When you commit to a social event, be it a meal out or simply going to someone else's house for dinner, a certain amount of protocol is required. In today's parade of social morons, etiquette is necessary; after all, the most unacceptable behavior is offending another person. Those screaming the loudest about being offended are the very individuals who callously offend others. This woman was ignorant, disrespectful and offensive: the gentleman was well within his rights to hold her to account.
Or maybe she just had an assignment due that evening like she told him. Had you rather go on a date with a woman ready to sabotage her future for a first date. She was wrong for being late and not interacting with him tho but stop throwing that red flag bs at everything
@@analea6531 Then she should have arranged to reschedule the date. The purpose of a date is to get to know each other-which did not happen there.. How would you like if a guy did that to you?
It was a setup. Probably a "sh*t test". He absolutely should have not paid. He also should've immediately ended the date. It was a "no win" situation, imo.
If you have homework due that day, you don’t go out on a date. It is interesting women say a real man would pay the whole bill, but a REAL WOMAN would sincerely offer to help.
A woman showing up is the ABSOLUTE bare minimum. Do not allow these women to believe that them showing up is some type of privilege that you shoulr feel honored. It’s the bare minimum.
When she get out of medical school she not going to reach back and buy a brother a meal that’s working on his life or studies. Nah ladies yall got the game Fcked up🤣
First guy did the right thing. She wasn't on a date, she was there for free food. If she wanted him to pay, he should have received her full attention. If she couldn't good him her full attention, she should have rescheduled.
If you're taking a woman on a date and she isn't paying attention to you then just leave her to pay the bill. Back when I was dating I didn't tolerate this type of behavior from any woman. If a woman acts like this she isn't into you so why waste your time on her?
Wrong! treat females the same way they treat you, females use men for his money but she makes as much or more. Today's dating is not like the 50's when men did those things. The independent female takes care of yourself and pays your own way. 😮
The first man: he should have walked away the moment she disrespected him by bringing her homework. He should have paid for the whole bill since he stayed under her conditions
3:00..If this guy says, he met and married his daughter's mother in 2014, that means his daughter should be 9 - 10yrs old. She's not a teenager yet. What man starts giving his daughter at that age dating advice?..smh 😳 🙄
When she pays with her husband's credit card: She apparently loves to devour all the best there is on the menu. Perhaps she should NOT be allowed to order anything that she cannot cook for her husband.
That is totally her husband's fault for being a Simp. Simps always get married. Simp always get taken advantage of. They will not listen. They have to go through it.
For Mr. Millionaire, let's see how his attitude changes when wifey-poo divorces and takes 1/2 of his stuff. He must remember, when he coaches and condones the simp ways, momma is backing it up with her advice, and it aint positive for a good marriage.
Yeah...... I dont pay for women! The older I get, the more I know I will be alone until death! It's just not worth all the Hell! If I want company, then I go out! Then when I get home there is peace and quiet! I like that! I really like that!
Women in replies seem to think "strong and independent means men still paying for dinner, grow tf up, and pay for your own food like an adult and act like a grown up, I'm a women who use to believe "feminism" but then grew up, I suggest you women do the same, and don't ask for proof of me being a women, I don't owe you that.
btw I only "believed" in it, when I was a child, stupid, and a dumbass, I can act grown though, and am, unlike 24-40 year olds, seriously grow up, and be actually independent. (for once.)
Negative, no interaction and doing homework, if he was a priority she would have left her laptop, good job you did not pay for her, look for a woman who would pay attention to you
He was BOTH right and wrong. Right was the choice to NOT pay her bill. Wrong was the choice to continue the date when she showed up with her homework. I have known, but never experienced, serial dinner daters. Women will do forever dinner dates to get a meal, but provide no ROI. No ROI means NO meal.
@@winniethepoohandeeyore2 I was thinking, maybe she had her laptop with her so she could go off to class and study afterwards, but not during the actual dinner date. I'll rather wait and see to be sure before judging.
IDGAF. I don't need, nor worry about, being a "real man". Providing is one thing, but this ish has gone way off the rails. Ill just save my money, & keep to myself. (And yes, I'm fully capable of paying for the date.)
