@@Femboy_Critical lmao.. speaking of help.. got a full on consultation with a psychiatrist coming soon... can't wait for that.. I already feel bad for the psychiatrist really.
Asmr roleplay community is the nicest group of human to ever come together because we’ve all hit rock bottom, there’s no need to pretend to be anything else
Am I the odd one out here? Because despite not having a girlfriend yet, I don’t feel at all like I’ve hit rock bottom, but still enjoy asmr rp when I have time to listen to it. I’m not lonely either since I still have friends and don’t listen to this stuff out of some sort of despair that I’ll never find someone.
Never thought I'd find the most relatable vid right here. Truly captures the rage, depression, loneliness, and frustration a lot of us go through when we turn to degeneracy like this for comfort
And they wonder why some men turn to crime or unspeakable acts. Mental stability is growing ever harder to maintain in this world. Those who are mentally weak just snap one day. Then there on the news.
@@legoclonetrooper It is degeneration after all because you try to fill your lonlieness with the kind words of a women you won't ever see or feel the touch of even if it would be just a hug. You crave love that you don't have from sources that only can be described as degenerate. You may be desperate but you fill your lonlieness with degeneration.
I've quite honestly reached the lowest point of my life. I remember clowning people on listening to roleplay ASMR and...here I am, listening to it. (Anyways, last one was hella relaxing though)
I'm not even joking when I say this, but I genuinely listen to this and cry when I sleep, But then again this is the only thing I look forward to at the end of the day. This makes me happy but depressed at the same time knowing that I wont actually have a real connection in my life. The average person might say that people who listen to these are degenerates but clearly they haven't been in our position yet. Loneliness is a hell of a thing and the lengths we go through to fill that hole, to cope, is just depressing.
Just read the comments, there are tons of people who used to criticize this and guess what, they now listen to the exact same stuff. Me included. Never a good idea to boldly criticize a way of coping if you haven't been in the same shoes. I sure learned that lesson.
@@gergoantal1066 I don’t want to criticise you because I’ve been in the same shoes and yet it is because I understand that I know you are weak, it is possible to get up, it is possible to do something better, go on a run, hit the gym, set goals, maybe talk to people, make friends, touch grass, live a quality life. Getting out of this depression is not that hard, the best way to be truly fulfilled is not to look for an easy escape or distraction in a fantasy but to overcome difficulty in reality. That is my conclusion for myself and I will succeed. But if you are happy the way you are you don’t have to change I guess
Right! Guys need Love too and Care absolutely. We're Not the men from 2000 years ago fighting wars with millions of soldiers at one Point against millions of soldiers at the other Point. We're loosing our strenght and thats why WE need more Help or Help at all! Dont think we're the Spartans wich we're ready to die at anypoint and would Go into Battle even If they would know that the City we're they we're Born and we're theire familys are is maby Getting burned in the exact Same time. We try our best but for you it isnt the best anymore. We shall Not Care about that nor If anyone thinks we're to weak because we are the ones wohl bear the inner and outer pain and we are the ones in wich every Problem is Getting thrown at. I can Not Help you Guys really much because as a Guy i dont really know what to do against These Problems YET but i can only Tell you to stay the fuck strong and stay the fuck hard even If you feel Like you cant anymore because thats what i did! It was Like a miracle i didnt even notice it but in the procces i lost alot of my Soul and sometimes you Just gotta loose a Part of the Soul and refit If with the Love of Jesus Christ because He can really Help us if WE BELIVEEEE enought. Give youre Life to him Not later but now and i know it maby hard for you but it isnt and theres No excuses i dont even want to force you but i Just Tell you that i found true satisfaction after YEARS in Jesus Christ God and the Holy Spirit AMEN 🙏🏼 Bless you all and If youre weak sometimes its OK really BE weak for that time and rise again Afterwards in the Glory of God and you become stronger Like a muscle First it gets broken while Training then it heals and gets stronger. Habe a good day morning or night.
To all my fellow comrades who watch theses roleplays : don't feel bad, ashamed or depressed about it. You found a way to cope with life, and this is a solution among others. Had a very bad time too a couple of months before (self crisis, doubts), but watching theses actually motivated me a lot. It always feel like you're being encouraged with theses GF/BF videos for example. As a result, I became the valedictorian of my entire promotion. When I look back, I actually want to thank thoses youtubers for transferring such sensations to us viewers. It's like therapy in a way. (Just like sports, cooking, music, martial arts, art) Enjoy, feel, be yourself. You're the only one who knows what your body and mind need to overcome life's challenges.
You should be ashamed about it, it’s not a good thing relying on these things to be your only source of temporary happiness. Trust me, it’s been a long time
@@AudiRSAvant just because you’re ashamed that you used too like this stuff doesn’t mean the rest of us should be ashamed of ourselves for liking it. You also shouldn’t be ashamed of yourself for having liked it. It makes us happy and it’s not hurting anyone so there’s nothing to be ashamed of
All these roleplays, confessions, friends to lovers arks etc. Those who know, those who were browsing these videos at 3 AM and hugging their pillows, just to feel SOME kind of comfort. Just know... That you're not alone and you are loved. I've been feeling this loneliness since highschool but it is not that bad now. And sometimes be glad that you are free, appreciate those times when you're alone with yourself
I’m real sick of hearing the “you are loved” schtick though I do appreciate the kind gesture. Life isn’t about everything being easy and feeling good and loved all the time, it’s about getting through everything else and most importantly it’s about living your life according to you so don’t listen to what I just said
Its kind of depressing that i have to watch a person pretending to converse with me just to fall asleep or to feel a slight hint of calm. I've hit rock bottom
Yeah no I fucking feel ya champ, the void’s been calling and the only thing to drown out these horrible feelings is random internet strangers telling me it’ll be okay and that they love me. It’s alright though, guess it happens to the best of us or something. But I don’t really know anymore, being honest.
@@iahtsai I take small doses of heroin once a week and listen to the asmr in my bed to feel the embrace of my neko gf. You haven't hit rock bottom yet.
I dont have auto play on when i go to sleep because i like choosing the next vid i watch... But when u listen to the whole audio in a dark empty bedroom and then it just ends and your sitting there staring at the ceiling with your thoughts, its so quiet you can hear the mice scurry thru the walls...
Why the f* people need to cringe about everything these days ? For some, it's a way of coping with things they are going through without having someone to talk to about. If you are listening to it and feel ashamed, remember that you're doing nothing wrong, you're just being human and like most of us you want to feel loved, encouraged and heard. Eventually one day you'll look back on this episode of your life and will know that it had to happen to get you where you are. Keep your heads high guys 💪🏼
@@lucas10422 Estamos em todos lugares kkkkk Legal que até os nossos perfis são parecidos. Você com um ghoul emo de mangá e eu com um vampiro emo de mangá 💀
As someone who recently developed an addiction to roleplay ASMR, I am completely fucking insane. Good evening ladies and gentlemen. I'm proud to announce that ASMR makes me physically cringe so much that I cannot watch it anymore. The void has been replaced by popping zombie heads in Resident Evil 4. Edit: I beat the game yesterday. I was grinning like an idiot the whole time. The game is phenomenal and Ashley is a perfect replacement for my schizo ASMR gf. Edit: I just finished Cyberpunk Edgerunners and started playing the game again, so I'm back to being depressed but still hate ASMR Edit: "As a dog returns to his vomit, so a fool repeats his folly" -Proverbs 26:11 Edit: Given the insane price of renting a 1-bedroom apartment, I shall not be attending therapy in the near future Edit: I am utterly alone. I've also gone batshit insane.
I always tought that the people that listent to rp asmr we're just weirdos but now i can feel the pain, you only want to hear someone telling you that everything will be fine and that you're important to someone just to sleep in peace
It’s honestly so self degrading. I hate that I have to rely on such things, but at the same time I feel like it’s the only thing I have to rely on. It’s a vicious cycle.
@@ThePikster I have tried to change for 3 years, that's the amount of time that passes since she "left me", we weren't togheter, but I loved her soo fucking much, she made me feel appreciated for the first time in my life, and in my eyes we were made for each other, it seems she didn't see it that way. 3 years to do nothing, to remain the shit I am, to remain nothing of value, to remain unloved. At least their voices let me feel what I could have but never will...
