So when I was starting to date my now husband I had a “bestfriend” that was a guy. My husband was super particular about him and didn’t like him at all! I used to get so upset with my husband telling him that he is my brother and he has NEVER tried to go there with me. He kept insisting that my friend liked me. Fast forward a month later when my husband asked me to be his gf and made it official I posted a picture of us on my insta. The next day my “bestfriend” called me spilling his guts and telling me that he has been in love with me for years and didn’t want to ruin it but now that he saw how serious I was getting with my now husband he had to let it out. My husband was always right. 😩😂
Lol all guys want sex few guys tell you upfront and maybe half of guys wait for it just because you want to friends doesn't mean the person just wants to friends.
If he really cared about you, he would’ve just kept it to himself. He told you because he needed you to know, it’s selfish really. He had so much time to tell you, but only did once he thought he was losing you.
@@coasterthekid8867 I felt so lied to. And kind of gross because I used to sleep in his house sometimes and felt “safe” because he never tried to do anything with me. I seriously thought he was like a brother to me. This whole time this man saw me differently and I can’t even imagine what he used to be thinking of whenever I was hanging out with him. And the thought that I used to get mad at my husband whenever he used to tell me about him smh lol
Nikki is going to be in upcoming videos that she has already filmed with the crew. She mentioned it on her vlog. It will be interesting to see which crew members were there when she filmed her episodes.
I’ve always been the boyfriend that wasn’t threatened or worried that my girl was gonna cheat because like Joe said, if she’s gonna do it, it’s better that I know rather than try to control and then create a sneaky habit. On the other end though, I have also been in situations where a female friend of mine would be touchy or just hanging out close to me when their bf was around and at that point I would act like I had superglue in my arm pits so I would not be touching them even accidentally lol.
Tim makes it work. He said he has a lot of homegirls he's been friends with for years. And when he got together with Chia, they became her friends, too. One of them is even Chia's OBGYN. And another is the one Chia has him take to events because she doesn't like going out to the events the way his friend does.
I mean every guy would wish for a no. But ultimately your partner should be able to be friends with whomever as you both should have that level of trust where you know your partner wouldn't do anything to jeopardise your relationship. But people do stupid things.
i feel like if your gf is gonna have guy friends those guy friends need to be your friends too, or at least be properly acquainted and sometimes around and friendly with each other.
I'm older and the older I get I think it's fine if there's trust between two people and trust in the friends. There Def needs to be boundaries, don't disrespect the relationship the girl is in, by any means. No late night calls or rides unless it's an emergency. My daughter is in her early 30's and has ONLY guy friends and she's been that way her whole life. So my answer is yes, it's possible.
If your daughter gave the opprotunity to fuck to anyone of her guy friends most would likely do it. Like they were saying in the video. Guys are kind of animals LOL
@@crossingboundaries56 that's why she set boundaries and if they even try it they are no longer friends, I've lived long enough on this earth to know you have a point lol
Wow. The conversation on this topic was quite surprising to me. I've been a JK fan for many years now and I recall the days of Ask the Feels when the topic of platonic relationships was brought up. The crew back then had such strong opinions on the matter, and simply saw it in black & white: "platonic relationships good" end of story. If you were against it, you were just "ensecure" and "immature" about it, no concessions. And now while their overall opinion on the matter hasn't changed...the fact that the crew is now capable of not seeing the matter so simply as black & white, and were even capable of providing counterpoints and other perspectives is rather refreshing. It shows a level understanding, growth and experience over the years.
There's a difference between when you're in college or younger and when you're a grown ass man and woman. I have friends that are girls and we can just say I love you to each other without it being sexual and they have their own husbands. And we're definitely not trying to fuck each other. Also my fiance has guy friends who I'm also friends with and it's totally cool.
My friend his best friends girlfriend was around 24 at the time and the other Guy whose kink is older married women was about 27 the last time I spoke to him. He had no age range too. From 23-60. I knew him since college so about 9 years from first time I meant him in college.
