Financial Freedom with Tori Dunlap | The Man Enough Podcast
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- Опубликовано: 30 окт 2022
- Personal finance expert, Tori Dunlap, aka the Financial Feminist, chats about how traditionally masculine views on money are potentially harming relationships. She brings her expertise on financial freedom for women, with practical advice on how to grow wealth and support women’s independence.
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ABOUT TORI DUNLAP:
Tori Dunlap is an internationally-recognized money and career expert, podcast host, and author. After saving $100,000 at age 25, Tori quit her corporate job in marketing and founded Her First $100K to fight financial inequality by giving women actionable resources to better their money. She has helped over three million women negotiate salary, pay off debt, build savings, and invest.
A seven-figure business owner, Tori has collaborated with companies like Dell, Blackrock, Quickbooks, Mint, Four Seasons, Citi Bank, Fidelity, and Credit Karma; and given talks and workshops at The White House, Microsoft, Shopify, Teachable, and Adobe. Before becoming a full-time entrepreneur, Tori led organic marketing strategy for Fortune 500 companies-with clients like Amazon, Apple, Facebook, Nike, the NFL, and the Academy Awards-and global financial technology start-ups. For almost five years, she specialized in social media, SEO, content, and influencer marketing to grow community and increase awareness.
Tori’s unique take on financial advice has made her the go-to voice for ambitious women. CNBC called Tori “the voice of financial confidence for women,” while TIME said, “Tori Dunlap is on top of the personal finance world.”
SHOW NOTES
3:28 - Introduction to Tori Dunlap
9:19 - Tori is Not Threatened by Confidence
16:18 - Dating a High Earning Woman
25:36 - What is a Man’s Worth When He is Not Needed Financially?
29:47 - It Starts With How We Raise Our Children
36:44 - Talking About Money is Not Taboo
38:56 - A Man is Not a Financial Plan
44:30 - Tori’s Advice
52:32 - Are Women Sending Mixed Signals?
58:12 - Providing Through Service
01:04:02 - What Does It Mean to be Man Enough?
KEY QUOTES
"If men don't feel enough themselves, how can you stand tall with a woman who is enough?" - Jamey
“A man is not a financial plan.“ - Tori
“We have to separate men from the patriarchal system that is killing them.“ - Justin
“Men, define your worth from yourself.” - Liz
“It’s extremely expensive to be poor.” - Tori
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You've got to have Brene Brown on your show. You guys would love her! She is so brilliant and such an amazing person. Please please please bring her on🙏
#recurringguesttoridunlap let’s bring her back, love each and every one of the interactions between man enough and financial feminist ❤
Glad you enjoyed it!
This show is changing lives!! Thank you for the conversations and awareness you are bringing to the world! Thanks Tori for coming on the show, and sharing such an important and beautiful message!
Thank you. That means so much to us.
I’m an avid listener/watcher and SO appreciate your work, all the complexities you explore and how you bring different perspectives the table and grapple with them, in real time, with honor and compassion, while still challenging each other! Bravo!!
For context here, I’m a mom and wife who works outside of the home full-time at a very demanding job. I actually haven’t finished the episode yet, but needed to stop because something did not sit right with me And I wanted to share it because the spirit of this group is one of advancing understanding and exploring truth.
I got the sense that there’s a belief among the group that an empowered woman is one who does not stay home with the children. I just want to challenge this. I think we do a mighty, mighty disservice to the valiant, self sacrificing, and extremely fucking hard job of staying home with the children, when we paint empowered women in this light of those who must be working outside of the home.
I totally understand why we have this assumption, and it also means that it would be extremely difficult if not a possible for a woman to be financially self-sufficient if she stays home and takes care of the children full-time. However that does not mean she’s not empowered! This may have historically been the case however, and I totally acknowledge that. I just don’t want people to think that a woman’s worth is dependent upon how much like “a man” she can be.
Thank you for your feedback. We'd like to assure you that we and our hosts do not believe that. We'll take this reaction to heart as we certainly don't want to communicate that. The focus of this conversation was on how women, whether they are full time moms or otherwise, can empower themselves financially, even if in small ways. For an example of how much we respect the unpaid and unrecognized labor of moms, check out Emily Baldoni's episode: ruclips.net/video/d3bfaN_W9Sc/видео.html
@@WeAreManEnough thanks all. I appreciate you hearing me. I certainly know you don’t believe this consciously, and I actually think it was something the guest said that sparked this awareness in me. I love Emily’s episode and actually thought of it when I was watching this episode. I’ll watch it again if I can and pinpoint what was said. But i don’t want to demand perfection or anything. Above all, I appreciate everything this podcast stands for and especially HOW Jamie, Liz and Justin go about exploring issues. I also know we’re all works in progress and we will be working through old unconscious beliefs that may creep in. It’s all love.
@@jessicafgaines9 Thank you. Really appreciate that.
You are all so wonderful. As a transgender person and just as a human, I connect so much with what you all said here.
I still feel like these conversations are ahead of their time (in a good and a bad way) All of the things said are too good and true, however, still not really understood by many. Therefore, thank you for bringing these vulnerable questions and conversations up and finally changing minds for the better!