@@thepersonyouknow1714regret is a ghost that you can't beat, just when you feel you are good, it will hits you heavily. You can learn to sleep with it, but it will still haunt you
I'm happy with asmr, there's a shred of reality hidden deep within those who make it. Ai truly scares me, and for that I'm glad that I don't have the conversation skills to speak to one.
I remember when I was repulsed by the concept of ASMR only for me to realize how touch starved i was as well as the lack of intimacy I had. Eventually it grew to something I depended on to sleep. Of course I always knew these were just words from a video, something that would never be real. But it would be nice to actually have them be heard, to have those words carry some weight to them. I'm sure things will get better, but man. life can sometimes be very cruel, and we gotta scrounge up reasons to keep going yeah? Anything to dull the pain of existence.
I went from thinking it was extremely weird to listening to normal asmr videos because they were relaxing to becoming addicted to them and listening to it everyday.
@@-_--_-2335 Normal? Do any of this feels normal to you? Look around! Brainwashing chemicals in the form of food. Propaganda in the form of media. Psychological warfare in the form of advertisments. Echochambers of issolation in the form of social nerworks. We are living in the biggest slumber mankind has ever been. You've gotta have to dig pretty deep kiddo, before you can hit something that is remotely normal.
I am really thankful to those asmr creators for helping me feel appreciated and loved when i need it most even if it's not really about me or towards me specifically
If you're interested in listening (which I assume most of you don't) I recommend Afterglow Asmr, her calm voice and the wholesome scripts she picks up are really nice.
No, if you watch this you are either a woman or a simp, he's not wrong with the banging asmr, asmr is not suposed to be sexy woman talking to you, this is just a pretex for b***h to use youtube and not be banned.
@Thawne Not sure what the question is, and frankly I have no idea what viewer *or* creator stats look like, but you should bear in mind there are like... fifty-plus years of romance-novel audiobooks targeted at women. Hell, Audible used to have a special subscription that was *nothing* but unlimited access to their romance/harlequin/smut offerings. The *biggest* difference in the rise of this particular genre is the unfortunate parasocial elements and general ties to simp culture.
It's not like anyone is gonna read this but listening to these types of videos has made me reflect on myself. 1 year ago I used to talk down on myself, I would tell myself everyone hated me and that I should kill myself. On top of that, I had no ambition, I had no social life, and my grades were dropping. I pretty much hit rock bottom. In a weird sense, listening to my first video where I had someone to comfort me was the warmest feeling I've felt, but it made me realize how shit of a person I was. It made me want to be a better person so I was deserving of being comforted. I found a healthy and an amazing friend group that was supportive of each other, including me. Although I haven't told them I listen to these types of videos, I was able to let out my personal problems. Along with that, I tried eating better and started working out. Looking back, I should have been less cringe and pessimistic, but every now and then, I when I screw up badly or I start telling myself that I should kill myself, I come back to these videos so that I can be reminded that there is still love for me out there. That someone will always comfort me and love me, and I can comfort and be affectionate with them. I'm still working on myself and I want to be more optimistic, as cheesy as that sounds. I hope that one day, I can be as intimate and comfort a potential SO out of their "rock bottom" just as these channels have done for me. Idk I wanted to write this because this comment section is... let's just say something else.
I’ve been so lonely and been listening to these for so long that they don’t cure the pain inside me anymore now it’s just growing and growing until indie from it
Hey man, I wanted to stop by to tell you everything will be alright. I know it might be hard, but you have everything you will need in your heart. All you need to do is take gradual steps. One by one. I remember, probably eighteen months ago, I lost the relationship I cherished most. By falling in love with a woman I was friends with such that I could no longer ignore it, I pushed her away, never to be seen by me again. I was in a similar dark place for a long time. For an aching year, I felt horrible, irrational feelings. That my best days might have stayed behind in senior year of high school. That I had no friends and the only thing I had left were my grades, and my sudden struggle with it brought even that into question. While I'm not fully back to normal now, I'm far more capable of happiness and togetherness with those around me than I thought possible even eight months ago. Growing back to the fullness of life is never an immediate change, and it's like climbing against a mudslide - you'll stumble a lot, and that's okay. So long as it doesn't completely stifle you out, it hasn't won. The mere fact that you're still here means it hasn't taken you, and victory is remains attainable. I don't know you, but the undisputable fact is that every person has great potential inside of them, waiting to be released. You've got that same potential, and it'd be a horrible shame if the world never got to see the wonder of you. All you need to do for now is take the first step. It might be counseling, it might be as little as calling your mom or dad. For me, it was trying to get back in touch with my Christian faith. And then the next step. But like I said, you only need to worry about the first for now. You're way, WAY stronger than you know. I'm sure you'll get past this eventually, and you'll look back on this dark time as a distant memory. Stay safe, man. I'll be praying for you.
Recently got a girlfriend and she’s filled the void but I’m still addicted to the role plays and I feel terrible everytime, about a week ago we were hanging out just cuddling and talking when she started patting my head and I’m still not sure why but I just let it all out my frustrations, my anger, all my pent up stress and sadness. She held me close as I cried and I told her about all my insecurities. She says “you don’t need those roleplay anymore I’m the real thing and I’ll give you all I can”. I’m never gonna leave her.
Damn, this hits in a special kind of way. When you really think about it, the pursuit and overall idea of love is in a dark era. And I am not referring to these videos but rather the reason for which they thrive. There is so little love in the world right now. That could be for a variety of reasons, ranging from incel behaviour, to porn addiction, to over-inflated expectations, and even to the global mental health crisis, and that wouldn’t even scratch the surface. My advice is while these videos are good short term solutions, they are impermanent. I actually find that much of the community surrounding these videos can be good listeners(un ironically) so if you truly have no one else to talk to, try them or anyone else on the internet. MANY of us are at a low point right now, some maybe slightly higher than others. Any sane person will do their best to understand.
As strange as it sounds, ASMR is what finally made me realize just how bad my depression was getting. I worked tooth and nail and took “working on yourself before others” too seriously. I never made time for my social life and spent nearly all of the past 2 years at the gym and at my house. I have no friends, and nothing to bring me joy. Now I rely on an anime girl telling me she loves me to get through the night. I hate my life because I ruined it.
Felt that though I also took mine a step further and hyper focused on my studies too and ended up cutting my family off too...I hope we'll get through it bro❤
I would like to help you get back on track but I too can't do it anymore, I feel like I'm going around in circles and never being able to manage to get out of my situation. It's fucking endless, every Whenever I think I have the slightest chance of getting out of there, I systematically come back to square one. I feel like something takes pleasure in playing with me. And while I'm exhausting myself going around in circles, time continues to pass. My city has been completely transformed in barely two years. Worse than bladerunner, worse than all the anticipation movies put together. And the npc's are slowly getting used to it, without anyone doing anything. I don't even know what to tell you guys anymore, I don't even know what to invent to motivate you. I don't know how it goes in your country , but for the doomers from home, I think it's the end, we're coming to the end of the end...
Isn't it great? "You're alone so work on yourself", you work on yourself and then you're still alone for it. All we ever get are cope answers from people who don't get us
i love the fact that, they probably have no idea who you are or do you even exist, but we are getting a slight bit of happiness and comfort just by listening to them roleplaying as our lover or family or whatever sleep paralysis demon. They are helping us cope with our depression, loneliness and frustration temporary, i dont even know if i should be happy that i feel like im being loved and comforted or sad that nobody actually likes me and cares about me. I know that im a degenerate, a low life, a useless human being with no possible values, but i dont care anymore. My heart aches everyday, im ashamed for being so damn stupid, im ashamed that i cant live to people's expectation. Im tired, of everything, i just want to let it all out while listening to these asmr roleplays.
The fact that I listened to more than half of those audios and have them saved in a playlist haunts me. The worst part is that it started with me clicking on one ironically. The clatter asmr does seem really nice though.
