E78: Working Out, Approaching Muslim Women & Converting to Islam w. Sh. Abdullah Oduro

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  • @zohalabdurahman3697
    @zohalabdurahman3697 7 месяцев назад +22

    Great discussion. As a Muslim woman, I do love talks on masculinity, in an Islamic context which is truly different than in western context.

  • @hu6284
    @hu6284 Год назад +63

    Somali/Yemeni born in Canada, I've trained in Jujitsu, Muay thai, and wrestling for 12 years and hunt, alhamdulilah thank you for the discussion brothers.

  • @BUKHAREE
    @BUKHAREE Год назад +48

    MashaAllah, great conversations. So many gems of knowledge. We need people like Shaykh Abdullah to guide young men instead of “red pill” people.
    May Allah guide us all ameen 🤲🏽
    Thank you Br Ansari for this great work. May Allah bless you and your family

    • @TheAnsariPodcast
      @TheAnsariPodcast  Год назад +1

      Ameen! thank you so much for your wonderful comment and your effort of documenting masjids across america!

  • @Mr00000111
    @Mr00000111 Год назад +30

    Protect. Provide. Preside.
    Mashalla

  • @Mrx-qz1ol
    @Mrx-qz1ol 10 месяцев назад +8

    Sorry for the negative comments - the ummah is perfectionists. We dont say Alhamdulilah enough!! Thank you for your effort. Powerful advice

  • @The24Hima
    @The24Hima 10 месяцев назад +4

    You found yourself a new subscriber! I always enjoy Sh.Abdullah Oduro's conversations and I truly enjoyed this conversation. May Allah bless you and your team for the work you're doing. JAK.

  • @zohalabdurahman3697
    @zohalabdurahman3697 7 месяцев назад +3

    MashaAllah Khalid Yasin is a legend. A true legend.

  • @hiban5520
    @hiban5520 11 месяцев назад +12

    Thanks for the insightful discussion.
    For all my sisters out there, I believe talks about masculinity do not only teach us what to look for in a husband, but also what values we should seed in our children.
    It is also the duty of the muslim mother to get educated on these topics in order to raise our children and next generations of this Ummah on the right islamic values.
    May Allah guide us to useful knowledge.
    اللهم انفعنا بما علمتنا و علمنا ما ينفعنا.

    • @tifawt3736
      @tifawt3736 11 месяцев назад

      Should you not understand WOMEN instead of dismissing women. No efforts is made to connect with women who are much more evolved. It makes zero sense for women to dumb themselves down for men, it’s unnatural. This is why we’re in this mess in the first place.

  • @syedfaizanali367
    @syedfaizanali367 11 месяцев назад +6

    47:00 "Al Fat'tah" this moment moved me to like and Subscribe.
    May Allah Guide us All and opens the path that he chooses best for us

  • @mohammedsahor
    @mohammedsahor 11 месяцев назад +11

    They plan. And Allah plans. And Allah is the best of planners ~ Qur’an 8:30

  • @DaveFloJr
    @DaveFloJr 10 месяцев назад +3

    Sheikh was so on point! About to listen it them again.

  • @Anthony_r702
    @Anthony_r702 10 месяцев назад +9

    This is my first year practicing Ramadan. Last summer I decided to start reading Quran (English version). The more I learn, the closer I feel to Allah. I want to be around a community of Muslims to strengthen my iman. I want to check out a masjid but for some reason I feel so intimidated to go to one. Any tips? Any encouragement is really appreciated. Alhamduililah 🙏

    • @SokhnaRahma
      @SokhnaRahma 10 месяцев назад +3

      Salaam, maybe I’d recommend going to dhuhr salah (not many people generally do to work) and fajr on the weekday as people will go to work after. Going to Isha prayer generally has bigger crowds at places and on the weekends (Friday and Saturday). Depending on the community, some mosque are open outside of prayer, you could go to do Sunnah salah there/read just to get more comfortable being there. Look online if they have any group chat, there’s generally brothers/sisters/youth group but sometimes the WhatsApp’s QR codes are only posted at the mosque. Mosque generally have halaqah programs and courses throughout the week you can also join (mostly free!) Pray this helps!

