vlogmas :: by the lakeside :: day 12 (a chat about women supporting women)

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  • Опубликовано: 19 окт 2024

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  • @mickim3011
    @mickim3011 10 месяцев назад +50

    Oh, Sweet Sandy, please don't let the haters affect you this season. You bring so much joy to MOST of us each vlog. You are one of the sweetest, kindest women I follow. Don't change a thing. There is truly no need for haters venting on any of us. Just do like my Canadian Memere used to say... "Make like a duck & let it roll off your back." Sending hugs your way... 🤗

    • @bythelakeside
      @bythelakeside  10 месяцев назад +4

      I love that saying. Thank you so much, I appreciate you (and every comment you've ever left). :)

  • @Jillaneaj
    @Jillaneaj 10 месяцев назад +50

    You have created a loving community of people who support one another just by being who you are. These toxic individuals who do nothing but hurt others are shameful and not worth mentioning.

    • @jeanniedavison9337
      @jeanniedavison9337 10 месяцев назад +1

      I enjoy your RUclips and your Instagram posts so much! So sad to hear there is anything negative being said. Please keep pressing on and shining!

  • @marilynjacobs9227
    @marilynjacobs9227 10 месяцев назад +27

    We as women should bond together and build each other up. We can do more together than we can separately. Congratulations on having a successful business and life.

    • @OneCatCrafting
      @OneCatCrafting 10 месяцев назад +1

      It’s not just women it’s human kind. It should be a given that women support each other or people with similar experiences support each other. But every single person we pass in life is going through something and kindness costs nothing.

  • @Fencepostfibers
    @Fencepostfibers 10 месяцев назад +39

    Please don’t let negativity dim your shine. There are wounded women who need our prayers. ❤ Shine on Sis!

  • @sharonhines9698
    @sharonhines9698 10 месяцев назад +35

    Well spoken Sandy! Let's all be KIND to one another! ❤

    • @sheltait4194
      @sheltait4194 10 месяцев назад +1

      Good on you to talk about a troubling situation. ❤

  • @leeanutson1026
    @leeanutson1026 10 месяцев назад +22

    Sandy - I have been watching you for years and you are a lovely genuine person. I used to do home parties for many years (PartyLite) and I was extremely successful, and I had many wonderful customers and hosts. But every once in a while, I encountered a woman who was determined to take me down for whatever reason. It was absolutely crushing when it happened, and hard to deal with their venom. There is a saying in sales that does help: “don’t let anybody deflate your state”. I owe you a huge debt of gratitude as you have helped me get through some of the darkest times of my life. I lost my husband prematurely to cancer five years ago, and then pandemic hit, and some evenings, the only voice I heard was yours. So keep doing what you do and live your best life. ❤

  • @Kay-xb9cp
    @Kay-xb9cp 10 месяцев назад +14

    I think when someone is critical of you or your lifestyle or your family, it is often because they are unhappy with their own life, and perhaps even jealous of yours. It makes you wonder why they watch your videos if they dislike them so much….bizarre!
    I love your Vlogmas, so professional put together and so gentle and kind….snippets of your life that you generously share with the world. Thank you so much 🎄🎁⛄️

  • @Riptide1976
    @Riptide1976 10 месяцев назад +20

    Well done Sandy. I think you hit the nail on the head. Miserable people want to make others miserable. Sad for them. Keep your sweet self going with the smile you always have!

    • @KimClinger
      @KimClinger 10 месяцев назад +1

      Your comment reminds me of Dharma on “Dharma and Greg”. I’ve always admired her way of interacting with people who were spewing negativity about others. It is sad that there are people out there who are hurting so badly inside that they need to hurt others. Funny how they choose some of the nicest people for that. (And she’s not even running for office 😉)

    • @Riptide1976
      @Riptide1976 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@KimClinger Sometimes it’s so hard to take the high road but in the end, it feels good!!
      I was a Dharma and Greg fan too.

