4 Reasons Why the Narcissists New Supply Looks Better

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  • Опубликовано: 10 дек 2024

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  • @leeboriack8054
    @leeboriack8054 2 года назад +66

    My narc’s new supply, who replaced me eventually left the narc and reached out to me for support and trade war stories. Oddly cathartic and validating.

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  2 года назад +7

      New found friend! :D

    • @christianwininger77
      @christianwininger77 Год назад +7

      I reached out to my ex’s, ex husband and we talked for 4 hours! All the abuse and neglect about him… all a lie! We shared war stories and found that she used very similar phrases and insults for both of us. “You don’t have friends because you’re not a good friend”… “You’re a sensitive little flower!!!”
      Very interesting after hearing all her lies and then hearing the real story.

    • @Bigpatriot1776
      @Bigpatriot1776 Год назад +8

      I cannot wait for that day with my ex narc that I spent nearly 2 decades with. I don't hate the new supply i understand he was preyed upon by a predator narc. The new supply ignored all the red flags and unfortunately he will go through the same craziness we all did with our ex narcs

  • @leeboriack8054
    @leeboriack8054 2 года назад +23

    My big lesson: I was mentally available for the narcissist and naive.

  • @brendaleverick3655
    @brendaleverick3655 2 года назад +30

    One reason is because the narc emotionally and psychologically beats us up, and sometimes we become physically run down and unwell as a result.

  • @emmamonroe3311
    @emmamonroe3311 2 года назад +28

    Sometimes I wanna just listen to music but I just keep learning what actually went on. I will never be jealous of the next person. I could care less. Anyone that thinks this, get out of the fog.

    • @LA-lq1zf
      @LA-lq1zf 2 года назад +2

      It’s been 3 years for me. I’m having such a hard time, I feel so jealous and he’s tried reaching out to me every few months even though he’s with her and I’ve been ignoring his texts
      for the last three years. I answered one once and then he tried again recently and I ignored it few days later he went on a trip with her and they look so happy. He even loves her daughter she already had from her previous relationship I guess. I’m just torn

    • @emmamonroe3311
      @emmamonroe3311 2 года назад +4

      @@LA-lq1zf he’s just trying to act like something is better, the grass is greener on the other side when it’s never going to be. You must understand, they cannot love themselves never believe he loved you. Watch inception.

    • @SoigneWave
      @SoigneWave 2 года назад +2

      @@LA-lq1zf its why you have to stop watching the show because that's exactly what it is, a show. The woman I left is off being best friends with all our mutuals and I can see how thick she lays it on them because I know how she moves. I also know she talked shit about each and every one of them, like she did me, they just haven't caught on to the little jabs yet. Realize that everything is always great in the beginning. Even when the red flags are whipping right in your face. You are FREE from the chaos. I promise it gets better. Block his number or change yours if you can. Go quiet on socials if you have too. The less you see the quicker the urge to know dies.
      I am a year no contact, no engagement with mutuals, and I am so much happier and my life is back to being peaceful. You will get there.

  • @Crystalblue58
    @Crystalblue58 2 года назад +23

    The most healing fact for me was in realizing the narc chooses supply based on what use they are. My narc chose his ex wife to have his kids, then discarded her. He chose me for sex because I was pretty and slim, then discarded me when he was older. He chose his next supply because he was a teacher and she was his principle. He then publicly ruined her career at that school to bring her down. Who knows how they are living now, but, I am free and happy.

    • @veral2274
      @veral2274 Год назад +2

      My ex also chose me for the sex, because I'm younger, atttactive, loving, caring, and always the best dressed woman in the room. He dumped me when he met a data analyst who can help him take his business to the next level. He made her a director and shareholder. She exceeds at Excel sheets, but not in the sheets apparently because he has since come to me for that, unbeknownst to me they were together. She chose to keep him and they are feeding on supply from each other. Good riddance.

  • @jeanettecusic9430
    @jeanettecusic9430 4 месяца назад +6

    The best thing you can get from a narcissistic relationship is OUT. Let her have him.

    • @seameology
      @seameology Месяц назад +1

      I always felt that way about the nexes and their new supply.