    • @SokhnaRahma
      @SokhnaRahma 10 месяцев назад

      *due to work

    • @Anthony_r702
      @Anthony_r702 10 месяцев назад

      @@SokhnaRahma thank you so much!

    • @medlifeyep4042
      @medlifeyep4042 10 месяцев назад +2

      Brother, go on friday jummah, listen to the Khutbah (sermon), it will feel like home. May ALLAH make it easy on you.

    • @taha7538
      @taha7538 10 месяцев назад

      What state are you in brother

  • @commontouch1787
    @commontouch1787 Год назад +87

    To attract any women is easy, just be a man. Get ur situation worked out work on yourself and the deal is done. Islam is the perfect way to develop yourself just have some discipline, goals and control over your passions

  • @Mokhil
    @Mokhil 11 месяцев назад +10

    Let us work to be one Ummah. Ameen ya Rabbil Aalameen.

    • @yusufraage8554
      @yusufraage8554 11 месяцев назад

      Never gonna happen.
      It was narrated from ‘Awf bin Malik that the Messenger of Allah(ﷺ) said:
      “The Jews split into seventy-one sects, one of which will be in Paradise and seventy in Hell. The Christians split into seventy-two sects, seventy-one of which will be in Hell and one in Paradise. I swear by the One Whose Hand is the soul of Muhammad, my nation will split into seventy-three sects, one of which will be in Paradise and seventy-two in Hell.” It was said: “O Messenger of Allah, who are they?” He said: “The main body.”
      Sunan Ibn Majah 3992

    • @Mokhil
      @Mokhil 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@yusufraage8554 - Let's not be dramatic. I meant the main body. So our purpose is to becoming one Ummah.

    • @yusufraage8554
      @yusufraage8554 11 месяцев назад

      @@Mokhil I’m sorry I thought you meant coming together with all the different sects. My apologies.

    • @Mokhil
      @Mokhil 11 месяцев назад

      @@yusufraage8554 - No worries brother. We should always work towards one Ummah on Quran and Sunnah.

    • @serignebabacardia
      @serignebabacardia 11 месяцев назад

      Ameen

  • @ahmedaltayeb1737
    @ahmedaltayeb1737 7 месяцев назад +2

    I Really enjoyed listening to sheikh Abdullah . may Allah bless him and reward him well ❤❤❤

  • @Truth-will-prevail
    @Truth-will-prevail Год назад +11

    Masha Allah ❤

  • @YusufElias7
    @YusufElias7 11 месяцев назад +4

    Hope we can watch more podcasts like these on your channel. thank you for sharing.

  • @BloggingTawheed
    @BloggingTawheed 10 месяцев назад +1

    Masha'Allāh. May Allāh swt protect you 🙏

  • @ChiqueIndustries
    @ChiqueIndustries 11 месяцев назад +3

    To the point about failure in sports. I played very physical sports like boxing and football. I struggled with spirituality because I went through a period of constant failure. Never struggled spiritually more. Never heard someone talk about this. MashAllah great pod.

    • @RedaReda-vl9ff
      @RedaReda-vl9ff 11 месяцев назад

      Dont give up my bro,i wish you to enter paradise

  • @libvlog2264
    @libvlog2264 10 месяцев назад +3

    Beautiful Conversation

  • @dashanjackson7060
    @dashanjackson7060 10 месяцев назад +2

    Alhamdulilah My Brother

  • @sabco13
    @sabco13 4 месяца назад

    May Allah bless you both and all the Muslim Men who really live this way. I have not been blessed with men in family (for generations ) that are both religiously practise Muslims and good men

  • @matthewzavadil
    @matthewzavadil 11 месяцев назад +3

    Wonderful interview, may Allah (SWA) reward you both!

  • @Thehafizbanks9904
    @Thehafizbanks9904 10 месяцев назад +5

    This shekh really knows his stuff may Allah protect him jazak Allah khair for the video

  • @cledwards
    @cledwards Год назад +9

    Great episode, I met the brother Abdullah in December, no doubt the brother is swole and intelligent.

