Thank you for sharing your story. Glad your father was supportive and was there for you. To those that blame on a child, shame on them. There are many stories like this that we sweep under the rug.
Omg, Sister, in the story, you were only 10... these are the stories I have heard and seen in the community. This is why when my husband and I travel, we take our kids with us. You are very lucky you have a loving father who back you up and supported you through these hard times. May god keep on blessing you and your family... Karma will get your mother...
Im so irritated by this! Smh Im so glad your dad listen and paid attention you. Not just your dad, you and your dad are heroes! Stand tall and never let anyone belittle you for standing up for yourself and spoke the truth! Im so proud of you!! ((Hugs))
I’m so sorry this happened to you sister. I’m so sad your mom failed you but I’m happy your dad had your back and fought along side you. Sending you healing prayers. 💛
Sister, bless u. I am sorry to hear. I encountered something close to being sexually abused but I stopped it and to this day, my parents do not know. I never told cuz I feared my parents wouldn't support me and I dont know who the person was as they were well covered in the dark of night. It happened while my parents were away and we had friends staying over. That experience has taught me to be extremely cautious when I became a parent. I never let my kids stay with others as I have always been fearful of these situations taking place. I support your message. If the whole family can't go, no one goes. We as parents do need to be the voice and keeper of our children, especially during vulnerable situations. I have also always taught my children to understand that if anyone touches them in certain places or make them feel uncomfortable, they can tell me. I also taught them about their body parts and what to call it. Early on, I pondered the thought of how to teach my kids how to be aware. I actually asked a Dr friend of mine about teaching little kids to call their body parts by the medical terms vs the kiddish references that kids use so that in cases like these, my child knows exactly what to call their body parts and no one can mistake them. Again, bless you. Bless your father for being courageous in standing up for you. What saddens me is that your mom chose to blame you. I am ashamed of her for doing so as she is your mother and should have the instinct to protect you at all cost.
I am so proud of you for speaking up and of your dad for believing you. It’s giving the justice some of us never got. Shame on your mom & her family. Unfortunately this happens more than we think. Sending you lots of healing.
Most of the time, it’s the close ppl you know that will do this to your kids. Do not leave your kids with your families. 100 percent facts. May god bless you sister. You are a brave girl.
Listening to this was chilling. I’m so glad your dad helps you through this ordeal. You are very brave and I hope you continue to look at the positive things that happens in your life.
This makes me sick to my stomach. I can't believe your own mother didn't believe you. I hope you continue to get professional help sis. You are so strong.
U poor thing. What happened was so horrific. I'm so sorry. You are so brave sister. Thank u for sharing your story. I'm glad your dad believed u and stood up for u. Shame on your mom for not believing her own daughter. May the heavens continue to bless u. ❤
Omg... How can your own mom didn't believe you. What a horrible mom she was. I'm glad your dad was there for you sister. You must felt so alone,scared and betrayal. I'm glad you're ok now.😢
This story hits so close to home my sisters experience this situation with my step father and my mom was too scared to leave or believe the truth. Now as we grew older my mom regrets her decision. I’m sorry you had to go through this no one should ever have to face this situation..
I am so sorry this happened to you. Glad your dad had your back and believed you. The monster deserves to be in jail for life. I have only girls and when we have guest over I always tell my girls to lock their doors at night
Saddest thing about hmong people is that they are so worried about reputation that they would rather make up excuses or blame the victim. Shame on your mom for thinking n worrying about the uncle. He's a pervert! No child(mostly) would never make such accusation(s) if she/he didnt go through such an ordeal. Its your own child! You should know the characteristics/personality of your child, especially a 10 yr old only. I went through many perversion men at a young age from cousin, to uncle to my father's so call friend. Even when i told my mom about what they tried, she still said, are you sure? Why the heck would i make up or have such ideas at such a young age. I'm lucky no penatration took place like this story. So! To all moms/dads/grandparents who has any kids. PLEASE, PLEASE, LISTEN TO THAT CHILD!😢 Me ntxhais, move on sweetheart. I know its hard and painful but close that nightmare chapter and love your husband and let go of the past/pain. Love yourself and give yourself that much to live your life to the fullest. May God grant you the strength you need to be strong and move on. Take care❤
Oh my....I'm sooooooo sorry that you experienced such trauma. I'm happy you didn't keep it inside and basically told your teacher so that action could be taken. I'm Hella pissed at your mom for not believing you and trying to blame you! That's equally as devastating as what your evil uncle did! I hope he's still locked up and suffering. I wanted the detail as to how long his sentence is or was and if you're talking to your mom or not. You can never forget something like that or get over it, but I hope you've healed slowly from it. I wish you the best, little sister.