I think I believe that my Girlfriend, Fiancé are Wife should have guys for friends as long as I get a chance to know them also and if she allows me to have ladies as my friend a 2 for 1 agreement.
As a female with majority of male friends since my childhood it’s just a lot of explaining when it comes to dating, I always try to introduce them. Ive learnt the insecure ones are always iffy and complains ab it. My other BFs were cool w my guy friends.
@@King_Me that's not nice, my daughter has always had guy friends and I can guarantee you she's not what ever word you're trying to get at that's disrespectful.
@MassT So would a crackhead. Point invalid 😂 it’s more funny how every time you type of males say this you never point out that’s a problem for men to be that way (IK BIOLOGY 😢 ONLY YALL WANT TO F** ALL THE TIME…. but if women…. Nvm).
Damn. He always seemed so happy and smiling. 😔I feel for his wife and kids; esp. losing him in such a way and during the holidays at that. May they all receive the comfort, strength, help and healing they are gonna need.
As a Guy I have my own boundaries. You can think another person is attractive looking and not fuck that person. To me that’s kinda plain and simple. I like to respect people in their relationship cuz I don’t want people to do things to my relationships.
I had to block someone once because they could not be my friend. I told him that I didn’t want anything with him other than friendship and he said he was okay with that. But not long after he “put me on notice” that he wanted to date me. His exact words, “I’m putting you on notice”. I was like if you want to be my friend, then be my friend, quit hitting on me. And I have told my current partner that we cannot be friends because of I was attracted to him when I was dating someone else before we got together.
I only have 1 guy friend that I fully trust, he's younger and like a little brother to me. He's the only one my bf trusts too. Most guys pretend to be my friend and then ghost me or lash out when they realize I'm not going to give them what they want. I've stopped trying to connect, it's not worth the disappointment. It's really hard to get accepted into a female clique so I just don't have friends. It's lonely out here 👍
Just because he's younger and you feel on top because of your age lol 🤣 and "you" say we are friends doesn't mean he feels the same. I've seen guys wait years for chance men and women can't be platonic friends its just a matter of time for someone to catch feelings. Trust me as random guy all guys want sex some just longer than others watch for the 🐍 and im sure you know 9:13
I mean, I think it is possible. But I've been friends with my guy friends for years now. It's an interesting topic for sure and you guys are hilarious talking about it 🤣
Im pansexual, so this question confuses me sometimes. Like on the real, I find most people attractive in some way (physically) most of the time so ig from my pov it's just hella control and reflection. also, im poly so like in all my relationships i say from the start that i dont mind what they do during their time just when i get home its us time and it takes A LOT OF TRUST AND CONFIDENCE but still its possible if u find the right people.
i feel a little bit about joe because although I'm not attracted to my female friends, I do fantasize about them. But they're all clearly separated in my head because sex and relationships are two separate things to me, and I value relationships more than I value sex. I might lust after everyone, but I would never act on it. I cherish my friendships with people and I think having a deep and emotional connection to them is much better than just being deep inside them. It'd be nice, but so long as I am in control of myself, I would never fuck my friends.
I've never been that guy myself to be jelly of guy friends since it'd be hypocritical of me since I've always had lots of lady friends myself. I'm also polyamorous and that may be a whole nother topic on its own haha
I don’t know .. I’ve always tried to have female friends but every time they get a Bf they ghost me. I’m like “damn i thought we were homies”. Maybe I’m just young and the women in around ain’t mature enough for that
She's an adult, I can't control her. But if she does have a bunch of straight male friends, I'd find that weird & probably wouldn't take her serious. Because I don't trust guys, not her
So the one of the first parties I had/went to when I moved to FL and was at my roommates friends house for a Halloween party. It was just my ex-roommate his friend and my friend. So we played some drinking games and at one point in the night I gave my friend my phone to invite girls over here. He ended up adding one my friends that’s a girl that I never intended to get with. She was a pen pal from Snapchat. She’s in WI and he’s gone there and she come to visit. He won’t let any guy talk to her, me included. He was going to move into a house with my current roommate and another friend. He stayed in WI for awhile and I rarely hear from him. Is there an exception or was he right?
