This why I hate about people... it doesn't only happen in Finland but other places you go: Just be cause I look approachable doesn't mean I can't decline and say no. However these kind of people will try be resistant to keep making up "convo" when I even barely know you, specially if you look to me as weirdo: I rather just excuse myself and leave. Be careful specially anywhere you go. If there's many people around you just ask em (act as help). I know we mind not look as such but we'll help each other regardless of the situation. We learnt "mind your own business" -situations often not mingle in others situation. Roses?! WTF, disgusting.... Someone people try to "cheat" or "steal" even with the food.... sigh. You're lovely human Dilnaz, I hope you able to make friends you feel comfy with and going to places that are "safer and comfortable" to be in. We mind be foreigners but also Finnish people themselves could face the same and weird situations. You've the right to report if you feel uncomfortable. PERSONAL SPACE IS MUST !!!
Thank you so much for your kind words! This literally made my day! 🥰 Even though there are some weird interactions happening, I would say my life in Finland in general is pretty safe and comfortable, that’s why situations like those pop up in memory 😅 But definitely, if you feel uncomfortable, it’s better to seek for crowded places and seek for help 🫶 it’s better to be “overthinking” and prevent any bad consequences…
This why I hate about people... it doesn't only happen in Finland but other places you go: Just be cause I look approachable doesn't mean I can't decline and say no. However these kind of people will try be resistant to keep making up "convo" when I even barely know you, specially if you look to me as weirdo: I rather just excuse myself and leave.
Be careful specially anywhere you go. If there's many people around you just ask em (act as help). I know we mind not look as such but we'll help each other regardless of the situation. We learnt "mind your own business" -situations often not mingle in others situation. Roses?! WTF, disgusting.... Someone people try to "cheat" or "steal" even with the food.... sigh.
You're lovely human Dilnaz, I hope you able to make friends you feel comfy with and going to places that are "safer and comfortable" to be in.
We mind be foreigners but also Finnish people themselves could face the same and weird situations.
You've the right to report if you feel uncomfortable. PERSONAL SPACE IS MUST !!!
Thank you so much for your kind words! This literally made my day! 🥰
Even though there are some weird interactions happening, I would say my life in Finland in general is pretty safe and comfortable, that’s why situations like those pop up in memory 😅
But definitely, if you feel uncomfortable, it’s better to seek for crowded places and seek for help 🫶 it’s better to be “overthinking” and prevent any bad consequences…
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Your storytelling is captivating and well-presented! Keep it up, Dilnaz!
Thank you, Daneyal! 😎
The story about a bench was the worst wtf?! 😂
I know right… it’s absolutely crazy that people even come up with this kind of ideas
OMG bunch of crazy and weird events. Ahaha everyday is a new learning here 😅😂
🤣🤣 yess, I bet you have many stories to tell too! thank you so much for watching 🥹❤️
Haha I know right 😂@@DilnazZhumabayeva