As someone who has been obsessed with ASMR roleplays for quite some time, I can confidently say that I have no idea what I'm doing with my life anymore. ASMR roleplays are kind of just an escape for me. Getting that special kind of love, attention and care I've always dreamed of has just given me so much joy and has made me smile more than ever, but at the same time it has also been giving me a depressing and lonely feeling. I'm honestly beginning to fear what my life is becoming. ASMR roleplays are my joy, happiness and comfort and I often listen to it for hours upon hours at a time. Mostly at night though, where I'm just peacefully playing some games like Genshin, Minecraft or Skyrim, a time when no-one can bother me with anything. Well, to close it off, ASMR roleplays have just become a part of my life and I doubt that will change anytime soon.
same I will play minecraft and have asmr roleplay in my airpods just playing it’s a lifestyle now when I remember I would listen to it once a week to go to sleep now I listen to it everywhere
It’s very addictive in the way that it can make you feel highs while listening to them, but when you’re alone and you’re not listening, it’s lonely and sad. This fake, one-sided relationship is not a connection at all. It can’t replace real people, so you’ve got to start building real relationships and friendships if you want to successfully break this addiction. I find myself relapsing every weekend because I don’t have any meaningful connections in my life. Try your best, Anon. I think it will be worth it
@@VainGroundHopper its true, these audios are literally drugs; we feel worse if we don't listen to them, this shit can never replace genuine connection
Notice how there’s a progression to it. It starts with wholesome ASMR, the kind of stuff you listen to when you’re just that lonely or sad, then it goes to more female dominant, then to Yandere, and then straight up toxic abusive relationships. I appreciate that detail, but I also appreciate that there’s the undertone of sadness, to melancholy, to rage in the first two stages when we’re just looking for affection. It illustrates that at some level, we’re disappointed and angry at ourselves for having to get comfort like this, and how there isn’t a girlfriend or wife in our lives to be there when we finally can’t take it anymore. It then turns to hysteria and misery at the final stages. (I personally haven’t gone THAT deep, but I can imagine how miserable I’d be if I got so twisted in the head to feel comfort from abusive relationship ASMR. After all, we just want to feel loved. But unfortunately there’s no girl to love us in real life. So we turn to this even though we know it’ll never match up. It’s better than no comfort at least.
@@cheefqueef6494 There’s two parts of being an Incel. That you’ve given up on finding a woman and that you resent women as well as men that get lots of female attention. I’m still debating whether I’ve given up yet or not. But my best friend is very popular with the girls but he’s still my honorary brother. I also don’t hate women, only the ones who have awful personalities.
The saddest thing is that the only reason we listen to these ASMR roleplays is because no one will say these these things to us in real life. Sometimes I wish the world wasn't so cruel, but it is. And some of us need a little encouragement in an endless sea of rejection and repulsion. To some it's rock bottom, to others, it's a lifeline. I hope this community never dies.
The thing is. Even if you get a girlfriend, don't expect to be pampered like this. Women have their own problems and interest and most are not looking forward to comforting a guy after a hard day at work. At best they will let you pamper them and you'll get some cuddles from that. To be fair, many guys just turn over and fall asleep after they get off after sex. So it's kind of the same thing. You can be in a relation ship and still feel lonely.
@@sadsongs7731 yeah that's the whole problem. It pisses me off when people bully the people who listen to this audios saying dumb shit like "lol just get a real girlfriend". Throwing all that emotional baggage unto another person isn't fair. It would just be a toxic relationship. It really bothers me that some people think that a romantic relationship is somehow the cure for everything. At the end of the day, I feel like we all have the wrong idea of what a relationship is supposed to be. You can't rely on one person for all your emotional needs, it's borderline inhumane. You can't expect the same person to be your sexual partner, your life partner, your therapist, your mommy, your best friend, your roommate, your financial partner, your confidant, your comforter, etc. And on top of all that you're supposed to enjoy being with that person 24/7 and you must enjoy everything they do and support them on everything. Throwing all these responsibilities and expectations unto one person is NOT okay.
Personally I just listen to them because it's the only way that I can sleep quickly, otherwise I stay awake getting distracted. The combination of the soft sounds and a script to follow makes me sleepy instantly! For people that listen to these because they really feel like they need more love in their day, I hope that life gets better for you. I was once in a dark place and after many fails I got out of that hole and now I'm better than ever, It's going to happen eventually to you too
Man i remember thinking people who listened to rp asmr was the weirdest people of all the earth and here i am understanding why they listened to it loneliness is a hell of a thing
I have, on purpose, detached myself from any woman relationship other than classmates or workpartners. I have not had any girlfriend since the day I was born. So yeah i used to listen to those asmrs and they were good to ease my heart at first, but I realized that... Those audios pained me cause I longed for what I did not have. Nowadays I look to get that love from my family, I spend time with my ma, and my brothers and my dad, I go for walks around the fancy parts of the City to look at cars and houses from rich people to remember what I am fightin for: my future. Also everytime I have the chance I go to different restaurants to try their dishes cause I love to discover new foods! So yeah I basically cope with family, walks and fancy food instead of getting a gf, like a bohemian mf. Also looking at erotic Art fills my need of getting laid cause.. Night emmisions. I started working out recently so I have improve my health!
I absolutely hate that I went from clowning on people who listen to this kinda stuff, to relying in stuff like "Chihiro Fujisaki comforts and reassures you Asmr" to motivate myself.
For those wondering , the piano music is a version of the song "Where is my mind" by Safari Riot , it was used amazingly by Techland for their cinematic trailer for dying light 2.
@@rblxfan22 you don't need to fake it, you need to realise you have to be happy/content being single and fucking no one until your up, If your not fucking people that's your own fault man, but hey the good news is you obviously have areas in your life you can improve
God I remember when I used to use normal asmr for sleep, never did I think a single video would capture exactly how've felt that last few years, that crushing feeling of loneliness, emptiness and depression and how I need something to get away from it, be it friends or anime asmr (god that sounds so cringe). It's been rough man, real rough.
0:21 I don't watch amsr, or role plays, I'm not even depressed or down bad. But this made me almost cry. I think it's the voice, if you don't look at it the weird way, it feels like some mature adult trying to calm you. It's nice.
The asmr community has only 4 types of people: 1. VERY bad down ones 2. The very depressed ones 3. People who just want to chill out/fall asleep 4. (Most based) people who listen to Clatter asmr
You know, the funny thing is, this applies to women as well. Though the male audience is significantly bigger, for obvious reasons, it's not really gender specific. One does not need to look far to prove it - Vox Akuma, Parker Mae, Noble Tales, just to name a few channels. It's basically pron for feels, and there's nothing wrong with wanting to feel wanted, regardless of gender, orientation, body type or occupation.
I went down the same road, mostly listen to horror stories on really rough nights when anime girl asmr aint cuttin it I listen to T6 Archives, just a bunch of 4chan /x/ stories
I have never paid for any asmr rps, but what I can say is sometimes even if it's fantasy like a good book or a nice song it can get you the motivation you need to get through whatever it may be, sometimes just hearing a voice say hey you can do it can be all you need even if it's not real, it's about taking that little hint of human kindness and turning it into motivation! Keep it up kings and queens listen to that ASMR RP till it's real!
this my life right here. listening to asmr roleplays and taking in all the feelings. comfort, love, sadness, etc. and then theres CLATTER ASMR OHIO VERSION 24 HOURS STROBE LIGHTS SCREEN
Relatable AF. Listening to some of these, specially when you discover your "favourite ASMRtists" really fucks with your mind, is like having granted the fantasy you always wanted, but at the same time knowing it's all fake. There is no way that "having" it all to just lose it in 20 minutes is something harmless, but in the meantime feels really good. *I would like to warn everyone tempted to listen those ASMR roleplays to not do that anymore if you tend to go deep in the roleplays, it's copium of the highest level and you will feel reality punching you in the face really hard when it ends, and for free.* It's not these girls/boys guilt, sometimes they actually want to help people, but not everyone respond in the same way.
I'm legit coping hard with loneliness with these kind of videos, unironically. It hits even worse knowing none of these will actually happen to me no matter what I do.
Sometimes I fall asleep mid asmr and I have a really nice dream. Then I wake up. This is usually followed by staring at the ceiling for an hour in bed.