If a date starts out in the beginning by going “south” (I.e. bringing homework, bringing friends, suggest going to a high end ($$$) restaurant, ordering more food to “take home”, etc. … I’ll immediately reschedule (with caution) and make it very clear that last minute BS will not be tolerated. You did the right thing my friend. I once had a date (1st) where the woman wanted to go to a high end fancy restaurant at the last minute - we met at a local pub for a drink and appetizers. I had been to the restaurant before and it was good food, but quite pricey ($40 per person). Yea, first dates are more of a “meet & greet” to gage your compatibility with each other.
It is bizarre that the women think he should essentially pay for her to do her homework. Seriously? Do modern women even understand what a date is? They literally think strangers owe them money for nothing. No, we don't owe you anything just for showing up!
It’s her fault for not canceling the date that she was studying for her class! The father should tell them the truth and his daughter’s will be in his pocket for life!!
The guy is wrong because he shouldn't even be doing dinner dates. When are we going to learn that the small investment weeds out this kind of behaviour? Coffee dates,ice cream or something that you would normally do is just fine for the lady that likes you.
Right! A so-called real date is reserved for the point where the 2 people have been seeing each other for a while. Start with an inexpensive one and slowly build up to a nice one. And, yes, a woman who is into a guy will accept that. She is there to be with him not to use or exploit him.
@@gabem6863 We agree on this. It's not about being cheap. I mean I personally hate having to do this (Inexpensive) as I don't mind even paying when I meet up with my friends and the money shouldn't be the focus. However, right now we have to do it until the person shows that she's into you. Special treatment and reward should be given to those that have the qualities that we look for in a person and being a manipulative and selfish gold digger are not those qualities.
Funny how women try to say that who invites is the one who pays. Women never ask men out on a date. And in the rare instance that they do, they still try to pin it on the man
Thats why you dont take what women say seriously, like when they say men are shallow for wanting a skinny virgin woman but in the same sentence they say they want a 6ft guy who has a 6 pack and makes 6 figures.
When women bring a friend(s) on a date, she is clearly indicating she does not want to be alone with the man. Her intentions are to exploit the man as much as she can, especially when she brings girlfriends with her without telling the man taking her on the date. My tactic: agree to meet at the place of the date, show up early, observe from a distance to see if she has someone with her. Leave immediately if she has someone with her and without notice! Never let them get away with wasting your time,attention and resources.
"Relationship math if you can't take care of yourself you can't take care of this person" He's raising his daughters to NOT BE ABLE TO TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES 😂
My dad always told me to pay to go 50/50 because you never know what emergency came up with your date. I would offer to pay when I was dating husband, but he always paid. I never ordered the most expensive plate.
It wasn't a date, it was a one-way study session. She saw him as a food extension, without telling him. When you are on dates, the focus should be on each other.
Well ya the nurse option is a no go but the fact that shes a student means she's most likely broke so she needs that free meal. When she actually had to pay i gurentee that cut into her food budget for the next week unless she gets a Billy Beta Bucks to buy her dinner 😆
That man is a dumdum. Kevin Costner the Hollywood actor, paid his wife $1.5million/yr for so many years tax free allowance. He also had all the other bills covered, yet she divorced him and took him to court seeking half his wealthy assets of $300million. Covering all the bills is not a guarantee of happiness or, being a man..😌
If a man asks a woman out on a date, it's his responsibility to pay the check. Period. That doesn't include her hair, makeup, and her other incidentals. That's on her. But,if you're going to ask someone out on a date, be sure you both know what the date will entail. Remember the 6 Ps. Proper planning prevents piss poor performance!
I should turn the tables, create an OF account - and get paid in my content to nod and say "Everything will be fine" - "When actually nothing will ever be fine again." Don't worry. Just the seasonal fluctuations in the hormone sector, and Darling's wall will come flying..." (a dark premonition whispers "Drama") I think she needs a hug after the shower.