  • @kiddytube3915
    @kiddytube3915 Год назад +4

    Your bonus hits home real hard.
    My narc ex would triangulate me with her old supply. What I was feeling was massive amounts of insecurity, and the feeling like i was being “friendzoned” .
    It all makes sense now. While the old bf and subsequently the old supply was telling her “you deserve the best in life.” , I was being lovebombed.
    I’m now telling my narcissist ex to “take care of herself.” While she is lovebombing another person.
    These weirdos.. they really and truly didnt care about their significant other. No matter how well you treated them..
    Sadness and emptiness I feel inside.

  • @JLRhoades04
    @JLRhoades04 2 года назад +9

    So he doesn't do social media. And I blocked her so I'm not tempted. He's 50 and she's in her 30's and I'm actually disgusted by it. She's closer so his son age than his.
    But I actually feel bad for her in a sense. I want to tell her RUN, save yourself from the pain. But she knows the lies, I'm sure he gave her a great story as to why. But she chooses to stay with him. She's also a college student living in another state so she only knows what he tells her. She will be here soon....oh to be a fly.
    I wish you all the best in your time of healing! Prayers for strength and understanding

  • @thedude2920
    @thedude2920 2 года назад +20

    Thank you. I was called a narcissist during ex wife discard. I still wonder if I am. This experience wrapped me into a knot. The hardest is managing a blame game mindset. I’ll say this though…I have never spent more time analyzing myself and what words mean to me than I have in this recovery and I’m grateful for that. Find the good but don’t gaslight yourself. Cheers mate. Good luck everyone.

    • @TheNaturalibra
      @TheNaturalibra 2 года назад +1

      Same here! Exactly what I’m going through!

    • @leeboriack8054
      @leeboriack8054 2 года назад

      Be the best version of you! Make people laugh and smile, do anonymous random acts of kindness and your self esteem will pick up. I rebuilt my self-esteem by doing estimable acts.

    • @kikataye6293
      @kikataye6293 8 месяцев назад

      It’s actually normal to feel this way. There are videos on this too!

  • @daniellemorse6929
    @daniellemorse6929 2 года назад +14

    Thank you for this video. Exnarc barely put in any effort from the start. He was selfish but extremely affectionate and charming, which is what caught me. I would be surprised if he had it in him to put in any effort to any new supply. He is just way too full of himself.

    • @traceybiles2061
      @traceybiles2061 Год назад

      Because he thinks je os gonna get staus social..sex money connections..validation from trophy supply shebos just object like anyone else is..wait til lovebombing os over once their new conquest is caught they get bored..and down goes the rollercoaster

  • @dawnserrano737
    @dawnserrano737 2 года назад +8

    Being finally..who you were before trying so hard with the Narc..is everything..it takes alotta time..but so worth it..remember who you were!

  • @nicholecornes1915
    @nicholecornes1915 5 месяцев назад +1

    All of our biggest lessons here is LEARN what our weaknesses are and the warning sighns

  • @KimFuller-fh5bw
    @KimFuller-fh5bw 6 месяцев назад +1

    So spot on!! My whole city knows who they are because he’s a musician and she’s a singer who goes on large platforms to upstage me. He knows that everything he does will get back to me. My grandma still asks about him like we’re friends not realizing that he’s playing games to make sure everyone knows about them. If he ever do her like he did me, then her humiliation will be worse than mine. They have to keep up an image because many are watching now. He wants me to compete with her but i don’t care anymore as long as I have my peace.

  • @roseannjohnson47johnson41
    @roseannjohnson47johnson41 2 года назад +17

    Dont forget the narcissist experiences narcsissitic injury I think that's why they find new supply .

  • @marciosandre
    @marciosandre 2 года назад +5

    Most of times the next victim is always worse than you as the point is belittling you with someone worse and also depends on the supply power of the person, not the appearance.

  • @damieneng8559
    @damieneng8559 2 года назад +7

    The real thing
    After the smear Campanella
    You don’t just lose one person
    YOU lose every living human you ever knew

  • @ruthdeliah2
    @ruthdeliah2 2 года назад +6

    Well!!! Then we are even! Because he left me and went back to his ex wife. They were not together as a couple but still married and she desperately wanted to work on her marriage when I came along. So now, 12 yrs later and after being divorced over 10 yrs…her wish came true.

  • @LMc-bu3iv
    @LMc-bu3iv 2 года назад +1

    Wow had to view twice!!! Exactly what I was thinking. Such a great RUclips! Thank you!

  • @nicholecornes1915
    @nicholecornes1915 5 месяцев назад +1

    Listen to him...... they ARENT going to have anything with them!