Side comment, this song is really nostalgic to me, one of my favorite teachers would play it during class, it's a piano version of Pixies - where is my mind by Maxence Cyrin
Idk if anyone will read this. I’ve been struggling with loneliness for idk how long now. Realizing that all relationships I’ve been in is just another format which I encounter. No one I find loves and and vice versa. I can’t even tell my parents or talk to someone abt it bc of the whole “you’ll find someone” when ik its not going to work out in that way. Asmr keeps me from focusing on that loneliness and empty space that I need to actually feel full, to feel enough, to feel like there isn’t something missing. I’ve been using asmr to try sleeping and some sort of comfort due to the fact it’s certain that I can’t find him/her. To now, I wish to be loved genuinely or at least find that missing part of me.
Been listening to these daily since 2015. I have a job with amazing prospects, a degree in science, multiple groups of really close friends, incredible family I can always rely on, a car, a house, learning new hobby's, keeping fit. Yet there is just one thing missing and i don't think It will ever be filled...
Man have two sides The qonquestor who fights for their life to achieve the best thing The Normal human that just a human who needs real love and be their self with out putting any high standard
The doomer comments inspired me to make a video on this topic. Peep it out: ruclips.net/video/4_XFmQF3rLE/видео.html
@@justsomeguyontheinternet.. where is my mind piano version
@@cfs_maxDo you know what movie the second clip is from?
@@pipi-fc5lb taxi driver. its a good movie
This community has to be one of the most depressed group of people but nice thing about that is everyone understands each other and can relate
Yep
i am a part if this community and i can 100% confirm this... we need serious help
@@Femboy_Critical lmao.. speaking of help.. got a full on consultation with a psychiatrist coming soon... can't wait for that.. I already feel bad for the psychiatrist really.
@@SuperVoidBoyz xD, i should probably get one too, but i think i might wait it out, keep me updated bro!
@@SuperVoidBoyz poor psychiatric
Bro is at a low point right now _💀_
He hearted ur comment 💀
Wait .... _💀_ ... so that's how you do it. Never realized you could italicize emojis
@@Qwnntm Wait. How da heck? How did you do that?
@@userlesschannel3092 put two underscores directly on each side of the emoji. It would be like this: _ 💀 _ but without the spaces: _💀_
_😀_
Asmr roleplay community is the nicest group of human to ever come together because we’ve all hit rock bottom, there’s no need to pretend to be anything else
Honestly, I have never had a bad moment in this community in my 2 years of being part of it
It’s also very depressing though too.
It’s despair enough that you don’t seek comfort from other human beings, particularly those of the opposite sex.
Am I the odd one out here? Because despite not having a girlfriend yet, I don’t feel at all like I’ve hit rock bottom, but still enjoy asmr rp when I have time to listen to it. I’m not lonely either since I still have friends and don’t listen to this stuff out of some sort of despair that I’ll never find someone.
"I'd love the kind of girl that would actually just kill me"
Cowboy bebop parody XD
id love anyone to kill me
Same
@@joonatanleppik4388 Parody?
@Sayo yeah, either cowboy bebop parody or abridged just search for it on yt should find it easily
Never thought I'd find the most relatable vid right here. Truly captures the rage, depression, loneliness, and frustration a lot of us go through when we turn to degeneracy like this for comfort
It might be degenerate but at this point I'll take anything that can get me through the day
@@theclown2257 I hope it's not heroin
It is more desperation than degeneracy. I don't watch those videos but I get why others do. Many of us are lonely.
And they wonder why some men turn to crime or unspeakable acts. Mental stability is growing ever harder to maintain in this world. Those who are mentally weak just snap one day. Then there on the news.
@@legoclonetrooper It is degeneration after all because you try to fill your lonlieness with the kind words of a women you won't ever see or feel the touch of even if it would be just a hug. You crave love that you don't have from sources that only can be described as degenerate. You may be desperate but you fill your lonlieness with degeneration.
"Yeah im such a manly person after all"
Me at 1 am :
I've quite honestly reached the lowest point of my life. I remember clowning people on listening to roleplay ASMR and...here I am, listening to it. (Anyways, last one was hella relaxing though)
Do what makes you happy bro
The cat becomes the mouse, the chad becomes the virgin...
Low you have fallen, brother, but I believe you will be well and get out of this hell.
That's karma for ya, serves you right for kicking others while their down. Now it's your turn to be made fun of.
@@Satsu1NoHado Yup.
I'm a clown Too!. I clowned on those fools. Now I'm just a Fking HYPOCRITE and no one like to be called that 😭😭
I'm not even joking when I say this, but I genuinely listen to this and cry when I sleep, But then again this is the only thing I look forward to at the end of the day. This makes me happy but depressed at the same time knowing that I wont actually have a real connection in my life. The average person might say that people who listen to these are degenerates but clearly they haven't been in our position yet. Loneliness is a hell of a thing and the lengths we go through to fill that hole, to cope, is just depressing.
Just read the comments, there are tons of people who used to criticize this and guess what, they now listen to the exact same stuff. Me included. Never a good idea to boldly criticize a way of coping if you haven't been in the same shoes. I sure learned that lesson.
real
sad
@@gergoantal1066 I don’t want to criticise you because I’ve been in the same shoes and yet it is because I understand that I know you are weak, it is possible to get up, it is possible to do something better, go on a run, hit the gym, set goals, maybe talk to people, make friends, touch grass, live a quality life. Getting out of this depression is not that hard, the best way to be truly fulfilled is not to look for an easy escape or distraction in a fantasy but to overcome difficulty in reality. That is my conclusion for myself and I will succeed. But if you are happy the way you are you don’t have to change I guess
@Gab you say you don't want to criticise while also calling them weak and it's easy.... not the best choice of words tbh
I just wish more people would see it as normal for a guy to just want to be loved and comforted and cared for 😔
Right! Guys need Love too and Care absolutely. We're Not the men from 2000 years ago fighting wars with millions of soldiers at one Point against millions of soldiers at the other Point. We're loosing our strenght and thats why WE need more Help or Help at all! Dont think we're the Spartans wich we're ready to die at anypoint and would Go into Battle even If they would know that the City we're they we're Born and we're theire familys are is maby Getting burned in the exact Same time. We try our best but for you it isnt the best anymore. We shall Not Care about that nor If anyone thinks we're to weak because we are the ones wohl bear the inner and outer pain and we are the ones in wich every Problem is Getting thrown at. I can Not Help you Guys really much because as a Guy i dont really know what to do against These Problems YET but i can only Tell you to stay the fuck strong and stay the fuck hard even If you feel Like you cant anymore because thats what i did! It was Like a miracle i didnt even notice it but in the procces i lost alot of my Soul and sometimes you Just gotta loose a Part of the Soul and refit If with the Love of Jesus Christ because He can really Help us if WE BELIVEEEE enought. Give youre Life to him Not later but now and i know it maby hard for you but it isnt and theres No excuses i dont even want to force you but i Just Tell you that i found true satisfaction after YEARS in Jesus Christ God and the Holy Spirit AMEN 🙏🏼
Bless you all and If youre weak sometimes its OK really BE weak for that time and rise again Afterwards in the Glory of God and you become stronger Like a muscle First it gets broken while Training then it heals and gets stronger. Habe a good day morning or night.
I want mommy, I want milk, I want to be held, I want to be comforted, and if you do not do all of those things… I will ruin your life!
Its never wrong to be that unless u r a narissist or a sociopath only these type of people will cringe from being loved and cared for
least insane vtuber watcher
Its true. We need help.
@@RavenOnATree help yourselves.
That's the key.
Then how most insane supposed to looks like?
@@Baba_babaA 😈
I miss fauna uuuuuuu
Always remember:
It’s okay to be down bad sometimes. If it helps you be in a better mood then by all means listen to these
JOKER
Hello Joker from Persona
alr, then lets gl
It doesn't help idk what to do
@@toongamer2810 you can always to other people (im sorry if that eounded bad)
To all my fellow comrades who watch theses roleplays : don't feel bad, ashamed or depressed about it.
You found a way to cope with life, and this is a solution among others.
Had a very bad time too a couple of months before (self crisis, doubts), but watching theses actually motivated me a lot. It always feel like you're being encouraged with theses GF/BF videos for example. As a result, I became the valedictorian of my entire promotion.
