Ex Wife Asked For Open Marriage & It Backfired

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  • Опубликовано: 22 авг 2024
  • Today's story is from a subscriber here on the channel. He details how his ex wife ruined their marriage after asking for an open marriage. He immediately found an attorney and had her served with divorce. She also was arrested.

Комментарии • 78

  • @peterwilliams6361
    @peterwilliams6361 3 месяца назад +233

    The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalized

    • @user-er9hv4pl2u
      @user-er9hv4pl2u 3 месяца назад +1

      There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

    • @peterwilliams6361
      @peterwilliams6361 3 месяца назад

      Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white

    • @user-er9hv4pl2u
      @user-er9hv4pl2u 3 месяца назад

      This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.

    • @peterwilliams6361
      @peterwilliams6361 3 месяца назад

      You wont regret it

  • @chadreingold5175
    @chadreingold5175 3 месяца назад +15

    I don't think anyone would accuse this guy of being a genius.

  • @robertocentola758
    @robertocentola758 3 месяца назад +23

    How did this poor man last 7 years with a woman like that??

    • @jasonBGI
      @jasonBGI 3 месяца назад +5

      those grilled cheese sandwiches and tomato soups were probably amazing

    • @anthonym6119
      @anthonym6119 3 месяца назад +2

      I couldn’t do it I don’t have that much patience

    • @censured-again
      @censured-again 3 месяца назад +3

      ​@anthonym6119 I did it for 14 years, but I can't read people very well. Look up Asperger's sometime. The inability to read people can be a trait.

    • @anthonym6119
      @anthonym6119 3 месяца назад +1

      @@censured-again that makes sense in your situation but for me I’m fair and refuse to deal with nonsense

    • @NootNoot67
      @NootNoot67 3 месяца назад

      Men will give up happiness for their marriage, women will give up their marriage for their happiness.

  • @heltonja
    @heltonja 3 месяца назад +23

    When they are irrationally jealous, they are usually projecting

  • @STB-jh7od
    @STB-jh7od 3 месяца назад +42

    OP had to take polygraph cause wife was projecting her cheating on him.

    • @KurlanAank18
      @KurlanAank18 3 месяца назад +11

      Not once, but twice. Definitely should have left her the first time and listening to his family. With him getting upset when everyone warned him about her.That's a whole lot of cope, and took an open marriage in order for him to run away. At least he finally got a clue.

  • @Cigarsnjeeps
    @Cigarsnjeeps 3 месяца назад +9

    lol, he “fought that thought” he sure did. 7 long years he did 😂

  • @Lord_darkside74
    @Lord_darkside74 3 месяца назад +18

    2:44 dude she was cheating the whole time the whole relationship had a female. It was cheating on her husband and was accusing him of everything. She was doing gaslighting the fuck out his poor man.

  • @gordy7877
    @gordy7877 3 месяца назад +18

    It's called projection.

  • @TechnoMageB5
    @TechnoMageB5 3 месяца назад +8

    The criminal [cheater] accuses others of what they themselves are doing.
    Classic case.

  • @MigStro
    @MigStro 3 месяца назад +5

    True! Man I'm glad you brought back your thoughts on the story! It just didn't feel the same and felt that the story just ended.

  • @MacBailey
    @MacBailey 3 месяца назад +13

    Ex may not have been diagnosed but she had some pretty severe mental issues. And your recording saved your bacon. I know of several guys who have been arrested on a false DV charge that cost them thousands to get through.

  • @DreamieEnt
    @DreamieEnt 3 месяца назад +8

    Brad got him a Keisha. Dont go back lol

    • @El_Fonzo
      @El_Fonzo 3 месяца назад +1

      A "Keisha"?... 😂 he shouldn't mess with them Becky's either

    • @El_Fonzo
      @El_Fonzo 3 месяца назад

      A "Keisha"? 😂... he shouldn't mess with those Becky's either 😂

  • @jessereitz9574
    @jessereitz9574 3 месяца назад +15

    Another great reason to live alone and abolish ALL MARRIAGE!

  • @alvinchoong1558
    @alvinchoong1558 3 месяца назад +31

    When he decided to go black, it went dark.

    • @censured-again
      @censured-again 3 месяца назад

      What are you talking about? Please explain. Why would 20 people agree with you?

    • @R_W_Goodson
      @R_W_Goodson 3 месяца назад +4

      @@censured-again
      There is a saying, “Once you go black, you never go back” [to white]. The comment is sarcasm related to that old saying.

    • @JohnSmith-ys3wc
      @JohnSmith-ys3wc 3 месяца назад

      Funny, a black girl I know ended up marrying a white guy. She said once you go white you know that it's right.

    • @isiahbraun8704
      @isiahbraun8704 3 месяца назад

      😅😊😂

  • @Profitglutton90
    @Profitglutton90 3 месяца назад +7

    If she had all those feelings about him then why stay in the marriage? If there’s nothing he does that dissuades her from her beliefs it’s just best to end the marriage.

  • @rodneyevans8362
    @rodneyevans8362 3 месяца назад +8

    You should have left her a long time ago. You made things worse allow her to treat you that way. Never put up with a jealous woman.