  • @mohamedalahmadani5174
    @mohamedalahmadani5174 Год назад +8

    Thoroughly enjoyed this podcast. Both the seriousness and humor were great to see.

    • @TheAnsariPodcast
      @TheAnsariPodcast  Год назад +2

      Alhamdulillah! Amazing to hear, working to become the best podcast out there for Muslims inshallah!

  • @hzskillz1721
    @hzskillz1721 10 месяцев назад +1

    MashaAllah this information is priceless for young men.

  • @TheBracedfrog
    @TheBracedfrog 6 месяцев назад

    This brother the Joe Rogan for Muslims. Mashallah akhi may allah give you continued success

  • @marzali8400
    @marzali8400 11 месяцев назад +3

    I was doing mma, and I torn both of my knees, and strained my back, it’s a spiritual mental and physical struggle wlh I needed to watch this, but I needed the injury cause I found out things about myself that I had no clue about, and eventually straightening me

  • @ummrahmak
    @ummrahmak Год назад +2

    Jazakhallahu khairen for these podcasts

  • @crystalsulton928
    @crystalsulton928 10 месяцев назад +5

    I pray that this high level conversation reach brother that are just approaching sister with sex not wanting to get married.

  • @missfabidia
    @missfabidia 5 дней назад

    MashaAllah

  • @RedaReda-vl9ff
    @RedaReda-vl9ff 11 месяцев назад +1

    Great podcast my bro,i wish you guys paradise

  • @sbaptiste5327
    @sbaptiste5327 10 месяцев назад +1

    Amazing that I instantly understood the Ratatouille reference and Master Splinter reference 🤣 I’m 33yrs old as on March 16th Alhamdulillah🤲🏾

  • @mdanisurrahman5587
    @mdanisurrahman5587 Год назад +5

    I just subscribed thanku for such a video need more videos

    • @TheAnsariPodcast
      @TheAnsariPodcast  Год назад +2

      Thank you! Sh. Mustafa Briggs will be next week inshallah.

  • @aqibgazisports3046
    @aqibgazisports3046 Год назад +6

    Great podcast episode

  • @Sofianedkh1990
    @Sofianedkh1990 Год назад +5

    Great podcast brother 👌

  • @suhaillegend9081
    @suhaillegend9081 Год назад +3

    Beautiful people God bless you❤

  • @Mrx-qz1ol
    @Mrx-qz1ol 10 месяцев назад +10

    Brother - lets talk about Sudan, the worst displacement so far. Ummah lets grow big and include the whole ummah!!!!

  • @sonoranherphaven1761
    @sonoranherphaven1761 Год назад +4

    This is a great podcast!!!

  • @marouan-sa86
    @marouan-sa86 11 месяцев назад +1

    ما شاء الله تبارك الله عليكم

  • @christinathreatt749
    @christinathreatt749 7 месяцев назад

    I loved this🎉

  • @ShortBarrelRaifu
    @ShortBarrelRaifu Год назад +2

    31:36, it reminds me just how contradicting between the concept of 'Age of Consent' & 'rights to alter one body'(Or Something like that) when both of them require Maturity & 'Big Brain Power' in Decision Making Process, also Severe/Significant consequences that comes from it.

  • @kamila-n2l
    @kamila-n2l 10 месяцев назад

    I would love to see Amjad Tarsin in your podcast inshAllah.
    He’s a host of “ SoulFood” podcast and it’s the best podcast I’ve listened to.
    He delivers religion in a beautiful way❤

  • @abdullahahmad9300
    @abdullahahmad9300 Год назад +5

    Excellent

  • @midnitkween8609
    @midnitkween8609 11 месяцев назад +1

    Gr8 content ❤

  • @DaMooks
    @DaMooks 11 месяцев назад +1

    Peace and blessings on y'all brothers. A great interview right here, so much to learn just listening to this. Assalamualaikum and greetings from Chicago

  • @Noordeen708
    @Noordeen708 11 месяцев назад +2

    Trust islam is all about life.

  • @RealCoachMustafa
    @RealCoachMustafa 11 месяцев назад +5

    I know Ratatouille and Splinter, therefore I'm both young and old at the same time.