Woman here, yes, you did the right thing. She should have cancelled the date. Our daughter had to stop dating, while in nursing school, as she was going after her RN, because of the time it took. My husband paid for all dates. Why? Because I was focused on him, and our relationship. I never ordered more than he ordered, price wise. If he ordered beer, I would order ginger ale. Women wanted equal rights, give it to them.
Rich dad; extreme advice for daughter... could work if she only dates in his "sphere" of influence if rich dad is surrounded by like minded, leveled up families AND daughter is happy with that slim selection.
Daddy now thinks he's above everyone else. Little girl raised thinking she's a princess. Life will knock her down. But daddy will keep shelling out the money to her.
It was fine he didn't pay. She was rude and stupid. Of course all the comments about how he should've paid were from women...Not every man can get an income that allows them to pay for everything. Not possible.
She was looking for another Free meal. He was on a date she wasent.
Wasnt
@@RashadSims-bh3zz..absent? Wasn’t?
@davidj.leavitt7176 yea lol spell correctly dammm basic grammar
She just wanted a free meal.
It wasn't a date, it was a free dinner. She disrespected him and deserves to pay for herself.
Well said 👏🏾 👏🏾
Society treats men like we are objects to be used then discarded. Not like human beings. They dehumanize us every day.
Damn right. it was free meal no more free meals 😅
When you commit to a social event, be it a meal out or simply going to someone else's house for dinner, a certain amount of protocol is required. In today's parade of social morons, etiquette is necessary; after all, the most unacceptable behavior is offending another person. Those screaming the loudest about being offended are the very individuals who callously offend others. This woman was ignorant, disrespectful and offensive: the gentleman was well within his rights to hold her to account.
I wouldn't care if it was like one extra $5 item even but a whole 3 courses? No.
Daddy lives on a fantasy world. He's setting his girls up for failure by sending em straight to the finish line with 1000 other women chasing 1 man
Yup, he will realise when his daugher turns 40 and still can't hold a man, and he has to pay for her children from one night stands
How is this child's father dictating what a real man is?
This dude looks like he's faking the funk. Rented jewels and a loud mouth
@@GeorgeofVA it's not a woman.
He is a millionaire because he is living off paying his workers an ideal living proper wage.
The moment she showed up with her class assignments screamed red flag right away. Shows she considered the date to be low priority
Or maybe she just had an assignment due that evening like she told him. Had you rather go on a date with a woman ready to sabotage her future for a first date. She was wrong for being late and not interacting with him tho but stop throwing that red flag bs at everything
@@analea6531 Then she should have arranged to reschedule the date. The purpose of a date is to get to know each other-which did not happen there.. How would you like if a guy did that to you?
General rule of thumb for guys is - only pay for her share if you enjoyed the date AND she has a strong interest in you.
She should of paid for his meal because she wasted his time.
He might be a millionaire but he is still a simp
What the h-ll are you talking about!?
The times have changed.
Men used to want to pay the bill.
Today women demand men pay the bill.
All she had to do was be up front with everything.
It was a setup. Probably a "sh*t test". He absolutely should have not paid. He also should've immediately ended the date. It was a "no win" situation, imo.
@@wj00312I think he pulled a W out of it. He taught her not every man is willing to get played 😂
That dad is going to continue paying his daughters' bills for as long as he lives, because now no one else will.
Is that really a date if you bring your friends?... Hell no
I wonder... Who's daughter is the 14-yr old, biologically speaking?
Because if they had met 10 years ago, the answer can NOT be, "both."
If you have homework due that day, you don’t go out on a date.
It is interesting women say a real man would pay the whole bill, but a REAL WOMAN would sincerely offer to help.
A woman showing up is the ABSOLUTE bare minimum. Do not allow these women to believe that them showing up is some type of privilege that you shoulr feel honored. It’s the bare minimum.
These women only want a free food date.Then they will ghost him.
Both pays and walking out on a bill is a crime that can and will get you arrested.
Those are gold diggers defending that behavior and one simp🤦🏾
Dad's wrong and needs to come into reality, he needs to teach them to be strong, independent ladies.