Unfortunately, your mom didn't think of you, her own daughter's well-being. Very sad. No matter how your behavior was presented does not validated your uncle's exploitation on you. Adults with that sickening mindsets and took action upon evilness are just mentally ill. Justice have been served!! Learn from your pass and do better for today and the future. Be good to the people who loved you and filter out the ones who don't. Protect your children and teach them well to be Good human beings. We need more of them on this earth. Stay strong! 😊💛💙💜
I am so sorry that happened to you. Hugs to you, dear. I am glad he went to prison. I pray you have more happy and joyful days because you deserve it. ❤
This story make my blood boiling high. Shame on your mom for not protecting u. Thank to your dad for not failing u. I hope u are healing and protect your children as well. Peb cov hmoob no mas xyuas tshaj plaws li.
Terrible, there are 2 monsters in this story. Your mother protected her brother instead of her daughter. You are his niece, it's the same as you are his daughter. Maybe these 2 monsters had sexual relationship between brother and sister, so he thought it was OK to continue having sex with his sister's daughter. She protected him as her lover.
Shame on those people who didn't believe u and said koj "ua maum nkais xwb." I want these people to look at their own 10 yrs old daughters and see how they will feel if someone do the same thing to their daughters and if they can still say their daughters "ua maum nkais xwb."
Dab laug los yog dev, niam los yog dev es thiaj lis tsis tiv thaiv koj es tseem mis ntseeg nws tus brother thiaj. Hope karma caught her too. Hope the uncle mag dub mag mev muab ua qrhiv quav tom jail es nws thiaj lis paub hais tias mag mos ua es zoo lis cas thiab mob yus siab npaum cas no os !
G yog hmoob nyiam22 mus vacation xwb os ruam luag lwm hiav neeg muaj22 nyiaj mas luag haj yam mus heev poj ruam mob pim tsw lwj koj mas muaj hmoo tiag22 tau aim uncle mas zoo siab cim ntsoov tag tiam no koj mas nco ntsoov koj tus uncle rab qau loj22 tag tiam no hahahaha
Thank you for sharing your story. Glad your father was supportive and was there for you. To those that blame on a child, shame on them. There are many stories like this that we sweep under the rug.
Omg, Sister, in the story, you were only 10... these are the stories I have heard and seen in the community. This is why when my husband and I travel, we take our kids with us. You are very lucky you have a loving father who back you up and supported you through these hard times. May god keep on blessing you and your family... Karma will get your mother...
Im so irritated by this! Smh
Im so glad your dad listen and paid attention you. Not just your dad, you and your dad are heroes! Stand tall and never let anyone belittle you for standing up for yourself and spoke the truth! Im so proud of you!! ((Hugs))
Praying for healing Kajsiab. You are a strong individual. Thank you for being transparent in this community. ❤️
I appreciate your support. ❤️
I’m so sorry this happened to you sister. I’m so sad your mom failed you but I’m happy your dad had your back and fought along side you. Sending you healing prayers. 💛
Sister, bless u. I am sorry to hear. I encountered something close to being sexually abused but I stopped it and to this day, my parents do not know. I never told cuz I feared my parents wouldn't support me and I dont know who the person was as they were well covered in the dark of night. It happened while my parents were away and we had friends staying over. That experience has taught me to be extremely cautious when I became a parent. I never let my kids stay with others as I have always been fearful of these situations taking place.
I support your message. If the whole family can't go, no one goes. We as parents do need to be the voice and keeper of our children, especially during vulnerable situations.
I have also always taught my children to understand that if anyone touches them in certain places or make them feel uncomfortable, they can tell me. I also taught them about their body parts and what to call it.
Early on, I pondered the thought of how to teach my kids how to be aware. I actually asked a Dr friend of mine about teaching little kids to call their body parts by the medical terms vs the kiddish references that kids use so that in cases like these, my child knows exactly what to call their body parts and no one can mistake them.
Again, bless you. Bless your father for being courageous in standing up for you. What saddens me is that your mom chose to blame you. I am ashamed of her for doing so as she is your mother and should have the instinct to protect you at all cost.
Thank you for sharing your personal story!!! God bless you!
I am so proud of you for speaking up and of your dad for believing you. It’s giving the justice some of us never got. Shame on your mom & her family. Unfortunately this happens more than we think. Sending you lots of healing.
Most of the time, it’s the close ppl you know that will do this to your kids. Do not leave your kids with your families. 100 percent facts. May god bless you sister. You are a brave girl.
Listening to this was chilling. I’m so glad your dad helps you through this ordeal. You are very brave and I hope you continue to look at the positive things that happens in your life.
Thank you for sharing your story. May you find strength and courage from your darkest time to be a light and shine to others.
This makes me sick to my stomach. I can't believe your own mother didn't believe you. I hope you continue to get professional help sis. You are so strong.