Older not as worried but depend on scenario ~ but Younger id look out cause when I was like 17 ….. I ain’t no home wrecker , but if the relationship was on the rocks 😅 i was tryna break em up so I can get a w . Also did 10:25what joe ant said
What are you talking about? Of course you can be friends with the oposite sex. Are you saying you are attracted to every woman in this world? There isn't a single woman of the oposite sex you're not sexually attracted to, so you can't be friends with them? I'm a woman and I've been attracted to probably 0,5 % of the men I met in my life. I have no problem befriending people regardless of their sex or sexual orientation. If your assumption is correct that would mean that bisexual people can't be friend with anybody... And btw, I have a friend who is gay. He went on a date with a guy he met on a dating app, so they thought of each other as being objectively attractive. However, when they met, there wasn't any chemistry and so they became friends, never did anything sexual. Soo.....
So when I was starting to date my now husband I had a “bestfriend” that was a guy. My husband was super particular about him and didn’t like him at all! I used to get so upset with my husband telling him that he is my brother and he has NEVER tried to go there with me. He kept insisting that my friend liked me. Fast forward a month later when my husband asked me to be his gf and made it official I posted a picture of us on my insta. The next day my “bestfriend” called me spilling his guts and telling me that he has been in love with me for years and didn’t want to ruin it but now that he saw how serious I was getting with my now husband he had to let it out. My husband was always right. 😩😂
Lol all guys want sex few guys tell you upfront and maybe half of guys wait for it just because you want to friends doesn't mean the person just wants to friends.
If he really cared about you, he would’ve just kept it to himself. He told you because he needed you to know, it’s selfish really. He had so much time to tell you, but only did once he thought he was losing you.
@@coasterthekid8867 I felt so lied to. And kind of gross because I used to sleep in his house sometimes and felt “safe” because he never tried to do anything with me. I seriously thought he was like a brother to me. This whole time this man saw me differently and I can’t even imagine what he used to be thinking of whenever I was hanging out with him. And the thought that I used to get mad at my husband whenever he used to tell me about him smh lol
Men know how men operate
Kalyne and Nikki need to be a video together I feel like they would get along 😺😸
Nikki is going to be in upcoming videos that she has already filmed with the crew. She mentioned it on her vlog. It will be interesting to see which crew members were there when she filmed her episodes.
Nikki gets along with anyone though
Omg yess I agree that should happen
I agree. I don't think kalyne vibes well with Julia
@@cynn_thor well I think julia not been on forever so se don't know how things work
I’ve always been the boyfriend that wasn’t threatened or worried that my girl was gonna cheat because like Joe said, if she’s gonna do it, it’s better that I know rather than try to control and then create a sneaky habit. On the other end though, I have also been in situations where a female friend of mine would be touchy or just hanging out close to me when their bf was around and at that point I would act like I had superglue in my arm pits so I would not be touching them even accidentally lol.
I gonna borrow your ideology
The down payment comment took me OUT 😂
Dude this is fun as shit! This is definitely going in the "Im gonna come back to this one once in a while" type of video.
Joe's shirt kept making me laugh throughout the whole video xD The face kept getting all crumpled in the funniest ways lolll
HAAHHAHA at one point it looked like an ewok.
He’s a viet singer
Sometimes the face has a mustache, sometimes it doesn’t
Legendary viet singer
Tim makes it work. He said he has a lot of homegirls he's been friends with for years. And when he got together with Chia, they became her friends, too. One of them is even Chia's OBGYN. And another is the one Chia has him take to events because she doesn't like going out to the events the way his friend does.