When she get out of medical school she not going to reach back and buy a brother a meal that’s working on his life or studies. Nah ladies yall got the game Fcked up🤣
I'm soo happy I'm single
First guy did the right thing. She wasn't on a date, she was there for free food. If she wanted him to pay, he should have received her full attention. If she couldn't good him her full attention, she should have rescheduled.
If you're taking a woman on a date and she isn't paying attention to you then just leave her to pay the bill. Back when I was dating I didn't tolerate this type of behavior from any woman. If a woman acts like this she isn't into you so why waste your time on her?
A real gentleman would pay if he was with a lady whom he respects… 😅
nice spare, women always pretend to be men on YT, twitter, I bet on insta too, it's pathetic, I hope no good guy ever cross paths with you.
Wrong! treat females the same way they treat you, females use men for his money but she makes as much or more. Today's dating is not like the 50's when men did those things. The independent female takes care of yourself and pays your own way. 😮
She should have rescheduled the date & not wasted time showing up. He should have ended the date when she said she had to bring her homework.
I bet she ain't even in nursing school.
That's great. A bunch of women in the comments saying he should pay, like they're not just advocating for themselves
The first guy was wrong to pay his bill.eat and run.
The first man: he should have walked away the moment she disrespected him by bringing her homework. He should have paid for the whole bill since he stayed under her conditions
I would have said just holla at me when you free babygirl
3:00..If this guy says, he met and married his daughter's mother in 2014, that means his daughter should be 9 - 10yrs old. She's not a teenager yet. What man starts giving his daughter at that age dating advice?..smh 😳 🙄
Why would I pay for a woman's food? Shes a strong independent woman and can pay her own.
Daddy is wrong.
When she pays with her husband's credit card: She apparently loves to devour all the best there is on the menu. Perhaps she should NOT be allowed to order anything that she cannot cook for her husband.
That is totally her husband's fault for being a Simp. Simps always get married. Simp always get taken advantage of. They will not listen. They have to go through it.
For Mr. Millionaire, let's see how his attitude changes when wifey-poo divorces and takes 1/2 of his stuff. He must remember, when he coaches and condones the simp ways, momma is backing it up with her advice, and it aint positive for a good marriage.
Yeah...... I dont pay for women! The older I get, the more I know I will be alone until death! It's just not worth all the Hell! If I want company, then I go out! Then when I get home there is peace and quiet! I like that! I really like that!
Now we have simp cartoons? LOL!!!!
Women in replies seem to think "strong and independent means men still paying for dinner, grow tf up, and pay for your own food like an adult and act like a grown up, I'm a women who use to believe "feminism" but then grew up, I suggest you women do the same, and don't ask for proof of me being a women, I don't owe you that.
btw I only "believed" in it, when I was a child, stupid, and a dumbass, I can act grown though, and am, unlike 24-40 year olds, seriously grow up, and be actually independent. (for once.)
She can pay her own bill.
Click bait!
Clickbait
porn bait
8:14 i would've paid. Especially if that's all he got. People put too much importance on mone😢y
no you would've lmaoo
Negative, no interaction and doing homework, if he was a priority she would have left her laptop, good job you did not pay for her, look for a woman who would pay attention to you
A student nurse? That is a pass.
She was disrespectful, why should he pay for her?
Soon to be a “head” nurse, lol
Nurses and teachers... steer clear if you value yourself.
"Gentleman" is just another word for sucker who gets used and disrespected.
Gentlemen expect women to be ladies. And how many of them are ladies?...
It's a fairly empty title now. We try to be "gentlemen" and they call us misogynistic. It's become synonymous with "doormat".
Thank you. Your only a “Gentleman” if your willing to be used
Nursing students are another word for red flag.
He was BOTH right and wrong. Right was the choice to NOT pay her bill. Wrong was the choice to continue the date when she showed up with her homework. I have known, but never experienced, serial dinner daters. Women will do forever dinner dates to get a meal, but provide no ROI. No ROI means NO meal.
What date ? There wasn’t any date !
That father clearly comes from a single mother household 🤣
That fool is not raising his daughters right. They are on track to becoming entitled, delusional brats.
how does a clown like that even make money
Absolutely.
