37:57 guitar kid here, junaid bhai my parents were full of joy when i showed them this podcast mentioning my brother, he is in immense joy and we cant thank you enough for your love and support❤
To the lady in last question, I'm so proud of you, it was so inspiring to see you tackle all the financial, societal and patriarchal problems and happy that you've got the reward of it all in the end.
As someone who moved to Canada 6 years back , I would like set some records straight. I think Canada is the best country in the world and feel that moving there was the best decision of my life. It’s a land of immense opportunities and a great place to raise a family despite the somewhat uncontrolled wokeness. Whether it’s Canada , US, UK or even a different neighborhood in your own city - any move requires research and planning and if you are unable to do this then don’t blame the place .. blame yourself. Last point …. Only migrate to any country if it works for you and NOT just because someone else did it - Herd mentality kills !!!
Opportunities are in every country but you have to be smart to change things in your favour. So many people in Pakistan got wealthy and don't like to leave Pakistan and will never. In terms of Opportunities what Pakistanis community is doing here? Do you think all of them are highly skilled professionals? No. So majority of people come here and always saying we came here for better future for us and our kids which is not the case. If Western countries would be utopia then you wouldn't see homelessness and drug addicts and so many other issues. The only reason Pakistan is not doing good first due to army madarchod and second people don't try to improve and develop the country.
@safifaruqi thats not true. A country like Canada had its own issues and challenges too, which honestly our people migrating here don't want to traverse through the right methods. E.g finding a job, getting a proper education ( ghar Laine ke liye ready hain per degree pe 50k nahe lagain ge. It's a very different culture, and lay of the land- which takes an extremely different approach. Those who do it right settle well. However, Pakistan is structured and work completely opposite to Canadian society and industry ( I am not saying good or bad ). How our people in Pakistan go about life, works for many people and they succeed - some friends have raised multi million dollar firms in Pakistan. I agree, Canada is an amazing country but no one ever said it'll be a walk in the park and everyone will be flying high. People here fail badly as well, with tons of debt and go bankrupt/homeless. Regarding the job market in Canada, people simply aren't ready Landing straight from Pakistan. You need to learn the culture, have references of experience, certifications, understanding of tax system, law, diversity, Profesional licenses - when Indians and Pakistanis feel they will bypass this all, they face tough times. I did my engineering from PK and there was absolutely no need of a PEC license. In Canada, you can't practice engineering without having a license Hence, to summarize, making a change is tough in any country but especially for people who cut corners and don't want to put in the work.
The irony in the first case here is that the company the poor soul left (Infosys), is the same company major tech companies in Australia, Canada, UK and USA outsource their tech jobs to over seas and on shore. He's probably one of the few who has no idea about this.
💯 agreed, I am from Pakistan and struggling with hope that everything will be good. I won't recommend youth to live the Canadian dream. Do something in Pakistan that will be fruitful in long-term.
Bro I came to canada after covid. And i visited germany, Netherland, Ireland and also consulted with few people in Australia. I am very sure Canada is still the best Place on this Planet. If and only if u r leaving ur home country
Canada has been UK-fied. UK has been a sh*thole for 10+ years, now Canada is joining. America will be joining the third world western nation party in another 5 years.
Even if whatever the bad situation here still I'll tell you to come to Canada because all these hardships be worth it. After all the hard times you will see the good days.
5:08 : for the person who go to Canada leaving Infosys job, Tell the truth to your parents and if possible come back to India and do same hard work as you are doing in Canada. You will enjoy much better life in India. Now in India If you have good skills in IT you will earn good money in India also.
But wherever he lives in India or Pakistan, environment/ surroundings around him will continue to be a problem The peace of mind that Canada has will not be found in India or Pakistan.
Tell him to move to another city take a transfer for college and work with union if possible and look for volunteer options or go to employment agency it’s free of cost
Canada is amazing in so many ways that none of these people have mentioned. There is no racism, free education for children, free healthcare, and it is beautiful! Yes, it has certain challenges like expensive housing and a competitive job market, but I would take them any day over load-shedding and not having basic human rights. You need to embrace and accept the place for what it is rather than compare it with the comforts back home. I moved here 2 years ago and I have zero regrets. Please do not get discouraged by listening to stories of people who focus only on problems. If you have a chance to get out, GET OUT NOW!
There is plenty of racism and Islamophobia here, growing day by day. Free education standards is below average compared to Pakistani education standards. Free health care is also below average standard. One has to wait weeks just to get an appt with General Physician, specialist appt you have to wait months. But yes it’s got a lot of natural beauty and no electrical outages and security thanks to the high taxes we pay.
True that!! Been here for 22 years, my father had a triple bypass surgery and it didn't cost us a dime. People who complain about racism must reflect upon themselves, it all depends on how you carry yourself. I've never been victimized by racism, or Islamophobia whatsoever. People often complain a lot about the healthcare system, without realizing that their headache or fever cannot be treated as an emergency, I mean sure one can goto States and pay for their doctors visit just for comparison's sake, giving birth to a child costs upto $30k in states, whereas in Canada it costs you absolutely 0. Our healthcare and infrastructure is derailing esp because of refugees and folks who are milking the welfare system. Sure, we pay taxes but look at all the extra weight we carry, refugees and folks on welfare don't pay taxes, they live off of our taxes and there are people I know who have been on welfare for 30 years 😮. Anyhow, Canada has been home, it's a beautiful land.
Being as a Canadian Citizen for almost 15 Years know living in Pakistan one should listen what junaid is saying but new guys think POSITIVE that is more important, once you think positive some thing inner of you KICK YOU FOR SUCCESS when you are in Canada ♥
@@gauravipal9518 it’s not the end of the world if the grammar is wrong. Nobody cares about grammar except in India or Pakistan. The main idea is to speak clearly so people can understand.
As a Canadian Pakistani living in Canada I can confirm that whatever Junaid is sharing is 100% true. The story he shared about the guy he shared about the student from UP who came to Brampton is a VERY COMMON STORY here in Canada. Indians in particular sell their land and take loans to send their kids here. The kids work odd jobs, live in substandard conditions, have zero life and are enrolled in silly diplomas which are worth nothing to stay on student visa here. There used to be a time when Canada was an opportunistic place, but after all this open immigration and student visa, the system is exhausted. Pakistanis and Indians need to GET OVER this “bahir jana “ culture. The grass is far far from green on this side.
I blame no one other than that person here. Everyone has the Internet. It takes half an hour to research about a country before you decide to permanently change your life by settling there. It's very irresponsible of people like that guy that they don't do ANY research before upping their life. Not only do they fuck up their own lives but they have messed up Canada as well. We don't have odd jobs for Canadians because of people like him. People like him are abusing food banks here. People like him work under the table for illegal cash jobs, putting pressure on wages and prevent them from growing. I hate useless people like him who move to a different country and then realize it was a dumb move.
Smart Indian students go to the US. They would never go to Canada, Australia, the UK, etc. Only Indian students who are not good at studies go to Canada, Australia, the UK etc.
@@rrboss3721 No entirely true. If you ctrl+F my name, and search comment section, you would find I have cussed Canada like anything, and have studied at a top 20 tech school in the US, with full GRA on funded research project. The problem is it will take decades, some say 50 or 100 years for a person born in India to get green card in the US. Even if you do an exceptional PhD, publish a lot, it will still take 4 to 6 years to get green card and there is no guarantee. So many people are going to Canada for studies. There are few decent universities here, but I always recommend US. But after spending certain time in US, you get used to lifestyle here. If you by choice, or for reason have to return to India, you realize there is no easy way back. That's why people go to Canada. I returned to India, realized in 2.5 years it was not working out, so gave interviews for Canada and Europe sitting in India and cracked them. But my US education, research I did during my masters which subsequently provided me a niche R&D job in US did provide huge weight to my resume.
@Tahreemsheikh: I don't fully agree. Things are not bright on Canada/UK/Australia and other side, but same cannot be said about Canada's big neighbor. I went to US in 2010 for my masters, worked there, returned to India in 2019 and came to Canada in Nov 2021. US is any day better than India, Canada, Europe or Australia.for tech workers. Canada/Aus/Europe has low salaries for tech workers, healthcare is shit and people are racist/not accepting. I am just waiting to get Canadian citizenship and leave to India for second time, as I want to be closer to my parents. I am in Canada only because I feel, with Canadian passport entry/exit in US would be simpler if I want to move 10 to 15 years down the line. If my parents were not in question, I would immediately email my manage in US, re-apply for my existing H-1B and I would run back to US and live on employment visa for my whole life. I am just 11 months away for eligibility of Canadian citizenship but honestly dont care.
Loraaa mairaa uber driver where do u live in canada sir I am in brampton do you think so what junaid is saying is correct are u serious show me one house where 9 people are living in one room teri baaaji us kamray main hogi jo tu itna sure hai bull shit
55:33 the term you're looking for is Acute spinal cord injury (SCI) is due to a traumatic injury that bruises, partially tears, or completely tears the spinal cord. SCI is a common cause of permanent disability and death in children and adults.
You are saving many prospective students, you will definitely get rewarded for your efforts. The bottom line is that In U.K the universities and landlords survive on international students,so please spend your hard earned money in your country for starting a small business and live peacefully with your people.
