with people with fortunes .
No, it's when you bring your past baggage into your men or women choices and don't include God and sacrifice. It's when you marry a man that you know deep inside doesn't love you. Funny thing is, SHE actually made him and his sons secure and safe. She used her savings. She cleaned and provided. She loved and cared for. She was her own caretaker.
It's when you ignore your intuition and red flags 🚩🚩...for so many years. It's when you don't see your worth and see the bigger picture. The picture being that you are an example to so many others. You live your life as a beacon of light and see that your choices will affect how others choose. Most importantly, BOTH, YOU and HIM need to have clear set objectives and similar goals from the beginning. You need to have more in common then both being the same culture and one being older. He was brainwashed by outer jealous influences. He was not mature.
Do not let stories like this dissuade you from falling in love, getting married, and sharing your life with someone else. Marriage is not roses and tulips and sunshine 24/7. It is work. Both people have to be aware of this. Both people have to realize there is a give and take and there will be times you just want the other person to shut up and leave you alone.
But when you really think about....you wouldn't want any other person to be mad at. You wouldn't want any other person to have an argument with and then make up with later.
Life is a shitshow as it is, don't let other people's bad stories affect your life. That's their life. This is yours.
Paulina. You are so gracious and kind. You have a big heart ❤️ filled with humanity. Love you.
I always thought she was cool. Now I also think she is gracious, intelligent and WAY cool.
Why aren't cosmetic companies knocking on her door for an ad campaign?? She epitomizes "growing old gracefully."
Never allow your husband to have total control of all your money, always have your own accounts.
????
You realize he made almost all the money...
If you really want to write someone out of your will, you leave them a dollar. So they don't think you just "forgot."
No. If you mention them they have a way in
@@maryjaneerardfineartllc4979 good grief. another urban myth bites the dust.
Yes. This is what my biological dad did to me. I had only seen him a half dozen times. He never paid my Mother child support. Oddly enough, he wanted to see me when he was near death.
@@paulawhite2546 That is so sad. I'm sorry to hear how he treated you but it's ...what's the word? poignant? that he wanted to see you before he died. He probably wished he had been in your life more.
I like this hair color on her. Hope this all works out very soon. She is unique and beautiful and and I think she'd do so well if she went back to school and used her smarts and amazing creativity to move onto the next thrilling chapter of her life.
Years ago, I went through an acrimonious divorce. It was the worst experience of my life. She was screwed and tattooed, no doubt. But for me, the death of my ex at that time wouldn't have been the worse thing - I'm just kidding! Ms.Porizkova has my total sympathy. That said, unlike her, I didn't have the proceeds from the sale of a 10 million dollar townhome to help me get through the financial straits and future uncertainty. Unless she had no major debt, all she need do is learn to downsize her lifestyle, and she'll be fine. I'd wager she's still in demand in the entertainment /fashion/ modeling/ luxury goods industry, and it's undoubtedly just a matter of time till she meets a new Mr. Right...
Love her. Ric was sadly classless in the end. Such a shame. The Cars were an incredible band.
You can tell that she really loved him. Even after he betrayed her at the last moment, she still defends him.
I like Paula but enough is enough. The woe is me is getting a bit much. How many times is she going to continue to go on? There is 2 sides to every story and unfortunately he isn't here to tell his.
So sorry for your loss. He surly had plenty of time to take care of it. Like the day of your marriage. He was older, it should have been done immediately. I am so sorry. Paulina you are Amazing! I am so sorry for your loss.
Paulina is a class act. There were never rumors of infidelity; they led a rather quiet life with no scandal. I also believe she will be fine.
She had a boyfriend
@@justlearning6371 ya and he knew about the boyfriend. They were separated as spouses 2 years before this but still remained close
Maybe it was a mistake, maybe not. I had something similar happen to me and it was due to outside influences whispering in his ear. Very hurtful when you've spent most of your life with someone and had their children.
Best way to feel about it otherwise she wld be PISSED. But it’s a warning to not let anyone have financial control over you. Had they been divorced she wld be in worse financial stress. He spent all her $$$ during the marriage so I think her husband was bitter she was divorcing him. He knew what he was doing. She let him control all the finances and at one point made more $$$ than him. Don’t blame the lawyer her husband didn’t have her back.