Yeah, you can see the lack of masculinity. Iykyk
Agreed. If I close my eyes I can hear the years of brainwashing by is mother.
Should have walked as soon as she came in with a laptop and homework.
What if she brought out the laptop after the meal was ordered and not before? You can't walk out before that happened.
@@4evertrue830 Wanna bet? He should have paid for his meal, his drinks and left. As soon as she showed up with everything he should have LEFT.
@@winniethepoohandeeyore2 I was thinking, maybe she had her laptop with her so she could go off to class and study afterwards, but not during the actual dinner date. I'll rather wait and see to be sure before judging.
@@4evertrue830 Nope, I would have left, NOTHING good comes from someone brining their laptop, homework on a date.
The first man did the RIGHT THING. No foody date!
IDGAF. I don't need, nor worry about, being a "real man". Providing is one thing, but this ish has gone way off the rails. Ill just save my money, & keep to myself. (And yes, I'm fully capable of paying for the date.)
I'll pay but only if the woman makes a genuine effort. If she's on the phone or not interacting, pay your own bills
Lol 😂😂😂 the millionaire sounds like a con artist. He is also spouting radical feminist rhetoric on what a real man is.
😂😂😂
If a date starts out in the beginning by going “south” (I.e. bringing homework, bringing friends, suggest going to a high end ($$$) restaurant, ordering more food to “take home”, etc. … I’ll immediately reschedule (with caution) and make it very clear that last minute BS will not be tolerated. You did the right thing my friend. I once had a date (1st) where the woman wanted to go to a high end fancy restaurant at the last minute - we met at a local pub for a drink and appetizers. I had been to the restaurant before and it was good food, but quite pricey ($40 per person). Yea, first dates are more of a “meet & greet” to gage your compatibility with each other.
And that's why they will remain single... Any man should walk if they show up with friends, relatives.
It is bizarre that the women think he should essentially pay for her to do her homework. Seriously? Do modern women even understand what a date is? They literally think strangers owe them money for nothing. No, we don't owe you anything just for showing up!
Modern women can't figure out why men avoid them. No one deserves to be the object of their ignorance.
Entitled women thinking the guy still "owed" her a free meal despite her ignoring him.
NEVER listen to what they say!
You can bet the millionaire's girls will be on handouts until his last days.
Yeah, the women thought he should have paid....figures.
It’s her fault for not canceling the date that she was studying for her class! The father should tell them the truth and his daughter’s will be in his pocket for life!!
I would've excused myself to the restroom and left her with the whole bill. She's strong and independent and don't need no man.
She was doing a foodie call. And totally disrespectful to him doing homework on the date. She needed the disrespect back of paying for herself.
The guy is wrong because he shouldn't even be doing dinner dates. When are we going to learn that the small investment weeds out this kind of behaviour? Coffee dates,ice cream or something that you would normally do is just fine for the lady that likes you.
Right! A so-called real date is reserved for the point where the 2 people have been seeing each other for a while. Start with an inexpensive one and slowly build up to a nice one. And, yes, a woman who is into a guy will accept that. She is there to be with him not to use or exploit him.
@@gabem6863 We agree on this. It's not about being cheap. I mean I personally hate having to do this (Inexpensive) as I don't mind even paying when I meet up with my friends and the money shouldn't be the focus. However, right now we have to do it until the person shows that she's into you.
Special treatment and reward should be given to those that have the qualities that we look for in a person and being a manipulative and selfish gold digger are not those qualities.
Funny how women try to say that who invites is the one who pays. Women never ask men out on a date. And in the rare instance that they do, they still try to pin it on the man
Strong and independent and 100% for equality, until the check arrives.
Not with Chad and Tyrone, they get everything for free
Thats why you dont take what women say seriously, like when they say men are shallow for wanting a skinny virgin woman but in the same sentence they say they want a 6ft guy who has a 6 pack and makes 6 figures.
No food should've been ordered at all. Once she broke out her HOMEWORK I would've been like we can reschedule
You should pay 💯 IF you are married and she is a wife that honors her husband.
shaming how original, has it actually worked, but in the future it won't
That's not a date. Dad teach you daughters the real world or your girls will be alone .
