Dealing with a Woman Who Rejected You in the Past

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  • Опубликовано: 18 дек 2024

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  • @assedio3631
    @assedio3631 12 часов назад +92

    The revenge thing fuels you for a while, then you have to let it go for your own sake.

    • @reborngreatnesss5712
      @reborngreatnesss5712 11 часов назад +16

      Soooo facts use that rage revenge fuel to hit the gym wake that beast inside you grow that confidence and do what you want to do. 💯

    • @narobigaines5072
      @narobigaines5072 9 часов назад +2

      True

    • @alsimmons1650
      @alsimmons1650 6 часов назад

      Exactly, it's simply dead weight living rent-free.

  • @kennethyoung4892
    @kennethyoung4892 12 часов назад +70

    Rejection truly is protection

  • @derekkinder2427
    @derekkinder2427 11 часов назад +66

    Remember it’s not about how you feel about her, but how she makes YOU feel. Don’t play the game if she’s sending mixed signals

    • @garthyahudahandrews8504
      @garthyahudahandrews8504 11 часов назад +20

      facts the ones sending mixed signals are the ones who usually have several men for different things and she entertains you when she is bored or to kill time when her real boo deals with her lol its all good i have no time for that honestly

  • @EseShad0w316
    @EseShad0w316 6 часов назад +21

    The best revenge would be to maximize yourself through self-improvement and forgetting about her. If she decides to come crawling back you reject her with a smile.

  • @kennethyoung4892
    @kennethyoung4892 12 часов назад +64

    The best thing to do is keep it moving

  • @anthonywilliams9415
    @anthonywilliams9415 3 часа назад +9

    Nothing but 📠 in this video. Happened to me and I decided to give her a shot. Turned out to be the best relationship of my life. I would have married her too. However, a week after my 40th birthday, she died of cancer. Been 3 years since that happened, but overall, I'm glad I took a chance on the relationship. The best thing that made that relationship work was that we both worked on our character and being better people before we got together. May she rest in peace.

  • @warrengomez67
    @warrengomez67 12 часов назад +37

    I always say, keep it friendly whenever you bump into them.

  • @haychgas1447
    @haychgas1447 11 часов назад +39

    Rejection hurts women more according to uncle rom

    • @dastokene30og
      @dastokene30og 39 минут назад

      yes. theres girls who i was just a little hesitant about and they were crazy about me. i may have gave it a fee seconds too many and she WILL NOT give me the time of day lol

  • @ccrg109
    @ccrg109 11 часов назад +23

    I got into the revenge mode after this girl rejected me. I took her out to date and she tells me she doesn't date coworkers... Irked me that she agreed to go out if that was the case from the beginning.
    Done a lot of growth over the past year, actually grateful for that because my desire to become a better man came from my revenge desire.

  • @kenetik13
    @kenetik13 7 часов назад +13

    Remember fellas, if you could pull her then you can certainly pull someone even better 💯

  • @elevated_engineering6515
    @elevated_engineering6515 9 часов назад +25

    Success is the best revenge. She did you a favor, and moved out of the way for the right one.

  • @Different_out_look
    @Different_out_look 10 часов назад +18

    I was reject by a girl I was feeling for a while back in school..that motivated me grind & I thought I would throw it in her face..but she has 2 kids & I wish her all the best she's a good women.

    • @almosthelpless9374
      @almosthelpless9374 8 часов назад +5

      Holding onto that negativity would've blown up in your face so it's good you've moved on.

    • @dsetgetatme
      @dsetgetatme 2 часа назад

      That's growth right there brotha! Great attitude to have

  • @askmartinez6409
    @askmartinez6409 8 часов назад +10

    The real revenge is when you have improved yourself. Let them look. But keep it moving

  • @HEFLINMANIA
    @HEFLINMANIA 11 часов назад +16

    remember.. to "get" someone requires a different skill set than to "keep" someone

  • @dcuthbertson5778
    @dcuthbertson5778 9 часов назад +17

    It’s probably best not to do it. A lot of dudes are gonna dog em out. It’s gonna be a lot of hostility or other ish. That revenge ish creates bad karma. So just smile and take the compliment and move on in life.