  • @Lilwayne911Eminem
    @Lilwayne911Eminem 10 месяцев назад

    Alhamdulillah

  • @GeorgeLista
    @GeorgeLista 11 месяцев назад +5

    I’ve met many Muslims and all say that they thought I was Muslim by the way o look and behave. I even lived in a couple Muslim countries and until they found out I wasn’t, I was treated like just another local.

    • @napez4126
      @napez4126 5 месяцев назад

      So… when are you becoming Muslim
      Your external form is already there SubhanAllah… don’t forget we have the next life to face … become Muslim InshaAllah

  • @jeemfaxx3243
    @jeemfaxx3243 10 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @donotdisturb6597
    @donotdisturb6597 Год назад +2

    U should cover the awrah of the man in the thumbnail.

  • @muneraali4944
    @muneraali4944 Год назад +5

    I like the comment.
    I am Abdullah

    • @TheAnsariPodcast
      @TheAnsariPodcast  Год назад +2

      😂 sheikh got jokes

    • @SanaAhmed
      @SanaAhmed 9 месяцев назад

      Yeah but I need more of an explanation on zabiyah vs halal meat. That wasn’t clear . It needs an end to end explanation.

  • @suzukigsxfa9683
    @suzukigsxfa9683 11 месяцев назад +3

    Married. Never dated her. Looked once, very minimal talk. 3 kids. Divorced after 25 years. Feminism. Alhumdullilah 🤲 bad woman.

    • @SanaAhmed
      @SanaAhmed 9 месяцев назад +4

      I won’t defend feminism and that meaning needs to be broken down with context. But islamkcally, husbands and wives are a team. There’s a whole generation of trauma where men weren’t taught to help women at home and the women were assimilated into men’s responsibilities too. Then the whole Islamic courting is so misunderstood because so many south Asian parents don’t let the spouses get to properly talk to each other and understand their preferences. Islam is liberating but culture holds us back big time.

    • @napez4126
      @napez4126 5 месяцев назад

      Not a bad woman… a woman in normal circumstances

  • @piqueny8872
    @piqueny8872 11 месяцев назад +4

    Within my family circle daughters were sent to work to become the financial breadwinners & retirement fund for the parents.
    Leading to social oppression some forced culture marriages to keep the money within the family
    While the sons money went towards themselves boys only vacations expensive cars, clothes lavish bachelor lifestyle
    Parents/ sisters took care of all the adult responsibilities groceries bills rent cooking cleaning maintainer of the family home
    This plan backfired on the brothers now they have choose to marry they expect the wife to cover the mens Islamic rights work provide ect additional to doing the house chores
    All by themselves juts like mom/ sisters did
    The brothers are going through domestic issues in there marriages all because parents never taught the how to be man and take responsibility within Islamic law
    Making them feminine childish and completely disrespectful

    • @SanaAhmed
      @SanaAhmed 9 месяцев назад +1

      So many Pakistani women I know are going though this .

    • @napez4126
      @napez4126 5 месяцев назад

      This is antithetical to core Islamic values and practice.
      The women’s money is her own.
      Do Pakistani people not go to learn deen at madressa or are there no taleem lessons for women to empower themselves and learn Hadith?

    • @piqueny8872
      @piqueny8872 5 месяцев назад

      @@napez4126 the south eastern Muslims worship cultural traditions of what I’ve witnessed. Part time seasonal Muslims
      When it comes to money or inheritance there greed over takes religious rules
      Oppressing women is normal told to suffer in silence or they get threatened with abuse or divorce or exile from the family

    • @نشاطسلطانانصاری
      @نشاطسلطانانصاری Месяц назад

      @@SanaAhmed Pakistanis barely follow Islam.

  • @hamdiabdulkadir2222
    @hamdiabdulkadir2222 7 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @aali8526
    @aali8526 11 месяцев назад

    What name did you mention here? 1:11:32

  • @NMB002
    @NMB002 11 месяцев назад +7

    As a Sub and fan of this channel it really bugs me that as a host you dont shed lights on the struggles and challenges of fellow muslims in AFRICA like you do for Palestanians and the middle east. Its hypocritical of you to be biased when it comes to your fellow humans, the life of those muslims in those countries are as valid and equal as of thodse in Palestine....