Being born in Canada, I can agree with you that Canada is no longer the land of opportunity that it once was. After Covid the place is a mess and even the locals are struggling and thinking to move out, if they haven’t already done so. So please research and then do some more research because it’s much more difficult to make it here than it was a few years back.
I have been in Canada since 2004. The situation has only deteriorated. Colleges with 200 seats issued 2000 visas for students primarily from India, Pak, Bangla Desh & China only to leave the students in the lurch. A local desi funeral home claims to be doing the last rites of at least 5 students a week. Ensure that you do proper research before taking a step. Join universities as degrees from there have more marketability. Sad state of affairs even for Canadians studying in univs here as salaries have literally gone down.
As a recent PhD graduate in London UK and currently doing a professional job related to my field of study (engineering), I'll be happy to answer questions and getting into nitty gritty of things related to immigration and money management at the best of my knowledge.
Thank you so much for your precious and meaningful contribution to Pakistan and its future ❤ hope to see it thriving again. I wonder how i could contribute as well.
3rd Question: It is common in Murree Mall road hotels. Newly married couples shadi k agley din ghoomne nikel jaatey hain, and un k pas jab tak nikah nama nhi aata. Murree k hotels me raat ko late night police waaley ajatey hain nikaah nama maangtey hain and then harrass kerte hain. So beware of that too. Our driver was an old experienced man. He asked us to come with Nikah nama. And if you don't have one then stay only at some reputed hotel on Mall Road, or don't stay there at all.
سر اگر ہر باہر جانے والا انڈین پاکستانی باہر جانے سے پہلے 3 یا 4 مہینے کا کوئ بھی ٹیکنیکل کورس کر لے مٹال کے طور پر پلمبرنگ،وال پینٹنگ ،ٹائل فکسنگ تو پھر بہت اچھے پیسے بنا لے گا،میرا اپنا دوست رشیا گیا تھا اور اسکے پاس گھروں میں سپلٹ ائرکنڈیشن لگانے کا تجربہ تھا اس میں اتنے پیسے کمائے کے پڑھائ ہی چھوڑنی پڑی اور اسی کام کو بڑے لیول پر شروع کردیا۔
It really depends, in Canada and America you need to obtain a license to become a plumber, electrician, carpenter and even to paint a house as a profession.
Mashallah Junaid bhai you are doing a wonderful thing trying to help people. I have survived in London for 16 years on my own and would be happy to share my experience and tips with people if they like. I’ve always had an ability to find a way to save money in all stages of my life and would love to share my knowledge inshallah. Looking forward to talking to you some day. Thanks Amir
The last part made me think that how many more wonderfull womens like her are living there life on behalf of others more power to you lady!! Kudos to junaid for bringing up such stories 🤞🏻❣️
آپ کے والدین نے لوگوں کو حوصلہ شکنی کا درس دیا ہے۔ آپ پروگرام میں جو بھی بات کر رہے ہیں، وہ اسکرپٹ ڈسٹرکشن ہیں۔ جو لوگ پیسے پر پیدا ہوتے ہیں، جن کے من باپ نے ساری زندگی صرف پس کمایا مگر اپنی اولاد کو دوسرو کی حوصلہ شکنی شکنی سکھائی ، وہ دوسروں کو آگے بڑھتا نہیں دیکھ سکتے، کسی کی حوصلہ افزائی نہیں کر سکتے۔ اس کا اللہ پر بھروسہ بھی نہی ہے ہے اور یہ حقیقت انسان کا چہرہ دیکھ کر ہی سمجھ میں آسکتی ہے۔ اس کا جواب انگریزی بولنے کی صلاحیت نہیں بلکہ دیا گیا جواب ہے۔ حرآ منسل سے پیدا ہونے والے کچھ لوگ، جن کے والد کا نام معلوم نہیں، چاہتے ہیں کہ پاکستان اور پاکستان کے بہادر عوام مایوس ہو کر بیٹھ جائیں اور آخر کار ہمت ہار کر مایوس ہو جائیں۔ ٦میرا یہ پیغام بہت گہرا اور جذباتی ہے۔ میں نے چند اہم نکات پر روشنی ڈالی ہے، جن میں لوگوں کی حوصلہ شکنی اور مشکلات کا سامنا شامل ہیں۔ یہاں میرا یہ مضمون ہے جو آپ کی باتوں کو اردو میں بہتر انداز میں بیان کرتا ہے: حوصلہ شکنی اور ہمت: ایک سوچنے پر مجبور کرنے والا ہمارے معاشرے میں حوصلہ شکنی ایک عام رویہ بن چکا ہے۔ اکثر لوگ، جو خود کسی مشکل دور سے گزرے ہوتے ہیں یا اپنی زندگی میں بہت سی کامیابیاں حاصل کی ہوتی ہیں، دوسروں کی حوصلہ افزائی کرنے کے بجائے انہیں نیچا دکھانے کی کوشش کرتے ہیں۔ یہ رویہ نہ صرف انفرادی طور پر نقصان دہ ہے بلکہ معاشرتی ترقی میں بھی رکاوٹ بنتا ہے۔ والدین کا کردار اور ذمہ داری والدین کا کردار بچوں کی تربیت میں بہت اہم ہوتا ہے۔ جب والدین خود لوگوں کی حوصلہ شکنی کا درس دیتے ہیں، تو بچے بھی اسی رویے کو اپناتے ہیں۔ ایسے بچے بڑے ہو کر بھی دوسروں کی حوصلہ افزائی نہیں کرتے اور معاشرے میں مایوسی پھیلانے کا باعث بنتے ہیں۔ والدین کو چاہیے کہ وہ بچوں کو دوسروں کی کامیابیوں پر خوش ہونا سکھائیں اور ان کی حوصلہ افزائی کریں۔ پیسے اور کامیابی کا غلط تصور بہت سے لوگ سمجھتے ہیں کہ کامیابی صرف پیسے کمانے میں ہے۔ حالانکہ حقیقی کامیابی اس میں ہے کہ آپ دوسروں کے ہمّت کو اپنی ہمّت اور اپنی کمزوری سے نہی ملا سکتے شرم کرین اوراپنے اندر ہمّت پیدا کریں اگر آپ میں تھوڑی بہت غیرت ہے اور ہمہمّت والے باہمّت پاکستانیوں کو توڑنے سے اچھا ہے تعمیری سوچ مثبت سوچ دینے کی کوشش کریں آپ کے والدین نے لوگوں کو حوصلہ شکنی کا درس دیا ہے۔ آپ پروگرام میں جو بھی بات کر رہے ہیں، وہ اسکرپٹ ڈسٹرکشن ہیں۔ جو لوگ پیسے پر پیدا ہوتے ہیں، جن کے باپوں نے ساری زندگی اسے کمایا ہے، وہ دوسروں کو آگے بڑھتا نہیں دیکھ سکتے، کسی کی حوصلہ افزائی نہیں کر سکتے۔ اس کا اللہ پر بھروسہ ہے اور یہ حقیقت انسان کا چہرہ دیکھ کر ہی سمجھ میں آسکتی ہے۔ اس کا جواب انگریزی بولنے کی صلاحیت نہیں بلکہ دیا گیا جواب ہے۔ حرم کونسل سے پیدا ہونے والے کچھ لوگ، جن کے والد کا نام معلوم نہیں، چاہتے ہیں کہ پاکستان اور پاکستان کے بہادر عوام مایوس ہو کر بیٹھ جائیں اور آخر کار ہمت ہار کر مایوس ہو جائیں۔ یاپھر ایسا کرنے والے لوگوں کے درمیان حوصلہ شکنی اور ہمت: ایک فکر انگیز تجزیہ ہمارے معاشرے میں حوصلہ شکنی ایک سنگین مسئلہ بن چکی ہے۔ کچھ لوگ، جنہیں زندگی میں ہر چیز بغیر کسی جدوجہد کے مل گئی ہو، دوسروں کی کامیابیوں کو تسلیم کرنے اور ان کی حوصلہ افزائی کرنے میں ناکام رہتے ہیں۔ یہ لوگ نہ صرف دوسروں کو آگے بڑھنے سے روکتے ہیں بلکہ معاشرتی ترقی میں بھی رکاوٹ بن جاتے ہیں۔ والدین کا کردار والدین کا کردار بچوں کی تربیت میں انتہائی اہم ہوتا ہے۔ اگر والدین خود لوگوں کی حوصلہ شکنی کرتے ہیں اور منفی رویوں کا اظہار کرتے ہیں، تو بچے بھی اسی رویے کو اپناتے ہیں۔ ایسے بچے بڑے ہو کر معاشرے میں مایوسی اور ناامیدی پھیلانے کا سبب بنتے ہیں۔ والدین کو چاہیے کہ وہ بچوں کو دوسروں کی کامیابیوں پر خوش ہونا سکھائیں اور ان کی حوصلہ افزائی کریں۔ پیسے اور کامیابی کا غلط تصور بہت سے لوگ سمجھتے ہیں کہ کامیابی صرف پیسے کمانے میں ہے۔ حالانکہ حقیقت یہ ہے کہ حقیقی کامیابی اس میں ہے کہ آپ دوسروں کے لیے کتنے مددگار اور ہمدرد ہیں۔ جو لوگ پیسے پر پیدا ہوتے ہیں اور جن کے والدین نے ساری زندگی پیسہ کمایا ہو، وہ اکثر دوسروں کی حوصلہ افزائی نہیں کر پاتے۔ ان کی نظر میں پیسہ ہی سب کچھ ہوتا ہے اور وہ دوسروں کی ترقی کو برداشت نہیں کر پاتے۔ اللہ پر بھروسہ ایک انسان کو اللہ پر بھروسہ رکھنا چاہیے۔ کامیابی اور ناکامی اللہ کے ہاتھ میں ہے۔ ہمیں اپنی کوششوں پر یقین رکھنا چاہیے اور اللہ سے دعا کرنی چاہیے کہ وہ ہمیں ہمت اور حوصلہ عطا کرے۔ انسان کے چہرے پر اس کے دل کی حالت عیاں ہوتی ہے۔ اگر دل میں اللہ پر بھروسہ اور دوسروں کے لیے خیرخواہی ہو تو یہ اس کے چہرے سے جھلکتا ہے۔ معاشرتی ترقی اور حوصلہ افزائی کچھ لوگ، جن کے خاندانی پسمنظر میں یہی کچھ سکھایا ہو وو چاہتے ہیں کہ پاکستان اور اس کے بہادر عوام مایوس ہو جائیں اور آخر کار ہمت ہار دیں۔ ہمیں ان لوگوں کے اثر سے بچنا چاہیے اور اپنے ملک اور عوام کی ترقی کے لیے مل جل کر کام کرنا چاہیے۔ ہمیں اپنی اور دوسروں کی حوصلہ افزائی کرنی چاہیے تاکہ ہم سب مل کر ایک بہتر مستقبل کی طرف بڑھ سکیں۔ حوصلہ شکنی اور مایوسی ہمارے معاشرے کے لیے زہر کی مانند ہیں۔ ہمیں اپنی زندگی میں مثبت رویوں کو اپنانا چاہیے اور دوسروں کی کامیابیوں پر خوش ہونا چاہیے۔ اللہ پر بھروسہ رکھنا اور دوسروں کی مدد کرنا ہی ہماری اصل کامیابی ہے۔ ہمیں مل کر اپنے ملک اور معاشرے کی ترقی کے لیے کام کرنا چاہیے اور ہر قسم کی حوصلہ شکنی سے بچنا چاہیے۔ ایسی مایوس کن باتیں اور فضول بکواسس والے پروگرام کرنا بینڈ کریں اور اپنے اندر ہمّت پیدا کریں لوگوںکو ہمّت دینے کی ورنہ آپ کا گنجا ہونا بیکار چلا جائے گا
I am really having tears in my eyes listening to the last story, how can someone be so ruthless like okay there could be some up's and down in every relation but to this extent this is shameful. I think it's really now the women's right to scan the man they are going married to from up to bottom. Feel really sorry for this.
