Tarbiyah of Children | The Right Way & The Wrong Way | Salman Asif Siddiqui

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  • Опубликовано: 5 фев 2025
  • In this talk, Salman Asif Siddiqui clearly defines what tarbiyah is and what it is not. A must watch video for every parent and teacher concerned about the future of our society.
    This video contains subtitles in English, Urdu, Arabic and Malay.
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Комментарии • 326

  • @nuzhatfatimafatima8672
    @nuzhatfatimafatima8672 3 года назад +6

    You are an asset for our nation. You are a Nation Builder. Please increase the spread of your message. This nation needs it desperately.

  • @m.hussainbarahvi5998
    @m.hussainbarahvi5998 5 лет назад +24

    ماشاءاللہ سر، کمال کی باتیں کیں ہیں، اللہ کی قسم۔ کاش ہم ان موتیوں کو چن کر اپنی زندگی میں شامل کر لیں۔

    • @ERDCPK
      @ERDCPK  5 лет назад +1

      بہت شکریہ جناب۔

  • @itsQuark
    @itsQuark 5 лет назад +12

    Masha Allah, what a blessing to have a person like you in our society.

  • @pardesidesifamily4724
    @pardesidesifamily4724 5 лет назад +4

    Kids tarbiah is an education. Every parents has to educate for their better tarbiah. Very nice speech. I learned a lot from your lecture now. Thanks a lot.

  • @mrsfaisalwaheed3132
    @mrsfaisalwaheed3132 4 года назад +1

    بہت ہی اچھی ویڈیو۔ اللہ‎ آپ کو اجر دے۔ سر آپ کی آخری بات کہ جب انسان اپنی فکر کرے کہ مجھے ٹھیک ہونا ہے تو بچہ بھی یہ سیکھے گا۔ اور جب ہمیں دوسروں کو ٹھیک کرنے کی فکر ہو تو بچہ بھی ساری زندگی یہی کرے گا کس قدر درست ہے۔ زبردست

  • @mehjabeenshaikh4607
    @mehjabeenshaikh4607 5 лет назад +14

    Super explain...me 2 kids ki mom hu 6 n 2..mere bhut question is topics se solve hue..me b best tarbiyah karna chahti hu bt yhi RUclips dekh and dekh k knowledge bdhta rhi hu..or bhut hi Bahtrin smjayaa sir aapne..fst time aapko listen kiya very best deeply no bored single moment.....mashallah allah tala aapko iska azar ata kare sir jazakllah.....khair..

  • @saraaiman6883
    @saraaiman6883 5 лет назад +22

    Sir ,I convey my deepest gratitude for opening my eyes towards the fault I was continuously doing to my three n a half yrs old ....may Allah bless u with janatul firdaus..ameen. Insha Allah from today itself I'll start my amendment, jazakh Allah khairan kaseeran

    • @khadijafatima6633
      @khadijafatima6633 5 лет назад

      sara Aiman im also a mother of 3 n half year old daughter...can i talk with you about my problem on your persnal inbox???

    • @NisarAhmed-bw2gi
      @NisarAhmed-bw2gi 4 года назад +2

      Sister ehtram ky sath arz kar raha hon.... Please kisi zinda insan ko jannat m jany ki dua na deya karen
      Zinda insan ko lambi r achi eman wali zindagi ki dua deya karen.. JazakAllah..

    • @muneebarain1022
      @muneebarain1022 4 года назад

      4as

    • @ms.gauher9102
      @ms.gauher9102 2 года назад

      @@NisarAhmed-bw2gi jannat ki dua hamesha deni chah ye or khatima bil emaan ka bhi

  • @muhammadsafeer283
    @muhammadsafeer283 2 дня назад

    Mashallah sirg allah pak apki umar main brkatin nazil frmain

  • @rimziabatoolvardarli8406
    @rimziabatoolvardarli8406 5 лет назад +22

    Very genuinely impressed and inspired , nations need people like him. May Allah bless him with more knowledge and goodness to share with us all! Ameen!