They really need to ask Tim this question on here though
This needs pt. 2
I wish this vid never ended LMAOO
I mean every guy would wish for a no. But ultimately your partner should be able to be friends with whomever as you both should have that level of trust where you know your partner wouldn't do anything to jeopardise your relationship. But people do stupid things.
Omg can I please get the guys’ perspectives on the difference between 1 on 1 hangout vs a date!!!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
i feel like if your gf is gonna have guy friends those guy friends need to be your friends too, or at least be properly acquainted and sometimes around and friendly with each other.
Joe is definitely the Alpha "If i want you I'll get you!" 😄
I'm older and the older I get I think it's fine if there's trust between two people and trust in the friends. There Def needs to be boundaries, don't disrespect the relationship the girl is in, by any means. No late night calls or rides unless it's an emergency. My daughter is in her early 30's and has ONLY guy friends and she's been that way her whole life. So my answer is yes, it's possible.
Your daughter and me are alike, grew up just around boys too
If your daughter gave the opprotunity to fuck to anyone of her guy friends most would likely do it. Like they were saying in the video.
Guys are kind of animals LOL
@@crossingboundaries56 that's why she set boundaries and if they even try it they are no longer friends, I've lived long enough on this earth to know you have a point lol
Your daughter is getting passed around by a pack of dudes, buddy. They are not her friends
@@MYNAMElSDAVID you know what you are sick, my daughter has two beautiful children and a significant other, shame on you.
Wow. The conversation on this topic was quite surprising to me. I've been a JK fan for many years now and I recall the days of Ask the Feels when the topic of platonic relationships was brought up. The crew back then had such strong opinions on the matter, and simply saw it in black & white: "platonic relationships good" end of story. If you were against it, you were just "ensecure" and "immature" about it, no concessions.
And now while their overall opinion on the matter hasn't changed...the fact that the crew is now capable of not seeing the matter so simply as black & white, and were even capable of providing counterpoints and other perspectives is rather refreshing. It shows a level understanding, growth and experience over the years.
You do realize the cast of people is completely different and maybe only joe was there back then. Lmao
There's a difference between when you're in college or younger and when you're a grown ass man and woman.
I have friends that are girls and we can just say I love you to each other without it being sexual and they have their own husbands.
And we're definitely not trying to fuck each other.
Also my fiance has guy friends who I'm also friends with and it's totally cool.
Amen!!!
My friend his best friends girlfriend was around 24 at the time and the other Guy whose kink is older married women was about 27 the last time I spoke to him. He had no age range too. From 23-60. I knew him since college so about 9 years from first time I meant him in college.
Anthony "you know what I mean" Lee! 😁
Poor Ryan 😂
Laughed so hard in this one “dress so pretty”
I think I believe that my Girlfriend, Fiancé are Wife should have guys for friends as long as I get a chance to know them also and if she allows me to have ladies as my friend a 2 for 1 agreement.
i've learned things about why social things are the way they are from this video
These past couple uploads have been the best ones in a while! Thanks guys!
As a female with majority of male friends since my childhood it’s just a lot of explaining when it comes to dating, I always try to introduce them. Ive learnt the insecure ones are always iffy and complains ab it. My other BFs were cool w my guy friends.
You’re lucky.
A female with majority male friends, there’s a word for that.
😂😂
@@King_Me that's not nice, my daughter has always had guy friends and I can guarantee you she's not what ever word you're trying to get at that's disrespectful.
@@King_Me I mean honestly, why comment at all if you don't have anything nice to say.
@MassT So would a crackhead. Point invalid 😂 it’s more funny how every time you type of males say this you never point out that’s a problem for men to be that way (IK BIOLOGY 😢 ONLY YALL WANT TO F** ALL THE TIME…. but if women…. Nvm).