Junaid bhai I'm from UK, Apka regular listener hun. Meri hobby b DIY hai jo mane Pakistan ma apne dad ko dekh dekh k develop ki. Yaha a k bht kuch khud hi kia like installing CCTV, TV Wall mounting, decorating the house, etc. It's all that I've learnt from my dad, they used to do this kind of stuff in our childhood. It's a very useful tool a person should have. Yaha pr to chote se kam k lia koi ata nae ha agr a jae to uske charges us sare kam ki cost se zada hote hen...
Junaid Bhai, get your son a kitchen set and a toy mopping kit and toy hammer and nail set, some cheap painta big paper and brushes. So that he also learn life skills and get comfortable being in kitchen, get use to concept of cleaning and to fix things on his own. As you said, anything which sparks crousity, creativity and joy is good for kids. Very limited time should be spent in screens. Its also important to let kids get bored. Let them figure out what they can do.
For the last email, we are so proud of you. Here is a point i want to add on to junaid is that because of financial independence women are not vulnerable now as well as because of social awareness. If a girl is not even financially independent is not now tolerate these type of people.
5:08 : for the person asking advice in Canada , your situation might help you qualify for destitute international student work permit , contact an immigration consultant and explain your situation to him . Canada has an option for this kind of situations.
Talaaq ka ratio bar raha hain kyunki achi shaadiyon aur mindful parenting ka ratio barhane ka waqt aa gaya hain. Shaadi ho to achi ho warna khalli walli. When old ways no longer work, it's time to create newer and better systems. Regressive people don't deserve progress anyway, so we need to let the dogs bark and do what we gotta do, whether we have any support or don't. Himmat-e-marda toh madad e Khuda! God helps those who help themselves.
Ye banda baghair planning k Canada aya I came to Canada on study visa 4 years ago and completed 2 years engineering masters degree from an average university ranked like #20 in Canada and brought 2 semesters fee with me around 20K cad which is PKR 40 lac out of which almost 10 lac I earned in Pakistan from my job of 2 years based on the bachelors. I worked in all sort of factories making 14.5 an hour and then even after my full time job drove uber as a second income. Alhamdullah fast forward 4 years I make 150K from my job and switching 4 companies in 2 years per anum in downtown Toronto so prepare your mind of immense effort and stress of 4 years and have the finances people do make it here and there are lots of success stories
Bhut achi bat ki ap na",hobby" meary baba na mujhay apnay sath sath rukha ghar k har Kam ma,mujhay carpenter ka Kuch Kam atta ha, stitching, gardening mere hobby ha,or ab Meray bacho ma bhe allhumdulillah transfer ho Raha ha😊 Masha Allah
I used to make $6 per hour in 2013, and my fee was $7200 per semester as an international student. The fee per semester is around $8000 now, and if someone is making $14 per hour, I think it's still better, but the inflation is killing people these days. Rent is doubled, and grocery is way more expensive than before, etc. Less to no jobs.
I think, you should keep on bringing such stories of people so that other people can learn and understand more about life through their experiences. Life is not a bad of roses and one must be realistic. Success stories are appealing but one should have a complete knowledge before taking any further steps. Canada is not the old Canada anymore. I feel sometimes, we should strive and struggle at the place where we are, instead of taking unnecessary chances and putting all pennies in one basket. P.S. Kudos to Junaid Bhai for this kind of content.
Regarding DIY part, I got interest into using spanners, screwdrivers and other mechanical devices that were kept at home. My dad never stopped me from using them on even taking the wheels of my cycle out... In fact at that very young age they used to get me legos like mechanix kits. 25 years later when we moved to US, those skilled helped me and especially my wife a lot. I assembled every furniture at my home, once my car's taillight was damaged, I ordered one online and replaced it myself... All these things are really helpful and I see my friends struggling, complaining every time as everything is supposed to be done by yourself here... Lucky to got my interest there and parents too supporting it.
I’m in Canada for decades and I will say to anyone wanting to come here: DO NOT COME HERE right now. The situation is awful right now. Stay wherever you are and work on your life there.
Canada was never worth it in my opinion for tech workers, not just now. I have friends who moved from US to Canada in 2015 and 2016 and ran back to the US within a year. They all thought 3 years in Canada, then Canadian citizenship and then move back to the US. They were like, it is better to spend whole life on employment visa in US then live in Canada. Indians due to country backlog, cannot get green card for decades. I myself moved to Canada, after my return to India from US did not work out. I thought it is closer to US, so would be like US. But now, I am just counting my days for citizenship and leave this country. People who move to Canada from US absolutely hate it. I have seen tech workers with PhD and 3 years of experience getting salary of 100,000 CAD here and 2 BHK is 2400 CAD. Whereas I was getting 90,000 USD at entry level in 2012 at a place in US where 2 BHK was like 1300 USD. Right now, even there entry level pay is at least 110,000 USD and 2 BHK is 1700 USD (checked recently).
Bro canada is not a lost cause i worked in canada for 5 years and saved nearly 2 crore inr which is impossible for someone working in india now i am living in switzerland
Conditions in Canada are much different than they were a few years ago. You are in Switzerland now so maybe not aware of the situation in Canada these says.
Anyone who wants to go abroad especially as a student, if you do not have enough money for tuition and lodgings and fooding in your hand....getting a job in a first world country as a student is extremely tough....on the other hand if anyone is going on a job, especially if they already have a job offer from a company from those countries, they will have a comparatively comfortable life... Still, you need to be able to do your household chores in these countries, as there is no help....
Canada is a land of Opportunity for someone who is willing to roll up the sleeves and work hard before you settle down and take a sigh a relief. Once you reach your goal, its really worth the effort. Sorry to say, but the brother was still missing his comforts from his life at infosys. You have to hustle and work hard before you earn a comfortable life here in canada. Its not an easy market. Talent from all around the world is here to earn their share and you have to prove yourself among them.
I have been in Canada from the age of 14 and now I am 41. I got all my education from high school to Master's in Canada. I worked in some of the big international companies in Canada (GE, Revlon) but I was unemployed for couple years, starting from 2014. Then, I only got low-wage jobs. I went back to Pakistan to work and loved that job for 4 years. Then, I came back to Canada because my family lives here and was unemployed for 2 years. Then, I came down to Houston, Texas in 2023. With the same qualifications, which were useless in Canada, became valuable in USA and got hired in my field for a decent salary within couple months of moving to Texas. If Canada is such a great country, then why Canadians are moving to America in huge numbers???