  • @trishadickshinski1473
    @trishadickshinski1473 10 месяцев назад +20

    Sandy-I’m so sorry that you had such a horrible experience with those hateful comments.
    Remember that you are a bright light and you need to keep on shining! ❤

  • @heather-p
    @heather-p 10 месяцев назад +12

    Unfortunately bashing is the downside of social media. They are cowards and wouldn’t say it to their faces. Ignore it as I said yesterday they are jealous and they must have really unhappy lives to find this as a way to fulfil themselves. Very sad. The main thing is to remain being the lovely you and carry on doing what you love x

  • @opalberry2033
    @opalberry2033 10 месяцев назад +9

    I cannot fathom anyone saying anything mean about you , i have followed you for years and i want to thank you for every single video you have ever made. I adore your channel

    • @bythelakeside
      @bythelakeside  10 месяцев назад +1

      I appreciate that so much! Thank you.

  • @homespun5
    @homespun5 10 месяцев назад +13

    Thank you for taking from your family and your day to post vlogmas. You are just elegant and classy. I don't knit any more, but I love to see you, your home and family, and your great cookbook collection! I wonder if some of the mean comments come from women who are not satisified with their own situations. Please continue to bless the rest of us and just block the ones who are jealous. I'm high-fiving you from the US; keep up the good work.

  • @erikaadams9730
    @erikaadams9730 10 месяцев назад +7

    I love you Sandy!!! You are doing great things. Keep doing what you’re doing and try to forget the petty, judgmental gossip. You are loved by so many. ❤

    • @bythelakeside
      @bythelakeside  10 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much, for all the support through the years. I appreciate YOU!!

  • @debbiebrame9629
    @debbiebrame9629 10 месяцев назад +7

    You and your family are lovely people. I enjoy your vlog every year. Ignore the trolls. Jealous people say mean things to make themselves seem better. Way to rise above their level. You are a classy lady. ❤❤❤

  • @barbaragaspard1989
    @barbaragaspard1989 10 месяцев назад +5

    Just know I can tell you this from experience ( a family member), this is how they feed, it's the only way these feel good about themselves, so sad. Sandy, I watch and enjoy every video you put out and appreciate sharing the way you do. I especially look forward to ALL your advent videos, so lovely, thank you❤

  • @leetrayer8639
    @leetrayer8639 10 месяцев назад +5

    I am glad you spoke of this. I am a long time knitter who lives in an isolated area in the USA. I find you inspiring and applaud your skills...especially your attention to details, organization, business acumen, kniiting skills, and your obvious (to me) love of your family, home and friends. Kindness is a choice...and one I strive to practice..so, thank you for braving the social media 'world."

  • @jocelyneimmell9304
    @jocelyneimmell9304 10 месяцев назад +12

    Don't let the haters get to you. Your sweet and I enjoy your videos.

  • @robinkuechle7345
    @robinkuechle7345 10 месяцев назад +5

    I look forward to seeing you on Vlogmas every year. They are just jealous and I am so sorry there are people out there like that.

  • @OneCatCrafting
    @OneCatCrafting 10 месяцев назад +1

    The mentality that anyone is “entitled” to rag on other people is mind blowing. If you don’t like my house, my free online content, my personality, find something else to do with your time. I have a very specific personality and I don’t filter myself. My days are filled with my job, my home, my pets and my partner and I have zero free time and zero desire to make someone feel “less than” because they’re different than I am. Online bullying is alive and well and not restricted to school aged kids. I will always stand up for my podcast friends against this type of behaviour.

  • @jessicaboynton5832
    @jessicaboynton5832 10 месяцев назад +6

    Just keep being you. Judgement equals insecurity.Don’t take it to heart,it says so much more about their miserable lives. You are amazing💕

  • @irenegrech9963
    @irenegrech9963 10 месяцев назад +7

    Sandy you just keep on doing you. Women should stick together, full stop. Take care x

  • @susanjoy2311
    @susanjoy2311 10 месяцев назад +3

    Glad you spoke about the negativity that women direct against each other. It is very often the elephant in the living room and toxic comments get swept under the rugs. Your work and vision bring so much sunshine into our lives and I, for one, cannot thank you enough. There is no place for the mean girls in our lives. As we approach Christmas, let us promote and practice good will towards all. Cheers to you and your family!❤