Paulina, in my opinion, is the most beautiful model to ever grace a magazine cover. She is also very intelligent and down to earth.
She is such a class act!
One of the world's most beautiful women for decades, still is!
Beautiful lady with a huge heart ❤️
IF YOU RESPECT YOURSELF YOU DONT GIVE EVETYTHING IN A RELATIOSHIP. IF YOU DO, IT IS NOT LOVE, IT IS AN ADDICTION.
Good point. The sign of a good partner is they won’t demand everything of you.
She is intelligent and still beautiful. I hope she continues to prosper and blaze a trail as she has.
A gorgeous 19 year old marrying a gross looking 40 year old? She was manipulated from the start. And she still doesn't seem to realize it. That's super sad.
Hmm let's see super talented musician creates a band and a career and creates rick songs he sells for millions. Marries and woman who, well took some pictures when she was 20. Yeah I'd say he had a bit more talent and put in a bit more work into his 30 year career. I love when women call men a creep because he's not well, sitting on a stool looking pretty.
She was twenty four when she got married - well old enough to know what she was doing. Marrying a rock star raised her modeling career a lot. Then when Ric got old and ill, she dumped him for Ed Solomon. She's not some grieving widow.
@@firenze5555 If a middle aged man leaves his wife to marry a much younger woman, he has to realize that young woman when she is in her 40s will have needs than he in his 60s and 70s he will not be able to do. So her having another man to fulfill her needs in her 40 shoudl be accepted. Milkmen have another meaning, this is common.
She is absolutely gorgeous and sweet, and strong in most areas. HOWEVER, there’s denial here regarding her husband. I hear the excuses. My heart goes out to her. I pray that she can break free from those areas that are robbing her of living in the present and be able to experience more joy.
I think it’s because she was divorcing him he realised how beautiful and younger she was and she’d find someone else and they’d spend his money. I’d say he did it out of spite.
He was a covert narcissist. There is no other reason for him to treat her like that.
I wish she would speak more about what really went on in their relationship to help women. What he did is so cruel. And for what just to hurt her. He was envious of her.
Lol I didn't know you knew Ric personally? tell me more about him lmao you're just taking sides here when you have no idea what actually went on, Ric can't speak anymore and what he did say was that she abandoned him and that's why he changed his will, why are you ignoring that? why is her word worth more than his? also he has every right to change his will and I don't think he would have changed his will at the last minute for no reason, there must have been a reason, whether his wife thinks it was justified or not. Also "what he did was so cruel" lol you all acting like she is now a pauper, she sold their house for 10 million and she is still out here looking like a super model so spare me the violin. Of course there may be truth in her side too, she may have been wrongfully removed but moral is you just don't know so stop acting like you do, I don't know what went on either but I am definitely taking Ric's side into account, when celebrities leave a will that someone in their family is unhappy about it always show true colours, if she was being truthful then she shouldn't want any of his will, if he wrongly took her out then she should want none of it, I know I wouldn't but yet she is trying to make the will invalid, and what does Ric's sons have to say about this? notice how none of them are speaking constantly about this like she is. She just keeps victimizing herself but I have to understand she is a feminist so that's to be expected. Also you think she should speak to help women? apparently you think only women are victims in relationship when in reality men are victims of bad relationships just as much as women are, but this is irrelevant since she claims to love him and to have had a good marriage so there is nothing to tell, she got written out of the will because Ric felt like she abandoned him and maybe she did or maybe he just thought she did either way both those are valid, she was dating someone else while still being married to him so again no one knows but those involved so maybe stop demonizing Ric when you don't know what made him do it.
@@LostInOldMovies thx for your wise response. I feel the same way. This has to be her 10th such interview.
@@LostInOldMovies narcissists have abandonment issues. The abandonment wasn't real, he perceived the abandonment in his head. She was younger and healthy, he was sickly and older. He couldn't handle that so he felt abandoned in his mind.
I am so curious to know could she have done anything legally.
They were still married , she had made money in her time what ever
they had it was both of them , so how can any judge not give her anything.
She had worked and made a lot of money, really I can't stop thinking about her suffering.
