Why do some women hide their kids?why lie that your child is your sister?if a man loves you he will accept you and your child,I hope this comment doesn't get deleted.
These are the types of women who mock other ladies who give birth late.They call themselves happy single mothers but they didn't participate in raising the kid,they left it to their mother.They don't have shame,by the time they are 35 they brag around that they have big kids.
I like your comment,and many women will come in the comment section that a man who is in love will love me with my kids,my in-laws,research has been done on men who take up excessive responsibilities,at old age they end up broke,lonely and dejected in the name of love
Hata own family and relatives watu wajifunze kuwa independent, some relatives n family can also SCAM you big time...Mtu ajipende as an individual ajibuild peke yake until apatane na partner Ako nah akili timamu kama yake and visionary and ni WA kujituma zaidi...
@@DavidAnaswathis is what happened to my bro. Saa ii ndio anajaribu kurudi nyumbani (to embrace family love) cz pande ile ingine alitemwa alipo ishiwa kifedha.
Anytime I meet a man ,I always introduce my son first , the men I meet have never committed to this all in all am proud to be a single mother at this time and age.
poor Benta your mom denying you for her happiness,if only she knew you could bring a lot of joy in her life,she would really appreciate you💪💪💪,mama Benta and Banice please embrace your kids,you will still get a man who will appreciate them‼️‼️‼️
Wah😮 don't say that sister, God is not a man to be joked with. Using God is small talk may not be a good idea.... remember the ten commandments says You shall not use the name of the lord in vain. God made us & of course he knows us better than we know ourselves. Hope you'll understand my point. May God forgive you for that
You should have told him from the start baby gal. If he really loved, he still would have you. It's painful if he gets to know it this way, hugs mamii. I guess could be your mum who advised you to hide this, so bad so sad! Hope you talk and sort things out.
Eeeeeeish Nairobi Ina Mambo 😅 Ladies,,please be honest with yourself,,if you've decided for marriage or relationship be honest to your partner,tell him everything you've been through,, don't allow him get information from other sources,, Imagine loosing your marriage after so many years Of which we call it a total waste of your life Terrorist 😂😂😂😂😂this word cracked my ribs
After umepatikana ndio unasema ulikua umwambie. Ladies why do u lie such sensitive information to your husbands? Haingeenda ivi kama ulisema ukweli from the start. This will never be fixed, amejiletea yeye mwenyewe. hii ndoa imeisha ivo
Anytime I meet a man, I always introduce my son first even without introducing myself. He comes first so that whoever wants me must accept my baggage as well. So proud of him 😊
Girl child unaficha mtoto wako Kwa nini😂😂😂😂enyewe uyu ni mwongo number moja.never hide your kid no matter what ulipata msee mpoa lakini uongo nayo is on another level😂😂😂
Its very easy to say this when you are not in that situation of finding a good potential man.., yet he shows unwillingness to accept 'additional baggage'... So most ladies decide to be quiet about the issue as they date/test the man..., maybe planning to tell him later.., but soon they get pregnant, get stuck in the situationship, become insecure, etc..., then years go by without the courage to open up on the issue..!!! Lets no judge too harshly.... we are just observers of a 20 min episode... its not an issue to solve by the roadside, amidst heckling, rising emotions, confusion, etc...
No day ill hide my daughter every conversation utasikia tu jewel wangu ..mm naye mtoto siezi ficha juu ya mapenzi .. proud to be a mother of one beautiful daughter ❤
Mothers in in-laws have become garbages,i am a living testimony,my friend sahi nikipenda kasichana kamtu,naenda kwa babake direct,hawa wamama ni wapumbavu sana!
People think men cheat more in the relationship,,,while in reality..,women are serial cheaters and they will even make you raise a kid which is not yours...,venye huyu dem anajifanya yeye n polite ..,wacha tu
But whats so wrong about 'raising a kid thats not yours"..?? The kid is innocent, and if needy, and you love the mother.., why should it pain too much..?? There are many people catering for kids they dint sire.., adopting some, paying school fees, etc.. Lets not be so dramatic and selfish. This seems a very needy family from Likoni. This isnt so much a case of 'women cheating so much'... -but rather sour grapes and jealousy from men Ex's who dont want to ku'achika..., dont want to let go of their former women even when they have moved on...!! Why should this man be still lingering around, bitterly threatening his Ex that much..?? Now see.. messing up a marriage for the lady who may have decided to have a frsh start and bury her past...!!