    • @bythelakeside
      @bythelakeside  10 месяцев назад

      Yes to all of this!! Thank you!! ❤️

  • @CrazyMomma007
    @CrazyMomma007 10 месяцев назад +6

    I am a new subscriber & I can 100% say whoever is chatting negatively is full of envy & displacing their unhappiness onto you. Your life looks perfect (& especially during holidays) I think ppl feel envious. Ignore them bc it's coming from a bad place they're in- nothing to do w/you. I love your calm voice, positive outlook & love of all things creative. Don't change a thing & hopefully they will find some more meaningful happiness in THEIR lives. ❤

  • @entwinedmar
    @entwinedmar 10 месяцев назад +3

    I wait the whole year for this vlogmas, 3 years on a row now. You are local to me, well, nearby local.
    Seen how you share your most intimate space and people brings joy to my heart. Taking the best of the holidays and share with us just to make the holidays special is something not a lot of people do, I thank you. I send love and cheers.

  • @susanmorris3822
    @susanmorris3822 10 месяцев назад +3

    Dear Sandy, for the life of me I can't imagine what negativity anyone can find in you or your wonderful videos!!! People who are unhappy and full of "hatred" need someone to beat down to make themselves feel good. Your no. 1 in my book for all your hard work and your love of your home and family. Love always and be yourself!

  • @deliad8826
    @deliad8826 10 месяцев назад +5

    You are such a bright light for my Christmas season. There is no need for unkindness and even as you shared your experience, you were kind and true to yourself. Thank you for all you share and the joy you bring us.

  • @lisalovesstitchin
    @lisalovesstitchin 10 месяцев назад +7

    Oh Sandy, that's just awful. People are so cruel and also very inadequate that they use online platforms to be mean to people they don't even know. I'm sorry you had to deal with the negativity and hurtful comments, you're right that women need to look out for each other as we have enough to deal with already. I absolutely love whatever you share on here and look forward to every podcast/vlogmas and I appreciate you taking time out of your day to vlog as I know the work that goes behind creating content for a channel.

    • @bythelakeside
      @bythelakeside  10 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you, I appreciate that. :)

  • @DanaBarbieri
    @DanaBarbieri 10 месяцев назад +12

    Keep shining your bright light, Sandy. ❤❤❤

  • @Kaet_RN
    @Kaet_RN 10 месяцев назад +2

    I can’t imagine anyone being negative about your cooking! You cook beautiful meals and are a baking expert! You plan so many meals and baking for the holidays. Maybe people are jealous? But they can get a book from the library and learn to cook also!

  • @christytschappat2592
    @christytschappat2592 10 месяцев назад +5

    Sandy, know that you are not alone. I’m having the same kind of week. You are such a sweet person and you create such beautiful things. It is so easy to see that these people aren’t happy with their lives so they must break down others. Clearly I can see jealousy is involved here. Especially if it’s about your purchases and choices. Know this they may be hating on you but I’ve been watching your channel for years. I know what you’re about and they won’t change my thought about you. ❤

  • @monikaberzins7960
    @monikaberzins7960 10 месяцев назад +3

    Love your channel, It gave me comfort during my husband's illness and passing, Keep on doing what you are doing, Merry Christmas and all the best in the new year.

  • @jenkershner2970
    @jenkershner2970 10 месяцев назад

    I don't know why I continue to be shocked by people being nasty, but I do. I cannot imagine spending my time tearing people down but sadly there are plenty of people who do it. I think it's a brave thing to put yourself out there and I thank you for all the years of inspiration and loveliness you've provided.

  • @francesaceste2469
    @francesaceste2469 10 месяцев назад +5

    Just continue to be the positive lovely person you are. The world is full of negative and jealous people just dismiss them from your thoughts…they are not worth your time. ❤️👍

  • @abbywelker-HaciendaHomemade
    @abbywelker-HaciendaHomemade 10 месяцев назад +5

    Amen, Sandy!! Well said!! Women supporting women is one of the most powerful forces in the world today!!!! 🥰🥰🥰
    And that dill pickle poutine looks SO GOOD to me!!! 😆

  • @lisagimblett8646
    @lisagimblett8646 9 месяцев назад

    Please do not let the negative comments ruin your holidays. I think you are a genuinely positive and kind person. I enjoy watching your podcasts... they always bring me joy.