  • @emmamonroe3311
    @emmamonroe3311 2 года назад +65

    You didn’t lose the love of your life, they were mirroring you. YOU FEEL IN ❤ WITH YOURSELF. Get over it!🤡👈🏻

    • @kiddytube3915
      @kiddytube3915 Год назад +1

      If the narc was mirroring me the entire time, then what the heck does the narc feel in themselves?

    • @LuvliexXJazzieXx
      @LuvliexXJazzieXx 5 месяцев назад +1

      Heyyyy I love thissss!! REAL TEA❤❤🎉🎉🎉

    • @KellenStewart-sc5qi
      @KellenStewart-sc5qi 5 месяцев назад +1

      Exactly

  • @jazzymama5187
    @jazzymama5187 2 года назад +3

    Damn that bonus def left me pondering 🤔

  • @LeeDawson-sm2bh
    @LeeDawson-sm2bh 6 месяцев назад +1

    Really informative. Many thanks.

  • @CC-br9qg
    @CC-br9qg Год назад +1

    Thank you for this

  • @Peacealways247
    @Peacealways247 2 года назад +7

    Winning is joy and peace, being with honest/wholesome people, people with integrity that live decent lives. Losing is liers, manipulators, hiding, shame, cheating...none of that has anything to do with winning. You have to KNOW that only God can give you wwaayy better than any man can give you. Yes, it can be hard at first but you will do better getting that narc out your life.

  • @pink5068
    @pink5068 Год назад

    Thank you had to replay

  • @carebear0713
    @carebear0713 2 года назад +1

    Thanks

  • @ShodakonFury
    @ShodakonFury 2 года назад +1

    Two months ago mine tried hoovering me back within the first week of dating someone (he of course didn’t tell me about) and jumped to that person when I called him out and warned his new supply as well; even had the audacity to say he was happy with the new guy after he tried to cheat on him with me. What’s funny is that this new person looks similar to myself and practically has similar interests, but doesn’t have a job or transportation (my ex doesn’t either), so he is definitely miles more codependent.. Now, recently (and close to the date my ex and I had our first date last year), my ex’s new supply contacted me, didn’t even mention my ex or try to rub him on my face or question me about him, and weirdly tried to flirt with me too. It was completely unexpected, but it just told me that things must be that things must be taking a predictable turn.

  • @nicholecornes1915
    @nicholecornes1915 5 месяцев назад

    I dont have face book or anything like that but my oldest son Jack told me he seen him with her...I was mad at first but now that I got a good night's sleep HELL no! I just pray she gets treated good because my son will be around those two 😢

  • @freedomanyprice9560
    @freedomanyprice9560 2 года назад +3

    Good content

  • @milesmatulionis
    @milesmatulionis 2 года назад +1

    So good! 👍

  • @shirleydaniels9310
    @shirleydaniels9310 2 года назад +4

    Never do joint accounts never tell them ur password

  • @politicn3770
    @politicn3770 2 года назад +1

    I betta talk about ittt.....New Sub fa shhhho...STL watchin❤💪🏾❤💪🏾💪🏾❤💪🏾❤....

  • @drexelhamilton1097
    @drexelhamilton1097 5 месяцев назад +1

    My narcissist blocked me on Facebook, so that she can post her new production. Meanwhile, she begs me to be her best friend. Smh.

  • @ajdeb5758
    @ajdeb5758 2 года назад +18

    The next supply is everything he deeply hated in other people… he is dating now his own enemy and competition… im not even jealous but feel sorry for both

    • @amna7936
      @amna7936 2 года назад

      OMG... This is so true... My ex husband would tell me how much he hated prostitutes and he just married a prostitute from Uzbekistan.

    • @sanjmalik6282
      @sanjmalik6282 2 года назад +6

      That's what the narc ex did too. He hated smoking and partying type women and pretending to be religious man etc. He has married a really party person who smokes and does everything he hated. Hope they enjoy the hell

    • @CC-br9qg
      @CC-br9qg Год назад +1

      @@sanjmalik6282ame thing happened to me. his new supply has a baby daddy too. insane

    • @sanjmalik6282
      @sanjmalik6282 Год назад +2

      @@CC-br9qg it's my humble opinion, I think they go for the first thing that they can get. Desperado

    • @CC-br9qg
      @CC-br9qg Год назад +1

      @@sanjmalik6282 it hurts so bad

  • @chilo597
    @chilo597 Год назад

    Trust me...he is HAPPY

  • @karlataylor1172
    @karlataylor1172 2 года назад +9

    I don't give a fuck anymore l prefer my own company anyway.