It seems we do live with strangers whom we doesn't know their secrets or their plan ooooh dear love don't continue blindfolding us we're tired sometimes show us we're dealing with the devil 😢
So this man declaring that "naenda ku-report kwa OCS rafiki yangu..." as he walks away... So what exactly will he report as the crime this polite lady has committed ..? -is it having had a child before & not having told him..?? On that the lady 'allegedly' smashed na her jealous bitter Ex as claimed in the txts, bila proof..?? This being the mother of your other child.., whom just a few mins before you had pledged your love for.., What you need is to take some time.., sober up..., think through.., convene a meeting with the offending party, where openness can be guaranteed, talk things out.., listen to them, say your hurts & concerns..., of course under moderation of an independent arbiter.... then decide way forward..!! This may just be the woman God intended for you.., and she may be your only destiny propeller!! Having a baby in the past isnt a gauge for branding and condemning a woman to eternal condemnation! Many single mothers panic at the prospects of rejection by a promising man, when he discovers that they have a child... so some tend withhold such info for later.., then years go by so fast!
Nawapedanga style yao..waweza ishi 40yrs na wao..unadhani unawajua na hujui.. Hata kwao labda si hapo.kwao malindi na hujui.uzuri wao Mtoto Wa mwenzako ni wako tayari
No.... its not a good practice..!! He condemns and chocheas someone he barely knows..., or the real dynamics behind their decisions/situations.. -just 20 mins of encounter, and one or two sms's is being too rushy...!! -But huge life-long repercussions...!!
But again i must also condemn men/Ex's who.. even after breaking up.., keep popping their bitter/rude heads in the life of the lady who has moved on... If you even had a child together.., why the extreme bitterness and threats to your Ex who may have just found another man??? If it dint work.., let go.... with blessings...!! -achika..!!
Kupata mtoto si issue, kuficha mtoto na kusmash when in another relationship ndio makosa. Lakini ukiona dame ako na nyash jua chances zake kuwa cheater ni 99%
I think once you know you are serious with a guy, let him know you and tell him the truth coz however much you hide one day it will come to light. And why should you love a man more than your child. Wanawake wanaficha watoto ni waongo hata kwa marriage.
hawa watu hupeana simu na wanajua tu kuna kimbaya wnafanya nini huwa inawasumbua na kuficha watoto nini huwa mbaya na nyinyi...na vile amevaa nguo ya kanisa...weeeeh aki women the earlier u start being honest the better for ur soul
Why do some women hide their kids?why lie that your child is your sister?if a man loves you he will accept you and your child,I hope this comment doesn't get deleted.
These are the types of women who mock other ladies who give birth late.They call themselves happy single mothers but they didn't participate in raising the kid,they left it to their mother.They don't have shame,by the time they are 35 they brag around that they have big kids.
Very sad when that child comes to learn that u denied him or her😢
Huyo apewe trophy,player of the year
Your partner is never safe untill uve met up with comrade's 🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
Exactly
Simu ya bwana haikusomwa. Right there hiyo ni bias no.1
Comrades ni wale wale na yeye.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
WE SAID PAYING SCHOOL FEES AS WHO??? BUILDING A HOUSE FOR YOUR INLAWS AS WHO. DONT YOU HAVE YOUR OWN RELATIVES AND FAMILY??
I like your comment,and many women will come in the comment section that a man who is in love will love me with my kids,my in-laws,research has been done on men who take up excessive responsibilities,at old age they end up broke,lonely and dejected in the name of love
You decide to write in capital letters 😅
I ask the same
Hata own family and relatives watu wajifunze kuwa independent, some relatives n family can also SCAM you big time...Mtu ajipende as an individual ajibuild peke yake until apatane na partner Ako nah akili timamu kama yake and visionary and ni WA kujituma zaidi...