  • @gachafan2289
    @gachafan2289 4 года назад +1

    Bilkul main bhi namaz kae liye poochti hu app ki an ka topic bht acha hai

  • @azadkashmir9679
    @azadkashmir9679 5 лет назад

    کمال کی بات کرتے ہو جناب میں نے پہلی بار سنا ہے ۔۔اور آپ کی ہر بات کو فولو کرنے کی کوشش کرتا ہوں ۔۔۔اسلام ۔۔۔

  • @sanaullah6182
    @sanaullah6182 5 лет назад +2

    Salman Asif Siddiqui Sahib, ap ko pehli dafa suna aur bhut acha laga. Masha Allah

  • @MuhammadNaeem-gs7mr
    @MuhammadNaeem-gs7mr 4 года назад

    Sir Bohat khoob jo tariqa ser ap bata rahain hain tableegh walay yahee kam already ker rahain hain bohat khoob

  • @anamhasan131
    @anamhasan131 4 года назад +1

    You are worderful speacher💞 you are actually doing tarbiyah of upcoming muslimeen from the starting of their lifes so that they don't need to run here n there to understand Islam. 😇

  • @tomandjerry9618
    @tomandjerry9618 5 лет назад +3

    Pehlay ki mothers mazrat ka sath jesay meri nani ,as best mothers hain mashaAllah

  • @umefajar3649
    @umefajar3649 5 лет назад +36

    bro . ur talk open so many tangles of my brain as a parent ..thanx for your guidance .

  • @mohammedsalim2530
    @mohammedsalim2530 5 лет назад +1

    ماشاء الله تبارك الله بھت ہی عقلمندی سے پڑھا رہیں ہیں اللہ آپ کو سلامت رکھے امین
    جزاکم اللہ خیرا 🤲🏻🕋

  • @MamoonV18
    @MamoonV18 5 лет назад +2

    bohat shukria , behtreen , Allah ap ko achi jza de ..hamein in baton ki ashad zroort hay...asi vedio please jari rakhie ga ,,,

  • @HafizFaizanSayeed
    @HafizFaizanSayeed 2 года назад +1

    Jakallah for excellent talk

  • @asmabatool8250
    @asmabatool8250 4 года назад +1

    Thank u Sir
    U r real Helper
    Allah aap ko zindagi or sayhat dy

  • @uzmakhan9768
    @uzmakhan9768 5 лет назад +1

    Assalam o alikum
    Sir mashaAllah you are genius! Main apne bachon ki tarbiat kay liay bohat pareshan rahti hon, bachay bigar rahay hain.
    Aapki videos se main bohat kuch seekh rahi hon.Allah karay hm inki achi tarbiyat krnay main kamiyab ho jain or yeh hamaray liay sadqa jaria ban jain.
    Allah ta'ala aapki jaan,maal, sehat, rizq,eman or ilm nafay main barak ata farmain.aameen.

  • @ejazch9694
    @ejazch9694 5 лет назад +2

    MAA SHA ALLAH sir ALLAH ap ko lambi zindgi atta frhe r boht hee santive topic per baat kii ha

  • @aylamirza8328
    @aylamirza8328 4 года назад +2

    Good speaker

  • @MathwithMurtaza
    @MathwithMurtaza Год назад

    جزاک اللّٰہ خیرا

  • @AA-hm4tj
    @AA-hm4tj 5 лет назад +14

    Bohaaaat gehri batain ki hai, kamaaal maza aya
    Plz train more people to be like u

    • @mmirza7882
      @mmirza7882 4 года назад

      Masha Allah Sir , Great talk and very inspiring .Allah bless you with great knowledge .You are a big Asset for our country and I learn alot through this video .It changed my whole point of view.As a parent we all are very worried about our children Tarbiyah but Jazak Allah for helping and guiding us all through a logical way. It makes so much sense.
      May Allah bless you with lots of happiness and give you more strength to help our people with knowledge.Ameen.

  • @ninja_kidspk
    @ninja_kidspk 4 года назад +3

    Jazakallah sir, very comprehensive & precise lecture ,,,,

  • @aggy7882
    @aggy7882 5 лет назад +2

    👍👍 Dunyawi Education with Deeni Talim. 👌👌👌

  • @daniakhan491
    @daniakhan491 4 года назад +1

    Jazak Allah!!!