International students do not get Federal Financial Aid, at least not in USA. But I am sure that other countries also offer financial aid only to their citizens. You may be able to get a scholarship or something...
Bhai Junaid Canada akr students jo krrahy hn wo ap inko btany ye parhny aye hn 20 hr work krsakty hn or inko har option yahan milta hy but ye short cut k chakar me apna kam kharab krhy hn or sath market bhi kharab krhy hn most of indain students on student visa are going to apply refuge why means why ap parhny aye hn parhny sub chez me time lgta hy short cut se kuch nahi hota
if you are international student in Canada, just think why did they give you money for study, you are ur own & you should support yourself with your or parents money, Don't be copycat,think before you do anything pros & cons,
35:51 Bravo! You raised a critical point to address because I also agree with you on this point that I don't know why the useless education provided to us or providing to our children which has no practicality in the life so our education providers which are actually selling their CHURAN not educating children in reality should focus on the empowerment with the important skills like plumbing, electricity or car maintenance and so on.
Junaid bhai, these things should be thought in high school. In USA I took a class for auto mechanics during my high school (9-12) 2-3 semesters. I learned a lot about cars theory, practical, and how to keep them maintained. I am not a mechanic professionally but have a great knowledge from the classes I took. Mechanics don’t try to fool me in USA and Pakistan. One day In Karachi Pakistan a bike mechanic tried to fool me by telling me that I need clutch plates, mean while it was a matter of replacing acceleration cable that was broken. Never the less the bike was stolen 2 days after 😂
Canada used to be a beautiful country when I came here some 21 years ago. Its unfortunate that things have come to this. I blame the current Trudeau govt for allowing this to happen. Just like the UK, Canada has opened the flood gates to student immigration and are charging intl' students 3 times more than a local student in fees. Having taken so many newcomers in such a short amount of time has spiked up housing prices, more competition for jobs and lowered the standard of living. This has all happened in the last 10 years and there's no one else to blame but the Trudeau govt.
Without education coming to western countries is bad idea, without funds coming for education is real Bad idea. Keep in mind people who live in North America will have hard time pay for their kids college education and need loans as well. You can’t pay for education working with 15/ hr jobs it is not possible plus living by expenses and owning a vehicle with insurance, Post Covid North America is very different for cost of living so plan better. Young people can survive the hard time, good technical education will get you through if jobs is your goal. Life is hard no pain no gain that how it is and will be. People are not cheated by Canada they cheat themselves convincing that they will survive here without planning or they are desperate to leave at all cost. Only themselves to blame.
The problem is Junaid Bhai. If you tell the truth to people they think that we are lying. Khid to mazzay kar raha hai or humai discourage kar raha hai (personal experience) The reality is that yes you can live a lavish and good life abroad but have to struggle and hard work a lot.
Coming to canada on student visa or even on work permit is not a good idea. If you are coming on PR, then you might have a chance to stable yourself in a few years. I see so many students daily struggling and they do not even smile. I talk to them and feel sad because they can not go back. I know things are really hard in Pakistan. But what you gonna do here if you would not find a job. This person has defined everything and this is the truth.
I moved to Canada in 2017 with my family but before that I did tons of research and preparation. Result was that I had two job offers in hand from Canadian employers even before I landed there.
Bhai isme kya dokha tha. What is the fault of Canada here. They ask for proof of money for a reason, the guy lied about the money he had to come to Canada. During the process they tell you there is no guarantee of a job. When you tell people you find a job here they think you are lying. There is no dokha in this situation listen to the people who are already here and stop lying about the amount of money you have back home
Canada is going hard on international students as the Universities have exploited international students. Canadian real estate, healthcare, jobs and immigration has been stretched thin due the massive influx of international students. Canadian government is going to respond and it will become harder for students. As a refugee who escaped persecution in Pakistan and immigrated to Canada, I cannot be more thankful. I have found support, understanding, respect and opportunities. I am enrolled in a program totally funded by the government ands upon completion I will be able to earn a respectable living. My two kids have free health and education and a bright future as compared to my former country of residence. Canada is the best place to live if you know what you want and how to get it.
I moved to North Korea about 5 years back. Life here is very very good. There is so much free money on road, shops, hotels.You can just pick it up and take it home. Everything is free including women. All you need is to dress like Kim Jong Un and enjoy. North Korea is issuing many visas to Pakistani people
Guys guys guys if you really want to go to abroad for a bright future you should go to another Unknow city where you don’t have any relatives in your country first after that you will be able to make decision to move abroad
Canada main darakhton par paisey nahi lagey huwe...yaha akar bhi hand to mouth hi rahogey ulta maa baap behn bhai risteydaar dost ahbab sab door hojayengey....kisi key pass kisi key liye time nahi...live alone no friends selfish life....
About question number 2. I used to be someone who lived in Saudi Arabia and I had tons of hobbies and they were mostly work out such as cycling and playing football but after coming here in Karachi, Pakistan and here is out things go down. First off people don’t play football and even if they do, they always team up with each other which leaves no competition behind or as most of the people don’t know how to play so no one really tries to play they just simple pick up the football and start bouncing it like a basketball and when it comes to bicycle no proper roads, no safety nothing and now I have also become someone who just only has a will to just get married, get a job and become an avg boring person with no particular person and even if you try discussing these things with people/family cousins they just bring up reasons like we got no will while they themselves having no hobby :v
Canada is one of the top countries in the world. Watching videos of students lining up for part-time jobs doesn't define a $2 trillion economy. Opportunities depend on your college/ university. If you believe you'll be paid in gold when you're doing a diploma from a low class college, then I'm sorry it doesn't happen in any country. Also, Canadian firms recognize your experience if you've worked at global firms. Your experience at Abdullah and Sons Ltd as deputy manager doesn't count here.
Pakistan se bahir agar koi Nurse job karta hai to Saudi Arabia sab se behtar hai at least 2 3 saal yahan kare us k baad kisi or taraf nikle me khud nurse hun Saudi Arabia me job karta hun 2 saal me apna ghar aik middle class area me bana liya hai or aisa hi hota hai ab mera MScN karne ka irada hai Malaysia ki aik university se jis me online hai bas last semester physically attend karna hai or me ne us k liye apply kiya hai
37:57 guitar kid here, junaid bhai my parents were full of joy when i showed them this podcast mentioning my brother, he is in immense joy and we cant thank you enough for your love and support❤
gooooooddd job boy
Zara abu bol kar dikha Junaid bhai ko 😂😂😂😂
@@ghazanhussain2070 ?
@@ghazanhussain2070please thori education lelo
@@sanasheikh7193 mujhe bhi boy bolo 🥺
To the lady in last question, I'm so proud of you, it was so inspiring to see you tackle all the financial, societal and patriarchal problems and happy that you've got the reward of it all in the end.
As someone who moved to Canada 6 years back , I would like set some records straight. I think Canada is the best country in the world and feel that moving there was the best decision of my life. It’s a land of immense opportunities and a great place to raise a family despite the somewhat uncontrolled wokeness. Whether it’s Canada , US, UK or even a different neighborhood in your own city - any move requires research and planning and if you are unable to do this then don’t blame the place .. blame yourself. Last point …. Only migrate to any country if it works for you and NOT just because someone else did it - Herd mentality kills !!!
Opportunities are in every country but you have to be smart to change things in your favour. So many people in Pakistan got wealthy and don't like to leave Pakistan and will never. In terms of Opportunities what Pakistanis community is doing here? Do you think all of them are highly skilled professionals? No. So majority of people come here and always saying we came here for better future for us and our kids which is not the case. If Western countries would be utopia then you wouldn't see homelessness and drug addicts and so many other issues. The only reason Pakistan is not doing good first due to army madarchod and second people don't try to improve and develop the country.
It was a great country until pre-covid. You're only literally living now to pay the taxes, rent/mortgage and bills
guarantee you execute the same plans in pak vs canada you will get further in canada, simply put
I am working on moving to Canada, either the PR or the work permit. In sha Allah
@safifaruqi thats not true. A country like Canada had its own issues and challenges too, which honestly our people migrating here don't want to traverse through the right methods. E.g finding a job, getting a proper education ( ghar Laine ke liye ready hain per degree pe 50k nahe lagain ge.
It's a very different culture, and lay of the land- which takes an extremely different approach. Those who do it right settle well.
However, Pakistan is structured and work completely opposite to Canadian society and industry ( I am not saying good or bad ). How our people in Pakistan go about life, works for many people and they succeed - some friends have raised multi million dollar firms in Pakistan.
I agree, Canada is an amazing country but no one ever said it'll be a walk in the park and everyone will be flying high. People here fail badly as well, with tons of debt and go bankrupt/homeless.
Regarding the job market in Canada, people simply aren't ready Landing straight from Pakistan. You need to learn the culture, have references of experience, certifications, understanding of tax system, law, diversity, Profesional licenses - when Indians and Pakistanis feel they will bypass this all, they face tough times. I did my engineering from PK and there was absolutely no need of a PEC license. In Canada, you can't practice engineering without having a license
Hence, to summarize, making a change is tough in any country but especially for people who cut corners and don't want to put in the work.
The irony in the first case here is that the company the poor soul left (Infosys), is the same company major tech companies in Australia, Canada, UK and USA outsource their tech jobs to over seas and on shore. He's probably one of the few who has no idea about this.