  • @traceybiles2061
    @traceybiles2061 Год назад +2

    They put on mask of. Perfect partner to snag new supply and put on show for supply..new supply will fall harder when they get bored. A d narc will make them the one who was razy efc.

    • @Nini7908..
      @Nini7908.. 8 месяцев назад

      And you come out been the one obssesed with they. Thwy are pure evil!

  • @stacey7268
    @stacey7268 2 года назад +6

    Idk..its been 2 years now still going strong it seems. I think love bombing stage is over by now🤔

  • @barbaravance3686
    @barbaravance3686 2 года назад +3

    You truly articulate nuances well. Can you tell me what motivated you to harm people initially, and what was the key that released you from such selfishness. I ask respectfully and sincerely.

    • @s0me0ne1se
      @s0me0ne1se Год назад

      He became tired of living the same loop over and over, as I understand it he has explained he didn’t like the life he was living anymore because it got to the point where he had to lie constantly, always ended up doing bad partner choices and everything repeated itself to infinity and it got to a point he was absolutely displeased with a life with no real meaning and just living for the “high” obtained by getting new supplies, chasing, lying, hiding, it came to a point it was a never ending cycle he got totally fed up of. And in regards to him harming people it’s been maybe an upbringing issue paired with maybe physical, genetical and psychological facts because he has mentioned he did feel different since he was a kid, he knew something was different about him not being able to connect or feel empathy towards other people’s emotions.

  • @Fizzgig
    @Fizzgig 2 года назад

    Thanks for this.

  • @KatRoberts-mi3wy
    @KatRoberts-mi3wy 3 месяца назад

    I stupidly let the new supply in as a friend on social media and noticed that she was copying me in every aspect, the way I act and the way I dress , my humor, everything, it was really weird 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @emmamonroe3311
    @emmamonroe3311 2 года назад +5

    If you are conned, watch inception the movie. That was me, was it you?

    • @avisjohnson35
      @avisjohnson35 11 месяцев назад

      Someone told me to watch that movie yesterday wow i'm gonna watch it thanks

  • @shirleydaniels9310
    @shirleydaniels9310 2 года назад +2

    Tell everyone everything record them tell them hell noo give no man money ever

  • @cyndigooch1162
    @cyndigooch1162 Год назад +1

    I'm not confused about the situation anymore and know for a fact that the ex uses anyone and everyone, so I'm not missing a damn thing!
    It's been about six and a half years since I last saw or heard from him as well, because he lives in another state. I have no desire whatsover to look at his Facebook page etc either and they can all have him, as far as I'm concerned.
    Of course, I don't want new targets to be harmed, which has probably happened to some of them. It's not possible for me to save them all though and most wouldn't listen anyway, especially during the love bombing period. ❤

  • @nicholecornes1915
    @nicholecornes1915 5 месяцев назад +1

    You LOSE if they are still with you!!!

  • @MJG1
    @MJG1 2 года назад +3

    Anyone knows why my ex( father of our child) is going to marry a woman from Thailand, probably posting everything on social media but blocks me so i can’t see anything what is happening. He even not tell me when he goes to Thailand AND not even tell me he is going to marry. He only met het 2 times before but they have a online relationship of a year. He even have a tattoo with her name(his first tattoo ever) but hides it from me. I thought he would want to make me see everything but no. Why??

    • @Peacealways247
      @Peacealways247 2 года назад +2

      She's his doormat. He has her fooled. She'll see but then again she my never leave because of her culture.

    • @kikataye6293
      @kikataye6293 2 года назад +3

      She is very desperate. She will find out later

  • @emmamonroe3311
    @emmamonroe3311 2 года назад +1

    The insurance companies told me about him, who’s gonna tell you, is the ?

  • @brandyschroeder4759
    @brandyschroeder4759 2 года назад +4

    Stop watching narcissist TV!!! -Lee Hammock

  • @fabiopapalia
    @fabiopapalia Год назад

    In the toxic narcissistic game, the pwNPD ever lose. Whoever stay with the NPD person is losing [himself/herself].
    The discard was a gift. Losing that person was a winning, that is what you learn after the therapy, after the narcissistic abuse, after all that pain.
    In the narcissistic game you win when you lose [the narc], the new supply is going to lose his/her soul.
    The narc has no soul, no win in life. He/she has lost since childhood.
    No game. One has no need to play the ego game at all. Life is not a game. These people are losers in their own life, no matter what. Period.