When I look back, I actually want to thank thoses youtubers for transferring such sensations to us viewers. It's like therapy in a way. (Just like sports, cooking, music, martial arts, art)
Enjoy, feel, be yourself. You're the only one who knows what your body and mind need to overcome life's challenges.
You're willing to say what people are afraid to/
Exactly. Those videos made me feel a bit less lonely, and made me feel like I was wanted and important.
@@Will_au not to mention that they are genuinely relaxing
You should be ashamed about it, it’s not a good thing relying on these things to be your only source of temporary happiness. Trust me, it’s been a long time
@@AudiRSAvant just because you’re ashamed that you used too like this stuff doesn’t mean the rest of us should be ashamed of ourselves for liking it. You also shouldn’t be ashamed of yourself for having liked it. It makes us happy and it’s not hurting anyone so there’s nothing to be ashamed of
All these roleplays, confessions, friends to lovers arks etc. Those who know, those who were browsing these videos at 3 AM and hugging their pillows, just to feel SOME kind of comfort.
Just know... That you're not alone and you are loved.
I've been feeling this loneliness since highschool but it is not that bad now. And sometimes be glad that you are free, appreciate those times when you're alone with yourself
I’m real sick of hearing the “you are loved” schtick though I do appreciate the kind gesture. Life isn’t about everything being easy and feeling good and loved all the time, it’s about getting through everything else and most importantly it’s about living your life according to you so don’t listen to what I just said
End it all
@@Endl3Sswastaken Roger
@@Endl3Sswastaken thanks taking your advice 🙏
@@Endl3Sswastaken yessirr
Its kind of depressing that i have to watch a person pretending to converse with me just to fall asleep or to feel a slight hint of calm.
I've hit rock bottom
Same
I can relate. I hate to admit it, but I’ve had a similar experience. Here’s to hoping we can improve our habits
Yeah no I fucking feel ya champ, the void’s been calling and the only thing to drown out these horrible feelings is random internet strangers telling me it’ll be okay and that they love me. It’s alright though, guess it happens to the best of us or something. But I don’t really know anymore, being honest.
Haven’t we all?
@@iahtsai I take small doses of heroin once a week and listen to the asmr in my bed to feel the embrace of my neko gf. You haven't hit rock bottom yet.
“I just want to be loved..”
The worst part is when the video is over and you feel empty as you hear no more of her cute voice(
Yeah, it’s just those few seconds of silence before the next one starts playing that hit so hard
I dont have auto play on when i go to sleep because i like choosing the next vid i watch... But when u listen to the whole audio in a dark empty bedroom and then it just ends and your sitting there staring at the ceiling with your thoughts, its so quiet you can hear the mice scurry thru the walls...
LOL WHAT
That’s so fucking real
For real dude, back when I listened to these for comfort, I just felt so empty inside when I woke up the next morning
When you watch all of these creators 💀
Bruh same
Found this video in my search I’m starting to realize what I’m doing wrong
Bruh
Nahhh
You down astronomical.
Why the f* people need to cringe about everything these days ? For some, it's a way of coping with things they are going through without having someone to talk to about. If you are listening to it and feel ashamed, remember that you're doing nothing wrong, you're just being human and like most of us you want to feel loved, encouraged and heard. Eventually one day you'll look back on this episode of your life and will know that it had to happen to get you where you are. Keep your heads high guys 💪🏼
Wonderful comment.
I watch Blade Runner on repeat.
And I watch Taki Driver on repeat
@@Killy_2049 Brazilian? 🤔
@@lucas10422 Você também?🤨
@@Killy_2049 sim kkkkk.
não imaginava encontrar um br por aqui
@@lucas10422 Estamos em todos lugares kkkkk
Legal que até os nossos perfis são parecidos. Você com um ghoul emo de mangá e eu com um vampiro emo de mangá 💀
As someone who recently developed an addiction to roleplay ASMR, I am completely fucking insane.
Good evening ladies and gentlemen. I'm proud to announce that ASMR makes me physically cringe so much that I cannot watch it anymore. The void has been replaced by popping zombie heads in Resident Evil 4.
Edit: I beat the game yesterday. I was grinning like an idiot the whole time. The game is phenomenal and Ashley is a perfect replacement for my schizo ASMR gf.
Edit: I just finished Cyberpunk Edgerunners and started playing the game again, so I'm back to being depressed but still hate ASMR
Edit: "As a dog returns to his vomit, so a fool repeats his folly" -Proverbs 26:11
Edit: Given the insane price of renting a 1-bedroom apartment, I shall not be attending therapy in the near future
Edit: I am utterly alone. I've also gone batshit insane.
As a fellow person who has recently developed an addiction as well, I can concur that I am insane as well.
Same but am over it new mission get tingles last time was 5 months ago
Bro, Ive been through this shit for 10 years 💀💀💀
@@pan_jam Well I've been insane for 10 years but it's never been this bad
@@0furet460 As someone who only started drinking last week (I am a 21-year-old good Christian boy) I can confirm being addicted to stuff is fun
I always tought that the people that listent to rp asmr we're just weirdos but now i can feel the pain, you only want to hear someone telling you that everything will be fine and that you're important to someone just to sleep in peace
Every time I listen to asmr, I always think of my girl best friend telling me those words, she never replies to my messages anymore.
@@WeakestValorantHatersheesh bro, hope that goes well for you
Bro is going thru it right now, he needs serious help
😐
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most of the comments here need help
No shit dude
I actually could never fall asleep to these because it turns out that cringe keeps me very awake. That last one is really calming, though.
Bro I was listening to the cringe ones for days cuz I had a deadline and the cringe literally kept me falling asleep
@@angelo08280 interesting 🤔
Damn…..
legalise nuclear bombs
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🧢cap🧢
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It’s honestly so self degrading. I hate that I have to rely on such things, but at the same time I feel like it’s the only thing I have to rely on. It’s a vicious cycle.
It's true,
We are so desperate to hear something positive, that this in itself becomes an addiction
Real shit
I just like the voice of someone talking to me while I try to sleep, If there was an Asmr about death threats, I'm in
You understand
You like the idea of being above whatever someone is telling you. So much so, to the point you literally fall unconscious.
Megabased
lowtiergod asmr
ruclips.net/video/WLpmpHzg9tw/видео.html
In this one she removes your eye balls and stomach (very cool)
@@amebee709 Wait I remember this one
I know them all...they are the only things making me feel ok and making my life bearable
*hug him* it's okay bro, don't worry everything will just fine, you can trust on my words
@@ThePikster *hugs you back and crys because I can't stand it anymore*
@@ThePikster I have tried to change for 3 years, that's the amount of time that passes since she "left me", we weren't togheter, but I loved her soo fucking much, she made me feel appreciated for the first time in my life, and in my eyes we were made for each other, it seems she didn't see it that way. 3 years to do nothing, to remain the shit I am, to remain nothing of value, to remain unloved. At least their voices let me feel what I could have but never will...
@@ThePikster thank you, thank you for caring for me, for trying to make me feel better, thank you so so much *hugs you even tighter*
@@alexvonrom7942 *they are hugging each other, on silence*
As a hermit, I experienced zero cringe, and zero shame.
When AI interaction is good enough then I'll be moving to that.
Based man losing his shame
Already lost mine a few years ago, working on ending cringe and regret
@@thepersonyouknow1714regret is a ghost that you can't beat, just when you feel you are good, it will hits you heavily. You can learn to sleep with it, but it will still haunt you
@@kkanra At least is it possible to kill cringe
With you brother
I'm happy with asmr, there's a shred of reality hidden deep within those who make it. Ai truly scares me, and for that I'm glad that I don't have the conversation skills to speak to one.
Help me
I looked it up as a joke.
Its basically an addiction to those empty compliments
Bro same… my nights don’t feel complete without them.
I remember when I was repulsed by the concept of ASMR only for me to realize how touch starved i was as well as the lack of intimacy I had. Eventually it grew to something I depended on to sleep. Of course I always knew these were just words from a video, something that would never be real. But it would be nice to actually have them be heard, to have those words carry some weight to them. I'm sure things will get better, but man. life can sometimes be very cruel, and we gotta scrounge up reasons to keep going yeah? Anything to dull the pain of existence.