  • @sadafapple3635
    @sadafapple3635 5 лет назад +3

    Ap say bht kuch seekhnay ko milta hai jzk

  • @mrjack3374
    @mrjack3374 4 года назад +1

    ماشاءاللہ

  • @farhatabbas3899
    @farhatabbas3899 2 года назад +1

    Excellent

  • @uzmahussainfoodie
    @uzmahussainfoodie 5 лет назад +4

    Zaberdust, bahut hi behtreen tereeqe se aapne samghaya

  • @daniakhan491
    @daniakhan491 4 года назад +1

    Jazak Allah for showing me the light

  • @naveedbhukhari3151
    @naveedbhukhari3151 5 лет назад +1

    Mashaallah bhttt kamal guftagoo hy ...... great

  • @lahautef
    @lahautef 4 года назад +1

    Thank you for an excellent talk! Very beneficial. Much to reflect on and opens venues of improvements on the critical subject of tarbiyah. Plus, having heard several of your talks, through retrospection, one can identify the causes of behavioral issues around you. It is mind-boggling how is it that such a huge gap existed for so long in our society in Pakistan when this is the fundamental responsibility of every parent to know 'what not to do' with a child.... I especially appreciate your bringing up the Urdu complex and the implications of this complex in not being able to access and articulate deeper thoughts that usually your mother tongue enables you to do.

  • @Imshaista
    @Imshaista 3 года назад

    Sir ...big fan...u are the only one who is working on parenting genuinely
    Please introduce ERDC schooling system

  • @EAmaanIbrahim
    @EAmaanIbrahim 9 месяцев назад

    Masha allah inshallah your thoughts vl help us

  • @abdulwakeelawan8454
    @abdulwakeelawan8454 3 года назад

    ماشاءاللہ ماشاءاللہ ماشاءاللہ جزاك الله

  • @shumimdr667
    @shumimdr667 2 года назад

    Such a heart touching conversation /topic, a must needed for every society, may Allah Bless you brother 👍

  • @abdulwahab-ls8ti
    @abdulwahab-ls8ti Год назад

    Sir you are matchless

  • @syedhasan7840
    @syedhasan7840 5 лет назад +2

    Excellent and amazing to open the very different concept for our society, especially our teachers and parents attitudes is completely change to open concept and its all amount communication and very interactive

  • @topkitchenrecipe2842
    @topkitchenrecipe2842 5 лет назад +3

    I like ur information regarding tarbiah

  • @asmaahmad7652
    @asmaahmad7652 5 лет назад +8

    Brother, Jazakallah for your speech

  • @Fruqman
    @Fruqman 5 лет назад +11

    Masha Allah ,I wish I could give it a 1000 likes

  • @NaqashTV
    @NaqashTV 5 лет назад

    Jazak Allah Khear Sir. Masha Allah bohat zabardast batin bati hain aap ne. Insha Allah main aap ki in batun par zarur amal karun ga.

  • @naseemnazkhan41
    @naseemnazkhan41 4 года назад

    Thank Allah for Mr. Siddiqi.

  • @dilawaiz25321
    @dilawaiz25321 5 лет назад +3

    MashAllah great work

  • @awamichicken7105
    @awamichicken7105 5 лет назад

    Bht hi khobsert lecture.. Allah apko jazaye khair ata kry.

  • @sajidlatif4659
    @sajidlatif4659 4 года назад +1

    Right sir MASHA Allah

  • @cfr01
    @cfr01 5 лет назад +1

    Oh 🤩 wow, I am so excited your video has English caption available. This is so exciting for me. I am so grateful for your videos but I have trouble understanding most Urdu words so Alhumdulillah for the availability of English captions. Thank you 💐

  • @tomandjerry9618
    @tomandjerry9618 5 лет назад +1

    Zabardust sir

  • @inayachaudhary7084
    @inayachaudhary7084 2 года назад

    Excellent!!!

  • @nazirawan56
    @nazirawan56 5 лет назад

    thank you so much m bht seekha.right direction mli apny bachy ki tarbiya k ly.apni ghaltio ka b pta chla

    • @ERDCPK
      @ERDCPK  5 лет назад

      We are glad it helped you. Do share with others and you can watch several more helpful videos on ruclips.net/user/ERDCpk

  • @امامرضاعلیہسلامامامھشتم

    Great lecture very informative

  • @binishhussain_soundachievers
    @binishhussain_soundachievers 4 года назад +1

    MashaAllah. JazakAllah kaaier for these. Helping me a lot. And I love your Urdu

  • @studentofknowledge2649
    @studentofknowledge2649 3 года назад

    Very nice alhumdulillah I learnt a lot will try to implement inshaa Allah

  • @mrsqmrsq9861
    @mrsqmrsq9861 3 года назад

    Sir God blessed u.

  • @afshangul4513
    @afshangul4513 4 года назад

    I learn many things from u.u give me awareness .now i changed my point of view .thanks alot

  • @nargismasood9628
    @nargismasood9628 5 лет назад +3

    Beautiful video. Really worth sharing.