    • @Freetoughts
      @Freetoughts 11 месяцев назад +7

      Salaam aleykoum brother, as a African muslim myself I hear your frustration but try to give the host decent naseeha as we should. Maybe he is not aware or biased. It’s a human thing. Write him an email about out African brothers and sisters. Maybe he can invite someone to talk with about the struggles they are facing.

    • @amooshukroh8297
      @amooshukroh8297 3 месяца назад

      Please let not conclude most people do not know what is happening it is what we see online and in television

  • @snlukita5702
    @snlukita5702 7 месяцев назад +1

    As a Muslim woman, I see feminism differently. The main role of woman is indeed more as a wife and mother. However, I don't see that it's wrong when some women choose to be single and focus on career or make money. In this world, there are some women who have unfortunate family members who rely economically, physically, and mentally on them. And these women choose to take care of their existing family members, instead of creating a new one (getting married and having kids). Women cannot have everything.

    • @robotnitchka
      @robotnitchka 7 месяцев назад

      Muslim men who blame this on feminism have clearly never read a proper islamic book. Khadijah herself supported her entire family. She was lucky enough to be that rich. Most of us aren't. These men have one rule for themselves and another rule for us.

  • @defrocker0569
    @defrocker0569 Месяц назад

    Ratatouille was a good animation, but it is also a stewed vegetable dish

  • @MrNotAFag
    @MrNotAFag 5 месяцев назад

    will you ever invite Br. Nouman Ali Khan

  • @Thameenah271
    @Thameenah271 10 месяцев назад

    Was that peach sparkling ice👀

  • @maimounadiew3976
    @maimounadiew3976 7 месяцев назад

    Boys need to see men in order to be man, so 👍 ✔️ May Allah SWT protect our boys and man.

  • @mariamasum4191
    @mariamasum4191 10 месяцев назад +1

    I need an advise a non Muslim would like to marry a Muslim sister so he accept converting to islam the sister is happy but worried what if someday after years of marriage he covert back to his religion there would be no way to back off cause kids would be involve so what advise can anyone give to guarantee this guys conversion as an intention but not for the woman purposely or love cause it might fade away we don’t know?

  • @ts4095
    @ts4095 Год назад +1

    Real talk we hurting they killing us aswell without touching us

  • @khalkar
    @khalkar 10 месяцев назад +4

    As soon as he starts defending Tate, while not "defending" Tate, I'm turning this off. Keep spreading that toxic masculinity and you'll destroy the Ummah faster than any external forces ever could.

  • @luckytheredpsyjedi3645
    @luckytheredpsyjedi3645 2 месяца назад

    ALLAH Achmani RUclips!

  • @samiral-alami186
    @samiral-alami186 8 месяцев назад

    I strongly disagree with the agenda that Pixar movies are unislamic. How does the movie Up go against Islam?

  • @SanaAhmed
    @SanaAhmed 9 месяцев назад

    @theansaripodcast can you please clarify Sheikh Abdullah’s stance on zabiyah vs halal and yours?
    I’ve been taught zabiyah halal meat only , no exceptions.
    But it sounded like from what you said about halal, you define it as no pork plus non halal meat like fast food meat like Chick Filet?
    I’m genuinely asking because there is are Hadiths and sayings from the companions also saying if you want your prayers to come true, take care of your diet.
    I cringe at vanilla extract too because it has alcohol in it. I didn’t catch a complete explanation from Sheikh Abdullah or you .

  • @maymofoo8637
    @maymofoo8637 9 месяцев назад

    Splinter!😂😂😂 yoooo you both got homework to do!!!

  • @ishyusuf4320
    @ishyusuf4320 11 месяцев назад +1

    Zabiha in Uk and America is not zabiha. Most of the population are not practicing Christians.

    • @bigfatpoo
      @bigfatpoo 11 месяцев назад

      Fr I don’t think slaughter houses in the US and the UK even mention God during the slaughtering.