  • @markwalker4823
    @markwalker4823 3 месяца назад +6

    Wow 3 mins in, she has no respect or trust for op. Should of walked away back then. Guys if what she brings to the relationship is drama then walk! You will save yourself time and stress!!!

  • @markongkiatco4448
    @markongkiatco4448 3 месяца назад +8

    Don't get married especially with countries with high infidelity and divorced rates.. make sure to do a research on the law in your country, most of states in the u.s favors women regardless of her wrong doing.. marrying without knowing these facts is like digging your own grave

  • @Alucard-yb6fq
    @Alucard-yb6fq 3 месяца назад +9

    Another one. How just how. Redest of flag

  • @josephprins1258
    @josephprins1258 3 месяца назад +6

    lol this thumbnail is hilariouis

  • @pgtips73
    @pgtips73 3 месяца назад +1

    “We can’t go on together, with suspicious minds”

  • @deeflo6731
    @deeflo6731 3 месяца назад +2

    GUARD YOUR HEART AND YOUR WALLET AT ALL COSTS FELLA'S.

  • @associatealpha1166
    @associatealpha1166 3 месяца назад +1

    They do not have a conscience the way we do. All men need to know this fact.

  • @brianbrian598
    @brianbrian598 3 месяца назад +2

    They ask that question we all know what is already happening. When she thought you cheating she was.

  • @michaelangelo4147
    @michaelangelo4147 Месяц назад

    Accountability is kryptonite to these women!

  • @JohnSmith-ys3wc
    @JohnSmith-ys3wc 3 месяца назад +1

    I knew before the female black counselor said anything that she'd be on the white guys side. Hilarious!

  • @ogreking6266
    @ogreking6266 3 месяца назад

    I'm sorry this happened to you brother. You handled it well, and no it wasn't the book. It was the 🐓 carousel, the streets were calling and she answered. Salute to you 🫡

  • @turtletouche
    @turtletouche 3 месяца назад +3

    Good video. A var is a must to have on stand by.

  • @stolman2197
    @stolman2197 3 месяца назад +1

    Ex was cheating the whole time, the lie-detector event was projection

  • @ProudSanatani0007
    @ProudSanatani0007 3 месяца назад +1

    Trust me this wasn't her first time, She was cheating on Op the entire time and projecting her cheating on him......but I can't understand why the F Op put up with that psycho Cheater for this long......

  • @geraldM1
    @geraldM1 3 месяца назад +1

    The way women communicate is not the same as men, men are direct while women are mostly indirect. They start by hinting at what they want. In Ops case, she started by buying books for open marriages, reading them and telling you she's reading them. If a guy is slow that's when they come and tell you what they want.

  • @anthonym6119
    @anthonym6119 3 месяца назад +1

    Crazy comes in all colors.

  • @eshaytoastie9790
    @eshaytoastie9790 Месяц назад

    He should of listen to his little brother and he wouldn't be in this mess...

  • @jeffhahn01
    @jeffhahn01 3 месяца назад

    Dude should have started recording when the doorbell rang for the process server.

  • @gavinwilliams1288
    @gavinwilliams1288 3 месяца назад +1

    Bruh she was cheating from the start. Projection is ridiculous

  • @dscheaffer
    @dscheaffer Месяц назад

    OP sounds like your typical nice guy beta doormat. Glad he finally got out of his toxic marriage.

  • @raymondjames2590
    @raymondjames2590 3 месяца назад

    She always cheated on him and he never knew about it she was projecting what she was doing and went too far with it not realizing she was the one

  • @jaychanglini2670
    @jaychanglini2670 3 месяца назад

    Why he put up with her so long. Also cheaters usually fear the partner cheating

  • @Victor-im5ub
    @Victor-im5ub 3 месяца назад

    True is commenting again, yeah!

  • @michaelangelo4147
    @michaelangelo4147 Месяц назад

    Dude every time she brought something up to you was because she was thinking about it. My dude you need to use more of your common sense more and get some street smarts in dealing with these 304s! She was already cheating on you like they always do before they ask for the stupid open marriage.

  • @timothyloayza6789
    @timothyloayza6789 3 месяца назад

    They should make it illegal for husbands and wives, fiances, and GF/BFs unless they are in that alt stuff but with permissions and certified/verified by their spouse they are actually cool with it.
    Damn Hook up App corporate avarice! This is why businesses should have morals that wont effect everyone damn it!

  • @Heartstompkid
    @Heartstompkid 3 месяца назад

    7 year itch, anyone?

  • @bennyfugazzi1054
    @bennyfugazzi1054 3 месяца назад

    Op put up with way too much

  • @Bulgarian_Jedi_Ninja
    @Bulgarian_Jedi_Ninja 3 месяца назад +1

    She was already cheating on you, man!

  • @bhollyfanhardin9627
    @bhollyfanhardin9627 3 месяца назад

    obviously he isn't a genius.......he married her....

  • @rishiragnauth2622
    @rishiragnauth2622 2 месяца назад

    Wow really lol like all delusional women wow in marriage there are 2 people not 1 person but 2people so if 1 person is not trying to make it work guest what it will not work but some people loves drama