  • @wajituber5064
    @wajituber5064 5 лет назад +2

    Mashaallah Mashaallah... very informative.. highly motivated 😇

  • @ayeshabutt1829
    @ayeshabutt1829 5 лет назад +1

    Great👍

  • @sidrahmazhar8515
    @sidrahmazhar8515 5 лет назад +1

    JazakAllah..... bohot acchi baat aapne samjay hein.. Thank u ..

  • @khetimerakaam6477
    @khetimerakaam6477 6 месяцев назад

    Thanks and regards ☺️☺️

  • @rabiyaadil6702
    @rabiyaadil6702 5 лет назад +1

    Good jop mashallah kiya elm ata kiya allah ne apko

  • @cookingworld5120
    @cookingworld5120 5 лет назад +4

    priceless speech sir .

  • @talalc2428
    @talalc2428 5 лет назад

    Good 💐💐💐💐💐💐thanks

  • @noorjehanrajput6956
    @noorjehanrajput6956 5 лет назад

    Very nice leacters 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

  • @kiranfaisal4519
    @kiranfaisal4519 5 лет назад +32

    Sir your concepts are understanding.
    My suggestion is this,
    Try to share practical example, how we being parents can do this and that for good parenting.
    Try to share demo and examples.

    • @mslaiq5196
      @mslaiq5196 5 лет назад

      There are many other videos on Parenting and Tarbiyah which you can watch. You'll get some practical tips as well. Some link are ruclips.net/video/sg726sYhVxU/видео.html, ruclips.net/video/BwjM_gKivhs/видео.html

  • @ZubairKhan-er6rc
    @ZubairKhan-er6rc 5 лет назад +22

    سر اللہ تعالیٰ آپ کو جزاء دیں 👍 بہت خوشی ہوئی آپ کی لیکچر سن کر

  • @foodsrecipe9525
    @foodsrecipe9525 5 лет назад +1

    MashaAllah behtreen behtreen ihave no words behtreen

  • @saadiaraheel6355
    @saadiaraheel6355 5 лет назад +1

    Incredible
    Dua’s and Gratitude

  • @hafsakhan3898
    @hafsakhan3898 5 лет назад

    ALLAH apko lambi umar de bhai bhtt bhetreen smjhya apne JzakALLAH bhttt ☺️😊

  • @abuibrahim6987
    @abuibrahim6987 5 лет назад

    جزاک اللہ خیرا سر اللہ تعالیٰ آپ کو دنیا و آخرت کی خوشیاں نصیب فرمائیں آمین

  • @faizanfayaz2673
    @faizanfayaz2673 5 лет назад +3

    Great talk of your work

  • @anamnizamani9909
    @anamnizamani9909 5 лет назад +1

    MashaALLAH... Be blessed sir

  • @yasir3918
    @yasir3918 5 лет назад +1

    جزاک اللہ

  • @nana-386
    @nana-386 5 лет назад +1

    شكرًا لترجمه الفديو العربيه وأرجو ترجمه المقاطع الاخرى للعربية حتى نستفيد 🙏🏻

  • @AamirKhan-hc7vo
    @AamirKhan-hc7vo 5 лет назад +8

    Thank you so much ERDC, you are doing an amazing work, keep it up bro, God bless you

    • @mslaiq5196
      @mslaiq5196 5 лет назад +1

      Thank you for liking. Please share these videos so others can benefit from them as well.

    • @SairaSabir1443AH
      @SairaSabir1443AH 3 года назад

      @@mslaiq5196 shukran

  • @farhatabbasi5502
    @farhatabbasi5502 5 лет назад

    Thanxx alot for ur guidance, i changed my self after listening ur lectures,,

  • @ishratshafi38
    @ishratshafi38 9 месяцев назад

    Alhamdulillah..

  • @movieonweekend
    @movieonweekend 5 лет назад +6

    26:02 Salman Sahab your talks are very impressive MashaAllah. you talk a lot and emphasize about the importance of mother tongue. you encourage people to talk to the children in their mother tongue and not mix two languages. however, in your lectures you mix Urdu and English. Indeed there are many words of English which might not be translated in Urdu but words like magnetism, time, answer etc. have Urdu alternatives.
    May Allah reward you for your efforts.