He is an idiot, to leave company like Infosys
💯 agreed, I am from Pakistan and struggling with hope that everything will be good.
I won't recommend youth to live the Canadian dream. Do something in Pakistan that will be fruitful in long-term.
Exactly
I am in Canada for past 8 years Canada has changed so much after COVID! junaid is so right CANADA IS DONE UNREALISTICALLY EXPENSIVE
Expensive, yet affordable unlike some other countries. Isn't it?
Bro I came to canada after covid. And i visited germany, Netherland, Ireland and also consulted with few people in Australia. I am very sure Canada is still the best Place on this Planet. If and only if u r leaving ur home country
Thanks to unlimited immigration
Canada has been UK-fied. UK has been a sh*thole for 10+ years, now Canada is joining. America will be joining the third world western nation party in another 5 years.
@@civilengineerishaqsohag affordable like drain out daily just to live here with no success and savings, just stuck
Even if whatever the bad situation here still I'll tell you to come to Canada because all these hardships be worth it. After all the hard times you will see the good days.
5:08 : for the person who go to Canada leaving Infosys job, Tell the truth to your parents and if possible come back to India and do same hard work as you are doing in Canada. You will enjoy much better life in India. Now in India If you have good skills in IT you will earn good money in India also.
But wherever he lives in India or Pakistan, environment/ surroundings around him will continue to be a problem
The peace of mind that Canada has will not be found in India or Pakistan.
@@batorvator2336.. True.
@@batorvator2336 No it is not ... He will have more peace when you have somebody to help
I agree, he should go back. The mental stress kills. Please talk to your parents
Tell him to move to another city take a transfer for college and work with union if possible and look for volunteer options or go to employment agency it’s free of cost
Canada is amazing in so many ways that none of these people have mentioned. There is no racism, free education for children, free healthcare, and it is beautiful! Yes, it has certain challenges like expensive housing and a competitive job market, but I would take them any day over load-shedding and not having basic human rights. You need to embrace and accept the place for what it is rather than compare it with the comforts back home. I moved here 2 years ago and I have zero regrets. Please do not get discouraged by listening to stories of people who focus only on problems. If you have a chance to get out, GET OUT NOW!
There is plenty of racism and Islamophobia here, growing day by day. Free education standards is below average compared to Pakistani education standards. Free health care is also below average standard. One has to wait weeks just to get an appt with General Physician, specialist appt you have to wait months. But yes it’s got a lot of natural beauty and no electrical outages and security thanks to the high taxes we pay.
True that!! Been here for 22 years, my father had a triple bypass surgery and it didn't cost us a dime. People who complain about racism must reflect upon themselves, it all depends on how you carry yourself. I've never been victimized by racism, or Islamophobia whatsoever. People often complain a lot about the healthcare system, without realizing that their headache or fever cannot be treated as an emergency, I mean sure one can goto States and pay for their doctors visit just for comparison's sake, giving birth to a child costs upto $30k in states, whereas in Canada it costs you absolutely 0. Our healthcare and infrastructure is derailing esp because of refugees and folks who are milking the welfare system. Sure, we pay taxes but look at all the extra weight we carry, refugees and folks on welfare don't pay taxes, they live off of our taxes and there are people I know who have been on welfare for 30 years 😮. Anyhow, Canada has been home, it's a beautiful land.
As a student
why u want sharia in uk n Canada
@@sincerelysohaRacism will be there as u r demanding Sharia law there
It’s still better than living in a country where no human rights no one is respected unless you are connected to the upper classes.
How so?
I don't know the last lady, but I am really proud of you. May Allah bless you and your family with many prayers. Amen xx
Salute to the lady who shared her remarkable journey, despite all the difficulties and challenges, she made it though ❤
Indeed a very inspiring content on uplifting Pakistani women.To my knowledge the only brave effort to bring up the morals of our women.
BRAVO
Being as a Canadian Citizen for almost 15 Years know living in Pakistan one should listen what junaid is saying but new guys think POSITIVE that is more important, once you think positive some thing inner of you KICK YOU FOR SUCCESS when you are in Canada ♥
You have lived in Canada for 15 years and you still cannot string a gramatically correct statement in English.
I had a stroke reading that🤕
Bro Canada is doomed with ppl like u who can't even speeak english properly
@@gauravipal9518 you are right my grammar is weak
@@gauravipal9518 it’s not the end of the world if the grammar is wrong. Nobody cares about grammar except in India or Pakistan. The main idea is to speak clearly so people can understand.
As a Canadian Pakistani living in Canada I can confirm that whatever Junaid is sharing is 100% true. The story he shared about the guy he shared about the student from UP who came to Brampton is a VERY COMMON STORY here in Canada.
Indians in particular sell their land and take loans to send their kids here. The kids work odd jobs, live in substandard conditions, have zero life and are enrolled in silly diplomas which are worth nothing to stay on student visa here.
There used to be a time when Canada was an opportunistic place, but after all this open immigration and student visa, the system is exhausted.
Pakistanis and Indians need to GET OVER this “bahir jana “ culture. The grass is far far from green on this side.
I blame no one other than that person here. Everyone has the Internet. It takes half an hour to research about a country before you decide to permanently change your life by settling there. It's very irresponsible of people like that guy that they don't do ANY research before upping their life. Not only do they fuck up their own lives but they have messed up Canada as well. We don't have odd jobs for Canadians because of people like him. People like him are abusing food banks here. People like him work under the table for illegal cash jobs, putting pressure on wages and prevent them from growing. I hate useless people like him who move to a different country and then realize it was a dumb move.
Smart Indian students go to the US. They would never go to Canada, Australia, the UK, etc.
Only Indian students who are not good at studies go to Canada, Australia, the UK etc.
@@rrboss3721 No entirely true. If you ctrl+F my name, and search comment section, you would find I have cussed Canada like anything, and have studied at a top 20 tech school in the US, with full GRA on funded research project. The problem is it will take decades, some say 50 or 100 years for a person born in India to get green card in the US.
Even if you do an exceptional PhD, publish a lot, it will still take 4 to 6 years to get green card and there is no guarantee. So many people are going to Canada for studies. There are few decent universities here, but I always recommend US. But after spending certain time in US, you get used to lifestyle here. If you by choice, or for reason have to return to India, you realize there is no easy way back. That's why people go to Canada.
I returned to India, realized in 2.5 years it was not working out, so gave interviews for Canada and Europe sitting in India and cracked them. But my US education, research I did during my masters which subsequently provided me a niche R&D job in US did provide huge weight to my resume.
@Tahreemsheikh: I don't fully agree. Things are not bright on Canada/UK/Australia and other side, but same cannot be said about Canada's big neighbor. I went to US in 2010 for my masters, worked there, returned to India in 2019 and came to Canada in Nov 2021. US is any day better than India, Canada, Europe or Australia.for tech workers. Canada/Aus/Europe has low salaries for tech workers, healthcare is shit and people are racist/not accepting. I am just waiting to get Canadian citizenship and leave to India for second time, as I want to be closer to my parents. I am in Canada only because I feel, with Canadian passport entry/exit in US would be simpler if I want to move 10 to 15 years down the line.
If my parents were not in question, I would immediately email my manage in US, re-apply for my existing H-1B and I would run back to US and live on employment visa for my whole life. I am just 11 months away for eligibility of Canadian citizenship but honestly dont care.
Loraaa mairaa uber driver where do u live in canada sir I am in brampton do you think so what junaid is saying is correct are u serious show me one house where 9 people are living in one room teri baaaji us kamray main hogi jo tu itna sure hai bull shit
55:33 the term you're looking for is Acute spinal cord injury (SCI) is due to a traumatic injury that bruises, partially tears, or completely tears the spinal cord. SCI is a common cause of permanent disability and death in children and adults.
Believe me I was just eating lobia and bread, when the the joke of lobia and strength came up! 😂🤣
😂
Lol, hahahaha
Bruh😂😂😂🤣🤣🙏.......
Please make a separate clip for last success story, wonderful what a great lesson for women that’s why people reach out more and more real stories
You are saving many prospective students, you will definitely get rewarded for your efforts. The bottom line is that In U.K the universities and landlords survive on international students,so please spend your hard earned money in your country for starting a small business and live peacefully with your people.
Best Ganji ask ever !!
Every major thing for everyone but especially for GenZ is all in this episode .
Being born in Canada, I can agree with you that Canada is no longer the land of opportunity that it once was. After Covid the place is a mess and even the locals are struggling and thinking to move out, if they haven’t already done so. So please research and then do some more research because it’s much more difficult to make it here than it was a few years back.
There should be a success story in every videos end. Kudos to that girl. 🙏🏽
I have been in Canada since 2004. The situation has only deteriorated. Colleges with 200 seats issued 2000 visas for students primarily from India, Pak, Bangla Desh & China only to leave the students in the lurch. A local desi funeral home claims to be doing the last rites of at least 5 students a week. Ensure that you do proper research before taking a step. Join universities as degrees from there have more marketability. Sad state of affairs even for Canadians studying in univs here as salaries have literally gone down.
As a recent PhD graduate in London UK and currently doing a professional job related to my field of study (engineering), I'll be happy to answer questions and getting into nitty gritty of things related to immigration and money management at the best of my knowledge.