@@DavidAnaswathis is what happened to my bro. Saa ii ndio anajaribu kurudi nyumbani (to embrace family love) cz pande ile ingine alitemwa alipo ishiwa kifedha.
I cannot hide my son no matter the circumstances, his mean a world 🌎 to me. I rather be a single mother 😊
Same here. My son my priority ❤
Anytime I meet a man ,I always introduce my son first , the men I meet have never committed to this all in all am proud to be a single mother at this time and age.
Ladies why hide your own blood and flesh??? Shame on you woman 💔💔💔💔💔
Ata Mama ya huyu Dame sio mzuri walicheza our Boychild nema ti gutheke 😔
Wah!!! My child comes first....kama huwezi nikubali Na mtoi Wangu,just walk away😅
Exactly, no need of hiding your kid because of a man!
Mother in law na the lady are crooks they are using the guy for financial gain 😢
Crooks... how..?? Isnt he married to her..??
poor Benta your mom denying you for her happiness,if only she knew you could bring a lot of joy in her life,she would really appreciate you💪💪💪,mama Benta and Banice please embrace your kids,you will still get a man who will appreciate them‼️‼️‼️
BMS " Ako na cracked screen lakini I have uncracked it" Hehehe
Hata mungu mwenyewe hajui our partners vizuri 😢
Wah😮 don't say that sister, God is not a man to be joked with.
Using God is small talk may not be a good idea.... remember the ten commandments says You shall not use the name of the lord in vain.
God made us & of course he knows us better than we know ourselves.
Hope you'll understand my point.
May God forgive you for that
Fine gal wakipata wapoa wazuri sijui pepo ya kucheat inatokanga wapi😮😮
You should have told him from the start baby gal.
If he really loved, he still would have you. It's painful if he gets to know it this way, hugs mamii. I guess could be your mum who advised you to hide this, so bad so sad!
Hope you talk and sort things out.
Kitu inauma anasomeshea ex mtoto on top bado anakula mtu wake ,what was the need kuficha
Unaongea na Mother inlaw over 30mins looh . Lazima there is something cooking.
Uchome bibi na mafuta na matairi sababu ame cheat.
Yet, nyinyi u can have n or marry 100 women mkitaka. Hamjui/hamjali kua these things hurt women?
Leo hata nimechelewa but i dont gf ......😢😢😢wacha nisome comment
Eeeeeeish
Nairobi Ina Mambo 😅
Ladies,,please be honest with yourself,,if you've decided for marriage or relationship be honest to your partner,tell him everything you've been through,, don't allow him get information from other sources,,
Imagine loosing your marriage after so many years
Of which we call it a total waste of your life
Terrorist 😂😂😂😂😂this word cracked my ribs
Eery me sikwongeleshi stive sual😂
Lakini Kenna hakumsho poa ,what a dramatic ex 🤣
Player of the month😂
Please Steve angaliaga simu zote
😅😅😅😅watu mnatoa wapi nguvu ya kusimama ukiona stivo mi Naeza toka mbio had niseme mwiziii had kwangu Kwa nyumba Sasa wewe ukaharibuwa nyumba
After umepatikana ndio unasema ulikua umwambie. Ladies why do u lie such sensitive information to your husbands? Haingeenda ivi kama ulisema ukweli from the start. This will never be fixed, amejiletea yeye mwenyewe. hii ndoa imeisha ivo
Why hide a kid???? Am mamake clara thats how i introduce myself
waaaah😢
😅😅😅😅 jaduong umechezwa ya ukweli ,umetumiwa vibaya sana , wanawake wako hivyo kijana ya Kisumu 🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂 😂😂😂
Lakini utaambiaje rafiki yako ocs mambo ya kinyumbani?
So, that makes u what?
Au ndio akaa...?
Remain loyal to being single folks ... wueeh
Hapa ni wapi wakuu😂😂😂
Huyu ni mkora
Msichana amelelewa na single mother ni noma,mkora kama mamake wanaweza ata kuuwa😮😮😮,afadhali ule amelelewa na single father.
I can't hide my kid , i always say i have a kid ,
Kindly nisadie kujua vile unapata deleted messages.