Dude...that’s deep ong. I 100% agree with that and I’m sure a lot of other guys and girls would as well. (“We’re all gonna make it brah!” -zyzz)
I went from thinking it was extremely weird to listening to normal asmr videos because they were relaxing to becoming addicted to them and listening to it everyday.
Do you think its normal to have this at a young age ? Like when i say young i mean minor
@@-_--_-2335 nah man and im young and i *that's saying something*
@@-_--_-2335
Normal? Do any of this feels normal to you?
Look around!
Brainwashing chemicals in the form of food.
Propaganda in the form of media.
Psychological warfare in the form of advertisments.
Echochambers of issolation in the form of social nerworks.
We are living in the biggest slumber mankind has ever been.
You've gotta have to dig pretty deep kiddo, before you can hit something that is remotely normal.
I am really thankful to those asmr creators for helping me feel appreciated and loved when i need it most even if it's not really about me or towards me specifically
i could not imagine someone being in love with me irl
Same
Same :/
Same *sadness occurs*
S(h)ame
Same :(
If you're interested in listening (which I assume most of you don't) I recommend Afterglow Asmr, her calm voice and the wholesome scripts she picks up are really nice.
Tnhanks
No, if you watch this you are either a woman or a simp, he's not wrong with the banging asmr, asmr is not suposed to be sexy woman talking to you, this is just a pretex for b***h to use youtube and not be banned.
A man with taste
@Thawne1338 What? Dont get it..
@Thawne Not sure what the question is, and frankly I have no idea what viewer *or* creator stats look like, but you should bear in mind there are like... fifty-plus years of romance-novel audiobooks targeted at women. Hell, Audible used to have a special subscription that was *nothing* but unlimited access to their romance/harlequin/smut offerings. The *biggest* difference in the rise of this particular genre is the unfortunate parasocial elements and general ties to simp culture.
It's not like anyone is gonna read this but listening to these types of videos has made me reflect on myself.
1 year ago I used to talk down on myself, I would tell myself everyone hated me and that I should kill myself. On top of that, I had no ambition, I had no social life, and my grades were dropping. I pretty much hit rock bottom.
In a weird sense, listening to my first video where I had someone to comfort me was the warmest feeling I've felt, but it made me realize how shit of a person I was. It made me want to be a better person so I was deserving of being comforted.
I found a healthy and an amazing friend group that was supportive of each other, including me. Although I haven't told them I listen to these types of videos, I was able to let out my personal problems. Along with that, I tried eating better and started working out. Looking back, I should have been less cringe and pessimistic, but every now and then, I when I screw up badly or I start telling myself that I should kill myself, I come back to these videos so that I can be reminded that there is still love for me out there. That someone will always comfort me and love me, and I can comfort and be affectionate with them.
I'm still working on myself and I want to be more optimistic, as cheesy as that sounds. I hope that one day, I can be as intimate and comfort a potential SO out of their "rock bottom" just as these channels have done for me.
Idk I wanted to write this because this comment section is... let's just say something else.
Jokes on you I red it and I hope you feel better bud
No one really reads my comments so read others to make them feel less lonely
I read it all man, it's not cheesy, you got it dude.
@@MegaDalton-ml1vd You read my mind
Just keel plugging along dude! You got this!
Life is depressing man dont expose us like that lol
Lol fr
suck it up
I’ve been so lonely and been listening to these for so long that they don’t cure the pain inside me anymore now it’s just growing and growing until indie from it
Hey man, I wanted to stop by to tell you everything will be alright.
I know it might be hard, but you have everything you will need in your heart. All you need to do is take gradual steps. One by one.
I remember, probably eighteen months ago, I lost the relationship I cherished most. By falling in love with a woman I was friends with such that I could no longer ignore it, I pushed her away, never to be seen by me again. I was in a similar dark place for a long time. For an aching year, I felt horrible, irrational feelings. That my best days might have stayed behind in senior year of high school. That I had no friends and the only thing I had left were my grades, and my sudden struggle with it brought even that into question. While I'm not fully back to normal now, I'm far more capable of happiness and togetherness with those around me than I thought possible even eight months ago.
Growing back to the fullness of life is never an immediate change, and it's like climbing against a mudslide - you'll stumble a lot, and that's okay. So long as it doesn't completely stifle you out, it hasn't won. The mere fact that you're still here means it hasn't taken you, and victory is remains attainable.
I don't know you, but the undisputable fact is that every person has great potential inside of them, waiting to be released. You've got that same potential, and it'd be a horrible shame if the world never got to see the wonder of you.
All you need to do for now is take the first step. It might be counseling, it might be as little as calling your mom or dad. For me, it was trying to get back in touch with my Christian faith. And then the next step. But like I said, you only need to worry about the first for now.
You're way, WAY stronger than you know. I'm sure you'll get past this eventually, and you'll look back on this dark time as a distant memory.
Stay safe, man. I'll be praying for you.
Recently got a girlfriend and she’s filled the void but I’m still addicted to the role plays and I feel terrible everytime, about a week ago we were hanging out just cuddling and talking when she started patting my head and I’m still not sure why but I just let it all out my frustrations, my anger, all my pent up stress and sadness. She held me close as I cried and I told her about all my insecurities. She says “you don’t need those roleplay anymore I’m the real thing and I’ll give you all I can”. I’m never gonna leave her.
Bros the evil me, got a girlfriend and doesn’t watch asmr anymore
Happy for you bro, hope that works out for you
Jesus loves you ❤️.
@@Koichi-KunJesus loves you ❤️.
@@OatszszJesus loves you ❤️.
Damn, this hits in a special kind of way. When you really think about it, the pursuit and overall idea of love is in a dark era. And I am not referring to these videos but rather the reason for which they thrive. There is so little love in the world right now. That could be for a variety of reasons, ranging from incel behaviour, to porn addiction, to over-inflated expectations, and even to the global mental health crisis, and that wouldn’t even scratch the surface.
My advice is while these videos are good short term solutions, they are impermanent. I actually find that much of the community surrounding these videos can be good listeners(un ironically) so if you truly have no one else to talk to, try them or anyone else on the internet.
MANY of us are at a low point right now, some maybe slightly higher than others. Any sane person will do their best to understand.
As strange as it sounds, ASMR is what finally made me realize just how bad my depression was getting.
I worked tooth and nail and took “working on yourself before others” too seriously. I never made time for my social life and spent nearly all of the past 2 years at the gym and at my house. I have no friends, and nothing to bring me joy. Now I rely on an anime girl telling me she loves me to get through the night.
I hate my life because I ruined it.
Felt that though I also took mine a step further and hyper focused on my studies too and ended up cutting my family off too...I hope we'll get through it bro❤
I would like to help you get back on track but I too can't do it anymore, I feel like I'm going around in circles and never being able to manage to get out of my situation. It's fucking endless, every Whenever I think I have the slightest chance of getting out of there, I systematically come back to square one. I feel like something takes pleasure in playing with me. And while I'm exhausting myself going around in circles, time continues to pass. My city has been completely transformed in barely two years. Worse than bladerunner, worse than all the anticipation movies put together. And the npc's are slowly getting used to it, without anyone doing anything. I don't even know what to tell you guys anymore, I don't even know what to invent to motivate you. I don't know how it goes in your country , but for the doomers from home, I think it's the end, we're coming to the end of the end...
Isn't it great? "You're alone so work on yourself", you work on yourself and then you're still alone for it. All we ever get are cope answers from people who don't get us
not that hard buddy
@@pleasehelp1390 edginess hasn't been cool for 10 years now you can stop now
i love the fact that, they probably have no idea who you are or do you even exist, but we are getting a slight bit of happiness and comfort just by listening to them roleplaying as our lover or family or whatever sleep paralysis demon. They are helping us cope with our depression, loneliness and frustration temporary, i dont even know if i should be happy that i feel like im being loved and comforted or sad that nobody actually likes me and cares about me.
I know that im a degenerate, a low life, a useless human being with no possible values, but i dont care anymore. My heart aches everyday, im ashamed for being so damn stupid, im ashamed that i cant live to people's expectation. Im tired, of everything, i just want to let it all out while listening to these asmr roleplays.
This are the only one's giving me the motivation and energy to get out of bed everyday...