How to contact you
Your f liar
Thank you so much for your precious and meaningful contribution to Pakistan and its future ❤ hope to see it thriving again. I wonder how i could contribute as well.
3rd Question:
It is common in Murree Mall road hotels. Newly married couples shadi k agley din ghoomne nikel jaatey hain, and un k pas jab tak nikah nama nhi aata.
Murree k hotels me raat ko late night police waaley ajatey hain nikaah nama maangtey hain and then harrass kerte hain. So beware of that too.
Our driver was an old experienced man. He asked us to come with Nikah nama. And if you don't have one then stay only at some reputed hotel on Mall Road, or don't stay there at all.
That's good.
سر اگر ہر باہر جانے والا انڈین پاکستانی باہر جانے سے پہلے 3 یا 4 مہینے کا کوئ بھی ٹیکنیکل کورس کر لے مٹال کے طور پر پلمبرنگ،وال پینٹنگ ،ٹائل فکسنگ تو پھر بہت اچھے پیسے بنا لے گا،میرا اپنا دوست رشیا گیا تھا اور اسکے پاس گھروں میں سپلٹ ائرکنڈیشن لگانے کا تجربہ تھا اس میں اتنے پیسے کمائے کے پڑھائ ہی چھوڑنی پڑی اور اسی کام کو بڑے لیول پر شروع کردیا۔
It really depends, in Canada and America you need to obtain a license to become a plumber, electrician, carpenter and even to paint a house as a profession.
Very good episode and also heart touching stories. Kudos to Junaid for doing this and also damn good advise.
Mashallah Junaid bhai you are doing a wonderful thing trying to help people. I have survived in London for 16 years on my own and would be happy to share my experience and tips with people if they like. I’ve always had an ability to find a way to save money in all stages of my life and would love to share my knowledge inshallah. Looking forward to talking to you some day. Thanks
Amir
Last E-mail /story - Really very interesting. cudos to the girl who made bold decisions to make herself secure and make her family members too.
Calendar latkana hai aaj ki generation ko smajh nhi aaya hoga,yai hamare zamaane ka sms forward hai😂. Purana time yaad aa gya. Haha
Lol
The last part made me think that how many more wonderfull womens like her are living there life on behalf of others more power to you lady!!
Kudos to junaid for bringing up such stories 🤞🏻❣️
آپ کے والدین نے لوگوں کو حوصلہ شکنی کا درس دیا ہے۔ آپ پروگرام میں جو بھی بات کر رہے ہیں، وہ اسکرپٹ ڈسٹرکشن ہیں۔ جو لوگ پیسے پر پیدا ہوتے ہیں، جن کے من باپ نے ساری زندگی صرف پس کمایا مگر اپنی اولاد کو دوسرو کی حوصلہ شکنی شکنی سکھائی ، وہ دوسروں کو آگے بڑھتا نہیں دیکھ سکتے، کسی کی حوصلہ افزائی نہیں کر سکتے۔ اس کا اللہ پر بھروسہ بھی نہی ہے ہے اور یہ حقیقت انسان کا چہرہ دیکھ کر ہی سمجھ میں آسکتی ہے۔ اس کا جواب انگریزی بولنے کی صلاحیت نہیں بلکہ دیا گیا جواب ہے۔ حرآ منسل سے پیدا ہونے والے کچھ لوگ، جن کے والد کا نام معلوم نہیں، چاہتے ہیں کہ پاکستان اور پاکستان کے بہادر عوام مایوس ہو کر بیٹھ جائیں اور آخر کار ہمت ہار کر مایوس ہو جائیں۔
٦میرا یہ پیغام بہت گہرا اور جذباتی ہے۔ میں نے چند اہم نکات پر روشنی ڈالی ہے، جن میں لوگوں کی حوصلہ شکنی اور مشکلات کا سامنا شامل ہیں۔ یہاں میرا یہ مضمون ہے جو آپ کی باتوں کو اردو میں بہتر انداز میں بیان کرتا ہے:
حوصلہ شکنی اور ہمت: ایک سوچنے پر مجبور کرنے والا
ہمارے معاشرے میں حوصلہ شکنی ایک عام رویہ بن چکا ہے۔ اکثر لوگ، جو خود کسی مشکل دور سے گزرے ہوتے ہیں یا اپنی زندگی میں بہت سی کامیابیاں حاصل کی ہوتی ہیں، دوسروں کی حوصلہ افزائی کرنے کے بجائے انہیں نیچا دکھانے کی کوشش کرتے ہیں۔ یہ رویہ نہ صرف انفرادی طور پر نقصان دہ ہے بلکہ معاشرتی ترقی میں بھی رکاوٹ بنتا ہے۔
والدین کا کردار اور ذمہ داری
والدین کا کردار بچوں کی تربیت میں بہت اہم ہوتا ہے۔ جب والدین خود لوگوں کی حوصلہ شکنی کا درس دیتے ہیں، تو بچے بھی اسی رویے کو اپناتے ہیں۔ ایسے بچے بڑے ہو کر بھی دوسروں کی حوصلہ افزائی نہیں کرتے اور معاشرے میں مایوسی پھیلانے کا باعث بنتے ہیں۔ والدین کو چاہیے کہ وہ بچوں کو دوسروں کی کامیابیوں پر خوش ہونا سکھائیں اور ان کی حوصلہ افزائی کریں۔
پیسے اور کامیابی کا غلط تصور
بہت سے لوگ سمجھتے ہیں کہ کامیابی صرف پیسے کمانے میں ہے۔ حالانکہ حقیقی کامیابی اس میں ہے کہ آپ دوسروں کے ہمّت کو اپنی ہمّت اور اپنی کمزوری سے نہی ملا سکتے شرم کرین اوراپنے اندر ہمّت پیدا کریں اگر آپ میں تھوڑی بہت غیرت ہے اور ہمہمّت والے باہمّت پاکستانیوں کو توڑنے سے اچھا ہے تعمیری سوچ مثبت سوچ دینے کی کوشش کریں
آپ کے والدین نے لوگوں کو حوصلہ شکنی کا درس دیا ہے۔ آپ پروگرام میں جو بھی بات کر رہے ہیں، وہ اسکرپٹ ڈسٹرکشن ہیں۔ جو لوگ پیسے پر پیدا ہوتے ہیں، جن کے باپوں نے ساری زندگی اسے کمایا ہے، وہ دوسروں کو آگے بڑھتا نہیں دیکھ سکتے، کسی کی حوصلہ افزائی نہیں کر سکتے۔ اس کا اللہ پر بھروسہ ہے اور یہ حقیقت انسان کا چہرہ دیکھ کر ہی سمجھ میں آسکتی ہے۔ اس کا جواب انگریزی بولنے کی صلاحیت نہیں بلکہ دیا گیا جواب ہے۔ حرم کونسل سے پیدا ہونے والے کچھ لوگ، جن کے والد کا نام معلوم نہیں، چاہتے ہیں کہ پاکستان اور پاکستان کے بہادر عوام مایوس ہو کر بیٹھ جائیں اور آخر کار ہمت ہار کر مایوس ہو جائیں۔
یاپھر ایسا کرنے والے لوگوں کے درمیان حوصلہ شکنی اور ہمت: ایک فکر انگیز تجزیہ
ہمارے معاشرے میں حوصلہ شکنی ایک سنگین مسئلہ بن چکی ہے۔ کچھ لوگ، جنہیں زندگی میں ہر چیز بغیر کسی جدوجہد کے مل گئی ہو، دوسروں کی کامیابیوں کو تسلیم کرنے اور ان کی حوصلہ افزائی کرنے میں ناکام رہتے ہیں۔ یہ لوگ نہ صرف دوسروں کو آگے بڑھنے سے روکتے ہیں بلکہ معاشرتی ترقی میں بھی رکاوٹ بن جاتے ہیں۔
والدین کا کردار
والدین کا کردار بچوں کی تربیت میں انتہائی اہم ہوتا ہے۔ اگر والدین خود لوگوں کی حوصلہ شکنی کرتے ہیں اور منفی رویوں کا اظہار کرتے ہیں، تو بچے بھی اسی رویے کو اپناتے ہیں۔ ایسے بچے بڑے ہو کر معاشرے میں مایوسی اور ناامیدی پھیلانے کا سبب بنتے ہیں۔ والدین کو چاہیے کہ وہ بچوں کو دوسروں کی کامیابیوں پر خوش ہونا سکھائیں اور ان کی حوصلہ افزائی کریں۔
پیسے اور کامیابی کا غلط تصور
بہت سے لوگ سمجھتے ہیں کہ کامیابی صرف پیسے کمانے میں ہے۔ حالانکہ حقیقت یہ ہے کہ حقیقی کامیابی اس میں ہے کہ آپ دوسروں کے لیے کتنے مددگار اور ہمدرد ہیں۔ جو لوگ پیسے پر پیدا ہوتے ہیں اور جن کے والدین نے ساری زندگی پیسہ کمایا ہو، وہ اکثر دوسروں کی حوصلہ افزائی نہیں کر پاتے۔ ان کی نظر میں پیسہ ہی سب کچھ ہوتا ہے اور وہ دوسروں کی ترقی کو برداشت نہیں کر پاتے۔
اللہ پر بھروسہ
ایک انسان کو اللہ پر بھروسہ رکھنا چاہیے۔ کامیابی اور ناکامی اللہ کے ہاتھ میں ہے۔ ہمیں اپنی کوششوں پر یقین رکھنا چاہیے اور اللہ سے دعا کرنی چاہیے کہ وہ ہمیں ہمت اور حوصلہ عطا کرے۔ انسان کے چہرے پر اس کے دل کی حالت عیاں ہوتی ہے۔ اگر دل میں اللہ پر بھروسہ اور دوسروں کے لیے خیرخواہی ہو تو یہ اس کے چہرے سے جھلکتا ہے۔
معاشرتی ترقی اور حوصلہ افزائی
کچھ لوگ، جن کے خاندانی پسمنظر میں یہی کچھ سکھایا ہو وو چاہتے ہیں کہ پاکستان اور اس کے بہادر عوام مایوس ہو جائیں اور آخر کار ہمت ہار دیں۔ ہمیں ان لوگوں کے اثر سے بچنا چاہیے اور اپنے ملک اور عوام کی ترقی کے لیے مل جل کر کام کرنا چاہیے۔ ہمیں اپنی اور دوسروں کی حوصلہ افزائی کرنی چاہیے تاکہ ہم سب مل کر ایک بہتر مستقبل کی طرف بڑھ سکیں۔
حوصلہ شکنی اور مایوسی ہمارے معاشرے کے لیے زہر کی مانند ہیں۔ ہمیں اپنی زندگی میں مثبت رویوں کو اپنانا چاہیے اور دوسروں کی کامیابیوں پر خوش ہونا چاہیے۔ اللہ پر بھروسہ رکھنا اور دوسروں کی مدد کرنا ہی ہماری اصل کامیابی ہے۔ ہمیں مل کر اپنے ملک اور معاشرے کی ترقی کے لیے کام کرنا چاہیے اور ہر قسم کی حوصلہ شکنی سے بچنا چاہیے۔
ایسی مایوس کن باتیں اور فضول بکواسس والے پروگرام کرنا بینڈ کریں اور اپنے اندر ہمّت پیدا کریں لوگوںکو ہمّت دینے کی ورنہ آپ کا گنجا ہونا بیکار چلا جائے گا
Junaid sir , you are really shaping my brain in how to live abroad before going abroad.