I'm sorry to say that but he knew what he was doing by signing you out of the will
He was retaliating, because you were divorcing him.
My best wishes to you and your kids .
This happens to 97%of woman!!!
Paulina looks human, beautiful human
PAULINA IS AN ANGEL!
This is so ridiculous! She is getting half of the assets they accumulated in the divorce. She is not getting HIS half of the estate. He left his half to his children, which is also her children. They are not speaking now because mom is suing her own children for the money dad left them. She wanted ALL the money, says it at 2:30 open your ears and listen to what she states. I find it appalling this information is NOT disclosed in any of these interviews.
From what I've heard, Ric told her that they didn't need separate bank accounts and that what was hers was his and vice versa. And unfortunately, when the will goes into probate and a spouse has been cut out of the inheritance, EVERYTHING is frozen. That means the joint account Paulina was using is now under the list of assets that belonged to Ric. You might want to brush up on your law before you start spouting anger toward a woman you have never met.
Yes thank you for stating the real
Do you really believe Ric and she were using the same bank accounts during a divorce? Do you think Ric was paying for her attorney out of his own account? I don't think so. They were separated for years. She is entitled to half the community assets without question. She is NOT entitled to his half of the community assets because he left it to his sons in the Will. All this whining is because she feels she's entitled to both half’s after his death. He was more than 20 years older than her and she knew one day she would get everything, but the cards didn’t fall that way.
Facts are facts, don't try and manipulate the situation because the greed is coming from a female perspective.
She’s manipulating I guess..
@@intrepidz7271 She made millions as a super model and the face of Estee Lauder . She probably earned more then him.
In NY, someone has to be at fault for a divorce to occur. So the fault was placed on her for abandonment even though she didn’t abandon him. Typical lawyer shenanigans.
They just passed no fault a few years ago I believe.
She had a boyfriend while still married to Rick his name was David Solomon this unit interview is quite biased she has an angle to thisShe wants the money now she’s blaming the lawyer to make it look like Rick wasn’t in his right mind marriage is some sickness and in health and when he got sick she was already dating somebody else His dying wish was not to leave or anything because he abandoned him notice how her kids don’t come to her defense very shady
so true
Her boyfriend is Ed Solomon. What else did you get wrong?
@@vs52217 thank you
@@pufipie2290 fresh meat would be nice but he was is older man
@@pufipie2290 yes he left his part to their sons but they had to get a lawyer to protect them self’s
He knew what he was doing.
It sounds like she was married to a narcissist. When she asked him for a divorce it took away his control over her, so taking her out of the will was his way of punishing her. She was also, obviously way better looking than him. He knew this and felt intimidated by her beauty and independent success and was jealous. Some men can’t handle that kind of competition. They can’t deal with the attention, because they want it all for themselves, so he wanted to discredit her publicly . He was determined to be on top of her and everything else. He probably manipulated her into handing over her income. More control. She got played by her husband and it sounds like he was doing this from go for years. He saw how vulnerable she was and didn’t believe in herself and needed attention and love and he probably love bombed her in the beginning to gain her trust, then control of her. That’s why he lost interest in the end, because she grew wise and tired of his games and in turn he discarded her . He needed a new source for his narcissistic supply because she wasn’t taking it anymore. So he made sure he punished her even from beyond the grave. Narcissist can’t stand to loose.
Poor woman; she clearly did not desert him! She wiped his ass as he recovered at their home after heart surgery!💩head lawyers worded the will that way.
Well she did stop by to visit. But she has moved out and was dating someone else. She does leave that part out, conveniently. He had not moved on. She moved out and moved on
He was left alone after heart surgery and cancer in his townhouse. No RN. No Aide. No family member. He was abandoned. He was left there all night alone and was found dead. A month before, she was flirting with Ed Solomon on Twitter. Ocacek had 6 sons. Two from 3 marriages. His 1st two sons were not in his Will.
Tortured geniuses often lash out at those who were close to them ....Then they are sure you'll remember them ....sad !
Tortured genius, my ass. He was selfish man who let others dictate his wife's faith, not to mention his previous children. Any merit he might have as an artist goes down the drain after this
A really insensitive interview style, sorry to say.