  • @hooksbookspodcast
    @hooksbookspodcast 10 месяцев назад +5

    Oh Sandy. I’m so sorry to hear that! Shame on those woman for judging and bashing you! You are one of the sweetest & most creative women I know and I’m so happy to support you! You have lots of love out there! Shame on them! HUGS!

  • @pamelarivera5058
    @pamelarivera5058 10 месяцев назад +6

    Well said! For me is envy and unhappy hearts. I enjoy your Vlogmas and podcast. Continue!

  • @elisaa.7424
    @elisaa.7424 10 месяцев назад +4

    You’re a working mom and I’m glad that I found your videos … ignore these jealous poor people .. I will buy some of your bags soon..😊

  • @sherrymurray5433
    @sherrymurray5433 10 месяцев назад +6

    I have been watching you for years. You are my favorite at Christmas time💜🎄 Sending Holiday Cheer and Health🎄

  • @denisediauto9618
    @denisediauto9618 10 месяцев назад +3

    I recently saw a wall hanging that says "Sprinkle kindness like confetti". I believe you do just that. You have created a beautiful space here, and I, for one, thank you for it and all your hard work. You are inspirational. ❤

  • @kristinahill3708
    @kristinahill3708 10 месяцев назад +3

    I find it to be an absolute JOY to support other women. You are a gem, keep shining! 💫

  • @Cathyhnat-tg7eo
    @Cathyhnat-tg7eo 10 месяцев назад +2

    Sandy I am so sorry people had nasty things to say. I totally enjoy your podcasts. My husband said to me sounds like somebody is jealous of her. I said I agree. My mom who is in heaven now always use to say if you can’t say something nice don’t say anything at all. I raised by children with the same words to live by. They make me proud they are raising their children the same way.. Just know that there are a lot of people who enjoy watching you and admire your work. Sending hugs

  • @lauracurry9917
    @lauracurry9917 10 месяцев назад +2

    I so enjoy your vlogmas and all your vlogs. What a crazy world we live in that people feel the need to be so awful.

  • @vickymaddenbonillas5910
    @vickymaddenbonillas5910 10 месяцев назад +1

    You are a lovely person and do a marvelous job with your business! Unkind women are either very unhappy with their own lives or are simple minded. Unfortunately, there our those in current society that support this behavior. Stay the strong woman that you are! There are many of us that shy away from being on RUclips because of this issue. I enjoy watching your beautifully put together episodes!

  • @susannegrant3831
    @susannegrant3831 10 месяцев назад

    with the wealth and flexibility of content online, there is SO much to choose from to watch, listen and follow. You can really customize your likes and how you want to spend your free time. I am so busy, Sandy, that i can't properly share online. but I am happy how i spend my free time knitting, quilting, sewing, cooking, baking, and gardening. for you to share your projects and how you wish you could finish all of your projects is very endearing. Thank you Sandy

  • @kathleen6805
    @kathleen6805 10 месяцев назад +5

    Stay positive and keep shining through everything and everyone that makes you happy. I love your podcast and the beautiful things you create ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @heleendykstra3608
    @heleendykstra3608 10 месяцев назад +3

    Good for you for speaking out against women being nasty to women. If they don't like your content, turn it off! I watch new vlogs sometimes that aren't to my taste and I just don't watch it again. There's no need to b..... about it. Clearly there are plenty of people who do like your content, I for one love your vlogs and have watched them for years! Don't be discouraged Sandy, your viewers love you and appreciate all the work you put into these lovely vlogs!

  • @andreabritz4572
    @andreabritz4572 10 месяцев назад

    These are people with small minds and small hearts. Your own strength is taking away any power they think they have.

  • @neenathatsews1085
    @neenathatsews1085 10 месяцев назад +4

    two of my favorite youtubers quit because of those mean sites. please ignore the trolls~ you're fabulous 😊

  • @margaretlyons8764
    @margaretlyons8764 10 месяцев назад +3

    Oh I am so sorry that happen. I feel it’s the world of the world anymore. So sad. Keep up the good work! I love your cooking!