  • @iamryuk3681
    @iamryuk3681 Год назад +1

    Please do a podcast with Jamie she convert to islam in 2012 she was a expboy magazine model

    • @almurabitun
      @almurabitun Год назад +2

      NO

    • @mohammedF976
      @mohammedF976 11 месяцев назад +1

      NOOOO 😮
      She's not a man

    • @SanaAhmed
      @SanaAhmed 9 месяцев назад

      What happened to sitting respectfully and interacting. Yaqeen does that with the women speakers. Come on folks . It would be great to get her perspective .

  • @adms8169
    @adms8169 11 месяцев назад +2

    34:00 what's this wahhabi garbage. North America is not a Christian country anymore lol . You'll have a good dame atheist slaughter your animal lol.... they are not even close to being people of the book just because they live in North America.... give your head a shake. God dame salafi

    • @SanaAhmed
      @SanaAhmed 9 месяцев назад

      I need an explanation on this too from Sheikh Abdullah and Yaqeen because it was left unclear. I’m more for the zabiyah halal way as I see that as a complete process for halal meat preparation. Plus halal meat stores are common so why would you go zabiyah only?

  • @omotayoali6370
    @omotayoali6370 11 месяцев назад

    Halal means permissible but that doesn’t mean it natural or organic

  • @maymofoo8637
    @maymofoo8637 9 месяцев назад

    😅 “ratatouille moment”

  • @bassinblue
    @bassinblue 11 месяцев назад +2

    It's becoming hard, but nonetheless we are men and must work hard. There is no other option, even animals have to work (hunt). I will say to my brothers, please be careful, especially if you life in the west. You must KNOW and find out about the woman you want to marry. None of us are perfect, but stay close on your deen, work hard, stop the stupid spending on meaningless things and Allah will guide us.

    • @SanaAhmed
      @SanaAhmed 9 месяцев назад

      But I will say I feel the same way about men too. I’m finding men that don’t save themselves for marriage but will reject a practicing Muslim woman and look down on her with no hijab. Understand the Muslim woman’s perspective too in the west.

  • @usmanaremean3315
    @usmanaremean3315 3 месяца назад

    Master splinter a ledge

  • @WeltB
    @WeltB 6 месяцев назад

    I totally disagree with my brother. Womanly things are not natural. The older woman have always been teachers of the younger woman. There are Muslim women out here who make that very point. I agree with everything else but that point. Being a man and a woman must be taught. That is different than being a male and a female.

  • @NewBeginnings2.0
    @NewBeginnings2.0 11 месяцев назад

    Loool we only know Ratatouille 😂

  • @StaminatorBlader
    @StaminatorBlader 10 месяцев назад

    just watched that khalid yassin clip that was recommended and as a muslim i gotta say this is a very old and very misguided argument that comes from a utter mistunderstanding of basic scientific concepts. "something exists and is complex therefore god". completely illogical and a gross simplification of the processes that god works through. probably also an evolution denier which you can only be if you never genuinely educated yourself on the factual theory of evolution. when you deny a true fact of gods method that is 100% proven on the basis of ignorance, you might as well deny god himself.
    i also believe that it misconstrues the meaning of the quran verse, which is referring to those signs being present in the inner aspects of things, not in the outer superficial complexity that that guy misunderstands.
    this is an attempt to argue in semi scientific terms and with faulty "logic" to prove something that can only be perceived through faith, someone who has faith will see gods light absolutely everwhere, but something merely existing and being complex in absolutely no way logically necessitates god.
    the attempt to mix metaphyiscal and metaphorical sight with evidence based science can never succeed and will only result in the dilution of both.

  • @Thameenah271
    @Thameenah271 10 месяцев назад

    Splinter!!!

  • @jihadsalaam9.2.5
    @jihadsalaam9.2.5 8 месяцев назад

    Free Palestine 🇵🇸

  • @talharahman1980
    @talharahman1980 11 месяцев назад

    Not really, have this Pakistani friends cousin, who’s Pakistani wife from Islamabad turned out to be a big time cheater and married his cousin for the papers.

  • @haroonhazeen9778
    @haroonhazeen9778 5 месяцев назад

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