    • @casillasangel
      @casillasangel 9 часов назад +2

      Amen

    • @almosthelpless9374
      @almosthelpless9374 8 часов назад +3

      I agree. I bet it won't make you feel any better to hurt someone who didn't have malice towards you to begin with.

    • @jaimesmith2266
      @jaimesmith2266 7 часов назад +2

      Absolutely excellent truthful comment.

    • @dcuthbertson5778
      @dcuthbertson5778 5 часов назад +1

      @@almosthelpless9374 Exactly. It’s a million reasons why a person rejected you that has nothing to do with money. If a person comes back to you; it’s because they truly believe you’re a good person. Prove em right and just walk away.

    • @dcuthbertson5778
      @dcuthbertson5778 5 часов назад +1

      @@casillasangel yeahhh. A lot of dudes mess up their reputation dogging chicks out and trying to get revenge. If she comes back to you; it’s because she saw something good in you and you just ruined that. Thanks but no thanks is the best response. I had to learn to do that myself, and what I’ve found out is that people will always think the world of you.

  • @LDubzz86
    @LDubzz86 Час назад +1

    I just wouldn't deal with them and tell them to have a nice day. I don't wanna go backwards because im moving forward. What was done in the past is in the past.

  • @Duddamac
    @Duddamac 5 часов назад +7

    The revenge thing is so hard because our ego and the teen is still in us wanting the get back because we still want to conquer the woman and her body because we couldn’t in the past. If that’s makes sense.

  • @KidsLearnHTML
    @KidsLearnHTML 5 часов назад +5

    I call it "Multiplying by Zero". It's impossible to deal with a women who you've totally multiplied by zero straight out of your mind, and existence. (Keisha who? Cheryl who?)

  • @danqfrank44
    @danqfrank44 9 часов назад +9

    There was a lot of compassion in this video.

  • @project0077
    @project0077 4 часа назад +4

    If she rejects you, walk away and be cool about it. She most likely will come back at some point out of curiosity. I've had this happen on more than one occasion. You know the old saying about the cat and curiosity...if you're picking up what I'm laying down👊🏾

  • @therealmicmountain
    @therealmicmountain 10 часов назад +6

    100% Facts

  • @dustinquinton
    @dustinquinton 6 часов назад +3

    Be nice. Say hi, then say bye and move on.

  • @tyree9834
    @tyree9834 11 часов назад +12

    i'm jet fly at 1600 mph she will never find me because i'm always in the sky .

    • @aben8192
      @aben8192 Час назад

      Haha I’m glad for you brother!! This sentence reminds me of my struggle! I was a hot shot USMC vet with multiple tours overseas and got out and went back to my hometown. I started falling for this woman. She rejected me rudely but I don’t blame her because I was dealing with PTSD, alcoholism & homelessness.
      Years later I’m sober, bought a Harley and a travel van and started using my government scholarship to pay for pilot school…. Guess who shows up to all my holiday parties now?!! 😂

  • @AJChaka
    @AJChaka 12 часов назад +5

    Ooooweeee Unc cooking on this one 💯

  • @kvon_rashad
    @kvon_rashad 12 часов назад +6

    It all comes down to preparation or preference at times.
    Either way, my show don’t stop. Great video uncle rom🤝🏾

  • @showme6842
    @showme6842 4 часа назад +2

    If she rejected me because she was in a relationship and it just so happens that relationship didn't work out that's different too.

  • @Blxckheartxoxo
    @Blxckheartxoxo 2 часа назад +1

    Once you reject me that’s it , it’s over with. Humiliate me once shame on you but twice shame on me. Nothing is more unattractive to me then a girl who don’t know what she wants. I’m not nobodies 2nd option .

  • @beatbyknobodye1581
    @beatbyknobodye1581 11 часов назад +10

    Weight loss and focusing on building your self you will incur this very often.
    Along with “I always thought you were but [insert illogical reasoning for rejecting you the first time].
    I’ve dealt with women who have changed once they’ve gotten older and all that chasing the clubs & streets wore off. Usually that’s a result of Father Time and wisdom playing a hand.

  • @jamesa108
    @jamesa108 12 часов назад +4

    Salute Rom and keep dropping jewels 💯

  • @markevansmongo
    @markevansmongo 10 часов назад +3

    Exactly, good advice bruh!