    • @csibiedit8046
      @csibiedit8046 Год назад +1

      I am not so happy for this gift, I discarded the narcissist but does not seems as a gift, I became totally depressive. So I do not feel that heal and grow and finding myself, I grow already in narcissistic relationship,it supported my ,, jumps,,. I grow up in narcissistic enviournement it is like losing your family, it is terrible sad. All my personal grow happened in narcissistic enviornement, this is the reason than narcissists to hate me so much.

  • @debral9651
    @debral9651 Год назад +2

    my ex used to take me places he took other women. I discovered this later on...

  • @Mjones4949
    @Mjones4949 Год назад +1

    Mine upgrades to guys with more money. If feel like she won.

    • @Amelia-v2p
      @Amelia-v2p 4 месяца назад

      They won't stay long. Doesn't take long to figure out her game which will be a major turn off.

  • @_Matilde96
    @_Matilde96 Год назад +6

    No but why their new supply is so ugly ? I’m sorry I’m a nice person but omg the downgrade is unbelievable it’s like H O W ? And Why? I even want to pray for him it’s really that bad almost like on a crackhead level bad

    • @lisastark8907
      @lisastark8907 Год назад +5

      Mine went from sugar to schitt too! I'm just disgusted. I'm not an unkind person either but this woman is seriously unattractive. She looks very old and warn out. Im 54 and shes within 1-2 yrs difference but looks about 10yrs older than me. He wont have to worry about anyone else trying to woo her away!! He hated me for being attractive too. Never b once did he pay me a compliment in 7yrs. NEVER!!

    • @_Matilde96
      @_Matilde96 Год назад

      @@lisastark8907 sameeeee

    • @princhipessa1969
      @princhipessa1969 11 месяцев назад

      O m g ! I just wrote this same thing! I’m not mean - but she’s Not attractive and no one he’d normally date. Never has to worry I guess 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @damieneng8559
    @damieneng8559 2 года назад +1

    Everyone says aw get a dog girl
    Don’t play victom

  • @radhakavipurapu432
    @radhakavipurapu432 2 года назад +3

    Love of your life would have stayed

  • @vintagebabyseventythree6244
    @vintagebabyseventythree6244 2 года назад +1

    I do think about that a lot. I made someone else feel how I feel now. It haunts me.

  • @roseannjohnson47johnson41
    @roseannjohnson47johnson41 2 года назад +1

    Yes 2 for 1 🔺️🔺️👫👀🙇‍♀️🔺️🔺️🚩🚩🚩🚩

  • @melissafoster9701
    @melissafoster9701 9 месяцев назад

    His new supply looks much worse than me Why?

  • @gottahavefaith2526
    @gottahavefaith2526 Год назад +1

    Sorry I can’t relate to this video. My ex narcs new supply is facially challenged

  • @sindust150
    @sindust150 2 года назад +4

    You dont.k ow what they are giving to someone else, that is stupid to think you ahould listen to HG Tudor it sonds like majical thinking 🤔

    • @roseannjohnson47johnson41
      @roseannjohnson47johnson41 2 года назад +3

      HD tutor is accurate HG the Ultra tutor helps understand. There are other you tubers say the narcissist thinks they found the person then as time goes on that light switch goes off . The devalue
      Hg calls it your fuel is stale . We dont want you any longer . Same Valcan calles it a snapshot then they have get rid of the snap shop by devalue and so forth. And love is manufactured by the narcissist. The narcissist fails to get rid of the snapshot he get narcissistic injury , then devalues . Watch the videos about snapshot sam Valcan the devalue and hoovers. There are 6 special hoovers.( HG )

  • @sindust150
    @sindust150 2 года назад +1

    Wrong!

  • @Jeanninecomeau
    @Jeanninecomeau 6 месяцев назад

    This is a Narcissist title to a video. Your mask fell off

  • @emmamonroe3311
    @emmamonroe3311 2 года назад +5

    When I was first told I picked up 2 different girls in Ubers August of 2020 and they told me about narcissist. And I was like WHAT IS THAT?!?!?!🤔 then I put 2 N 2 together and was shocked to my core. 2 years later and I’m overcoming everything that shouldn’t have ever happened but it did. God kept me here for a reason, I will never ever let him down. None of you should either. Pound out google.👈🏻