  • @HawthornCottageCraft
    @HawthornCottageCraft 10 месяцев назад +1

    You are much loved in this community, Sandy…..don’t ever underestimate just how much. You bring so much joy to us and respite in our busy, chaotic worlds. There are always people who feel the need to bash others. It’s perfectly legitimate to have differing opinions from others and have different tastes, but it’s NEVER ok to personally attack others. I heard it said recently that often the things that annoy you about someone else is a reflection of what you yourself feel is lacking in your own life…what you wish you had. You keep doing you. You work hard and deserve all you have. Maybe the haters need to invest the time they take to bash others in working just as hard as you do…

  • @stitchychris6065
    @stitchychris6065 10 месяцев назад +2

    Love that garland! Sounds like a great idea on how to display them. I'm finding social media is so negative these days. It puts me in a bad mood. I'm 49 too and I don't have the patience for it. I want to see the positive side of social media again.

  • @annab.5052
    @annab.5052 10 месяцев назад

    Haters will hate -- don't let them change you, Sandy. You are great, you keep being the great mother, wife, business owner, and RUclipsr you are! Do not waste your energy on a Hater. Haters hate because of jealousy, envy, insecurity, loneliness, fear, and the possibility that you remind them of something broken or missing in themselves. For a hater, every nasty comment is just their way of saying "Hey, I am here! Watch me HATE! It is not within me to contribute in a positive way right now." Whatever they hate about you, I bet they hate it within themselves twice over. I feel sorry for the haters, their lives must be a misery.

  • @peggydid
    @peggydid 10 месяцев назад +3

    I love your channel, Sandy! And your bags! I plan to get one...eventually! They are beautiful!
    I've heard of other channels having negative comments. I think there's just a few ppl. trying
    to ruin all the vlogmasses that they can. God bless you, Hugs! Peggy

  • @jrebj00
    @jrebj00 10 месяцев назад

    I appreciate you calling it out. I have never understood why women insist on being so mean to other women. We have enough up against us without turning on each other.

  • @Knitwitmenow
    @Knitwitmenow 10 месяцев назад +4

    Omg Sandy…I Love you so much! You are so talented and creative and such a good person. I just started Knitting a year ago and found you last year. You are my favorite RUclipsr by far! Please don’t feel bad for other women judging you. They are just all jealous of you. They want you to fail. But you are a strong woman and just know that I support you in every way. I’m always so excited to listen and see you on RUclips. I literally go on RUclips everyday because of just you. You are totally Awesome! Please continue to share with all of us. I would never ever say anything negative about you. I admire you…and wish that I could even come close to what you do. Trust me…you are completely Great! Love Love Love you. Hugs infinity girlie 💜 Take care and I can’t wait to see your next Vlog.

    • @bythelakeside
      @bythelakeside  10 месяцев назад +1

      You are so sweet, thank you!!

  • @Sarah-bf3yb
    @Sarah-bf3yb 10 месяцев назад

    Sandy, I was touched by your chat about women supporting each other rather than judging. Thank you for speaking about this. Thank you for everything you share. Your videos are always inspiring. ❤

  • @nanettekroupa1371
    @nanettekroupa1371 10 месяцев назад

    I love your videos, Sandy, and I am a 67 yr old snarky atheist cocktailer that has a short attention span… you are that good! So ignore the haters and jealous people, the embittered people that can’t grasp gratitude, cherishing one’s loved ones and wanting to make your space in the world beautiful. I don’t know why people are so uselessly mean, but please ignore them and know you
    are valued like a dear friend to so many of us out here. Also: LOVE the project bag I bought from you! ❤️ from Nanette in San Francisco

  • @lorithomas1780
    @lorithomas1780 10 месяцев назад

    I’m so sorry to hear about the negative comments! If people don’t like what they are watching they just need to mind their own business and change the channel. Just remember there are a lot of people that love watching you!❤

  • @Anotherprairiegirl
    @Anotherprairiegirl 10 месяцев назад +16

    Bravo …well said! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻❤️🇨🇦

  • @monamaxwell7570
    @monamaxwell7570 10 месяцев назад

    I love your videos. There will always be unkind people, but know for every one unkind person there are many, many more of us that adore you. 🥰

  • @KKnits
    @KKnits 10 месяцев назад +1

    You bring kindness, calmness, and beauty to us. I love your creativity. Ignore the bad comments. They are either hurting people or those who think they have the right to dictate to others and love to shame and trample. It’s the victim culture where folks think they can say nasty things on line, and no repercussions, but they are mistaken, there are repercussions for negative words on line. There are those who notice. And down the line, it will bite them back.
    I wish you success! I enjoy the time with your videos!