She probably loved him but kind a slap from the grave that she still living with him but they were getting a divorce but he cut her out but she was still watching out for him. She seems like nice person but he probably a genouis but maybe narristic qualities so he left to there kids.
I Love her, I don't think Ric did this to her, I think this was Divorce Lawyers !
God Bless!
J...
@@pufipie2290 His Health was Failing and he was VERY MEDICATED, he wasn't well ! He wouldn't of done this to her, he made a MISTAKE ! THE LAWYER WAS THE CULPRIT !
@@pufipie2290 You are correct , I do worry about her ! God Bless ! J...
He did it to her. She is disinherited.
@mama T He was very sick and not in his right mind !
It is easy to demonize Ocasek, but Paulina makes it clear that she even doesn't have all the facts. Rather than putting words in her mouth as this journalist was trying to do, let's wait and see.
She separated from Ric when he became old and ill and moved on with Ed Solomon. She DID abandon him when he needed her the most. She IS a wealthy woman - she's just greedy and wants more - like Ric's music royalties that he had before their marriage. It's normal that Ric left his personal fortune to his children and not his ex. If she really loved Ric she wouldn't constantly be complaining in the media about him.
Were you in the marriage? If not....get outta here!
I totally agree with you.
@@lemonhead162 Why don't you read this article that was written by someone who knew Ric: "Ric Ocasek Was Diagnosed with Cancer Just Before His Death, Resented Estranged Wife Paulina Porizkova’s Boyfriend, Ed Solomon" www.showbiz411.com/2019/11/08/exclusive-ric-ocasek-was-diagnosed-with-cancer-just-before-his-death-resented-estranged-wife-paulina-porizkovas-boyfriend-ed-solomon Paulina is not some grieving widow! She had been separated for years from Ric and had boyfriends and now acts all shocked that Ric didn't leave her everything. Poor Ric. He left his personal fortune to his children which is normal.
@@firenze5555 You don't know if that "article" is true. Only two people were in that marriage who know the truth and one of them isn't around anymore.
@@lemonhead162 The author of the article, Roger Friedman, has written for the NY Times, Washington Post and other famous media outlets. He has known Ric Ocasek for years and Ric confided in him. What we do know is that Paulina herself announced being separated and going through a divorce on social media. She was separated for years before Ric's death. She was seen in the media all dressed up with her boyfriend director Ed Soloman while Ric was ill. Now she's trying to become relevant again off her famous ex's death and complaining she didn't get everything. She is greedy and ghoulish.
I've always admired Paulina.. and her hubby did that to her. My gut it hurt I felt betrayed by my husband and his family.. I was shocked as well all the lies exposure.. now I know the truth.. forgive past stays in past and yeah. Keep pushing forward. 🕊️
she is a such beauty inside and outside
I’d like to know why they were divorcing anyway. If they were living together and they were gonna live close and all that why divorce?
She recently said he wanted close companionship only
You have to see the truth its not healthy to be in denial ..feel the pain and move on ..
She still pretty.
He was 40 and married btw....
She was a very smart and beautiful and ambitious immigrant when he left his wife and other children for her while old enough to be her father. Sorry, but I'm not shedding any tears.
Super lovely, wow. Now, who DID get the money, and if it is her children, why are they not coughing up a dime?!
I just love her
Maybe he had his reasons. Nobody will know
she was the rich supermodel who put the down payment on house in NY. he also cut other family members out of the will. (adult children, ex wives)
It was the Lawyers. Ashleigh- please do a quick video on your new hair! Love it!! 😻
Can't blame this on the lawyer . He signed it. How awful. Who got all his money?
Two of his sons with Paulina...nothing to his other kids it seems...
The Wall defeats them all
You can’t disinherit your spouse... so something isn’t making sense...
Pufi Pie perhaps but.... I think they probably spent all their money... &ric perhaps had some income/money from publishing.. so since she had a bf, so he did it for their kids... otherwise they would see nothing
@@pufipie2290 it sounds like then Ocasek was just being fiscally responsible to have money for them to live on and keeping a buffer. The will was to make it clear she had left him. she would be entitled to 1/2 but not all as she dated people etc.
she's just putting a twist on it to earn money.