U poor thing. What happened was so horrific. I'm so sorry. You are so brave sister. Thank u for sharing your story. I'm glad your dad believed u and stood up for u. Shame on your mom for not believing her own daughter. May the heavens continue to bless u. ❤
Omg... How can your own mom didn't believe you. What a horrible mom she was. I'm glad your dad was there for you sister. You must felt so alone,scared and betrayal. I'm glad you're ok now.😢
This story hits so close to home my sisters experience this situation with my step father and my mom was too scared to leave or believe the truth. Now as we grew older my mom regrets her decision. I’m sorry you had to go through this no one should ever have to face this situation..
I am so sorry this happened to you. Glad your dad had your back and believed you. The monster deserves to be in jail for life. I have only girls and when we have guest over I always tell my girls to lock their doors at night
Good job to your dad. Told my wife, if we ever split, all kids stay with me.
Txaus ntshai kawg li nawb
Unbelievable how this mom chooses her brother over her daughter. Sorry sister..God bless you.
Saddest thing about hmong people is that they are so worried about reputation that they would rather make up excuses or blame the victim. Shame on your mom for thinking n worrying about the uncle. He's a pervert! No child(mostly) would never make such accusation(s) if she/he didnt go through such an ordeal. Its your own child! You should know the characteristics/personality of your child, especially a 10 yr old only. I went through many perversion men at a young age from cousin, to uncle to my father's so call friend. Even when i told my mom about what they tried, she still said, are you sure? Why the heck would i make up or have such ideas at such a young age. I'm lucky no penatration took place like this story. So! To all moms/dads/grandparents who has any kids. PLEASE, PLEASE, LISTEN TO THAT CHILD!😢 Me ntxhais, move on sweetheart. I know its hard and painful but close that nightmare chapter and love your husband and let go of the past/pain. Love yourself and give yourself that much to live your life to the fullest. May God grant you the strength you need to be strong and move on. Take care❤
Oh my....I'm sooooooo sorry that you experienced such trauma. I'm happy you didn't keep it inside and basically told your teacher so that action could be taken. I'm Hella pissed at your mom for not believing you and trying to blame you! That's equally as devastating as what your evil uncle did! I hope he's still locked up and suffering. I wanted the detail as to how long his sentence is or was and if you're talking to your mom or not. You can never forget something like that or get over it, but I hope you've healed slowly from it. I wish you the best, little sister.
Unfortunately, your mom didn't think of you, her own daughter's well-being. Very sad. No matter how your behavior was presented does not validated your uncle's exploitation on you. Adults with that sickening mindsets and took action upon evilness are just mentally ill. Justice have been served!!
Learn from your pass and do better for today and the future. Be good to the people who loved you and filter out the ones who don't. Protect your children and teach them well to be Good human beings. We need more of them on this earth. Stay strong! 😊💛💙💜
I am so sorry that happened to you. Hugs to you, dear. I am glad he went to prison. I pray you have more happy and joyful days because you deserve it. ❤
Thank you for your kind words.
I am so sorry this happened to you...! Glad your dad had your and believe.
This story make my blood boiling high. Shame on your mom for not protecting u. Thank to your dad for not failing u. I hope u are healing and protect your children as well. Peb cov hmoob no mas xyuas tshaj plaws li.
Terrible, there are 2 monsters in this story. Your mother protected her brother instead of her daughter. You are his niece, it's the same as you are his daughter. Maybe these 2 monsters had sexual relationship between brother and sister, so he thought it was OK to continue having sex with his sister's daughter. She protected him as her lover.
I knew someone in the hmong community in the twin city still in jail due to rape his own daughter still young age.
He better go to jail go have dna checked
Sorry this happened to you.
How many years did the uncle get?
She did not tell how many years they send him to prison. Perhaps at the time she was very young and did not know about.
Tsim nyog kaw kom tuag mus….ntxim ntxub dhau…
Shame on those people who didn't believe u and said koj "ua maum nkais xwb." I want these people to look at their own 10 yrs old daughters and see how they will feel if someone do the same thing to their daughters and if they can still say their daughters "ua maum nkais xwb."
Thaub laus es yog liam npaum no ces mag kaw kom ntev li ntev tau niag dab laug dev qias neeg tiag2
Txaus tshai heev niag dab Laug evil
Dab laug los yog dev, niam los yog dev es thiaj lis tsis tiv thaiv koj es tseem mis ntseeg nws tus brother thiaj. Hope karma caught her too. Hope the uncle mag dub mag mev muab ua qrhiv quav tom jail es nws thiaj lis paub hais tias mag mos ua es zoo lis cas thiab mob yus siab npaum cas no os !
Cov niag txiv dev no coj mus kaw kom tuag.
G yog hmoob nyiam22 mus vacation xwb os ruam luag lwm hiav neeg muaj22 nyiaj mas luag haj yam mus heev poj ruam mob pim tsw lwj koj mas muaj hmoo tiag22 tau aim uncle mas zoo siab cim ntsoov tag tiam no koj mas nco ntsoov koj tus uncle rab qau loj22 tag tiam no hahahaha