Guys help me,,, what is the code to recover deleted messages please
Anytime I meet a man, I always introduce my son first even without introducing myself. He comes first so that whoever wants me must accept my baggage as well. So proud of him 😊
Same to me😅
Likewise,my son comes first😘😘
Due to the fact that we don't want to take other people's baggage,but its always wise to tell a man the number of children you have or if you dont
Same to me
I also talk about my son in everything ndio ajue my son comes first if he will love me he is aware of everything
The prettiest smile hide deepest secrets, the prettiest eyes have cried the most tears and the kindest hearts have felt the most pain.
True
I wonder, if you are a true man, you will be able to know whether a lady is having a kid or not unless otherwise. Her body will tell you all
Eeeh if you don't meet comrades you can't know whom you are staying with 😂😂😂
True
I gree with you 😂
@@MercyIndasi ni kubaya huko inche
Exactly !!kwanza hapo kwa introduction kila ni❤ ngoja ifike mwisho ujue the real person 😂😂😂
Mbona hatukusikia ya bwana. Frm phone yake?
Sijui mbona madem mnahide watoto wenu in the name of relationship😢😢,, ambia mtu ukweli niko na mtoto akupende ama akuache period
Ukweli uko mahali kwa hii comment
This single mothers look hot hata uezi jua mtu Akona mtoto wa 8yrs mahali waah..😅
😅😅😅ni kujimaintain
Girl child unaficha mtoto wako Kwa nini😂😂😂😂enyewe uyu ni mwongo number moja.never hide your kid no matter what ulipata msee mpoa lakini uongo nayo is on another level😂😂😂
Its very easy to say this when you are not in that situation of finding a good potential man.., yet he shows unwillingness to accept 'additional baggage'... So most ladies decide to be quiet about the issue as they date/test the man..., maybe planning to tell him later.., but soon they get pregnant, get stuck in the situationship, become insecure, etc..., then years go by without the courage to open up on the issue..!!!
Lets no judge too harshly.... we are just observers of a 20 min episode... its not an issue to solve by the roadside, amidst heckling, rising emotions, confusion, etc...
A good mother will never hide her daughters children.
Very true.
My kid is my first priority
Coast mothers do that all the time..... introductions mtapelekwa ninja karibu kumi.....
@@johnyjoe2894 Acha jokes
@@johnyjoe2894 😂😂😂😂yule ako na doh mob dio omuhusband omushidi..
She really looks innocent, whoever said looks are deceiving was right 😂😂😂😂😂
😅😅😅😅😅waah
Mejja
Never hide your kid to fit into a man's life...
Hiding her own child is a curse,she will never find peace not untill she stops hiding her kids,a man who loves u will love u with ur kids
Very correct
Wanapanga kunimaliza baba🎶
Wanapanga kunimaliza baba🎶
If someone anaeza ficha damu yake na kuikana that means they can do anything to you.
Be much careful much careful
I'm a single mom of 3 girls and so proud of them because they're my 1st priority. Ukitaka unikubali nao au uniache tu
You're the only mother they know. 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Exactly 💯
Exactly
Can I marry you with the kids?
Baba zao wako wapi ?
Wale watu wa DRESSING CODE! Leo mnasemaje? ONG'ECHEGI
Lks deceive 😢
Oh my God!!! it is wrong to think that you are the most clever person on earth!!! Being open is the key.
Wanawake na Siri ogopaaa😂😂😂
Siri zetu ni Kali. The reason as to why hamutawahi jua vile tuliongea kwa shamba la Aden tukiwa na shetani
It's only God who knows our partners.
Most are dangerous 😅😅
*God* : Adam! Adam!! where are you ?
Genesis 3 : 9
"Mamake mkora"truth will always set you free kama uliongea ukweli your mum hangeitwa mkora very shameful 😢
It's very painful mzazi akitukanwa coz of ujinga ya mtoto wake
No day ill hide my daughter every conversation utasikia tu jewel wangu ..mm naye mtoto siezi ficha juu ya mapenzi .. proud to be a mother of one beautiful daughter ❤
I dont even have a kid but any guy who comes my way in the name of love i usually tell him i have 2 kids nimpime
Njoo tulee afadhali wwe hufichi
Mothers in in-laws have become garbages,i am a living testimony,my friend sahi nikipenda kasichana kamtu,naenda kwa babake direct,hawa wamama ni wapumbavu sana!