  • @kathyleblanc2215
    @kathyleblanc2215 10 месяцев назад

    I sure hope all of these great comments are encouraging for you. I was telling my husband about this and he said "make sure you give her an encouraging comment." I was thinking so many people have said it way better than I, but i do want you to know that I always pick your podcast first when I see you have made one. It has been a blessing to me, thank you

    • @bythelakeside
      @bythelakeside  10 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much! I feel so much support and know this community is kind and loving.

  • @bevcoakes8227
    @bevcoakes8227 10 месяцев назад

    Sandy, please don’t let the haters rob you of your joy. You are a kind and inspirational person and I love all that you share in this space - the knitting, shop info, cooking, recipes and snippets of your day to day life. Please don’t change a thing. Shine on!

  • @Susi1406
    @Susi1406 10 месяцев назад +5

    Very well said!! ❤ we are here because we appreciate you and support you. 🤗 🎉

  • @suemcevoy5510
    @suemcevoy5510 10 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks for sharing your life and talents with all of us! Love and light to your family this holiday season!

  • @mistyblue5312
    @mistyblue5312 10 месяцев назад +4

    Christmas Greetings Sandy! Poutine… so Yuhmmy! I love a mug that says “biscuits” on it. Sending you comforting hugs. Just enjoy the season. 🎄🎄🎄🎉🎼🎅🏻🧶🧶

  • @darlenewatkins4999
    @darlenewatkins4999 6 месяцев назад

    I am just now catching up with your Vlogmas posts and I am so very sorry that you were bullied....especially by a group of women!! I find your videos so very beautiful, I love seeing your daily activities!! I feel that there are sadly so many people in this world that are miserable, unhappy and jealous of other people's lives. Those that appreciate you, the time you take in sharing your life, your knitting, your holiday baking, your business are the ones that truly matter. Please don't change a thing!! We should all stand in support of one another and hopefully these women will find their way in this world one day soon!!

  • @darbylogan8730
    @darbylogan8730 10 месяцев назад

    Sandy, somehow I found your channel soon after my mom passed away. It was a hard season of loss with my Dad dying soon after. Your presence has brought me so much joy and comfort over many years, most especially in those years of extreme change. Keep doing you! You are so talented and you have the gift of compassion and insight. Let go of all the negative people who choose to bash. You are beloved by many more. Darby oxo

    • @bythelakeside
      @bythelakeside  10 месяцев назад

      I'm so sorry for your losses. And I appreciate you being here.

  • @susancutt5726
    @susancutt5726 10 месяцев назад

    Wow Sandy I am so sorry that there are people out there (women) who act this way. I’m 62 years old and I can not wrap my head around what has happened to kindness? Where did it go? Respect? I raised a beautiful kind daughter who was bullied throughout school because these girls were jealous of her. That’s all it ever is so hold your head high and know that for every mean girl out there you have the admiration and support of ten times that. I really do believe in karma. Social media is the downfall of society! Just be you Sandy because you are so very kind!

  • @Sfcmarmar
    @Sfcmarmar 10 месяцев назад

    It is difficult to overlook the negative posts. But know that there are so many of us who watch you with great pleasure! Thank you!

  • @amandafryar7168
    @amandafryar7168 9 месяцев назад

    I hope you’ve been flooded with more support since coming out with this, I agree that woman on woman bashing is so hurtful and unnecessary. I admire your ability to move on and do what you want and what you love no matter what 😊

  • @heatherwoods4012
    @heatherwoods4012 10 месяцев назад +1

    I appreciate you opening up and sharing specifically what affected you yesterday because it continues to shed a light on how we all have an impact on others, for good or bad. Sadly, sometimes people do not choose kindness. People are different places in their own evolution. I for my part greatly enjoy your channel. Take heart. Take care. Do not let the haters get you down.