This echoes so many conversations surrounding nurses asking for more money up in Canada. We're literally $ 0.83 to the male dominated life saving professions. The conversations of, "How dare you ask for more? Why do you need to make that much money?"
Such a wonderful episode. Now I will be tuning in to your podcast. Love all of this!!
So happy to hear that! Thank you for joining us.
31:21 this discussion brings up the underlying issues of modern dating. Over a year ago I answered an easy question on my online dating profile “what are you looking for in a partner?” I simply & swiftly answered “someone who knows what they want out of life”. What I didn’t know was that question would play out like a social/psychological experiment. Not only did I never hear a man respond with a yes or even a maybe, instead 9 out of 10 would respond with “I really don’t know what I want” which at first confused and even frustrated me. Eventually it really started to make me sad, but I believe conversations like these are how we, as a society, get over those hurdles, together ❤ keep up the great content.
Such a great episode! Love Tori energy and everything she shared!
Thank you! She's pretty incredible, isn't she?
😁 I tell you the truth, everytime I watch this Podcast I learn something new and it's a joy. Thank you sooo much Tori for coming on the show. I'm following you now. Team Man Enough, keep on doing what you do. Love you guys 🙏🏾🤝🏾🧘🏾♀️🤲🏾💜
Thank you so much for your kind words 🧡
This isn’t just about financial freedom. It’s financial intimacy!! ❤❤ I so appreciate this podcast.
love your discussions. love the show. I would love you all to interview Alison Armstrong! xo, jenn
Thank you for the kind words and suggestion.
I loved this conversation, I will definitely follow her too!
You won't regret it!
Thanks Justin for you section (24:00 - 27:00) about how boys from the beginning are raised, then confused when older. I just watched this for the second time. I love how I felt my heart swell in the last few minutes about communicating. Being caring and tender with each other.
Thank you. It's so important to look at the whole journey to understand what causes these issues.
OMG i loved this so much!!!!!!! I cried. So powerful.
Thank you for listening
This episode was great! Definitely gonna check her pod out.
Great episode! Wish you had kept going for another hour! Going to put this out there as it's been on my mind for awhile and you touched on the pillar of masculinity being that men are to be *providers and protectors* and I have some hard thoughts about this.
In my experience as a woman, life out there is pretty much split 50/50 and men seem super content with this arrangement - even in the face of sometimes wildly unequal incomes - so where is this shame of not being able to financially *provide* for women actually coming from?
As for *protection* I actually cringe at the idea because my lived experience is the total opposite. I have spent my life begging for - let's call it protection - from men: to be believed, to be emotionally supported, for my boundaries to be honored, for them even to simply be on time so that I'm not left dealing with the crap in public that us women face almost daily. What I'm saying is that the occasional lift home after dark is A: far from the pinnacle of protection but B: seems to be enough for men to tick off the box that they're doing a damn fine job protecting us.
So is to provide and protect actually a virtue and goal of masculinity - or is it something else?
Could it be capitalism off-loading the responsibility of the welfare of the state onto men as a class, making them the scapegoats if they can't support an entire family - because the fact is, hardly anyone could under this system- so really it's a global act of brainwashing, no?
Or for the men that are *intimidated* by women making more than them, isn't that just a red herring, really? A direct challenge to the traditional man as head of household by dint of his net worth, where his comfort and word reigned supreme. Call it shame if you must, but beneath that shame I suspect is grief- a grief of not having the same access to that ease his father enjoyed before him.
I’m a woman that makes more money than my husband. This was not really the case at the beginning of our marriage. We struggle with this for years. I am going to share this episode with my husband! Thank you so much for this episode!❤
Good stuff here. Took a lot from it.
But maaaaan. My biggest takeaway was Jameys silence.
If you know what's up, just let them tell it. If you don't know, just let them tell you.
The dude gets paid to talk and knows when not to. Admirable.
I won't even shut up for free most days.
Thank you! We agree - Jamey teaches us a lot about that every day (behind the camera too, as president of our studio).
Hi guys! Great episode! I am really interested on the statistics about 20% of your finances depends on you and the other 80% is completely external. Where can I get those statistics?
This show is a woke chit chat show, there is no support with facts, only emotions and 'men bad, women good' arguments
A “TFSA” is a tax-free savings account (but tax-free only up to 50k) I have one. It has $42 in it. By the time I’m 85yo it will be up to $48.78 with interest…so…no danger losing the tax-free-ness.
when will Man Enough interview Nick Offerman, can we start the countdown
Great suggestion, thank you.
I love the podcast and the alchemy of you all together And it is also very difficult to get everything possible out of the podcast episode with the amount of enthusiastic overtalkng that happens. I'm dying to hear each of the people finish their thoughts/sentences. I love the passion and understand that you're trying to squeeze in all the perspectives And as a learner/ listener I am trying to soak up all the juicie jewls of wisdom and insight but the overtalking makes that very hard to parcel out.
Thanks for the feedback.
Can you please put the hosts on the same side of the table so that the guest can look at all of them at the same time? I feel bad for Jamey - as a viewer it looks like he's being left out.
Financial Freedom....and the episode begins with an ad to buy that book while the world burns from economic meltdown....wow, smh
Loved this episode and conversation. Assumed I’d just learn about financial advice and left with way more advice on self worth, dating, etc. 🤍