People think men cheat more in the relationship,,,while in reality..,women are serial cheaters and they will even make you raise a kid which is not yours...,venye huyu dem anajifanya yeye n polite ..,wacha tu
But whats so wrong about 'raising a kid thats not yours"..?? The kid is innocent, and if needy, and you love the mother.., why should it pain too much..?? There are many people catering for kids they dint sire.., adopting some, paying school fees, etc.. Lets not be so dramatic and selfish. This seems a very needy family from Likoni.
This isnt so much a case of 'women cheating so much'... -but rather sour grapes and jealousy from men Ex's who dont want to ku'achika..., dont want to let go of their former women even when they have moved on...!! Why should this man be still lingering around, bitterly threatening his Ex that much..?? Now see.. messing up a marriage for the lady who may have decided to have a frsh start and bury her past...!!
@@rickopats4950 The man is also innocent as the kid. Why should he raise another man's child unknowingly? Only weak men can agree with you.
Why would a man raise another man's kid whist the biological father is still alive and kicking? Women have perfected deception.
Why must ladies hide their children 😂😂😅😅
NOT all. Personally I lie i have 4 boys mtu asonge akisonga
Comrades remains a key to open doors for marriages
Not for marriage but broken marriage or for divorce
@@RuthMwangi-d9r To those who wants to marry BMS should sanitize them first
Don't rush to date single mother find out the truth .tulisema game inaanza zero zero😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Really 😅😢
Hakuna game inaanza dakika ya zero na iko 1:0 lazma ianze zero zero
And you have a daughter plus unmarried sisters😮😅
@@marionhope8960😂😂😂 maybe all his sisters are single mothers
We share same birthday with Benta 😢😢 innocent girl I hope she heals from this drama
Cheers 🥂
Happy birthday
It seems we do live with strangers whom we doesn't know their secrets or their plan ooooh dear love don't continue blindfolding us we're tired sometimes show us we're dealing with the devil 😢
I normally introduce myself as mum Fulani,,,my babygirl my everything,heri hata mtu asinipende akie
So this man declaring that "naenda ku-report kwa OCS rafiki yangu..." as he walks away... So what exactly will he report as the crime this polite lady has committed ..? -is it having had a child before & not having told him..?? On that the lady 'allegedly' smashed na her jealous bitter Ex as claimed in the txts, bila proof..??
This being the mother of your other child.., whom just a few mins before you had pledged your love for.., What you need is to take some time.., sober up..., think through.., convene a meeting with the offending party, where openness can be guaranteed, talk things out.., listen to them, say your hurts & concerns..., of course under moderation of an independent arbiter.... then decide way forward..!!
This may just be the woman God intended for you.., and she may be your only destiny propeller!! Having a baby in the past isnt a gauge for branding and condemning a woman to eternal condemnation! Many single mothers panic at the prospects of rejection by a promising man, when he discovers that they have a child... so some tend withhold such info for later.., then years go by so fast!
Acquiring money thru pretense😅😅😅😅😅
Simpson is your second name
As for me, that's the end of the marriage,, you can never hide your own kid from me
Lakini sasa how can someone hide his or her child like seriously it can't make sense for really
My heart goes to the child 😢😢😢😢😢 mbona mungu hupatia watoto watu hawadeserve😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
You should be proud to be called a father or a mother it's not a crime
Watu wa coast wacha too, the second girl to lie while her mother is involved😢😢😢😢
Nawapedanga style yao..waweza ishi 40yrs na wao..unadhani unawajua na hujui..
Hata kwao labda si hapo.kwao malindi na hujui.uzuri wao Mtoto Wa mwenzako ni wako tayari
Napenda vile stevo huwa anachoma😂😂😂
Alafu anajitoa😂😂
No.... its not a good practice..!! He condemns and chocheas someone he barely knows..., or the real dynamics behind their decisions/situations.. -just 20 mins of encounter, and one or two sms's is being too rushy...!! -But huge life-long repercussions...!!