Mood
Im sorry to hear bro
sucks to be you I guess
The fact that I listened to more than half of those audios and have them saved in a playlist haunts me. The worst part is that it started with me clicking on one ironically. The clatter asmr does seem really nice though.
8 billion people and we still lonely💀
As someone who has been obsessed with ASMR roleplays for quite some time, I can confidently say that I have no idea what I'm doing with my life anymore. ASMR roleplays are kind of just an escape for me. Getting that special kind of love, attention and care I've always dreamed of has just given me so much joy and has made me smile more than ever, but at the same time it has also been giving me a depressing and lonely feeling. I'm honestly beginning to fear what my life is becoming. ASMR roleplays are my joy, happiness and comfort and I often listen to it for hours upon hours at a time. Mostly at night though, where I'm just peacefully playing some games like Genshin, Minecraft or Skyrim, a time when no-one can bother me with anything. Well, to close it off, ASMR roleplays have just become a part of my life and I doubt that will change anytime soon.
same I will play minecraft and have asmr roleplay in my airpods just playing it’s a lifestyle now when I remember I would listen to it once a week to go to sleep now I listen to it everywhere
Mf got a yandere whisper in its ears while fighting Seekers in Apocrypha 💀
It’s very addictive in the way that it can make you feel highs while listening to them, but when you’re alone and you’re not listening, it’s lonely and sad. This fake, one-sided relationship is not a connection at all. It can’t replace real people, so you’ve got to start building real relationships and friendships if you want to successfully break this addiction. I find myself relapsing every weekend because I don’t have any meaningful connections in my life. Try your best, Anon. I think it will be worth it
@@VainGroundHopper its true, these audios are literally drugs; we feel worse if we don't listen to them, this shit can never replace genuine connection
Oh my God, we are the same... I'll pull up an asmr video in the background as I finalize my Genshin dailies and resin before I go to bed.
Notice how there’s a progression to it. It starts with wholesome ASMR, the kind of stuff you listen to when you’re just that lonely or sad, then it goes to more female dominant, then to Yandere, and then straight up toxic abusive relationships. I appreciate that detail, but I also appreciate that there’s the undertone of sadness, to melancholy, to rage in the first two stages when we’re just looking for affection. It illustrates that at some level, we’re disappointed and angry at ourselves for having to get comfort like this, and how there isn’t a girlfriend or wife in our lives to be there when we finally can’t take it anymore. It then turns to hysteria and misery at the final stages. (I personally haven’t gone THAT deep, but I can imagine how miserable I’d be if I got so twisted in the head to feel comfort from abusive relationship ASMR. After all, we just want to feel loved. But unfortunately there’s no girl to love us in real life. So we turn to this even though we know it’ll never match up. It’s better than no comfort at least.
it's ovER bro
Well said
Bro that’s literally what happened to me.
incel vibes right here
@@cheefqueef6494 There’s two parts of being an Incel. That you’ve given up on finding a woman and that you resent women as well as men that get lots of female attention. I’m still debating whether I’ve given up yet or not. But my best friend is very popular with the girls but he’s still my honorary brother. I also don’t hate women, only the ones who have awful personalities.
The saddest thing is that the only reason we listen to these ASMR roleplays is because no one will say these these things to us in real life.
Sometimes I wish the world wasn't so cruel, but it is. And some of us need a little encouragement in an endless sea of rejection and repulsion. To some it's rock bottom, to others, it's a lifeline.
I hope this community never dies.
Sometimes in life all ya need is some oral and you can deal with shit for another year or two
The thing is. Even if you get a girlfriend, don't expect to be pampered like this. Women have their own problems and interest and most are not looking forward to comforting a guy after a hard day at work. At best they will let you pamper them and you'll get some cuddles from that. To be fair, many guys just turn over and fall asleep after they get off after sex. So it's kind of the same thing.
You can be in a relation ship and still feel lonely.
@@sadsongs7731 That's not news, we know they have problems lmao
@@sadsongs7731 yeah that's the whole problem. It pisses me off when people bully the people who listen to this audios saying dumb shit like "lol just get a real girlfriend". Throwing all that emotional baggage unto another person isn't fair. It would just be a toxic relationship. It really bothers me that some people think that a romantic relationship is somehow the cure for everything.
At the end of the day, I feel like we all have the wrong idea of what a relationship is supposed to be. You can't rely on one person for all your emotional needs, it's borderline inhumane. You can't expect the same person to be your sexual partner, your life partner, your therapist, your mommy, your best friend, your roommate, your financial partner, your confidant, your comforter, etc. And on top of all that you're supposed to enjoy being with that person 24/7 and you must enjoy everything they do and support them on everything. Throwing all these responsibilities and expectations unto one person is NOT okay.
@@sadsongs7731as such. Asmr can truly be likened to a drug, it gives a feeling that may not exist in reality and it's the only way to get it.
Personally I just listen to them because it's the only way that I can sleep quickly, otherwise I stay awake getting distracted.
The combination of the soft sounds and a script to follow makes me sleepy instantly!
For people that listen to these because they really feel like they need more love in their day, I hope that life gets better for you.
I was once in a dark place and after many fails I got out of that hole and now I'm better than ever, It's going to happen eventually to you too
I also just listen to it cuz I sleep comfortably 🤷♂️
I am unequivocally addicted to asmr rp. Temporarily helps me escape the void. Only thing I look forward doing everyday at this point I guess.
Real.
Living a life where other people seems have better life feels darker than the ocean
@@Itsunknown1-nj4gyrealest shit I’ve read today
Man i remember thinking people who listened to rp asmr was the weirdest people of all the earth and here i am understanding why they listened to it loneliness is a hell of a thing
This... is... literally... me 😐🥺😢😭
Edit: The fact that I listened to 2/4 of the RPs is disheartening
Me in the last one: 🎧🗿👍
I have, on purpose, detached myself from any woman relationship other than classmates or workpartners. I have not had any girlfriend since the day I was born. So yeah i used to listen to those asmrs and they were good to ease my heart at first, but I realized that... Those audios pained me cause I longed for what I did not have. Nowadays I look to get that love from my family, I spend time with my ma, and my brothers and my dad, I go for walks around the fancy parts of the City to look at cars and houses from rich people to remember what I am fightin for: my future. Also everytime I have the chance I go to different restaurants to try their dishes cause I love to discover new foods! So yeah I basically cope with family, walks and fancy food instead of getting a gf, like a bohemian mf. Also looking at erotic Art fills my need of getting laid cause.. Night emmisions. I started working out recently so I have improve my health!
keep on going man wish you luck, hope you also find that one girl, have a great day
You're finally sober from the matrix drug. I recommend you watch some Hamza for motivation in life.
This is amazing and wholesome. I'm happy you've come a long way. I pray that one day you are able to meet your significant other
Hope u keep improving brother!
There is a 300 ton corpse under my house(it's eyes have slowly started opening and it's heart is beating faster everyday)
I absolutely hate that I went from clowning on people who listen to this kinda stuff, to relying in stuff like "Chihiro Fujisaki comforts and reassures you Asmr" to motivate myself.
Sorry to hear that bro, but where's this "Chihiro Fujisaki comforts and reassures you" ASMR?
@@sharamper9134 i doubt it's that hard to search for it, you could probably find it by simply searching chihiro fujisaki asmr or something like that
Unite, Danganronpa enjoyers!
Fellow Dangan fan!
If it wasn't for these roleplays. Ong i'd be dead
Background song is “where is my mind”but its the piano version
I'm hooked on these. It might be sad and cringe to others but as a wise man once said: "it is what it is"
I get these asmr vids in person every time I go to my aunt’s house.
HUH
💀💀
😭😭 bro what
AYO?????
💀
For those wondering , the piano music is a version of the song "Where is my mind" by Safari Riot , it was used amazingly by Techland for their cinematic trailer for dying light 2.
I just really want distorted clattering sounds...
No one's more depressed than someone who listens to Asmr
True that 😔✊️
Dude if we didn't have asmr as a fall back vice we wouldn't be here right now.
that one dude who says hes fine being single at 1am
Right here, I even fake asexuality just so people leave me alone about my nonexistent love life.