Shoulda just cancelled the date.
It’s 2024. All womenzes must pay for all dates. Drizzle Drizzle.
When women bring a friend(s) on a date, she is clearly indicating she does not want to be alone with the man. Her intentions are to exploit the man as much as she can, especially when she brings girlfriends with her without telling the man taking her on the date. My tactic: agree to meet at the place of the date, show up early, observe from a distance to see if she has someone with her. Leave immediately if she has someone with her and without notice! Never let them get away with wasting your time,attention and resources.
"Relationship math if you can't take care of yourself you can't take care of this person" He's raising his daughters to NOT BE ABLE TO TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES 😂
It was obvious she only went because she thought she could study and eat for free at the same time
Yes he should have been a gentleman and LEFT WHEN SHE FIRST WALKED IN!!!
I'm gonna are with the"you should had told her we'll reschedule" but screw anyone that think he should had paid.. What kinda foolishness if that?
That millionaire is raising a future single woman😂
He did the right thing ..she only went for a free meal
Dad is a simp
Couples struggled ww1 and 2 and they still stuck together that tells alot of good relationship.
The love for one another is what matters.
My dad always told me to pay to go 50/50 because you never know what emergency came up with your date. I would offer to pay when I was dating husband, but he always paid. I never ordered the most expensive plate.
It wasn't a date, it was a one-way study session. She saw him as a food extension, without telling him.
When you are on dates, the focus should be on each other.
Well ya the nurse option is a no go but the fact that shes a student means she's most likely broke so she needs that free meal. When she actually had to pay i gurentee that cut into her food budget for the next week unless she gets a Billy Beta Bucks to buy her dinner 😆
Its real simple..... If I pay its either a$$, gas or grass.... theres no freebies with me
If that millionaire loses all his money would that wife of his stay or leave know he’s broke now
Drug dealer dad ...his daughter has to grow up away from him..
Only thing guy at 2:50 is missing is a big red nose
That man is a dumdum. Kevin Costner the Hollywood actor, paid his wife $1.5million/yr for so many years tax free allowance. He also had all the other bills covered, yet she divorced him and took him to court seeking half his wealthy assets of $300million. Covering all the bills is not a guarantee of happiness or, being a man..😌
Would dad be ok with a 40+-year old dating his child?
No Sex No provider
It's a deal
Women love to play, but hate to pay.
No, you are right! Don't pay for her if she didn't engage in the datr!
She just wanted a free dinner.
Infamous foodie date.
If a man asks a woman out on a date, it's his responsibility to pay the check. Period. That doesn't include her hair, makeup, and her other incidentals. That's on her. But,if you're going to ask someone out on a date, be sure you both know what the date will entail. Remember the 6 Ps. Proper planning prevents piss poor performance!
I should turn the tables, create an OF account - and get paid in my content to nod and say "Everything will be fine" - "When actually nothing will ever be fine again." Don't worry. Just the seasonal fluctuations in the hormone sector, and Darling's wall will come flying..."
(a dark premonition whispers "Drama") I think she needs a hug after the shower.
Woman here, yes, you did the right thing. She should have cancelled the date. Our daughter had to stop dating, while in nursing school, as she was going after her RN, because of the time it took.
My husband paid for all dates. Why? Because I was focused on him, and our relationship. I never ordered more than he ordered, price wise. If he ordered beer, I would order ginger ale.
Women wanted equal rights, give it to them.
Not surprising that all women commenting he should have paid the bill no matter how disrespectful the woman was. What to expect from women nowadays?
If this is what our culture is arguing about, we are doomed as a species. We can’t even respect one another.
Rich dad; extreme advice for daughter... could work if she only dates in his "sphere" of influence if rich dad is surrounded by like minded, leveled up families AND daughter is happy with that slim selection.
Daddy now thinks he's above everyone else. Little girl raised thinking she's a princess. Life will knock her down. But daddy will keep shelling out the money to her.
It was fine he didn't pay. She was rude and stupid. Of course all the comments about how he should've paid were from women...Not every man can get an income that allows them to pay for everything. Not possible.