@@pufipie2290 I think I figured it out - they got married after his big 80s hits. So that 'money' he earned before getting married does not become hers - even if she added to the marriage afterwards. So he would have full control over the portfolio from that and will it at his discretion. If they had no joint assets spent all her money and his after being married then she ends up being broke when he dies. Unless he specified some of it for her - but he only did to some of his kids.
Can she not contest the will.
@@lindaellen808 no. he updated it because she left him and dated other people. She's crazy and sets a bad example
Theres no one as beautiful as paulina ...
Nice and kind person on top of her beauty
“How were you left destitute by that man?” She made multi multi millions during her career. It’s called poor money management.
I am with Paulina
Her and Ric REALLY we're a part of each other....I never think of one without the other....
She looks AMAZING 🥰
Thank you for your truth,my dear, so sorry for you.It’s obvious you two still loved each other, and yes the greed of the lawyer was in play .
I think sometimes when we argue, we think,( I’ll fix them ) and when we wake up in the morning,we don’t expect them to have died.
All the best, and remember to share your truths with other women, we’re all watching.Cuddles from Canada 🌸🌸🌸🌸🇬🇧🇨🇦M
All you have is your integrity, and Paulina has it in spades imho. My guess is the divorce settlement was supposed to divide their assets so there was no need to recognize each other in the will once they were divorced. I've just recently lost my mom& beyond all the grief and heartache, there's a lot of time-sensitive stuff about the estate you need to settle. Definitely a worse-before-better situation.
In reality, she has zero integrity. She’s a liar. She had a side piece, and that’s what she doesn’t want anyone to know.
She is obfuscating waaay too much. She’s not being honest. Come on, Paulina, tell us the REAL story. You can bet your ass there’s much more to this story.
@@pufipie2290 There’s definitely more to this story. She’s lying, and i feel sorry for Ric that she’s smearing him like this. Her two sons know the real story. They have no communication with her at all. Ric excluded her from that will for a reason.
@@pufipie2290 So what? Ric kept her disarmed then fixed her ass in the end. Big deal. He knew what she was doing so what’s good for the goose... BTW, don’t you mean you try to be as OBJECTIVE as possible, not subjective?
100000000 like her! Welcome to the club paulina!!!!
She is trauma bonded to a narcissist that used her for 35 years.
You are way to gracious Paulina!!!
Of course I don't know her but it's seems to me she knows more than she is willing to admit. She has abandonment issues from childhood. He wanted out of the marriage but she kept holding on. She even wanted to live with him as the divorce was happening. Then she said she wanted to get a house next door to her soon to be ex- husband. Hmmm I think she needs to do some real soul searching.
Of Course, she can forgive him now. *She went after his Estate legally and has now been granted a Settlement.* She declined to reveal how much she received. Her husband was worth $5 Million at the time of his death. *She would've been left even more Destitute* had he been alive to get all the Money. He left her with *No Money to pay for the Homes Or Groceries, but her Friends came through.* Had it not been for them *she would've been Homeless.* Her Pride won't let her accept it. *He did not make a Mistake;* he's responsible for it and did what he wanted. *He was of Sound Mind when he Cut her **_Out of his Will._* A lawyer did Not make him do this. She has to LIE to herself about what he had done to feel better about herself.
Sometimes it's both, or neither.
Then it lands somewhere over there after the dust has settled.
Let's see what P has to say regarding this/ric a few years from now.
How are you married for 35 years and your husband disinherits you? How is that even legal? This crap wouldn’t fly in California...
It won’t fly in New York either. She has a lawyer.
She had aboyfriend
@@justlearning6371 How do you know something like that??
@@crystalship9900 she was dating David Salomon funny how Bias this interview was she has an angle to this to get the money now she Blaming the lawyer to make it look like Rick was in was it in his right mindMarriage is through sickness and health and when he got sick she left him for another man so Rick cut her out like he should’ve
@@justlearning6371 I believe you! My gut has told me from day one that she’s a damn liar! 👍
Usually people emotionally not available think their relations are great no matter how much they have hurt the others unintentionally and the worst part is that this person stills unaware that there might be something wrong with her. I am not telling RO was an angel or best husband of the world but if at the end he did that there was a reason, a hidden wound. Who knows?
the presenter is so tactless
Old Soul in a Beautiful Package.