Excellent show. All youth of Pakistan should listen to your advice.
Man a round of applause to the last woman. Well done truly inspiring! Amazing story of taking control of your life.
I am really having tears in my eyes listening to the last story, how can someone be so ruthless like okay there could be some up's and down in every relation but to this extent this is shameful. I think it's really now the women's right to scan the man they are going married to from up to bottom. Feel really sorry for this.
Same for man
Junaid bhai I'm from UK, Apka regular listener hun. Meri hobby b DIY hai jo mane Pakistan ma apne dad ko dekh dekh k develop ki. Yaha a k bht kuch khud hi kia like installing CCTV, TV Wall mounting, decorating the house, etc. It's all that I've learnt from my dad, they used to do this kind of stuff in our childhood. It's a very useful tool a person should have. Yaha pr to chote se kam k lia koi ata nae ha agr a jae to uske charges us sare kam ki cost se zada hote hen...
Junaid Bhai, get your son a kitchen set and a toy mopping kit and toy hammer and nail set, some cheap painta big paper and brushes. So that he also learn life skills and get comfortable being in kitchen, get use to concept of cleaning and to fix things on his own. As you said, anything which sparks crousity, creativity and joy is good for kids. Very limited time should be spent in screens. Its also important to let kids get bored. Let them figure out what they can do.
*wow what a bitter resentful pernicious sarcastic comment,.*
Canada is becoming a nightmare even for native Canadian so don’t ever think to move to Canada by paying millions.
For the last email, we are so proud of you. Here is a point i want to add on to junaid is that because of financial independence women are not vulnerable now as well as because of social awareness. If a girl is not even financially independent is not now tolerate these type of people.
5:08 : for the person asking advice in Canada , your situation might help you qualify for destitute international student work permit , contact an immigration consultant and explain your situation to him . Canada has an option for this kind of situations.
Love you Junaid Bhai for beautiful advice, please make some program on narcissistic behaviour or narcissistic people. thank you
Talaaq ka ratio bar raha hain kyunki achi shaadiyon aur mindful parenting ka ratio barhane ka waqt aa gaya hain. Shaadi ho to achi ho warna khalli walli. When old ways no longer work, it's time to create newer and better systems. Regressive people don't deserve progress anyway, so we need to let the dogs bark and do what we gotta do, whether we have any support or don't. Himmat-e-marda toh madad e Khuda! God helps those who help themselves.
Ye banda baghair planning k Canada aya
I came to Canada on study visa 4 years ago and completed 2 years engineering masters degree from an average university ranked like #20 in Canada and brought 2 semesters fee with me around 20K cad which is PKR 40 lac out of which almost 10 lac I earned in Pakistan from my job of 2 years based on the bachelors.
I worked in all sort of factories making 14.5 an hour and then even after my full time job drove uber as a second income.
Alhamdullah fast forward 4 years I make 150K from my job and switching 4 companies in 2 years per anum in downtown Toronto
so prepare your mind of immense effort and stress of 4 years and have the finances people do make it here and there are lots of success stories
Hobbies Waly Bhai ko Red Salute. You put the very important issue
World is beautiful if you learn to ignore trollers❤
OMG the last email was so heart breaking how can people do this thing to another human being sadist..!
Bhut achi bat ki ap na",hobby" meary baba na mujhay apnay sath sath rukha ghar k har Kam ma,mujhay carpenter ka Kuch Kam atta ha, stitching, gardening mere hobby ha,or ab Meray bacho ma bhe allhumdulillah transfer ho Raha ha😊 Masha Allah
Proud of the lady in the last question 🤌🏻 may Allah protect you and your family ❤️
Wonderful information. Best of luck Mr. Junaid Akram and team.
The Lady at the end, A big salute to your resilience and hardwork 1:17:16 Your parents must be very proud of you 👏 Well done!
Vishvaas Karoge, Toh Dhokha Khavoge He, Sirf Desh Nahi, Inshaan Bhi Aisa Karta Hai, Soch Samajke Qadum Rakkho.
finally consistent uploads
I believe coming to Canada was the best ever thing that I have done ever….. Having Canadian passport and working in the USA from the last 10 years……
I used to make $6 per hour in 2013, and my fee was $7200 per semester as an international student. The fee per semester is around $8000 now, and if someone is making $14 per hour, I think it's still better, but the inflation is killing people these days. Rent is doubled, and grocery is way more expensive than before, etc. Less to no jobs.
I think, you should keep on bringing such stories of people so that other people can learn and understand more about life through their experiences. Life is not a bad of roses and one must be realistic. Success stories are appealing but one should have a complete knowledge before taking any further steps. Canada is not the old Canada anymore. I feel sometimes, we should strive and struggle at the place where we are, instead of taking unnecessary chances and putting all pennies in one basket.
P.S. Kudos to Junaid Bhai for this kind of content.
Please whenever you visit London, do visit her and take an interview please
Plz make a separate clip of last question, this needs to be shared on every platform!!
The last story has my heart❤❤ A SUPERWOMAN Bravooooo
Regarding DIY part, I got interest into using spanners, screwdrivers and other mechanical devices that were kept at home. My dad never stopped me from using them on even taking the wheels of my cycle out... In fact at that very young age they used to get me legos like mechanix kits. 25 years later when we moved to US, those skilled helped me and especially my wife a lot. I assembled every furniture at my home, once my car's taillight was damaged, I ordered one online and replaced it myself...
All these things are really helpful and I see my friends struggling, complaining every time as everything is supposed to be done by yourself here... Lucky to got my interest there and parents too supporting it.
I’m in Canada for decades and I will say to anyone wanting to come here: DO NOT COME HERE right now. The situation is awful right now. Stay wherever you are and work on your life there.
Canada was never worth it in my opinion for tech workers, not just now. I have friends who moved from US to Canada in 2015 and 2016 and ran back to the US within a year. They all thought 3 years in Canada, then Canadian citizenship and then move back to the US. They were like, it is better to spend whole life on employment visa in US then live in Canada. Indians due to country backlog, cannot get green card for decades.
I myself moved to Canada, after my return to India from US did not work out. I thought it is closer to US, so would be like US. But now, I am just counting my days for citizenship and leave this country. People who move to Canada from US absolutely hate it. I have seen tech workers with PhD and 3 years of experience getting salary of 100,000 CAD here and 2 BHK is 2400 CAD. Whereas I was getting 90,000 USD at entry level in 2012 at a place in US where 2 BHK was like 1300 USD. Right now, even there entry level pay is at least 110,000 USD and 2 BHK is 1700 USD (checked recently).
@@rohanbansal9563 you’re right brother. USA is just better
Recently AL-HUMDULILLAH got the visa I'll be there in June, looking forward for humble Society 💯
Society is humble but you have to be hard working and mentally strong.
Bro canada is not a lost cause i worked in canada for 5 years and saved nearly 2 crore inr which is impossible for someone working in india now i am living in switzerland
And even your name changed to Steve smith from sachdeep Singh
Conditions in Canada are much different than they were a few years ago. You are in Switzerland now so maybe not aware of the situation in Canada these says.