20:55 that was so in sync!!! 😂😂😂
No way, Stephen 'tWitch' Boss took his own life. Seen him since his SYTYCD days and he was always such a positive light. RIP
Damn. He always seemed so happy and smiling. 😔I feel for his wife and kids; esp. losing him in such a way and during the holidays at that. May they all receive the comfort, strength, help and healing they are gonna need.
the title of this video should've been try not to pounce on ryan challenge
The snake 🐍 🤣 🤣🤣🤣
As a Guy I have my own boundaries. You can think another person is attractive looking and not fuck that person. To me that’s kinda plain and simple. I like to respect people in their relationship cuz I don’t want people to do things to my relationships.
I'm more worried about her 'gay friend' xD
18:20 😂😂😂😂😂 joe with these sneaky ones
You give a fuckable vibe.
"WHATS GIVING YOU THAT?" ryan gonna go home and train just in case, these snakes are hungry 😅
11:59 "Yeah she does" kills me haha
Kalyne talking about her to ryan.
"Wheather or nor I would let you"
After this statement is the FIRST time ever I seen Joe get caught off guard lololl
Mann! So funny lol
I had to block someone once because they could not be my friend. I told him that I didn’t want anything with him other than friendship and he said he was okay with that. But not long after he “put me on notice” that he wanted to date me. His exact words, “I’m putting you on notice”. I was like if you want to be my friend, then be my friend, quit hitting on me. And I have told my current partner that we cannot be friends because of I was attracted to him when I was dating someone else before we got together.
I only have 1 guy friend that I fully trust, he's younger and like a little brother to me. He's the only one my bf trusts too. Most guys pretend to be my friend and then ghost me or lash out when they realize I'm not going to give them what they want. I've stopped trying to connect, it's not worth the disappointment. It's really hard to get accepted into a female clique so I just don't have friends. It's lonely out here 👍
Just because he's younger and you feel on top because of your age lol 🤣 and "you" say we are friends doesn't mean he feels the same. I've seen guys wait years for chance men and women can't be platonic friends its just a matter of time for someone to catch feelings. Trust me as random guy all guys want sex some just longer than others watch for the 🐍 and im sure you know 9:13
@@IvanGoldBit He calls me one of his best friends, we have a mentor type relationship. Are you saying that I shouldn't trust him either? 😂
@@SnowLilies He's your friend not mine 😏
13:08 that "NO" is so satisfying
❤Steve not wanting to bang Anthony.
❤Everyone wanting to spread Ryan’s cheeks.
❤️Steve and Anthony singing together
You guys are hilarious 🤣
18:50 is this why Ryan grew out his beard ? lol 😂😂
I love the way you guys end every video
20:51, that's how you know they're good homies
This gona be a juicy one
Ryan and Joe should start an OnlyFans together 😍
"Dominate Humbly" 😏
Lololol😂
I mean, I think it is possible. But I've been friends with my guy friends for years now. It's an interesting topic for sure and you guys are hilarious talking about it 🤣
Love from Ghana 🇬🇭
As long they don't cross the line I'm fine
This discourse always reminds me how blessed I am to have a man be my actual best friend 😅
14:04 lol steve thinking about anthony lately haha
🤔Ryan be lookin' like a snack tho 🤷🏾♀️
1:18 need that as a gift
Im pansexual, so this question confuses me sometimes. Like on the real, I find most people attractive in some way (physically) most of the time so ig from my pov it's just hella control and reflection. also, im poly so like in all my relationships i say from the start that i dont mind what they do during their time just when i get home its us time and it takes A LOT OF TRUST AND CONFIDENCE but still its possible if u find the right people.
My head hurts thinking about what's going on with you.
@@thomaschristopherwhite9043 valid
i feel a little bit about joe because although I'm not attracted to my female friends, I do fantasize about them. But they're all clearly separated in my head because sex and relationships are two separate things to me, and I value relationships more than I value sex. I might lust after everyone, but I would never act on it. I cherish my friendships with people and I think having a deep and emotional connection to them is much better than just being deep inside them. It'd be nice, but so long as I am in control of myself, I would never fuck my friends.