    • @ERDCPK
      @ERDCPK  5 лет назад

      Thanks for sharing your views. InshAllah, if time permits, we will cover the subject in future sometime. But to comment briefly, public lectures may differ greatly in the needs as to what suits best - they are meant for wider audience, in contemporary flavor & proficiency of general public, more relate-able words & phrases than equivalent primary language words, profile of physical audience at the time of lecture like their proficiency, age, flavor, preference etc - Literary sessions or lectures on poetry etc available on our channel will differ from these for the same reasons and will sound more literary & so difficult for bigger part of the audience. Additionally, not to mention spoken/written differs too. So quite a few considerations but lets be vocal and very clear about kids that they should be allowed and facilitated to communicate in the language of their parents. All measures must be taken to support it in early years. Depriving them of their first language and forcing them to learn an alien one at cost of their first language is a crime and unfortunately its a widespread disease which we greatly condemn.
      JazakAllah

    • @movieonweekend
      @movieonweekend 5 лет назад

      @@ERDCPK but won't you agree that a language is learnt through listening and communicating not merely from reading and writing? If it was through reading and writing only then after passing our intermediate examination we all would be talking in pure Urdu unlike this mix and match that is normally used.
      I think that people who listen / benefit from your lectures are mature and literate enough to infer the meaning of an Urdu word that is being used. I learnt through Salman Sahab's lectures that مربّی is mentor, and a couple of more words.
      As for during the early years children not being not allowed to communicate in "an alien" language and encouraged to communicate in only their parents language, I think there should be an asterisk... It isn't necessary that the child has the same first language as their parents! A wide range of parents listen to these lectures and it depends on where the child is being brought up...
      Nonetheless, Salman Sahab's lectures are very enlightening and beneficial for parents from different walks of life.
      Jazakumullahu khairan

  • @faraashagabz
    @faraashagabz 5 лет назад +5

    Brilliant! This needs to be heard by everyone! Really enjoyed this talk. Thank you!

    • @mslaiq5196
      @mslaiq5196 5 лет назад

      Please share with as many people as you can.

  • @SohailKhanshinwari
    @SohailKhanshinwari 5 лет назад +8

    It is really fantastic. I watch a short clip of this video on FB. Then i Came here to watch full Video. .. Amazing Fact .

    • @ERDCPK
      @ERDCPK  5 лет назад +3

      We really appreciate you came here. We encourage you to benefit from this channel as much as possible and share it with others as well :)

  • @kishwersadaqat2054
    @kishwersadaqat2054 5 лет назад +1

    Ma shaa ALLAH very well said👍

  • @goldenrose1896
    @goldenrose1896 5 лет назад +1

    Very nice vedio

  • @phoolrani4878
    @phoolrani4878 5 лет назад +2

    AA EXCELLENT LECTURE...

  • @vlogsforallpeople6855
    @vlogsforallpeople6855 5 лет назад +1

    Bohtt awlaa

  • @usmanchaudhry2481
    @usmanchaudhry2481 5 лет назад +3

    MashAllah
    Very precise !
    I will share your knowledge InshAllah

  • @purposeoflife47
    @purposeoflife47 10 месяцев назад

    ❤ very good

  • @muhammadayyan1716
    @muhammadayyan1716 5 лет назад +1

    superb really great ...

  • @sumairagul3496
    @sumairagul3496 5 лет назад

    Great msg 👍

  • @bestlises3348
    @bestlises3348 5 лет назад

    I m completely agree and impressed with you and way of mentoring. I started watching you r lecture from yesterday

  • @misiitrends9440
    @misiitrends9440 2 года назад

    Apka channel best hay.May Allah grow u fast

  • @omarfaizan
    @omarfaizan 4 года назад

    SubhaanAllah Bhai. love from India

  • @farzananoor2272
    @farzananoor2272 5 лет назад +1

    Masha Allah Masha Allah

  • @mohsinkhalid3125
    @mohsinkhalid3125 5 лет назад

    Thanks bohat kuch sekhny ko milla

  • @sundusshahid3485
    @sundusshahid3485 5 лет назад

    JzakAllah khairan sirrrr
    Really really happy to listen to ur lecture. Allahuma zid fa zid
    BarakAllah.

  • @nairairfan8846
    @nairairfan8846 5 лет назад

    Superb...jazak allah khair sir

  • @ainafarooqui5076
    @ainafarooqui5076 5 лет назад +1

    Nice video.stay bless u

  • @jawadahmed5504
    @jawadahmed5504 4 года назад

    Great SiR..!! ❤❤❤
    May ALLAH bless you..!!