  • @GrammaC
    @GrammaC 10 месяцев назад

    I absolutely love you and your podcasts. Ignore the mean people. They are obviously jealous and very unkind. You are sweet and loving and don’t deserve the bashing. Hugs!!

  • @janetholler9931
    @janetholler9931 10 месяцев назад

    Sandy, you are kind and gentle and you don't deserve the negative comments. Your podcast is wonderful. I agree with your comments about supporting others in business and in life. Please know that you spread joy, Here is a bit of JOY coming back to you.

  • @marymcleod9236
    @marymcleod9236 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your pain. Absolutely as women we need to reach out to one another in love and kindness. You and your podcast are such a bright spot for me. You are doing such good things for our knitting community. Love from Whidbey Island on the Salish Sea in Washington State.

  • @brendataylor5220
    @brendataylor5220 10 месяцев назад

    the beauty of getting older is not having the need for drama. Your podcast was the brightest spot for me during the pandemic when everything was drama and chaos. Yours is a beautiful, safe, kind space for us all to escape and enjoy ourselves. I can't comprehend the mean spiritedness and unhappiness that leads people to verbally tear down others. Thank you for what you give us in this community. 🫂🥰

  • @vanessasale1137
    @vanessasale1137 10 месяцев назад

    I am in Belgium and I watch your vlogmas each year ! It is always a good moment for me , you have a wonderful family and even if my life is very different from yours, I can appreciate these differences. Just forget about them and continue to share these nice moments with us, please ❤❤

  • @michellegross3737
    @michellegross3737 10 месяцев назад

    I am a viewer here but do love to see what you're creating & how you are so loving with your family. Stay strong in what you do & how you do it.

  • @heidic543
    @heidic543 10 месяцев назад +1

    Oh my goodness Sandy, I am shocked to hear that anyone could even dream up negative things to say about you, but sadly you are right, those people are out there. Hurt people hurt others. You bring joy and inspiration to me every time I watch a vlog or a podcast, and I love your beautiful spirit. Keep on being exactly who you are.

  • @marujaperezgarcia-estan5249
    @marujaperezgarcia-estan5249 10 месяцев назад

    You are one of the sweetest person I’ve ever known. Those bad comments have nothing to do with you, they show how those people are, not you. ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sherriepaulsonmiles8461
    @sherriepaulsonmiles8461 10 месяцев назад +1

    Dear Sandy, I too have been recently affected by mean and deflating comments and actions. Your vlog and content has always made me think of you as a warm and gentle person. And so when the kindest of us are wounded, we all are wounded a little too. My hope and prayer for people is that they are able to detect their own flaws and that amends are made. In the meantime, I do self-care, serve where I can and try to bless others (oh, and knit a lot!!!)❤

  • @michelewalty7991
    @michelewalty7991 10 месяцев назад

    Hurt people...hurt people. Don't give them control over how you feel about yourself. You are perfectly and wonderfully made. Never forget that.

  • @bernbee1679
    @bernbee1679 10 месяцев назад

    So well said, thank you for speaking out. Unfortunately some people have such miserable lives they try to take others down to make themselves feel better. It’s their problem not yours, just keep doing what you do. 💐

  • @wandarumney6952
    @wandarumney6952 10 месяцев назад +1

    I must say of all the videos I watch this time of year yours is my favourite. I feel bad to hear of the negativity out there and hope it does not affect what you are doing as most of us enjoy and look forward to watching your videos. Take care.🇨🇦🎅💕

  • @kristinekinigson1949
    @kristinekinigson1949 10 месяцев назад +1

    Sandy, thank you for sharing this. I am so sorry you have had this negativity thrown at you now. Those women must be unhappy and quite frankly, probably jealous. I totally believe and practice supporting my women friends and people I admire. You are one of them. I have one of your Everything totes and love it. I hope to one day add a bag or two more. Have a great rest of the week!