Joe is wearing a Tuấn Anh tee 😂
I just have this feeling Tony is going to bring this up in the Joemalia group
Take away, "nedding the dough."
the face on joes shirt looks funny
All these little guys commenting their insecurities, y’all never had female friends in highschool? Or from socializing after uni?
e-reptile-dysfunction
Always interesting topic
19:07 to 19:22 Ryan and Kaylen talking about each other.?
Probably, since there are just friends. And there is no denying that they are good looking people, they just are not attracted to each other.
Ryan u better b carful it’s a black leather couch back there …….
Ah i needed to hear this
I've never been that guy myself to be jelly of guy friends since it'd be hypocritical of me since I've always had lots of lady friends myself. I'm also polyamorous and that may be a whole nother topic on its own haha
Loved this video 🤣🤣🎄
u guys getting 40% paycut but still laughing i guess thats a daily bonus.
We need to clip the gay jokes on Ryan 😆
bro just let them have boyfriends too.
If she’s known them longer then me aka childhood friends that’s calm
Ryan 🤣🤣🤣 18:50 .... This dude 🤣🤣🤣
I don’t know .. I’ve always tried to have female friends but every time they get a Bf they ghost me. I’m like “damn i thought we were homies”. Maybe I’m just young and the women in around ain’t mature enough for that
This is probably the truest jk vid that is speaking to me with a sledgehammer.
red flag if she even has time to just hang out with her guy “friends”
Not threatened. Shit's just weird. I'd say put a limit on it. If she has like 30 male friends and 2 female friends, play at your own risk.
She's an adult, I can't control her. But if she does have a bunch of straight male friends, I'd find that weird & probably wouldn't take her serious. Because I don't trust guys, not her
Wish we had more perspectives on this topic. Cuz does that mean bi ppl can't have any friends at all?
OTR is my favourite
So the one of the first parties I had/went to when I moved to FL and was at my roommates friends house for a Halloween party. It was just my ex-roommate his friend and my friend. So we played some drinking games and at one point in the night I gave my friend my phone to invite girls over here. He ended up adding one my friends that’s a girl that I never intended to get with. She was a pen pal from Snapchat. She’s in WI and he’s gone there and she come to visit. He won’t let any guy talk to her, me included. He was going to move into a house with my current roommate and another friend. He stayed in WI for awhile and I rarely hear from him. Is there an exception or was he right?
It’s not chill, NEXT VIDEO.
It ok until shit happened
This a Hard No . I Agree
Yes.
joe i need that shirt
This is the truth 9:14 women know they just love 💘 the attention
I was cringing in the beginning of the video but by the end it was smooth sailing
I seem ready lubed 😂
Partners with multiple opposite sex hanging around all the time is a big red flag for me
🔥🔥🔥episode
pleaseeeee lower the volume for the intro, startles me every time lol
I'm dying here😂
Yo mama 😂😂
13:24 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂 the whole time
I’m surprised to see Joe wearing Tuan Anh’s t-shirt. He is a great performer. You guys are hilarious.
16:24 nick is so funny
Older not as worried but depend on scenario ~ but Younger id look out cause when I was like 17 ….. I ain’t no home wrecker , but if the relationship was on the rocks 😅 i was tryna break em up so I can get a w .
Also did 10:25what joe ant said
I am laughing a lot
What are you talking about? Of course you can be friends with the oposite sex. Are you saying you are attracted to every woman in this world? There isn't a single woman of the oposite sex you're not sexually attracted to, so you can't be friends with them? I'm a woman and I've been attracted to probably 0,5 % of the men I met in my life. I have no problem befriending people regardless of their sex or sexual orientation. If your assumption is correct that would mean that bisexual people can't be friend with anybody... And btw, I have a friend who is gay. He went on a date with a guy he met on a dating app, so they thought of each other as being objectively attractive. However, when they met, there wasn't any chemistry and so they became friends, never did anything sexual. Soo.....
It's not even about attraction, lot of guys will fuck anything, in the right circumstances.
Lmao ryan better watch out them boys about to tag team his black hole lol