But again i must also condemn men/Ex's who.. even after breaking up.., keep popping their bitter/rude heads in the life of the lady who has moved on... If you even had a child together.., why the extreme bitterness and threats to your Ex who may have just found another man??? If it dint work.., let go.... with blessings...!! -achika..!!
Stivo where do you stand on FinanceBill 2024. Silence is supporting the oppressors.
I will personally buy a new phone and nipeleke my boyfriend kwa stevo intentionally apitie kichungi kwanza
Na vile Dem amevaa kama angel kumbe wah
Even though marriages get broken by BMS actions, lessons for the students of life outweigh pains of cons..
Dada Wa likoni😂😂panda ferry Na usijirushe ndani😂😂😂tafuta Teja mwenzako muongo mpendane.
Hata pengine benta Sio wa Kwanza.......napita tu
Tuache watu wa likoni jamani😅
@@stevewanga957 kama unajua huyu boy si unitafutie nimfute machozi plz🤣🤣
@@Hadijah-ro9lo lete namba nikupe connection faster
@@stevewanga957 🤣🤣🤣nitafute hapa marikiti
Kupata mtoto si issue, kuficha mtoto na kusmash when in another relationship ndio makosa. Lakini ukiona dame ako na nyash jua chances zake kuwa cheater ni 99%
Kuna dem hachezi ata mwenye anakaa ngiri
Checking in from united states of Ameruka 😂
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Me nko nimesota
Most of the coast ladies hupata watoi wakiwa very young that's why wanaficha watoto
Never trust a smiling face she looks like an angel kumbe ni saitan
I think once you know you are serious with a guy, let him know you and tell him the truth coz however much you hide one day it will come to light. And why should you love a man more than your child. Wanawake wanaficha watoto ni waongo hata kwa marriage.
Bro hapo hakuna wife 😅
Kaeni mbali na wasichana wa Pwani.
Mtakuja kujua wasichana wa Pwani ni waswahili na sio wa kufanya mke.
Being a mother especially single mother is not a crime just love and care for the innocent soul children's are blessings
Ata mama mtoi hajui mtoi ni wa lini jeso😂😂😂😂
The first priolity my daughter kama hatampenda mtoto wangu anakanyanga kubwakubwa akiendaga na sio tafadhali..period
Comrade please unaongezea chumvi sana kaka already you have broken this marriage
Niende na mwizi wapi? Siku 40 zimefika, she will regret big time, maybe if she was honest in the beginning he would have taken her and the kid
Madem wamepata chance ya kusema "my son/daughter cometh first"
Kwani wanaume hawajui mwanamke ashazaa??,
But why would a woman deny having a kid to a man she is expecting to live with?
Uwezi jua
Anytime nikiskia mwanaume anaintroduce any daughter of Jezebel to people as my wife,I shiver 🥶🥶🥶;none of these women is worth having titles on...
Hehehe.. get a man 😮
@@rosalineruguru2816 i'm thinking of it really 🤷🏿🤷🏿🤷🏿
Mtoto dio atakuchukia zaidi akijua ulikua unamkana sababu ya mwanamme
hawa watu hupeana simu na wanajua tu kuna kimbaya wnafanya nini huwa inawasumbua na kuficha watoto nini huwa mbaya na nyinyi...na vile amevaa nguo ya kanisa...weeeeh aki women the earlier u start being honest the better for ur soul
Hawajuangi kuna anti delete 😊
Zile deleted hawajui zitarudi 😂
Men! men! men! trust a woman at your own risk anyway I only trust mama
Kusema kweli, mtoto hafichiki, hata kama no miaka ngapi itajulikana tu, kwanza mtoto pia anaeza kuchukia kwa kumficha.... kimemramba 😂😂😂
ni inocent graduated milayas
Waaaa aki hizi rship acha nikae single
Ziko hanging 😅😅
eti ukae single
This lady has lost big-time, Likoni well presented
Big man, please get glasses to save your eyes from the phone screen.
Ogopa wasichana wa Coast......upole huwa kwa sura pekee na sauti.......mnashare hadi na majirani and you'll never guess or suspect