  • @KristopherStidd
    @KristopherStidd 10 часов назад +3

    Thank you for the video Ron ❤ 👍🏿 Spot on.

  • @calder6623
    @calder6623 2 часа назад

    God’s redirection is a good thing. We move forward and do the right thing 🙏🏾

  • @rellconnects4695
    @rellconnects4695 9 часов назад +5

    #RomTalk 🐺💚 #RW 🎬✅ #SitDown #CouchVideo #LifeGame #Rejection #ManGetsWomen #Thursday #ManGetsWoman #MoveOn #SelfImprovement #Changes

  • @casillasangel
    @casillasangel 9 часов назад +2

    Good stuff Don Rom, a girl was feeling me but I had to put her in check for some disrespect and then she ghosted me found out she is a convert narcissist

  • @Tysowavy24
    @Tysowavy24 7 часов назад +1

    perfect timing for real

  • @joel3792
    @joel3792 8 часов назад +1

    Im trying to do better Rom. 😅 Option 2.5 , I take the 2nd route, but NEVER forget the rejection. No matter what she does, she will be capped/limited in terms of a relationship. But i dont be hostile or nothing like that.

  • @armonbrown213
    @armonbrown213 9 часов назад +2

    Perfect timing . But man tired of going thru it

  • @EmperorAJ93
    @EmperorAJ93 10 часов назад +6

    Younger dude here, my method is to create a illusion opportunity for them, I like seeing how far a person is willing to go for the chance(for kicks), I let them do all the work because they’re the only one who wants the job, I ignore everything they got going on and live my life, if I’m doing better then why would I want you 😂😂😂😂😂😂 it isn’t so much revenge I just be bored honestly 🤣🤣🤣

  • @LivinItupwne
    @LivinItupwne 8 часов назад

    Thank you for the clear insight and wisdom on this one! 🙏🏽 ❤

  • @almosthelpless9374
    @almosthelpless9374 8 часов назад +6

    I got rejected a few months ago at my gym and didn't handle it well. I avoided her and refused to make eye contact. I'm planing to apologize for that when I get the chance. I got rejected a couple days ago by another woman at my gym but I'm taking it much better this time. I plan on keeping an open line of communication. I'm working on healing my avoidant nature.

    • @MarBarkins
      @MarBarkins 6 часов назад +1

      Bro, mine was the exact opposite😂
      This girl rejected me and refused to make eye contact with me. It blew my mind. I should be the one ignoring her, and since I didn't plan on doing so, everything should have been "normal".
      But then she started ignoring me. The situation was so funny, bro. And it's not like I became way better or anything that she grew shy of me.

    • @Playyaa
      @Playyaa 6 минут назад

      don't apologize keep ignoring her

  • @tokyo9766
    @tokyo9766 5 часов назад

    Been waiting for this one. Honestly, i can't really go against my morals. Mainly because i don't slow down or hold back for anyone.
    That includes people from the past. If you wanna come with me, cool. If you don't believe in me, cool.
    I did have to get over the revenge thing, not fully over it since my sense of justice is very high, so it's kinda hard trying to make stand within their proximity, let alone talk to them. I've gotten more used to rejection though, and i'm happy i did.

  • @mkr1445
    @mkr1445 59 минут назад

    This sounds like a Patreon exclusives..🔥🔥🔥

  • @armonbrown213
    @armonbrown213 8 часов назад

    💯 thank you maine ima take the the to make it right and keep it pushing nd keep my distance

  • @jaimesmith2266
    @jaimesmith2266 7 часов назад

    When a woman rejects me i simply move on im not dwelling on that because thats wasted time and energy i mean why would i stress myself out it makes no senses lol.

  • @SupremegreenlawncareLLC
    @SupremegreenlawncareLLC 10 часов назад +3

    🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @llpp202
    @llpp202 5 часов назад

    Whenever I have been rejected, the women always linger around me for a couple of weeks. Is this their ego at play or are they gauging how I react to being rejected? I always keep it cool, acknowledge them and keep it professional/friendly after being rejected.

    • @Playyaa
      @Playyaa 5 минут назад

      they just want attention