@@rblxfan22 you don't need to fake it, you need to realise you have to be happy/content being single and fucking no one until your up, If your not fucking people that's your own fault man, but hey the good news is you obviously have areas in your life you can improve
@@rblxfan22 your not missing out on much either, hoes these days are just that...hoes...drama ensues
@@rblxfan22 I bet your like 15 anyway worried about this dumb shit haha I'm 24 bud
God I remember when I used to use normal asmr for sleep, never did I think a single video would capture exactly how've felt that last few years, that crushing feeling of loneliness, emptiness and depression and how I need something to get away from it, be it friends or anime asmr (god that sounds so cringe). It's been rough man, real rough.
The first half is true. Most of the viewers want someone to love but we are most likely to shy or not confident enough so we do this and get depressed
0:21 I don't watch amsr, or role plays, I'm not even depressed or down bad.
But this made me almost cry. I think it's the voice, if you don't look at it the weird way, it feels like some mature adult trying to calm you. It's nice.
The asmr community has only 4 types of people:
1. VERY bad down ones
2. The very depressed ones
3. People who just want to chill out/fall asleep
4. (Most based) people who listen to Clatter asmr
I’m a mix of the first 3
You know, the funny thing is, this applies to women as well.
Though the male audience is significantly bigger, for obvious reasons, it's not really gender specific.
One does not need to look far to prove it - Vox Akuma, Parker Mae, Noble Tales, just to name a few channels.
It's basically pron for feels, and there's nothing wrong with wanting to feel wanted, regardless of gender, orientation, body type or occupation.
This just you admitting that you are cringe
@Thawne bruh, your too young 🤣
@Thawne more lonely males obviously.
Males having the most zero emotional support. Forcing males to go for Online Pretend sessions for coping.
Shut up woman
@Thawne wdym? It's not even that? Do you have adhd?
It's literally what I said there is no deep meaning
Bro calling out one of my coping skills
The fact that im even searching for these videos is just sad. I have gone completely fucking insane.
Imagine listening to anime gf asmr when you can listen to "BIG BLACK MAN NAMED REQUESE BONQUEQUE INSPECTS, CLEANS AND TESTS GUNS (ASMR)"
Ngl this video/comment section has been kinda depressing to watch/read through so thanks for the genuinenely funny joke
Please tell me that's an actual ASMR.
*CAUSE I NEED IT.*
I prefer to listen to “asmr- I beat you until you’re unconscious (again)”
The "Where is My Mind?" piano really adds to the despair you feel when you start listening to this type of content.
I’ve been stuck at this low point in my life for so long it feels like surface level i’m too far gone the asmr rp has claimed me
At least you haven't sunken to the GWA realm just yet 🗿
@@Kyree6703 the he'll is the gwa realm
What's GWA?
GWA aka gonewildaudio aka nsfw asmr
@@bigdaddyxi5451gwa are just for the too far gone, down horrendous types. I know, I used to be one.
Sht real when you realize you listened to every single one of them .
Definitely at a low rn. But a light from the ashes shall spring. Renewed shall be blade that was broken. The crownless again shall be king
Thank you for that in the end. Really snapped me out of my trance and back to reality.
The best part is when you become indifferent to everything.
Started off with these. Now I've moved on to horror story asmr. Somehow it makes me calmer.
Finally someone else who does it to
What Channels do you listen to? Got me Interested.
I went down the same road, mostly listen to horror stories on really rough nights when anime girl asmr aint cuttin it
I listen to T6 Archives, just a bunch of 4chan /x/ stories
Oooo didn’t know those existed sign me up
This is a genuine way I cope with self hatred…
As a certified Patrick bateman, I can confirm that this is a banger
This is patrick batman sigma vibes fr on god no cap makes me feelbadman but poggers because it is pretty based and epic
@@outlawthesecond7597 lmaooo
I have never paid for any asmr rps, but what I can say is sometimes even if it's fantasy like a good book or a nice song it can get you the motivation you need to get through whatever it may be, sometimes just hearing a voice say hey you can do it can be all you need even if it's not real, it's about taking that little hint of human kindness and turning it into motivation! Keep it up kings and queens listen to that ASMR RP till it's real!
this my life right here.
listening to asmr roleplays and taking in all the feelings. comfort, love, sadness, etc.
and then theres CLATTER ASMR OHIO VERSION 24 HOURS STROBE LIGHTS SCREEN
When The Last guy roleplayed a Can, I felt Tan tan
as a man who watch these kind of asmr regularly, i confirm this is true
Fr we feel like shit but sometimes feels like a sigma for a moment from time to time
I love these ASMR. They comfort me and help me go to sleep. They are a double edged sword as they remind me how lonely I am.
The struggle
and then... one discovers nsfw roleplay nsfw. Its like a caveman discovering fire
Bruh this can't be more true☄️
I don't like nsfw that much tbh, I just want f2l cuddles and kisses.
“You look lonely… I can fix that”
Relatable AF. Listening to some of these, specially when you discover your "favourite ASMRtists" really fucks with your mind, is like having granted the fantasy you always wanted, but at the same time knowing it's all fake. There is no way that "having" it all to just lose it in 20 minutes is something harmless, but in the meantime feels really good.
*I would like to warn everyone tempted to listen those ASMR roleplays to not do that anymore if you tend to go deep in the roleplays, it's copium of the highest level and you will feel reality punching you in the face really hard when it ends, and for free.*
It's not these girls/boys guilt, sometimes they actually want to help people, but not everyone respond in the same way.
That moment when the day hits you that you've reached past beyond this point, accepted the void and never coming back from it
I know I’m very low when I’ve seen most of these exact videos
I'm legit coping hard with loneliness with these kind of videos, unironically. It hits even worse knowing none of these will actually happen to me no matter what I do.
We men all know it’ll almost never happen, so all we can do is just aspire and hope.
I gotcha brother. We're in the same boat.
Sometimes I fall asleep mid asmr and I have a really nice dream. Then I wake up. This is usually followed by staring at the ceiling for an hour in bed.
Side comment, this song is really nostalgic to me, one of my favorite teachers would play it during class, it's a piano version of Pixies - where is my mind by Maxence Cyrin
There’s a guy named puddles pity party, he’s a clown but he sings a great rendition of you like the original
Muito obrigado, eu tava reconhecendo mas não conseguia lembrar do nome
Idk if anyone will read this. I’ve been struggling with loneliness for idk how long now. Realizing that all relationships I’ve been in is just another format which I encounter. No one I find loves and and vice versa. I can’t even tell my parents or talk to someone abt it bc of the whole “you’ll find someone” when ik its not going to work out in that way. Asmr keeps me from focusing on that loneliness and empty space that I need to actually feel full, to feel enough, to feel like there isn’t something missing. I’ve been using asmr to try sleeping and some sort of comfort due to the fact it’s certain that I can’t find him/her. To now, I wish to be loved genuinely or at least find that missing part of me.
I hope you find love stay strong
stay strong bro and good luck
Once you get to this point of loneliness...there's no going back....
i'l show ya
Get some help my brother
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Bro saw my history 💀
I should thank all creators for helping me through bad days even if they dont realize that
ASMR is what makes me feels like there's a purpose of me living, despite I've lost everyone
honestly.. its just lonely. ive been treated like a dog by everyone so i dont even bother trying anymore
Bro respect your self don't accept what they say about you and ignore them
You should love yourself NOW!
@@oogabooga9293 my guy you need to watch andrew tate or Jordan peterson
to improve your live
@@coolgamer2135no i don't think i will watch them
The fact I’ve actually saved a few of those videos into my playlist concerns me
I was laughing at first, got depressed and then burst out laughing to that clatter asmr lmaoo
recently ive been listening to alot of these. and it's seriously concerning. but at the same time it's comforting yet sad.
Man im tired of pretending i don’t want to jump off the empire state building anymore
Been listening to these daily since 2015.
I have a job with amazing prospects, a degree in science, multiple groups of really close friends, incredible family I can always rely on, a car, a house, learning new hobby's, keeping fit. Yet there is just one thing missing and i don't think It will ever be filled...
It's gonna be filled alright... Check your closet...
Man have two sides
The qonquestor who fights for their life to achieve the best thing
The Normal human that just a human who needs real love and be their self with out putting any high standard
where is soulmate