  • @ramonafirehorse
    @ramonafirehorse 10 месяцев назад +1

    Sorry you had to deal with all that Sandy. I’m glad you shared and glad it mostly isn’t bothering you. That is definitely one of the joys of getting older. You care less what other people think. ❤

    • @ramonafirehorse
      @ramonafirehorse 10 месяцев назад

      😂 I thought Glen just opened a block of cheese 😂😂

    • @bythelakeside
      @bythelakeside  10 месяцев назад

      😂😂🥰

  • @agillsfo
    @agillsfo 10 месяцев назад +1

    You are so sweet and I love all your podcasts and Vlogmas! Please don’t let mean-spirited women get to you! I am very proud of what you are accomplishing! ❤ you are a bright light in an otherwise mixed up world. Sending you lots of love and warm hugs!! 🥰

  • @amstingley
    @amstingley 10 месяцев назад

    I’m sorry to hear you have had some negative/hateful comments. Unfortunately, there are people who thrive on hate and drama and use it to hurt other people. There are so many people doing wonderful things out there and I really appreciate all your positivity and thoughtfulness. I know it takes a lot of effort and creativity to do 24 days of vlogmas and it really puts me in the mood for the holidays. Keep up your positive work and making your beautiful products. Happy December!!!!

  • @christinalundborg2666
    @christinalundborg2666 10 месяцев назад

    Sandy…….so we’ll said…. i love you!!!!!! …..so many love you for what you do! You inspire all of us! The ones who say negative things are miserable people! And not worth a millisecond of our time or thoughts😍😍😍

    • @bythelakeside
      @bythelakeside  10 месяцев назад

      Thank you for everything YOU do, Christina. You are a wonderful friend and I appreciate you so much. ❤️💫

  • @Mac00012
    @Mac00012 7 месяцев назад

    I just recently found your page, and I am watching this for the first time.
    What a sad, negative and unhappy group of women they must be to do something like that, and I hope you haven’t had any more negative people doing that kind of thing. You seem like such a kind and genuine person, and I am so happy to have found your site! 💕

  • @deannpost4432
    @deannpost4432 10 месяцев назад +2

    Sending you a big hug from Texas! I love watching your videos and think your work is amazing!! I have a few items of yours that were gifted to me and let me say, you are so talented! Thank you for inspiring us to be crafty. I just received some Christmas sock yarn in the mail today that I ordered from the Cozy knitter. I just cast on a pair of socks! Wishing you and your family a joyful season!

  • @sonjasonja2222
    @sonjasonja2222 10 месяцев назад +1

    You bring so much joy to so many! I’ve watched you for years and enjoy your vlogs so much. Know you are an important part in helping others in this Maker community feel connected. ❤️❤️. Love the garland!

  • @Knitnana
    @Knitnana 10 месяцев назад +2

    It's so hard to hear the negative. You're such fun and so pleasant to watch! I used to make bags as you do, and it's a wonderful business - I have one of your leather bunny bags and love it! We all need to support each other but we also need to let the criticism of jealous people roll off our backs. Love you, hang in there!

  • @valeriedeangelis4970
    @valeriedeangelis4970 10 месяцев назад

    Sandy you addressed the situation with the most amazing grace and insight. I am not surprised because that is how you are. Do know how much joy you bring to so many people.❤

  • @kyto812
    @kyto812 10 месяцев назад

    Feeling compelled to add to the support. I’ve been watching for years and look forward to your vlogmas. Ignore ignore ignore anyone who feels otherwise. Love all the cooking, beauty suggestions, project and overall inspirations. Keep it up!

  • @eveyabdul6010
    @eveyabdul6010 9 месяцев назад

    I watch your vlogmas every year and find it very comforting. Keep being you and loving your life🥰🇬🇧

  • @kayebakos9991
    @kayebakos9991 10 месяцев назад +1

    So sorry that there are trolls out there that can’t find better things to do with their time. We love you and what you do and what you share with us. ❤ please don’t let the ding dongs get you down!! 🤗

  • @Millie.C
    @Millie.C 10 месяцев назад

    It really breaks my heart when women bash other women. Thank you for sharing this hard topic ❤️ I absolutely love your content, it's a big source of inspiration for me and it's so soothing, I am very grateful for you and what you do.

  • @lizellinger4336
    @lizellinger4336 10 месяцев назад

    I will never understand how some people find joy in being so ugly to or about strangers on the internet. You are nothing but sweet and kind and supportive and I suppose that’s threatening to people who are the opposite of all of those things.