First explain your entire circumstances from the very beginning only then we can judge your statement.
@@saniak5262 no i visit canada regularly my father has business there
@@wahz_amd my name changed becuase my favourite cricketer is steve smith
Anyone who wants to go abroad especially as a student, if you do not have enough money for tuition and lodgings and fooding in your hand....getting a job in a first world country as a student is extremely tough....on the other hand if anyone is going on a job, especially if they already have a job offer from a company from those countries, they will have a comparatively comfortable life...
Still, you need to be able to do your household chores in these countries, as there is no help....
EPITOME OF STRENTH, THE LAST QUESTION GIRL.
RED SALUTE!!
Tell Canada guy to leave Brampton ASAP, because all employers here are asian, they don't pay enough.
Better to go Alberta or NS.
U did not gave good suggestion to Brampton guy.
Junaid bhai didn't hesitate saying "Aap ny jhatkay maray tu ho gaye" 40:14 😂
Canada is a land of Opportunity for someone who is willing to roll up the sleeves and work hard before you settle down and take a sigh a relief. Once you reach your goal, its really worth the effort.
Sorry to say, but the brother was still missing his comforts from his life at infosys. You have to hustle and work hard before you earn a comfortable life here in canada. Its not an easy market. Talent from all around the world is here to earn their share and you have to prove yourself among them.
I have been in Canada from the age of 14 and now I am 41. I got all my education from high school to Master's in Canada. I worked in some of the big international companies in Canada (GE, Revlon) but I was unemployed for couple years, starting from 2014. Then, I only got low-wage jobs. I went back to Pakistan to work and loved that job for 4 years. Then, I came back to Canada because my family lives here and was unemployed for 2 years. Then, I came down to Houston, Texas in 2023. With the same qualifications, which were useless in Canada, became valuable in USA and got hired in my field for a decent salary within couple months of moving to Texas.
If Canada is such a great country, then why Canadians are moving to America in huge numbers???
International students do not get Federal Financial Aid, at least not in USA. But I am sure that other countries also offer financial aid only to their citizens. You may be able to get a scholarship or something...
Mr. junaid Akram please do make a short video for her in your RUclips, so many people think about it that problem.
Bhai Junaid Canada akr students jo krrahy hn wo ap inko btany ye parhny aye hn 20 hr work krsakty hn or inko har option yahan milta hy but ye short cut k chakar me apna kam kharab krhy hn or sath market bhi kharab krhy hn most of indain students on student visa are going to apply refuge why means why ap parhny aye hn parhny sub chez me time lgta hy short cut se kuch nahi hota
if you are international student in Canada, just think why did they give you money for study, you are ur own & you should support yourself with your or parents money, Don't be copycat,think before you do anything pros & cons,
The story of a girl life in the minutes was sad and Allah Kareem help her. Ameen Sum Ameen
Proud of the Lady.
35:51 Bravo! You raised a critical point to address because I also agree with you on this point that I don't know why the useless education provided to us or providing to our children which has no practicality in the life so our education providers which are actually selling their CHURAN not educating children in reality should focus on the empowerment with the important skills like plumbing, electricity or car maintenance and so on.
Junaid bhai, these things should be thought in high school. In USA I took a class for auto mechanics during my high school (9-12) 2-3 semesters. I learned a lot about cars theory, practical, and how to keep them maintained. I am not a mechanic professionally but have a great knowledge from the classes I took. Mechanics don’t try to fool me in USA and Pakistan. One day In Karachi Pakistan a bike mechanic tried to fool me by telling me that I need clutch plates, mean while it was a matter of replacing acceleration cable that was broken. Never the less the bike was stolen 2 days after 😂
7:14 that's not a flex big brother. God save us from such conditions
Canada used to be a beautiful country when I came here some 21 years ago. Its unfortunate that things have come to this. I blame the current Trudeau govt for allowing this to happen. Just like the UK, Canada has opened the flood gates to student immigration and are charging intl' students 3 times more than a local student in fees. Having taken so many newcomers in such a short amount of time has spiked up housing prices, more competition for jobs and lowered the standard of living. This has all happened in the last 10 years and there's no one else to blame but the Trudeau govt.
Without education coming to western countries is bad idea, without funds coming for education is real
Bad idea. Keep in mind people who live in North America will have hard time pay for their kids college education and need loans as well. You can’t pay for education working with 15/ hr jobs it is not possible plus living by expenses and owning a vehicle with insurance,
Post Covid North America is very different for cost of living so plan better. Young people can survive the hard time, good technical education will get you through if jobs is your goal. Life is hard no pain no gain that how it is and will be. People are not cheated by Canada they cheat themselves convincing that they will survive here without planning or they are desperate to leave at all cost. Only themselves to blame.
The problem is Junaid Bhai. If you tell the truth to people they think that we are lying. Khid to mazzay kar raha hai or humai discourage kar raha hai (personal experience) The reality is that yes you can live a lavish and good life abroad but have to struggle and hard work a lot.
Infosys is the most highly paid company in India.
70 hours a week wale hai
Yeh Kab hua bhai?
@@ankitait2Murthy sahab ne bola hai
😂😂😂😂 good joke.
Coming to canada on student visa or even on work permit is not a good idea.
If you are coming on PR, then you might have a chance to stable yourself in a few years.
I see so many students daily struggling and they do not even smile. I talk to them and feel sad because they can not go back.
I know things are really hard in Pakistan. But what you gonna do here if you would not find a job.
This person has defined everything and this is the truth.
Your programmes are so informative.
May ALLAH give you happy life
I moved to Canada in 2017 with my family but before that I did tons of research and preparation. Result was that I had two job offers in hand from Canadian employers even before I landed there.
But the situation now is completely changed
been in canda 5 years now, it wont beeasy making it here but its easier than pak and ill die on that hill.
29:01. Which building are you referring to which is dividing the road into two? Can you please share more details. Just asking out of curiosity.
Bhai isme kya dokha tha. What is the fault of Canada here. They ask for proof of money for a reason, the guy lied about the money he had to come to Canada. During the process they tell you there is no guarantee of a job. When you tell people you find a job here they think you are lying. There is no dokha in this situation listen to the people who are already here and stop lying about the amount of money you have back home
can't find a job here***
Canada is going hard on international students as the Universities have exploited international students. Canadian real estate, healthcare, jobs and immigration has been stretched thin due the massive influx of international students. Canadian government is going to respond and it will become harder for students.
As a refugee who escaped persecution in Pakistan and immigrated to Canada, I cannot be more thankful. I have found support, understanding, respect and opportunities. I am enrolled in a program totally funded by the government ands upon completion I will be able to earn a respectable living. My two kids have free health and education and a bright future as compared to my former country of residence.
Canada is the best place to live if you know what you want and how to get it.
I moved to North Korea about 5 years back. Life here is very very good. There is so much free money on road, shops, hotels.You can just pick it up and take it home. Everything is free including women.
All you need is to dress like Kim Jong Un and enjoy.
North Korea is issuing many visas to Pakistani people
You have very good quality weed.
take a break ,first earn and manage your financial crisis then continue your studies and talk to your parents truth they will take care
Guys guys guys if you really want to go to abroad for a bright future you should go to another Unknow city where you don’t have any relatives in your country first after that you will be able to make decision to move abroad
Canada main darakhton par paisey nahi lagey huwe...yaha akar bhi hand to mouth hi rahogey ulta maa baap behn bhai risteydaar dost ahbab sab door hojayengey....kisi key pass kisi key liye time nahi...live alone no friends selfish life....
Anyone noticed that sarmad's podcast is not available anymore, it was in my watch list 😢
The more real you get, the more unreal the world gets.
-- John Lennon
There In Canada, OSAP loan for students and try to make work permit.
About question number 2. I used to be someone who lived in Saudi Arabia and I had tons of hobbies and they were mostly work out such as cycling and playing football but after coming here in Karachi, Pakistan and here is out things go down. First off people don’t play football and even if they do, they always team up with each other which leaves no competition behind or as most of the people don’t know how to play so no one really tries to play they just simple pick up the football and start bouncing it like a basketball and when it comes to bicycle no proper roads, no safety nothing and now I have also become someone who just only has a will to just get married, get a job and become an avg boring person with no particular person and even if you try discussing these things with people/family cousins they just bring up reasons like we got no will while they themselves having no hobby :v
King you dropped this 👑
100% true,same is the case in U.K
Canada is one of the top countries in the world. Watching videos of students lining up for part-time jobs doesn't define a $2 trillion economy. Opportunities depend on your college/ university. If you believe you'll be paid in gold when you're doing a diploma from a low class college, then I'm sorry it doesn't happen in any country. Also, Canadian firms recognize your experience if you've worked at global firms. Your experience at Abdullah and Sons Ltd as deputy manager doesn't count here.
Pakistan se bahir agar koi Nurse job karta hai to Saudi Arabia sab se behtar hai at least 2 3 saal yahan kare us k baad kisi or taraf nikle me khud nurse hun Saudi Arabia me job karta hun 2 saal me apna ghar aik middle class area me bana liya hai or aisa hi hota hai ab mera MScN karne ka irada hai Malaysia ki aik university se jis me online hai bas last semester physically attend karna hai or me ne us k liye apply kiya hai